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I love all things fashion, including books, podcasts, television shows and movies, blogs and social media accounts about fashion and personal style. The power of getting dressed is high on the list of daily priorities, for many people, particularly due to the elevation and explosion of social media during the pandemic.
We now live in a world where the average consumer, and the ways in which he or she chooses to spend their money, is widely shown on social media. We no longer have to rely on tv shows, commercials or magazines for style inspiration or fashion advice.
A huge number of fashion designers, and luxury and affordable brands and retailers are discovered primarily through social media influencers who recommend that we shop from the same places where they shop and buy the same things that they buy.
Having this resource can prove to be useful, especially for those who arenât good at picking out their own clothing, accessories, or even home decor.
The thing to remember is that most of the social media influencers arenât fashion, style or design experts. They are regular folks, like you and I, who were courageous enough to broadcast their buying decisions online and found a community of people who happen to like the things they choose to buy. And now, the pattern continues!
If social media influencers can confidently choose what they like and spend their money accordingly, why canât we do that for ourselves? Do we need that kind of influence? Is it really influence or is it simply algorithmic pressure? What do you think?
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On January 1, 2025, I woke up to some disturbing and tragic national news. At that time, ten people had been killed by a terrorist in New Orleans, Louisiana, a few hours after midnight. Three officers were hospitalized and the terrorist, who used a truck and a gun to kill and injure these innocent human beings, was now dead.
The world has never been devoid of wicked patterns but lately it feels like the patterns are becoming more widespread and pervasive than ever.
Less than one month ago, an Insurance Executive was shot and killed in New York as he headed into a hotel.
These heinous and hateful crimes are sadly part of a pattern that I began referring to as an unraveling in early 2024. These deadly actions seem to signal an unraveling of some sort in some human beings everywhere.
I have many questions that may never be answered, yet Iâm still curious how human beings arrive at such dark states of mind to take someoneâs life? When does the unraveling begin and are they aware that it is happening? Is it a slow progression or does it happen suddenly? What patterns are they seeing, hearing or feeling that the rest of us arenât seeing, hearing or feeling?
The world is in a state of crisis and something must be done to stop the pattern of devalued human life.
If you and I are catalysts for change, how can we personally use Human Systems Dynamics to help influence others to recognize whatâs happening within them long before their edges become unraveled?
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Zijn er afleveringen die ontbreken?
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Glenda Eoyang, the Founder and Executive Director of Human Systems Dynamics (HSD) Institute, returns to the podcast, in this episode, to talk about a grand and important transition and transformation that is happening in the near future.
Press play to hear firsthand what Glenda has been seeing, understanding, and influencing through and with HSD for over 20 years, why it matters, and what she and people everywhere are doing about it right now.
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After January 1, 2025, the Human Systems Dynamics Institute will emerge into the world as a new, co-creative, global, massively diverse community of theory and practice. This new complex system has been evolving over the past 20 years. It includes individuals from all parts of the world, disciplines, and walks of life. It includes institutions from business, government, philanthropy, education, nonprofit, and sectors yet to be imagined. A coherent whole emerges from these diverse agents because they all find hope and power in the foundations of HSD: Vision, Simple Rules, and core models and methods (Adaptive Action, Inquiry, Pattern Logic).
In this Blog Post, Glenda and Royce Holladay, Director of HSD Services, share their thoughts and thanks for what the last twenty-two years has allowed to emerge!
Curious learners have an opportunity to attend âHSD Gathering 2025,â which will be held in the beautiful university city of Guelph, (near Toronto, Ontario) Canada from May 29 â 30, 2025. This two-day gathering will focus on the practice of applying HSD to the sticky issues we all face today in our teams, organizations, families, and communities.
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If you have any questions about the Gathering, please send an email to [email protected] or use the Contact Us form on the website.
Thank you for investing in this vibrant HSD community of curious scholars and for listening to Patterns and Possibilities.
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The holidays are considered the most wonderful time of the year. Itâs the time when we gather most with friends, family and colleagues at work to celebrate life in joyous ways. Celebrations with friends and family who know us well give us opportunities to let our hair down without judgment. The celebrations that happen with the people we work with, and around, often have to be navigated with more poise and composure than we would typically display with friends and family especially when alcohol is being served.
If youâve ever been to an after hours holiday party sponsored by the company or organization that you work for, you may have observed uncharacteristic and peculiar behavior from your colleagues as well as the people you report to and/or whom report to you. Perhaps you were the person demonstrating uncharacteristic and peculiar behavior that one wouldnât consider professional amongst professionals. Itâs easy to resort to judgments about the human beings we work with and around when they courageously step outside of their office personas and transform into human beings that we no longer recognize and didnât know existed.
The definition of having a good time is broader than some would expect when parties are centered around the human beings who work at âThe Office.â Itâs important to celebrate life professionally, but itâs even more important to tread lightly and avoid the needles of unprofessionalism when youâre surrounded by people who rate your job performance and for whom you do the same.
How comfortable are you navigating after hours work celebrations?
How much of your whole self, if any, do you bring into those spaces and places?
Have you ever gone beyond whatâs professionally acceptable at a work celebration and if so, how did you determine youâd gone too far?
How can you help your team to self-police themselves after hours by seeing and adhering to reasonable boundary lines when they havenât been established?
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Iâve always been fascinated by cities and how they work and every time I get an opportunity to travel to a new one, Iâm always hoping to have an adventure. My first trip to Nashville , Tennessee, in 2016 was adventurous in a horrific sort of way. Iâve never forgotten it, and I had to face that reality head on just a few days ago when I traveled back to Nashville for the second time. I seized the opportunity to transform some painful memories into something impactful and meaningful. Press play to hear how the city of Nashville impacted me and what I decided to do about it.
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How often do you use virtual meeting platforms to connect with others?
If virtual meetings are a regular pattern of communication in your personal and/or professional life, how do you make sure youâre giving your absolute best?
How do you virtually invest in a room full of people youâve never met in person?
How do you help others to get comfortable speaking in virtual spaces?
Have you ever felt uncomfortable in a Zoom meeting? If so, did you remain present, turn off your camera, or simply log off altogether?
How can we help the human beings who lead and participate in virtual meetings to have a great human experience?
These are some of the questions that have crossed my curious mind lately.
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I love to read, and I stumbled upon a book recently that caused me to Stand in Inquiry in a deep and imaginative way.
The words on the page led me to more wonderment about life and the patterns that we exhibit as badges of honor.
Iâm curious if youâve ever read a book that made you less certain about what you thought you knew? Have you ever been inspired or influenced to move from holding on to your beliefs to letting go of them so something new can take shape?
How has reading impacted the way you see, hear and experience life and the patterns that live in and around you?
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Iâm thankful that Iâve been able to use Human Systems Dynamics to transform wicked patterns in my life. Thereâs one pattern that I havenât been able to transform - not because I donât have the tools - itâs because I havenât had the desire and courage to deal with it until now.
An unexpected and powerful question from a loving friend and critic recently inspired me to deal with my ugly truths and the company they keep. Staring at it in the face reminds me just how ignorant Iâve been. Fortunately, Iâm not ignorant anymore, and I refuse to allow what I once didnât know to be my forever excuse for not moving past it.
Are you holding tightly to unhealthy patterns because theyâve been part of your life for so long that it would feel uncomfortable to live without them? If that is part of your story, I invite you to zoom in and zoom out of your ugly truths with deep curiosity and envision what your life would be like if you had the courage to walk away from whatâs kept you safely stuck in a wicked pattern.
Overcoming wicked issues can be a tough process, but nothing is intractable when we use Human Systems Dynamics.
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Have you ever walked into a room full of empty tables and chairs? People are in the room and yet no one is sitting down. Conversations are happening all around you, but all of the chairs are still empty.
Who is going to be the first to take a seat? Which table do you choose? What makes one empty table more appealing than another?
I was recently faced with an opportunity to choose from several empty tables in a large room. I was the first to take a seat at the table, and I was joined by human beings Iâd never met before, and it was the most magical experience!
Empty tables are an invitation to delve into the possibilities that exist because we are human beings with lived experiences.
What have you discovered from the tables at which youâve chosen take a seat? What opportunities did you cease and were there any that you missed out on? What will you do differently the next time youâre at the table?
Living Cities is an organization that intentionally and collaboratively brings human beings to the table to center the topics that help us to thrive individually and collectively. To learn more about the work and the change they are committed to, visit https://livingcities.org/.
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Do you remember what life was like before social media?
What was your primary method for connecting and socializing with others?
Do you find it easy or difficult to form connections with people via social media?
Is it possible to develop and maintain rich and fulfilling connections with people you follow on social media and may never meet or interact with outside of an app?
Think about your social media connections and the connections youâve formed outside of the digital world. What makes them different and similar?
How open are you to developing connections with people no matter where they happen?
When youâre not logged into your social media accounts, how do you connect with the people you like and love?
How often do you make new connections that donât involve social media?
What would your life be like without social media? How would you make social investments in others?
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Human Systems Dynamics (HSD) has been around for more than twenty years. There are associates, around the globe, who have been certified in it and countless learners who have attended one or many HSD non-certification courses.
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The hope is that those that learn HSD are sharing it with others and that sharing will attract more human beings to touch HSD and make it a pattern of being.
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Just recently, I realized that HSD may be part of an individualâs way of living and being without them being formally or informally introduced to HSD. Imagine that!
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It made me wonder where HSD begins and where it ends?
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Press play to hear some of the ways HSD is being practiced by human beings as a pattern who donât know anything about HSD.
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The 2024 Paris Olympics is over now, but itâs still a popular topic of conversation around the world. I watched this round of the Olympics more than any other and became sort of addicted to it, but not in the way that you may think.
The question that came to mind as I observed the pattern of victory and celebrating life in different events, was where did this notion of being the best come from?
How is it helping and/or hindering us both in and outside of sports?
What do you think?
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Ego is often the primary driver in the life choices and decisions of people that we interact with everyday.
Has your ego ever told you that youâre more qualified or better than you are? How often are you making decisions influenced by ego rather reality?
How much can your ego be trusted to lead you to the best decision for you and the people living , playing, and working with and around you?
Is your ego a little or big influence in your life?
How does ego impact three of the most important decisions of our lives?
Press play to discover three common adult decisions you may be soon be faced with and learn how our egos can impact the outcome of those critical decisions.
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When you finally meet the romantic partner you’ve been dreaming about, love is a splendored thing! If you’re lucky, you can fall in love and stay there forever.
If something happens to cause you to fall out of love with the person of your dreams, it can suddenly feel like your heart has been pierced with splinters.
I’ve developed a Relationship Math Quiz to help you and your mate determine if your relationship is thriving or just surviving. I invite you and your mate to take the quiz independently so you can see, hear and experience how your partner views your relationship and if it’s in alignment with how you see it. -
I have always been afraid of birds, especially those that flock together. On a recent trip to Chicago, I had an epiphany about why everything in the bird species terrifies me, and it took me back to my past when I first read, “I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings” by Maya Angelou. I was inspired to figure out why the caged bird sings at work, and I now know why their lyrics bother me so much.
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I had an amazing four-day vacation that was sandwiched by two wicked issues. Both created major tension between me and the other people that were involved.
Rather than remain a victim of my circumstances, I took time to think about what transpired in an HSD type of way. I figured out how I can open a doorway to empathy even when I’m dealing with unreasonable human beings.
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In March 2001, I was granted a five-day opportunity to be locked in a room on The Oprah Winfrey Show with Dr. Phil McGraw and 41 other human beings, from around the country, for five days, in The Get Real Challenge.
The 42 of us were filmed from morning to night even while we were just interacting with one another, on an informal basis, outside of Harpo Studios. Those five days felt like a lifetime and by the time we were preparing to head home, I had transformed into someone else…who was ready to bring my creative side out of hiding so it could live and breathe real air.
At the end of that journey, myself and the other 41 human beings who were participating in the experiment, were required to make a written contractual declaration about who we’d evolved into after spending time with Dr. Phil.
In this episode, I’ll share my declaration and reveal how it and HSD are helping me to navigate the restless waters flowing through my life right now. -
I’m delighted to announce the relaunch of this podcast, and it’s happening in just a few days.
I wouldn’t be here, doing something I love and in this fashion, without loyal listeners like YOU. Press play to learn more about the What, So What, and Now What of this new version of the podcast, and how WE can continue THRIVING together. -
It’s been awhile since we had a curious conversation, so we wanted to reunite with all of you for some important news from Glenda Eoyang, Founder and Executive Director of Human Systems Dynamics Institute.
The Human Systems Dynamics Institute is hosting a Gathering of Curious Minds in Minneapolis, Minnesota, Friday and Saturday, April 5-6. This is an in-person opportunity to meet people from everywhere, who lightly and deeply touch and use HSD to see, understand, and influence patterns personally and professionally.
Glenda reveals:
1. Why now is an opportune time for people everywhere to gather around the patterns that disrupt our daily lives;
2. What people everywhere should bring to the gathering table; and
3. What people everywhere can expect to gain and leave with after the HSD Gathering.
If you’re curious about HSD and want to create the patterns that help you and everyone around the globe to thrive, then register for the HSD Gathering and meet us in Minneapolis, Minnesota on April 5. - Laat meer zien
