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In the past, marriages seemed to last longer, even though if contract was usually entered into without prolonged courtship.
On the contrary, the wedding nowadays is preceded by a lot of expressions of love and prolonged courtship.
In this episode of The Bearing we are looking into the factors that sustained marriages of the past and the lessons those of today can learn therefrom. -
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Young boys, barefoot, roaming the streets, begging to survive—these are the faces of a system crying out for reform.
And governments at different levels have, at different times, attempted to reform the ‘tsangaya’ education system but have failed to succeed.
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In Northern Nigeria, the sight of young children roaming the streets, begging for food, is all too familiar.
What was once an esteemed educational journey has turned into a cycle of poverty, vulnerability, and stigma.
What went wrong?
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In the past, the ‘Almajiri system’ was a respected method of education, a way for young boys to gain both religious and practical knowledge under the care of Islamic scholars.
But today, the image of the ‘almajiri’ has changed – we see children roaming the streets, hungry and without the hope that this system once promised.
How did we get here? How did the system work and what were its successes?
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In Nigeria, marriage is a deeply rooted cultural union that extends beyond two individuals.
However, rising costs of living are making it increasingly difficult for men to fulfill the marriage requirements, be they “lefe” in the Northwest, 'Owo ori' in the Southwest, or 'Ihu Isi Nwanyi' in the Southeast.
This episode of The Bearing will explore perspectives from different strata of society on how these marriage costs are affecting Nigerians today. -
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In Nigeria, communal solidarity is deeply embedded in cultural values.
One of the most visible expressions of this is charitable giving, where compassionate individuals share food, clothing, and resources with those in need.
Another widespread form of support, known as “black tax,” places the financial burden on family members with stable incomes, who often assist extended family members struggling to make ends meet.
In this episode of The Bearing, we examine how both givers and receivers are adapting to the economic challenges that test these long standing traditions of support. -
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The saying, “Parents are always right” has been passed down through generations, deeply woven into cultural and societal fabric.
But in today’s world, is this long-standing notion still valid?
While parents often have their children’s best interests at heart, does that guarantee they are always right?
Join us in this week’s episode of The Bearing as we dive into this thought-provoking topic and explore different perspectives! -
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Traditionally, Nigerian culture holds elders in high esteem, valuing their wisdom and leadership in maintaining family order and passing down cultural values.
However, as society progresses and modernizes, the authority of elders is increasingly being questioned by younger generations.
This development begs the question: have elders lost their voice in the family, or is this a natural evolution in family dynamics?
In this episode of The Bearing, we will find out whether this change signals a decline in respect for elders or something else. -
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Living debt-free in Nigeria may appear like an elusive goal for many due to the country’s economic challenges.
Rising inflation, unemployment, fluctuating exchange rates, and the increasing cost of living have pushed many Nigerians toward borrowing.
Whether it’s securing loans for education, medical bills, or just making ends meet, debt has become a part of daily life for most.
But is it possible to live debt-free in Nigeria?
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The idea of the “soft life” has ignited a wave of conversations, challenging how we traditionally define success, hard work, and personal fulfillment. In an era dominated by hustle culture, more people are turning toward a lifestyle that prioritizes comfort, mental well-being, and balance.
Soft life is often seen as a break from the grind, an intentional shift toward a more relaxed and fulfilling way of living. But beyond the Instagram-worthy vacations and luxury aesthetics, what does the soft life really mean?
In this week’s episode of our podcast, we explore the different interpretations of the soft life and its impact on our daily lives. What does the soft life truly mean for people from different walks of life?
How can we embrace this concept while maintaining our ambitions and goals?
Join us as we dive deep into the philosophy behind the soft life, uncover its advantages and challenges, and learn how it is reshaping our understanding of success and happiness. -
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Hustle culture refers to the mentality that glorifies constant work, where productivity and financial success are seen as the ultimate goals.
It’s the “no-days-off” mindset that encourages individuals to always be working on something, whether it’s a side business, a freelance gig, or a new venture.
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at the hustle culture in Nigeria and work smart mechanisms Nigerians need to adopt. -
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Being a firstborn child is a unique role, one that is often laced with both pride and pressure. Across different cultures, firstborns are expected to be natural leaders, responsible caretakers, and, at times, trailblazers for their younger siblings.
Ultimately, being a firstborn, whether in Nigeria or elsewhere, is a role shaped by expectations, responsibilities, and cultural values.
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In a time when globalization threatens cultural identities and indigenous languages are fading away, the Hausa language remains a powerful symbol of resilience.
Spoken by millions, Hausa is more than just a language; it connects diverse communities across West Africa, carrying with it the rich history, identity, and traditions of its speakers. But what makes this language so enduring, even in the face of modernity?
Tune in to this week’s podcast as we explore the secrets behind the lasting strength of the Hausa language. -
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“Use your common sense!” It’s a phrase that gets thrown around in everyday conversations, scoldings, and bits of advice across Nigeria, implying that there’s a shared, obvious understanding everyone should have.
But here’s the question: Is common sense really that common?
Tune in to today’s episode of our weekly podcast as we dig deep into what “common sense” truly means and why it might not be as universal as we’ve always believed. -
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In a world where connections are often fleeting, the timeless dance of dating and courting holds a unique allure. It's a period filled with excitement, anticipation, and the intoxicating thrill of discovering another person experiencing their quirks, shared dreams, and the chemistry that draws two people together.
Gone are the days when a simple walk in the park or a shared soda at a local diner sufficed as a date. In modern times, dating often entails dinner at upscale restaurants, exotic trips, or the expectation of lavish gifts.
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Sibling rivalry is a natural part of family life, but when left unchecked, it can have serious consequences for both individuals and the family as a whole.
It manifests as competition, jealousy, and conflict between brothers and sisters, often beginning in childhood and sometimes extending into adulthood.
While some level of rivalry is natural, it can have profound effects on family dynamics, individual well-being, and long-term relationships.
Join us in this episode of our weekly podcast as we look at siblings rivalry and its long lasting impact on family dynamics. -
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Being a 20-something can be both exciting and daunting. Because you would only be 20 something once.
The twenties are a time of freedom, a period where you begin to become independent, take steps in the working world, and look for the partner you’ll have for a lifetime.
It’s the time where you define how the rest of your life will be.
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Nigerian tertiary institutions are bustling hubs of academic pursuit, social interactions, and, of course, food choices.
Such food choices aren't just about jollof rice and suya – it’s a survival dance with the wallets and the hustle of lecture halls and the bellies.
It’s safe to say that the cost of living in Naija has turned feeding patterns into a Nollywood drama.
Join us in this episode of the bearing as we look at ways Nigerian students can enjoy sumptuous and nutritional meals on a budget. -
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The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), a scheme established to foster unity and development, brings together young graduates from diverse backgrounds to serve in different parts of Nigeria.
While the experience is often enriching, there are many things corps members are not told before they embark on their journey.
What are the things they wish they knew before their NYSC journey, especially when it comes to serving in Abuja?
Join us in this episode of The Bearing as we discover the realities they face that they were not prepared for. -
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Whether it’s putting off a project, delaying a personal goal, or simply avoiding a tough conversation, procrastination can be a major roadblock to achieving your dreams.
But how does it specifically impact people in Nigeria, and what strategies can be used to overcome it?
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