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In this gripping episode, Kendall Stulce opens up a powerful, no-holds-barred conversation with writer, advocate, and adoptee Rich Uhrlaub, the creative mind behind For the Records—a bold new musical that brings the haunting truths of adoption to the stage. Set in 1967, Rich’s musical unravels the hidden heartache of the baby scoop era, a time when adoption was shrouded in secrecy, leaving adoptees to grapple with questions about their identities and worth.
The Musical Exposing Adoption’s Darkest SecretsAs a long-time advocate, Rich has fought tirelessly to give adoptees their stories back. Kendall and Rich delve deep into the emotional maze of finding biological family members and the unexpected rejections and heartbreak that can come with it. Together, they lay bare the highs and lows of family reunions, from joyful connections to the painful reality of still feeling like a stranger. This is a story of resilience, raw honesty, and the universal human desire to belong. Don't miss the first of this two-part conversation that is as unforgettable as it is eye-opening.
Key Takeaways:
For the Records: Rich shares the lightning-bolt moment when he knew his story—and the stories of so many adoptees—had to be told on stage. Hear how his powerful musical confronts the unspoken truths of adoption.The Quest for Identity: Kendall and Rich dive into what it’s like to uncover your biological roots, only to face the complex family dynamics and often bittersweet reunions that follow.Fighting for Truth: Rich’s advocacy has helped countless adoptees reclaim their stories, but he reveals the frustrating legal obstacles that still stand in the way for many.Hard Conversations, Real Healing: From the anger of being sidelined in family celebrations to the quiet strength of just showing up, Kendall and Rich get real about what it means to seek answers—and acceptance—without losing yourself in the process.Episode Highlights:
Rich’s Musical Vision - Discover how a hot tub brainstorm led Rich to write For the Records, a musical that lays bare the forgotten voices of the baby scoop era.Adoptees’ ‘Second-Tier’ Status - Kendall and Rich share brutally honest accounts of what it’s like to be viewed as ‘outsiders’ in their own families, even after reconnecting.Confronting the Past, Embracing the Present - The conversation reveals how societal norms have shaped the adoption journey, from legal battles to the internal struggles that adoptees continue to face.The Fight for Every Adoptee’s Right to Know - Rich recounts his work to bring truth to light for adoptees, including groundbreaking legal wins in Colorado that are breaking down barriers for adopted people everywhere.Guest link:
For the Record(s) the musical
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In this special Halloween crossover episode, Corey and Kendall invite listeners into the unique space where family stories and horror healing meet. As the founders of both Family Twist and Horror Heals, Corey and Kendall explore the ways that family traditions, especially around Halloween, can bring people closer together—even in the most unexpected ways.
Our guest, Darin, is a Halloween enthusiast and devoted family man who has woven spooky traditions into his family life. Together, Corey, Kendall, and Darin share memories of haunted houses, eerie movie marathons, and the comforting nostalgia that horror can bring. Corey also opens up about his own childhood experiences and how horror became a source of resilience and connection during challenging times.
Listeners of both Family Twist and Horror Heals will find familiar themes of family bonds, trauma healing, and the unexpected ways horror can play a role in mental wellness. This Halloween, join us as we celebrate the magic that horror and family can create together.
Listen now and get inspired to make this Halloween one to remember, filled with treats, traditions, and a little horror magic!
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In this special crossover bonus episode, we share an insightful conversation from our sister podcast, Horror Heals, where we explore how horror can be a powerful tool for healing trauma. Corey and Kendall dive into Kendall’s adoption journey and DNA found family story, connecting it to the themes of resilience and recovery that often arise in both horror films and real-life experiences.
What Your Therapist Isn’t Telling YouGuest: Dr. Ashley Allen
We’re joined by Dr. Ashley Allen, a licensed clinical psychologist with expertise in mood disorders, PTSD, grief, and trauma. Known for her work with neurodivergent LGBTQ+ individuals, Ashley offers a surprising perspective on how horror films can provide emotional processing, catharsis, and empowerment.
What We Discuss:
Kendall’s adoption story: A personal look at how Kendall’s DNA found family story ties into themes of trauma, discovery, and healing.The link between horror and mental health: How horror can help individuals cope with anxiety, PTSD, and mood disorders by creating a controlled environment for confronting fears.Horror as a therapeutic tool: Why Dr. Ashley Allen introduces horror to her neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ clients to foster resilience and provide a sense of control over their emotions.The inclusive nature of horror conventions: How horror fan communities offer nonjudgmental, safe spaces for those who often feel like outsiders.Facing fears through film: Exploring how horror allows both therapists and clients to tackle real-life challenges by building resilience through fictional fear.Key Takeaways:
Horror movies can offer a unique therapeutic experience, allowing people to process trauma and gain control over their emotions in a safe way.The horror community often serves as an inclusive, accepting space for neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ individuals to connect with others and find empowerment.By confronting fictional fears, people can build resilience and emotional strength that helps them tackle real-life challenges.Quotes from Dr. Ashley Allen:
"For those with trauma or mood disorders, horror offers a controlled way to confront overwhelming emotions.""Horror creates a safe space for fear—perfect for my neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ clients to find empowerment and relief.""Even therapists sometimes need an escape; for me, horror provides that in the most cathartic way."Listen to the Full Episode:
If you’re curious about how horror can unlock new paths to healing, don’t miss this powerful conversation. Tune in to learn how fictional fear can transform into real-life resilience. And be sure to check out more episodes from Horror Heals for similar stories of healing through horror.
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In Part 2 of our heartfelt conversation with Cree filmmaker, Kristal Parke, we explore her journey of reconnecting with her Opaskwayak Cree Nation roots and her Sicilian heritage. From embracing her Indigenous identity to the emotional weight of her birth family reunion, Kristal reflects on how her documentary, Because She’s Adopted, has helped her and others process the deep impacts of adoption. Join us as we dive into the transformative power of heritage and family bonds.
Discovering Roots in Sicily and Indigenous HeritageKey Moments:
• Revisiting Sicily and the Opaskwayak Cree Nation: Kristal’s feeling of “coming home.”
• Cultural and personal growth: What it means to be adopted and indigenous.
• The making of Because She’s Adopted and its continued healing impact.
• Reflections on family, self-compassion, and emotional honesty.
Guest links:
Kristal's website
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In this powerful episode of Family Twist, Corey and Kendall Stulce sit down with Cree filmmaker and adoptee, Kristal Parke, to discuss her impactful documentary Because She’s Adopted. Kristal’s film dives deep into the complex emotional landscape of adoption, exploring themes like the primal wound, hidden trauma, and how adoptees often navigate identity challenges and mask their pain.
Kristal shares her journey of meeting her birth mother—an experience that profoundly shaped her sense of self. Corey and Kendall, who have had their own transformative reunion experiences, explore these themes with Kristal, discussing the intricate ways family, whether by blood or bond, influences identity. Kristal also offers a glimpse into her upcoming six-part podcast series, Because She’s Adopted, which promises to take listeners even deeper into the topics of her documentary.
This episode offers insightful perspectives on adoption’s impact on identity and the journey toward healing, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in family dynamics, belonging, and self-discovery.
Key Talking Points:Introduction to Kristal Parke and Her Documentary: Overview of Because She’s Adopted and Kristal’s experiences as a filmmaker and adoptee.The Primal Wound and Hidden Trauma: Exploring how early separation and loss impact adoptees, often resulting in a lifelong sense of “otherness.”Kristal’s Reunion with Her Birth Mother: A moving recount of her reunion and the significance of this experience in her life.Adoption, Identity, and Healing: Insights on the complex ways adoption affects one’s identity, the trauma adoptees often carry, and the healing journey.Kristal’s Upcoming Podcast, Because She’s Adopted: Preview of her limited-series podcast, a deep dive into the documentary’s central themes.Corey and Kendall’s Personal Reflections on Adoption: Their own family stories, reunions, and the ways adoption has shaped their lives.Embracing Cultural Heritage and Identity: Kristal’s journey in reconnecting with her Cree heritage and Sicilian family, along with Kendall’s discovery of his Irish roots.Family Reunions and Self-Discovery: The experiences of meeting birth family members, embracing cultural roots, and finding a deeper understanding of self.
Memorable Quotes:“There’s this nagging feeling adoptees have that you can’t put your finger on—it’s the trauma, the separation trauma.” — Kristal Parke“Meeting my birth mother was a profound moment. I never expected the overwhelming emotions that would follow me for years.” — Kristal Parke“Every adoptee’s story is different, but somehow they’re all the same, too. There’s an unspoken bond in shared experiences of separation and healing.” — Corey StulceGuest links:
Kristal's website
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In this episode of Family Twist, Corey and Kendall Austin Stulce reflect on their Halloween experiences growing up, contrasting their childhood traditions and the cultural perceptions of Halloween. They delve into the significance of community and identity, particularly in relation to donor conception and adoption. The conversation also explores the positive impact of horror culture on mental wellness, emphasizing the importance of sharing personal stories and experiences.
Support Lauren LoGuidice’s short film "Honestly" via Seed & Spark
Takeaways
Halloween was a fun and creative time for Kendall's family.
Corey's parents straddled the line between fun and conservative values.
Trick or treating was a strategic event in Kendall's childhood.
Generational differences in Halloween celebrations are notable.
Horror culture can provide a sense of community and belonging.
The importance of embracing one's identity is highlighted.
Mental wellness can be positively influenced by horror movies.
Sharing personal stories can help others heal from trauma.
The podcast aims to connect with more guests who have unique stories.
Community support is vital for those with adoption or donor conception experiences.
Key Topics Discussed:
Kendall’s unique Southern Baptist Halloween experiences growing up with his adoptive parentsCorey and Kendall’s first Halloween together as a couple, dressed in Rocky Horror Picture Show costumesA fan's personal story of using horror movies to cope with traumaReflections on family trauma, including Kendall’s father’s alcoholismSupport for past guest Lauren Lowe’s donor conception short film projectCrossover themes between Family Twist and Horror Heals podcasts
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In this episode of Family Twist, Corey and Kendall Stulce sit down with David to explore the profound and raw themes of relinquishment, addiction, and healing. The conversation starts with an intriguing discussion about the Blue Mind movement, the scientifically backed benefits of water for mental health. David shares how being near water has become a personal meditative tool that helps him stay grounded in a chaotic world.
Relinquishment, Addiction, and the Healing Power of WaterAs the episode unfolds, David opens up about his own adoption experience, the complex emotions around relinquishment, and how discovering the term “primal wound” helped him better understand the trauma associated with being an adoptee. Corey and Kendall reflect on similar experiences, making this conversation deeply personal and emotional.
The episode also delves into David's struggles with addiction and how it began as a means of self-medication for the pain he couldn’t fully articulate. His raw account of navigating through trauma, rejection, and the search for identity will resonate with many in the adoption and recovery communities.
Key topics include:
Blue Mind: The healing power of water and its meditative qualities.The primal wound: Understanding pre-verbal trauma in adoptees.Relinquishment and its impact on identity and attachment.Addiction as a coping mechanism for trauma.The journey of self-discovery and healing through recovery.
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Hello, friends! Kendall and Corey launch their new podcast, Horror Heals, today, and we wanted to share one of the first episodes with you. If you like, please share, subscribe and review.
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In this compelling episode of the Family Twist podcast,
Corey and Kendall Stulce sit down with Lezlee, author of If You Only Knew:
Navigating DNA Surprises and the NPE World. Lezlee shares her deeply
personal story of uncovering a life-changing truth about her biological father
through a decade-long journey of DNA testing and family revelations. She
candidly discusses the emotional turmoil, the impact of long-kept family secrets,
and the complex relationships that ensued. Lezlee also highlights the importance
of community and support in navigating the NPE (Not Parent Expected)
experience, offering insights and advice to others who might be on a similar
path. This episode is part one of a two-part series, exploring the intricacies of family, identity, and the quest for truth.
If You Only Knew: Navigating DNA Surprises and the NPE WorldKey Topics Discussed:
Lezlee’s journey of discovery and the significance of the phrase, “If you only knew.”The emotional impact of discovering the truth about her biological father.The role of DNA testing in uncovering family secrets.The complex relationships with her birth certificate father, biological father, and extended family.The challenges and emotional toll of confronting family members and dealing with denial.The importance of community, support, and sharing stories in the NPE experience.The impact of losing key family members who held valuable pieces of her history.Notable Quotes:
“We’re just the product of this situation. We didn’t ask for this to happen.”“Blood is not thicker than water; we choose our family through love and connection.”“It’s a race against time—knowing your past is your right.”Resources Mentioned:
Lezlee's book: If You Only Knew: Navigating DNA Surprises and the NPE WorldNPE community resources and support groups
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In this compelling episode of the Family Twist podcast,
Corey and Kendall Stulce sit down with Lezlee, author of If You Only Knew:
Navigating DNA Surprises and the NPE World. Lezlee shares her deeply
personal story of uncovering a life-changing truth about her biological father
through a decade-long journey of DNA testing and family revelations. She
candidly discusses the emotional turmoil, the impact of long-kept family secrets,
and the complex relationships that ensued. Lezlee also highlights the importance
of community and support in navigating the NPE (Not Parent Expected)
experience, offering insights and advice to others who might be on a similar
path. This episode is part one of a two-part series, exploring the intricacies of family, identity, and the quest for truth.
If You Only Knew: Navigating DNA Surprises and the NPE WorldKey Topics Discussed:
Lezlee’s journey of discovery and the significance of the phrase, “If you only knew.”The emotional impact of discovering the truth about her biological father.The role of DNA testing in uncovering family secrets.The complex relationships with her birth certificate father, biological father, and extended family.The challenges and emotional toll of confronting family members and dealing with denial.The importance of community, support, and sharing stories in the NPE experience.The impact of losing key family members who held valuable pieces of her history.Notable Quotes:
“We’re just the product of this situation. We didn’t ask for this to happen.”“Blood is not thicker than water; we choose our family through love and connection.”“It’s a race against time—knowing your past is your right.”Resources Mentioned:
Lezlee's book: If You Only Knew: Navigating DNA Surprises and the NPE WorldNPE community resources and support groupsPart Two Teaser: Stay tuned for the next episode where Lezlee dives deeper into the challenges of connecting with her biological father's family and how she found healing through community and storytelling.
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In this episode of the Family Twist podcast, Kendall takes the reins as he engages in a heartfelt conversation with fellow adoptee, Greg Gentry. The two discuss their adoption experiences, touching on the challenges of reunion with biological families, the emotional impact of discovering one’s adoption later in life, and the ongoing journey of healing and understanding. Kendall and Greg find common ground in their stories, offering insights into the complexities of adoption and reunion, as well as the importance of grace and patience in these deeply personal journeys.
Challenging the Concept of Anonymity in AdoptionMain Topics, Points, and IdeasGreg's Adoption DiscoveryGreg shares his experience of learning about his adoption at age 10, describing how it was a sudden and life-altering moment.He reflects on the shift in his relationships with his adoptive family after this discovery, noting a sense of disconnection that persisted throughout his life."I remember my whole world shifting, feeling it shift, feeling my connection with my adoptive sisters shift." – Greg Gentry
Closed Adoption and the Search for IdentityGreg discusses the challenges of being adopted in a closed adoption system, including the difficulties in accessing his birth records and non-identifying information.Despite being in partial reunion, Greg still struggles with feelings of exclusion and the emotional barriers that exist between him and his biological mother."Even as an adoptee out of the fog, I feel like it would be a hurtful situation to ask for my own information, which is unfortunate." – Greg Gentry
The Impact of Reunion on RelationshipsBoth Greg and Kendall explore the emotional complexities of reuniting with their biological families. Greg speaks candidly about the difficulties he’s faced in maintaining a relationship with his birth mother, who has yet to fully embrace him.Kendall shares his own experiences of reunion, reflecting on the stark differences between his adoptive family's close-knit nature and the more distant relationships he has with his biological relatives."It's almost like I was just late to the party. And so now I'm supposed to go stand in the corner." – Greg Gentry
The Emotional Toll of Adoption and ReunionThe episode delves into the emotional toll that adoption and reunion can take on adoptees, particularly when expectations are not met, and relationships remain strained.Greg expresses his frustration with the lack of connection and the ongoing struggle to feel validated by his birth family."It can make a person feel like they doubt the worthiness of their own existence. Do I have a right to be here?" – Greg Gentry
Finding Grace and HealingKendall emphasizes the importance of finding grace and understanding in these difficult situations, recognizing that everyone involved carries their own emotional burdens.The conversation highlights the need for patience and self-care as both Kendall and Greg continue to navigate their complex family dynamics."I need to continue to find grace for others because I get so caught up in my own story that I don't stop and think." – Kendall Stulce
Looking ForwardThe episode closes with both Kendall and Greg expressing hope for the future, acknowledging the challenges ahead but also the potential for growth and healing.Kendall invites Greg to return to the podcast in the future to update listeners on how his journey progresses."Thank you so much for joining me. And again, I'd like to have you back on and talk about things that have progressed." – Kendall Stulce
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In part two of this conversation, Kendall Stulce and guest, Lori Evans Ermi, discuss their experiences with adoption and the importance of community and education. They share their personal stories of reunion and the challenges and joys that come with it. They also touch on the need for adoptees to be seen and recognized, and the importance of understanding and respecting different perspectives within the adoption community. The conversation concludes with a discussion about their upcoming podcast and the power of music in connecting with others.
Adoption Songs Part TwoTakeaways
Adoption can bring both challenges and joys, and it's important to recognize and respect the different experiences and perspectives within the adoption community.
Adoptees have a deep desire to be seen and recognized, and it's important to ask adoptees about their experiences and listen to their stories.
Community and education are crucial in supporting adoptees and creating a more understanding and inclusive society.
Music can be a powerful tool for connecting with others and expressing emotions related to adoption.
Reunion can be a complex and ongoing process, and it's important to approach it with caution and respect for everyone involved.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Personal Adoption Stories
09:26 The Importance of Community and Education
13:47 The Power of Music in Adoption
16:55 Understanding and Respecting Different Perspectives
21:13 The Complexities of Reunion in Adoption
Lori's site, Adoption Songs
Guest bio: Lori Evans Ermi is a domestic, baby scoop era adoptee and lives in the Washington, DC suburbs of Maryland with her daughter Kate, and loyal pup Oreo. She enjoys golf, theater, music and wine country. Lori is the founder and Managing Director of The Ermi Group, LLC, a leadership coaching and development firm.
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In this episode of Family Twist, Lori shares her extraordinary journey of adoption, intertwined with her love for music and family dynamics. Lori recalls her experiences and mesmerizes with stories about her daughter, an adoptee and a gifted singer who deeply contributed to her book's unique concept of pairing adoption stories with songs. Lori also discusses how music has been a healing force through life's challenges, such as her divorce and navigating adoption trauma. The episode beautifully weaves through personal anecdotes, heartfelt discussions on family relationships, and the therapeutic power of music, highlighting the profound connections and struggles inherent in the adoption journey.
Adoption Songs Part 100:00 Introduction and Summit Experience
00:45 The Musical Inspiration Behind the Book
02:05 Vinyl Collection and Family Music Traditions
03:34 Personal Stories and Adoption Journey
06:12 Navigating Adoption and Personal Growth
14:08 Adoption Decision and Signs
17:07 The Adoption Process and Final Thoughts
Lori's site, Adoption Songs
Guest bio: Lori Evans Ermi is a domestic, baby scoop era adoptee and lives in the Washington, DC suburbs of Maryland with her daughter Kate, and loyal pup Oreo. She enjoys golf, theater, music and wine country. Lori is the founder and Managing Director of The Ermi Group, LLC, a leadership coaching and development firm.
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Twists of Fate: Diana's Journey of Identity and Family Secrets
In this episode, Diana shares her astonishing journey of discovering her true origins. Born in Montreal instead of Manhattan, through a black market network involving baby smugglers, doctors, and illegal maternity homes, Diana unravels her past over 29 years. Exploring themes of identity crisis, familial bonds, and the determination to uncover hidden truths, Diana's story reveals complex family dynamics and her struggle to find answers amid personal loss and trauma. Through DNA testing and persistent research, she finally pieces together her mother's untold story and the secrets of her heritage.
00:00 Meet Gatsby the Cat
00:26 Beach Days and Crowded Shores
01:01 Swimming and Scoliosis
01:23 Therapeutic Beach Visits
02:00 Introduction to the Show
02:07 The Black Market Baby Era
02:26 Discovering the Truth
04:38 The Adoption Mystery
05:23 Identity Crisis and Family Secrets
09:39 Meeting Biological Family
11:32 The Search for Birth Parents
14:31 Uncovering Family History
21:42 Connecting with Biological Relatives
27:02 A Journey to Canada
37:33 Family Background and Early Memories
38:37 Suspicion and Unanswered Questions
39:33 Connecting with Family and Facing Rejection
40:19 Discovering Mother's Past and Media Sensationalism
41:05 A Mysterious Photograph and Family Secrets
42:58 Reconnecting and Facing Threats
44:28 A Renewed Search for Answers
45:42 Uncovering Hidden Truths
48:46 A Strange Encounter and New Leads
01:03:43 DNA Testing and Final Discoveries
01:06:50 Reflections and Moving Forward
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Twists of Fate: Diana's Journey of Identity and Family Secrets
In this episode, Diana shares her astonishing journey of discovering her true origins. Born in Montreal instead of Manhattan, through a black market network involving baby smugglers, doctors, and illegal maternity homes, Diana unravels her past over 29 years. Exploring themes of identity crisis, familial bonds, and the determination to uncover hidden truths, Diana's story reveals complex family dynamics and her struggle to find answers amid personal loss and trauma. Through DNA testing and persistent research, she finally pieces together her mother's untold story and the secrets of her heritage.
00:00 Meet Gatsby the Cat
00:26 Beach Days and Crowded Shores
01:01 Swimming and Scoliosis
01:23 Therapeutic Beach Visits
02:00 Introduction to the Show
02:07 The Black Market Baby Era
02:26 Discovering the Truth
04:38 The Adoption Mystery
05:23 Identity Crisis and Family Secrets
09:39 Meeting Biological Family
11:32 The Search for Birth Parents
14:31 Uncovering Family History
21:42 Connecting with Biological Relatives
27:02 A Journey to Canada
37:33 Family Background and Early Memories
38:37 Suspicion and Unanswered Questions
39:33 Connecting with Family and Facing Rejection
40:19 Discovering Mother's Past and Media Sensationalism
41:05 A Mysterious Photograph and Family Secrets
42:58 Reconnecting and Facing Threats
44:28 A Renewed Search for Answers
45:42 Uncovering Hidden Truths
48:46 A Strange Encounter and New Leads
01:03:43 DNA Testing and Final Discoveries
01:06:50 Reflections and Moving Forward
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How does growing up as an Asian adoptee in a white family influence mental health and identity?
This episode delves into Joey's personal story of being a Japanese adoptee raised by a white woman, exploring how his experiences with identity, trauma, and belonging led him down a path of drug use and self-harm. Joey and Beth share their candid journey through various healing pathways, offering valuable insights for families navigating similar challenges.
Adoption and Identity: A Path from Self-Harm to Self-HealingMain BenefitsUnderstand the unique struggles faced by transracial adoptees and their families.Learn about the signs of inner child trauma and its potential impacts on mental health.Discover diverse and effective healing methods, including traditional therapy, life coaching, and alternative approaches like psychedelics and EMDR.Guest source: UnravelingAdoption.com
Guest bio:
Beth Syverson is an adoptive mom, wife, musician, and as of 2021 a podcaster, activist, and public speaker.
Since 2019, her son Joey has struggled with addiction to substances plus serious mental health issues. For the first year of that roller coaster ride, she and Joey were both derailed. Beth tried to “fix” Joey, and her Supermom cape was tied on tight. But when nothing worked to “fix” him, she sought help for herself, which improved her own life and also her relationship to her wife Jan and to Joey.
She and Joey created Safe Home Podcast in August 2021, with the purpose of helping other families avoid some of the pain we’ve experienced.
Beth adopted Joey from Japan when he was 7-1/2 months old. She now realizes that his relinquishment trauma is one of the core issues that causes him to seek substances. Beth is a leader for other adoptive parents who are coming “out of the fog” and realizing that the adoption that created their family also created trauma for their child.
In September 2022, she created a free support group for adoptive parents called APtitude, and in August 2023, she became a certified coach through the Virginia Satir Global Network so she can help more adoptive parents and others who are struggling.
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How does the journey of seeking one’s birth parents unfold in real life, with all its emotional complexities?
For many, the decision to seek out biological roots is driven by a deep need for connection and identity. However, this journey can surface unexpected emotional challenges, from rejection to surprising familial revelations, as Kendall and our guest, Jean Widner discuss.
Positive Reunions and Painful RejectionsBenefits Listeners Will Gain:
Firsthand accounts of the emotional impact of seeking and sometimes finding birth parents, illustrating the dual possibilities of healing and hurt.
Perspectives on how individuals cope with the varied outcomes of adoption searches, providing potential strategies for others in similar situations.
An exploration of the support systems and psychological resources that can aid in navigating the often tumultuous process of familial discovery.
Join Kendall and Jean as they share their heartfelt experiences of pain, trauma, and healing on their quests to uncover their origins.Guest bio:
Jean Widner was born at the Salvation Army Booth Memorial Hospital for Unwed Mothers in Spokane, Washington. She graduated from Central Washington University in 1987 with a double Bachelor of Science Degree in Fashion Merchandising.
With a background in retail, Jean owned two successful e-commerce retail companies, which she sold to pursue her passion for writing and living a larger purpose than just selling ‘stuff’. Widner amplified her e-commerce knowledge and created an online content and marketing services company while also developing BoulderCity.com, a social-based website that is Southern Nevada’s prominent small-town news source.
Developing her reporting skillset paired with her love for writing and creative content creation, Jean quickly became the “go-to” source with BoulderCity.com for news verification relating to government affairs, public interest stories, and special events within Boulder City, Nevada. Additionally, she launched a local authors series which fosters a publicity platform for independent books.
She currently lives in Boulder City, NV, when she is not traveling with the love of her life and her two golden retrievers. Further, her ambitions have left her with a love for education. She aims to share her expertise in marketing with other local entrepreneurs wherever possible and apply those same skills into the marketing of this project.
While Jean is now a seasoned media member, her book “The Adoption Paradox: Stories of Loss, Love, and Healing Told by Adoptees, Parents, and Birthparents” will be her debut piece.
She is currently a member of the Boulder City Sunrise Rotary, Lions Clubs International, Boulder Business Development, Boulder City Chamber of Commerce, Henderson Writers Group, and Southern Nevada Writers Group.
Book link: The Adoption Paradox: Stories of Loss, Love, and Healing Told by Adoptees, Parents, and Birthparents
Untangling Our Roots Summit
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In this conversation, Corey Stulce interviews Jordan Elizabeth Braxton about her transition journey and her experiences as an intersex woman. Jordan shares her realization of being female from a young age and her decision to transition later in life. She discusses the challenges she faced, including societal expectations and anti-LGBTQ laws. Jordan also talks about her involvement in the drag community and her drag alter ego, Dyetta Pepsi. Throughout the conversation, she emphasizes the importance of acceptance, unconditional love, and the need for accurate information about transgender and intersex experiences. Jordan's transition from male to female at the age of 55 was met with acceptance and support from her family, friends, and colleagues. She emphasizes the importance of not taking no for an answer and pursuing what makes you happy. Jordan shares her experiences of being an activist, competing in pageants, and performing as a drag queen. She also discusses her gender affirming surgery and the joy and fulfillment she has found in her life. The conversation highlights the themes of acceptance, resilience, and self-discovery.
A Journey of Self-Discovery and TransitionTakeaways
Transitioning is a personal journey that varies for each individual, and it often involves coming out socially, medically, and professionally.Acceptance and support from family and friends can make a significant difference in a person's transition experience.Drag queens have played a vital role in the LGBTQ community, providing entertainment, support, and visibility.Misinformation and discrimination against transgender and intersex individuals persist, highlighting the need for education and advocacy.Giving back to the community and advocating for LGBTQ rights are essential aspects of creating a more inclusive society. Don't take no for an answer and pursue what makes you happyAcceptance and support from family, friends, and colleagues can make a big difference in a person's transitionBeing an activist and participating in pageants and drag performances can empower and educate othersGender affirming surgery can bring immense joy and fulfillmentResilience and self-discovery are key in navigating life's challenges
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Have you ever felt like you were hiding behind a mask, both personally and professionally?
Comedian Lauren shares her DNA surprise and the realization that she has been hiding behind masks, both personally and professionally. She reflects on her journey of self-discovery and the impact it has had on her stand-up comedy. The conversation explores the challenges of growing up in an Italian Catholic family and the shame and secrecy surrounding sperm donation. Lauren discusses the importance of authenticity and finding her voice on stage. The transition into her 40s has allowed her to trust herself more and make decisions that align with her true self.
Pod Swap with Forty DrinksTakeaways
The journey of self-discovery can lead to a deeper understanding of one's true self and the ability to be more authentic.
Growing up in a culture of shame and secrecy can have a profound impact on one's sense of identity and belonging.
The transition into one's 40s can be a time of reflection and reevaluation, leading to a greater focus on personal fulfillment and authenticity.
Trusting oneself and making decisions that align with one's true self can lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
Authenticity and vulnerability are key in finding one's voice and connecting with others.
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