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  • Hi friends! Today’s episode is quite different. Rather than an interview, this is me giving you a real-time update of my grief journey right after hearing some very important news about the man responsible for my friend Lauren’s death. This is sort of a Part 2 to episode 68 (My friend’s death is part of a True Crime. Can I talk about it?), though you don’t have to listen to that one for this one to make sense. I go into the crime in a bit more detail in this episode, so it could be triggering or upsetting.

    TRIGGER WARNING: sexual assault and rape.

    Today I talk about:

    Gratuitous versus conscientious true crime The pursuit of justice The complexity of grief intertwined with rage Forgiveness is a personal journey Finding hope in justice What happens after justice? Where do I put my grief?

    Resources:

    https://grief.com/resources/

    If you or anyone you know is struggling, you can also reach out to the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, 988.

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  • Today I chat with Rebecca Feinglos, grief expert and founderof Grieve Leave. Rebecca is a certified grief support specialist, startup founder, and former state and local policy advisor. Rebecca founded Grieve Leave in 2021 as a way to document her experience on a year-long grief sabbatical, and process her own grief and loss— she lost her mother in her teens, her father suddenly in 2020, and her marriage in a drawn-out divorce. Grieve Leave has grown into a global community of 30,000 with online reach well into the millions that provides tangible takeaways, resources, and a healthy dose of humor, creating an entire movement around taking intentional time to grieve.

    Rebecca and I chat about:

    How friend-loss is a disenfranchised grief, andhow that affects our grieving process Rebecca’s dear friend Courtney, who died 3 weeksbefore recording this episode – the complexity of the grief, Courtney’s celebration of life, and more The state of bereavement leave in workplaces (spoiler alert: it’s not great), and how it could be better If you’re unsure whether or not you should attend the funeral – attend the funeral! Grief is not logical The limit to grief (and love) do not exist! How grief can coexist with joy And more!

    Resources:

    To get in touch with Rebecca or learn more about her, checkout her website, podcast, and socials!

    Website: Grieveleave.com

    Podcast: Grief'd Up The Podcast

    Socials: @grieveleave

    Rebecca’s book recommendation:

    Grief is Love by Marisa Renee Lee

    Some of my fave quotes from this episode:

    “Grief will suffocate you if you don't make room for it.”

    “We need more grief-informed workplaces.”

    “Grief and love are totally intertwined.”

    “Always go to the funeral.”

    “Grief isn't logical.”

    “Your grief is valid, no matter the relationship.”

    “The limit to grief does not exist.” (catch the Mean Girlsreference here?)

    “A life well lived is full of grief.”

    “You have built close relationships with people if you are grieving.”

    “The grief that we feel is totally parallel to the amount ofjoy we’ve experienced in our lives.”

    Get in touch:

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  • Today’s episode is all about friendships. I talk to my guest Sydney about the book “Text Me When You Get Home: The Evolution and Triumph of Modern Female Friendship” by Kayleen Schaefer. This book includes history, sociological perspectives, research, and more, about how female friendships have evolved and changed over the years. (Surprise surprise, the Patriarchy has impacted how female friendships have been treated throughout history. So, yeah -- some of the history might make you mad
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    Sydney and I chat about:

    How friendships have been valued differently over the years The “tend and befriend” response to stress How there’s so much focus on one friend or partner being your “everything” How friendships are portrayed in the media How throughout history, classical philosophers and religious leaders told women to not befriend or trust other women (ugh!!) And more!

    Resources:

    Read “Text Me When You Get Home” by Kayleen Schaefer: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/35268117-text-me-when-you-get-home

    Get in touch:

    Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If youenjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review—it’s so appreciated, and it helps the podcast reach more listeners!

    If you’re interested in being a part of a friend-loss griefgroup, fill out the interest form at friendsmissingfriends.com/griefgroup

    Email: [email protected]

    Instagram: @friendsmissingfriends

    Website: friendsmissingfriends.com

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  • Today it’s just me, thinking out loud about something I’ve been grappling with for a while: if my friend died in a situation that is now a True Crime, can I talk about it?

    I speak about this struggle, and also what I learned in Lilly Dancyger's essay collection "First Love" about how to engage in conscientious, rather than gratuitous, True-Crime.

    Resources:

    Read “The Hot One” by Carolyn Murnick: https://www.carolynmurnick.com/the-hot-one

    Read “First Love” by Lilly Dancyger: https://www.lillydancyger.com/books

    Get in touch:

    Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review—it’s so appreciated, and it helps the podcast reach more listeners!

    If you’re interested in being a part of a friend-grief group, fill out the interest form at friendsmissingfriends.com/griefgroup

    Email: [email protected]

    Instagram: @friendsmissingfriends

    Website: friendsmissingfriends.com

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  • Today we’re hearing from Ariel, a listener who shares her story of grieving a friend she was disconnected from at the time of their death. It’s so important to talk about this, and I don’t think we talk about it enough.

    Thank you so much, Ariel, for reaching out and sharing your story.

    Resources:

    If you’re interested in being a part of a friend-grief group, fill out the interest form at friendsmissingfriends.com/griefgroup

    Get in touch:

    Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review—it’s so appreciated, and it helps the podcast reach more listeners!

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  • How do you process your grief when an ex-friend has passed away?

    Today I talk to Alex Kuisis about the complicated and messy grief that can come after an ex-friend’s death – in her case, the death of a friend who had majorly betrayed her—falsely accusing her of 7 felonies she did not commit (which she details in her memoir Truth Matters, Love Wins).

    Alex describes the complex tangle of feelings that came with this kind of loss, and how she chooses to focus on the happy memories, rather than the bad. We also talk about signs from loved ones who have passed, deciding how we want to remember someone, assigning meaning in our life, and more.

    I want to mention too, that grieving a former friend/ex friend/distanced friend, whatever you want to call it—can look a million different ways. Alex’s experience might be very different from yours—and both are valid. We all grieve in different colors and shades. It’s the beauty of the universality and also the complexity of the human experience.

    If you haven’t already, listen to my other episode with Alex (Episode 5: My Best Friend Katie). You can learn more about Alex at www.goaskalex.org

    Resources:

    Get your copy of Alex Kuisis’ book Truth Matters, Love Wins at https://www.goaskalex.org/truthmatterslovewins.html

    Get in touch:

    Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review—it’s so appreciated, and it helps the podcast reach more listeners!

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  • So you’ve sent flowers and cards to the bereaved, andattended the funeral. Now what?

    If you’ve ever wondered how to support your loved ones who are grieving – far beyond the initial weeks of grief – you don’t want to miss this episode. My conversation today is with author and psychotherapist Aly Bird about her book Grief Ally, which teaches us how to support the bereaved.

    We talk about:

    Her book Grief Ally and how to support the bereaved How to use love languages in your support Supporting the bereaved WILL involve making mistakes and that’s okay! Secondary losses And more

    Aly Bird is a Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying) who is changing the way our culture recognizes and supports those who are grieving. Aly is the author of Grief Ally: Helping People You Love to Cope with Death, Loss, and Grief.

    Beyond writing, Aly offers virtual therapy and coaching to youth and adults in advance of death or after as well as supporting individuals who are actively dying themselves. Aly is also a speaker who is passionate about teaching beginners that grief is unique to every individual, natural to being a human being, and deserving of more attention than is usually given in the world today.

    To learn more about Aly, visit www.alybird.com

    Connect with Aly on social media @thealybird

    Join her Facebook Group Grief Ally Nation: https://www.facebook.com/groups/880590376440855/

    Resources:

    Get your copy of Aly Bird’s book Grief Ally at https://alybird.com/book/

    Get in touch:

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  • Today I talk to Jenna Golias, the founder of The Light Hereafter. She is a Registered Nurse, End of Life Doula, Grief Educator, and Energy Practitioner. Her mission is to not only change how we provide end of life care, but to create a world where we no longer fear the end of it. Providing mind, body, and soul support at the end of life, she is dedicated to making the transition one of comfort and peace.

    You can learn more about Jenna here:

    IG: @thelighthereafter

    Website: https://www.thelighthereafter.com/

    On today's episode, Jenna and I talk about the work she does as an End of Life Doula (which is another word for Death Doula), how our society deals with grief, how grief has affected how we approach life, and so much more.

    We also talk about:

    how our attachment style affects our grief how regularly thinking about death and mortality can increase happiness living in the present moment what our End of Life plans would be and more!

    Resources:

    Find out more about End of Life Doulas here: https://inelda.org/

    Find an End of Life Doula near you: https://inelda.org/find-a-doula/

    Get in touch:

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    You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip on the Spotify for Podcasts page https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/friendsmissingfriends, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

  • Today I talk to Rob Farquhar, a Sydney voiceover talent and podcaster. If you haven’t already, you’ll want to check out my previous conversation with Rob in Episode 59: Life’s Too Short to Rush. In that episode, Rob was getting ready to make a big move across the country, and we talked about what it looks like to redesign your life, friendships, and relationships after a major loss.

    Today’s episode was recorded one year after Episode 59, and we talk about how his big move went, how he’s been redesigning his life, what it’s like to build a community of new friends, and so much more.

    We also talk about:

    defining friendships in a way that works for you the idea of friends being equally as important as romantic partners, rather than a hierarchy self-care and self-reflection life transitions (and walking towards something rather than running away) living a life outside of society’s expectations of marriage and nuclear families

    You can learn more about Rob here:

    http://www.robf.com.au/

    https://www.facebook.com/RadioRobVO/

    Twitter/Instagram: @gmradiorob

    Facebook: Rob.Farquhar

    Get in touch:

    Thank you for listening to Friends Missing Friends. If you enjoyed it, please follow/subscribe, leave stars and a review – it’s so appreciated!

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  • Today I talk all about dreams with Alejandro Salinas, including:

    Dreams we’ve had about dead loved ones Connecting with our dead loved ones How dreams help us to process emotions Lucid dreaming And more!

    Alejandro is one of the co-founders and current president of the Chicago Death Doula Collective, a non-profit collective dedicated to providing support, advocacy, education, and care around death and dying in Chicago. It was formed in 2020 not long after the death of his father. He has hosted death cafés for 6 years and has recently created The Coffin Cards, a deck of 115 questions about death, dying, and grief, and The Coffin Cards Podcast to have even more conversations on the topic with various guests. He fronts the Chicano goth rock / post punk band Grave Love. He teaches yoga twice a week at Chi Yoga Shack, practices massage, and is a former teacher at The Soma Institute. He previously co-hosted The Dream Freaks podcast with Tree Carr and Jennifer Claroscura.

    Check out the Chicago Death Doula Collective here: https://www.chicagodeathdoulacollective.com/

    Check out The Coffin Cards here: https://www.thecoffincards.com/

    Listen to The Coffin Cards podcasthere: https://open.spotify.com/show/2qbCOZBv0Iz2JBXKwJDl8E?si=fed7283b70494b37&utm_medium=share&utm_source=linktree&nd=1&dlsi=c98b898b6b324204

    Follow the band Grave Love @grave_love_band

    Resources:

    The list of books Alejandro recommended:

    The Toltec Secret: Dreaming Practices of the Ancient Mexicans: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/21535017-the-toltec-secret

    The Art of Dreaming: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/12847.The_Art_of_Dreaming

    Lucid Dreaming: Gateway to the Inner Self:

    https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4803306-lucid-dreaming

    Dreaming through Darkness: Shine Light into the Shadow to Live the Life of Your Dreams: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/34196974-dreaming-through-darkness

    Man’s Search for Meaning: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4069.Man_s_Search_for_Meaning

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  • If you're looking for a film about friendship and grief, look no further! Dan Levy's 2023 film Good Grief is about a man mourning the loss of his husband as his two best friends help him on his journey of grief.

    (SPOILER alert: I don't give away juicy details but I do discuss the main character's emotional arc related plot points -- if you don't like to know anything before a film then just be aware!)

    I also talk about how the movie acknowledges the nuances and complexity of grief, the realities of supporting a grieving person, some of my favorite quotes, and more!

    Do I recommend the film? Yes! Maybe just grab some tissues first.

    Get in touch:

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  • Today I talk to Sydney Bauer about what it’s like to grieve a friend who’s still alive. When she was in high school, her best friend of 9 years abruptly ended their friendship, leaving her reeling. We talk about what that’s like, including:

    How grief isn’t just mourning the past, but the future too The importance of friendships The long-term effects of losing your best friend at such an impressionable age How to set healthy boundaries And more!

    Get in touch:

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    You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

  • Today I talk to Rob Farquhar, a Sydney voiceover talent and podcaster, about redesigning his life after a major loss.

    After the loss of his wife of eighteen years, Rob is moving back to be closer to his longtime friends. We talk about adult friendships, making big life changes after loss, and how the good stuff’s on the other side of fear. And a lot of that requires patience, not rushing the grieving or building of new relationships, and better getting to know ourselves and what we really want.

    You can learn more about Rob here:

    http://www.robf.com.au/

    https://www.facebook.com/RadioRobVO/

    Twitter/Instagram: @gmradiorob

    Facebook: Rob.Farquhar

    Get in touch:

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    You can send in your questions to [email protected], send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: friendsmissingfriends.com.

  • Today I talk to Shannon MacFarlane (she/they). Shannon is a compassionate, creative, kind, and quirky human who enjoys being outside, hoarding eclectic information, scratching dog and cat butts, and snacks. She's working on her PhD in psychology with an emphasis in Thanatology. She supports mourning and grieving humans with art and education.

    Learn more about Shannon at www.slobberedlens.com and @slobberedlens (Facebook and Instagram)

    Shannon and I discuss

    How photography helps her be present with the big emotions, and revisit the intense emotions later Including the whole spectrum of emotions in grief Examining our personal history And more!

    Get in touch:

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  • This episode is a little different and special -- it takes place in the car, on a road trip with my friend Michele!

    We talk about:

    the book Big Friendship what friendship means to us loneliness and creating our own community what we want from our life moving forward (And lots of laughter and silliness!).

    Resources:

    Read the book Big Friendship: How We Keep Each Other Close https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/52766000-big-friendship

    Get in touch:

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  • Welcome to Part 2 of my conversation with Andrew Gallant, where we talk all about acting and the wild side of grief. (To catch Part 1 of our convo, listen to episode 55!).

    A bit about today’s guest, Andrew Gallant: Andrew is an actor and acting teacher extraordinaire. He holds an M.F.A in Acting from DePaul University, a postgraduate diploma from the Liverpool Institute for Performing Arts, a BA in Theatre from UW-Madison and is a proud member of Actor’s Equity. For the last 15 years, Andrew has worked professionally in Chicago as an actor, playwright, director, and artistic director.

    He is the founder of Green Shirt Studio, an acting school in Chicago specializing the Meisner approach to actor training. His students have appeared in Stranger Things, Moonlight, Molly’s Game, Chicago PD, Chicago Fire, Chicago Med, 9-1-1: Lone Star, The Chi, Easy, Empire, Fargo, The Book of Mormon (Broadway), and many other projects all over the world.

    Today, Andrew and I discuss:

    Coming back to parts of ourselves that we abandoned after childhood How society pressures us to suppress our big emotions The deep-seated desire to express our grief in wild, feral ways Expressing our big emotions The therapeutic benefits of acting And more!

    Resources:

    Learn more about Sacred Fire Asheville:

    https://www.sacredfireasheville.org/

    Get in touch:

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  • What does acting have to do with grief? A whole lot. The best acting deals with life’s biggest moments and emotions; the ones we often run from in our day to day life.

    Today my guest is Andrew Gallant, actor and acting teacher extraordinaire. Andrew holds an M.F.A in Acting from DePaul University, a postgraduate diploma from the Liverpool Institute for Performing Arts, a BA in Theatre from UW-Madison and is a proud member of Actor’s Equity. For the last 15 years, Andrew has worked professionally in Chicago as an actor, playwright, director, and artistic director.

    He is the founder of Green Shirt Studio, an acting school in Chicago specializing in the Meisner approach to actor training. His students have appeared in Stranger Things, Moonlight, Molly’s Game, Chicago PD, Chicago Fire, Chicago Med, 9-1-1: Lone Star, The Chi, Easy, Empire, Fargo, The Book of Mormon (Broadway), and many other projects all over the world.

    Learn more about the acting school Andrew founded, Green Shirt Studio: ⁠https://www.greenshirtstudio.com/

    Instagram: @greenshirtstudio

    Today, Andrew and I discuss:

    What grief has informed him about life How art informs and reflects our emotional lives How both grief and joy unleash our wild side How acting helps us to tap into the deepest, truest parts of ourselves And more!

    Resources:

    To learn more about Green Shirt Studio in Chicago, check out their website: https://www.greenshirtstudio.com/

    Get in touch:

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  • Today I talk to Silvia Freeman, a Corporate Health & Well-being Facilitator / Coach, NLP Master Practitioner, EFT Practitioner, and Breathwork Facilitator. She loves teaching and facilitating workshops, where staff learn different ways of dealing with stress and anxiety, expressing their emotions, and learning how to become emotionally fit and healthy. Silvia teaches how to manage big emotions, how to move through them, especially grief, anxiety, stress, burnout, panic attacks, feeling overwhelmed, anger, sadness, and depression. Silvia also runs events and courses such as a 6-month membership Art of Emotions, Corporate workshops, and Back to Work in 9 Hours program.

    To learn more about or connect with Silvia:

    Her website: https://eznlp.co.uk/

    Her Instagram: instagram.com/silvia.freeman

    Today, Sylvia and I discuss:

    What it means to soften grief and let it move through the body How to use breathwork and tapping to soften the grief The importance of feeling our big emotions (“what comes out of the body will never make you sick”) And more!

    Get in touch:

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  • Today is part 2 of my conversation with Jorin Garguilo, a teacher and longtime member of the Chicago improv community (for Part 1, check out episode 52!).

    Jorin is a Wisconsin-born, North Carolina-educated, Chicago based improvisor. Jorin began improvising in 1991 at ComedyWorx in Raleigh, North Carolina, and since 2004 has performed, taught, and coached at theaters across Chicago, the country, and the world. He was a founding member of Rainbow Deli at CIC and Revolver at iO. Jorin has written and currently teaches the ensemble curriculum in CIC’s training program. For info on improv shows or classes, check out @cictheater on Instagram.

    Today, Jorin and I discuss:

    Grieving friends individually versus as a collective How hard it is to make friends as an adult The importance of telling our friends we love them And more!

    Get in touch:

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    You can send in your questions to ⁠[email protected]⁠, send a voice clip to our google voice number 312-291-1781, and follow us on IG @friendsmissingfriends. For more information, you can visit our website: ⁠friendsmissingfriends.com⁠.

  • Today I talk to Jorin Garguilo, a teacher and longtime member of the Chicago improv community (I've taken his improv classes, and can attest that he's an incredible teacher and performer!).

    Jorin is a Wisconsin-born, North Carolina-educated, Chicago based improvisor. Jorin began improvising in 1991 at ComedyWorx in Raleigh, North Carolina, and since 2004 has performed, taught, and coached at theaters across Chicago, the country, and the world. He was a founding member of Rainbow Deli at CIC and Revolver at iO. Jorin has written and currently teaches the ensemble curriculum in CIC’s training program. For info on improv shows or classes, check out @cictheater on Instagram.

    Today, Jorin and I discuss:

    Honoring and remembering his friend Mike Enriquez The idea of carrying on someone’s essence andidentity The ephemeral nature of improv and life And more!

    Get in touch:

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