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Resources:
Episode 194. Powerful Tips for Effectively Connecting with Your Angry or Distant Child [with Dr. Amy J.L. Baker]Book by Amy J.L. Baker: and Paul R. Fine Parenting Under Fire
Article by Amy J.L. Baker: Five Things to Never Say to an Alienated Child
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Children of divorce who are hurt, angry, rejecting, and distant (HARD) are challenging to parent. They can be rude, uncooperative, and disagreeable. It's difficult to relate to or connect with them, and they can appear hardened against the love and guidance you want to provide.
When conflict between two homes intensifies, children often become entangled in loyalty conflicts or sometimes victims of parental alienation. Whatever the reason might be, parents need help!
If it feels like you've been parenting "under fire" and you're struggling to understand the dynamics your child might be experiencing, and you're trying to figure out how to best communicate and connect with them, you won't want to miss this interview.
Our special guest Amy J.L. Baker, Ph.D., shares her experience working with parents of HARD children as they navigate the minefields of confusion, pain and frustration. Amy offers effective strategies to enhance attachment with your child and manage your difficult dynamics â including how to respond to false accusations.
If you're trying to parent a "HARD" child we want you to know there's hope and you can start making progress by listening in for practical tips on safeguarding your relationship through appropriate communication, self-awareness, and empowerment.
You'll Discover:
Effective ways to connect and communicate with a child who is hurt, angry, rejecting, or distantHow to respond to false accusations and avoid reinforcing negative beliefs that the other parent is influencingPractical steps to enhancing attachment with your child by focusing on safety, love, and availabilityWarning signs to look for in your kids (and your Ex) that could possibly lead to Parental AlienationResources from this Episode:
CLICK HERE to connect with Amy J.L. Baker, Ph.D. Book by Amy J.L. Baker and Paul R. Fine: Parenting Under Fire - How to Communicate with Your Hurt, Angry, Rejecting, Distant ChildArticle by Amy Baker: Five Things to Never Say to an Alienated ChildArticle by Dr. Bob Evans: 17 Primary Alienation StrategiesEpisode 42. Our Challenging Story of Parental Alienation - and 6 Tips for YouReady for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
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Resources:
Episode 193. The Advantage of Learning The Basics BEFORE You Blend
CLICK HERE to receive a curated podcast list to help you learn the Basics of Blending
Episode 109. Preparing to Blend: The Couples Guide to Becoming a Smart Stepfamily [with Ron Deal]
Book by Ron Deal: Preparing to Blend: The Couple's Guide to Becoming a Smart Stepfamily
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Most of us start off on the blending journey with some ambiguity about how to deal with the complex dynamics that will come as families merge.
It usually doesn't take long before you're blindsided by the reality that there's SO MUCH MORE to blending than first anticipated. Feelings of overwhelm, frustration, and disappointment might hit and you realize you're not as prepared as you thought.
If you're seriously dating, contemplating marriage, engaged, newly married or getting ready to merge and move everyone under one roof â or if you've been on your blended journey for a while and you just need to get back to the basicsâŠ
âŠthis episode is for you!
Discover in ADVANCE what you can do to prepare for your blend and avoid the common "easy wrong turns" that often create confusion, resentment, tension, conflict, and disconnection in blended families.
Hop into this episode to learn best practices, helpful strategies, and understand the basics of blending so that you can set your family up for the best possible experience!
You'll Discover:
The advantage of preparing in ADVANCE for blended family lifeBasics for blending that build a healthy foundation so that everyone in your home can experience the best possible outcomes How to avoid the 'easy wrong turns' that lead to confusion, resentment, relational tension, painful conflict, and disconnection for blended familiesResources from this Episode:
CLICK HERE to receive a curated list of episodes that take a deeper dive into today's A.D.V.A.N.C.E. topicsBook: Crucial Conversations - Tools for Talking When Stakes are HighJoin our Blending Together CommunityReady for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
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Resources:
Episode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get United
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What's one of THE most challenging "feats" for blended couples to successfully master?
Building a healthy, collaborative parenting partnership!
What makes this so difficult?
The sensitive topic of parenting can naturally kick off an emotionally-charged conversation, ending in disagreement, conflict, and disconnection.
If you're anything like us, you've probably experienced painful, unproductive interactions around parenting that left you at riskâŠ
âŠat risk of shutting down or shutting each other out
âŠat risk of reacting poorly in those moments that matter most
âŠat risk of ongoing distrust
âŠat risk of experiencing double standards, hurt feelings, ongoing tension, resentment, and relational strain in your home.
Here's the good news: you CAN minimize these risks by practicing new ways to communicate that build your parenting partnership!
In this episode, we'll share how we've learned to master the "feat" of building a parenting partnership by engaging in sensitive parenting conversations that built trust and healthy collaboration in our relationship. Ultimately, all of this will lead to better outcomes for kids â and for you!
You'll Discover:
A simple 4-part process to initiating sensitive conversations and address concerns about your partner's child How to reduce conflict and break free from unproductive, ineffective communication patterns around parenting Practical steps for building a healthy, collaborative parenting partnershipResources from this Episode:
Episode 187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress Book: Crucial Conversations - Tools for Talking When Stakes Are HighReady for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
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Resources
Episode 191. Achieve Financial Harmony: Expert Guidance for Blending Your Finances [with special guests Ron Deal & Greg Pettys]Book by Ron Deal, Greg Pettys & David Edwards: The Smart Stepfamily's Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a FamilyClick here to connect with Greg Pettys for a FREE consult regarding basic estate planning (wills, trusts, power of attorney, and guardianship)Suggest a Topic or Ask a Question
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Money is emotional.
That's why it can be a touchy subject for couples â whether they're preparing to blend or if they've been blending for a while. Discussing finances can lead to very real challenges.
The process of "merging money" can easily become complicated and overwhelming for blended family couples. The complexities tap into deeper emotions tied to things like fear, trust, loyalty, security, and stability.
But "complex" and "impossible" are two different things. The emotional nature of money doesn't have to keep couples stuck. It is possible to create transparency, understanding, and alignment around your finances â for today and for the future.
And the great part is, alignment around finances often creates greater levels of trust and intimacy in your relationship.
So if your goal is to love, care, and provide for everyone in your family, but you just aren't sure how to effectively merge your finances â this episode is for you!
We're so grateful to have Ron Deal and Greg Pettys on the show to share expert advice and practical steps for discussing and managing your financial expectations and future plansâŠ
âŠthis episode is a MUST for every blended couple.
You'll Discover:
How to move beyond fear and ambiguity to create transparency, understanding, and alignment around moneyThe difference between a Prenuptial Agreement (which is a contingency plan that assumes failure) and a Togetherness Agreement (which is a proactive plan that assumes success)How to build emotional and financial security and safety while making decisions around money â even when there's doubt and distrustHow to honor and provide for your children's future, while offering care and concern for your spouse and stepchildren's financial future as wellResources from this Episode:
Book by Ron Deal, Greg Pettys & David Edwards: The Smart Stepfamily's Guide to Financial Planning: Money Management Before and After You Blend a FamilyClick here to connect with Greg Pettys for a FREE consult regarding basic estate planning (wills, trusts, power of attorney, and guardianship) Click here for a list of Smart Stepfamily Providers for help with 'under the surface' issues.Ready for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
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Resources:
Episode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (Stranded Stranger / Trapped Teammate Dynamic)
Episode 5. How to Get Over the Hurts and Triggers From Your Past
Dr. Patricia L. Papernow - Stepfamily Relationships
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I (Mike) have had so many moments of just feeling stuck. I wondered how we would ever move forward and I figured out pretty early on that I wouldn't be able to sort out all the complex chaos without some support.
The problem was, I had no idea what kind of support we needed.
And when we were stuck in unhealthy patterns that kept leading to disconnection and pain, it was challenging to sort out how to move forward.
That's a frustrating place to be. It can sometimes feel confusing or even hopeless.
In this episode, we'll share some painful moments where we felt stuck and how we discovered the difference between engaging in counseling and coaching and the benefits of each at different seasons of our journey.
The great news is there wasn't anything "wrong" with us that we couldn't work through with a little help!
If you're feeling stuck in the complex realities of blending, you aren't alone and you don't have to stay stuck either. Listen in to discover the best approach for getting the help you need today!
You'll Discover:
Distinct benefits and differences between counseling and coaching How Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACE's) from the past might be impacting your present realityHow to get unstuck and move toward positive growthPersonal questions to help determine the best support for youResources from this Episode:
Article from Cleveland Clinic: Adverse Child Experiences (ACEs)Counselors & Coaches with Stepfamily Training Episode 165. How important is your mindset when it comes to blended family life?Ready for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
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It's hard to accept that grief is simply a part of every blended family's journey. But that's your reality because everyone in your family has experienced some kind of loss along the way.
If you aren't able to acknowledge grief and create a safe space to process through it, you'll miss out on valuable opportunities that lead to healing.
In this episode, you'll discover a few truths about grief that you probably haven't considered before â plus the positive impact of allowing yourself and your kids to embrace your unique grief journey.
Our special guest, Krista St-Germain, shares her personal experience of unexpected loss and critical realities that she's discovered about grief.
Krista's traumatic circumstances eventually led her on a journey of hope and healing. As a life coach, she now devotes herself to equipping others with powerful tools to manage grief and love life again â and to help their kids do the same.
Understanding the impact of loss and grief and creating opportunities to heal together is essential for blended families. That's why we're excited to welcome Krista to the show!
You'll Discover:
How to normalize what's normal about loss and grief The reality of grief being a natural human response to a perceived lossHow to help your kids acknowledge and process griefWhat is trauma and post-traumatic growthResources from this Episode:
Click this link to Connect with Krista St-GermainEpisode 168. Actionable Steps for Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem Solve Episode 132. How Does Loss and Grief Impact Blended Family Integration?Ready for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
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Resources:
Episode 20. 4 Big Myths About Parenting When an Ex Has Different Rules
Episode 187. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 1)
Episode 188. Basics for Blending: How to Tolerate and Manage Discomfort and Distress (Part 2)
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Discomfort and distress are common experiences for those of us navigating blended dynamics.
One key to learning to manage discomfort and distress well is practicing some simple strategies that acknowledge what you're actually experiencing and then choosing clear, healthy responses.
Now, we know what you're probably thinkingâŠ
âŠ"I've done everything possible to cope with my discomfort and distress, but when it comes to this specific person or certain challenging circumstance, I just get so frustrated, hurt, or angry!"
We've both felt that way along our journey as well.
That's why we're continuing our discussion in this 2 part series. In this episode, we're offering practical ways to withstand 'Opposing Obstacles' â those people or circumstances that leave you feeling powerless, overwhelmed, hopeless, or defeated.
We'll share some challenges we experienced with our biggest Opposing Obstacle and effective ways to approach difficult interactions and painful situations â which can ultimately help you tolerate and manage your discomfort and distress too!
You'll Discover:
The value of 'Radical Self-Care' (it's not what you might think)How to guard yourself from other people's bad moods - and not allow their problems to become yoursPractical ways to withstand 'Opposing Obstacles' and respond well to criticism, rejection, and hostilityHow to hold onto your power in challenging situations - and experience more joyResources from this Episode:
Click here for episodes that focus on impactful strategies and best practices with Co-ParentingTo learn more about our RelateStrong Program, click and schedule your FREE coaching callReady for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
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What if every moment of blended family life felt fun, connected, and peaceful?
It's pretty hard to imagine. We all know the struggles and challenges that barrage us each day. It might seem like there's way more discomfort and distress than there is fun and connection.
We've navigated countless seasons of discomfort over the past couple of decades and struggled through intense moments of distress as well. One thing we've discovered is that these difficult experiences don't have to rob us of the peace and satisfaction we really want.
Discomfort and distress are simply part of the journey â and they're hard to cope with. But even in the midst of these moments, we each have the power to choose how we will respond.
In this episode, you'll discover a few mindsets and approaches to dealing with discomfort and distress so that you can be free to enjoy the good moments with more confidence and peace.
You'll Discover:
Why it's critical in blended dynamics to tolerate and manage discomfort and distress How to move away from avoidance and unhealthy reactions that perpetuate underlying issues A practical approach to reduce your discomfort and distressResources from this Episode:
Take the Blended Family Breakthrough QUIZCheck out the Blending Together CommunityEpisode 107. 3 Disheartening Realities That No Couple Wants To Go Through - But We All Have ToEpisode 184. The Heart of Motherhood: Navigating Messy Moments with Empathy and LoveEpisode 168. Actionable Steps for Helping Kids Navigate Through Difficult Emotions and Problem SolveEpisode 172. 2 Key Elements to Resolve Your Parenting Style Differences - And Get UnitedEpisode 59. Why are you stuck in a parent-child allegiance? (Part 1)Ready for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
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Hey Stepdads â ever wonder if you're "winning or losing" in your role at home?
Most stepdads I meet genuinely want to build trust with their stepkids and influence them toward success in life. But sometimes it feels like there's a bit too much chaos in the home â or you're not quite on the same page with your wife.
The typical challenges of blending families often feel like they get in the way of you making the impact you really want to make.
I get that feeling, and so does Gil Stuart, our guest for this episode. Gil is a dad and stepdad who has experienced the ups and downs of blending 7 kids along with his wife, Brenda. Gil is a counselor, author, speaker, and down-to-earth guy.
If you want to discover new ways to build trust and influence in your home, this episode is for you.
You'll Discover:
A healthy mindset around commitment, influence, trustability, and connectionHow to create emotional safety and avoid relational damageUnderstanding the 'Rock-and-A-Hard-Place' dilemma - and navigating it wellThe importance of unity and flexibilityPractical tips for loving well in challenging situationsResources from this Episode:
Click here to connect with GilFor more information on Unsung HeroesReady for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
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Ready for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call
Subscribe or Follow the Show
Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.
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Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts
If youâre feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast â plus theyâre fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select âRatings and Reviewsâ and then select âWrite a Reviewâ â let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
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Have the challenges of blending a family ever left you feeling alone?
Maybe you've felt like you're the only one experiencing the unique realities of blended family life.
Maybe you're struggling with parenting complexities and your friends just don't get it. Or communication is tense in your couple relationship and your extended family can't seem to understand why.
Maybe the kids are acting out or shutting down and it's hard to explain to everyone around you. Or maybe there's ongoing chaos stirred up by a difficult Ex and everyone's "advice" doesn't seem to be helpful.The truth is, regardless of the challenges you're facing â you are NOT alone!
In this episode, we're connecting with a couple from our blended family support community. Chris and Nicole are one of our founding members who felt "isolated" and "horrible" before getting connected to our community.
Listen in to discover how a community of other blended couples can empower you to make a difference in your home â just like Chris and Nicole who didn't stay stuck in their pain and confusion.
if you've ever felt alone in your blending journey, this is the episode for you. And who knows, you might discover that a community focused on growth, practical tools, and genuine support could be exactly what you're looking for.
Resources from this Episode:
JOIN the Blending Together Community 166. Empowering Benefits of A Blended Family Community â and How to Get Plugged InEpisode 139. The Most Common, Challenging Pain Point Every Blended Couple Experiences (Trapped Teammate & Stranded Stranger Dynamic)Ready for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence, and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://calendly.com/mikeandkimcoaching/freesession
Subscribe or Follow the Show
Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.
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Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts
If youâre feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast â plus theyâre fun for us to read too! :-) Just click here to review, select âRatings and Reviewsâ and then select âWrite a Reviewâ â let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
Are you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether
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Resources
Check out our Blending Together CommunityEpisode 157. 3 Seasoned Stepmoms Share How They've Survived & Thrived in Their Blended Family JourneySuggest a Topic or Ask a Question
Would you like us to discuss something specific or answer your question on the show? Let us know!
We've made it easy. Just click here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/share
Ready for some extra support?
We all need some extra support along the blending journey â we're here to help. You can connect with us for a free coaching call to see how we might help you experience more clarity, confidence and connection in your home. Schedule your free call here: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/free-call
Subscribe or Follow the Show
Are you subscribed or following the podcast yet? If not, we want to encourage you do that today so you don't miss a single episode.
Click here to subscribe in Apple Podcasts
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Leave a Review in Apple Podcasts
If youâre feeling extra helpful, we would be so grateful if you left us a review over on Apple Podcasts too. Your review will help others find our podcast â plus theyâre fun for us read too! :-) Just click here to Review, select âRatings and Reviewsâ and then select âWrite a Reviewâ â let us know what your favorite part of the podcast is. Thank you, we really appreciate your feedback!
Are you ready to join the Blending Together Community? Click this link: https://www.blendedfamilybreakthrough.com/blendingtogether
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