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We’re talking all things GRIEF with our favorite therapists: Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT aka Shrink Chicks. We dive into what grief ACTUALLY is, how it shows up in our lives, and how tf to deal with it. We also cover:
How to identify when you’re feeling grief
The unexpected ways grief shows up in our lives
Grieving when things don’t go the way you expected
How control and expectations play into grief
How resilience actually makes you cooler, braver and stronger
Why having a specific timeline for your life sets you up for failure
The ways you’re probably invalidating your own grief and how to stop
Additional ways to process grief
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This week we’re catching up by diving into our inbox and sharing some of our wildest emails. We’re also sharing some of our favorite sex facts that are pretty much guaranteed to make you feel good about yourself. We cover:
The spicy (and unwanted) invitations we've received via email
What research has to say about unsolicited dick pics
Q+A: How to deal when you want to try something new in the bedroom and your partner DOES NOT aka managing rejecting
We dive into the data to find out:
Are people actually having that much sex?
How many sexual partners is considered "normal"?
How confident people actually feel in the bedroom?
What's the deal with sex dreams?
What are people doing with their pubes?
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Need a little guidance? Us too. That's why we turned to Aja Vines, an intuitive reader and guide who just GETS IT. She's sharing her best tips for living your most authentic, fulfilling life and if you're anything like us, it's EXACTLY what you've been needing to hear. We cover:
What it ACTUALLY means to live an authentic life
How to know what's authentic to YOU
Steps you can take to build self-trust
How to comfort yourself instead and STOP beating yourself up
What to do when you're feeling behind in life
What your intuition is and how to get in touch with it
How to start using tarot/oracle cards
A VERY SPECIAL INTUITIVE READING just for our Honeys
The oracle deck Aja used for our reading is linked HERE!
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April Davis of Haus of Vagina, a sex and menstrual educator, is BACK to tell us everything we need to know (but definitely don’t) about vaginas, periods, and birth. We cover:
Labiaplasty- what’s the deal, why people get them, what the potential side effects are, and questions to ask if you’re considering getting one
What happens to your vagina after you give birth
Postpartum sex and why it’s not as scary or bad as they say it will be
Questions to ask your OB or gynecologist
The importance of caring for your pelvic floor
How cycle syncing (aka living your life according to which part of the menstrual cycle you’re in) will help you fall in lovewith your period and life in general
How to cycle sync if you have an IUD
Rethinking the language we use when talking about sex and vaginas
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We're starting off our new season by learning how to navigate change and life transitions with our bestie Victoria Albina, NP, MPH. Victoria is a coach who helps people overcome their codependent, perfectionist, and people-pleasing thinking and she's also our go-to whenever we're ready to feel SEEN, heard, and have our worlds absolutely rocked.
In this episode, Victoria covers:
The very primal reasons why change can be TERRIFYING
Finding safety in yourself so you can be confident navigating change
How to find your truth and also know when it's time for change
Why your desire to keep other people happy gives you a false sense of safety
What to do when the people in your life don't like, acknowledge, or support your changes
Why it's not ~always~ a bad thing to care what others think
How to stop fighting and let other people have their experience (spoiler: we don't have to control everything and maybe it isn't all that serious anyway)
Before the interview, we also chat about:
Your sexy summer stories
The changes we've been going through
What you can expect from Honeydew Me this season
Connect with Victoria:
On her website
FREE RESOURCES for Honeydew Me Listeners
Listen to her podcast
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This week, we’re learning how to breakup with ANYONE (yes, anyone) with Jamye Waxman, a sex therapist and author. We cover:
The types of breakups we experience (friends, family, romantic partners)
WHY breakups are so damn hard
HOW to breakup with someone
What to avoid when breaking up with someone
What’s a “good enough reason” to breakup with someone
How to start feeling better
[Episode 122 on Youtube]
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Hey ya filthy sl*t... let's learn how to talk dirty. Dr. Tara is back on the pod with TONS of examples and expert advice. We chat about:
How ANYONE can be good at dirty talk (even if you're awkward)
Dynamic dirty talk
8 types of dirty talk and examples for each
Directing vs narrating
Beginner to intermediate examples
Alternatives to "daddy"
Our favorite words to refer to a penis
[Episode 123 on Youtube]
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We're covering all things libido with sex therapist (and libido expert) Dr. Emily Jamea. We chat about:
What libido is and isn't
The difference between libido, sex drive, and desire
What a "normal" libido looks like
Why low libido isn't inherently bad
How to navigate mismatched libidos in a relationship
Common libido myths
What can negatively impact your libido
[Episode 138 on Youtube]
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This week we're pressing play ON PORN and learning all the ways it can make our sex lives hotter and our relationships better. Rachel Wright, a licensed marriage and family therapist with a Master's in clinical psychology joins us to chat about:
How porn can BENEFIT your relationship
Fun ways to incorporate porn into partnered sex
Jealousy and porn: "why do they watch porn if they have me?!" and "what if my partner is jealous that I watch porn?"
Is watching porn cheating?
Feeling insecure about the type of porn you watch
What to do if the type of porn your partner watches makes you uncomfy
How much is TOO MUCH porn?
[Episode 113 on Youtube]
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Okay Honey, it’s time we talk about sex and antidepressants (but also anxiety, stress, and depression). Sex on drugs aint easy, which is why we’re talking with Dr. Jordan Rullo and getting ALL the tips on how to deal. We cover the basic science behind it all, changes in sex drive and sexual function, fight or flight during sex, and a whole lot more. In addition to actionable steps, we talk through mourning your sexual self, reframing your sexual experiences, and how to support a partner who is struggling with these changes.
[Episode 96 on Youtube]
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Michelle Hope, sexologist, activist and Director of Social Impact and Strategic Communications at SIECUS, joins us to talk post-Roe action items and resources. We discuss:
What Roe v. Wade is, what happened, and how we actually got here
The role of comprehensive sex education
Resources for states that have lost access to abortion
Getting involved in your community
Resources:
https://www.threeforfreedom.com/
[Watch on Youtube]
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We’re breaking down toxic masculinity and sex shame with Zachary Zane, author of "Boyslut: A Memoir and Manifesto". We cover:
What toxic masculinity is and how it manifests
How toxic masculinity impacts our sex lives and leads to sexual shame
How sexual shame limits and negatively impacts us
Zachary's personal experience with sexual shame and being bi
Labels in life and social media
What queerbaiting actually means
[Episode 137 on Youtube]
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We are finally talkin' PURITY CULTURE and, perhaps more importantly, we're talkin' all about how to ditch that bitch. Erica Smith, the creator of Purity Culture Dropout TM, is here to share all the dirty deets. We chat about…
What purity culture is
How purity culture impacts our sex lives
Concrete steps for quitting
Concept of virginity & "body count"
Post-sex guilt
[Episode 83 on Youtube]
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THE Dr. Jennifer Lincoln is on the pod and ready to talk ALL things birth control. We chat about:
Common myths and misconceptions (i.e. infertility, negative health impacts etc)
Whether "hormone balancing" is legit and if "hormone imbalances" are the cause of all your issues
WHY we tend to demonize birth control
Types of birth control methods (hormonal vs non hormonal)
Plan B: what it is, how to use it & when to use it
What actually is an abortion and what are the types of abortions
FREE RESOURCES
[Episode 108 on Youtube]
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THIS IS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN… and by “this” we mean sex, hookups, dating, ALL OF IT. Cue Myisha Battle, a sex and dating coach who quite literally wrote the book on finding the fun in all of it. We decided to deep dive into hookups (obvs) and chatted about…
Deciding what we want from sex
Finding your sexual values
How to find hookups (both on the apps and off)
What’s the deal with “chemistry”?
The benefits of hookups
How to make hookups as fun as possible
“I’m not that into you, but damn I wanna bang…”
How to say what you’re into AND what you want in the moment
Get Myisha's book HERE!
[Episode 126 on Youtube]
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We’re talking all things MASTURBATION with one of our favorite sex and pleasure educators, Luna Matatas. We cover:
New positions to try
How to make your hands feel JUST as good as a toy
How to finger yourself
What to do if you get nervous while *exploring*
How often we should masturbate
How to start fantasizing during solo play
Dirty chat rooms
How long a solo sesh should be
Taking masturbation OUTSIDE the bedroom (legally)
Connect with Luna:
Website
On Instagram
[Episode 129 on Youtube]
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When did being NEEDY become a bad thing? We have NEEDS (a lot of 'em) and those needs deserve to be met whether they're in the bedroom or beyond it. That's why we're talking with Mara Glatzel, MSW an intuitive coach and author of the Book "Needy: How To Advocate For Your Needs and Claim Your Sovereignty". We chat about:
What it ACTUALLY means to be needy
Why we should ditch the "chill girl/person" mentality
What happens when we neglect our needs
How ignoring our needs impacts our sex lives
How to figure out what you need AND how to ask for it
Is there such a thing as TOO needy?
What to do when your partner doesn't or can't meet your needs
Giving up your role as a "mindreader" (aka when you think you always know what other people need)
Get Mara's book HERE!
[Episode 131 on Youtube]
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Let's get it on... IN PUBLIC. We're talking PDA with Dr. Tara and breaking through ALL the shame. We we chat about:
What Power PDA is
Critique and support for PDA
What if there's a discrepancy between what you and your partner want?
Giving NO f*cks
Who decided affection needed to be kept private?
Should there be goal with PDA?
How far is TOO far in public?
How healthy displays of affection are GOOD
How to start engaging in PDA if you're new to it
Connect with Dr. Tara
On Instagram
Website
[Episode 116 on Youtube]
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Alright Honeys, we're juuuussst about ready to send you into your summer of hook-ups but can't let you go without a little help and advice for our girl, Abigail Jensen. In this episode, we dive into girl chat about what makes for a PERFECT date. We chat about:
How to practice being confident
Key ingredients for setting up a great date
Where to take your dates to ensure good vibes
Questions we should be asking to get to know your date
Common dating mistakes
LTR dating tips
Connect with Abigail
Instagram
Rat Girls Podcast
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Get your hands nice and warmed up because we'll be puttin' them to WORK. This week we talk to Barbara Carrellas, erotic massage pro, about how to give and receive pleasure through massage. 🙌 Barbara holds nothing back when it comes to pleasure and this episode delivers tips, tricks, and erotic puppets???
We chat about:
What makes a massage ✨erotic✨
The benefits of an erotic massage
How to get present in the moment
Best positions to give a massage
Massage prep
How to incorporate ALL our parts
Connect with Barbara:
On Instagram
Website
Urban Tantra Second Edition Paperback
Transcendent Bodies: Erotic Awakening Massage For Trans And Gender Non-Conforming Bodies
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