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In this important re-air, we're here with Dr. Meaghan Boston Daly to talk about divorce and physical wellness. Dr. Meg is a concierge internal medicine doctor in Chicago and has quite the resume. We're so excited to be able to pick her beautiful brain.
**And if you're already contemplating divorce, go check out our crash course.
Our Divorce Crash Course was designed to hold your hand through the process and help you avoid major and expensive mistakes. Learn more here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
We'll discuss how being in an unhappy marriage really wears us down. Dr. Meg will tell us all about the subtle physical symptoms of emotional stress, Morgan will answer if your spouse can find out if you're on medication for your mental health during the divorce process, and Andrea will share about the connection between her body pain and being in a toxic marriage.
Where to find Dr. Meg: www.harper-health.com
Our Family Wizard is another fantasitc resource for those who need help navigating the "fun" world of coparenting. Head to this landing page to see how we work closely with them to support our listeners! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
Friends, slide into our dms, we love love love hearing from you. We are always here to listen and help in any way we can. You've got this and we've got you.
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Oh friends, you won't want to miss this episode. Morgan and Andrea are back this week (with an amazing re-air) with top Dallas family law attorney, Rebecca Armstong, find her here! talking about the things you SHOULD and SHOULDN'T do after you file for divorce.
First off, do you have the DCC???
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Rebecca, Morgan and Andrea answer:
-What 3 things should you do after you file for divorce?
-What 3 things should you absolutely NOT do after you file for divorce?
-Do I need a therapist if I'm going through a divorce?
-Can being in therapy be used against me if I'm going through a divorce?
-Why should I go to an annual checkup at the doctor during a divorce?
-Can I record my spouse during an argument and use it during divorce proceedings?
-Will my spending habits be scrutinized during a divorce?
-What advice did Oprah give Andrea about her own divorce?
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Let's talk about co parenting, shall we??
Our Family Wizard is here to help you with your co parenting journey and we are HUGE fans of what they do.
http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
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How do you know if it's time to leave your marriage??
Is your marraige worth saving??
How the hell do you do that and who the hell is going to help you figure that out???
Ever wondered if you would benefit from Discernment Counseling? The founder of discernment counseling, Dr. Bill Doherty, joins us on the podcast to find out . Not only did Dr. Doherty develop a specific type of counseling for couples where one is considering divorce, he's also been on Oprah not just once, but twice! From Harpo to How Not To Suck At Divorce, Dr. Doherty is moving up in the world, that's for sure. (hahahhaa)
Discernment counseling is when one person is leaning OUT of the relationship and considering divorce and the other person is leaning IN and wants to try to make things work. This type of counseling gives people clarity and confidence based on a deeper understanding of what has happened in the marriage.
Dr. Doherty answers the questions:
1 What is discernment counseling?
2 Does discernment counseling solve problems in the marriage?
3 What are the differences between couples therapy and discernment counseling?
4 How long is discernment counseling?
5 What are the three paths of discernment counseling?
6 How do I know if we should try couples therapy or discernment counseling?
Stay until the end because Dr. Doherty blows the lid off traditional therapy and tells us he favorite type of wine (you won't believe his answer).
You can find Dr. Bill Doherty and search for a local discernment counselor at
http://www.discernmentcounseling.com
*Do you have our DCC?? If you're considering divorce, you should!!
https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
And don't forget about Our Family Wizard. It's our #1 app for coparents who are looking to not suck at this process! Check them out here:
http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
Please hit the 5 stars in your podcast app, we need the external validation, but more importantly, it helps our podcast show up in searches so we can help those who are struggling through the divorce process.
Remember, you got this and we got you.
Slide into our dms, we love hearing from you! @theandrearappaport @divorceattorneychicago @hownottosuckatdivorce
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How do you know when your marriage is over?
How do you know if it's just a phase or if something that was once there will never really come back?
Did you "try hard enough" to "save your marraige" and what does that even mean???
At what point can you confident that divorce is the right decision for you???
What we have learned in our professional careers as a family law attorney and hosting this podcast is that sometimes hearing other people's stories help you relate more to your own. So today, we are re airing an episode from the second season of our show which features someone's personal story about when they knew their marriage was offically over.
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And if you're ready to begin the divorce process, you NEED the DCC! It's our one of a kind, Divorce Crash Course. This course literally holds your hand through all of your major decisions. You'll avoid MAJOR mistakes and save up to THOUSANDS of dollars because you're getting advice from one the most sought after divorce attorneys in the country!! For $97, this course will change your life. And we mean that. Check it out here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
We welcome guest and retired husband, Mike Draper, to the show as he shares his story of when he knew it was over and what life after divorce is really like for a single dad. Check out Magic Mike, (I'm sorry), I mean Mortgage Mike on IG @mortgage_mike
As always we're keeping it real and keeping the levity because this process is tough enough. But you are never alone. You got this and we got you.
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If you need support with coparenting- or maybe you just want some extra insight into what coparenting will look for you- look no further than Our Family Wizard. You can get specialized information that WE created with OFW just for our listeners here: http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
And don't worry, we are back with fresh episodes in just a few weeks!!
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If you haven't been living under a rock, you saw the movie: The Wolf of Wall Street.
Now you're going to hear about the real life experience of being married to infamous character in which the movie was written about.
So what was it like being married to the Wolf of Wall Street?? Wel, their eight-year marriage began as a fairytale, filled with romantic dinners, expensive gifts, and lavish parties. But once they were bonded, Jordan’s ‘mask’ began to slip and acts of infidelity, narcissistic abuse, insatiable greed, and uncontrollable drug addiction became Nadine’s living nightmare. Nadine naively believed that their connection was real, and that her love could save him, so she remained trauma-bonded until the pain of their relationship became too much to bear. It would be decades before she realized her story resembled thousands of other women’s relational experiences. At the age of 30, Dr Nadine, or Dr Nae as she's often referred, packed up her curtains and kids and relocated to Los Angeles. She began a transformative process of intensive therapy and deep self-reflection, which required facing her pain, admitting, and owning her mistakes, and reconnecting with the authentic self she’d lost due to Jordan’s abuse. Through her own healing, a passion for helping others was born. She returned to school at 39 to become a psychotherapist, and ten years later, graduated with a PhD in Counseling and Somatic Psychology.You’re also going to hear find out the hell can you do so that you're not carrying around this weight and this storm cloud for the rest of your life.
To learn more about how YOU can work directly with Dr Nae (and we know you want to), check her out here: https://drnae.com/about-dr-nadine-macaluso/#
AND, grab her book, Run Like Hell here: https://drnae.com/run-like-hell-book/
So tune in as we chat with Dr. Nadine Macaluso, a clinical expert and ex-wife of the real-life Wolf of Wall Street, Jordan Belfort.
If you're in need of coparenting support- look no further than Our Family Wizard. We LOVE them. Head here for more information: http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
And finally, if Dr Nae's story sound at all like yours...you NEED the Divorce Crash Course, get it here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
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Okay, let’s face it- if you’re listening to this podcast you know that (& if you’re a new listener you will soon find out) community, and support during divorce, is SO IMPORTANT.
When you can't decide whether you need to scream in your car/bathroom/ or random aisle at Target, you need to know who you can turn to who will comfort you, make you laugh, and remind you that this horrible phase that you're in will not be your forever.
Today on the show we’re talking to our good friend, and dad of three: Rob Roseman. Rob is also the founder of WTF Divorce. We adore Rob and on this episode he shares his journey of realizing the significance of finding support through online communities after going through a divorce of his own.
In this episode, we talk:
-Challenges of isolation
-Benefits of relatable humor
-Critical advice for engaging with credentialed professionals
-Rob's book "WTF Divorce" and all of the joy it can bring to your life!! Check out the book here: amazon link!
Follow Rob on IG- 139K already do!! http://www.instagram.com/wtfdivorce
Listen to this episode to learn how community helps make a difficult process more bearable and even bring some much-needed laughter into your life!
If you're starting your divorce process, you NEED the DCC, check that out here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
Our Family Wizard is here to help you with your coparenting journey! Visit our special landing page for them to learn more about why are one of the MUST HAVES for your divorce. http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
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We know - it sounds pretty daunting and impossible. This episode is full of actionable steps for you to take.
In this episode, we chat again with forensic psychotherapist guest, Micaela Van Dine https://mvdpsychotherapy.com/, about how to prepare to leave your abusive marriage.
You're going to hear about:
-Setting a timeline for leaving (we know- sounds impossible)
-Understanding your/your spouse's financial situation
-Securing sentimental belongings
-Safely exiting the marriage
-Making sure you're doing things "by the law" in your state
-Be SUPER mindful of the kids
Our Divorce Crash Course was help you out here- BIG TIME- please, go check it out. It's $97 and will give you an actionable plan that will help save THOUSANDS and avoid major mistakes. https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
Friends, you can reach out to Micaela directly on her website if you want her consulting advice.
As always it’s recommended to consult with legal professionals and therapists specific to the listener's jurisdiction to ensure appropriate and personalized advice.
If you need support in finding someone in your area, shoot us over an email at [email protected]
Our Family Wizard is here to help you with your coparenting journey. http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
Soberlink is here for you if you're concerned about alcohol usage during parenting time. Go to: http://www.soberlink.com/notsuck to get $50 off your device.
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This episode is your high conflict divorce survival guide.
We are going to cover the steps you should take to help maintain your sanity and stamina needed to survive high conflict divorce process.
On this episode, we talk with forensic psychotherapist, Micaela Van Dine, https://mvdpsychotherapy.com , who shares her professional insights and personal experiences related to high-conflict divorces in the courtroom.
Do you have our Divorce Crash Course?? If you are navigating a high conflict divorce, this crash course will potentially help you save THOUSANDS of dollars. Find it here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
As ALWAYS, this episode offers several action steps and practical advice, like:
-Maintaining silence amid provocation
-Building a support system
-Choosing the right legal and mental health professionals to guide you through the difficult process
One of the most helpful tools available to you is Our Family Wizard. Used in many high conflict cases, Our Family Wizard is our top recommendation for organizing communication between coparents. http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
And don't forget about Soberlink! Soberlink to our go-to tool for those who suspect an alcohol issue during parenting times. Visit: http://www.soberlink.com/not to receive $50 off your device.
Hit play & feel a little less alone!
Please reach out to us should you want more support!
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Listen to this episode BEFORE you go into mediation.
It IS possible to have a positive outcome from mediation, even if you feel like your soon to be ex spouse agree on NOTHING.
And before we get into the nitty gritty: Do you have our Divorce Crash Course?
It literally holds your hand through ALL major divorce decisions!
Get it here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
Here are 3 EXPERT tips, (from a mediator herself- Joy Rosenthal-https://www.joyrosenthal.com/), to help you reframe your mind before entering mediation:
1) You don't have to RESPECT your soon to be ex, but you still need to have some DIGNITY for them. In other words, treat them like a human who also has wants and needs (even if their wants and needs are questionable and they're acting like a total tool)
2)Start to think of the problem as something that's outside of you and your soon to be ex. Meaning, the issue is "who gets the kids this Christmas?" or "who gets the lake house?" or "who's going to get the collection of ketchup bottles?" (yes, that was an actual issue for one of Morgan's cases). The issue is not about YOU, and it's not about you soon to be ex, it's simply a "problem" that needs to be "solved".
3)Think about why you want what you say you want. This one is kinda about checking ego, and also just gaining some perspective on the situation.
It's important to keep in mind that everyone loses something in a divorce. You're not gonna come of this thing with EVERYTHING you want, it just doesn't work like that.
In fact, the old divorce joke goes, "if both parties are unhappy and feel they got cheated, then the attorneys did their job" I (Andrea) HATE that joke and it makes me want to scream, but that's the way it goes!
And remember, mediation, divorce- all of this mess-is just going to be ONE event that happened in your life. It's not your life, you have a lot more life to live when this is all behind you.
Our Family Wizard is here to help you though your coparenting journey. Learn more about them here: http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
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Summer’s almost here folks, and you know what that means...camps, vacations..and your divorce, oh my!
Not to mention: the DREADED parenting agreements. One of Andrea’s least favorite topics but something we HAVE to talk about. We talk about the significance of communication and flexibility in establishing summer parenting schedules, and the legal implications of these changes. We also dive into the complexities of co-parenting during summer, including summer camps, child support, and travel logistics.
In this episode you’ll learn:
*The challenges of balancing work and children's needs during the summer, especially for working and single parents
*Suggestions for getting help with childcare during the summer
*The importance of creativity and flexibility
*Examples of creative modifications to summer parenting schedules and the importance of communication between parents
*Practical approaches to managing summer activities, like summer camps, co-parenting logistics, and managing expectation
*Strategies for initiating conversations with co-parents about travel plans and managing summer camp choices.
And friend that barely scratches this surface in this jam packed mini episode!
Don't forget to check out the DCC, honey, you need this! : https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
And, go sign up for Our Family Wizard's free newsletter! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
And finally, join our private community! http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity
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Alright, here's one of Andrea's least favorite topics...but probably the most important: the parenting agreement. Below are the show notes for a special re air episode, all about the parenitng agreement.
Remember, our Divorce Crash Course holds your hand through ALL of the important decisions you make during your divorce process. Grab you DCC, right here: https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course for only $97, you can save up to THOUSANDS and avoid making MAJOR mistakes. The cost of our crash course includes 5 short videos, which are wildly informative and entertaining (if we do say so ourselves) AND includes a printable guidebook, that has mental health break exercises built in!
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We're getting into some real, REAL stuff in this episode. This is one of the biggest concerns our listeners have so we wanted to dedicate an entire episode to how to put your kids first in your parenting agreement.
Today, we have therapist Dr. Malissa Tigges with us to talk about how to create a parenting agreement that prioritizes the welfare of your kids. Dr. Tigges is a licensed clinical and forensics psychologist with over 10 years of experience working as a psychotherapist and an evaluator. She helps people make the best decisions possible when developing their parenting agreements.
Dr. Tigges, Morgan and Andrea answer:
What do divorcing couples need to understand when putting together their parenting agreement?
How to design the parenting agreement so it's appropriate at each age of the children.
The biggest mistake divorcing couples make when creating their parenting agreement.
What is the main difference of a parenting plan that involves a younger child vs. a teenager?
Can you modify a parenting agreement?
Who should you consult with to ensure your parenting agreement is the best for your child?
Should you open the parenting agreement email after having a few drinks?
What is co-parenting therapy and is it necessary?
What do you do when your rights are being violated during the divorce process when you're drafting the parenting agreement?
What's the best schedule for co-parenting? 50/50? Week on, week off? Every other weekend? The answer may upset you, but it's important to understand.
Is there wiggle room in a parenting agreement if there's a special trip or long weekend planned?
Dr. Tigges also shares her absolute "must-dos".
Here is where you can connect with Dr. Tigges:
@drmalissatigges on instagram, tiktok and facebook
Dr. Tigges is licensed in Florida but if you're not in Florida, your state may allow you to do telehealth with Dr. Tigges so if you need guidance, reach out!
Also- Our Family Wizard is here to help make your coparenting journey a whole lot easier. To learn more about them and to get access to an article that we cowrote, visit them at: http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
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Today’s episode is about something we get asked about A LOT - recording your ex.
The truth of the matter is there are some major things you MUST think about before hitting that record button, and yes, EVEN if your attorney suggests it. However, there is a time & a place for capturing what you need to help your divorce proceeding.
We answer:
What legally admissible means and how it applies to you
When we would recommend you recording your ex
What does it mean in your state? Is it legal? And what does it mean?
When would it be appropriate to record and when would it not be?
And, why we LOVE Ring doorbells (not sponsored...yet..hit us up, Ring!)
This episode is not only insightful but a resource for you that you may need at some point & we want to equip you with the information you need.
And remember, Our Family Wizard is here to help you with your coparenting journey. To learn more about Our Family Wizard, please go check them out, you'll also get access to a special (and funny) article we co wrote with them!! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
Do you have the Divorce Crash Course??? It's going to help you- BIG TIME.
https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course
You've got this, friends, and we've got you!
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Friend, let’s be real, we know that you're tired of pretending that everything is okay.
We know that your gut is telling you that your marriage is not going to work.
So, now what???
If you have EVER wondered:
"What do I do if I think I want a divorce?" - this episode is for you.
If you're considering divorce but don't know where to begin, this episode is for you.
If you're just miserable in your marriage, but feel stuck, this episode is for you.
Don't forget: The DCC is here to help you save up to THOUSANDS on your divorce AND help you avoid making MAJOR mistakes. Get The Divorce Crash Course HERE!
Join our private community: Here!
And remember, Our Family Wizard is here to help you make coparenting easier. Believe us, you want to check them out: http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
This podcast was designed to give you information, entertainment and empathy as you embark on the divorce process.
We know that divorce is hard. We know that it's a long and draining process. We also know that life is so much better on the other side.
Don't give up. Everyone deserves to be happy.
You've got this and we've got you.
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With divorce, there are things that you might feel you have zero control over, right?
Maybe you’ve thought before, “My attorney's not fighting me.”
OR maybe you're frustrated that your attorney's bills are insanely high and you wish there was SOMETHING you could do so save money.
Friend: I hope you listen to this episode with an open mind because we are going to give you very concrete steps that you can take to help your attorney help YOU so that you can make the most out of your attorney.
And, if you haven't grabbed our DCC yet, go get it here. DCC = Divorce Crash Course
Divorce Crash Course
In today’s episode, we cover-
-Saving money
-Getting your attorney to fight for you
-Supplying your attorney with the necessary information to really get the best outcome for your case
-Why it’s important to pay your bill on time
-Why it’s important to stick to the FACTS and leave your emotions out of it
-A clear example of what it looks like to HELP your attorney HELP you
Andrea asks some JUICY questions to Morgan, that you don’t want to miss!
And remember, Soberlink is here to help you if you're concerned about a coparent's alcohol use. Save $50 off your device and learn more here: https://www.soberlink.com/notsuck
Join our private community, we'd love to have! http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity
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In today’s episode, boooooy did we shed some light on the top asked questions when navigating a divorce. From the quirky laws about eavesdropping, (did you know in Illinois recording someone on the phone without consent is a no-go but in public, it’s fair game?), to seeking multiple opinions like you would for a tricky medical condition – this episode has it all.
And here's your place to grab access to the DCC: The Divorce Crash Course, yes, you need this! :The Divorce Crash Course
And hey, for those wondering about GALs and child representatives in custody battles, we've got the lowdown right here.
In this episode we answer:
HOW to tell your spouse you want a divorce (and the big reason why we suggest NOT doing it on a weekend)
What to do when you feel like your spouse has been hiding finances and is it worth it to continue digging?
Trial separations before filing! Doing the right thing or putting off the inevitable?
GAL - what it is and the role that it serves
How do you know if a GAL is going to help or hurt your case? When do you advocate that you want one? Do you say “I want one”, or is it something that you wait for a judge to slap on to your case?
Difference between GAL child rep - How would you know when you need one and not the other?
Who does a GAL speak to and who does a GAL not speak to? And is a GAL the same thing as a custody evaluator? Are they going to come into my home and see what my home looks like?
What does parental alienation actually mean?
What happens if your ex records your conversations? Are they allowed to do this?
How late is too late is too switch attorneys?
Experience requesting an order from the judge
I promise we’re in your corner and here for you and remember, you’ve got this and we’ve got you!
**And remember, if alcohol use is a concern with safe parenting time, then Soberlink is a tool you need in your toolbox. Learn more and save $50 off your device here: https://www.soberlink.com/notsuck ***
To join our private community, head here: The How Not to Suck at Divorce Community
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Oooooh friend - today you are in for an absolute TREAT. We (Andrea & Morgan) uncover the 5 BIGGEST MISTAKES that we see happening when it comes to getting divorced.
AND, to put the cherry on top, you can get even more access to these topics and so much more "hands on help" with: The Divorce Crash Course.
Literally - this will be your divorce playbook. You want this crash course, you need this crash course. And, like we said in the show, we priced this guide at a low pricepoint so it's accessable to everyone. Most divorce "courses" are hundreds of dollars and take HOURS to complete. Our crash course is different.
We also made sure that your privacy is protected. The credit card charge shows up as "DCC150", so nothing about divorce is mentioned.
There's also an Afterpay option, so you can pay in installments.
And if you're on the fence about getting divorced: This course will help you.
Okay, here's the link: ➡️ https://www.hownottosuckatdivorce.com/divorce-crash-course ⬅️
In this episode, we cover some of the goods inside of the The Divorce Crash Course including:
Hiring a divorce attorney
Kids and the mistakes that people make when it comes to kids
If you should sell your house
Communication with your ex (Andrea’s personal fav)
How to NOT rush through signing those important documents
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And if you're concered about your coparent's alcohol use, Soberlink can help: https://www.soberlink.com/notsuck.
This link will give you more information and a coupon for $50 off your device.
And please join our private community for more support! http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity
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In today’s episode, we have a very first for this podcast & an incredibly special guest - Retired Los Angeles Judge Dianna Gould-Saltman. That’s right - a VERY recently retired divorce judge! (who BTW, has divorced several celebrity couples)
Let's face it- nobody wants to go to court. It’s just not a fun experience. If you're navigating the divorce process, going before the judge is likely a step that you are trying to avoid for several reasons. But for one reason or another, it happens for a lot of divorcing couples.
So, what do you do you to get the judge "on your side"???
In this episode you’ll learn:
* An easy thing you can do to help yourself get in the right headspace for court
* What do to and not to do when you’re actually in front of the judge in court
* Does it matter if the judge *knows* the attorney who’s representing you or your spouse
* What are some mistakes that Judge Dianna saw in her courtroom over and over
*What's a "private divorce"??
If you’re going through this nasty thing called divorce and ready to learn how to prepare for court in the eyes of a retired divorce judge…this epiosode is for YOU.
AND! If you're wanting to hire Judge Dianna Gould- Saltman as your mediator or your private judge...guess what? You can do that! Find her here: https://signatureresolution.com/neutral-CPT/hon-dianna-gould-saltman-ret/
And friends, if your case is going into court then you likely need some more emotional support. Look no futher than our private community. You can find it right here: http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity
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Do you know about Our Family Wizard?? Because if not, you really need to go sign up for their newsletter. Our Family Wizard makes coparenting A LOT easier by helping you organize your calenders, expenses, AND monitor communications : and best part, it's looked upon HIGHLY in the courts as a way to help families do divorce better. To learn more, go to: http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
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In today’s episode, as crappy as it is - we talk about when the abuse gets worse during divorce. It’s not a fun topic, but we would be doing you a disservice if we didn’t talk about it.
We bring in Katharine Rupp, a family law attorney based in California, who shares insights on the legal process of divorce, the significance of being organized and prepared for legal battles, and the usefulness of tools like Our Family Wizard app (hollaaa!) in co-parenting and divorce documentation.
Expect to hear strategies for dealing with emotional abuse and conflict, learn the importance of communication and documentation in divorce proceedings, and get practical advice for navigating the divorce process more effectively - as per usual!
Main Takeaways:
*Importance of Our Family Wizard - (OFW) is a valuable tool for organizing divorce-related information in one platform
*Responding to Attacks (so hard- but DON'T attack back)
*Avoid Escalation and Emotional Response (again, so hard)
*Documenting and Communicating
*Seek Support and Guidance
If you want some more information on how to respond to your POS ex, (hee hee) head here:
http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
Ask your attorney if Our Family Wizard would be right for your case. In our opinion, it can only help give you the boundaries you deserve.
Join our private community for more support. http://www.facebook.com/thehownottosuckatdivorcecommunity
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Friends. Listen up. You need to make sure that your divorce attorney is going to GUIDE you through the long, winding road that is divorce.
Take a listen to the dynamic duo, Sarah Jacobs and Jamie Berger, family law attorneys and owners of Jacobs/Berger LLC, located in Morristown, New Jersey. Their mission is making the divorce process less nerve-wracking by focusing on the human side, rather than getting caught up in legal battles. Isn’t that what we all want?! (Yes, it is..)
Sarah and Jamie express why it's so importatnt to find a relatable attorney who communicates well, knows your goals, and speaks your language.
Episode highlights:
*Jacobs and Bergers’ approach to making divorce less stressful
*The concept of redefining the family through non-aggressive strategies
*The importance of a divorce attorney understanding and addressing your needs and goals
*The necessity for attorneys to be relatable and communicative
*Positive outlook on divorce as a new beginning
*Being a divorce "tour guide"
*A Real Housewives of New Jersey divorce story....(this sh$t is GOOD)
If you are in the NJ area and looking for representation- reach out to Sarah & Jamie.
Here's the site again : http://www.jacobsberger.com
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And don't forget: Our Family Wizard is here to help make coparenting easier. And if you want some tips on how to communicate in a more effective way that won't make you want to pull out your hair extentions...go to http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck - pop in your email address and you'll get an article from US that maps out a plan for you!
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We love you, we're here for you, you can do this.
Go get yourself a good attorney.
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Okay, real talk. Getting your head straight for divorce is NECESSARY.
It’s crucial to seek the proper legal and emotional help when going through a divorce. In this episode, we chat with Dr. Ashley Southard and she has you covered! Straight from a licensed marriage and family therapist, you’ll learn in this episode:
* Professional guidance during divorce
* Defining worst and best-case scenarios
* Managing emotions during divorce
* Focusing on children, career, and supportive relationships
* Addressing the struggle of over-functioning individuals to seek help or delegate responsibilities
* Importance of seeking therapy before starting the divorce process
* Over-functioning women in unfulfilling relationships
* Identifying emotional and practical needs during challenging times
This episode is for you if you’re ready and determined to get your head on straight when it comes to divorce! (Trust us, you can do this!)
You can find Dr Ashley on her viral IG account: http://www.instagram.com/drashleysouthard
And friends, remember, Our Family Wizard is here to help with you all of your coparenting issues. Go read our co written article! It's funny and really helpful! http://www.ourfamilywizard.com/notsuck
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