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  • Author and Rosebud Woman founder Christine Mason joins me to explore what it means to live erotically and powerfully through every stage of womanhood. We dive into her work on aging, agency, and discernment—from embracing our sensuality at any age to navigating later-age motherhood with clarity and choice. Christine shares insights from The 9 Lives of Women, breaking down cultural narratives around sex, aging, and reproductive freedom. We also discuss the importance of body rituals, intergenerational healing, and how staying embodied can support a vibrant, empowered life well into elderhood.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:27 Intro

    07:45 What does it really mean to age erotically?

    17:41 You Are All Your Ages at Once

    20:37 Let Your Future Self Guide You Back to Joy

    27:56 Motherhood, Choice, and the Shifting Narrative

    44:23 Are you making choices from fear or inner knowing?

    49:18 The Joy of Growing Older (And Why You Won’t Want to Go Back)

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

    Christine is a six-time founder and CEO, with a deep interest in women's wellness and the liberation of all people. She's a futurist, a yogi, tantrika, mother of 4, and grandmother. She's the author of Reverence (2021), The Nine Gifts (2020), The Invitation (2018) and Body Love, as well as 5 other books, and the co-founder a meditation center and medicinal farm on Hawaii. She's appeared on radio, tv, print and podcasts (from NPR to Vogue to TEDx), speaking to entrepreneurship, freeing the mind and body, activism and sexual and intimate wellness. French, German. MBA, Phi Beta Kappa Northwestern University. PhD student in Philosophy and Consciousness at CIIS. She splits her time between the farm (with the chickens, cats and goats!) and Mill Valley, CA.

    LINKS

    https://rosewoman.com/pages/the-team?srsltid=AfmBOoqRofBJeBkLzxh4fRWZUEiLe7-O4EnYFs8UB1AchqssClBVwBmw

    https://christinemariemason.com/https://rosewoman.com/products/the-9-lives-of-woman-sensual-sexual-and-reproductive-stages-from-birth-to-100?variant=46367720210686https://www.amazon.com/Nine-Lives-Woman-Sensual-Reproductive/dp/B0F2CGTYV4170: Menopause Transitions and Plant Medicines with Dr. Suzanne Gilberg

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    SexLoveYoga: Sensual Awakening Course - https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

    Exhale Sensual Ketamine Retreat | Join the waitlist for the next Femme retreat, coming fall! - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

    Love and Leather Couples Retreat in California on July 20-23 - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/LoveAndLeather

    Erosynthesis + Entheogens Masterclass - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

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    In this episode of Sex Love Psychedelics, I dive into the deliciously tangled dance between love, power, money, and self-worth in modern relationships. I’m joined by my dear friend and powerhouse, Michelle Pound — a love, money, and pleasure mentor who helps men find their queens and women rise into the goddesses they were always meant to be.

    Together, we explore how cultural conditioning around success and validation shapes the way we love, the hidden ways we outsource our safety to others, and how longing and financial dynamics can quietly erode intimacy. We also dive into the art of reclaiming our emotional power — and why true love begins when we choose ourselves first.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:28 Intro

    01:19 Girl Boss Burnout and the Fantasy of Being Saved

    02:28 What Are We Really Seeking

    04:05 Power Imbalances: Where Are We Giving It Away?

    16:46 Money, Masculine/Feminine Dynamics, and Relationship Power

    37:20 Healing the Fear of Receiving

    50:43 Choosing Yourself (Even When It’s Hard)

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

    Michelle is a mentor in love, money, and pleasure, guiding men and women who are ready to have it all — deep love, high-level success, and a life that turns them all the way on.Through private mentorship, transformational coaching containers, and immersive in-person experiences, she helps men find their queens and empowers women to rise fully into the goddess they were always meant to be.

    As a Shibari artist and curator of sacred, sensual spaces, Michelle creates experiences where the body becomes a temple and every moment is an initiation into deeper power, presence, and pleasure.

    LINKS

    171: Peter Pans, Wendys, + Love as a Drug

    @michellepoundmichellepound.com

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    SexLoveYoga: Sensual Awakening Course - https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

    Exhale Sensual Ketamine Retreat | Join the waitlist for the next Femme retreat, coming fall! - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

    Love and Leather Couples Retreat in California on July 20-23 - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/LoveAndLeather

    Erosynthesis + Entheogens Masterclass - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

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  • Shownotes:

    The Peter Pan archetype—why it’s so damn fun, how it sparks playfulness and passion in relationships, and when it starts working against us. From lover boys and lover girls to the shadow side of avoidance, we explore how to embrace the magic without losing ourselves. Is it love, or just a beautifully wrapped distraction? Tune in for insights on balancing spontaneity with emotional depth, so you can cultivate relationships that are both exciting and fulfilling.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    01:32 Why This Episode Almost Never Made It

    03:19 The Peter Pan Archetype—Flirty Fun or Red Flag?

    08:26 How Archetypes Help Us Grow in Love

    12:06 Keeping Romance Alive: The Art of Flirting & Creativity

    15:56 Are You the Peter Pan or the Wendy in Your Relationship?

    19:06 Are You Dating the Person or the Fantasy?

    24:19 Breaking Free from Repeating Patterns in Love

    28:29 Your Invitation to Play, Love, and Grow

    LINKS FROM THE SHOW

    Big Cat Energy (BCE) - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/big-cat-energy

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    SexLoveYoga: Sensual Awakening Course - https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

    Exhale Sensual Ketamine Retreat | Join the waitlist for the next Femme retreat, coming fall! - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

    Love and Leather Couples Retreat in California on July 20-23 - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/LoveAndLeather

    Erosynthesis + Entheogens Masterclass - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

  • Menopause is a transition every woman goes through, yet so much of it is misunderstood. This week on Sex Love Psychedelics, I sit down with Dr. Suzanne Gilberg to explore the emotional, physical, and hormonal shifts of perimenopause and menopause. From navigating changes in libido and intimacy to the emerging role of psychedelics in symptom relief, we break the stigma and bring the science. Because when it comes to aging, sexuality, and well-being, knowledge isn’t just power—it’s liberation.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:27 Impact of Fires in Los Angeles

    09:42 Meeting Dr. Suzanne Gilberg

    10:43 The Perimenopause & Menopause Rollercoaster

    21:40 Spotting the Early Signs of Perimenopause

    25:05 How Hormones Shape Your Sex Life

    34:09 Psychedelics for Women’s Health

    44:51 Hormone Therapy—Making Informed Choices for Your Health

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

    Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz, MD, is a board-certified OB/GYN, integrative medicine practitioner, and fierce advocate for women’s health. Blending Western medicine with holistic healing, she empowers women to navigate perimenopause and menopause with confidence, knowledge, and vitality. As the Chief Medical Correspondent for The Drew Barrymore Show and author of Menopause Bootcamp, Dr. Suzanne is on a mission to revolutionize the conversation around aging, hormones, and self-care—one candid, science-backed, and empowering discussion at a time.

    LINKS FROM THE SHOW

    Big Cat Energy (BCE) - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/big-cat-energy

    https://www.facebook.com/askdrsuzanne/

    https://themenopausebootcamp.com/course/certification-course/

    https://twitter.com/askdrsuzanne

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/askdrsuzanne/

    https://www.instagram.com/askdrsuzanne/?hl=en

    https://www.tiktok.com/@askdrsuzanne

    https://www.youtube.com/user/askdrsuzanne/videos

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    Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes - http://learn.sexloveyoga.com/come-undone

    SexLoveYoga: Sensual Awakening Course - https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

    Exhale Sensual Ketamine Retreat | Join the waitlist for the next Femme retreat, coming fall! - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

    Love and Leather Couples Retreat in California on July 20-23 - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/LoveAndLeather

    Erosynthesis + Entheogens Masterclass - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

  • Are you attuning to your partner’s needs, or projecting your fears onto them? This week on Sex Love Psychedelics, we’re diving into the delicate dance of communication in intimate relationships. From fears of rejection to cultural conditioning, I explore how self-awareness and presence can shift the way we express desires, needs, and boundaries. Because when it comes to creating a long-lasting, conscious relationship, communication isn’t just important—it’s everything.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:06 Tackling those love, sex, and dating hurdles!

    04:30 Are you attuning or just guessing?

    15:08 The Role of Words in Communication

    21:25 Breaking Free from Cultural Conditioning and Barriers

    30:02 Keeping it Real and why congruency is a Total Game-changer

    34:56 Practical Tips to Up Your Communication Game

    35:39 Addressing Internal Beliefs and Conditioning

    36:51 How Therapy Helps Improve Communication

    LINKS FROM THE SHOW

    SexLoveYoga: Sensual Awakening Course - https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

    Exhale: Femme Ketamine Retreat - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

    WANT MORE?

    Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes - http://learn.sexloveyoga.com/come-undoneExhale Sensual Ketamine Retreat in Malibu January 23-26, 2025 - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhaleErosynthesis + Entheogens Masterclass - https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

  • In this episode of Sex Love Psychedelics, I’m chatting with the incredible Maryn Azoff to dive into the magic of vocal activation and how it can take your pleasure, manifestation, and self-empowerment to new heights! Recorded on Election Day (perfect timing to talk about the throat chakra and owning our voice), we uncover how vocal practices like chanting create juicy energy shifts that amplify intimacy, unlock self-expression, and connect us with our wild, authentic selves. Tune in for this playful, powerful conversation on finding your voice and using it to create your reality!

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:06 Kicking Things Off!

    05:52 Unleashing the Power of the Throat Chakra (and Letting Go)

    09:07 Tongue & Voice Magic for Manifesting Dreams

    12:13 Sexy Sound: How Voice Fuels Sexuality

    13:23 Expansive Orgasms and Kundalini Vibes

    24:14 Voice as a Healing Superpower

    44:18 Plant Medicine, Surrender, and Finding Your True Voice

    48:09 Trippy Tunes: Voice Meets Psychedelic Experiences

    51:53 Speak Up! How Voice Transforms Intimacy and Relationships

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

    Maryn Azoff is a Vocal Transformation Coach, classically trained singer, and “soul emancipator,” dedicated to awakening people to the profound power of their own voice through her unique healing program, The Vocal Transformation Method. With roots in diverse lineages and ancient wisdom practices, Maryn’s approach merges global vocal traditions to help individuals access their authentic voice and true vibrational frequency. Her work guides people toward healing and connection, reactivating the body-mind-spirit connection for wellness within themselves and for the planet.

    LINKS FROM THE SHOW

    SexLoveYoga: Sensual Awakening Course

    Exhale: Femme Ketamine Retreat

    Maryn’s Vocal Transformation Website

    Maryn’s Instagram: @vocal_transformation

    WANT MORE?

    Join me for my monthly Un.done ClassesExhale Sensual Ketamine Retreat in Malibu January 23-26, 2025Erosynthesis + Entheogens Masterclass

  • In this episode of Sex Love Psychedelics, I sit down with Jaqueline Michelle, a sensuality mentor and Shibari practitioner, to dive deep into true sensual embodiment and how we can overcome disconnection from our bodies. Jaqueline shares her powerful journey from childhood trauma to reclaiming her sensuality through practices like yoga, Tantra, and BDSM. We explore the importance of self-regulation, sovereignty, and intentionality in sensual practices, and how mindset work and embodiment can play a crucial role in healing trauma and enhancing intimacy. Jaqueline also delves into emotional layering and the need for authentic, non-performative sensuality.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:06 Intro

    06:50 The Journey to Sensual Embodiment

    11:52 The Power of Mindset, Emotional Layering, and Conscious Kink

    23:53 The Importance of Self-Regulation and Sovereignty

    27:42 The Concept of Performance and How it Affects Individuals

    32:44 The Power of Presence and Embodiment in Healing

    38:11 Unlocking Deeper Connection Through Sensuality in Relationships

    45:15 Work into Sensual Liberation and Empowerment

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

    Jaqueline Michelle is a Sensuality Mentor & Muse and a Sensual Shibari Practitioner. She specializes in empowering women to take up sensual and erotic space in their bodies and expression. She fuses together the philosophies of yoga, tantra, and kink so we may transmit somatic and subconscious programming so we can liberate ourselves from the inside out.

    LINKS FROM THE SHOWhttps://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

    https://linktr.ee/jaquemich

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  • What does it take for women to feel safe during sex? In this episode, I explore how safety is shaped by our beliefs, past traumas, and cultural conditioning, emphasizing the crucial role of clear communication and mutual accountability. We dive into the complex layers of safety, consent, and the difficult issue of duty sex, where avoiding conflict can lead to unwanted sex and emotional distress, stressing the need for inner work and an understanding of cultural pressures in shaping our sexual dynamics.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:00 Intro

    02:41 Cultural Conditioning and Women's Sexual Needs

    09:36 The Role of Communication and Responsibility

    12:42 Coercion and Consent in Sexual Relationships

    15:45 The Impact of Unwanted Sex on Emotional Well-being

    23:30 The Importance of Emotional Curiosity and Responsiveness

    29:05 Healing and Supporting the Process

    LINKS FROM THE SHOWhttps://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

    https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-sundays

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  • Dr. Katherine Lawson and I discuss the transformative power of psychedelics, dream work, and trauma healing. We explore integrating mystical experiences into daily life with structured support and the symbolic interpretation of dreams and visions for personal growth. We also explore the therapeutic potential of MDMA-assisted therapy for complex trauma and Dr. Lawson’s journey of empowerment through archetypes and embodied imagination, offering insights into the deep connections between mythology, spirituality, and healing.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:06 Intro

    10:00 Mysticism, dream work, and personal growth

    20:56 Using imagination to cope with trauma and explore past lives

    32:08 Dream analysis and its benefits for personal growth

    37:02 Integrating psychedelic experiences into daily life through dreamwork and MDMA therapy

    51:11 Healing trauma through therapy and archetypes.

    1:00:24 Tapping into Embodied Imagination and Ancestral Wisdom

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

    Dr. Katherine Lawson is an Integrative Mental Health Specialist, a certified Embodied Imagination® practitioner, consultant, psycho-spiritual counselor, and an international speaker. She has an MA in counseling psychotherapy from the Pacifica Graduate Institute and her doctorate in Mind-Body Medicine, focusing on Integrative Mental Health. She has spent nearly two decades examining the intersections between healing, dreaming, mysticism, and psychedelics. As a BIPOC woman, cancer survivor, and survivor of childhood sexual trauma, she teaches and utilizes holistic therapies for PTSD and other types of unprocessed wounds, as well as sharing stories of healing. She is fascinated by the interactions between the brain, mind, body, and personality and the powerful ways in which societal and spiritual factors affect health and happiness. She is the author of Dreamwork for Growth and Healing - A Guided Dream Journal and the founder of Awake in the Dream School.

    LINKS FROM THE SHOW

    https://www.linkedin.com/in/katherine-lawson-ph-d-5b8020bhttps://www.instagram.com/awakeinthedreamschool/

    https://www.awakeinthedream.co/

    https://books.apple.com/us/book/dreamwork-for-growth-and-healing-a-guided-dream-journal/id1610640944https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

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  • Writer and sexologist Suzannah Weiss joins me to explore sexual empowerment, gender dynamics, and spirituality. We discuss reclaiming personal agency, challenging societal norms, and advocating for self-determination. We delve into consent, boundaries, and the limitations of traditional gender roles in relationships, emphasizing the need for balanced approaches and open communication. We also discuss understanding the root of individual behaviors for deeper connection and personal growth.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:05 Intro

    08:13 Objectification vs. subjectification, views from a sexologist.

    14:54 Societal pressure on men and women regarding sex and relationships.

    24:13 Boundaries and Cultural Conditioning in Sexual Interactions

    28:58 Pleasure, and consent in sexual experiences.

    37:41 Gender roles, femininity, and individuality in spirituality and dating.

    48:05 Reclaiming Agency and Challenging Gender Roles in Relationships

    58:37 Embracing contradictions in sexuality and erotic expression.

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTSuzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health as a resident sexologist for Biird and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. She holds a Master of Professional Studies in Sexual Health from the University of Minnesota, a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University, and a Bachelor of Arts in Gender & Sexuality Studies and Modern Culture & Media from Brown University. You can reach Suzannah Weiss on her website.

    LINKS FROM THE SHOW

    https://suzannahweiss.com/book/https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

    Buy Suzannah's book "Subjectified" here:

    https://a.co/d/6zNTC6O

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  • Writer and social justice consultant, Justice Rivera, joins me to tackle the complexities of psychedelic-assisted therapy for trauma survivors. We define and deconstruct sex work and its intersection with race, culture, and power. We explore the debates around decriminalization versus legalization. We also delve into 'chem sex' practices and the importance of consent in contexts combining drugs and kink.

    In this episode you’ll hear:

    00:08 Intro

    06:45 Sex work, exploitation, and the potential of psychedelic-assisted therapy

    15:08 Deconstructing Definitions and the Three C's Model

    24:09 Censorship and the Hidden Costs of Online Regulation

    31:12 The Potential Benefits of the Decriminalization of Psychedelics

    43:22 Discussion on “Chem-sex”, Psychedelics, and Kink.

    48:20 Harm Reduction, Consent, and Sexual Experiences.

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

    Justice Rivera is a writer and social justice consultant from San Juan, PR, specializing in harm reduction and healing justice. With a focus on challenging societal norms, Justice provides support to sex workers, trafficking survivors, and drug users. She is a Partner at Reframe Health and Justice, a harm reduction consulting company. Justice is also the co-author of "Body Autonomy: Decolonizing Sex Work and Drug Use" and enjoys traveling, cooking, and spending time with loved ones.

    LINKS FROM THE SHOW

    https://www.reframehealthandjustice.com/

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  • Psychotherapist Jonathan Robinson joins me to discuss using MDMA for relationships. We explore how MDMA can enhance intimacy when used safely for therapy. Jonathan shares insights from over 600 sessions helping couples communicate openly. We dive into his groundbreaking work treating relationship issues with psychedelics like MDMA, as well as training therapists in this approach. Explore the ethical considerations and safety protocols surrounding this therapeutic modality, and gain valuable knowledge on how psychedelics like MDMA can foster deeper self-awareness and strengthen the bonds of love.

    In this episode:

    00:27 Intro

    03:21 MDMA-assisted therapy for trauma, anxiety, and depression

    08:13 Using Zoom for therapy sessions, including MDMA and ketamine

    19:40 MDMA use in therapy for couples, including its potential benefits and limitations.

    21:25 Psychedelic use for couples therapy and emotional healing.

    31:15 Navigating Therapy Challenges and Personal Experiences

    40:10 Therapy Experiences, Training Insights, and Cautionary Tales

    48:50 Self-Awareness and Accountability in Therapy

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS

    Jonathan Robinson is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and professional speaker based in Nevada City, California. With over 35 years of experience, Jonathan explores methods for personal evolution toward a more caring, peaceful, and happy life. His work has been featured in USA TODAY, Newsweek, and the Los Angeles Times. He has appeared on national TV talk shows, including Oprah. Jonathan is the author of nine books, delivering informative presentations on personal development.

    LINKS FROM THE SHOW

    XTCasMedicine.com

    MDMAcouplestraining.com

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  • Clinical pharmacologist, Stephanie Karzon Abrams joins me to share how ketamine can support our hormonal health. Stephanie walks us through the science + research behind why these compounds and psychedelics can help us towards finding balance when our hormones get out of whack. We dive into treating conditions such as PMDD, menopause symptoms, and the hormonal disturbances caused by autoimmune diseases.

    In this episode:

    [01:48] Intro

    [02:28] Psychedelics' Dance with Hormones and Libido

    [09:46] Psilocybin and its Potential for Women's Cycles

    [14:39] Ketamine: A New Hope for Hormone Disorders

    [29:15] Legal Plant Medicines for Intimacy and Connection

    [36:36] Microdosing for Creativity, Mood, and Relationships

    [41:45] Ibogaine Therapy's Promise for Traumatic Brain Injuries

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

    Stephanie is a clinical pharmacologist, community maker, and entrepreneur in the psychedelic space. Through her consultancy, Beyond the Bench, she provides comprehensive guidance and expert advice, offers open-access education, conducts research, and supports initiatives seeking to make a positive impact, in order to redefine the landscape of healthcare and support access to psychedelics and plant medicines.

    LINKS

    Article about TBI in relationships: https://www.beyondthebench.life/eleusinian-echoes/relationships-after-traumatic-brain-injury-tbi

    Exhale: Femme Ketamine Retreat:

    https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

  • Psychedelics + ketamine therapies are powerful ways to support the opening of the mind. But is there a thing such as being TOO OPEN?

    Nate Klemp, PhD, is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. He joins me to share how to live with an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    The impact of cancel culture on our cultural mindset and resilience The key differences between experiencing life with a closed vs. open mindset How digital distractions affect openness in relationships and intimacy Strategies for cultivating intentional relationships Nate’s personal journey towards embracing openness and writing his book, "Open" Understand the closed state by spending three days binging on screens and political outrage Fostering openness in romantic partnerships and understanding its significance Personality traits of openness and closeness according to the BIG FIVE inventory Scientific research of how personality traits can shift over time Insights from a skeptic's two-year journey in psychedelic-assisted therapy The varying experiences and effects of ketamine therapy Ketamine's antidepressant properties and its impact on neural plasticity Utilizing open awareness meditation for integrating psychedelic experiences Exploring the "80/80 marriage" concept for strengthening relationships Understanding the dynamics of the "sexual great depression" and vulnerability Patterns of trying to regulate our partner through sex Techniques for skillfully closing and upholding healthy boundaries

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS

    Nate Klemp, PhD, is a writer, philosopher, and entrepreneur. He is the author of the new book OPEN: Living With an Expansive Mind in a Distracted World. Nate is also the coauthor of the New York Times Editors’ Choice The 80/80 Marriage: A New Model for a Happier, Stronger Marriage and the New York Times Bestseller Start Here: Master the Lifelong Habit of Wellbeing. Nate cofounded the mindfulness training company Life Cross Training and holds a B.A. and M.A. in philosophy from Stanford University and a PhD from Princeton University.

    MORE LINKS

    Exhale Femme Retreat:

    ⁠⁠https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale⁠

  • Craving erotic stories and audio POV boyfriends who will tell you what a good girl you’ve been? Dipsea is a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content.

    Co-founder of Dipsea, Gina Gutierrez joins me to share about their work.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    The evolution of the erotic audio industry and Gina's journey of co-founding Dipsea

    Popular themes within erotic fantasies

    Establishing emotional bonds with characters

    The creative process behind crafting erotic narratives and insights into production

    The impact of unrealistic expectations perpetuated by erotic content on real-life relationships

    Common “ick” factors that hinder reader engagement + building tension in storytelling

    The real-life effects of erotic fantasy on dating, relationships, and sexuality

    Embracing consent as a desirable element of sex

    Assessing the ethicality of porn or audio erotica

    Distinguishing Dipsea's storytelling approach amongst others in the industry

    Exploring hedonism as a positive and empowering facet of women's sexual liberation

    Envisioning the future of women's sexuality and the roles of platforms like Dipsea and AI technology

    The influence of sexual expression amid the pandemic

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS

    Meet Gina Gutierrez, an empathy-driven entrepreneur with her sights set on reimagining and prioritizing female pleasure. As the co-founder and Chief Creative Officer at Dipsea, a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content, she’s passionate about demonstrating why sexual wellness is essential, and how storytelling and imagination are powerful tools that can help women unlock liberating connections with their bodies. Armed with a psychology degree from Duke and a desire to break the stigma that fantasy should be stifled, she’s ready to help women everywhere tap into their sexual powers.

    MORE LINKS

    Exhale Femme Retreat:

    ⁠https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

    Free 30 Day Trial to Dipsea
    https://www.dipseastories.com/SEXLOVEYOGA

  • Dr Ido Cohen is here with me today to talk about the power of integration, why people struggle with it, and what golden nuggets you can extract. So you can support yourself with actual lasting change.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    The various expressions of eros energy and the role of sensuality

    Integration: An ongoing process to create long term sustainable change

    Psychedelic integration using archetypes and the collective unconscious

    Why we project archetypal and shadow traits in relationships

    The personal vs collective archetypal energies + indigenous learnings

    Holding the tension of opposites within the psychedelic experience

    The power of self regulation and holding your own container

    Bypassing with psychedelics - Ensuring you’re available for real transformation

    The grief that comes from positive change + transformation

    Tantric perspective of processing grief on a somatic level

    How archetypes evolve in unexpected ways

    Neurotic suffering versus authentic suffering

    Village model of learning, psychedelic journeys and storytelling

    Facilitator abuse and misuse

    THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST

    Dr. Ido Cohen, Psy.D – serves individuals, couples and groups in San Francisco. He received his Psy.D from the California Institute of integral studies and trained at the Jung Institute In San Francisco. He works with a diverse range of challenges childhood trauma, inner critic, relational issues, lack of fulfillment, psychospiritual growth as well as psychedelic integration and preparation sessions with individuals and groups. His doctoral study researched the integration process of Ayahuasca ceremonies, while applying Jungian psychology to better understand how to support individuals in their process of change and transformation.

    He is the founder of “The Integration Circle” and facilitates workshops on the different dimensions of integration and the intersection of mental health, spiritual health and the entheogenic experience. Ido believes that the intersection of our psychological, emotional, somatic and spiritual dimensions can develop our relationships with our inner and outer worlds and create the changes we want to see in our life. Ido is passionate in supporting individuals to create long term, sustainable change leading to vibrant, authentic, expressive and love filled lives.

    MORE LINKS

    Vetting Your Practitioners: ⁠https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide⁠

    Exhale Femme Retreat:

    https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

  • World renowned meditation teacher, Emily Fletcher joins me to explore how to create a life from the seat of pleasure + desire.

    Emily is the podcast host of the Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? https://link.chtbl.com/whythis, the founder of Ziva, bestselling author, + alchemical teacher teaching her practice the Sacred Secret.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    Manifestation Rituals and the Complexities of Emotional Experience

    Creating Safe Spaces for Authentic Expression and Emotional Alchemy

    Balancing Masculine Energy and Nurturing Inner Growth

    The Growth Edges that come with Publicly Owning your Pleasure

    Integrating Sexuality into Branding: Understanding Audience Dynamics

    Making Esoteric Concepts Accessible: Bridging the Gap to Mainstream Understanding

    Effective Manifestation Practices and Overcoming Common Obstacles

    Understanding the Influence of Consciousness on Manifestation

    Exploring Pleasure Science: Nervous System Health and Well-being

    Manifesting Through Orgasmic States of Consciousness

    Navigating Skepticism and Misconceptions Surrounding Manifestation

    Ancient Fertility Rituals

    Confronting Judgment and Stigma: The Intersection of Spirituality and Experience

    Exploring AI Influence and its Connection to Natural Networks

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    Emily Fletcher is the founder of Ziva and host of the “Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?” podcast. She’s an international speaker whose superpower is making esoteric tools accessible to a mainstream audience, teaching over 50k people meditation and manifesting.

    Emily has spent the past three years creating Sacred Secret, a new movement informed by ancient wisdom and modern science to help you get exactly what you want in life, all by harnessing Embodied Manifesting tools and Emotional Alchemy.

    Free masterclass on the science of Ziva Meditation: ⁠https://zivameditation.com/podcast⁠

    Follow Ziva on Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/zivameditation⁠

    Follow Emily Fletcher on Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/emilystellafletcher⁠

    MORE LINKS

    Emily Fletcher's Podcast:

    https://link.chtbl.com/whythis

    Femme Ketamine Retreat:

    ⁠https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale⁠

    Vetting Your Practitioners: ⁠https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide

  • Relationship & Intimacy Coach Starielle Hope joins me to explore relationships as their own arena for growth. We share practices that you as an individual or you and your beloved can do to recognize + take accountability for your patterns around love.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    Common mistakes people make in relationships + how to solve them

    Reprogramming “the happy ever after” fantasy

    Cultivating high-level relational skills to create soul-fulfilling connections

    Taking self-responsibility for our own patterning and programming

    Strategies to access your unconscious mind and create new belief systems

    Using breath, sound, movement to regulate your nervous system and create healthy attachment patterns

    Unconscious Power dynamics in a relationship -- How to identify them, how to resolve them

    Reciprocity and dynamic polarity in committed relationship

    Sex as a ceremony for transformation, healing + elevation of consciousness

    Starielle’s personal journey of listening to her body to discern aligned relationships

    Somatics/language of the physical body plus parts work to access the unconscious and bring into conscious awareness for behavioral shifts

    Moving sexual energy through the body without penetration or sensation

    How psychedelics can be helpful for couples -- especially for men not conditioned in this society to have a relationship with their emotions.

    Navigating grief while in a relationship -- new or long term.

    MORE LINKS

    Femme Ketamine Retreat:

    https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

    Vetting Your Practitioners: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide

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    Starielle is a Relationship & Intimacy Coach who specializes in working with people who have been successful in their careers but have struggled to find that same level of success in their romantic and personal relationships. She guides them in clearing blocks to intimacy, revealing subconscious patterns that are keeping them from the sex & connections they want to experience, and develop the skills that will enable them to attract world-class partners. She also teaches Emotional Intelligence based Leadership to executive teams to help them work more efficiently and unlock maximum creative and productivity potential. She has a decade of experience studying somatic modalities, Internal Family Systems, sexuality, evolutionary psychology, communication techniques, masculine/feminine energy dynamics and tantra. She holistically teaches skills for deeper intimacy by addressing the emotional, physical, sexual, and spiritual planes to empower her clients to experience new depths of connection in their romantic relationships and broader communities.

  • Named The Corporate Shaman by Forbes Magazine, Flor Bollini is regarded as one of the trailblazers in the plant medicine world.

    Flor joins me to share her Shamanic perspective in the work of psychedelics + sexuality and how we can discern for our own selves what feels right for us.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    The convergence of ancient cultures in relation to psychedelics and sexuality

    Flor's personal journey highlighting the symbiotic relationship between sexuality and psychedelics

    The significance of understanding your sexual energy as a vital life force for overall well-being

    Exploring the shadow aspects of sex and psychedelics, and the consequences of suppressing sexual energy

    Contrasting underground movements with the current Psychedelic Renaissance, empowering individuals to connect with the divine

    The synergy between chemical compounds and the soul of entheogens

    Clinical ketamine therapy infused with ritualistic elements

    Advocating for safety and approaching complex compounds with reverence

    Embracing the role of being your own shaman and embarking on your hero's journey

    Integrating psychedelic experiences and recognizing the potency of microdosing

    Empowering women in the realm of medicine and honoring the Tradition of Priestesses

    Serving others while on the healing path

    Developing the ability to discern between intuition and fear through accessible techniques to enhance intuition

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    Flor Bollini. Pioneer, entrepreneur and medicine woman. Named The Corporate Shaman by Forbes Magazine, Flor is regarded as one of the trailblazers in the plant medicine world. With over a decade of experience pioneering her empathetic, feminine approach to serving and integrating psychoactive medicines, her methods have been adopted by the leaders in the space and have made Flor one of the most respected psycho-spiritual entrepreneurs in the world. Flor is the founder and CEO of NANA Health, first foundational platform for Psychedelic-Initiated Transformative Medicine. She’s also the co-founder of ReWire Therapeutics LTD, a UK biotechnology company that provides the first time released combination drug products in the psychedelic industry.

    MORE LINKS:

    Vetting your practitioners for psychedelics: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide

  • In this episode with Courtney Watson, we talk about how psychedelics can be a powerful tool for personal exploration in identity, pleasure, + resilience.

    She shares about her work with Queer BiPOC , as well as, practices + rituals to access inspiration from ancestral wisdom.

    In this episode, you’ll hear:

    Building resilience strategies amidst complex trauma

    Navigating the repercussions of the pandemic and reclaiming a connection to pleasure

    Courtney's impactful work with Queer BiPOC

    How to create a sex-positive environment and educate children about pleasure

    The significance of intersectionality in therapy, addressing unique challenges in sexual expression and healing

    Empowering individuals to explore their sexual identities for greater self-acceptance

    Broadening understanding about bisexuality and queerness beyond societal norms

    The role of psychedelic therapy, particularly ketamine-assisted therapy, in sex therapy, with a focus on Queer + BIPOC

    Unpacking the concept of energetic sex and embracing our fullest sexual selves through pleasure

    Practices for connecting with ancestral guides and the wisdom they offer

    Tapping into ancestral guidance to navigate sexuality and learn from familial patterns for healing and releasing shame.

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    The dynamic founder of Doorway Therapeutic Services, Courtney, is not just a highly qualified therapist but a passionate advocate for those she serves. Her love for her work is deeply intertwined with her dedication to serving marginalized communities, particularly Black, Indigenous, People of Color, Queer Folx, trans/gnc/non-binary/2 spirit Folx, those exploring non-traditional relationships, and sex workers.

    Courtney’s passion lies in her service to her community and has led her to transform her solo practice into a group practice of predominantly Queer, BIPOC and TGNC providers offering their therapeutic expertise as a beacon of understanding and guidance to the community. Her goal is not just to help but to champion the healing journey of her clients and the professional development of her employees.

    As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, she utilizes her rich educational background to work in tandem with breadth of knowledge that her lived experience provides. Academically speaking, she has a B.S. in Psychology from Xavier University of Louisiana (an HBCU), an M.S. in Marriage and Family Therapy from UNLV, and an M.Ed. in Human Sexuality from Widener University and might finally be finishing her PhD studies in Human Sexuality this fall! Additionally she has trained with MAPS to provide MDMA Assisted Psychotherapy, CIIS to provide Psychedelic Assisted Therapy and Polaris Insight Center to provide Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy. As these medicines are rescheduled by the FDA and available to the public, Doorways will offer psychedelic therapy in addition to the current Ketamine offering now.