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Feeling alone while being married is a special kind of heartbreak that too many parents experience. We dive deep into a raw, emotional question from a woman who's been married less than two years but already feels like she's drowning as a single parent despite having a husband at home.
The conversation takes an honest turn as we explore the warning signs that were present from the beginning - a pattern of uninvolvement that extended from his first child to their now shared children. Through both tough love and compassionate understanding, we unpack why some partnerships devolve into one-sided caregiving arrangements and what options remain when communication repeatedly fails.
This episode delivers crucial advice for anyone considering parenthood with a partner: observe their current parenting style carefully before proceeding. The reality is stark - people rarely transform their fundamental approaches to family responsibility after marriage or having more children. We also tackle the intense demands of stay-at-home parenting without the structure or breaks that traditional employment provides, while emphasizing the critical importance of financial independence for every parent, regardless of marital status.
Perhaps most powerfully, we examine the red flag that too many people overlook when dating someone with young children from a previous relationship. When a person has chosen the challenging path of single parenthood over staying in a relationship, there's almost always a significant reason - one that new partners should thoroughly understand before committing. Your most consequential life decisions will always be your career choice and who you have children with - choose wisely.
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How do you know when someone's emotional baggage is too heavy to carry? In this raw and honest fishbowl episode, I tackle a listener question about dating a detective who's seen the darkest sides of humanity and struggles with severe self-esteem issues. After reading her story about a man who isolates himself, has been repeatedly cheated on, and whose mother is already calling her to "cheer him up," I break down why this relationship dynamic is fundamentally unbalanced.
The most revealing moment comes when I discuss what I call the "Bob the Builder Syndrome" - that dangerous tendency to believe we can fix damaged partners through patience and love. I explain why relationships should start from a position of mutual emotional stability rather than one person constantly working to elevate the other. "Why do you want to start at the bottom of the ladder and slowly be patient and work your way up?" becomes the central question that every listener should consider in their own dating lives.
What makes this discussion particularly valuable is the clear-eyed assessment of where to invest your emotional energy. While there's compassion for the detective's trauma, I emphasize that professionals exist to help with those issues - not potential romantic partners. Whether you're currently in a relationship with someone who needs "fixing" or you're afraid you might be repeating patterns of choosing damaged partners, this episode provides the tough love reminder that you deserve to start on equal footing with someone who brings their whole, healthy self to the table.
Have you ever found yourself trying to "fix" someone you're dating? Take a moment to reflect on where that impulse comes from and whether it's serving your happiness in the long run. Share your thoughts or experiences, and remember to subscribe for more unfiltered dating advice that cuts through the nonsense.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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Are you stuck in a toxic relationship? In this episode, we address powerful stories from listeners, discussing the struggles of emotional abuse and dependency. It’s a relatable topic that many face. We dive deep into how financial independence and supportive networks are essential for anyone feeling trapped in a negative relationship cycle.
Listen as we review real questions from our fishbowl segment, sparking a rich discussion about reclaiming one’s freedom. We outline practical advice on how to establish financial security and create support systems—emphasizing that it’s crucial for every woman to have a safety net in case life takes an unexpected turn.
In the second half of our show, we explore resources relevant to anyone needing to break away from a harmful situation. We stand firmly on the belief that everyone deserves to feel safe and valued; thus seeking help and guidance can be your first step into a brighter future.
Whether you're seeking advice or simply curious, tune in and explore the steps for empowerment and support. Join our community and embark on your journey toward healing and happiness. Remember, your voice matters. Don’t hesitate to reach out if you need help. Subscribe, share, and leave us a review to help spread awareness!Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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In a world where dating norms are evolving at a rapid pace, our recent episode of Dating Daycare took to TikTok to explore the burning question: Who pays for a date? We dived into live discussions where your input shaped the conversation, unpacking the emotional stakes behind financial responsibilities in dating. With a mix of humor, honesty, and real-life anecdotes, we navigated the complexities of traditional dating expectations versus modern norms, helping listeners navigate this jungle of jerks.
During our live session, we confronted challenging perspectives about gender roles, exploring how shifts in society—from the feminist movement to women's financial independence—have rewritten the rules of romance. We tackled the uncomfortable yet important topic of how these changes might impact the dating experience, and addressed some of the common pitfalls aspiring daters encounter when venturing into this space.
Listeners also raised relevant inquiries about the nature of spontaneity in dates and how these varying definitions affect overall connection. Throughout the discussion, energetic exchanges and laughter encouraged a deeper understanding of shared expectations—making it clear that there is no one-size-fits-all answer.
Join us next week for more fun and insightful interactions about dating in today's world, and don't hesitate to share your thoughts with us. Ready to dive into the realities of modern dating? Subscribe now and be a part of our community as we explore the intricate rules of romance together!Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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What happens when trust starts to wane in a marriage seemingly bound by love and family? We're tackling this tough issue head-on as we explore a listener's story about dealing with a secretive spouse amidst the joys and pressures of expecting their fourth child. With a focus on trust, communication, and the emotional complexities of family life, we'll discuss why setting personal boundaries is crucial now more than ever. This episode also touches on the financial realities of expanding a family and why it's vital to support the children you bring into this world, both emotionally and financially. Join us as we unpack the layers of maintaining self-esteem and openness in relationships that are supposed to be built on transparency.
Ever felt judged for your fashion choices? You're not alone. Our next tale revolves around a listener who finds herself mocked by her partner for wearing an orange pumpkin sweater. We dive into why such criticism might be more about the critic's insecurities than the outfit itself and why staying true to oneself is non-negotiable. Everyone deserves a partner who cherishes them, quirks and all, and if your significant other continually puts you down, it might be time to reassess if they truly embrace you for who you are. With a mix of empathy and practical advice, we aim to guide you on how to handle undue negativity while celebrating your unique sense of style.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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Ever been caught in a web of emotions that feels impossible to escape? Licensed marriage and family therapist Sadia Younis joins us to unravel the intricacies of trauma bonds, those difficult ties that bind individuals to their abusers. We explore the psychological loops of abuse, apologies, and love bombing, all while examining why some of us are magnetically drawn to emotionally unavailable partners. Sadia helps us identify the roots of these patterns, often buried in our past, and offers insights into recognizing and breaking free from these toxic cycles.
In a world filled with relationships haunted by unresolved issues, recognizing red flags is crucial. We tackle the complexities of engaging with partners who carry baggage from their past and the importance of asking the right, revealing questions. The conversation deepens as we emphasize the necessity of self-worth and intuition, encouraging listeners to embrace solitude over toxicity. When genuine affection is hard to distinguish from manipulative love-bombing, knowing your value becomes your strongest shield.
Healing from narcissistic relationships requires a strategic approach, and finding the right therapeutic support is vital. Saadia introduces us to EMDR therapy, a transformative method for trauma healing that processes memories in a unique way. Discover how to choose the right therapist, assess their qualifications, and navigate available resources to support your journey. With Sadia's guidance, this episode offers a powerful toolkit for those seeking liberation and healthier connections.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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Unlock the secrets to healthier, more fulfilling relationships as we explore the depths of attachment theory with renowned trauma therapist Saadia Yunus. Discover how your early interactions with caregivers have shaped your attachment style and how this impacts your romantic connections today. We'll also delve into the nature versus nurture debate, examining how parental presence—or the lack thereof—can influence your relational dynamics.
Join us as we navigate the murky waters of relationship red flags and identity erosion. Learn how to maintain a secure sense of self despite external criticisms and the touch of insecurities from partners. We'll share practical tips on recognizing when you're losing yourself in a relationship and the crucial role of supportive friends and family in rebuilding your self-esteem. Sadia and I also highlight the impact of different attachment styles on your romantic life, setting the foundation for self-awareness and personal growth.
We'll wrap up with a crucial discussion on setting healthy boundaries and the importance of internal validation. From identifying toxic patterns to the challenges of societal expectations, we've got you covered. Gain insights into the significance of secure attachment and how it can nurture stronger, more balanced relationships. We'll hint at future explorations into topics like trauma bonds and navigating relationships with narcissistic individuals, ensuring you leave with the tools you need to reclaim your personal power in love.Learn more about Saadia Yunus: https://www.saadiazyunus.com/
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What happens when your ex suddenly decides to rewrite the Christmas playbook without consulting you? It’s a holiday tale you won’t soon forget, filled with unilateral decisions and a dash of chaos. Join us as we recount an unexpected twist in co-parenting that left us scrambling to keep the holiday spirit alive for the kids. Our host opens up about the jaw-dropping moment she discovered her children’s father had opted out of their traditional holiday routine, leaving her to pick up the pieces in a pinch. With each revelation, the story resonates with anyone who’s ever faced similar challenges in the realm of co-parenting.
This episode of Dating Daycare promises a candid exploration of the emotional rollercoaster that comes with managing an uncooperative ex. From the scramble to maintain long-standing holiday traditions to the stress of solo gift shopping, our host shares not only the frustrations but also the comedic moments that arise when dealing with a dad who's all about shifting responsibilities. Whether you're in the trenches of a complicated co-parenting situation or just love a good story filled with humor and heart, this episode delivers both insight and entertainment. Grab your drink of choice and get ready to chuckle at the chaos.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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How soon is too soon to go exclusive? This fishbowl episode of Dating Daycare throws you into the heart of a dating conundrum that is as relatable as it is eye-opening. Melissa and Allison dissect a listener's tangled relationship, where a month-long romance is already brimming with boundary-crossing behavior, including kisses with past flings and hangouts with former crushes. If you've ever wondered when it's the right time to put a label on a relationship or how to ensure your boundaries are respected, this episode promises to make you rethink your dating strategies and safeguard your heart from unnecessary drama.
Join us as we serve up candid advice on maintaining your self-worth and sanity amidst the chaos of new relationships. We'll highlight the importance of setting clear boundaries from the get-go, ensuring your expectations and values align before exclusivity comes into play. Our discussion is packed with real-talk wisdom on how to protect yourself from heartbreak and avoid the pitfalls of rushing into commitment without truly knowing your partner. Get ready for a humorous yet insightful exploration of the early dating stage, and discover how to steer your love life in a healthier direction.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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What if the person showering you with love and future promises suddenly disappears? Join us as we uncover the unsettling experience of love bombing through an anonymous listener's tale. We'll guide you through identifying the red flags in early-stage relationships, like excessive contact and premature future talk, to help you maintain your independence and a healthy pace. Learn why it's crucial to take your time truly understanding someone through shared experiences, both joyous and challenging, before getting swept away by grand declarations.
In a world where personal safety often feels compromised, we highlight the importance of setting communication boundaries and prioritizing safety when navigating new relationships. Discover why meeting new dates in public places and refraining from sharing too much too soon can protect your well-being. We'll also revisit the concept of love bombing, where initial perfection might be a facade, and emphasize the value of realistic expectations and measured communication. Tune in for practical advice on fostering authentic and sustainable connections without losing yourself in the process.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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What happens when a successful New Yorker navigates the whirlwind of online dating and triumphs in the jungle of jerks? Meet Courtney, our lively guest, who has cracked the code to finding love through platforms like Match, Bumble, Hinge, and even the exclusive Raya. With humor and wisdom, Courtney recounts her journey from the early days of Tinder to a meaningful relationship, proving that amidst the chaos, success stories are very much possible. Tune in to hear her insights and strategies that bring hope to those feeling lost in the world of dating apps.
Join us as we explore the unique challenges faced by singles in big cities, where the abundance of options can make real connections feel elusive. We have an honest conversation about the decline in social skills as dating apps take center stage, and we address the frustrations of endless messaging that never leads to face-to-face meetings. With Courtney's anecdotes, we highlight the importance of being proactive and setting realistic expectations, while also having fun along the way. We also dive into mastering the online dating game, focusing on recognizing red flags and understanding personal intentions to ensure you're on the right path to love.
Whether you're a divorced mom or someone who simply hasn't found the right partner yet, we've got practical advice to keep you grounded and true to yourself. We discuss the importance of understanding non-negotiables and the courage needed to walk away from relationships that don't meet your core values. Our episode is filled with laughs, revelations, and encouragement, urging listeners to embrace their dating journey with an open mind, a sense of humor, and a firm commitment to finding meaningful connections.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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Imagine being caught in the whirlwind of attraction and infidelity, navigating the complexities of secret affairs in the bustling cityscape. Join us as Jack, our first male guest, bravely opens up about his journey through these tumultuous experiences. He shares the initial sparks that led him away from his marriage, the thrilling yet challenging logistics of maintaining a hidden relationship, and the emotional rollercoaster of choosing between two loves. Jack's story offers a raw, unfiltered look at the dilemmas that arise when personal desires clash with societal expectations and commitments.
In this episode, we unravel the intricacies of long-term relationships and the often-painful dissolution that follows infidelity. Jack reflects on his twenty-year marriage, the transformation from partners to mere roommates, and the impact of children on intimacy. We discuss the shocking moments of separation, the role of personal accountability, and the emotional journey that comes with accepting such significant life changes. Through Jack's candid reflections, we explore the necessity of attentiveness and shared interests to avoid drifting apart, offering insights into the challenges of maintaining connection amidst life's demands.
Rediscovering joy after a major breakup is a journey filled with unexpected turns. Jack shares his experiences re-entering the dating scene, navigating modern dating apps, and the excitement of forming new connections. We ponder the differing paces at which men and women move on after divorce and the joy of finding partners who bring a sense of adventure back into life. This conversation is a testament to the resilience and personal growth that can arise from the ashes of a broken relationship, as Jack considers the possibilities of love and happiness in the future. Join us for a thoughtful exploration of relationships, self-discovery, and opening new chapters in life.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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This podcast dives deep into the complexities of recognizing disease disguised as love in relationships. Jennifer Capezza from Long Island Against Domestic Violence provides insights into the different forms of abuse and the critical resources available for those in need of support, underscoring the importance of understanding one’s rights and options.
• Introduction of Jennifer Capezza and her organization
• Overview of available resources for domestic violence survivors
• Historical context of domestic violence support on Long Island
• Understanding various forms of abuse beyond physical violence
• The emotional significance of including pets in the support plan
• Discussing recognizing the signs of a healthy vs. an abusive relationship
• Importance of having open dialogues around domestic violence
• Overview of red flags individuals should be aware of
• Importance of seeking help and knowing one’s worth
• Encouragement to reach out, even anonymously, for support
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Ever wonder if that old flame has really turned over a new leaf, or are they just the same person wrapped in a shiny holiday bow? Join us in this festive episode of Dating Daycare, where we explore the age-old question of whether people truly change and share some hilarious and heartfelt stories of holiday dating fiascos. Melissa and I get candid about our own encounters with past flames and the surprising (or not-so-surprising) outcomes. Grab your favorite holiday treat as we navigate the highs and lows of modern relationships, armed with laughter and a bit of holiday cheer.
As the holiday spirit fills the air, Melissa recounts her attempt at rekindling a romance with her children's father, only to find that some things remain unwrapped. Meanwhile, I admit to my own dating blunders, offering a cautionary tale of reconnecting with old flames. Through our tales of love, laughter, and lessons learned, we shed light on the importance of letting go of unrealistic expectations and embracing the joy of the season. Whether you’re sipping cocoa by the fire or swiping through dating apps, this episode is packed with insights that will leave you nodding along and maybe laughing out loud.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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What happens when a supposedly supportive partner becomes your worst nightmare during one of the most vulnerable times in your life? Our guest bravely shares her heart-wrenching experience of enduring domestic abuse while pregnant, shedding light on the often-hidden red flags that can signal a relationship's dangerous turn. Her story is not just about survival but also about the remarkable strength it takes to balance work, raise children, and manage finances without a partner’s support. With an unflinching look at her past, she reveals how she found the courage to protect her children and underscores the vital role support systems play for women facing similar challenges.
Imagine navigating the stormy seas of financial instability and emotional turmoil while raising a family. Our guest found herself escaping an abusive relationship with her second ex-husband, confronting the harsh realities of frequent relocations and the emotional strain on her children. Despite facing foreclosure and the pressure to maintain appearances, she shares how she overcame self-doubt and gaslighting to ultimately seek a better life. Her journey illustrates the transformative power of realizing one's own worth and the indispensable strength drawn from support networks, offering a beacon of hope for those striving to change their circumstances.
The path to safety and independence after enduring abuse is fraught with obstacles, but it is not impossible. We explore our guest's resilient journey through inefficient systems like Child Protective Services, as she fought for her children’s well-being, including advocating for a child with a rare genetic disorder. From securing custody to transitioning from a shelter to becoming a special education teacher with dual master's degrees, her story is a testament to the power of perseverance. Her experiences highlight the urgent need for systemic reform and serve as an inspiring reminder of the importance of asking for help, encouraging others to keep striving for a brighter future.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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Imagine embarking on a journey where the quest for freedom and self-discovery takes you across continents. Listen as we welcome our courageous guest, Samiha, who shares her harrowing yet inspiring story of leaving a domestic violence situation in Pakistan for a new life in America. Her experience sheds light on the cultural and societal challenges faced by women in arranged marriages, underscoring the immense strength needed to break free from oppressive circumstances. Through Samiha's narrative, we explore the concept of women's rights and the profound resilience required to carve out one's own path in the face of adversity.
Our conversation takes a deeper turn as we unravel the complexities of a marriage entangled in lies and manipulation. It’s a personal story of uncovering hidden truths and the struggle for financial independence while facing societal expectations and control. The chapter paints a vivid picture of deception, revealing how easily red flags can be missed, and highlights the determination needed to persevere. From financial control to emotional manipulation, discover the subtle ways in which freedom can be restricted, and the courage it takes to reclaim it.
The episode reaches a poignant climax as we confront the harsh realities of control and financial abuse, particularly following the acquisition of an order of protection. Struggling without resources and support, the immediate aftermath poses significant challenges that test one's resilience and resolve. Yet, in this story of survival, there is a glimmer of hope and determination, showcasing the incredible journey of overcoming significant hurdles. Tune in next week to hear how these challenges are met head-on and witness the strength and triumph that emerge from such trials.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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Have you ever felt pressured to offer more than friendship when accepting help? Join us as we unpack this common experience, particularly for women who often feel caught in the web of societal expectations. We tackle the delicate dance of navigating friendships with men who seem to expect something more in return for their generosity. With a focus on the importance of setting and respecting boundaries, we challenge the notion that gratitude should come with strings attached and encourage women to embrace their worth without guilt or obligation.
Our conversation takes a deeper dive into the art of setting personal boundaries and holding them firm, even when they don't match societal norms. We explore how writing down these boundaries can serve as a powerful reminder to ourselves and those around us. From discussing the hosts' unique approaches to relationship boundaries—like avoiding partners with young children or rejecting long-distance first dates—we highlight how these personal rules safeguard our emotional well-being. Discover how embracing your individual boundaries can lead to more authentic and fulfilling relationships, enriching your life with truly compatible connections.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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Ever wondered how to sidestep dating disasters before they happen? Join us for a laugh-filled episode of Dating Daycare, where Allison shares her latest dating escapades, including one curious encounter with a man who might just be the "Dick of the Week." As Melissa takes a breather from the dating scene, she and Allison dish out advice on spotting red flags and mismatched chemistry, all while keeping things light and relatable. It's all about arming our listeners with the tools needed to dodge unnecessary heartache while chuckling at the sometimes absurd world of modern romance.
Remember when meeting someone new didn't involve swiping right or left? We take a stroll down memory lane, contrasting today's digital dating dilemmas with the nostalgia of more organic connections. Online dating apps can be a jungle, filled with catfishing and repetitive profiles, and it's easy to feel overwhelmed by the constant stream of digital interactions. We dive into the exhaustion many of us feel with these apps and swap stories that reflect a growing desire for genuine real-life meet-ups. The modern dating landscape has its complexities, but we’re here to help you navigate it with humor and honesty.
Trust and respect are non-negotiables in any relationship, yet they can be tested in today's social media-driven world. We uncover how following explicit accounts or past infidelities can erode trust, and why setting boundaries is essential to protect oneself from toxic relationships. While exploring the allure of platforms like OnlyFans, we weigh the personal considerations and moral dilemmas they present. Wrapping up, we stress the importance of trusting your instincts and making sound choices, so grab your favorite drink, tune in, and let's tackle the challenges of modern dating together!Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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Can casual relationships truly remain free of emotional entanglements, or are they a secret recipe for heartbreak? Join us for a special birthday edition of Dating Daycare as we unwrap the complexities of friends with benefits arrangements. We dive headfirst into a listener's dilemma, where a casual agreement starts to unravel into deeper feelings, bringing to light the often unseen influence of oxytocin. Discover why these arrangements frequently lead to unexpected emotional ties and why it's crucial to rethink them if they have caused heartache in the past.
Celebrate Allison's birthday with us as we tackle the unwritten rulebook of maintaining boundaries in friends with benefits scenarios. We explore behaviors that blur the lines of casual relationships, like constant communication and meeting the family, leading to emotional confusion. Delve into the phenomenon of love bombing and learn how to sidestep mixed signals and misaligned expectations. With honesty and insight, we guide you through navigating the murky waters of casual relationships, emphasizing the importance of clarity, pacing, and recognizing red flags to nurture healthier connections.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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Have you ever felt like your co-parenting dynamics were more like a rollercoaster ride than a smooth journey? This week at Dating Daycare, we tackle the drama of co-parenting with a tale that’s all too relatable. Our "Dick of the Week" segment highlights my ex, the father of my children, who turned a simple skatepark outing into a whirlwind of emotions. As my son and daughter set out for an adventurous day with their dad, a disagreement over safety measures quickly escalated into tears and frustration. Join us as we unpack this incident and the complexities of co-parenting, where understanding and compromise become the unsung heroes.
In this lively episode, Allison and I explore how a trivial argument can teach us profound lessons in parenting and patience. My daughter’s determination to take her bike to the skate park turned into an unexpected lesson in balancing safety with adventure. Amidst the chaos, we discover the importance of listening to our children and allowing them to explore beyond our comfort zones. Whether you’re navigating the pitfalls of co-parenting or just looking for a laugh, this episode promises a heartfelt look into family dynamics and learning to be the reasonable adult, even when the odds are stacked against you.Join our private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/771136888074777
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