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In this heartfelt and reflective season finale of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast, Danny and Tyler take a candid look back at the highs and lows of the past year. From personal growth and challenges to shared victories and unforgettable memories, they recap a year filled with lessons about resilience, manhood, and the power of community.
Why flexibility in goal-setting matters and how to handle setbacks.The importance of facing rejection and teaching resilience to the next generation.Navigating tough seasons, like loss and change, while holding on to hope.A behind-the-scenes glimpse into their business ventures, personal milestones, and the challenges of balancing work, passion, and family.The value of meaningful friendships and how to build unshakable connections.The hosts also share raw and honest reflections about grief, growth, and gratitudeâreminding listeners that lifeâs storms donât last forever and the sun always finds a way to shine through.
If you're looking for an uplifting, real, and thought-provoking conversation about what it means to live with purpose and persist through lifeâs challenges, this episode is for you.
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In this episode of The Lost Boy Scouts, Danny and Tyler explore what it means to "stand on business" and the importance of loyalty in various facets of life. From reflections on Thanksgiving and family reconciliation to intense rivalries on and off the mat, they explore the moments that challenge our values and require us to choose where we draw the line.
The duo shares personal stories from the jiu-jitsu world, dissecting a contentious one-star review that sparked a discussion about gym loyalty, respect, and the fine line between healthy competition and bad behavior. They also discuss the intersection of sports, aggression, and tribalism, referencing everything from Michigan vs. Ohio State to the infamous "Malice at the Palace."
On a more somber note, Danny and Tyler pay tribute to Kevin, a beloved member of the motorcycle community, and discuss the risks and camaraderie that come with riding.
Join us for an episode filled with humor, raw emotion, and thought-provoking discussions about standing up for what matters most and knowing when to walk away.
In This Episode:
Reflecting on Thanksgiving and family dynamicsGym Loyalty and the Challenges of cross-gym TrainingRivalries in sports: when competition becomes contentiousThe blurred lines between defending your honor and going too farA heartfelt tribute to Kevin and the motorcycle communityATC Jeremyâs Instagram for information on Kevinâs wake and family donation support.Follow us on Instagram: @LostBoyScouts.Thank you for tuning in! Donât forget to rate, review, and share the episode if it resonates with you. đ
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In this powerful episode of The Lost Boy Scouts Podcast, Tyler and Danny dive deep into the complexities of aging as men and explore what it means to remain "dangerous" as we get older. Inspired by a poignant quote from Act of Valor, the hosts discuss the sacred nature of living by a code, the role of masculinity as it evolves, and the tension between relevance and wisdom. Along the way, they break down the recent Tyson vs. Jake Paul fight and whether it was staged, touching on age, athleticism, and legacy.
This episode blends humor, heartfelt reflection, and honest insights into the struggles and triumphs of getting older, staying relevant, and passing on wisdom to the next generation.
What Youâll Hear in This Episode:
The Sacred Badge of Danger:
The Act of Valor quote and its resonance with modern manhood.
Why being âdangerousâ is a sacred concept and how it evolves with age.
Breaking Down the Tyson vs. Jake Paul Fight:Was the fight staged, and how did age play a role?
The intersection of spectacle, legacy, and athleticism.
What this fight says about manufactured vs. authentic danger.
The Evolution of Masculinity:How men adapt to physical decline with age and transform danger into wisdom.
Living by a code and passing it on to younger generations.
The balance between resilience and acceptance in aging.
The Importance of Tribe and Mentorship:Finding your tribe of like-minded men who inspire growth.
The role of mentors in shaping young men and fostering a sense of purpose.
Personal Stories and Reflection:Dannyâs insights from coaching wrestling and the lessons of resilience.
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In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts Podcast, Danny and Tyler dive deep into the concept of ownership, exploring how taking responsibility for our actions and choicesâgood and badâcan transform our lives. They discuss many men's struggles in seeking help, learning from mistakes, and building accountability in their relationships. Through candid stories, humor, and insights from their journeys, they shed light on the challenges of self-improvement, the courage needed to ask for support, and the essential role of accountability in building resilience. Tune in for a raw, inspiring conversation about stepping up, seizing the moment, and finding strength in living intentionally.
Topics Covered:
[0:02] Welcome back to the studio (and ongoing technical challenges)[3:45] The bus setup: Bringing the podcast on the road[5:23] Why we struggle to accept constructive feedback as men[10:14] "The Need for Good Men": Finding support and role models[14:52] Taking ownership vs. blaming others for setbacks[19:08] The concept of homeostasis and managing highs and lows[23:47] Breaking down the peaks and valleys of men's mental health[29:32] âSoundboardingâ as a powerful tool in friendships[35:55] The evolving studio setup and learning from mistakes[41:02] Taking feedback as guidance, not criticism[45:10] The role of jiu-jitsu in teaching humility and resilience[51:20] Jiu-jitsu classes as a lesson in asking questions and taking risks[56:18] Challenging the perception of "toxic masculinity"[1:01:10] The power of extreme ownership in shaping relationships[1:05:03] Breaking generational cycles by embracing accountability[1:10:49] Redefining masculinity in today's world[1:15:23] Facing hardships: Taking ownership instead of blaming others[1:20:11] âStand on Businessâ: Embracing your role in conflicts and resolutions[1:25:05] How owning mistakes builds stronger bonds with family[1:30:34] Navigating disagreements and conflict with grace[1:35:18] The importance of kindness and grace in owning up to mistakes[1:40:00] Wrapping up: How small actions of ownership can transform your life[1:43:30] Final thoughts: Why âOwning the Momentâ matters in a manâs journey -
Ever struggled with tech? Yeah, same here! In this episode, Tyler and Danny come clean about last weekâs audio mishaps (donât worry, we think weâve got it sorted). From the joys of learning podcasting on the go to deeper conversations about wrestling, jiu-jitsu, and navigating lifeâs unexpected lessons, the guys explore how to embrace imperfection and keep laughing through the challengesâon and off the mat.
Set against the crisp backdrop of Utahâs mountains, they discuss lifeâs rapid pace, wrestling with perfectionism, and the importance of staying grounded in the present. They also explore the role of mentorship and how it reflects lifeâs highs and lows, reminding us that real growth often comes from the hardest lessons.
Grab your winter coat (or, if youâre like Tyler, your flip-flops) and join the conversation as The Lost Boy Scouts continue their journey through the beautiful chaos of manhood, learning, and everything in between.
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In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts, Tyler and Danny tackle the ups and downs of their weekend, starting with technical glitches during their mountain recording session and reflecting on the recent belt test. From discussing the importance of perseverance on the mat to digging deep into personal reflections on relationships, the guys share powerful insights about personal growth, conflict resolution, and the journey to becoming better men.
Tech Troubles in the Mountains: The guys face equipment challenges but keep it real and raw, discussing how they overcome frustrations.Belt Test Recap: A proud moment for the community as they celebrate Preston and Dave earning their black belts. Tyler and Danny reflect on what it means to work hard and stay committed.Progress & Regression: Why it's crucial to recognize not only our progress but also our ability to bounce back from setbacks.The "Same Team" Mentality: How relationships, especially marriage, require constant teamwork and open communication.Healing Conflict: Conflict doesnât mean disconnection; it's an opportunity to grow. The guys share personal stories on navigating tough moments in their marriages.Sponsorship Shoutouts: Announcements about collaborations with Mayhem on the Mat, Jitsi Rings, and Element.Episode Summary:
In this candid and reflective episode, Tyler and Danny dive into the challenges of life both on and off the mat. Broadcasting from the mountains, the duo battles through technical issues while sharing stories from a recent jiu-jitsu belt test, where perseverance and teamwork took center stage. They delve into the complexities of relationships, discussing how they navigate conflicts with their spouses and the importance of being on the "same team." Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the value of learning from both progress and setbacks, whether itâs in jiu-jitsu or life. This episode is a powerful mix of humor, heart, and real talk about manhood, growth, and resilience.
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In this episode of The Lost Boy Scouts, Danny and Tyler reflect on their journey through Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu and life's challenges. They discuss the physical toll of training, the anticipation of upcoming belt tests, and the sense of progression that comes from consistency. Shifting gears, the conversation dives deep into personal growth, vulnerability, and the complexities of male relationships. The hosts talk about how men handle conflict, addiction, and the struggle to find a balance between being a "monster" in the right situations and learning when to pull back. They explore trust, personal responsibility, and setting boundaries through raw and honest dialogue. This episode is a candid look at men's mental and emotional battles as they strive to become better versions of themselves.
Show Notes:
00:00 â Intro and casual chat about reaching Episode 3802:00 â Cold weather and cowboy hats: life in Utah04:30 â Recap of a grueling Wednesday Jiu-Jitsu session and the challenge of facing tough rounds09:45 â Tyler's experience with Nick Howlett and the "tree trunk" guillotine attemptNoon â Physical training: balancing weights and BJJ and the soreness that comes with it16:15 â Belt test preparation and the buzz at the academy19:00 â The importance of consistency in training and life22:00 â Personal progress vs. stagnation: dealing with self-doubt and mental hurdles26:00 â Cutting toxic relationships and emotional baggage31:45 â The internal struggle: examining the root of emotional addiction39:15 â The challenges of male communication and relationships44:00 â Rumination, scorekeeping, and the toll it takes on mental health53:30 â Navigating family dynamics and maintaining healthy boundaries01:06:00 â Addiction and regression: the slippery slope of falling back into old habits01:18:00 â Porn addiction and the emotional residue it leaves behind01:32:00 â Jiu-Jitsu community highs and lows, staying grounded amid growth01:40:00 â Embracing slow progress and finding pride in who you've become -
In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts podcast, hosts Danny and Tyler dive into their recent adventures, discussing everything from work-life balance and parenting challenges to their favorite pastime: jiu-jitsu. They touch on personal growth, overcoming workplace conflict, and the lessons learned from being a "white belt for life" in both jiu-jitsu and personal development. The hosts also break down the exciting matches from the Craig Jones Invitational (CJI) and ADCC, sharing their thoughts on the rise of jiu-jitsu as a spectator sport. The conversation rounds out with reflections on family, their upcoming jiu-jitsu belt test, and the power of maintaining humility in the face of life's challenges.
Show Notes:
Episode Highlights:
[00:00:07] Intro and catching up after a break[00:00:36] Juggling podcasting, work, and family life[00:01:19] Dannyâs reflections on work challenges and handling conflict[00:02:32] A deep dive into jiu-jitsu: Comparing tower control at work to jiu-jitsu mindset[00:16:32] Tylerâs daughterâs university experience and the importance of finding your path[00:45:06] Insights into competing at CJI and ADCC tournaments[00:51:15] Jiu-jitsu lessons: Humility, family, and always being a white belt in life[00:59:55] Upcoming events: Belt testing, birthdays, and fall camping trips[01:05:20] Ending on a thoughtful note: Conflict resolution and the superpower of humilityKey Takeaways:
Conflict Resolution â Apologizing and addressing situations with grace can transform difficult interactions, whether at work or in jiu-jitsu.Parenting Insights â Tyler talks about his daughterâs educational journey and the importance of supporting young adults in their decision-making.Jiu-Jitsu Growth â The episode features an in-depth discussion on jiu-jitsu tournaments like CJI and ADCC, touching on the evolution of the sport and the personalities driving its popularity.Philosophy of Being a White Belt for Life â Both hosts reflect on the mindset of remaining curious, humble, and constantly learning, both in jiu-jitsu and life.Personal Reflection â The hosts share personal experiences about balancing family, work, and personal growth.Mentions:
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In this episode of The Last Boy Scouts, Danny and Tyler dive deep into the daily grind of maintaining a routine amidst life's chaos. From the physical demands of jiu-jitsu training to the emotional challenges of fatherhood, they explore how to stay disciplined when motivation wanes. They discuss the importance of non-negotiables, accountability, and how to lead through routine, especially when life gets overwhelming.
Tyler shares his struggles balancing his training schedule while being a single parent and the importance of resetting when life throws curveballs. Danny reflects on his journey as an empty nester and how prioritizing his health and career has evolved. The conversation also touches on societal pressures, the influence of social media, and the challenges of raising kids in a world full of distractions.Listen in as they candidly discuss the importance of self-awareness, the need to ask for help, and how to self-rescue when it gets tough. Whether you're a seasoned jiu-jitsu practitioner or just trying to keep up with the demands of everyday life, this episode offers insights and encouragement for anyone looking to build a better routine and find balance in the chaos.
Staying motivated in training and lifeThe importance of routines and non-negotiablesBalancing fatherhood, work, and personal growthSocial media's impact on self-perception and prioritiesSelf-rescue techniques and the power of breathwork
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Tyler and Danny break down the intense superfights, from the young prodigies showcasing textbook techniques to the thrilling overtime battles that kept everyone on the edge of their seats. Hear behind-the-scenes stories of camaraderie and the buzz of anticipation that filled the air. They also reflect on the emotional black belt promotions, the impact of elevation on the competitors, and the heartfelt speeches that rounded out the event. In addition, Danny shares tales from his adventurous road trip in a vintage VW bus, complete with unexpected challenges and memorable moments. To top it all off, the hosts tease an exciting upcoming announcement that listeners won't want to miss. This episode is packed with action, inspiration, and a glimpse into what's next for the podcast.
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In this episode, Danny and Tyler welcome ATC Jeremy, an air traffic controller and motorcycle enthusiast. They delve into Jeremy's journey from the Air Force to civilian air traffic control, his love for motorcycling, and the profound experiences of riding across the country. The discussion covers the challenges and rewards of both careers, the importance of finding community and support, and the personal growth that comes from stepping out of oneâs comfort zone. Tune in for inspiring stories, practical insights, and a celebration of shared passions.
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In this special episode, Danny and Tyler record from Danny's 1973 Volkswagen Transport CamperTop parked near the picturesque Provo River. They reminisce about their childhood memories, discuss the Provo River Restoration Project, and reflect on Nick's life celebration in Denver. The episode emphasizes the importance of gratitude, the impact of good sleep routines, and the emotional challenges of balancing life, work, and parenting. The hosts also share stories about local events, their families, and the vibrant community they cherish.
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In this episode of "The Lost Boy Scouts," Tyler and Danny explore the importance of living in the present and how practicing gratitude can significantly enhance mental well-being. As they share their journeys and experiences, they explore the struggles many men face with depression and anxiety, often rooted in dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. This episode offers insights into how embracing the present moment and cultivating a daily gratitude practice can lead to a more fulfilling and balanced life.
Show Notes:0:14 - 1:26:
Reflections on how consistent training and support from the jiu-jitsu community have led to significant transformations in their lives.1:27 - 2:30:
It is important to compliment each other and acknowledge each other's progress, especially for men who might not often hear positive affirmations.2:31 - 3:53:
Tyler talks about his journey with emotional eating and the realization of using food to cope with mental and emotional states.3:54 - 5:13:
The role of food in mental health and how the need for a dopamine hit can lead to unhealthy eating habits.5:14 - 7:16:
Danny shares a personal story about a disappointing food experience and the realization of first-world problems in the context of men's mental health.7:17 - 9:14:
Discussing men's mental health awareness and the struggles men face with societal expectations and the facade of being "tough."9:15 - 12:04:
The duo delves into the harmful effects of the alpha male persona and the importance of humility and kindness in redefining masculinity.12:05 - 14:02:
Tyler talks about working through the 10-step program and how it has helped him address destructive thinking patterns.14:03 - 15:45:
Insights into the significance of self-exploration and understanding the root causes of personal struggles.15:46 - 18:27:
The concept of gratitude is fundamental in overcoming past traumas and finding peace in the present.18:28 - 20:32:
How depression and anxiety are often linked to dwelling on the past or fearing the future, and the importance of focusing on the present moment.20:33 - 22:10:
Danny and Tyler discuss their battles with depression and the steps they've taken to reframe their perspectives.22:11 - 24:37:
It is essential to surround oneself with supportive, honest friends who challenge and uplift each other.24:38 - 26:22:
Tyler shares a heartwarming update about a participant from their men's ascent course and its positive impact on his life.26:23 - 28:50:
The challenges and benefits of maintaining a gratitude practice, especially during tough times like losing a loved one.28:51 - 30:55:
The importance of living a rich life consists of meaningful relationships and experiences rather than material wealth.30:56 - 33:02:
Reflections on the upcoming Father's Day and how societal expectations shape how men experience and express their role as fathers.33:03 - 35:00:
Upcoming events and plans for the podcast, including live streaming and future discussion topics.Notes
Follow us on InstagramJoin our Facebook GroupLearn more about Jiu-Jitsu at Park City Jiu-JitsuIf you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review on iTunes or Spotify and share it with a friend who might benefit from hearing it. Let's spread the message of mental well-being and gratitude together! -
In this episode, Danny and Tyler delve into the complexities of dealing with anger and practicing benevolence in modern manhood. They discuss the impact of anger on personal relationships, the importance of curiosity, and the need to seek understanding rather than be understood. The hosts share personal experiences and insights on navigating emotions, handling anger, and teaching children to be curious and empathetic.
Show Notes:
Danny and Tyler reflect on the challenges of managing anger and the importance of seeking understanding.They discuss the impact of single-parent households on anger management and emotional expression.The hosts emphasize the power of curiosity and the need to acknowledge and process emotions.They share personal stories of dealing with anger and the importance of teaching children emotional intelligence.The hosts highlight the dangers of unresolved anger and the importance of seeking solutions and healing.They touch on the significance of self-reflection, communication, and seeking support in managing emotions.The episode concludes with a discussion of practical self-defense scenarios and the importance of de-escalation in conflict situations.Don't forget to tune in to the next episode for more insights on navigating emotions and relationships in modern manhood.
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In this episode, Danny and Tyler delve into the complexities of balancing various aspects of life, including parenting, training, and personal growth. They share personal experiences and reflections on navigating challenges and emotions while striving for growth and self-improvement.
Danny opens up about his struggles with anger and frustration, highlighting the importance of acknowledging and managing these emotions. He emphasizes the significance of finding healthy outlets, such as martial arts training, to channel negative energy and maintain emotional balance.Tyler shares his journey of dealing with overthinking and emotional turmoil, expressing a desire for peace amidst the chaos of daily life. He reflects on the impact of past experiences and the ongoing process of self-discovery and healing.
The hosts discuss the importance of self-acceptance and understanding one's capabilities in terms of darkness and compassion. They emphasize the value of recognizing personal boundaries and expectations in relationships, as well as the power of genuine connections and genuine interactions.Throughout the conversation, Danny and Tyler touch on resilience, self-awareness, and the ongoing quest for inner peace. They highlight the significance of finding balance, setting boundaries, and prioritizing mental well-being in the journey toward personal growth and fulfillment.
Join Danny and Tyler as they navigate the intricate dance of balancing parenthood, training, and personal development, offering insights and reflections on the challenges and triumphs of the human experience.
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In this episode, the hosts, Danny and Tyler, recognize distractions and prioritize personal growth for success. They share personal experiences where distractions like self-medication, relationship issues, and external pressures hindered their focus on goals. The conversation emphasizes the need to prioritize self-improvement over distractions and how behavior patterns developed in youth can impact one's ability to prioritize effectively in adulthood.
The hosts discuss the role of relationships in managing distractions, highlighting the significance of having supportive partners who aid in personal growth. They stress the importance of open communication and mutual understanding in relationships to foster a conducive environment for personal development.The episode underscores the transformative power of human relationships in promoting self-improvement and change. Viewing relationships as mirrors or magnifying glasses can offer valuable insights, identify areas for growth, and facilitate positive changes for a more fulfilling life.
The hosts also touch on the brain's adaptability and the potential for acquiring new skills at any age, emphasizing the importance of willingness and effort in personal development. They highlight the significance of early habits in shaping adult behavior and patterns, emphasizing the need to be mindful of youth habits and their influence on future behaviors.
Overall, the episode conveys that prioritizing distractions and focusing on personal growth are crucial for success. It underscores the need for self-reflection, open communication in relationships, and consistent practice in prioritizing what truly matters to achieve long-term goals and fulfillment. The hosts encourage listeners to prioritize self-improvement and create a path to personal growth by recognizing distractions and focusing on what truly matters. -
Hello Fans! While Danny and I are busy setting up our new studio, we're bringing you a bold and unfiltered original recording. This week, we dive into the complexities of "Boys and Sex," inspired by Peggy Orensteinâs insightful book. Be warnedâitâs explicit and raw. Mom, you might want to skip this one! We're eager to return soon with fresh, original content. Until then, enjoy this deep dive.
In this episode, Danny and Tyler tackle the critical topics of masculinity, sexuality, and consent, with a nod to Peggy Orenstein's "Boys and Sex." We explore the pressing issues surrounding consent, the challenges posed by porn addiction, and the emotional landscapes of shame and guilt. By sharing our personal journeys and struggles, we aim to shed light on the necessity of open, honest conversations about sex. We discuss the influence of culture, societal expectations, and technology on young people's views of relationships and sex. Join us as we navigate these essential discussions with transparency, empathy, and a dedication to promoting healthier dialogues about sexuality and consent.
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In this episode, Danny guides Tyler, and they delve into the power of breathwork as a tool for regulating emotions and maintaining focus. They discuss their personal experiences with breathwork, highlighting how it has helped them navigate challenging situations, such as arguments, training sessions, and moments of heightened emotions. The hosts emphasize the importance of nasal breathing, breath control, and the impact of breathwork on the central nervous system. They share insights on how breathwork can calm the mind, refocus energy, and prevent reactive responses in stressful situations. Join them as they explore the transformative effects of breathwork in promoting mental clarity and emotional balance.
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In this episode, Danny and Tyler share their thoughts on the significance of resilience and ego in various aspects of life, particularly in sports like wrestling and jiu-jitsu. They talk about the challenges that come with competition, the impact of ego on personal growth, and the struggle to maintain a balance between confidence and humility. The conversation highlights the importance of recognizing and managing ego both on and off the mat, and how it can influence relationships, personal development, and decision-making. Through their personal stories and reflections, they explore the fine line between confidence and arrogance, emphasizing the value of self-awareness and the ability to navigate the complexities of ego to cultivate resilience and authenticity in one's journey.
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In this episode, Danny recounts the surprise promotion and the emotional moment of receiving his brown belt alongside his son's purple belt. Tune in to hear about the special training night and the significance of reaching these new belt levels in their martial arts journey.
Change is a central theme in the podcast episode, emphasizing the importance of embracing change in various aspects of life. The hosts discuss their personal experiences with change, whether in relationships, careers, or personal growth. They highlight the significance of not being afraid to make changes, even when faced with challenges or uncertainties.
Tyler discusses the emotional cycle of change in the episode, which includes stages like uninformed optimism, informed pessimism, the valley of despair, informed optimism, and success. This cycle illustrates individuals' ups and downs when undergoing changes in their lives. It emphasizes the need to push through difficult times, seek support, and consistently pursue personal growth and development.
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