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What does emotionally available love really look like? In this new video, I break down six key signs of emotional availability so you can spot the difference between fleeting attention and real intention.
If youâre tired of wasting time on people who arenât serious, I also share how to recognize emotional availability early on . . . without coming across as too intense. Plus I reveal the subtle behaviors that separate healthy connection from love bombing, so you can protect your heart and invest in the right person.
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In todayâs Rewind episode, I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting.
If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (which doesnât feel good, donât get me wrong) you can usually assume they just werenât feeling the chemistry . . .
But what does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time?
In this episode, I give you three reasons why someone might do this, what you should do when it happens, and the strange reason why they may choose to ghost but leave the door open. You canât miss this topic!
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Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into what truly makes a long-term relationship successfulâbeyond the clichĂ©s. Whether youâre in a new relationship, struggling with resentment, or simply curious about what happy couples do differently, this episode is packed with insight from experts on what really makes love last.
In this episode: Results from a 20,000-person Instagram poll on what people think makes a relationship last.
The Gottman Institute on bids for connection, and the 5:1 ratio of positive to negative interactions.
The toxic buildup of micro-resentmentsâand how to address them early.
How to repair arguments when one person wants space and the other wants closeness.
Relationship âhacksâ youâve never heard of (including love mapping and emotional buttons).
Why âperfectâ couples still argueâand how to argue better.
The Michelangelo Effect: how great couples help each other grow. Links:
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If youâve ever found yourself stuck in a pattern of falling for the wrong people, youâre not aloneâbut that doesnât mean youâre doomed to repeat the same mistakes. In this video, Iâll show you how to rewire the way you experience attraction. In it, I share five specific shifts that will help you break free from the patterns sabotaging your love life.
From microdosing on emotionally unavailable exes to losing yourself in someone who isnât ready, weâre getting honest about the real cost of staying in cycles that erode our confidence and waste our time.---
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Does absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person youâre into seems to forget you exist when youâre not in the same room?
When youâre together, life couldnât be better. You have off-the-charts chemistry, theyâre totally focused on you, and your connection feels genuine.
The catch?
When youâre apart, you feel invisible as communication slows to a crawl and often drops off completely.
As a result of these mixed signals, youâre essentially living in two completely different realities, and youâd do anything to get some clarity. You might even ask yourself: âShould I try to invest in this relationship even more to show how serious I am? Or would it be better to mirror their behavior and go cold?â
In todayâs Rewind episode, I walk you through what you must absolutely NOT DO in this hot and cold scenario . . . plus I give you two very specific text messages that can (finally!) get you out of this frustrating situation.
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In this episode Matthew and Audrey sit down for a review of the last quarter of the year and dive into the hidden forces that shape our relationships with others and ourselves.
They also discuss the perfectionism that keeps us from connection, overthinking texts, and the emotional blocks that hold us back in our relationships. Plus, they answer a listener's question on whether showing interest in someone inevitably drives them away, and how to strike the balance between authenticity and attraction.
Topics include:
Why the fear of being "too much" makes us play small in dating and friendships
The truth about why people pull away when we show interestâand how to handle it
How perfectionism sabotages your communication and creates disconnection
A simple but powerful quarterly reflection exercise to reset your year
Why overthinking texts can ironically make you seem distant or cold
The invisible difference between "connecting" and "protecting" modes in life
How to be more warm, proactive, and magnetic in your communication
What it really means to âcreate the cultureâ in your relationships
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Why do amazing peopleâkind, self-aware, emotionally intelligentâkeep falling for partners who canât meet them halfway? In this weekâs video, we uncover the five reasons behind this painful cycle and how to finally break free. From the scarcity mindset to the addictive highs and lows of unstable relationships, weâll explore why we settle for less and how to rewrite the story we tell ourselves about love.
If youâve ever felt stuck between the chaos of unhealthy relationships and the âdullnessâ of safe ones, this video is for you. Learn how to break the patterns that keep you tethered to the wrong people, and start creating the love life you truly deserve.
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Have you ever found yourself stuck thinking about an ex whoâs no longer in your life? Itâs a painful trap, but one that so many of us fall into when we tie our worth to someone elseâs story instead of our own.
In this episode, we uncover the mindset shift that frees you from this cycle and helps you reclaim your confidence. By focusing on the one thing you truly ownâyourselfâyou can start building a life that feels fulfilling, no matter whatâs happening around you.
If youâre ready to let go of whatâs holding you back and invest in your own happiness, this episode is your guide. Donât miss it!
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Why do great dates sometimes lead to radio silence? In this new Love Life episode, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into the mystery of why someone might pull away after what seemed like a perfect first (or second, or third) date. From the elusive âsparkâ to deeper compatibility issues, youâll learn surprising reasons why people choose not to pursue another dateâand how to avoid taking it personally. ---
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Have you ever sent a text and immediately wished you could take it backâor worse, been met with silence?
In this weekâs new video, Iâm sharing 7 texts that not only greatly increase your chances of a reply, but also build real attraction. These arenât your run-of-the-mill messages, either. Theyâre crafted to create tension and spark desire.Whether youâre tired of ghosting, lukewarm responses, or conversations that fizzle out, these texts will help you go from being someone they kind of like to someone they canât stop thinking about.
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How do you know if someoneâs really over their ex?
Sometimes you meet a person who ticks all your boxes, but they also havenât 100% gotten over the heartbreak of their last relationship. Of course, the first questions you ask yourself are: âIs this a huge red flag? Does it mean they are emotionally unavailable? Should I walk away?â
This is a really important topic in todayâs video, and my answer to this probably isnât what youâd expect.
Give it a watch to find out the signs you can look out for to discern whether someone is truly a bad bet or if they have real potential.
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Are you stuck in a cycle of tolerating disrespect or avoiding tough conversations?
In this episode of Love Life, Matthew, Audrey, and Stephen dive into why so many of us stay in challenging relationshipsâwhether romantic, familial, or platonicâfor far too long, and how to reclaim your power by setting boundaries and addressing the issues. Youâll learn how to stop obsessing over someone elseâs actions and start focusing on why youâre allowing it, plus practical tools for having those difficult conversations youâve been avoiding.
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Why we ignore our needs in the early stages of relationships.
How to have tough conversations about what matters to you.
The power of teaching others how to treat youâand when to walk away.
Why people-pleasing tendencies can leave you feeling invisible in your own relationships.
How to break free from unhealthy dynamics and create space for mutual respect.
If youâve ever struggled to stand up for yourself or felt stuck in a one-sided dynamic, this episode will give you the clarity and confidence to take action.
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How do you flirt without looking desperate? When you meet someone youâre into, it can feel like walking a tightropeâyou want to show interest, but not come off as too eager.
In this weekâs episode, I share five subtle-yet-powerful flirting techniques that create attraction . . . without the fear of looking desperate or risking rejection. (Plus, I reveal a playful way my wife flirted with me early on that left a lasting impressionâand itâs something you can easily try yourself.)
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We all know we wonât connect with everyone we meet . . . but one of the most frustrating situations we can find ourselves in is one where we feel an initial spark and a connection, but things just donât seem to progress. And in the end, they end up fading as we feel a lack of momentum.
Rather than giving in to our desire to double down on communication, thereâs a simple shift we can make on a date that allows unique attraction to grow. And itâs the kind of thing that will leave them thinking of us long after the date has ended . . .
If youâd like to learn what this ingredient is and how you can add it to your next date, donât miss this weekâs brand-new episode.
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Are you walking away too fastâor staying when you shouldnât?
In this episode, Matthew Hussey shares an honest look at how we misread red flags in dating in an interview with Lisa Bilyeu (@LisaBilyeu). Youâll learn how to spot real red flags vs. amber lights, when to pause instead of panic, and how the right relationship can help you heal.
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The difference between a red flag and an âamber lightâ đŠ
How fear and past hurt can make us overreact or shut down đŹ
The danger of going into dating like an "assessor" rather than a present and open human being.
Why empathy without boundaries can be dangerousâand how to balance compassion with standards.
How relationships can be healing if you show up the right way đ
Whether youâve been burned in the past or just want to date with more emotional intelligence, this oneâs for you.
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If youâve ever found yourself saying, âIâm so done with dating,â this video is for you. Dating burnout is real, and itâs easy to see the process of finding love as a chore.
But what if there was a way to make dating fun again?
Thatâs right. Going out, dating, finding a meaningful connectionâthis can be a rewarding part of your life, regardless of whether youâre looking for a committed relationship. So if you need a refresh for your brain right now, here are 7 powerful mindsets that will make dating feel easier.
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Breakups are incredibly hard.
And a split can be even more excruciating when your partner moves on while youâre still healing.
It can leave you with all kinds of painful questions like:
âWhy wasnât I good enough?â
âWhat does that person have that I donât have?â
âHave I lost the love of my life to someone else?â
Itâs one of the worst types of pain there is. And if we donât learn the right lessons from our breakup, it can create baggage in the form of insecurities and an unwillingness to open up to someone new. (Risking your chance to find real, lasting love.)
But closure can come faster than you expect with a simple shift in the way you choose to think about your ex, and yourself. Iâm sharing this powerful shift with you today.
If thereâs anything I want you to take from this video, itâs that while what youâre going through is hard, itâs also an opportunity. A chance to let go of someone who couldnât see your value, so that you can make space for a man who can.
If someone doesnât choose you, they cannot be right for you. Period. Thereâs someone better on the other side of all this. I promise.
Todayâs video was inspired by a brave male audience member who was devastated when his girlfriend of 5 years moved on only four months after their breakup. Not only will you learn something from the response I give him, but you'll also get insight into how men process pain. Spoiler alert⊠we ainât that different.
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In this episode of the Love Life Podcast, Matthew, Audrey, Stephen, and producer David dive deep into one of the most common struggles in dating: flirting.
So many people feel stuck when it comes to creating chemistry, worrying they'll come off as desperate, awkward, or get rejected. This episode breaks down how to define âflirtingâ rather than just talking, and gives some simple-but-powerful ways to do it in early attraction.
đŻ Topics include:
Why people often lose their flirtatious spark when they like someone too much
The 4 most common flirting fears (based on poll results)
The difference between platonic, desire, and love language
How to flirt without being overly sexual or awkward
What âpeople-pleasingâ energy looks like and how it kills seduction
Practical examples of flirtatious compliments that actually work
The secret ingredient: Tension, contrast, and slowing down
Plus, we have our regular segment âSteveâs Sleevesâ with a fun game of Love Life Crew vs Matthew AI!
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If finding love feels harder than ever in 2025, itâs not just you.
In todayâs episode, I explore the cultural shifts and challenges that are fueling the ârelationship recession.â Drawing inspiration from the Netflix series Adolescence, weâll dive into the disillusionment many men are facing, the frustrations women are experiencing, and the hidden dynamics making connection feel so elusive.
From surprising stats to the subtle mindsets that sabotage us before love even begins, this video connects the dots. If youâve ever wondered why someone amazing vanished after two datesâor why you might be pulling away yourselfâthis will explain whatâs really going on and how to rise above it to create meaningful relationships. Let me know what you think!
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Have you ever deeply fallen for someone only to feel them gradually fading away?
It feels awful.
You panic. You overthink every text message. You worry that losing this person could mean losing your chance at a real connection, or your dream of a relationship with someone truly special.
Iâve found there are 3 common mistakes people make when they get into this panic mindset, and in todayâs new video, Iâll show you the best strategy to give yourself the maximum chance of salvaging the relationship (or help you move on to find the RIGHT person for you).
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