Afleveringen
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Stefani and Ray visit Susan Writer's column, Ask Someone Else's Mom, this week. The Biffs read about potentially rigged, by-chance encounters with former flames; an inter-familial rivalry that has two uteruses vying for first; and a long-distance open relationship without rules on track for marriage. [Patrice Grasset Vin de France 2021 Chenin Blanc]
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In this week's episode, relive some of the Biffs' favorite moments of Ill Advised. From episode 78 - How to Kidnap Us, a man's self-proclaimed stupid face is putting his wife off to sex with him. In episode 11 - God Damn It, Kourtney, her partner's weight gain has a woman questioning the future of her relationship. And from Episode 22 - Dick, Thom, & Beelzebub, a woman's lackluster sex life leaves her wondering if she can have extramarital affairs while staying with her husband.
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Zijn er afleveringen die ontbreken?
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Out of the Vault: This week, the Biffs bring you an episode with unaired segments from previous recordings. From Redditâs AITA, a father wonders if laughing at his sonâs self-sabotage makes him an asshole. From Metro.co.uk, a man promises to suppress his homoseuality in exchange for shelter with his wife and their children. And from Ask Amy, a woman starts a Facebook dating profile after her husband does, but is asked to shut it down when she receives more attention.
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In this weekâs episode, the Biffs read from one of their favorite columns - Natalie Bencivengaâs, Ask Natalie. A series of unfortunate events in a contentious relationship leaves a grieving widow wanting to sever ties with her late husbandâs son. A writerâs roommate-turned-close-friend crosses an unspoken boundary and violates her privacy when she borrowâs her sex toy. Another writerâs emotional capacity to handle her best friendâs grief fuels an interesting discussion between Stefani and Ray. [Stefano di Blasi 2021 Zibibbo Catarratto]
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Stefani and Ray attempt to weigh in on questions sent to the Slate.comâs How To Do It Column, by Rich Juzwiak and Jessica Stoya. A coupled individualâs want to connect intimately with girlfriends is interrupted by booty calls and one-nighters. Another writerâs realization that theyâre non-binary, along with their penchant for masochism, leaves them wondering if their husband is the one for them. Finally, a womanâs attempt at back-door, dildo play activates her gag reflex.[Benjamin Darnault 2022 Grenache Gris Plus]
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This week, the Biffs revisit Redditâs Am I the Assh*le (AITA) thread. A manâs disagreement with his wifeâs unusual punishment of their underaged drunk son stalls communications at home. Another father questions whether heâs asshole for kicking his son out, when itâs revealed that heâs been staying with them because he cheated on his pregnant, bed-ridden wife. And a manâs dash cam footage reveals what he really did to the family dog. [Yalumba Y-Series 2022 Viognier]
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The Biffs, Stefani and Ray, put new columnist, R. Eric Thomas of Asking Eric (Washington Post), to the test. Heâs got big shoes to fill as he steps in following Amyâs (Ask Amy) departure. An anti-gay rights in-law puts together a family tree and leaves the writerâs husband of ten years out, because of her stance on same-sex marriage. A man who enjoys just about everything in his marriage canât stomach another one of his wifeâs home cooked meals. Finally, a DNA test has a sister questioning a moral dilemma: remaining loyal to her brother, or making herself known to his secret, estranged love child. [Chris Baker 2022 Willamette Valley Rose]Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com
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The Biffs celebrate twenty-one years of Ask Amy with a send-off/tribute, including some of her best advice to date. Amy gets pranked in our first question, when a writer's scenario is the movie plot of the 2003 cult-classic, The Room. The second writer is a woman whose unchecked privilege, along with that of her family/friend group, gets in the way of her being a good sister. Finally, a dinner guest is upset following a party where the hostess fails to disclose that one of her guests was transitioning. [Beringer Bros. 2022 Bourbon Barrel Aged Chardonnay]
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This Biffs read through Laura Collins's column in the Metro.co.uk this week. One writer asks for guidance on coming out to her mother about sleeping with her uncle. Another questions that status of his marriage when his postpartum wife cheats on him, following his unplanned vacation with his friends. And finally, a young man, sexually harassed by his dad's young girlfriend, doesn't know how to tell him. [Prophesy 2022 Rose]
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In this weekâs episode of Ill Advised, Stefani and Ray read from Miss Manners column from UExpress. One writer asks for help in determining when to relate and when to express empathy when someone close is sharing a personal problem. Another writer takes a tumble and becomes the joke of the friend group. Finally, a change in a cancer survivors appearance has them wondering how to redirect compliments. [Chateau Laborde 2018 Sauvignon Blanc]
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It's another trip down memory lane as we relive some our favorite advice columns from our early days. From episode 13 - Swipe if You Want the Pipe, the Biffs address a writer's plan to get down and dirty with an internet beau. A man's uncut member becomes a Jewish mother's biggest worry, in episode 32 - Was Jesus Circumcised. And from Episode 72 - In the Privacy of Your Public, should Mom have knocked when the son uncharacteristically used the vacuum?
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Coleen Nolan, the Mirror.co.uk's agony aunt's column, is the topic of this weekâs conversation between the Biffs. A womanâs insecurities over the life her daughter lives prompts her question to Coleen. Another womanâs husband doesnât like it when sheâs barefoot on vacation, when she just wants to air out the puppies. Finally, when your Biff doesnât like your significant other, which side of the fence do you play on? [Aperol Spritz].Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com
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The Biffâs read through advice from Jenee Desmond-Harris of the Slateâs Dear Prudence, this week. A woman finds her husbandâs notes to himself on the best way to handle her in several scenarios. A husband cheats on his wife with the person she has a restraining order on, and now sheâs ready to give notice at their co-owned business. Lastly, when the rat-tail when out of style, this writer thinks their baby book shouldâve gone with it. [2022 J Vineyards & Winery Sauvignon Blanc]
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In this weekâs episode, Stefani and Ray read from âDear Abby.â A woman struggles to support her daughter through divorce when she learns about their open marriage. An ornate cut glass cake stand is the final straw after a writer feels snubbed by their family friend. Finally, a young woman is torn about her parentâs divorce after her father lays blame directly on her. [Rapaura Springs 2022 Sauvignon Blanc]
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Out of the Vault: This week, the Biffs bring you an episode with unaired segments from previous recordings. From Boston Globe's Love Letters, Stefani and Ray discuss a twenty-four years old's serial monogamy and her plea to ditch the habit. From The Slate's How To Do It, the Biffs learn about garden party- and kitchen table-polyamory when a writer's efforts at having all of their partners at their birthday party are stalled due to group dynamics.
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The Biffs take on Redditâs Am I The Assh*le again this week. A manâs culinary skills are challenged when his sisterâs boyfriend marches out in a huff in search of his own hot sauce. When a man is sniffed by a dog at a pet-friendly eatery, he barks at itâs owners. Self-sufficiency is a lesson best learned at self-check out. Finally, a grown man is butt-hurt and lashes out against his girlfriendâs daughter for referring to him as creepy during school drop-off. [Casillero del Diablo 2022 Sauvignon Blanc]
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In this week's episode, the Biffs, Stefani and Ray, read from the Reddit Am I The Asshole (AITA) thread. A man begs for judgement after serving his stay-at-home-mom wife with a performance evaluation based on the way she parents their children. Another Redditor brings her case before the internet after her roommate snitches on her to the landlord for refusing to move her sofa. [Miguel Vinho Verde]
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Sally Land's Dear Deidre of the Sun.co.uk takes the stage this week, with some controversial advice topics. What do you do when the man of your dreams turns out to be your long lost half-brother - and you want to keep sleeping with him? A man is pocket dialed by his wife and listens in to her moans and groans before busting her at home. A love child threatens a family's livelihood. [Bonterra 2021 Zinfindel]
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Natalie Bencivengaâs "Ask Natalie" is the center of the Biffs' conversations this week. Itâs one thing to sleep with your best friendâs boyfriend, but itâs another thing entirely to keep it from her. A man questions his fidelity after hiding a sex toy purchase from his ailing wife. Finally, a cheating husband wants to have a sleepover with his mistress where he and his wife still live and share a home. Itâs an episode of anecdotes and witty banter between Stefani and Ray. [Skouras 2021 Moscofilero]
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In this weekâs episode, Stefani and Ray read from Boston.comâs Love Letters, by Meredith Goldstein. A retreat from the familiar and the mundane inspires a left-field marriage proposal that the first writer only sees as a bandage to their problems. In the second letter, a woman introduces her boyfriend to her mother only to find out about their past sexual relations. Listen on to see what the Biffs have to say [Oyster Bay 2022 Pinot Gris]
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