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Ask Me Anything: Couples Therapy for Co-Founders â Former Techstars Chief of Staff, Crystelle Desnoyer, interviewing Co-Founder Relationship Expert, Annie Garofalo
In this bonus episode of 'How I Met My Co-Founder,' guest host Crystelle Desnoyer, former Chief of Staff to the CEO of Techstars, switches roles to interview show host Annie Garofalo about her unique specialization in supporting co-founder relationships. Drawing from her personal experience of co-founding a startup, Annie delves into how differences in definitions and expectations can create challenges even in the strongest of friendships. The discussion covers the importance of proactive communication, the nuanced process of setting up co-founder agreements, and various conflict management strategies. Annie shares insights from her academic research at Stanford and her work with 50 early-stage teams backed by leading investors. Together, they explore the complexities of co-founder dynamics, the role of cultural backgrounds, and when it might be best for co-founders to part ways. Essential takeaways include the value of upfront conversations, structured feedback, and creating a 'pilot phase' to test co-founder compatibility.
Crystelleâs Takeaways:
Communicate, communicate, communicate!
Try to anticipate and discuss as much as you can upfront
Put everything in writing to prevent miscommunication
Be honest with yourself, be honest with the other person - whether you know them really well or not at all
When co-founder âdatingâ always do a pilot â a high risk, high yield kind of situation in order to really get to know one another.
Get full access to podcast summaries and founding team research and resources by subscribing to the newsletter at www.confidante.substack.com
References & Resources:
⢠Non-Violent Communication (Book): https://www.cnvc.org/store/nonviolent-communication-a-language-of-life
⢠Permission to Feel (Book): https://marcbrackett.com/permission-to-feel/
⢠Piloting Your Co-Founder Relationship: https://confidante.substack.com/p/trial-period-for-cofounders
Where to find Crystelle Desnoyer: https://www.linkedin.com/in/crystelle-desnoyer-09882629/
Where to find Annie Garofalo, host and startup team relationship expert:
Website: https://www.confidante.infoNewsletter: https://confidante.substack.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annie-garofalo/Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecofounderconfidanteTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.cofounder.confidanteTwitter: https://twitter.com/anniegarofal0YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCoFounderConfidante
In this episode, we cover:
00:00 Episode Highlights
00:40 Introduction and Role Reversal
00:43 Our Guest Host: Crystelle's Background
01:59 Annie's Journey into Co-Founder Relationships
04:22 The Importance of Upfront Conversations
05:39 The Co-Founder Prenup
06:14 Communication and Willingness
08:28 Conflict Management Strategies
10:11 Couples and Close Friends as Co-Founders
11:17 Handling Hard Conversations
12:17 Feedback and Check-Ins
16:40 Cultural Differences in Conflict Resolution
18:33 When to Consider Breaking Up
21:04 Criteria for Working with Co-Founders
22:27 Advice for New Co-Founders
28:14 Summary and Closing Thoughts
Podcast produced by www.confidante.info. For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email [email protected]. Annie may be an investor, advisor, or coach for the companies discussed.
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This weekâs episode brings professor-student duo from University of Michigan, Brian Moore (CEO) and Prof. Jason Corso (CSO), co-founders of Voxel51, an open source toolkit to enable better data and better models. They discuss transitioning from academia to entrepreneurship in AI, shedding the âfacultyâ and âstudentâ roles, changing CEO titles earlier last year, how they made a major pivot (and if it was the right choice), as well as how they tackled one of their biggest disagreements - deciding when to fundraise.
Over the past 7 years, Jason and Brian have grown Voxel51 to a company with 25+ team members, over 2 million downloads, and have secured over $12M to date led by Drive Capital, with participation from Top Harvest, Shasta Ventures, eLab Ventures and ID Ventures.
In our conversation, we discuss:
⢠The transition from academia to entrepreneurship⢠Starting a company with two technical co-founders⢠Shedding the âfacultyâ and âstudentâ roles⢠Changing who is CEO 5 years in⢠Making a *major* business model pivot⢠Conflict: when is the right time to fundraise?
Key Insights:
It all began in a computer vision course at the University of Michigan during the fall of 2014. Jason, an established professor, and Brian, a bright PhD student in the frontline but not directly under Jason's tutelage, formed a connection that transcended the conventional teacher-student relationship, laying the foundation for what would eventually become Voxel 51.
The Transition from Academia to Entrepreneurship": Their venture began not with a startup mindset but as a research partnership, focusing on applied research funded by grants. This phase allowed them to "nerd out" on technology, gradually learning about the market and the potential for their project. This period was crucial for building technical foundations and understanding the market before fully committing to the startup route. (see Jasonâs blog post)
Shedding the âFacultyâ and âStudentâ Roles: Jason and Brian's journey emphasizes the significance of equitable decision-making and leadership. Shedding previous labels of "faculty" and "student," they adopted a "leadership by committee" approach, ensuring that decisions, especially critical ones, were deliberated jointly. This democratic process fostered a strong, trust-based relationship that played a pivotal role in navigating the startup's direction and strategy.
Title Changes in the C-Suite: One of the most intriguing aspects of their partnership was the fluidity of roles within the company. The transition from Jason as CEO to CSO and Brian from CTO to CEO highlighted their flexible nature, always aligning roles with the company's needs and individual priorities and strengths. Their ability to adapt and reassess roles showcases a vital lesson in leadership flexibility for startup success.
Navigating Conflict - When is the Right Time to Fundraise?: The narrative of Voxel 51 is interlaced with moments of agreement and discord. One of their biggest moments of disagreement was on the timing of fundraising. The pair trace this back to their different personality types and how each of them thinks about risk-taking. They ultimately came to a shared decision after creating a shared data set and having a series of conversations over time both internally as well as externally with advisors, peers, and investors.
How to Make a Major Pivot: A compelling takeaway from Brian and Jason's story is the analogy of the founding team to a family, underlining the importance of trust, commitment, and the ability to navigate conflicts productively. Their journey underscores the necessity of a solid foundational relationship, capable of weathering the challenges that come with startup growth and evolution. A notable instance was their decision to pivot the company's direction, a move borne out of aligned values and a shared vision, despite the inherent risks.
The story of Voxel 51 is about the evolution of a partnership through challenges, learning, and unyielding adaptability. Brian and Jason's journey from the classroom to the forefront of technological innovation serves as an inspiring blueprint for co-founders everywhere, emphasizing that the bedrock of any successful venture is communication.
Where to find Voxel51, Brian, and Jason: Website: https://voxel51.com Briane Moore: https://www.linkedin.com/in/brimoor Jason Corso: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-corso
Where to find Annie Garofalo, host and startup team relationship expert:
Website: https://www.confidante.infoNewsletter: https://confidante.substack.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annie-garofalo/Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecofounderconfidanteTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.cofounder.confidanteTwitter: https://twitter.com/anniegarofal0YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCoFounderConfidante
In this episode, we cover:
00:00 Episode Highlights
00:47 Meet the Professor-Student Founding Duo
01:31 The Origin Story of Voxel 51
01:51 From Classroom to Startup: The Early Days
02:43 Navigating the Transition from Academia to Startup
03:05 Building a Technical Foundation and Market Understanding
03:42 The Dynamics of a Founding Team
04:29 Remote Work and Geographic Challenges
05:03 Leadership and Decision Making
09:34 Adapting Roles for Growth
12:58 Navigating Change and Conflict
14:46 The Importance of Commitment and Trust
17:15 Managing Conflict and Decision Making
18:00 The Pivot: A Major Strategic Decision
33:40 Closing Thoughts and Advice for Founding Teams
References & Resources:
⢠[Blog Post by Jason Corso] Navigating Academia to Startup: What Kind of Companies Do Scholars Create?: https://medium.com/@jasoncorso/navigating-academia-to-startup-what-kind-of-companies-do-scholars-create-9fe5b7e44fbc
⢠Understanding Your Co-Founderâs Life Priorities: https://confidante.substack.com/p/understanding-your-co-founders-life
⢠The Sound Relationship House: https://confidante.substack.com/p/the-sound-relationship-house-for-cofounders
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In our first live recording in New York City, guests Andrew Hoh and Sarmad Qadri, co-founders of LastMile AI, share their experiences transitioning from working at Meta to launching their own AI developer platform. They discuss the importance of trust and communication, comparing the co-founder relationship to marriage, emphasizing accountability, mutual support, and the ability to navigate conflict.
Itâs only fitting that in our first live recording in New York City, the LastMile AI team has a list of New York landmarks that are meaningful in their journey. Andrew and Sarmad, former coworkers at Meta turned co-founders of an AI developer platform that has raised $10M in seed funding, reminisce on initial lunch conversations at Eataly in Flatiron, whispered co-founder agreements in Stavros Library, and miles of walking and talking around Madison Square Garden.
Key insights include the significance of not being overly attached to initial ideas, the challenges of adjusting to startup culture from a corporate environment, and the critical role of having a robust support system outside the business. The conversation also highlights the necessity of addressing potential issues early, maintaining emotional stability, and ensuring alignment on major decisions to prevent resentment. The episode is a deep dive into the complexities of co-founding a startup, offering valuable advice for prospective entrepreneurs.
In our conversation, we discuss:
⢠Difference between working for Meta and startup life⢠Addressing conflicts (lessons from marriage)⢠How to know if theyâre the right co-founder⢠Finding value in different working styles⢠The all-encompassing nature of founding
Favorite Quotes:
Differences between large corporation (Meta) and startup (LastMile): "It feels just a lot more emotionally tied to your identity in a way that I never felt in any other company or any other place that I've at least worked at."- Sarmad
In addressing conflicts, lessons from marriage: âWhen you're married, you think of how do we solve a problem? It's not like, âSarmad let me downâ. It's like, âNo, we need to fix thisâ. We donât point fingers... we're on the same team and we're gonna have to fix this.â - Andrew
In finding the right co-founder for you: âIt's not finding someone you don't disagree with, but it's finding someone who makes you the best version of yourself that you can be.â - Sarmad"The way that we work together⌠I genuinely believe we can fix any issue.â - Andrew
Emotional stability is key! âYou need to be an emotionally stable person. There's so much that [starting a company] throws at you, and being able to just be very rational and analytical and not lash out when things go wrong. All of that requires a degree of emotional stability and maturity that you have to come in with or learn it very quickly.â - Andrew
Finding value in different working styles â do you prefer bungee jumping versus hiking? Do you add a new ingredient to a focaccia recipe on a whim or not?: âI do think it's helped for me to partner with Andrew because we see things in slightly different ways. I can be a lot more aggressive at times and Andrew's like, âhold up let's take a step backâ. I think the inverse is true to where I feel like I jumped off a cliff because I'd already made up my mind that I wanted to do this much sooner, but walking through those steps with Andrew, where it felt like we were going for a walk, was really important to our success.â (Working Styles Quiz)
Founding takes a tolls on others in your life as well: âAndrew once asked me how my wife is doing through all this. And I thought that was a very empathetic question. You can ask, âhow are you doingâ, but to ask how someone else is doing, that requires you to understand like the toll of building a company extends beyond just yourself as a founder.â
Do not allow frustrations to build up, share small and often: âWe have a rule that we'll never have pent up anger or resentment. The rule is to bring it up early, because hate festers and you never want to leave a startup hating your co-founder.â
Where to find LastMile AI: Website: https://lastmileai.dev/Twitter: https://twitter.com/LastMileDiscord: https://discord.com/invite/xBhNKTetGx
Where to find Annie Garofalo, host & startup team relationship expert:
Website: https://www.confidante.infoNewsletter: https://confidante.substack.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annie-garofalo/Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecofounderconfidanteTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.cofounder.confidanteTwitter: https://twitter.com/anniegarofal0YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCoFounderConfidante
In this episode, we cover:
00:00 Highlights
00:54 Introduction
01:45 Meeting at Meta as Teammates
04:25 Leaving Meta to Found a Startup Together
06:43 When Your Startup Merges with Your Identity
07:30 "We can solve anything together"
08:52 "We knew we wanted to build a company together before we knew what we wanted to build"
10:10 Co-Founding is the Marriage of the Business World
11:12 Bungee Jumping or Hiking?
31:52 Advice for Teams
36:03 LastMile AI Ad
References & Resources:
⢠Quiz: Working Styles / How Well Do You Know Your Co-Founder: https://www.confidante.info/working-style-diagnostic
⢠Understanding Your Co-Founderâs Life Priorities: https://confidante.substack.com/p/understanding-your-co-founders-life
⢠The Sound Relationship House: https://confidante.substack.com/p/the-sound-relationship-house-for-cofounders
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Meet married couple, Professor Jason Blackstock (CEO) and social entrepreneur Alana Heath (COO) who met as co-founders of the social enterprise â How to Change the Worldâ . Spun out of University College London (UCL), their organization provides students and early career professionals with the skills and mindsets to build a greener, more equitable future.
Listen now on â Spotifyâ / â Appleâ / â YouTubeâ / â Googleâ . Brought to you by â Confidanteâ , preventing the co-founder conflicts that kill 65% of startups.
Get podcast summaries and co-founder resources delivered to your inbox: www.confidante.substack.com
In our conversation, we discuss:
⢠The Initial Connection: Professional or Romantic? ⢠When the Spouse Role is in Tension the CXO Role ⢠Putting Values to the Test in Times of Crisis ⢠Not Shying Away from Contingency Planning ⢠The âOne Lifeâ / Pie Chart Model to Life Priorities
Some takeaways:
âYou can have it all, but probably not all at the same timeâ - Alana. Instead of striving for work-life balance, view life as a single pie chart where priorities may shift over time. Make sure your business and life partners know your short- and long-term priorities. (Resource: â The Pie Chart Model - Life Prioritiesâ )
Shared Values as Your North Star: Values are tested during challenging periods, such as personal crises or startup uncertainties. Spend time up front to determine your partnershipâs shared values (See Resource: â Uncover Your Co-Founderâs Valuesâ ) "Talk about values, make that a foundational part of your first conversations early on." - Jason
What Happens when the Role of a Co-Founder and Spouse are in Tension? When wearing multiple hats (e.g., co-founder and spouse), discuss with yoru partner which you are going to prioritize. âFamily first means the wife hat goes on first. And if that means the COO always has to figure more out than she thought, then she does that.â - Alana
Discuss Contingency Plans: Have open discussions about potential future scenarios, including changes in roles or exits from the company, to ensure alignment and preparedness. âIf I haven't made myself redundant in five to six years, then I really haven't been doing my job very well as a founding CEOâ - Jason
Great couples donât always make good co-founders, and vice versa: Reflect on *your* ideal partnership both personally and professionally. Do you like to have to share work and life with the same people? Do you prefer to have more of a separation? The right answer is the one that is right for you.
Where to find How to Change the World: Website: â https://www.htctw.org/â Email: [email protected] LinkedIn: â https://www.linkedin.com/company/htctw/â
Where to find Annie Garofalo, host & startup team relationship expert:
Website: â https://www.confidante.infoâ Newsletter: â https://confidante.substack.comâ
LinkedIn: â https://www.linkedin.com/in/annie-garofalo/â Instagram: â https://instagram.com/thecofounderconfidanteâ TikTok: â https://www.tiktok.com/@the.cofounder.confidanteâ Twitter: â https://twitter.com/anniegarofal0â YouTube: â https://www.youtube.com/@TheCoFounderConfidanteâ
In this episode, we cover:
00:00 Episode Highlightsc
00:47 Introduction
01:43 Origin Story: A Chance Meeting That Changed Everything
02:22 The Initial Connection: Professional or Personal?
03:04 Alana's Leap into a New Venture
04:06 The Evolution from Advisor to Co-Founder
05:38 Identifying the Missing Piece: Alana's Role in the Company
07:01 The Power of Complementary Skill Sets
09:45 Navigating the Early Days of Collaboration
13:35 The Birth of a Personal Relationship Amidst Professional Growth
18:40 Values at the Core: Building a Life and Company Together
21:22 Challenges and Triumphs of Being Married Co-Founders
26:30 Future Planning and Contingency Conversations
34:23 Final Thoughts and Advice for Founding Teams
References & Resources:
⢠Uncover Your Co-Founderâs Values: â https://confidante.substack.com/p/do-you-know-your-co-founders-valuesâ
⢠The âOne Life / Pieâ Mentality: â https://confidante.substack.com/p/understanding-your-co-founders-lifeâ
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Vaish, Max, and Jed are co-founders of Sweden-based company Cohabit, a circular furniture rental startup born out of a graduate course in sustainability at MalmĂś University. The team is diverse in every way - culturally, geographically, and functionally. Vaish has nearly a decade of expertise leading teams in the non-profit sector in India, Jed brings experience managing one of the top fast-food chains in the Philippines, and Max is a multi-time founder in the sustainability space in Europe.
Despite these differences, the team is united by a mission to create a more sustainable world. After meeting in graduate school, the team applied to and won a startup competition which got them started with summer funding. For the three months following graduation, youâd find this motivated trio in the library strategizing, road tripping around the country moving furniture, and building conviction around the future of their company and team.
Perhaps most impressively, the Cohabit team had the foresight to have healthy conversations from day one. Throughout our conversation they emphasize the vital role of open communication, both in resolving business issues and managing interpersonal dynamics within the team. They discuss the challenges and rewards of entrepreneurship and reflect on the importance of shared vision and commitment, along with their experiences in dealing with uncertainty and role assignments in their startup. They also share their individual growth as co-founders and the mutual support and understanding they've developed along the way.
In our conversation, we discuss:
⢠Founding a Company with Classmates⢠Leaning on Co-Founders for (Emotional) Support⢠Structuring âPilotsâ with Co-Founders⢠Balancing Sustainability and Profit⢠The Importance of Trust and Commitment
Some takeaways:
âItâs not 33% ownership, itâs 100% thriceâ: Vaish shares, âif we look at it as shared ownership, we have so much more that we can do together. Iâve come to terms that whenever I'm in a conflict, I'm in conflict with the problem that we are trying to resolve, not with my partners.â (See Resource: Situation-Behavior-Impact Communication Framework)
Structure a Realistic Pilot: The Cohabit team used their 3-month accelerator as a trial period not only for their company idea, but also for their team structure. By the end of the 3-months, each had the conviction and commitment to continue working on this full-time. (See Resource: Structuring âPilotsâ with Co-Founders)
Lean on Co-Founders for (Emotional) Support: The team highlights the importance of embracing uncertainty in the startup journey, and the power of leaning on your co-founders for emotional (not just functional) support. They believe co-founders should support each other's emotional well-being and regularly check in on a personal level. (See Resource: Sound Relationship House for Co-Founders)
Growing *with* Team: Max highlights his gratitude at his co-founders for pushing him to grow in new and better ways - you want to be working with a team that does not expect perfection from the get-go, and is willing to learn and grow together.
Focus on Strengths, Not Titles: In the early days, the team assigned roles based on each member's strengths and experience. They view these roles as continuously evolving with the needs of the company - flexibility and adaptability are key. For example, is known as the âenergizer bunnyâ which comes with great positives
Where to find Cohabit: Website: cohabit.se Facebook: facebook.com/cohabit.se Instagram: instagram.com/cohabit.se LinkedIn: linkedin.com/company/cohabit-se/
Where to find Annie Garofalo, host & startup team relationship expert:
Website: https://www.confidante.infoNewsletter: https://confidante.substack.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annie-garofalo/Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecofounderconfidanteTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.cofounder.confidanteTwitter: https://twitter.com/anniegarofal0YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCoFounderConfidante
In this episode, we cover:
00:00 Episode Highlights
00:57 Introduction: The Birth of Cohabit
02:21 The Journey Begins: From Classmates to Co-founders
04:23 The Pilot Phase: Testing the Idea and Team
05:45 Understanding Each Other: Building One Team
07:31 Personal Growth within the Team
08:46 The Entrepreneurship Route: Risk, Control, and Impact
09:24 The Importance of Check-ins: Navigating Personal and Business Challenges
10:32 The Role of Communication: Navigating Disagreements
14:04 Co-Founder Expectations: Emotional Support
22:50 The Journey Continues: Roles, Titles, and Equity Splits
25:09 Conclusion: Advice for New Teams
References & Resources:
⢠Structuring âPilotsâ with Co-Founders: https://confidante.substack.com/p/trial-period-for-cofounders
⢠Sound Relationship House: https://confidante.substack.com/p/the-sound-relationship-house-for-cofounders
⢠Situation-Behavior-Impact (SBI) Framework: tinyurl.com/SBIFramework
Podcast produced by www.confidante.info. For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email [email protected]. Annie may be an investor, advisor, or coach for the companies discussed.
Get full access to podcast summaries and founding team research and resources by subscribing to the newsletter at www.confidante.substack.com
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Juanita Duque (CEO) and Olga Botero (CTO), co-founders of Seccuri, are the first mother-daughter co-founders in the cybersecurity sector.
Mother-daughter pair, Olga and Juanita, are no strangers to mixing business and family. Juanitaâs mother, Olga, and her father started a company together at the beginning of their career and marriage. Growing up, Juanita remembers weighing in on the stock market at the kitchen table, honing her business skills alongside her parents and brother.
Olga is a global powerhouse with over 20 years of C-Level expertise including as former CIO of Grupo Bancolombia, one of the largest financial groups in Latin America. Juanita, a Stanford MBA and engineer by training, former consultant, and cybersecurity expert, called up her mother after business school and said, âletâs start something togetherâ.
In 2022, they came together to launch Seccuri, a multi-award winning business today, as co-founders - a rare dynamic to see between mother-daughter. In doing so, they became the first ever mother-daughter founding pair in cybersecurity.
In our conversation, they discuss their experience in starting Seccuri as co-founders, negotiating their different roles and responsibilities, and maintaining a balance between their professional and personal relationships. The duo shares how creating rules of engagement, appreciating each other's strengths, and maintaining a sense of humor are key to their shared success in business. The episode also features tips on working with family members, emphasizing the importance of separating personal life from work, learning from each other, and trusting each other.
In our conversation, we discuss:
⢠Starting a Family Business in Cybersecurity⢠Varying Levels of Seniority in a Founding Team (Whoâs the Boss)⢠How to Make (and Support a Co-Founder through) Mistakes⢠Create âRules of Engagementâ (When Are We Family vs. Co-Founders)⢠Navigating a Male-Dominated Industry (as Female Founders)
Some takeaways:
1. Know what you and your co-founder individually want to get out of the company (e.g., leadership experience, sales, social impact) and check in regularly on whether these motivators are being met.
2. Agree to leave mistakes in the past. It may be a motherâs tendency to point out the mistakes of her child⌠however a co-founderâs role is not to dwell on mistakes of the other, but to help them move forward and say, âok whatâs next?â
3. Admiration and respect are critical when founding with seniority levels. The founder with more seniority needs to believe there is as much to be learned from their partner as there is to teach. (See Sound Relationship House in resources)
4. Create âRules of Engagementâ when you are more than just co-founders. When do we talk business (or not)? What happens at family dinners? How can we respect each otherâs schedules - for example, if one of us wakes up âlateâ (is 7am lateâŚ?)? (See Partnership Agreement below)
5. Be very careful when founding with family - if you cannot separate professional life from family life, then do not do it. If you do, you will be putting your family at risk. (See Family Charter in resources)
Where to find Juanita, Olga, and Seccuri: https://www.seccuri.com/
Juanita Duque: https://www.linkedin.com/in/juanita-duque-24927878/
Olga Botero: https://www.linkedin.com/in/olgabotero/
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/company/seccuri/ / Twitter - https://twitter.com/seccuri_inc / Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/seccuri.inc/
Where to find Annie Garofalo, host & startup team relationship expert:
Website: https://www.confidante.infoNewsletter: https://confidante.substack.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annie-garofalo/Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecofounderconfidanteTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.cofounder.confidanteTwitter: https://twitter.com/anniegarofal0YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCoFounderConfidante
In this episode, we cover:
0:00 Episode Highlights
01:04 Introducing Juanita and Olga
02:31 From Family to Business
04:37 The Birth of Seccuri and Shared Purpose
05:37 Defining Roles and Responsibilities
06:54 Navigating Personal and Professional Boundaries
09:28 Strategies for Meetings - Stepping Out
15:44 Letting Mistakes Happen
18:45 Creating a Positive Company Culture
20:16 Female Founders in Cybersecurity
25:26 Biggest Failure as a Founder
28:20 Creating "Rules of Engagement"
31:43 Advice for Founding with Family
References & Resources:
⢠Sound Relationship House: https://confidante.substack.com/p/the-sound-relationship-house-for-cofounders
⢠âRules of Engagementâ / Partnership Agreement: https://confidante.substack.com/p/partnership-agreement-cofounders
⢠Using a Family Charter (BCG): https://web-assets.bcg.com/img-src/BCG-Use-a-Family-Charter-June-2015_tcm9-76537.pdf
Podcast produced by www.confidante.info. For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email [email protected]. Annie may be an investor, advisor, or coach for the companies discussed.
Get full access to podcast summaries and founding team research and resources by subscribing to the newsletter at www.confidante.substack.com
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Listen now on Spotify / Apple / YouTube / Google. Brought to you by Confidante, preventing the co-founder conflicts that kill 65% of startups.
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Ian Coe, Karl Hanson, Andrew Colombi & Adam Kamor are co-founders of Tonic.ai.
Meet Ian, Karl, Andrew, and Adam, who came together in 2018 to co-found Tonic. Their goal? To revolutionize how engineering teams create synthetic yet meaningful test datasets. Speaking of data - as many in the startup world know, it's rare to find founding teams with more than three members. Which brings us to a common question: How many co-founders is too many?
Letâs crunch the numbers⌠a recent analysis from TechCrunch revealed that less than 7% of companies raising over $10 million had four or more co-founders.
Against all odds, Tonicâs four person founding team has raised over $47 million dollars from leading investors like Insight Partners, GGV Capital, and Bloomberg Beta. Join us as we uncover the secrets behind their success and see for ourselves how many co-founders are too many?How did they do it? Listen to their team story to learn how they overcame the odds and come to your own conclusion on how many co-founders is too many.
In our conversation, we discuss:
⢠The Requirement of Trust and Commitment in the Team ⢠An Honest Discussion on Titles and Roles in the Founding Team ⢠Fundraising & Investor Relations with a Large, Remote Founding Team ⢠Infusing Humor and Levity into the Company Culture ⢠Shared Decision Making in the Founding Team ⢠Advice for New Founding Teams
Some takeaways:
1. Donât get stuck on titles - theyâre merely a way of communicating to the external world in the early stages. Instead, be willing to flex and take on whatever the company needs.
2. Align on priorities (the âwhyâ), debate methodology (the âhowâ): âWhat are the values we are going to lean back on when we disagree on something?â The Tonic team has a shared #1 priority of delivering products to customers. They may go back back and forth on how to do that, but know theyâre all working towards the same goal.
3. Keep your ego out of it as much as possible. âWhen I talk about decision making in an organization - make sure you understand who the winner of whatever argument you're making - who is the winner, who's the main beneficiary? Maybe itâs be engineering or marketing getting more headcount. But the worst kind of winner though is your ego.â
4. The hardest decisions are the ones that impact the business and technical sides of the company. Ianâs advice: Go into these conversations with as data much as possible. Get the facts and agree on the facts (e.g., doing X will take a year of engineering work) before the conversations.
5. A large founding team can be hard, and RELIES on trust. Ian credits the success of their team in large part due to the long-term nature of their prior relationships - with nearly a decade of work or personal relationship with each member of the team. All that to say, know who you are partnering with! (Resource: 6 Biggest Mistakes When Choosing a Co-Founder and Quiz)
Where to find Tonic.ai: https://tonic.ai/
LinkedIn - tonicfakedata / Twitter - @tonicfakedata / Instagram - @tonicfakedata / YouTube - @tonicfakedata
Where to find Annie Garofalo, host & startup team relationship expert:
Website: https://www.confidante.infoNewsletter: https://confidante.substack.com
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/annie-garofalo/Instagram: https://instagram.com/thecofounderconfidanteTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@the.cofounder.confidanteTwitter: https://twitter.com/anniegarofal0YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheCoFounderConfidante
In this episode, we cover:
00:00 Episode Highlights
00:24 Podcast Introduction
00:43 Meet Tonic AI's Founding Team
01:49 The Origin Story of the Co-Founders
02:53 Building Trust and Commitment in the Team
05:29 Navigating Titles and Roles in the Founding Team
11:30 The Challenges of Fundraising and Investor Relations
15:29 Infusing Humor and Levity into the Company Culture
18:42 Navigating Personal and Professional Relationships in the Team
21:14 Shared Decision Making in the Founding Team
26:22 Advice for Other Founding Teams
29:41 Submit Your Questions
30:20 More About Tonic.ai
References & Resources:
⢠6 Biggest Mistakes when Choosing a Co-Founder: Article: https://confidante.substack.com/p/6-biggest-mistakes-choosing-a-co / Quiz - https://cofounder-agreement.involve.me/6-biggest-mistakes-choosing-a-cofounder
⢠TechCrunch Data on Co-Founders & Fundraising: https://techcrunch.com/2016/08/26/co-founders-optional/
Podcast produced by www.confidante.info. For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email [email protected].
Annie may be an investor, advisor, or coach for the companies discussed.
Get full access to podcast summaries and founding team research and resources by subscribing to the newsletter at www.confidante.substack.com
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Listen now on â Spotifyâ / â Appleâ / â YouTubeâ / â Googleâ / â Pod Websiteâ .
Meet us in person at â MIT's 8th Annual ETA Conferenceâ Feb. 15th, â Get Tickets Hereâ
Patricia Riopel & Enrico Magnani made waves in 2017 as the first search fund couple! Post-business school, they found themselves in separate careers in separate continents with Enrico returning to McKinsey Italy and Pat operating companies across Africa and Latin America. When thinking about how to bring their lives back together, they were reminded of an MBA class they took on search funds.
A â Search Fundâ , also known as Entrepreneurship Through Acquisition (or ETA), is a model where investors provide individuals with capital to buy and grow an existing company.
For Pat and Enrico, it was the perfect balance of entrepreneurship and growth, and allowed the couple to take control of their own destiny. The two acquired their first company in 2017 and sold it in 2023 - becoming the first married couple to not only acquire a business, but also to successfully sell one with this model.
Theyâre now working together again! But this time as search fund investors through their private equity fund, â Magnum Capitalâ . If youâre interested in buying and growing a company, reach out to Patricia & Enrico (contact info below) or join us in-person at MITâs ETA Conference Feb. 15-17.
In our conversation, we discuss:
⢠Why buy an existing company (versus start one from scratch)
⢠The pros (and cons) of a partnered search
⢠What makes a good partner (in a professional sense)
⢠How to approach disagreements when your business partner is your spouse
⢠Communicating openly with investors about relationship status
⢠Come meet us (Pat, Enrico, & Annie) at â MITâs ETA Conferenceâ (Feb 15th)
Where to find Patricia, Enrico & Magnum Capital:
⢠Patricia Riopel: â https://www.linkedin.com/in/priopel/â
⢠Enrico Magnani: â https://www.linkedin.com/in/emagnani/â
⢠AssociĂŠs Magnum Capital Partners: â https://www.linkedin.com/company/magnum-capital-partnersâ
Where to find Annie Garofalo, host & startup team relationship expert:
Website: â https://www.confidante.infoâ Newsletter: â https://confidante.substack.comâ
LinkedIn: â https://www.linkedin.com/in/annie-garofalo/â Instagram: â https://instagram.com/thecofounderconfidanteâ TikTok: â https://www.tiktok.com/@the.cofounder.confidanteâ Twitter: â https://twitter.com/anniegarofal0â YouTube: â https://www.youtube.com/@TheCoFounderConfidanteâ
In this episode, we cover:
00:00 Episode Highlights
00:24 Introducing: How I Met My Co-Founder
00:43 Meet Patricia & Enrico: The First Search Fund Couple
02:18 The Origin Story: Meeting in at IESE
02:59 What is a Search Fund / Entrepreneurship Through Acquisition?
05:45 The Decision to Take Control and Work Together
07:52 Work-Life Balance Concerns
10:22 The Importance of Passion and Fulfillment in Work
12:35 Start a Company or Buy One?
14:54 The Decision to Do a Partnered Search
21:12 A Recent Disagreement: Choosing the Next Step
27:09 Communicating the Relationship Status to Investors
29:06 Advice for Potential Entrepreneurs
30:31 Meet us at MITâs ETA Conference (Feb 2024)
References & Resources:
⢠MITâs 8th Annual Entrepreneurship Through Acquisition Conference: â https://www.mitsearchfunds.com/2024-etamit-summitâ | Get Tickets: â http://tinyurl.com/2vnv3eheâ
⢠How to Structure Trial Periods with a Potential Co-Founder: â https://confidante.substack.com/p/trial-period-for-cofoundersâ
⢠The 9 Hot Button Conversations All Co-Founders Should Have: â https://confidante.substack.com/p/partnership-agreement-cofoundersâ
⢠The History of Search Funds: â https://www.gsb.stanford.edu/experience/about/centers-institutes/ces/research/search-fundsâ
Podcast produced by www.confidante.info. For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email [email protected].
Annie may be an investor, advisor, or coach for the companies discussed.
Get full access to podcast summaries at â confidante.substack.comâ
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Brought to you by Confidante, preventing the co-founder conflicts that kill 65% of startups. Learn more at www.confidante.info.
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Spencer Shulem, Nikhil Shinday, and Adam Stanford are co-founders of BuildBetter.
After a decade working in and around startups, Spencer and Adam started BuildBetter in 2020. Soon after, Spencer brought in his childhood friend, Nikhil, as a third co-founder and CTO. Since then, theyâve secured millions in funding from leading investors like Wing, Tidal, Surface, Village Global, and OnDeck, and Telegraph Hill Capital and made thousands of product teams around the globe more efficient.
But those are the only business stats youâll see today. Instead, our conversation with Spencer and Nikhil focuses exclusively on the relational-side of venture building: the co-founder relationship. How did trust and respect evolve? Who owns what in the company? What's the essence of being a co-founder? And of course, what are the juiciest conflicts and how are they resolved?
In our conversation, we discuss:
⢠When is it right to found a company with a close friend - the risks and the rewards
⢠Adding a third co-founder to an existing founding team and build equal trust
⢠The benefits of a co-founder relationship coach
⢠How they managed one of the teamâs biggest disagreements
⢠What it means to be a co-founder (at BuildBetter)
⢠How to have fun while building a business (e.g., using memes in Slack to define roles)
Some takeaways:
Not all close friends will make great co-founders - think carefully about who you work with - as Spencer says, âyou're spending your life with these people, even more time than you would with your spouseâ (Searching for a co-founder? See: âFinding the One and Lastingâ article for tips)
Conflict (when done respectfully) can be one of the greatest form of intimacy and a sign of trust building up. People often share their honest opinion only when they know it will be treated with respect
Itâs easier to have hard conversations when they are scheduled and facilitated (especially early on). Regular relationship check ins can help the team surface disagreements and create âCo-Founder Mapsâ (see: âSound Relationship House for Co-Foundersâ article)
Take responsibility for your function, but also lean on your co-founders. You should respect your founding team enough that you *want* to use them as a sounding board, if not take a deeper look at if theyâre the right fit
The expectations of a âco-founderâ are subjective. Spend time defining what the co-founder role means to you; how do you want to be supported not only functionally (skillsets-wise), but also socially (as a leader, decision maker) and emotionally (during the ups and downs)?
Listen now on Spotify / Apple / YouTube / Google / Pod Website.
Where to find Spencer, Nikhil & BuildBetter:
⢠BuildBetter (buildbetter.ai): The product ops assistant that turns untapped data âlike call recordingsâ into your companyâs most valuable deliverables ⢠twitter.com/BuildBetterAI ⢠linkedin.com/company/71029926 ⢠dribbble.com/BuildBetterApp
⢠Spencer, CEO & Co-Founder: linkedin.com/in/spshulem
⢠Nikhil, CTO & Co-Founder: twitter.com/nikhillin_it ⢠linkedin.com/in/nikhil-shinday-24255266
Where to find Annie Garofalo, host & startup team relationship expert:
Website: confidante.info ⢠LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/annie-garofalo/⢠Newsletter: confidante.substack.com ⢠X: twitter.com/anniegarofal0 ⢠Instagram: instagram.com/thecofounderconfidante ⢠TikTok: tiktok.com/@the.cofounder.confidante
In this episode, we cover:
[00:00:00] Episode Highlights
[00:00:43] Welcome to How I Met My Co-Founder
[00:01:12] Meet the Co-Founders of BuildBetter
[00:02:09] BuildBetterTeam Origin Story
[00:04:52] Joining as a Third Co-Founder
[00:07:19] Building Trust as a New Addition to the Founding Team
[00:11:14] What Does It Mean to Be a Co-Founder?
[00:13:50] Defining Roles and Responsibilities (and Memes)
[00:17:18] How to Talk through the Hard Stuff
[00:18:55] Hiring a Co-Founder Relationship Coach
[00:24:24] Loneliness as a Founder
[00:26:23] The Biggest Conflict in Recent History
[00:33:17] The Importance of Disagreeing and Committing
[00:34:44] Advice for Early Stage Founding Teams
[00:36:46] Conclusion and Final Thoughts
References & Resources:
⢠The Sound Relationship House: âLove Mappingâ for Co-Founders: confidante.substack.com/p/the-sound-relationship-house-for-cofounders
⢠The Importance of Co-Founder Relationship Coaching: confidante.info/for-startups
⢠Theravada Buddhism and Awakening: ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4054695/
Podcast produced by www.confidante.info. For inquiries about sponsoring the podcast, email [email protected].
Annie may be an investor, advisor, or coach for the companies discussed.
Get full access to podcast summaries and founding team research and resources by subscribing to the newsletter at www.confidante.substack.com
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How I Met My Co-Founder: The Podcast
How I Met My Co-Founder sheds light on the pivotal, often underestimated discussions that make or break a founding team. This business podcast aims to reduce the 65% of startup teams that fail due to co-founder conflict (The Founderâs Dilemma). Join us for riveting stories from entrepreneurs of diverse stages, sizes, and setups as they share their perspectives on co-founding teams. Successful startups begin with strong partnerships.
Hosted by Annie Garofalo, sponsored by Confidante.
Annie Garofalo, founder of Confidante, has immersed herself in a decade-long journey studying the art of founding team dynamics. Passionate about working with early-stage startups, she seamlessly blends entrepreneurial acumen, organizational behavior insights, and the finesse of relationship therapy to keep strong founding teams healthy.
Annie had an early glimpse into the significance of co-founder dynamics when she co-founded her first company with a close childhood friend. This pivotal experience fueled her to delve deeper into the research. At Stanford, she fused entrepreneurship, organizational behavior, and relationship therapy through their joint MBA and Sociology MA program. Annie's professional tapestry weaves together roles as a former founder, investor, C-suite executive, team coach, and growth strategy consultant.
At Confidante, we actively study and support founding team relationships. With the awareness that 65% of companies falter due to co-founder issues, we've crafted preventative programs. Teaming up with leading investors and accelerators, we pioneer research and proactive solutions, strengthening the bedrock of startupsâthe co-founder relationship. Discover more about our research, approach, and resources at: www.confidante.info
