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  • Your Marriage Can't Be A Graveyard For Your Wife's Dreams, Personality & Peace - Themba Tom Ntuli

    Your Marriage Can't Be A Graveyard For Your Wife's Dreams, Personality & Peace - Themba Tom Ntuli

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    [S2] EPISODE 6: A PARTNER, NOT AN OWNER

    What does it truly mean to be a husband? In this episode we sit down with Themba Tom Ntuli for an eye-opening conversation about the weight of marriage, the responsibility of leadership, and the art of drifting—how men often don't realize they’re slipping until they’ve fallen. We talk about how men leave relationships when they’re hurting, but women leave when they’ve healed. By the time she stops fighting, stops asking, stops including you in her future, she’s already gone. But what if you could recognize the signs before it’s too late?

    We also dive into the role of accountability—who is leading you as you lead your family? From the pressures of success to the temptations that come when a man starts drifting, we break down why every husband needs a brotherhood, mentors, and a spiritual covering. Real men don’t walk alone. When life gets heavy, when temptation knocks, who do you call? In this episode, we explore practical ways to stay anchored, fight for your marriage, and be the husband your family needs.

    Finally, we talk about serving our wives—not just in words, but in action. Too many women pour into their husbands’ dreams only to be forgotten when it’s their turn. A husband isn’t just a provider; he’s a supporter, a protector, a safe space. If marriage isn’t a graveyard for a man’s dreams, why should it be one for a woman’s? Let’s talk about what it really means to build, honor, and uplift our wives the way they do for us.

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  • How Would Your Marriage Change If You Saw Your Husband Differently? - Eleanor Nasasira

    How Would Your Marriage Change If You Saw Your Husband Differently? - Eleanor Nasasira

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    [S2] EPISODE 5: THE "PERFECT HUSBAND" TRAP

    In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can support their husbands during these difficult times—by acknowledging their emotional toll and offering encouragement, even when things feel uncertain. It's easy to overlook the quiet resilience husbands show when they are struggling to find work or battling pressures at their jobs. A simple acknowledgment can make all the difference in a husband’s journey to stay hopeful and strong.

    This conversation also celebrates the dedication of husbands who show up. It’s about honouring the husbands who, even when they may not have it all together, show up for their families with hands that are willing to serve and hearts that remain determined. The episode also highlights those husbands who, even during seasons of illness or hardship, step up to care for their wives—taking on household chores, offering emotional support, and holding the fort down when their wives need rest. Their commitment is not just admirable, it’s worth celebrating.

    As Blaque and Eleanor explore the intricacies of marriage, they dive deep into the importance of communication and prayer during seasons of disconnect. Wives, who may feel overwhelmed or distant, are encouraged to share their needs and feelings with their husbands. Change starts with vulnerability, and in these moments, prayer becomes a powerful tool for both spouses to navigate through tough times.

    We close the episode with a reminder to join us at Beans and Bonds, a special monthly gathering for the community, where you can share your own reflections over coffee and connect with others who understand the challenges and joys of marriage. Don’t miss out—seats are limited, so be sure to book yours soon.

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    Register for our first-ever live event - BEANS & BONDS Click the link for more info: https://bit.ly/4gxKTbb Join our That Husband Corner, mailing list, and community. Click the link for more info https://linktr.ee/ThatHusband [S2] EPISODE 5: THE "PERFECT HUSBAND" TRAP In this episode, Blaque and Eleanor, take a moment to reflect on the often unseen pressures that husbands carry in their role as providers. Whether employed, underemployed, or unemployed, the weight of wanting to provide for their families can be suffocating. We discuss how wives can support their husbands during these difficult times—by acknowledging their emotional toll and offering encouragement, even when things feel uncertain. It's easy to overlook the quiet resilience husbands show when they are struggling to find work or battling pressures at their jobs. A simple acknowledgment can make all the difference in a husband’s journey to stay hopeful and strong. This conversation also celebrates the dedication of husbands who show up. It’s about honouring the husbands who, even when they may not have it all together, show up for their families with hands that are willing to serve and hearts that remain determined. The episode also highlights those husbands who, even during seasons of illness or hardship, step up to care for their wives—taking on household chores, offering emotional support, and holding the fort down when their wives need rest. Their commitment is not just admirable, it’s worth celebrating. As Blaque and Eleanor explore the intricacies of marriage, they dive deep into the importance of communication and prayer during seasons of disconnect. Wives, who may feel overwhelmed or distant, are encouraged to share their needs and feelings with their husbands. Change starts with vulnerability, and in these moments, prayer becomes a powerful tool for both spouses to navigate through tough times. We close the episode with a reminder to join us at Beans and Bonds, a special monthly gathering for the community, where you can share your own reflections over coffee and connect with others who understand the challenges and joys of marriage. Don’t miss out—seats are limited, so be sure to book yours soon.

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  • My Divorce Woke Me Up: It Wasn’t Just My Husband’s Fault - Jabulile Mazibuko

    My Divorce Woke Me Up: It Wasn’t Just My Husband’s Fault - Jabulile Mazibuko

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    [S2] EPISODE 4: A SERIOUS WAKE-UP CALL

    In this episode, Blaque sits with Jabulile of Men Speak With Jabulile who grew up believing that men were unreliable, untrustworthy, and ultimately dispensable in marriage. Raised by a feminist mother who lowered her expectations of men and was discipled by a divorced female pastor who unknowingly passed down unhealthy marital habits, she entered marriage with a mindset that slowly unravelled her relationship. But when divorce forced her to confront her own shortcomings, she realized a sobering truth—her expectations, beliefs, and behaviours had contributed just as much to the breakdown of her marriage as her ex-husband’s actions.

    Now, after deep personal work and accountability, Jabu is on a mission to change the conversation. Instead of silencing men, she wants to empower them to speak up, lead with confidence, and take their rightful place in shaping stronger marriages and families. Through her journey, she’s discovered that men aren’t the problem—silencing them is. In this episode, she shares what she’s learned, the painful realisations she faced, and why she now believes that men hold the key to changing the future of marriages in our country.

    If you’ve ever felt unheard in your marriage or struggled with the weight of unrealistic expectations, if you're a husband struggling to be heard, or a wife who wants to understand marriage from a new perspective, this episode is for you. Join us as we unpack the lessons Jabulile learned the hard way and explore how husbands can reclaim their voice, their role, and their impact in building thriving marriages.

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  • Why I Couldn’t Fully Commit to My Husband for 5 Years - Lilly Million

    Why I Couldn’t Fully Commit to My Husband for 5 Years - Lilly Million

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    [S2] EPISODE 3: FEELING STUCK, FEELING LOST?

    In this raw and honest episode, Blaque and Lilly dive deep into the complexities of marriage and personal growth. They reflect on the emotional struggles that can lie beneath the surface of everyday issues, like domestic chores, and how these seemingly small tasks often carry larger emotional weight. Through humor and vulnerability, they discuss how unresolved fears—like the fear of losing control or not being enough—can manifest in ways that affect your commitment to your partner.

    The episode also highlights the importance of nurturing both yourself and your marriage. Blaque and Lilly emphasize how prioritizing your own physical, mental, and spiritual well-being can transform your relationship. The concept of weekly check-ins provides a practical way to address tension before it builds up, creating a proactive approach to marriage.

    The conversation goes deeper as they explore how subconscious patterns, shaped by our upbringing, can influence how we show up in our relationships. They discuss the delicate balance between “expecting the worst” and fully committing to your spouse, creating space for openness, honesty, and connection.

    This episode will make you think about your own approach to marriage, especially when it comes to leadership and self-care. How do you care for yourself while leading your family? How do your habits and fears shape your commitment? Don’t miss this heartfelt conversation!.

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  • Tell Your Wife Everything And Save Your Marriage! - Charlie

    Tell Your Wife Everything And Save Your Marriage! - Charlie

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    [S2] EPISODE 2: YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO HONEST

    In this episode, we explore the highs and lows of navigating marriage and faith as Charlie opens up about his journey of growth and intentionality in every area of life. From the struggles to the breakthroughs, his honest reflections on marriage highlight the importance of being intentional, especially when it comes to creating peace and emotional security at home. It’s easy to overlook these foundational elements, but Charlie beautifully shows how the effort of nurturing a home that’s rooted in love and faith leads to a stronger bond and a deeper connection with his wife. His message about building a marriage centered around spiritual and emotional growth resonates deeply with any man seeking to lead in this way.

    The conversation takes a powerful turn when Charlie speaks about stewarding his singleness before marriage. His reminder that there’s no rush to jump into relationships without first understanding the value of working on yourself is a critical lesson for younger men. Too often, society pressures us to test the waters of life before we’ve even learned to manage our own emotional and spiritual health. His message encourages men to lean into this season of singleness as a time for personal growth, so they can enter relationships and marriages with a healthier, more intentional mindset.

    The episode also takes a vulnerable look at how faith plays an integral role in overcoming the challenges of marriage. Charlie shares how leaning on God and supporting each other in marriage has led to significant personal growth. He’s transparent about the hard moments and the work it takes to nurture a healthy marriage, encouraging men to seek support when needed and remain authentic in their relationships. This conversation is a powerful reminder that becoming the man God created you to be requires commitment, humility, and an openness to grow every single day.

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  • 70% of Divorces Are Caused by THIS One Thing—But It’s Fixable

    70% of Divorces Are Caused by THIS One Thing—But It’s Fixable

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    [S2] EPISODE 1: REPAIRABLE MISTAKE

    Have you ever looked at those couples who seem to navigate life in perfect sync and wondered, “What’s their secret?” The truth is, it’s not magic—it’s intentional living. For so many of us in South Africa, where cultural diversity and unique challenges shape our relationships, this practice can be the difference between thriving together and growing apart. In this video, we’re exploring what it takes to align your dreams, values, and goals with your partner, creating a shared vision that keeps your relationship grounded and purposeful.

    Unmet expectations—or worse, uncommunicated ones—are often the invisible threads pulling couples apart. You might think it’s about money or intimacy, but those are often just symptoms of deeper frustrations. Maybe you feel stuck in a career that can’t support your dreams, or perhaps unspoken resentments are spilling into the bedroom. The drift doesn’t always start with a big fight; sometimes, it’s the slow erosion of connection as life pulls you in different directions. But here’s the good news: intentional living can be the anchor that keeps you together through every season.

    In this episode, we’re giving you practical tools to realign as a couple. From identifying shared values to setting goals and scheduling regular check-ins, this is about more than just surviving—it’s about thriving together. We’ll share real insights and a take-home challenge to help you start aligning your vision today. Because when your marriage is rooted in purpose, it doesn’t just transform your relationship; it becomes a testimony of unity and hope for your family, your community, and yes, for South Africa. Let’s take that first intentional step—together.

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  • What’s The Point If Marriages Are Just Doomed To Fail?

    What’s The Point If Marriages Are Just Doomed To Fail?

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    [S1] EPISODE 41: WHEN IT'S ALL SAID AND DONE

    In this reflective episode, we take a moment to celebrate the growth and journey we've experienced throughout this season. Looking back, we’re filled with gratitude for the incredible guests who joined us, sharing their wisdom and insights on everything from communication and vulnerability to faith and resilience in marriage. The conversations were authentic, often messy, but always real—showing the ups and downs of marriage while inspiring our listeners to keep pressing forward. We’re honored to have had such meaningful discussions that illuminated the value of husbandhood and deepened our collective understanding of what it means to be a committed partner, father, and friend.

    As we’ve navigated this season, our aim has always been to be as realistic as possible—highlighting both the beauty and the struggles of marriage. We’ve heard from you, our listeners, and your feedback has been nothing short of encouraging. Whether you're in the newlywed phase, dealing with the complexities of raising children, or experiencing the unique challenges of long-term marriage, our mission has been to offer truth, hope, and tangible tools to help you in every stage. It’s been a privilege to connect with so many of you and witness firsthand how this community has grown stronger. Your stories and comments have blessed us deeply, and we're more motivated than ever to continue this journey alongside you.

    Looking ahead to 2025, we’re excited to expand our reach and impact even further. We're planning in-person meetups and sessions to connect face-to-face, providing a platform for deeper, more personal conversations. We’re also launching new merch, events, and even books—designed to continue empowering husbands in their growth journey. This is just the beginning, and we can't wait to see how this movement continues to grow. Thank you for being a part of That Husband Podcast and for making this community what it is today. Your support, comments, and feedback have been a constant source of inspiration for us, and we’re looking forward to all that’s to come!

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  • Think You'll Be A Good Husband? (Don't Get Married Before Listening To This) - Tshwari

    Think You'll Be A Good Husband? (Don't Get Married Before Listening To This) - Tshwari

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    [S1] EPISODE 40: PREMARITAL

    In this episode we dive deep into the importance of preparation in marriage, exploring the spiritual and practical aspects of building a strong foundation. From navigating personal growth to understanding the value of premarital counselling, Tshwari shares his personal journey and the lessons he’s learned along the way. He highlights how self-awareness, patience, and embracing God's timing are crucial in shaping a relationship that honours both partners.

    We also tackle some of the tough, often unspoken aspects of marriage prep, such as the impact of personal histories, emotional programming, and the vital role of vulnerability in communication. Tshwari emphasizes the importance of being honest about your past and how addressing these issues head-on can set you up for a more resilient and connected marriage.

    Finally, we discuss the role of work, responsibility, and humility in preparing for marriage. We focus on how it's not just about chasing big dreams but about being faithful in the small, steady tasks that contribute to long-term stability and growth. This episode is packed with wisdom, humour, and real-life insights that will encourage and inspire both current and aspiring husbands.

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  • Keeping The Flame In My Marriage Alive While Raising Five Girls - Bevin Elliot

    Keeping The Flame In My Marriage Alive While Raising Five Girls - Bevin Elliot

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    S1] EPISODE 39: LIVE FOR THEM NOW, DON'T BE A HERO AT THE END!

    In this heartfelt and humorous episode, we dive into the rich, complex world of parenting five daughters, ranging from a curious three-year-old to a blossoming sixteen-year-old. We explore the joys and challenges of raising girls with distinct personalities and navigating sibling dynamics, from the competition over matching outfits to the marshmallow-sweet moments of unconditional love. Hear how one father grapples with the unexpected blessing of twins during the pandemic, the possibility of having a son but realizing God knew exactly what he needed, and how each child has taught him something profound about life, patience, and faith.

    Marriage takes center stage as we unpack how this couple nurtures their love amidst the demands of a large family. From frequent getaways and uncompromised date nights to facing financial hardships with resilience, their commitment to “moving toward each other” serves as a foundation for their home. They candidly share how a night nanny, gym sessions, and worship help them maintain their sanity, while navigating the ups and downs of being a big family. With authenticity, they recount how their love spills over into their parenting, showing their daughters the power of a united couple.

    Bevin offers a treasure trove of insights for fathers and husbands alike, emphasizing the importance of health, self-care, and speaking life into your marriage. Whether it’s tough-love gym sessions with your spouse, making dietary changes before your fifties, or savoring every fleeting moment with your kids, this conversation is both a challenge and an inspiration. Tune in for stories of triumph, love, and the kind of wisdom that only comes from raising five little souls and cherishing the one who shares the journey with you.

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  • Unemployment, Autism, Pursuing A Dream & Where To Find Hope? - Ricwa

    Unemployment, Autism, Pursuing A Dream & Where To Find Hope? - Ricwa

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    [S1] EPISODE 38: FAITH, STRENGTH & HOPE...

    In this episode of That Husband Podcast, Blaque Nubon sits down with SAFTA-winning director Ricardo 'Ricwa' Klaasen for a raw and reflective conversation about faith, family, and the transformative power of commitment. Ricwa takes us on a journey through his 13 years of marriage, sharing how he and his wife began their life together in a Wendy house, raising two children and later on having to navigate the unique challenges of parenting a son with autism. Through financial setbacks and career sacrifices, his wife’s steadfast support and their shared faith in Jesus Christ became the pillars that held their family together.

    Ricwa opens up about the struggles many men face but often keep hidden—fighting to provide, wrestling with self-doubt, and learning to surrender the weight of leadership to God. He reflects on the enduring legacy of his parents’ 40-year marriage and the lessons it taught him about perseverance and love. He also speaks to the beauty of intentionality in relationships, recounting the influence of friends who model what it means to love with purpose. With candor and gratitude, Ricwa unpacks how celebrating the small wins, keeping Christ at the center, and embracing faith over fear have shaped his identity as a husband and father.

    This episode is an emotional and inspiring exploration of what it means to lead a family with grace and courage. Ricwa’s story is a powerful reminder that even in life’s messiest and most uncertain seasons, God’s faithfulness never falters. For husbands seeking to grow, reconnect, or simply feel seen, this conversation offers a space to reflect, be challenged, and find hope.

  • Rising Above The Pain & Building My Marriage On My Terms - Seta Maapola

    Rising Above The Pain & Building My Marriage On My Terms - Seta Maapola

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    [S1] EPISODE 37: WHAT ARE GOING TO CHOOSE?

    Honouring absent fathers is a profound act of maturity and intentionality, requiring deep reflection and a commitment to healing. In today's episode, Blaque sits down with Seta to explore what it looks like to honor their fathers despite their absence. Seta shares how his uncle stepped in as a father figure, modeling strength and manhood in a way that provided him with a solid foundation. Together, Blaque and Seta delve into the scars left by absent fathers and the long journey toward wholeness, discussing how therapy, faith, and deliberate effort have played vital roles in their healing. Seta also opens up about the incredible support of his wife, who has stood by him in his hardest moments, offering unwavering love and encouragement through his struggles.

    The conversation shifts to marriage, where Seta emphasises the importance of men stepping up as husbands and fathers. From the value of regular date nights to navigating financial challenges, he shares how tough conversations with his wife shaped him into a better partner. One such moment involved confronting the insecurities that led him to overspend on his bakkie—a humbling experience that taught him the value of vulnerability and growth. Through these honest reflections, Seta offers practical advice for men looking to strengthen their relationships and become better for their families.

    Finally, the episode dives into fatherhood, as Seta reflects on the kind of dad he wants to be for his children. Drawing lessons from his own upbringing, he speaks about breaking generational cycles and building a legacy of love and presence. Whether you’re navigating the challenges of marriage, reflecting on your role as a father, or striving to grow as a man, this episode is packed with wisdom, authenticity, and hope for the journey ahead.

  • We Are Constantly Blamed, But Who Calls Out The Wives? - Priviledge Tafirei

    We Are Constantly Blamed, But Who Calls Out The Wives? - Priviledge Tafirei

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    [S1] EPISODE 36: UNDER SCRUTINY

    In this episode of That Husband Podcast, we sit down with Priviledge to reflect on his first 11 months of marriage. We discuss the reality of early marriage, the disconnect between expectations and the challenges that arise, and the growth that comes with working through those struggles. Privilege shares how his idealised views on marriage have been reshaped by experience, leading him to greater self-awareness and a deeper understanding of love.

    The conversation delves into the messy but rewarding process of navigating conflicts and learning how to show up fully in a relationship, all while figuring out how to love better. We then explore the evolving roles of husbands in today’s world, discussing the need for clear communication and flexibility in how responsibilities are shared.

    We tackle the generational shift in marriage dynamics, where today's husbands are more involved in household tasks and childcare, but also face new challenges without traditional role models. The conversation highlights the importance of sacrificial love versus compromising love and how marriage requires both partners to adjust their expectations and align on a shared vision. We emphasize that true leadership in marriage is about guiding your wife toward Christ, not demanding submission.

    With a focus on growth, mutual respect, and faith, the episode provides valuable insights into how husbands can embrace their roles as leaders, partners, and spiritual heads of their households. We encourage men to approach marriage with realistic expectations, understanding that the difficult moments can strengthen their bond and lead to deeper love.

    It’s a reminder that being a husband is a God-given mandate, and through love, patience, and continuous growth, husbands can build a strong foundation for their marriages.

  • How My Husband Talks About Our Marriage Around The Gents - Lilly Million

    How My Husband Talks About Our Marriage Around The Gents - Lilly Million

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    EP 1 - EPISODE 35: TELL IT ALL

    In this special episode of That Husband Podcast, the script is flipped, and Blaque is on the hot seat as his wife Lilly wants to get clarification on things his said in the Podcast about their marriage.They bring a candid and heartfelt vibe to the show. THP dedicated listeners/ viewers have been eagerly awaiting an episode featuring "that wife’s perspective," and today, they get a glimpse into the couple’s marriage dynamics.

    Together, Blaque and Lilly dig deep into some of the most pivotal moments in their relationship, specifically focusing on how they approach conflict, work/ dreams, support, and remarriage. They explore what marriage has looked like for them while laughing and reflecting on their unique pairing as a couple.

    As they dive into several past episodes, Lilly recounts a powerful story about husbands feeling unseen—a struggle many men and women can relate to as well but might not openly discuss. Blaque talks about how, for men, “respect” can sometimes be a stand-in for wanting acknowledgment, sharing how he, too, has felt invisible at times. This leads the couple into a vulnerable conversation about the importance of being intentional with words and actions, even in the middle of disagreements, and the hidden nuances that drive their individual approaches to marriage.

    In a light-hearted yet introspective exchange, The Nubons unpack their personal growth over ten years of marriage, showing listeners/viewers that learning to navigate each other's maturity is an ongoing journey. They laugh, tease, and connect, illustrating that the healthiest relationships require a mix of humor, understanding, and willingness to adapt.

    By the end, they reveal the secret ingredient behind their resilience: meeting each other halfway, even when it’s hard. This episode is a testament to the value of partnership, and it’s an engaging, relatable listen/watch for anyone looking to strengthen their own relationship. Don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe!

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  • ⁠Your Childhood Scars Can Make You A Better Husband - Khaya Thusi

    ⁠Your Childhood Scars Can Make You A Better Husband - Khaya Thusi

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    [S1] EPISODE 34: WHY MARRIAGE IS THE BEST OPTION FOR MEN?

    In this episode, we speak about what it really takes to be a happy husband—a journey shaped by sacrifice, legacy, and the quiet, unspoken wisdom passed down through generations. Growing up with parents who have been married for over 30 years, Khaya Thusi reflects on how in his father’s retirement & newfound openness he has inspired him to work harder, not only to provide for his own children but to leave a lasting legacy.

    Marriage, he says, isn’t just about one grand heroic gesture but about the daily commitment to live for one’s family, surrendering ego and opening up for God to work on his heart as a man. Marriage is designed to refine us, placing healthy boundaries around our lives and shifting our focus from self-centered goals to building something greater with our spouses.

    These boundaries—grounded in faith, tradition, and law—challenge us to become men who live up to the responsibility of fatherhood and partnership. In moments when the journey feels tough, it’s those boundaries that keep us grounded, helping us grow through the struggles and reminding us of the beauty and stability that committed love brings. Real love, after all, is about finding strength in the restrictions and realising that growth requires both sacrifice and intentionality.

    Finally, with two decades of marriage combined, Blaque & Khaya share hard-earned insights on what it takes to grow as a husband, father, and man. We share lessons learned about the value of vulnerability, communication, and dreaming as a team. We’ve faced challenges together with our wives, made mistakes, but emerged stronger. This episode unpacks these lessons—everything from intimacy and patience to the joy of seeing love deepen over the years.

    It’s an honest, inspiring look at how marriage not only changes but refines, bringing out a calibre of love and leadership that only comes through years of committed growth.

  • Why Most Husbands Fail In The First 2 Years & How To Avoid It - Karabo Rasebitse

    Why Most Husbands Fail In The First 2 Years & How To Avoid It - Karabo Rasebitse

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    [S1] EPISODE 33: HOW READY ARE YOU FOR MARRIAGE?

    In this episode, we dive into the privilege of intergenerational involvement in preparing young men for marriage. We discuss the importance of shaping boys early on, not just to find a wife, but to grow into husbands with a clear vision for their marriage. It’s not enough to look for a "modern" partner or a "traditional" role; husbands need wives who speak into their lives, offering wisdom and intellect that influence their growth as men.

    The first two years of marriage are critical, and too many husbands fail during this period due to uncommunicated expectations and a lack of preparation for the significant change a marriage brings. Karabo Rasebitse touches on the reasons behind marital breakdowns, including the common focus on childhood traumas for infidelity.

    Men often lie to themselves about sex being purely physical, failing to realize the emotional weight it carries. A husband must take responsibility for his wife, setting boundaries in old friendships to protect his marriage, and learning to embrace vulnerability, despite how society has socialized men to repress emotions. Marriage, as we uncover, is a beautiful chaos where two worlds collide to create something new.

    Husbands need to find solid male friendships to lean on during the journey, creating a support system of three to four men who can carry them through tough times and hold them accountable. This episode offers an honest look at how early grooming and intentional relationships can help men transition smoothly into the life-altering experience of marriage.

  • Will Your Marriage Survive Your Unstable & Uncertain Career? - Bongani Baloyi

    Will Your Marriage Survive Your Unstable & Uncertain Career? - Bongani Baloyi

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    [S1] EPISODE 32: CAN YOU THRIVE IN LOVE WHILE CHASING YOUR DREAMS?

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    In this episode, we get into the unique challenges of navigating the instability of non-traditional careers while maintaining the same level of responsibility as those in more traditional, stable jobs. Balancing financial uncertainty with building a secure future, especially within a marriage, requires transparent conversations about money, dreams, and long-term goals.

    How can one thrive in both personal and professional spheres through careful planning and strong communication with a supportive spouse? Bongani Baloyi reflects on the value of consistent relationship check-ins, for him and his wife, the "7th of every month" meetings, ensure that they are both growing together, tackling issues head-on, and staying aligned through open communication, especially around finances because of how unpredictable his industry is.

    Through personal anecdotes, such as transitioning from catching trains to now driving with his wife, Bongani emphasizes that marriage and being an entrepreneur are journeys of growth. Despite financial ups and downs, they remain committed to one another, celebrating milestones with love and faith in God’s provision.

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  • You've Won Every Argument But Have You Won Your Wife's Heart? - VTJ Masakona

    You've Won Every Argument But Have You Won Your Wife's Heart? - VTJ Masakona

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    EPISODE 31: ARE YOU SEEING THE BIGGER PICTURE IN EVERY ARGUMENT?

    In this episode, we explore the heart of conflict resolution in marriage, focusing on how couples can navigate differences with intentionality and grace. Conflict is inevitable, but resolving it requires maturity, accountability, and understanding each other's unique approaches—whether one processes slowly or prefers to address issues immediately. We also discuss the influence of our upbringing, the power of forgiveness, and how to move forward with wisdom.

    VTJ Masakona of Calvary Christian Church dives with us deep into tough topics like intimacy and loss, emphasizing that sex is about giving, not transactions, and that grace should be extended even when it’s hard. He highlights the importance of nurturing affection, not giving room for division, and the value of sacrificing for each other in ways that lead to true oneness.

    Finally, we reflect on Jesus' example of sacrifice and challenge viewers to fight for their marriages. Ask yourself a crucial question, If you had to redo your marriage from scratch, with all that you and your spouse know, would your spouse choose you again? It’s a call to build stronger marriages where conflict deepens intimacy and both partners grow together.

  • What Husbands Risk When They Love Without Boundaries - Jabu Zwane

    What Husbands Risk When They Love Without Boundaries - Jabu Zwane

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    EPISODE 30: AN OPEN BOOK

    In today’s episode, we are joined by Jabu Zwane and we dive deep into the complex emotions and responsibilities husbands face in marriage. From the power wives hold in shaping the spiritual, emotional, and intellectual strength of their husbands, to the pain of losing a spouse and learning to love again—this conversation uncovers the profound journey men embark on when they commit to marriage.

    We explore the often-untold struggles men encounter: the fear of openly loving their wives, the deep need for validation, and the weight of carrying love without direction. Why are so many men afraid to express their love publicly, and what happens when that love feels misdirected or purposeless? We tackle the hard truth about accountability in relationships, how to handle conflict without hijacking moments of vulnerability, and why forgiveness is essential for lasting connection.

    Through candid reflections and powerful insights, this episode challenges husbands to reflect on their own emotional transparency, encouraging them to love their wives boldly, communicate honestly, and embrace their past without fear. Whether you're navigating grief, struggling with intimacy, or simply learning how selfish you are in marriage—this episode offers wisdom and encouragement for husbands striving to lead their marriages with love, strength, and grace.

  • How Long Hours & Big Paychecks Impact a Husband's Health - Dr. Khuliso Ramashia

    How Long Hours & Big Paychecks Impact a Husband's Health - Dr. Khuliso Ramashia

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    [S1] EPISODE 29: HUSTLE CULTURE

    It’s no secret that men face a lot of pressure, particularly the challenges of stress and fatigue. In this episode, we explore the importance of using creativity to elevate stress, peer mentorship, and the critical need for black men to take their health seriously—whether that means supplements, better habits, or simply being part of a community.

    As black men in South Africa, the burden of disease and the alarming rise of substance abuse have reached critical levels, especially among those who feel isolated and without community support. We need to prioritize our health, not only physically but mentally, and take serious steps to address how we cope. As men, it's easy to bury ourselves in work, justifying long hours and the grind by the paycheque, but true accountability lies in managing our time effectively, especially as husbands and fathers.

    It’s about understanding that our mental health is like a pressure cooker, and if we don’t find creative outlets or mentors to help, we risk letting that pressure boil over.

    As a full-time doctor, husband, father of two sons, and content creator, Dr Khuliso Ramashia knows firsthand the demands that come with trying to balance everything. It's not just about being busy; it's about being intentional with your time. The truth is, it’s easier to work than to be present at home, but being a provider doesn't make you a great husband.

    The weight of responsibility can trick us into thinking we’re doing enough, but if our families are suffering, what are we really achieving? Dr Ramashia’s goal is to help bridge the gap in medical information access and inspire men to step up in their roles, not only in their careers but in their homes and communities. Raising two sons who have a diverse heritage in South Africa means he is constantly navigating how to help them embrace their identity in a complex society. He wants to give them the tools to grow as proud brown boys, grounded in their rich background. His passion for giving his all to everything he does drives him, hence he refuses to be celebrated as a great doctor who couldn't take care of his own family.

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  • When The Cameras Stopped Rolling, Marriage Got Real - Thabang Mvuyane

    When The Cameras Stopped Rolling, Marriage Got Real - Thabang Mvuyane

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    [S1] EPISODE 28: PUBLIC LOVE, PRIVATE BATTLES

    In this episode, Thabang "Banger" Mvuyane shares his deeply personal journey from Married at First Sight, a reality show that dramatically reshaped his life. Frustrated by unsuccessful dating experiences, he joined the show in search of something genuine, but what unfolded went far beyond his expectations.

    The cameras captured his early arrogance, which marriage quickly humbled, forcing him to re-evaluate his understanding of love and commitment with a woman he had just met. The challenges of getting to know each other while constantly being filmed were just the beginning. The couple faced personal battles as well, navigating the awkwardness of on-camera arguments and the harsh reality of online trolls. Beyond the glitz of reality TV, they were left to manage not only their relationship but the weight of public scrutiny, as what was shown on screen didn’t fully capture the complicated reality they lived off-camera.

    In this episode, he reflects on the profound lessons learned throughout the experience, including his public missteps, such as breaking up with his wife on national television. He opens up about the emotional baggage both he and his wife brought into the marriage, the discovery of her communication with an ex, and the maturity the marriage brought him. This story sheds light on the hard truths of growing within a marriage witnessed by millions and the deep personal transformation that followed.

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