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  • Is it possible to conduct layoffs in a way that’s respectful and compassionate?

     According to Summer, there definitely is.

     In this week’s episode, Lucie and Chris interview Summer Miller, an HR consultant who’s focused on helping business navigate people-centered change. Through both her own personal experience and her work, she helps us understand:

    -        Why the layoff conversations often seems too scripted and impersonal

    -        How to manage risk while still being human

    -        The importance of transparency and treating employees like grown ups

    -        How to think about supporting employees through the transition

    -        How to manage your own emotions if you’re the one delivering the bad news

    Dr. Summer Miller is the CEO of SDM Integrative Consulting, where she helps businesses navigate change and growth without leaving people behind. Her approach is to help leaders integrate people-centered practices so their employees want to be part of the future they are building. As an advisor, educator, speaker, and facilitator, Summer works with people to build the capabilities needed for long-term success. She brings over 25 years of experience, including executive positions in HR, change, and transformation at U.S. Bank, and more recent work with small to mid-market businesses.

     

    Summer holds a doctorate in organizational leadership and a master’s in organizational and professional communication. She is an educator at heart and teaches master’s courses through the University of Minnesota and the University of Denver. She also serves on the boards of Joy Collaborative, How To Be Second, and American Indian OIC. She and her husband Jason have four school-age and three adult children and enjoy spending time creating community and connection as newer Minnesotans.

    Book Recommendations:

     Switch by Chip and Dan Heath – Buy a Copy here

     

    Contact Summer:

    Linkedin – https://www.linkedin.com/in/summermiller/

    Website – https://www.sdmintegrativeconsulting.com

     Contact Chris and Lucie
    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://myleadershippotential.com/master-difficult-conversations-how-to/

     Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TAS.difficultconversations 
    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • Why are boundaries so hard to set? 

    Even better question – why are boundaries so hard to keep?

    On this week’s episode, Lucie and Chris welcome Becky Upchurch, a mindset coach to talk through the ins and outs of setting and keeping healthy boundaries.  Whether its with friends, family, or coworkers, there’s a lot we get wrong about caring about our own emotional and physical limits.

     

    Key Takeaways:

    Boundaries are about our own limits, barriers are for other people – whom we can’t controlSetting boundaries is a muscle, start small and work your way upBoundaries are not selfish when done right

    Becky Upchurch is a mindset coach who specializes in helping busy women create time for themselves and their goals by learning to say no without fear, guilt, or worrying about what other people think. Both clients and audiences love Becky’s ability to get to the heart of the matter in relatable ways that balance honesty, kindness, and levity to inspire change.  Becky believes that the fastest and best way to achieve your goals is through practical, easy-to-implement strategies, managing your mindset, and trusting in your ability to create sustainable change.  She strives to accomplish this in her own life through her motto of “Love Self, Serve Others.”

     Contact Becky:

    Email: [email protected]: www.highergoodcoaching.com;Instagram: www.instagram.com/beckyupchurch_Facebook: www.facebook.com/HigherGoodCoachingLinkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/becky-upchurch-594393160?

     

    Contact Chris and Lucie
    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://myleadershippotential.com/master-difficult-conversations-how-to/

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TAS.difficultconversations 
    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

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  • Ever wanted your partner to change? Maybe they have an unhealthy habit that makes you worried about their wellbeing?

    If so, join us for this episode of the Art & Science of Difficult Conversations Podcast. Today we explore how to address this sensitive situation with your partner.

    Let us know what you think! What resonates with you? What doesn't? Let us know!

    Contact Chris and Lucie
    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • Join us today for a conversation with Randy Wheeler, where we discuss how understanding different personality and working styles can help us not only communicate better but also lead others more effectively. 

    About Randy: 

    Randy Wheeler, owner of Wheeler Coaching, helps individuals and teams develop their leadership, improve communication, and strengthen their teams.  He has a Masters in Organizational Leadership, is a Maxwell Leadership Certified DISC Consultant, and a certified Working Genius Facilitator.  He uses this knowledge in combination with the resources he has access to as an Executive Program Leader with Maxwell Leadership to help individuals and teams improve their focus, clarify their strategy, increase their effectiveness, and ultimately their results.

    He has worked with businesses of all sizes to help develop leaders, improve communication, clarify values and strategy, and build teams through one-on-one coaching, group training, speaking, The Maxwell Leadership Game, and behavior assessments.  He is the author of multiple books (all available on Amazon) such as Build, Engage, Lead:  Mastering the 5 Keys to Effective Team Development, 25 Ways to Lead Better at Work and Home and I Am Worthy:  Embracing Confidence and Self-Worth (a weekly mindset strengthening book for youth). 

    You can take a free leadership assessment at leadwell.biz or reach out to him directly at randy@wheelercoachingsystems.com. He and his wife have three boys and live in Fishers, IN.

    Contact Chris and Lucie
    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos
    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • SUMMARY:

    **Trigger Warning: Discussion of trauma, sexual abuse** 

    What happens when you learn a family member has been experiencing sexual abuse?  What do you do if there’s no one to talk to about it?  On this week’s podcast, Lucie and Chris welcome Keeper Catran-Whitney, child sexual abuse activist who, in 1977, learned that his stepfather had been sexually abusing his four sisters for years.  After forty-five years of living with this guilt and shame, he eventually began healing by finding the courage to talk about trauma and heal his wounds and relationship with his sisters. 

     Key Takeaways:

    Unlike direct victims of sexual abuse, there are much less, if any, resources to help brothersOften times, they also experience trauma as a result of learning these things and need support as wellFinding people you know and trust to talk with is an important step in healing

    As the lone voice speaking on the emotional trauma brothers experience after learning their sisters have been sexually abused, Keeper is a highly sought-after speaker, author, and advocate for brothers in the child sexual abuse/survivor’s space. 

    Six years before his four sisters were sexually abused, Keeper was sexually abused almost daily by his babysitter for six months at age seven. He understands both sides of the sexual abuse coin – the damaged and the collateral damaged. Keeper speaks on the mental and emotional challenges brothers suffer around child sexual abuse in the family. 

    When not elevating brother’s voices in the child sexual abuse conversation, Keeper enjoys watching movies and anime with his wife and children. His favorites are Dragon Ball Z, My Hero Academy, Deamon Slayer, Trigun, Full Metal Alchemist, One-Punch Man, and SPY x FAMILY. 

    Resources:

    RAINN (Rape, Abuse, Incest National Network): 1-800-656-4673 [24hours/day]

    Contact Keeper:

    Website: https://keepercatranwhitney.com

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KeeperCatranWhitneyAuthor 

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keepercw/

     

    Book: The Complete Man

    Physical copy: https://mybook.to/thecompleteman

    Audio Book: completemanaudio.com 

    PROMO CODE FOR 75% off: victory7 

    Book: Helplessness

    HELPLESSNESS is book one of Keeper’s three-book series, From Helplessness to Hopefulness To

    Happiness. 

    Buy on Amazon

     

    Contact Chris and Lucie
    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos
    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • Have you ever dealt with a situation when you worked really hard and came up with a great idea, only to find out your peer presented the same idea as theirs during the next team meeting? How do you respond in a professional way that doesn't destroy the relationship and brings the credit back to you?

    If you want to know what to do and what not to do in similar tricky situations, join us and listen to this week's episode!

    Subscribe & Review: If you enjoy this episode, leave a review and share your insights!

    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos

    Email – [email protected]

    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc

    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

     

  • Join us for this last mid-season compilation episode! You will hear three segments today: 

    Five elements of giving effective feedbackHow to ask for a raiseHow to deal with someone who gets defensive, angry or emotional. 

    Let us know what you think! 

    Subscribe & Review:
    If you enjoy this episode, leave a review and share your insights!

    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos

    Email – [email protected]

    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc

    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • In this compilation episode, we picked 3 experts to share with you and a bonus mini-communication challenge question that you can ask yourself and your loved one, for deeper and more meaningful communication and connection with self and others. 

    Tune in today to listen to: 

    - What is this week's mini-communication challenge question?

    - Interview with Grace Gavin about 6 practices you can implement to improve both your personal and professional communication and relationships 

    - Interview with high-performance expert Purdeep Sangha to discuss the critical link between communication, well-being, and achieving a fulfilling life

    - Interview with Christopher Hensley on how to talk about money, estate planning, and death. Tough topic! Yet so important to have these conversations. 

    We hope you enjoy this compilation episode and if you have any questions, or feedback, let us know! 

    Contact Us

    Sign up for the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos

    Email – [email protected]

    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc

    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

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     Connect with Christopher Hensley here:

    www.houstonfirstfinancialgroup.com

    www.moneymatterspodcast.com 

     Email - [email protected]

    -

    Contact Grace: https://www.linkedin.com/in/grace-gavin/

    Get the Book “Know Honesty” here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DBM4MCJJ

    -

    Contact Purdeep:

    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/purdeepsangha/

    Website: www.purdeepsangha.com

    Company: www.theexeclab.com

     

    Book: The Complete Man

    Physical copy: https://mybook.to/thecompleteman

    Audio Book: completemanaudio.com 

    PROMO CODE FOR 75% off: victory7

     

  • Holidays are the special time of the year when we get together with our loved ones to celebrate. Yet sometimes, holidays may be a time of increased stress with those loved ones!

    Maybe you and your partner have different ideas about where to spend the holidays this or next year, or your parent keeps talking badly about your spouse. Or, you have some difficult past with your family members that is still troubling you.

    How do you steer these possible conflict situations to conversations that bring you closer together, and deepen your love and understanding for each other, rather than driving you apart and giving holidays bad taste in your heart? Join us for this second compilation episode of the Art & Science of Difficult Conversations Podcast, in this season 2, where we share with you some strategies, even roleplay some difficult family conversations scenarios, and end with an interview episode with Becky Ellis, the author of Little Avalanches memoir, where we discuss how her difficult family conversations changed her life, and created healing and forgiveness.

    Maybe her story will inspire you to start your own family conversations that can transform your life for the better. And if you have a story to share, please let us know, so that we can inspire each other and help each other create more honest, intimate conversations that can heal, and create more forgiveness, and peace, hopefuly inside out. Thank you for listening and for your desire to learn and improve, as we are in this together. Hope you enjoy this compilation episode!

    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    How to prepare for difficult conversations webinar (and the checklist) https://bit.ly/TASWeb01

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos

    Email – [email protected]

    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc

    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

     

  • How do you deal with tough communication situations at work? Be it when someone keeps interrupting you when you speak, when your team member keeps going off on a tangent or when you as a leader need to implement a change, but your team members keep resisting and pushing against it? 

    Do you want more peace of mind and clarity in navigating these situations? 

    Join us for this special compilation episode of The Art & Science of Difficult Conversations where we feature these three scenarios and offer you some key strategies to handle them. 

    Subscribe & Review:
    If you enjoy this episode, leave a review and share your insights!

    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos

    Email – [email protected]

    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc

    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • In this episode of The Art and Science of Difficult Conversations, hosts Chris Wong and Lucie Tesarova dive deep into the art of delivering feedback that gets results. Whether you're a leader, manager, or HR professional, mastering feedback can elevate your team's performance and trust.

    🎙️ What You'll Learn:

    The 5 essential elements of effective feedbackHow to balance honesty with empathyCommon feedback mistakes and how to avoid them

    Why Listen?
    Communication is key to leadership. This episode equips you with practical strategies to navigate feedback conversations with confidence and impact.

    Subscribe & Review:
    If you enjoy this episode, leave a review and share your insights!

    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos

    Email – [email protected]

    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc

    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

     

  • Have you been struggling to feel fulfilled in life?

    In this week’s episode, Chris and Lucie welcome high-performance expert Purdeep Sangha to discuss the critical link between communication, well-being, and achieving a fulfilling life. Drawing on his unique background and experience, Purdeep explores the challenges individuals and organizations face in today’s digital age, particularly in maintaining energy levels, focus, and meaningful connections.

     Key Takeaways:

     The impact of cultural backgrounds on communication The importance of self-awareness in effective communication How to communicate authentically The challenges of communication in the digital age How to overcome the fear of difficult conversations Using mindfulness and grounding to overcome difficult situations

    Purdeep Sangha is a high-performance expert and author who empowers individuals and organizations to achieve their full potential. Drawing on his background in neuroscience, performance psychology, and business, Purdeep helps people optimize well-being, productivity, and communication for a more fulfilling life.  As an author, speaker, and advisor, he helps people overcome challenges in communication, well-being, and leadership to unlock their true potential.

     

    Contact Purdeep:

    Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/purdeepsangha/

    Website: www.purdeepsangha.com

    Company: www.theexeclab.com

     

    Book: The Complete Man

    Physical copy: https://mybook.to/thecompleteman

    Audio Book: completemanaudio.com 

    PROMO CODE FOR 75% off: victory7

     

    Contact Us
    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    How to prepare for difficult conversations webinar (and the checklist) https://bit.ly/TASWeb01

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos
    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • Ever faced the tricky scenario of an underperforming team member asking for a promotion? In this episode of The Art and Science of Difficult Conversations, we dive into this complex workplace challenge. Join Chris and Lucie as we explore why underperformers might feel they deserve a promotion, the motivations behind their requests, and how to navigate these conversations effectively as a leader. With real-world examples, practical advice, and even a role-play demonstration, we’ll give you the tools to handle these situations while fostering growth and maintaining team morale.

    Whether you're a manager facing this dilemma or an employee considering your next career move, this episode will provide actionable insights to tackle tough workplace dynamics with empathy and clarity.

    Links & Resources:

    Chris’s Self-Paced Course: Learn how to master difficult conversations, de-escalate conflicts, and become assertive without being aggressive. Join the waiting list here. https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    HR Resources Mentioned: Employee Assistance Programs (check with your HR department for details).

    Book Recommendation: Radical Candor by Kim Scott – A guide to providing honest feedback while caring deeply.

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos
    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • Are you being the “real you” in conversations?

    Not many people would disagree that productive conversations mean both sides being open and honest.

    Easier said than done.

    How do you create an environment where the other person feels safe enough to be open and honest? More importantly, how do you be honest too?

    In this episode, Chris and Lucie interview Grace Gavin, a communication expert who emphasizes the importance of honesty and openness in creating strong connections. Grace shares her personal journey of learning to communicate more effectively and introduces her six key practices for mastering communication. Grace discusses how to implement these practices in personal and professional relationships, and how they can transform communication, even in challenging situations.

    Key Takeaways:
    • It’s important to be both open AND honest. Openness meaning listening without reservation or judgement and honesty meaning being truly and freely yourself
    • The six practices she recommends to enhance communication skills
    • The importance of balancing honesty with empathy and love
    • How to balance giving bad news, even when you don’t have all the information

    Grace is an open and honest expert, helping leaders simplify their communication and eliminate the divides that exist within organizations. As co-founder of Know Honesty, she guides people towards becoming masterful communicators day in and day out. Having experienced the transformative power of openness and honesty, Grace is on a mission to help others create that same freedom in their own lives.

    Grace brings her heartfelt approach to every event, workshop, and interaction. She believes deeply that every human being brings a unique perspective to the world and that we all deserve to be heard and respected.

    Visit Grace Gavin’s website, www.KnowHonesty.com, to take the free communication assessment and learn more about her book, Know Honesty. Connect with Grace on LinkedIn to continue the conversation.

    Contact Grace: https://www.linkedin.com/in/grace-gavin/

    Get the Book “Know Honesty” here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DBM4MCJJ

     

    Contact Us
    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    How to prepare for difficult conversations webinar (and the checklist) https://bit.ly/TASWeb01

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos
    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • What To Do When a High Performer Slacks After a Promotion?

    Today’s episode is a deep dive into the complexities of leadership. Chris and Lucie tackle a challenging scenario where a top performer begins to drop the ball after a recent promotion. They discuss ways to understand underlying issues—whether insecurity, new role challenges, or overconfidence—and provide practical guidance for supporting employees while upholding performance standards.

    Topics Discussed:

    Identifying causes behind declining performanceCoaching strategies for new role adaptationBalancing support with accountabilityRoleplay: Manager-employee discussion

    Any other ideas, what has worked for you? Let us know!

    Contact Us
    Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

    How to prepare for difficult conversations webinar (and the checklist) https://bit.ly/TASWeb01

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos
    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • Whether you’re interested in understanding family dynamics, navigating generational trauma, or fostering connection through meaningful conversations, this episode offers powerful insights and practical takeaways.

    Today’s special guest is Becky Ellis, author of her debut memoir, Little Avalanches. In our conversation, Becky shares how tough yet healing discussions with her father, a WWII veteran, transformed her life. We explore what made these conversations both challenging and healing, and how empathy emerged through deeper understanding. Join us as we dive into themes of vulnerability, authenticity, courage, and the healing impact that difficult conversations can have.

    About Becky:
    Becky Ellis is a Timberwolf Pup. The daughter of a highly decorated World War II combat sergeant, she is a veteran of a war fought at home. She earned a BA in English Literature at UC Berkeley and has over twenty years of experience in the publishing industry. Her writing has appeared in Psychology Today, Northwest Review, The Ethel, Best Small Fictions, and The Rudder. She teaches writing in Portland, Oregon, where she lives, plays, and has raised three daughters. Little Avalanches is her debut memoir. You can find more about her at beckyellis.net

    Connect with Becky:
    Website: beckyellis.net
    Instagram: @beckyellisauthor
    Facebook: becky.ellis.9081
    Linkedin: becky-ellis
    YouTube: @beckyellisauthor
    Newsletter: https://beckyellis.net/connect-1

    Connect with us:
    Email – [email protected]
    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc
    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

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  • Navigating Holiday Decisions: Whose Family Do We Spend It With?

    In today’s episode, Chris and Lucie dive into a common holiday dilemma many couples face: deciding whose family to spend holidays with. They explore the complexities of family dynamics, travel, and emotions, offering strategies for managing these conversations without compromising relationships. They roleplay a discussion between a married couple working through holiday plans, highlighting how empathy, emotional intelligence, and creative problem-solving can lead to more harmonious decisions.

    Key Takeaways:

    Setting feeling-based goals for the holidaysBalancing competing family dynamics and expectationsNavigating family guilt and boundary-settingThe importance of creative problem-solving in relationships

    Have you faced a similar situation? How do you navigate holiday plans with family? Share your thoughts in the comments, and don't forget to like, subscribe, and leave us a review!

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    Email – [email protected]

    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc

    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • We love communication here at the Art and Science of Difficult Conversations.  In fact, that’s our tagline, “Communicate better, live better”.  But in the pursuit of more open and transparent communication, does the pendulum swing too far in the opposite direction?  Are there times when we don’t need to communicate about a topic?

     That’s our focus today, when we have a lively dialogue with Ahad just about that topic, are there times we should hold off on communicating? 

     Ahad is originally from Pakistan and currently lives in the Netherlands as a data consultant working with organizations to get more intentional and persuasive with their data to make decisions.  He also hosts his own podcast, The Weekly Vasl.

     Follow Ahad here:

     https://www.instagram.com/ahadbudhani/?locale=en-SG&hl=enhttps://www.tiktok.com/@ahadbudhanihttps://youtube.com/@theweeklyvasl?feature=shared https://open.spotify.com/show/6PC0A8oxtGZ9ggrG2pnhDi?si=_JkI7GJxSaGC2G3NmwgiOg

     

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    Email – [email protected]

    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc

    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

     

  • In this episode, we discuss how to handle situations where a high-performing employee or leader is creating interpersonal challenges in the workplace. Whether you're a manager, team member, or leader, dealing with someone who excels technically but struggles with people skills can be tricky. We explore the risks of not addressing the issue, strategies for providing constructive feedback, and how to prepare for these tough conversations. Plus, we roleplay a common scenario to demonstrate key techniques. Join us for practical tips and insights on managing difficult workplace dynamics.

    Key Topics:

    Why interpersonal conflict matters even with high performanceStrategies to provide constructive feedbackHow to prepare for difficult conversations with concrete examplesThe importance of aligning behavior with organizational cultureRoleplay demonstration: How to approach a divisive leader

    Takeaways:

    Preparation and concrete data are key when addressing difficult conversations.Ask the right questions to uncover underlying motivations and behavioral patterns.Don’t avoid the conversation—address it early to prevent larger issues later.

    Difficult Conversations Newsletter

    Want more updates on how to handle difficult conversations?  Grab your weekly copy here: www.tinyurl.com/leadershippotential

     Check out the Mastering Difficult Conversations Course https://leadershippotential.teachable.com/p/mastering-difficult-conversations-how-to

     

    Instagram - http://www.instagram.com/tas.difficultconvos

    Email – [email protected]

    Chris – www.linkedin.com/in/chriswonglmhc

    Lucie – www.linkedin.com/in/lucietesarova

  • What can you say if your wife wants a separation? Or a divorce?

     If you’re like most men, you’ll feel blindsided and/or you’ll immediately try to figure out how to solve this problem.  Unfortunately, that’s actually not the right way to approach it at all.

     In this week’s episode, Lucie and Chris talk with Randy, an experienced relationship coach focused on helping separated husbands reconnect with their wives. His faith-based methods center around growing closer to Christ and becoming the best version of ourselves, which provides the greatest chance of reconciling marriages.

     Here he shares his best tips, including:

      Why talking about it may not actually be the best option

     How problem-solving approaches don’t work What it means to actually be a better person, and not just doing it for your spouse.

    Randy collaborates with professionals, business owners, and executives. Good men who accept responsibility for their part in the breakdown of their marriage and seek to reconnect with their wives. Through live sessions and actionable strategies, Randy and his coaches support them while holding them accountable, ensuring their relationships improve.

    Before coaching, Randy was a professional comedy magician/juggler on cruise ships all over the world. His previous experience in the “funny business” helps lighten the mood when discussing the serious topics of separation and divorce, and helps husbands realize that, with Christ, there is ALWAYS hope.

     Connect with Randy here:

    LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachrandypryor/

    Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@hopeforseparatedhusbands

    Website: https://RandyPryor.com or http://SOSRandy.com

     

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