Afleveringen
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Apologies again about mics dropping out! Fingers crossed this is now resolved for our next recording. Also **trigger warning** on non-consensual activities
In this episode we cover; Golden showers, anal, bondage, BDSM, feet fetishes, plus so much more!
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Becky’s Insta becky_1777
As well as; smoking kinks, lactation fetish, incestual stuff (eww), tickling, CBT (Cock and ball torture)
We address the myth of the loose pussy idea
We talk fisting. Trigger warning here. Role play, CNC (Consensual-Non-consensual, rape fantasy)
The more fucked up stuff! Necrophiliac role play… and we ask are men ok out there?!
Eden fucked the mad hatter!
When men request to be the sub in a booking, they want to be spat on, slapped, degraded
Becky tells us about her Blow-Up Doll Guy
Sex workers are a great way to explore your kinks, fetishes and fantasy. But some things… maybe you should talk to a psychologist about that.
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Apologies about the audio dropping out we are still working out the technical kinks of the podcasting world. In this episode, *trigger warning* we talk safety, assaults, rape, and murder. We share our screening process to try and stay safe with sex work. Its a heavy, but important episode.
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Life update being banned X – we are working out our social media account stay tuned
Lots of trigger warnings on safety concerns, we talk murder, rape, assault, crime
When some enquires about an outcall, first all check the location and services
Ask for a photo an address and secure a deposit
Check the street view of the address
We are not sharing to scare you it’s to make you aware of the risks so you can be on your guard and plan for the worst
Find things you can use as a weapon, your key, deodorant, dry shampoo
Australian laws, it is illegal to carry a weapons
Some girls will require you to send a drivers license, there’s pros and cons to this
Guys need to be wary with what girls they see too, you need to make sure they are legit
When going on an outcall, they need to send a deposit. This is part of the screening process. You look up their name using their payid information. Put their name in google, see what comes up. Past experience, they had court appearances coming up!
Outcalls are riskier for women, so extra measure are in place
Before leaving for the outcall, screen shot all the information to someone you know, their number photo, the address. Also check in with someone for the time you should be there and what time you will be finished
When arriving to the outcall, park on the street, not in the drive way
Even if you don’t have security, make them think you have security
Red flag, if they are sending photos of wads of cash, they are full of shit
Ask questions, will anyone else be at the property during the booking?
Men; don’t have escorts over while your children are sleeping!
Don’t be in a rush, when setting up outcalls
When arriving at the address, message them to tell them you have arrived, wait until they come out of the property, hold onto your keys until you are sure you are safe.
Edens story, the guy wasn’t the guy in the photo so went to leave, 6 or 7 guys were in the house waiting for me, luckily my gut told me it was off and I didn’t enter the property, but this can happen. Multiple men might be in the property waiting to gang rape you or kill you.
If you haven’t locked your car, check that no one else has gotten in
We mention the poor girl that was murdered going to an outcall where three men were there unknowingly.
You are not necessarily safer working in a brothel, because the price is lower, women are more likely to be assaulted
It doesn’t matter what the guy’s background is, any guy can assault you. There is no point not seeing a particular demographic
There was a woman killed in a brothel recently
Because of these safety concerns, this is why we work together.
If a guy ask if you are alone, this is a red flag, I don’t take their bookings
Even a good regular can be a risk, never drop your guard while working
Taking incalls are always going to be safer. Keep your incall address safe. When you agree to a booking only give the address when you agree to a booking time.
When staying at airbnbs, give them the street name, then when they arrive there then give them the house number. In some locations, gays collect the address, they can watch this address, see how busy you are. They can rob you if they don’t show up for your booking.
Always keep your door locked and chained
Incall story, I tell guys I am working with a friend as we are walking into the room, one guy legged it after I told him this. He seemed very suspicious, he had his hood up, not making eye contact or talking. I looked him up afterwards and he had courts appearances coming up!
Ugly mugs, is a platform for women to share photos and information of men that have misbehaved in any way
We often check the guy’s number for each other to see if we have seen them before.
Guys do get new numbers which can make this tricky
Young guys are using grindr for work, men and trans need to be more on guard because there are people out there that just get off on hurting people. Young guys doing sex work are typically ready for men to assault them. Always screen shot the information and let someone know where you are, or plan something afterwards so someone will notice if you go missing. That is the sad reality of this work
If you want to know specific brothels, email us!
Do you want some kind of platform to connect and stay safe together? Let us know!
Listener question: How do you balance life and work especially with all the stigma around sex work
If you don’t hear from your friend after the booking time has finished, call the guy!
We suggest you do not drink or do drugs, in case they drug you
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In this episode, we share how you can build up your client base. If you are treating this work as a business (like you should be) then you want to have sustainable income. The best way to do this, like any business is being able to rely on regular bookings. Imagine walking into your shift, being told by the manager you are pre-booked until 10pm. Imagine going on tour and clients looking forward to your visit because they have heard such great things about you. We share all our tips to make this happen.
Email us your feedback and questions at [email protected]
Treat them like kings
Focus your attention on them, not yourself
Encourage them to come back and book longer
Give them geniune compliments
There are so many pros to getting regs, guaranteed money, as well as receiving gifts
Keep your professional boundaries
Regs can fluctuate, they can come and go for whatever reason, this is out of your control
Remember them! Find out what they like
Guys will talk about you, if you give a good service they will bring their friends, brothers and cousins
There are review forums where guys tell all; a play by play of the booking
Let your clients know your schedule, some guys like to plan ahead
Network, you want managers or other girls to recommend you.
If you don't enjoy your time with someone, don't see them, it's not always worth the money
You still need to be on your guard with regs
When you say no, stick to your no.
Bottom line, this is a job
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We thought we would give you guys a fun episode. So here are all of our favourite stories from the industry. The good, the funny and the disasters. We do also mention some bookings close to our hearts, when men come in very depressed. Trigger warning we mention suicide. We believe our work is an integral part of men’s health. But then we bring it back with some hilarious stories!
Email us at [email protected] we would love to hear your feedback or if you have any questions
Eden is a pillow princess and loves getting eaten out.
Becky’s favourite regular who likes to eat ass.
Pse bookings, when they are done right.
We get to see men at their lowest, and most vulnerable. When men are going through a break up. Or when we are the first woman they are with after their wife dies.
We believe our work is an integral part of men’s health. Some men come in to see us because they are so low they might want to end it all. We talk about how we help these men in these situations.
We are drug and alcohol free babes but we share our stories when men have used drugs in our bookings.
We have had many disasters in our bookings, especially our doubles. We share stories that make my tummy hurt with laughter.
When we blow guys minds and make them come hard!
Sometimes bookings can be hard work for different reasons.
Men, clean your butts!
Poo stories
Bucket list stories, Becky got a “little person”
Men say they like to treat themselves with spending money on a booking with us
A lot of men don’t receive compliments enough. We love giving compliments
Squirting stories
Becky says funny random things sometimes…
Young guys coming to brothels or seeing women privately to lose their virginity
Guys fiddling with themselves in the intro room.
Our longest regulars
Our body count is high, it doesn’t faze us
Bookings with couples
Vomiting from FF
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In this episode we share all of our red flags we have experienced working at brothels. These are things you want to avoid when choosing an establishment to work at. We share some green flags too. There is also a trigger warning on this episode as we share some traumatising situations while working.
email us your questions or feedback at [email protected]
Melbourne is the place to be for brothel work, there are so many clubs
Most places will allow you to work straight away, if that’s what you would like. Some will not allow you to work with out your STI screening test certificate. Some girls will still work, knowingly with STI’s
We recommend you spend time at a brothel, see how they run things and how the other girls are
Red flags in the interview – If they don’t have a price list and charge whatever they want
Girls can ruin a place by being jealous and catty
If condoms are a choice, or if they require you to bring your own condoms, they should provide this
When girls undercut other girls
When the clubs favours some girls, not giving girls an equal chance to get booked.
When a club wants you to fulfill a shift, you should be able to leave when you want to
When the clientele sucks, when guys are stealthing and management doesn’t do anything
When management tells your regs you are working when you are not
When girls are possessive over clients
When guys stealth and are let back in
If anyone is taking a cut from your profits
Green flags – If they are accommodating and flexible
When a club discourages bareback blowjobs
When management checks in on girls, asking if they are ok after bookings
When the girls look out for each other
Managers have your back when you have a problem with a client
There are no more laws around sex work, but there are club rules
The club requires a certificate from your doctor which states you have been tested, they are not required to see your test results
The girls make the business, without the women working, there is no business
Take note of how management react when a girl is assaulted
If the guy sees you naked, that’s your money
You need to be able to refuse a booking if the guys fails the health check
Don’t do anything you don’t want to.
No matter what happens, don’t burn your bridges.
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Your hosts, Becky & Eden talk about how you can get booked either in a brothel or working privately in the sex industry
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Brothels are a good place to start. We give advice for the 'new girl'.
Having confidence deters dodgy guys. Be comfortable with what you are wearing. What you wear may determine on the culture or vibe of the club.
We go over services offered in the sex industry, what we offer and what you could offer. We go over what is a standard service. What are extras. Always wear a condom!
Don't be desperate, don't be too much.
Don't tell guys what you DON'T do.
There is someone for everyone, it doesn't matter what you look like, your age, your body type, you could make money in this industry.
Reputation is everything! Men talk and write reviews.
You have a choice - you never have to take anyone's bookings if you don't want. This work needs to be consensual.
Go with your gut.
When the industry is quiet, you rely on your regulars.
Don't charge extra to let men touch your boobs.
Private versus brothels. What are some differences.
How to pick your name.
Advertising with photos
Set your boundaries and stick to them, do what you like.
Punter planet & review forums
Charge extra for anything outside of the standard or girlfriend service
What is included in the girlfriend experience and porn star experience.
Don't overwhelm yourself, start simple and add on with confidence.
Avoid time wasters
Risks to STI's
Catfishing in the private world.
Build up your reputation, it can take some time.
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Becky & Eden share how we got into sex work in Melbourne Australia
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Sex work, is it cheap and nasty or glamorous and expensive?
Women judging sex workers
Becky used locanto to advertise herself privately
Go with your gut
More women have gotten into the industry since covid, cost of living
Melbourne is the scene for sex work
Brothel versus private work - Brothels are harder work, but you learn a lot and the safety factor
What is included in the service
No natural sex!
Women that have experienced sexual trauma seem more likely to get into sex work
There are bad brothels out there that give women a bad experience
Men sometimes think they can do whatever they want because they paid for it - wrong!
We cover trauma responses
Any kind of woman can do sex work
We share a funny story from our bookings
