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Am I a bad person? Nike’s latest ad asks this question, and the internet erupted in response. But is the real issue the ad, or what it reveals about our relationship with competition and ambition?
In this episode, Brett Bartholomew delves into the controversy surrounding Nike's recent ad, featuring Willem Dafoe’s voice and a striking depiction of athletes at their most intense. While some argue the ad promotes toxic values in sports, Brett explores the nuance behind it, offering his insights as a coach, parent, and former athlete. He dissects why the ad has sparked such strong reactions and what it says about our society’s discomfort with the more competitive, driven side of human nature.
Topics Discussed:
The controversy surrounding the Nike ad and Willem Dafoe's voiceover.The depiction of athletes and the "dark side" of competition.The difference between respecting opponents and being hyper-competitive.The role of parents in shaping their children’s behavior.How societal issues, such as mental health and polarized reactions, influence public perception of media.Brett’s personal experiences with athletes and how they balance intensity with ethics.Resources Mentioned:
Take our Drives Quiz!Nike Ad featuring Willem DafoeCarl Jung’s concept of the "shadow" in psychologyStephen King’s “Legion of Decency” referenceJoin the Discussion: We want to hear your thoughts! Did the Nike ad strike a chord with you? Do you agree with Brett's take? Let us know by reaching out to us on social media or leaving a comment on our website.
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Speaker School - Warren Buffet has said that Public Speaking is the “single greatest skill to boost your career and self worth, and is an asset that will last for 50 to 60 years.” It also happens to be most people’s biggest fear, which Buffet said if unaddressed “will also last you 50 to 60 years.” At Speaker School we help those who need to slay their inner imposter, who would just like to get better at running staff meetings at work, to those who would like to get paid to deliver keynotes. We’re holding one more Speaker School before the end of the year in Phoenix, AZ October 12-13. Take advantage of our EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT AND SAVE UP TO $200! Hurry though, the deal expires September 11th! Click here to reserve your spot. This is one of our most popular live events and fills up fast. We limit the number of participants to make sure you get the practice and feedback you deserve. See you there!
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We’ve all been there. Our significant other is struggling and we ask “how can I help?”
While this is well-intentioned, is there anything we can do proactively to meet these challenges head on, before things completely unravel? Conversely, how can we express our own needs and clearly address what’s really bothering us, so we’re both on the same page?
If you’ve been in this situation—and let’s face it, we all have—then you’ve come to the right place. Today’s episode is packed with practical advice and exercises that you can start doing TODAY with your spouse or partner right away to enhance your relationship.
In this show, we’re diving into a no-nonsense, actionable discussion on:
“Hot zones” and how to tell your partner you’re in oneDefining your role as a helper vs. focusing on specific actionsThe importance of clearly defining your relationship essentialsHow to lean on your core values and beliefs when you need a winYOU AREN’T TOO LATE! - This episode is a sneak peek into our 30 Day Relationship Challenge that just kicked off. Bottom line, no one has a perfect relationship, no matter what it looks like on the surface. Growth begins with acknowledging that we can be better and progress happens when you roll up your sleeves and take action. Whether you’re single, married, or would just like to communicate better with your kids, we can help enrich the relationships that mean the most to you. What could be more valuable than that? No travel is required, you can work through this on the couch with your significant other (glass of wine optional) at your own pace. Visit artofcoaching.com/relationship, we’re in the thick of it - JOIN US!
SPEAKER SCHOOL - Is there a message stuck in your head that you know needs to get out into the world? Maybe you’d just like to get better in front of your coworkers at the weekly staff meeting. Either way, Speaker School is the ideal place to get better in front of people, regardless of the situation! This live 2 day experience not only gives you the knowledge you need to create a logical and clear presentation, but provides you with a safe environment to fail, filled with people who want you to succeed and who will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to improve. Join us in Phoenix, AZ on October 12-13th!. We keep the number of participants small, so make sure to secure your spot today!
WE ADMIT, WE’RE ALL OVER THE PLACE… We recently received feedback from a loyal customer who mentioned they’d love to return to an event but were confused by our constant stream of new offerings. We want to assure you that our mission remains the same. However, we’ve evolved in response to your requests and suggestions to better meet your needs. If you’d like to see what we’re up to and how we can support you, check out the links below. Feel free to email us at [email protected] with any questions or for more information on discounts, payment plans, and more.
Quick Links On Where You Can Find Us
Live Events - Nothing replaces an immersive, in-person experience!
Digital Courses - Lifetime access you can work through at YOUR own pace on YOUR schedule.
1-On-1 Mentoring - Personalized coaching tailored to your needs.
30 Day Relationship Challenge - A virtual guide to improving relationships, at our lowest price point!
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We are so proud to be sponsored today by our longtime partner Momentous. You need to pay attention to what you put in your body. For safety and performance, it’s crucial to follow three key principles: stick to what works, choose products that are rigorously tested, and rely on those rooted in science. Momentus products are NSF Certified for Sport, meaning they meet the highest quality control standards—the same required of athletes competing in the Olympics. We particularly love their whey protein, creatine, and fish oil. Visit livemomentus.com and enter the code BRETT15 at checkout to save 15% on anything found on their website. Who knows, their products might give you the power to “throw a football over them mountains.” Hut hut hike!
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“Before tackling this problem, let me figure out how to make this simple. It’s really not that complicated…”
Have you ever taken this approach when dealing with a difficult issue with your family, friends, staff, or coworkers? While this tactic might work in some situations, most complex problems require solutions that reductive thinking simply can’t provide.
Library and bookstore shelves are brimming with management and leadership books packed with "how-to" lists, buckets, quadrants, and countless linear methods that promise to solve problems easily and efficiently, and take your people and business to the next level. From simplifying decision-making to categorizing leadership styles, these books often present a structured, step-by-step approach that appeals to those looking for quick fixes and plug and play templates.
Whether it’s procrastination, avoidance, or just the allure of a quick fix, it’s time to roll up our sleeves and confront why we keep dipping into this well of oversimplified solutions—because, as Mike Tyson said, everyone has a plan until they get punched in the face. And when the real challenges hit, those tidy answers rarely stand up to the blow.
In today’s podcast, we’re taking the gloves off and having a frank conversation about:
Framework hopping, what it is and why people do itWhy exposure alone NEVER equates to real skill or competenceThe long term effects of over relying on simple fixes to solve complex problemsHow leaning into the thing you’re avoiding is the best path forwardAs always, we love your feedback! Happy, sad, mad, indifferent (which isn’t very helpful, if you want to get better at giving feedback check out this episode) send it all to [email protected].
*LAST CALL* 30-Day Relationship Challenge - Relationships shape our lives. From our families to the workplace, our happiness is directly tied to the people who mean the most to us . This Fall we’re launching a resource that hits EXTREMELY close to home. It will be completely virtual.New content will be dropped each week and you’ll be invited to join our virtual happy hours with our team so we can navigate life’s challenges together. We’ll also be leveraging the knowledge of a licensed expert in family and relationship therapy. Visit artofcoaching.com/relationship-challenge/ it starts in 1 WEEK, SIGN UP TODAY!
Who Are We & What Do We Do - Whether this is your first time tuning into the podcast or your hundredth, we’re thrilled to have you here. At Art of Coaching, we specialize in leadership development—the real-world, hard stuff you won’t find in books. We’re not here for those seeking generic solutions or cookie-cutter checklists for changing workplace culture or relationships. Instead, we offer highly practical resources and courses designed to help you navigate power dynamics and people—even when the person standing in your way is the one in the mirror. Have questions or want to know more about our discounts or payment plans? Email us at [email protected].
Quick Links To Learn More About Our Services
Live Events - Nothing replaces an immersive, in-person experience!
Digital Courses - Lifetime access you can work through at YOUR own pace on YOUR schedule.
1-On-1 Mentoring - Personalized coaching tailored to your needs.
Today’s episode is sponsored by our lifelong partner Momentous. You need to pay attention to what you put in your body. For safety and performance, it’s crucial to follow three key principles: stick to what works, choose products that are rigorously tested, and rely on those rooted in science. Momentus products are NSF Certified for Sport, meaning they meet the highest quality control standards—the same required of athletes competing in the Olympics. We particularly love their whey protein, creatine, and fish oil. Visit livemomentus.com and enter the code BRETT15 at checkout to save 15% on anything found on their website. Don’t compromise when it comes to your supplements. Stick to the basics, choose what’s been tested, and trust what’s proven.
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The quality of our relationships is the #1 determining factor in our overall happiness and well-being. Yet, how often do we hear real people having honest conversations about the challenges, complexities, and joys of solving the puzzle of truly connecting with those who are closest to us?
This week, Scott and Jaime Livingston join us for a candid conversation about the messy realities of relationships. Whether you come from a harmonious family with a white picket fence or one marked by tension and turmoil, there’s something in this episode for you.
Scott is an Athletic Therapist, Master Performance Coach and Neuro Reconditioning Professional. He has 35+ years of practice in the human performance industry working in every conceivable performance environment. He is also the host of the groundbreaking life journey podcast, Leave Your Mark found on all streaming services.
Jaime is also an Athletic Therapist and Master Performance Coach and has been working in the field of human performance for twenty-five years. Jaime has trained and re-built athletes at every level including professional athletes, Olympic athletes, and college athletes, as well as highly motivated recreational athletes.
Together Jaime and Scott co-founded the practice of Neuro Reconditioning which they teach and share throughout the world while co-parenting their amazing daughter Gretchen.
During our conversation we discuss:
The danger of molding yourself to fit someone else’s expectationsWhy expressing your needs clearly is so importantHow to ensure you and your partner are growing together, NOT apartWhat the path to true reconciliation looks like when things go awrySave Big on Our Summer Sale!
Whether you're a strength coach looking to network and navigate your career, or someone interested in psychology and building trust, WE CAN HELP! If you're thinking of venturing out on your own and testing the waters of entrepreneurship, we’ve got templates to help you get off the ground. Trusted by units in the US Military, Firefighters, the Boys and Girls Club of America, Professional Sports Teams, and Universities, our courses, live events, and mentoring are available now at the largest discount of the year. Visit artofcoaching.com/summersale/ for the entire list, hurry it’s ending soon - DON’T MISS OUT!
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Digital Courses (30% OFF) - Use code: SUM30 at checkout
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Speaker School - Warren Buffet has said that Public Speaking is the “single greatest skill to boost your career and self worth, and is an asset that will last for 50 to 60 years.” It also happens to be most people’s biggest fear, which Buffet said if unaddressed “will also last you 50 to 60 years.” At Speaker School we help those who need to slay their inner imposter, who would just like to get better at running staff meetings at work, to those who would like to get paid to deliver keynotes. We’re holding one more Speaker School before the end of the year in Phoenix, AZ October 12-13. Take advantage of our EARLY BIRD DISCOUNT AND SAVE UP TO $200! Hurry though, the deal expires August 31st! Click here to reserve your spot. This is one of our most popular live events and fills up fast. We limit the number of participants to make sure you get the practice and feedback you deserve. See you there!
30-Day Relationship Challenge - Relationships shape our lives. From our families to the workplace, our happiness is directly tied to the people who mean the most to us . This Fall we’re launching a resource that hits EXTREMELY close to home. It will be completely virtual.New content will be dropped each week and you’ll be invited to join our virtual happy hours with our team so we can navigate life’s challenges together. We’ll also be leveraging the knowledge of a licensed expert in family and relationship therapy. Visit artofcoaching.com/relationship-challenge/ it starts in two weeks, sign up today!
Referenced Episodes:
E128 | ScottLivingston: How To Bring More Value To Others
E142 | Nate Hoffmeister: Dealing With Divorce: A Leader’s Guide
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Have you ever thought, "I'd love to do that, but I just don't have the money," or do you have interests or passions outside of your professional life that you've suppressed in order to advance your career?
Maybe you've pushed aside personal goals, believing the myth that true success requires unwavering focus on your career alone.
It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that anything outside of work is a distraction. But what if those very experiences—those that broaden our perspective, teach us new skills, and enrich our lives—could actually enhance your career as well?
This week's guest refuses to be confined to one distinct category. Taylor Evernden is the owner and director of ORKA Performance in Calgary, AB, Canada. Previously, he served as the Head of Sport Science and Strength & Conditioning for the Calgary Foothills Soccer Club, where he oversaw the athletic development of U12-18 teams, as well as the W League and USL PDL. In addition to his extensive experience in athletic performance, Taylor has a keen interest in ACL rehabilitation and general return-to-sport rehab.
In this episode we venture deep into the jungle to explore:
The myth that we need to specialize to excelHow waiting for the 'right time' can lead to missed opportunitiesOur alternative selves and determining how much to reveal to othersUsing vulnerability to enhance your effectiveness as a leaderLAST CHANCE to Save Big on Our Summer Sale!
Don't miss out on 30% off all our online courses and bundles with the code: SUMMER30. Whether you're a strength coach looking to network and navigate the nuances of your career, or someone interested in psychology and building trust, these courses can help. If you're thinking of venturing out on your own and testing the waters of entrepreneurship, we’ve got templates to help you get off the ground. Trusted by units in the US Military, Firefighters, the Boys and Girls Club of America, Professional Sports Teams, and Universities, our courses are available now at the largest discount of the year. These on-demand, masterclass-style videos allow you to learn at your own pace, with lifetime access included. Visit artofcoaching.com/sale - Act now before the sale ends!
MENTORING is included in Our Summer Sale!
If you have questions about staff development, leadership, running a business, or becoming a speaker, our online mentoring program is here to help. We offer an executive coaching program where our team can connect with you anywhere in the world via Zoom. It’s 100% private and protected by NDAs, allowing us to dive as deep into your challenges as you want to go. Every leader needs a coach! Visit artofcoaching.com/mentoring and let our team push you further.
30-Day Relationship Challenge - Relationships shape our lives. From our families to the workplace, our happiness is directly tied to the people who mean the most to us . This Fall we’re launching a resource that hits EXTREMELY close to home. It will be completely virtual.New content will be dropped each week and you’ll be invited to join our virtual happy hours with our team so we can navigate life’s challenges together. We’ll also be leveraging the knowledge of a licensed expert in family and relationship therapy. Email us at [email protected], and tell us you’d love more details on the 30 day challenge and we’ll send you more info.
Today’s episode is sponsored by our lifelong partner Momentous. You need to pay attention to what you put in your body. For safety and performance, it’s crucial to follow three key principles: stick to what works, choose products that are rigorously tested, and rely on those rooted in science. Momentus products are NSF Certified for Sport, meaning they meet the highest quality control standards—the same required of athletes competing in the Olympics. We particularly love their whey protein, creatine, and fish oil. Visit livemomentus.com and enter the code BRETT15 at checkout to save 15% on anything found on their website. Don’t compromise when it comes to your supplements. Stick to the basics, choose what’s been tested, and trust what’s proven.
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Do you think mentorship is a straightforward, progressive process? Think again.
We envision that ideal student-teacher relationship or the picturesque blacksmith-apprentice image, but in reality, things just don't work that way. People are complex and being an effective mentor requires a playbook that goes far beyond a cookie-cutter list of ideal traits.
In this episode we're turning back the clock and rediscovering the hard truths of what it takes to be a great mentor. We examine:
Setting someone up for success vs. hand-holdingReciprocity and the NEED for collaborationChallenging comfort zones through accountabilityHow to say the hard stuff and promote self-relianceMentoring - One of our missions as a company was to be a beacon for people who need help becoming a better leader, building more meaningful relationships, and navigating the scary realities of entrepreneurship. Our 1:1 mentoring program was built to fill that gap and give you a clear path to progress. Schedule a free discovery call with our team, or email us at [email protected].
30-Day Relationship Challenge - Do you feel disconnected from a friend or loved one? Are you at an impasse on an issue that, if resolved, could relieve tension and clear a path that leads to more happiness? This fall we’re launching a resource to help you with just that, and it’s also our most affordable offering yet. No travel - 100% virtual. Convenient for anyone with a busy schedule. Whether you're interested in strategies to be a better spouse, a more interactive parent, or just a better overall human, this challenge is for you. It's designed for anyone who has imperfect relationships (cough cough, everyone). The only requirements are to be 100% real and willing to open up and push forward, wherever that takes you. Email us at [email protected], and we'll take it from there!
THE NEXT BOOK IS COMING! Stay up to date on release information and bonuses by visiting artofcoaching.com/book. This will not be your run-of-the-mill leadership book. We only speak truth here and are dedicated to delivering a message you need to hear, and how to put it into ACTION. This book will do both.
Today’s episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. What are your self-care non-negotiables? Is your schedule packed with kid activities, big work projects, and more? Therapy isn't just for those on the brink of catastrophe; it's also for those who want to optimize their lives and stay on the right track. Therapy can be a critical resource to ground yourself and work through thoughts, feelings, and ideas. BetterHelp offers convenient, flexible, and entirely online therapy. Whether adding therapy to your routine or changing your current approach, BetterHelp matches you with a licensed therapist tailored to your needs. Take the step towards a better you with BetterHelp. Visit betterhelp.com/aoc to save 10% on your first month!
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Check out the rest of our channel for hours of extra content!
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“How can I do this better?”
Tackling large projects, like writing a book, can be incredibly daunting. It's easy to feel overwhelmed by your own ideas. How can we overcome this and get our thoughts onto paper? What tools or applications can help us stay organized and productive while assembling our project or book?
In this episode we discuss:
Why your workspace setup NEEDS to reflect your processTools for capturing thoughts and ideas to convert into content Integrating word mapping into your creative ecosystemTransitioning from harvester to producer through accountabilityTo stay up to date on release information and bonuses for Brett’s next book, visit artofcoaching.com/book. Whether you’re a longtime listener or are new to us, this work will speak to you. More to come!
If there are other topics you’d like us to dive into in our podcast, please let us know! If you have a specific topic you’d like us to cover, reach out at [email protected] or submit your questions HERE.
Everyone needs a Coach. Whether you’re looking to write a book, need help turning your passion into a viable business, or are having trouble navigating a challenging relationship, We can help! Our 1:1 mentoring program was built to help you navigate the messy realities of life. Schedule a free discovery call with our team, or you can get in touch with us directly by email at [email protected].
The Coalition - FINAL CALL before we kick off one of our most in-depth and impactful offerings of the year! If you want to connect with a group of like-minded entrepreneurs who are eager to share ideas and help you grow your brand or business authentically, you’ve found your tribe. This virtual program fits seamlessly into any schedule and even includes a retreat to an exciting location. If you're ready to stop making excuses, fill out this form and our team will be in touch.
Mighty Networks Digital Community: Our digital community where you can gain access to information, discussion, and a group of professionals (including the AoC Team) who are serious about their development. For only $19.99/ month (free cancellation at any time) you can take your communication, leadership, and relationship skills to the next level. Join us today!
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“What can I do to help?”
Have you ever been asked that question and felt like throwing your hands up in frustration? Maybe it's a question you ask your team at work or your family at home. Whether you have specific needs or genuinely want to help others, how can we express ourselves more clearly and get to the heart of the issue? How can we show up in a way that makes an impact?
Some of the key topics covered in this episode are:
Essential details for determining our suitability to helpPrinciples of being a good advocateHow to hold ourselves and others accountable for lack of reciprocationThe damaging effects of inaction and the roles of fear and self-worth30 Day Relationship Challenge - Today's podcast delved into the importance of expressing ourselves and our needs, and how to better support others. If you’ve ever felt unheard, under-appreciated, disrespected or overlooked - we can help! Email us at [email protected] and just say “interested.” As a loyal podcast listener, you’ll be the first to know as we release more details. This is our most affordable product yet, you don’t want to miss this!
The Coalition - FINAL CALL before we kick off one of our most in depth and impactful offerings of the year. If you’ve been wanting to join a business mastermind group to hold you accountable and inspire you to reach for more, you’ve found your tribe. It’s virtual, fitting seamlessly into any schedule, and even includes a retreat to a fun location! If you’re tired of excuses, fill out this form and our team will be in touch.
Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous. If you’re someone who has been wanting to improve your health for a while, but are intimidated by a lot of things you see in the fitness industry and are searching for a brand you can trust, look no further. Momentous puts their products through rigorous testing, so you know what is on the label is what you’re putting in your body. We love their Omega-3, Creatine, and recently restocked Multivitamin. They’re a longtime partner of ours for good reason - they believe in the same things we do. Fundamentals NOT fluff. Visit livemomentus.com/brett to SAVE 15%!
Referenced Material:
E93: The Sin of Self Promotion
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We’ve heard it all before. Whether in sports or business, high achievers think differently than we do.
They’ve developed an internal flow chart for solving problems and regulating their emotions, creating a winning machine.
Is this really how they do it? What tips can we pull from the ever-expanding mental performance world to improve our performance without falling into gimmicks and wasting time?
Today’s guest has not only walked the walk, but has done it at the highest level. Her name is Priscilla Tallman and she’s a Mental Performance Consultant who holds a Masters’ Degree in Clinical Psychology and has authored two nationally published performance journals that feature essential tools for athletes, coaches, and leaders. Priscilla began her journey as an athlete, playing volleyball at the University of Georgia where she earned numerous accolades including SEC Freshman of the Year, SEC Player of the Year, and was inducted into UGA’s Circle of Honor. She was also a member of the USA National Team and the World University Games Team.
In today’s conversation we discuss:
How to confront the guilt and shame of failing to meet our own standardsWhat it takes to earn someone’s genuine trustStrategies to employ when your best self starts to slipThe benefits of integrating suppressed parts of your personalityWe’d like to thank Priscilla for joining us on today’s show. Visit her website priscillatallman.com to learn more about her and what she can do to improve your performance. You can also follow her on Instagram @spikedr3, and pick up any of her journals here.
30 Day Relationship Challenge - If you want to improve your relationships, we have something big coming for you. Whether you’re single, married, or just dealing with some inner conflict, THIS WILL HELP. Financial issues, communicating with kids, intimacy - all of it. Email us at [email protected] and just say “interested.” As a loyal podcast listener, you’ll be the first to know as we release more details.
The Coalition - Our business mastermind group LAUNCHES AGAIN NEXT MONTH! If you’re looking for a team of like-minded people to hold you accountable and help you break through barriers by sharing lessons from past experiences, you’ve found your tribe. It’s virtual, fitting seamlessly into any schedule, and even includes a retreat to a fun location! If you’re tired of excuses, fill out this form and our team will be in touch.
Referenced Resources:
Conscious Coaching
Drives Quiz
Susan Cain Book
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That spun out of control. I don’t think they quite understand. Would things have turned out different if I had approached it another way?
Have you ever felt like that after an interaction? None of us are perfect communicators, so chances are that you have. It is extremely frustrating when things go wrong, especially when we have the knowledge and think we are adequately prepared to handle it.
In order to own the moment, you need to understand:
Why not all practice is the same and what elements to include to improve transferabilityThe role contextual interference plays and how to account for it How to lean into constraints and leverage them for growthWhat to do if you get stuck and how social scrimmaging can save you30 Day Relationship Challenge - If you’re someone who wants to get better at relationships, we have something in the works for you. Whether you’re single, married, or just need to deal with some inner conflict, this is for you. Financial issues, communicating with kids, intimacy - we can help with all of it. Email us at [email protected] and just say “interested.” As a loyal podcast listener, you’ll be the first to know as we release more details.
The Coalition - Today’s episode is focussed on how to convert what you know and feel into tangible progress. If you want that same thing for your business, THE COALITION IS FOR YOU. Think of this as your business mastermind group who will hold you accountable and help you navigate your biggest roadblocks. It’s virtual, which means it can fit anywhere in your schedule, and includes a retreat to a fun location! If you’re tired of the excuses and are ready to act on your dreams of more, fill out this form and our team will be in touch.
Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous. If you’re someone who has been wanting to improve your health for a while, but are intimidated by a lot of things you see in the fitness industry and are searching for a brand you can trust, look no further. Momentous puts their products through rigorous testing, so you know what is on the label is what you’re putting in your body. They’re a longtime partner of ours for good reason - they believe in the same things we do. Fundamentals NOT fluff. Visit livemomentus.com/brett to SAVE 15%!
Referenced Material:
E331: Dontari Poe: Mental Toughness Myths and Life Tips
E317: Tyson Shumway: Law Enforcement Lessons For De-Escalating Conflict
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Everything has turned into a debate. No matter the topic, everyone seems to have an opinion. Don’t feel left out…you’re included! So are your co-workers, friends, neighbors, and ESPECIALLY your family and loved ones.
Getting into an argument with anyone is hard, but it becomes increasingly difficult when they brush off your points, spin the facts, or change the subject altogether. Imagery of a bull and matador come to mind. This episode will give you a deeper understanding of why people deflect or misdirect, and how to get rid of the red cape and hidden sword in exchange for improved relationships and personal growth.
In today’s show, we discuss:
The psychological reasons people resort to using deflective tacticsHow trying to “save face” can backfire and widen the gap to conflict resolutionAccountability and how dealing with our own demons leads to growthScripts you can use if you’re overwhelmed and need to buy time to process and respondIf you’d like to learn more about our 30 Day Relationship Challenge reach out to us at [email protected] and let us know you’re interested. You’ll be notified first as more information is released, and we’ll also keep you up to date on all future workshops, mentoring opportunities and much more!
This fall we’ll be kicking off another round of our business mastermind group The Coalition! This is for anyone at any stage of developing their own business. From the “that’s a good idea” phase, to those who are optimizing systems to maximize productivity and profit. All of our zoom meetings are recorded, so we can grow with you, on your time. We’ve helped people all across the world, and if you want to be a part of a tribe like this, start by filling out this form and our team will be in touch.
If this episode struck a nerve and you’d like to dive deeper or have specific questions, join our online community - Mighty Networks! This is our answer to the shortcomings of other social media platforms, and allows our team to deliver a steady stream of unfiltered content, and it’s LESS THAN $20 A MONTH! Sign up HERE today!
Referenced Material:
E313: How To Communicate With Someone Who Shuts Down Or Stonewalls
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Imagine what it takes to reach the pinnacle of any profession. We’re not just talking about the top 5-10%, but fractions of that. Now add that this business is composed of the largest, fastest, and most explosive athletes on the planet, competing in a collision sport where success and failure are determined in split seconds. Oh, did we mention that millions of dollars are on the line?
Today, we are joined by someone who was not just a part of that elite club but reached the highest highs—from the trenches. In the 1st Round of the 2012 NFL Draft, the Kansas City Chiefs selected Dontari Poe with the 11th overall pick. Over the next nine seasons, Poe became an All-Pro Defensive Lineman, wreaking havoc on backfields across the league. His journey began long before he became a pro, and today he shares some timeless and invaluable lessons he learned along the way. This show is like our workshops: uncut, uncensored, and 100% real. PARENTAL ADVISORY for a few instances of coarse language.
In this episode, we discuss:
The truth about mental toughness, common myths, and how to cut through the BSHow to avoid letting our environment dictate who we becomeThe importance of setting boundaries when helping othersWhat it takes to ensure we’re at our best in our biggest momentsWe want to thank Dontari for joining us and answering one of our listener’s questions. If you have something you’d like us to address on a future podcast, please let us know! You can reach us directly at [email protected] or submit your questions HERE.
1:1 Mentoring - Everyone needs a Coach. We offer various mentoring options personalized to your goals, no matter what industry you’re in, helping you with topics such as discovering your niche, clarifying the next steps in your career, finding your voice as a leader, navigating power dynamics, gaining confidence in negotiating and so much more! If you want help, schedule a call with an Art of Coaching™ team member by clicking this link.
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Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous. If you’re someone who has been wanting to improve your health for a while, but are intimidated by a lot of things you see in the fitness industry and are searching for a brand you can trust, look no further. Momentous puts their products through rigorous testing, so you know what is on the label is what you’re putting in your body. They’re a longtime partner of ours for good reason - they believe in the same things we do. Fundamentals NOT fluff. Visit livemomentus.com/brett to SAVE 15%!
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Relationships are hard. Even if you’ve been with your better half for years, it can still be easy to miss the forest for the trees during busy times. We know that when dealing with people miscommunication is the baseline, but does it have to be this way with those we love the most?
Today, we address a real-life situation sent in by one of our listeners and provide focused advice on how to have a difficult conversation with your spouse. Nothing will haunt you like the spirit of the unsaid and if you or your partner’s needs aren’t being fulfilled, the road WILL become rocky. How do we go about expressing ourselves without sounding needy? How can you get what you want while enhancing the relationship for both of you?
In this highly practical episode, we discuss:
The dangers of assuming someone knows everything about youHow to ensure we’re not the problem and how to reverse course if we arePractical ways to start the conversation and the one element that MUST be includedResearch about unexpressed feelings and how to avoid this tragedyIf there are other topics you’d like us to dive into in our podcast, please let us know! If you have a specific situation you need help with, we keep everything completely anonymous - nothing will be traced back to you. You can reach us directly at [email protected] or submit your questions HERE.
This is the LAST CALL for the The Apprenticeship Workshop in Calgary, CAN June 22-23!. Hosted by our good friends at ORKA Performance, The Apprenticeship is a highly interactive 2-day workshop for those looking to improve their ability to communicate, lead, and build strong relationships. By attending, you’ll experience the practice, coaching, and feedback you need to truly grow. And better yet, you’ll get to take home a quantifiable communication evaluation tool, as well as several other tools to help you strategically approach any conversation. This is our only trip North this year, DON'T MISS IT!
Today’s podcast sponsor is BetterHelp. Do you ever spread yourself too thin or find your social battery constantly running on low-power mode? BetterHelp is an extremely convenient online therapy service that can help you recharge your battery. If you’re looking for someone to listen and help you find your sweet spot, check out Betterhelp.com/aoc for 10% off your first month!
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It’s time! You’ve spent YEARS building your skill set and building your reputation as a leader in your field. You’re ready to convert your knowledge and skill set into a viable business and share your passion with others in the form of a live event or workshop.
Few experiences are as fulfilling as getting together with other people, united by a shared passion and commitment to improving at a specific skill. Aristotle once said “teaching is the highest form of understanding,” so not only can you start making money by running your own event, but you’ll also gain an even deeper understanding of the subject you are so passionate about. But how do you even begin to put this together? As you start moving around the puzzle pieces, it can get overwhelming. Fast.
In today’s episode we’re joined by AOC Director of Operations Liz Bartholomew to discuss:
Where to begin in the initial planning stage and how to set realistic expectations What to look for in a venue and what you need to know about it to prior the eventPricing principles and how the loss leader strategy can serve as a springboard The key milestones and tasks that must be achieved before, during, and after the eventReferenced Materials:
E193 I What To Charge For Your Time & Worth: A Deep Dive
E295 I Public Speaking Tips Part 1: How Much Content Is Enough When Presenting?
E297 I Public Speaking Tips Part 2: The Ultimate Keynote Preparation Checklist
E298 I Public Speaking Tips Part 3: Using Strategic Storytelling To Create A Compelling Message
If you got to the end of the podcast today and would rather just fast track this whole process, we can help! Bypass the years of mistakes we made by reaching out to us at [email protected] and let us plan your event. We’ll walk you through our step by step checklist and work through the details in a stress-free way, so you can focus on doing what you do best. This is one of the most valuable services we offer, let us know what we can do to help!
This is your LAST CHANCE to sign up for our Apprenticeship Workshop in Calgary, CAN June 22-23!. Hosted by our good friends at ORKA Performance, The Apprenticeship is a highly interactive 2-day workshop for those looking to improve their ability to communicate, lead, and build strong relationships. By attending, you’ll experience the practice, coaching, and feedback you need to truly grow. And better yet, you’ll get to take home a quantifiable communication evaluation tool, as well as several other tools to help you strategically approach any conversation. This is our only trip North this year, DON'T MISS IT!
Many of us can simply benefit from being around other, like-minded people to share our struggles, run our ideas by, and work together to find solutions. If you’re struggling with marketing, or need technical help with hiring or refining billing systems, whatever the roadblock - WE CAN HELP! This is why we started our business mastermind group The Coalition, to help people who want to help others make more progress and scale their impact. Whether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur or an established business owner looking to optimize current practices, take action and apply for our group mentoring program TODAY by filling out this form.
Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous. As things seem to come at us faster and faster, nailing the fundamentals and controlling the controllable becomes increasingly important. Putting quality nutrients in our bodies is critical in tackling life’s challenges. Momentous is our go-to for keeping us functioning at our best. We particularly love their fish oil to control inflammation and creatine for increasing strength and performance. Find them both and much more at livemomentus.com/brett and SAVE 15%!
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Do you ever feel like people are tuning you out? It can be EXTREMELY frustrating when you know your message or product isn’t landing with your audience. What gives? Why do some brands seem to resonate while others come off as white noise or unimportant?
Copywriting is the answer. Even in this new, digital age writing skills are timeless. There is both an art and science to delivering words to inspire others to take action and people need to feel something if you want their attention. Understanding copywriting can completely change the way you approach marketing and turn passive bystanders into active participants. Whether you’re an entrepreneur or just want to be a more informed consumer, understanding this form of writing is relevant to everyone.
In today’s episode we discuss:
What copywriting is and how it’s different from traditional writingWhere you use it and how it’s used on you in everyday lifeIdentify the essential characteristics of good copy and their psychological underpinningsHow to use the principles of copywriting to build better connections and inspire actionToday’s podcast topic came from a request from one of our listeners. If you’d like us to discuss a topic you’re curious about or have a question of your own, submit it to us at artofcoaching.com/question. We also have a private community void of the normal distractions of social media, where you can connect with our facilitators and people just like you for more in-depth discussion and practical advice you can apply NOW! Please reach out if you have any questions at [email protected].
Many of us can simply benefit from being around other, like-minded people to share our struggles, run our ideas by, and work together to find solutions. If you’re struggling with marketing, or need technical help with hiring or refining billing systems, whatever the roadblock - WE CAN HELP! This is why we started our business mastermind group The Coalition, to help people who want to help others make more progress and scale their impact. Whether you’re an aspiring entrepreneur or an established business owner looking to optimize current practices, take action and apply for our group mentoring program TODAY by filling out this form.
Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous. As things seem to come at us faster and faster, nailing the fundamentals and controlling the controllable becomes increasingly important. Putting quality nutrients in our bodies is critical in tackling life’s challenges. Momentous is our go-to for keeping us functioning at our best. We particularly love their fish oil to control inflammation and creatine for increasing strength and performance. Find them both and much more at livemomentus.com/brett and SAVE 15%!
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You’ve been brought in to be the difference maker. You’ve done the market research and have even done some background on your new team, you’re ready to hit the ground running! BUT, it turns out not everyone is excited about the new direction, and no matter what you do you cannot gain momentum. Failure to launch.
Making change is hard. We’ve all read leadership books that lay out the necessary steps to build the ultimate team and business, but we know better. It’s never what you expect it to be. In today’s episode we are joined by Art Of Coaching Facilitator Bekah Gold where she shares with us some invaluable lessons learned from her professional journey and keeps it real on what it takes to change workplace culture.
In this episode we discuss:
What to do when you’re met with resistance and apathy when trying to initiate changeThe importance of assessing yourself and how others perceive youHow to discern the drives of others and the vital role it plays in connecting with themWhy setting expectations is so critical and how to refocus if the’re misalignedYou can find Bekah on instagram at @coach_bgold where she posts regularly on topics pertaining to change management, leadership development, and getting out of your comfort zone. You can catch Bekah at one of our live events, book her for an inservice with your team, or arrange a time to meet virtually for one-on-one mentorship. Reach out if you have any questions at [email protected]!
This is your LAST CHANCE to sign up for our Apprenticeship Workshop in Calgary, CAN June 22-23!. Hosted by our good friends at ORKA Performance, The Apprenticeship is a highly interactive 2-day workshop for those looking to improve their ability to communicate, lead, and build strong relationships. This isn’t a “rah-rah,” motivational, death by powerpoint seminar. On the contrary, by attending, you’ll experience the practice, coaching, and feedback you need to truly grow. And better yet, you’ll get to take home a quantifiable communication evaluation tool, as well as several other tools to help you strategically approach any conversation. Sign up TODAY. We’ll see you there!
Is there a message stuck in your head that you know needs to get out into the world? Maybe you’d just like to get better in front of your coworkers at the weekly staff meeting. Either way, Speaker School is the ideal place to get better in front of people, regardless of the situation! This live 2 day experience not only gives you the knowledge you need to create a logical and clear presentation, but provides you with a safe environment to fail, filled with people who want you to succeed and who will give you the feedback and encouragement you need to improve. Join us in BEAUTIFUL Phoenix, AZ on June 1st and 2nd!. We keep the number of participants small, so make sure to secure your spot today!
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You’re on edge. Heart is pounding. Mind is racing. We’ve all been confronted by someone either in-person, over email, or on social media who questioned our personal or professional integrity. If you haven’t, buckle up.
It doesn’t matter what genre of music you like, if you have paid attention to the news at all over the past few months, you’ve heard of the beef between the artists Drake and Kendrick Lamar. Everyone from the New York Times to the President of the United States have commented on it. A lot of lessons can be learned from peeling back the layers of societal events like these, and today’s episode is going to challenge you to think critically about things you may have previously just left in the tabloids.
In this episode we cover:
The economic impact of public disputes and what it can teach us about marketingHow to leverage publicity from a conflict to define your brand and rally your followersThe tactical considerations when responding to an attack and the importance of timingWhat to do if you fall short and how to come back stronger in the futureThis episode was a little different than normal shows and we had a lot of fun recording this one. If you would like to hear more like this, let us know! Always feel free to reach out if you have any questions, concerns or other feedback to share at [email protected]. We would love to hear from you!
This is your LAST CHANCE to sign up for our Apprenticeship Workshop in Calgary, CAN June 22-23!. Hosted by our good friends at ORKA Performance, The Apprenticeship is a highly interactive 2-day workshop for those looking to improve their ability to communicate, lead, and build strong relationships. This isn’t a “rah-rah,” motivational, death by powerpoint seminar. On the contrary, by attending, you’ll experience the practice, coaching, and feedback you need to truly grow. And better yet, you’ll get to take home a quantifiable communication evaluation tool, as well as several other tools to help you strategically approach any conversation. Sign up TODAY. We’ll see you there!
Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous. Let’s be frank, most supplements are BS. The industry is full of overhyped charlatans that underdeliver products that do not work. Not Momentus. Their mission is to provide practical nutritional support for people who want to improve their health and fitness. Their supplements go through the rigorous process of NSF certification, so you can trust what is on the bottle is what you’re ingesting. They’re a longtime partner of ours for good reason - they believe in the same things we do. Fundamentals NOT fluff. Visit livemomentus.com/brett to SAVE 15%!
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Struggling with your work? Feel like you’re not hitting the mark? You’re not alone. Today’s chat dives deep into what it feels like when nothing seems to work and how to find your way out.
In Dr. Seuss’s book “Oh, the Place You’ll Go!”, he writes “And when you're in a Slump,
you're not in for much fun. Un-slumping yourself is not easily done.” We’ve ALL been there and no one or nothing can pull you out. It’s an inner struggle that we all go through and must conquer, and to be honest we don’t really have a choice.
In this episode we cover:
Why some common advice just doesn’t help and what to look out for insteadTips on how to step back and see your work differently, gaining new insights that matterSimple strategies to better understand your audience, ensuring your work resonatesHow to tackle self doubt head-on, paving the way for more authentic and satisfying workIt's hard to get out of your own head if you never get a chance to talk out some of the issues or problems you're struggling with. For this exact reason, we offer 1-on-1 Art of Coaching virtual mentoring. Coaches need coaches too, and that's the value we can provide to you if you let us. Submit a request form today for more information!
Speaker School - This live 2 day experience not only gives you the knowledge you need to create a logical and clear presentation, but provides you with a safe environment to fail, one filled with people who want you to succeed, and are there to give you the feedback and encouragement you need to take steps forward. Get the message you’ve been wrestling around with in your head out to the world. Join us in BEAUTIFUL Phoenix, AZ on June 1st and 2nd!. We keep the number of participants small, so make sure to secure your spot today!
We can’t say this enough, so we’ll say it again - WE VALUE YOUR FEEDBACK! If you liked the “rant” style of this episode, let us know and we can keep them coming. If you have any questions, concerns or other feedback to share, please reach out to use directly at [email protected]. We would love to hear from you!
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Have you ever been in the middle of a conversation and thought “can we just cut to the chase?”
For some people small talk seems like a complete waste of time, a painful variation of the verbal headlock. There are other people who seem to naturally flow through these conversations using them to build relationships with a diverse group of people, while simultaneously keeping their finger on the pulse of what’s happening in their communities.
In today’s episode, we dive deep on these surface level conversations in a way that no one has before. We discuss:
The ramifications of refusing to engage in them and their evolutionary importanceHow our drives play a direct role in our approach and goals for these interactions Tips to manage and mitigate the cognitive load these conversations costPractical strategies for navigating and reaping the benefits from small talkToday’s episode was made as a result of listener questions and situations attendees at our latest workshop wanted help with. Reach out to us at [email protected] or visit artofcoaching.com/question if there’s something you’d like to hear about on the podcast.
Referenced Resources:
Take our Drives Quiz!
Referenced Material:
E130: How Understanding Drives Helps Build Buy-In
Today’s episode is sponsored by Momentous. Let’s be frank, most supplements are BS. The industry is full of overhyped charlatans that underdeliver products that do not work. Not Momentus. Their mission is to provide practical nutritional support for people who want to improve their health and fitness. Their supplements go through the rigorous process of NSF certification, so you can trust what is on the bottle is what you’re ingesting. They’re a longtime partner of ours for good reason - they believe in the same things we do. Fundamentals NOT fluff. Visit livemomentus.com/brett to SAVE 15%!
On June 1st - 2nd we’re hosting our Speaker School in Phoenix, AZ, where you can find your voice and refine your message in a judgment-free environment using our research backed evaluation, video analysis, and feedback from your fellow attendees. We’ll also cover topics on slide design, how to present more effectively, and how to be more articulate. This is for everyone ranging from those who need more confidence and are battling social anxiety, to someone who is getting paid to speak in front of large numbers. We keep the number of participants to 10 or less to make sure you get enough reps. Spots are limited, so lock yours in today HERE!
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