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  • Not getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here’s the problem: Your photos aren’t making the right impression. But there’s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to consistently get good matches on the apps. Connell’s client Ben puts it best: “I went from zero good matches on Hinge to getting 83 matches in one week. Suddenly I had too many dates!” Connell also reveals the 5 photo mistakes that make women swipe left—so you don’t sabotage your own success.

    You’re about to get the blueprint for the perfect profile, down to the ideal photo order:

    3:40: Essential Photo No. 1: The “Radically Authentic” Portrait to Hook Her Interest

    9:25: Essential Photo No. 2: The “Intriguing Photo” that Makes Her Want to Learn About You

    12:25: Essential Photo No. 3: The “Aww Factor” Image that Melts Her Heart

    15:50: Essential Photo No. 4: The “Man of Action” Shot that Turns Her Head

    18:55: Essential Photo No. 5: The “Social Man” Pic that Showcases Your Attractive Life

    20:48: Essential Photo No. 6: The “Wildcard” Photo that Makes Swiping Right a No-Brainer

    24:01: Plus! 5 Photo Mistakes that HURT You on the Apps!

    Listen now, update your photos, and start getting dates with women you actually want to meet.

    WATCH THIS VIDEO SHOWING YOU THE 6 ESSENTIAL PHOTOS:
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcSb0-cMbsU&t=4s

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  • How do you make her want YOU to be her boyfriend? It’s simpler than you think. Just show her these 10 “green lights.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you 10 attraction triggers that help women see you as boyfriend material. And these are NOT sketchy pickup moves. They’re practical strategies to showcase your most authentic, confident self, and create true connections. Because women are drawn to authentic gentlemen!

    You’re about to learn


    03:32: Green Light No. 1: How to Be Authentic and Spark a Romantic Connection

    09:29: Green Light No. 2: How to Lead a Date with Confidence

    12:42: Green Light No. 3: How to Play Up Your Passions to Stand Out from Other Guys

    16:17: Green Light No. 4: How to Talk About Your Future in a Compelling Way

    19:48: Green Light No. 5: How to Be Playful and Create Instant Chemistry

    26:16: Green Light No. 6: How to Flirt in the Way Women LOVE, without Being Cringey

    30:04: Green Light No. 7: How to Ask Great Questions that Keep Conversations Flowing

    34:40: Green Light No. 8: How to Talk About Your Ex the Right Way

    37:48: Green Light No. 9: How to Tell a Story that Helps Her Open Up to You

    40:24: Green Light No. 10: How to Make Her Laugh and Feel Instantly Drawn to You

    Listen now, apply these techniques, and find your dream girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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  • Ready to finally get great matches on Tinder? Who better to guide you than the man who invented swiping and changed dating forever: Tinder’s visionary co-founder, Jonathan Badeen. Back in the day, Jonathan was struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) He launched Tinder in part to help his own love life, and the world has never been the same. In this exclusive interview with dating coach Connell Barrett, Badeen shares the lightbulb moment when he came up with the swiping idea, reveals the biggest mistakes men make on the apps, and explains why he would absolutely swipe right on Minnie Mouse.

    In this episode, Jonathan and Connell talk about:

    2:37: Why Tinder is for More than Just Hookups

    14:01: The Aha Moment when Jonathan Came Up with Swiping

    17:26: Why Authenticity is What Women Want—on Tinder and in Real Life

    26:33: The Real Reason You’re Not Getting Good Matches

    30:15: The Myth that “Dating Apps Just Don’t Work”

    34:04: How to Inject Fun into Your profile to Get Women Messaging You First

    35:47: How Shy Guys and “Nerds” Can Win on the Apps

    47:01: Why Jonathan Would Swipe Right on Minnie Mouse and Swipe Left on “The Godfather 3”

    Listen now for wisdom from the man who changed dating—and start landing great Tinder dates today.

    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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  • Ever had a woman ghost you, friend-zone you, or suddenly lose interest—and you had no idea why? Odds are, you accidentally pushed her away. There are 10 invisible red flags that turn women off, and most men don’t even realize they’re making these mistakes! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals these attraction-killing errors and shares easy, practical fixes for each one.

    Here are the 10 red flags that turn women off:

    04:29: #1 Hiding Your Authentic Self and Being Someone You’re Not

    06:03: #2 Coming Off as Insecure or Needy

    09:20: #3 Long, Awkward Pauses in Conversations

    11:26: #4 Lying or Exaggerating About Your Life

    14:35: #5 Using Canned, Rehearsed Pickup Lines

    16:01: #6 Touching Her Too Much
or Not Enough!

    18:42: #7 Planning Boring, Forgettable Dates

    22:38: #8 Failing to Be Playful and Fun

    26:39: #9 Bringing Up Your Ex the Wrong Way

    29:56: #10 Trying Too Hard to Impress Her

    Listen now, to turn red flags into green lights—and get a great girlfriend!

    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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  • Do the apps frustrate you because you just don’t get many good matches? Here’s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let’s fix this fast. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an online-dating bio that women
    love—and that’s authentic to YOU. Using his simple formula, you’ll finally get good matches on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Plus, his 10 funniest bio prompts will get women giggling
 and swiping right.

    You’re about to learn:

    02:40: Why Authenticity is Your Online-Dating Superpower

    4:43: The Bio Mistake that Costs You Matches—and How to Fix It

    6:00: Don’t! Do! This!8:45: The Right Way to Flirt on Your Profile

    12:00: The 3-Line Bio Formula that Women Can’t Resist

    15:01: How to Write About Yourself in an Attractive Way

    17:50: The Flirty Line that Gets Her Messaging You First

    20:55: A Hinge Hack to Triple Your Matches

    23:01: Connell’s Top 10 Funniest Bio Lines that Women Love—Steal Them!

    Ready to flood your inbox with good dating leads? Listen now and write a bio that will bring you a BIG step closer to meeting your future girlfriend.

    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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  • It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a “sheepish” question about talking dirty in bed.

    Highlights from this episode:

    01:51: Andrew Asks: “A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do?”

    03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward

    08:57: Zach Asks: “Am I Too Nice? Do Women Only Want to Date Alpha Males?”

    11:25: Why the “Alpha Male” Is a Total Myth

    13:48: How Kindness, Confidence and Authenticity Will Help You Get a Girlfriend

    24:30: Barry Asks: “Why Can’t I Get Past the First Date?”

    25:52: Connell’s Aha Moment that Made Him Magnetic to Women

    31:07: Three Flirting Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Land Second Dates

    Hit play and start transforming your love life today

    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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  • Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profiles—it’s exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe less and connect more, forming real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Inner Circle’s founder David Vermeulen. He shares how his innovative platform helps successful, driven men and women connect authentically—first online and then IRL at fun, exclusive events in cities like New York, London, Paris and Rio.

    With Connell and David as your guides, you’ll discover:

    4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle

    6:38 How Inner Circle’s Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles

    7:55 Why the Platform’s IRL Events is “Where the Magic Happens”

    10:43 A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World

    11:25: Connell’s One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life

    19:29: How “Tinder is Like McDonald’s,” in David’s View

    27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity

    30:54: How to Decide if She’s Worth a Second Date

    33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women

    35:32: David’s Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: “Opposites Don’t Attract”

    Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!


    LEARN MORE ABOUT INNER CIRCLE:
    https://about.theinnercircle.co/

    CHECK OUT INNER CIRCLE ON INSTAGRAM:
    https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/

    DOWNLOAD THE INNER CIRCLE APP:
    https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374

    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact

    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

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  • The new year is here, and now’s the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 proven strategies that practically guarantee you’ll find love in 2025. These aren’t flimsy resolutions you’ll abandon by February. They’re bold, revolutionary daily rituals to authentically connect with wonderful women.

    Using Connell’s tested moves, you’re about to learn:

    01:30: Why Resolutions Fail—and How to Build Rituals that Get Dating Results

    05:45: What Women Really Want—Authenticity!—and How to Give it to Them

    14:20: How to Truly Connect with Women Who are Your Type

    24:18: A Morning Ritual that Supercharges Your Motivation and Confidence

    38:10: The Daily Practice that Virtually Guarantees You Will Find Love in 2025

    51:10: The Online-Dating Secret to Skyrocket Your Number of Quality Matches

    1:08:30: What You MUST Do Today to if You Want a Great Girlfriend

    Your dream girl is waiting—don’t wait another day to start your journey. Listen now!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


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  • Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn’t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. “That’s more than I’d had the entire previous year,” he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, who’s now his girlfriend. “I knew she was the one.”

    Channeling Creed, this episode will take your love life
 higher! Connell and Jake discuss:

    09:30: The Missed Approach Opportunity that Ignited Jake’s Breakthrough

    13:35: The Mindset Shift Every Man Needs to Attract His Dream Girlfriend

    16:30: How Jake Landed Five Dates in Just One Week

    17:28: The First-Date Aha Moment that Led to a Sexy Make-out

    20:25: A 15-Minute Ritual for Instant Confidence22:06: How Connell’s “80-20” Flirting Rule Helps You Know What to Say to Women

    34:17: A Playful Teasing Move that Builds Attraction on Dates

    40:45: The Wordless Approach Technique that Works in Loud Venues

    45:38: How to Help the Right Woman See You As Her Dream Guy

    58:19: Connell’s No. 1 Daily Dating Tip to ApplyWith Allie as his partner, Jake’s decade of loneliness is behind him.

    Listen now and start your journey to finding the girlfriend you deserve!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


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  • With over 1,000 dating apps out there, it’s hard to know which one is right for you—and which will waste your time and money. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that he and his clients used in 2024. Whether you’re looking for meaningful connections or fun, casual dates, this guide will help you find the perfect app to help you get matches and dates
 and even find your soulmate!

    Here’s what Connell covers in this episode:

    1:30: Why Choosing the Wrong App Costs You Matches and Dates

    2:45: No. 7: The League—it’s About Quality, Not Quantity

    4:45: No. 6: Why Badoo is Great if You Aren’t Hollywood Handsome

    7:11: No. 5 and No. 4: Match and eHarmony—Which Long-Term Relationship Platform is Better for You?

    12:45: How Coffee Meets Bagel Will Help You Get Coffee Dates with Your Type of Women

    15:15: No. 2: Bumble’s Latest Innovations that Make Finding Love Easier than Ever

    19:07: No. 1: The Top Dating App of 2024 is
 Hinge! Here’s Why Every Man MUST Be on Hinge

    22:37: Bonus Tip: A Clever Way Hinge Can Help You Succeed on Other Dating Apps

    Tune in now to turn your swipes into sparks—and matches into love!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30

    WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
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  • Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, you’re making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you don’t even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identify—and fix—the hidden dating mistakes men make. You’ll learn how to connect with women authentically, flirt with charm, and boost your confidence. Plus, Lisa shares invaluable wisdom on modern masculinity. (Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connell’s dating advice column.)

    You’re about to learn:

    2:30: What to NEVER do when talking to a woman you’ve just met

    6:39: A simple first-date fix that turns women on

    16:40: Why men feel more dating anxiety than ever

    22:00: Practical ways to build self-esteem and confidence

    25:50: How to give authentic compliments that women love

    33:00: The single biggest dating mistake you’re making

    39:10: Great topics to talk about that spark connection

    47:30: How to turn fear and doubt into fun and excitement

    59:17: Lisa’s no. 1 dating tip that every man must know

    Are you ready to become an even better man? Listen now!


    FOR GREAT READS AND PRACTICAL TIPS TO BE A BETTER MAN:
    http://GoodMenProject.com


    CHECK OUT THE GOOD MEN PROJECT’S DATING SUBSTACK:
    http://gmpdating.substack.com


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


    WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
    [email protected]


    Quotes

    "Meaningful compliments celebrate deeper attributes beyond appearance."- Lisa Hickey

    "Building modern relationships requires the courage to take the next step after a good interaction."- Lisa Hickey

  • It’s Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, “ho, ho, NO!” It’s getting old, right? In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Zach fix the same issues that frustrate you. Zach—a personal trainer and 40-year-old single dad—learns 15 proven online-dating moves to turn his phone into a date-generating machine. And hey, the more good matches you have, the sooner you can attract a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you.

    Here are some of the strategies Connell shares with Zach. You’re about to learn:

    6:41: How to Maximize Online-Dating Success with Minimal Effort (15 Minutes Daily!)

    8:49: Why Being a Single Dad is a Feature, Not a Flaw—and How to Talk about it On Your Profile

    14:35: Connell Crafts a Clever, Authentic “DILF” Prompt for Zach that Women Will Love

    17:49: The 3 Photos Every Man MUST Have on his Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile

    21:08: The Secret to Writing Funny Prompts that Make Her Message YOU First

    23:18: Boosting your Profile: When, Why and How to Do It

    27:07: From Matching to Texting to Getting the First Date, in 3 Simple Steps

    30:04: How to use Video Clips to Skyrocket Your Matches

    32:15: The 5 Big Profile Mistakes You Didn’t Know You Were Making

    55:43: Hinge Hack: How to Write Poll Prompts to Triple Your Matches

    1:01:17: How to Date Without Drinking Alcohol and Still Have Fun

    Hit “play” now and start getting good matches on the apps.


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


    WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
    [email protected]


    Quotes

    "Transparency fosters genuine connections and sets clear expectations." - Zach

    "The focus on self-improvement paves the way for deeper connections and fulfilling relationships." - Zach

  • Are you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve
) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You’ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love—or at least a sexy make-out. And you’ll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.

    With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:

    1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Let’s Vent)

    5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety

    10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman

    12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone

    14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women

    18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet

    20:45: The “Z Pattern”—a Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact

    22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every Time

    Listen now and make this New Year’s Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES: http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


    WANT A FREE COPY OF CONNELL’S NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, “DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON’T”? EMAIL CONNELL AND WRITE “FREE BOOK” IN THE SUBJECT LINE AND YOU’LL GET IT INSTANTLY:
    [email protected]


    Quotes

    "True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"

    What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett

  • Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jack’s hidden flirting weaknesses (Jack’s aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them into strengths.


    Jack’s coaching session with Connell will show you:

    6:41 – Why Women May Not See You as Boyfriend Material

    9:33 – 3 Simple Ways to Build Romantic Tension on Dates

    13:25 – The 3-Date Roadmap to Help the Right Woman See You as the Partner She Wants

    17:53 – Creative Date Ideas that Make Her Want to Keep Seeing You

    24:19 – How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting More Dates

    27:30 – The Easy Way to Text Women without Seeming Needy

    41:03 – How to Tease Women with Charm, NOT Tricks or Manipulation

    52:49 – Jack’s Aha Moment: Why He’s Been Hitting the 3-Date Wall

    57:12 – The Secret Flirting Move that Makes Nice Guys Irresistible

    1:01:18 – How to Give a “Power Compliment” that Get Women Swooning

    1:04:18 – The Power of Sharing AUTHENTIC Personal Stories on Dates

    Listen now and start your 3-date journey to winning her heart!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30


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    Quotes

    "Recognizing where you’re stuck is the first step toward finding your way forward." - Jack"

    Shared laughter and playful exchanges frequently initiate the best connections." - Jack

  • Have you ever settled—in love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle. Garrain transformed his life, becoming
    a bestselling author and renowned coach who now inspires millions. Oh, and along the way he landed his dream girl—his wife, Blair! In this episode, Garrain joins dating coach Connell Barrett to help you become the best version of yourself. “To attract a high-value woman,” he says, “you need to become a high-value man.”


    Here’s what you’ll learn in Connell and Garrain’s powerful conversation:

    3:50 How to Bounce Back from Rock Bottom

    15:30 The 5 Books Every Man Should Read

    21:33 Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Fake, Toxic “Alpha Males”

    32:00 Why Playfulness Is a Man’s Secret Flirting Weapon—and How to Use It

    39:42 The Biggest Dating Lesson Garrain Learned Before Meeting His Wife, Blair

    40:44 A Flirting Move You Can Steal: How Garrain Used to Get Women to Approach HIM at Bars

    52:07 How to Become the Charismatic Man Women Want to Date

    58:45 The Jaw-Dropping Truth Bomb Garrain Told Blair on their First Date

    60:03 Garrain’s 3-Step Formula for Never Settling Again

    It’s time to stop settling and start thriving! Your dream relationship awaits. Listen now.


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  • Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. You’re not alone. For shy guys, starting a conversation can feel impossible. In this live-coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his introverted client Eric get out of his head and confidently talk to women in bars. Discover proven techniques to start conversations, dodge awkward silences, and become the guy others watch approaching—and charming—wonderful women.


    Here are some highlights from Eric’s coaching session with Connell:

    6:45—How to Talk with Women Authentically—Not Like Some Weird Pickup Artist

    10:50—Connell’s Go-To Icebreaker for Approaching ANY Woman

    11:30—The “Karaoke Opener,” Which Gives Shy Guys Instant Charismas

    19:10—The Wrong Way to Approach Women (Never, Ever Say This!)29:00—How to Be Bold, Not Timid, in Your Approaches

    31:23—The One Word That Instantly Sparks Attraction

    39:30—What Women REALLY Find Creepy (It’s Not What You Think!)

    46:20—3 Playful Ways to Start Conversations that Lead to Numbers

    52:01—The Word Every Woman Wants to Hear when You First Meet Her

    1:03:08—Learn the “Push-Pull,” the Flirting Move to Keep You Out of the Friend Zone

    1:09:02—How to Text Her and Get Dates (and Not Get Ghosted)

    1:12:17—The 2 Kinds of Photos You Need on Your Dating Profile to Get Good Matches

    1:20:00—Why Women LOVE “Interview Mode”
 When You Do it Connell’s Way


    Are you ready to get out of your head in bars and get into some flirty conversations? Hit play and take one step closer to finding your dream girlfriend.


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    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


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  • Does your life lack excitement and passion? Do you worry that women find you boring—or worse, dull? A passionless life can sabotage your dating success, leaving women to gravitate to men with more exciting stories to tell. (Picture your date saying, “Wait, your only hobby is playing video games? Cool, cool... well, I should go now.” Yikes.) Women crave men who live with passion and purpose. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell sits down with bestselling author John R. Miles, host of the top-rated “Passion Struck” podcast, to explore how finding your passions can transform your love life and bring you more fulfillment as a man.


    Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:

    2:30 The Life-Changing Power of Facing Your Fear

    12:05 Why Self-Doubt is Your True Enemy—and How to Build Self-Worth

    17:32 How to Get Unstuck and Start Living a Passionate Life

    20:21 The Secret to Turning Powerful New Behaviors into Daily Habits

    21:03 How to Talk to Women with Passion on Dates—and Why They Love It

    28:15 How John’s Improv Comedy Experience Helped Him Defeat Fear

    33:53 The Healing Power of Gratitude: Lessons from Losing a Loved One

    40:47 How to Show a Woman You’re Dating that She Truly Matters

    42:22 The Right Way to Talk to Women About Your Career

    46:52 A Fun Improv Game You Can Play to Get Women Laughing


    Listen now and take your love life from dull to dynamic—because you want to talk to women about much more than Minecraft.


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    www.johnrmiles.com/


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    ebook/dp/B0CGS248NR/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1707604358&sr=1-1


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    Quotes

    "Treat every practice like a race; overcome the fear of the starting line through preparation." - John R. Miles

    "Convey your self-value and power with confidence; it's the superpower that strengthens every relationship." - John R. Miles

  • Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett knows how frustrating first dates can be, especially when you’re unsure what to talk about or how to flirt. You’ve heard it before: “I didn’t feel a connection, but we can be friends.” Frustrating, right? Let’s change that! In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” Connell—who’s been on over 1,000 first dates—shares seven of his best first-date moves. These proven strategies help him and his clients ignite genuine, confident connections with women, without relying on weird, manipulative tactics that fall flat.


    Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett will teach you:

    4:20: What to Text Her Before the Date to Get Her Excited to Meet You (No More Flaking!)

    11:05 - How to Tell Charismatic Stories that Make Her Hang On Every Word

    20:07 - The One Compliment that Always Keeps You Out of the Friend Zone (and Makes Her Smile)

    25:25 – Connell’s 3 Steps to Emotionally Connect with Any Woman, Even If You Seem to Have Little in Common

    30:12 - The WRONG Way to Touch Her on a Date (Don’t Do This!) and the RIGHT Way

    36:12 - How to Make Her Feel Special and Safe

    38:22 - How and When to Go for the First Kiss and Never Get Rejected

    44:09 - Bonus Tip! Connell’s Favorite First-Date Game: “5 Questions,” to Get Her Laughing and Loving Every Minute with You

    Stop hearing “Let’s just be friends” and start hearing “Let’s go out again.” Listen now to unlock the confidence and strategies that will make sparks fly on your next date!


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  • How do you talk to women and create true attraction? What’s the right way to approach in the #MeToo Era? How much do your looks matter to women? In this episode of the How to Get a Girlfriend Podcast, dating expert for men Kezia Noble answers these confounding questions. The bestselling author of “The Noble Art of Seduction,” Kezia has helped more than 100,000 men get great dating results. How? By telling it like it is about what works with women. “Guys don’t want to hear bulls*it,” she tells host and fellow dating coach Connell Barrett. “They want to hear the raw truth that gets results.”

    You want raw truth? You got it! Kezia and Connell discuss:

    (2:35) How Kezia Learned to Get Great Results for Her Clients

    (10:40) How to Dial Up Attraction Using her “Double-Sided Compliment”

    (13:12) “The Shadow,” the Side of Men that Women Find Seductive

    (16:45) What to Say on Dates to go from Boring to Charismatic

    (18:05) How to Be Authentically Interesting to Women as the Raw, Real You

    (24:05) The Right Way to Talk About Your Career
 and the Wrong Way

    (25:45) The Truth about How Much Looks Really Matter to Women

    (28:51) Why Women Hate the Apps and are “Absolutely Dying” for Men like You to Approach Them

    (32:35) How to Get a Woman Who Rejected You to Change Her Mind and Chase You

    Are you ready to confidently approach women and attract your dream girlfriend? Listen now!


    Featured Guest

    Kezia Noble, The World’s Leading Female Dating and Attraction Expert

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    Quotes

    "There were 2 things that I noticed pretty quickly, the first was that there were indeed practical tools, advice that you could give men that could really make a change." - Kezia Noble

    "It's very much pattern breaking is not just about asking an interesting question, it's about your interesting responses." - Kezia Noble

  • Do you see women you’d love to talk to, but you’re just not sure what to say—and you’re afraid you’ll get rejected? You’re not alone. Matt, 25, was battling “approach anxiety.” He wasn’t sure how to talk to women in places like bars and coffee shops. Well, his struggles are over! In this episode of the How to Get A Girlfriend Podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett pulls back the curtain and shares a 1-1 coaching session he did with his client Matt. Armed with practical tips he calls “outside the box,” a newly confident Matt immediately went out and got two phone numbers from women he approached.


    Here are some highlights from the coaching session with Connell that led to Matt’s breakthrough:

    5:45 Matt Talks about his Struggles Talking to Women He Sees In Bars

    8:31 Connell Identifies the “Invisible Wall” that Stops Matt from Approaching

    14:21 Matt Has a Major Shift About His Fear of Rejection

    17:15 Why Approaching Large Groups Helps Create MORE Attraction with Women

    20:32 Connell Shares “the Biggest Secret” to Confidently Approaching

    23:36 Connell Tells Matt What to Say when Talking to Tall Women

    26:01 Why Authenticity and Vulnerability is So Effective in Dating

    37:20 How to Be Playful with Women, and Not Boring

    42:30 Connell Shares His Simple Texting Framework

    46:37 A Simple Move that Keeps Guys from Getting Ghosted

    53:28 Matt learns the RIGHT Way to Confirm a Date, and the WRONG Way

    58:21 The Hinge Prompt that’s CRUSHING for Connell and His Clients

    After their session, Matt went out and got two phone number from two cute girls—the kinds of women he’d been too anxious to approach. Do you want the same kind of success? Listen now!


    FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
    http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact


    TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
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