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The uncomfortable and often frustrating truth about healthcare is that being heard by your doctor isn't guaranteed—it's something you must sometimes fight for. Through relatable personal stories about navigating my husband's chronic conditions, I explore why questioning medical authority isn't just acceptable, but necessary for proper care. The bottom line is I care deeply for my husband, and I'll fight for what he needs. That doesn't mean it's always easy.
After accompanying my husband to nearly 100 doctor visits over the years, I've witnessed firsthand how communication breakdowns between patients and physicians can lead to frustrating, and sometimes dangerous, healthcare gaps. Our recent encounter with a dismissive pain management doctor who repeatedly talked over us highlights a critical problem in medicine today: the difference between hearing and listening.
Most striking was the generational divide revealed when my aging parents confessed their complete, unquestioning trust in doctors—a concept that made my head "nearly explode." Today's healthcare landscape requires patients to advocate fiercely for themselves while balancing respect for medical expertise with healthy skepticism. Whether you're managing a chronic condition or simply attending routine check-ups, the skills of self-advocacy, preparation, and persistence have become essential tools for receiving proper care. Remember: the doctor is a person, not a god, and the "squeaky wheel" approach sometimes becomes necessary when your health is at stake. What experiences have shaped your approach to doctor-patient relationships?For the Only Child Diaries:
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A gabapentin recommendation at the emergency vet triggers my inner monologue: "Yeah, this isn't my first rodeo." After a week that included a pre-dawn drive to work, a $1,200 emergency vet visit for my beloved diabetic cat Bubbie, and a marital squabble over proper cat-medicating techniques, I'm sharing the rollercoaster of a birthday week with equal parts frustration and humor.
The chaotic week began immediately following the one-year anniversary of our horse's passing, discussed in a previous episode. Despite the universe seemingly throwing obstacle after obstacle my way, I still found moments of joy in unexpected places – feeding neighborhood wildlife before sunrise, celebrating the first sweet pea bloom in the garden, and enjoying the thrilling Grizzly Bear Rapids ride at Knott's Berry Farm with my husband and grieving brother-in-law.
Between bloody cat scratches and veterinary discharge instructions explaining concepts long mastered, I'm reflecting on one of life's most common annoyances: receiving advice for problems you've already tackled from every possible angle. Follow the Only Child Diaries podcast to join me each week as I navigate the complexities of adulthood with wisdom, vulnerability and a dose of laughter.For the Only Child Diaries:
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Grief finds its own way sometimes. As I find myself at the one year anniversary of losing my beloved horse Dallas, the day culminated with several other losses and calamities that left me feeling DONE for the day. This episode takes you through the reality of what happens when the universe decides to "pile it all on" during an already difficult day. I should have just stayed home!
What began as a simple commemoration quickly snowballed into a week of collective sadness—friends losing jobs, a brother-in-law putting his dog down on his birthday, and even a chance encounter with a grieving widow that left us both in tears. Sometimes the kindest gestures (like unexpected flowers from a new friend) can unleash the emotions we're trying so hard to contain.
When even my attempt at comfort-movie escapism was thwarted by a power outage, I found myself where I often do during life's hardest moments: in my garden. Despite the weeds thriving after recent rains, this "last bastion of hope" provided the healing space I needed. I share the small victory of finally adding a fountain to my backyard sanctuary—proof that even on our darkest days, we can create pockets of beauty and peace.
Perhaps the most important takeaway from this vulnerable episode is permission to honor your melancholy days. As I discover again and again, sometimes you need to respect your grief before you can move beyond it. While I promise to return with more uplifting content next week, I hope this raw conversation reminds you that it's perfectly okay not to be your "usual joyful self" when navigating life's difficult anniversaries and unexpected emotional storms.
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Grief has a way of marking our calendars doesn't it? What was once just March—my birthday month—has become a landscape of painful anniversaries that I'm still learning to navigate with grace.
This deeply personal episode explores the losses that have transformed my usually happy birthday month. From the sudden passing of my barn friend Manny in 2019, through the difficult COVID period that took both my mother and my boss Ruth within months of each other, to the devastating loss of my beloved horse Dallas last March after 23 years together. Each loss carries its own weight, its own lessons, and its own timeline for healing.
Some losses eventually transform into fond memories that bring smiles rather than tears, while others remain raw no matter how much time passes. As I approach the first anniversary of losing Dallas on March 17th, I share the reality of grief that comes in waves—how sometimes I've coped by not thinking about him at all, how his photo remains my phone's lock screen, and how a memorial wind chime occasionally offers moments of connection when the breeze catches it just right.
Through tears and vulnerable reflections, this episode speaks to anyone who has marked their calendar with both celebrations and sorrows. Though I make no promises about next week's topic being happier, I invite you to join me as we remember together that every day—whether joyful or painful—remains a gift worth unwrapping.For the Only Child Diaries:
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Unpredictable moments can redefine our outlook on life in profound ways. This episode of the Only Child Diaries features two riveting narratives, both laced with lessons on resilience and the importance of community. I reflect on a recent visit to a nursery devastated by fire, confronting the stark realities of loss and the slow journey toward recovery. You’ll hear how witnessing the aftermath in person created a wave of empathy within me.
Switching gears, I recount a chaotic memory from an Oscar night when the mundane duties of my retail job turned surreal as robbers attempted a daring heist in the jewelry department. The adrenaline, the sense of vulnerability, and the quick decisions we make in the face of fear compel the listener to consider their own experiences with chaos and courage. Life may not always go to plan, but resilience shines through unpredictability.
Join me for these enlightening stories that weave humor, introspection, and vital lessons on how we can better navigate life's ups and downs together. Let's share our stories of strength and support; come along for the ride, and don't forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with friends who need a reminder of community resilience!For the Only Child Diaries:
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Ever feel like you missed the how-to guide on adulting? Join me as I unravel the complexities and surprises that come with marriage, particularly from the perspective of an only child. This episode dives deep into my 17-year journey leading to my marriage with Bill, where we explored the meaning of commitment beyond traditional timelines. I'm also talking about the unexpected benefit of marriage, at least to me - emotional security - and how it transformed my relationship with Bill after finally tying the knot.
Throughout our journey, I highlight the lesser-discussed aspects of married life, including navigating challenges like health issues and household chores. I share humorous anecdotes that not only entertain but reflect the reality many couples face together. The peace and support we gain from each other through life's ups and downs speak volumes about what partnership truly means.
This conversation invites everyone—whether you're married, navigating singlehood, or contemplating commitment—to reflect on the nature of love and how timing influences relationships. My discussion emphasizes that each journey is unique, and understanding this can bring deeper insights into the dynamics of love and companionship. Join me, and let's explore these intricacies together! Don't forget to subscribe, share your thoughts, and consider leaving a review to help others find us.For the Only Child Diaries:
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While winter lingers, I'm on a mission to infuse a little spring cheer by revitalizing my garden's aging hedge with new plants. From my weekend adventures at the local nursery to the delightful (and sometimes prickly) surprises hidden within my hedge, this episode is packed with garden insights, and a bit of gardening tips – even if some YouTube advice doesn't quite fit our unique climate.
Tune in to hear tales of overcoming stubborn oak growth, the art of maneuvering a giant plant pot with a little help from kind strangers, and the unexpected challenges of navigating outdated hedge plants. Whether you're an only child or simply someone who appreciates life's quirky moments, this episode promises to brighten your day with relatable insights on adulting and a humorous take on life's little trials. So grab your gardening gloves and a cup of tea, and join me for a delightful romp through the trials and triumphs of garden life.For the Only Child Diaries:
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The Super Bowl is more than just a game, it's a cultural phenomenon that unites us all, right? So who cares if I actually watch the GAME? This week I'm exploring the allure of the Super Bowl, even for those of us who aren't die-hard football fans. Through the lens of my own experiences, particularly, I reflect on the ritual of gathering with friends and family, the excitement of the pre-kickoff show, and the shared moments that transcend the sport itself. From the dramatic tributes to the entertaining halftime show, this episode captures the spirit of what makes the Super Bowl a beloved event for so many. And hey, it's a great time to go shopping! LOL.
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Recently I questioned if my self-analysis was correct. Was my insight meter in good shape? I've always thought my instincts, my insights were good. But a recent experience made me question that, and if I did all I could. This week I'm discussing that very topic, and also not having regrets. No matter what you do, it's important to do what you need to do so that you don't have lingering regrets down the line.
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This episode reflects on the fragility of life in the face of unexpected disasters, specifically a recent house fire in the neighborhood, unveiling insights about community resilience and personal loss. How grateful are we all for first responders who risk their lives to protect others?
• Personal account of witnessing a fire truck response
• Discussion about the immediate community impact after a fire
• Encounter with a man who lost his home but maintained a positive outlook
• Reflections on climate change and fire risks in California
• Importance of recognizing the dangers of smoke
• Expression of gratitude towards first responders and their dedication
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This episode reflects on the legacy of Martin Luther King Jr. while addressing the personal and societal challenges of racism and environmental crises like wildfires. Through personal anecdotes and community reflections, it emphasizes the importance of ongoing conversations around equity and safety.
• Honoring Martin Luther King Day as a time for reflection
• Personal stories of growing up in a community with a racist history
• Understanding the impact of racial inequality and the need for education
• Concerns over the regression of DEI initiatives in society
• Navigating family dynamics in a politically divided environment
• Update on the wildfires in Los Angeles and their personal impact
• Managing poor air quality and environmental challenges
• Practical steps taken to improve home air quality
• The intersection of personal histories and broader societal issues
• Encouragement for community engagement and active discussions
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Ever found yourself trapped in an electric recliner during a power outage while your Christmas decorations take flight in a windstorm? This week I'm sharing tales about a week of unexpected chaos and resilience in Los Angeles, marked by the anniversary of my mother's passing. Reflecting on the unpredictable nature of life, I recount how a simple morning spiraled into an adventure involving a power outage, mischievous winds, and the Los Angeles fires escalating to a mandatory evacuation order. Amidst these unforeseen events, I find humor and strength, drawing on past experiences with fire threats and the challenges of living surrounded by canyons.
The community's response to recent emergencies has been nothing short of inspiring, despite the chaos spurred by mistaken evacuation orders and shortages of crucial supplies like flashlights and bottled water. This episode shines a light on how adversity has deepened my appreciation for home and reshaped my relationship with my late mother. Celebrating the indomitable spirit of Los Angeles, I highlight the tireless work of firefighters, volunteers, and the outpouring of support for local organizations such as the Pasadena Humane Society. Together, we explore how life's unpredictability can foster gratitude and a renewed sense of community amid the storm.
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Reflecting on the new year, this week I'm exploring the tensions between personal aspirations and familial responsibilities. The conversation delves into themes of identity, sacrifices, and strategies for prioritizing self-care while embracing the new year’s possibilities.
• Personal productivity during the holiday season
• Cultural expectations tied to the new year
• Insights from the film "Night Bitch" on women's sacrifices
• Evaluating life goals to avoid future regrets
• The struggle for health and fitness in a busy lifestyle
• Importance of balancing family needs with personal dreams
• A hopeful outlook for a fulfilling and healthy new year
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This episode is a heartfelt reflection on the transitions we face as the year turns, addressing themes of letting go, setting achievable goals, and embracing the new year with positivity. I try to focus on small wins and personal engagement while looking ahead to 2025.
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• Reflecting on the year past and setting intentions for the new year
• Insights from the podcast's analytics and listener engagement
• The joy of holiday decorations and community involvement
• The challenge of managing physical clutter and mail
• Strategies for setting realistic short-term goals
• Anticipation for local events and embracing new experiences
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Have you ever found yourself caught up in the whirlwind of holiday preparations, only to realize that spreading joy is the true gift? On this joyful episode of the Only Child Diaries podcast, I'm sharing my personal adventure of transforming my front yard into a festive wonderland, culminating in winning the "Best Theme" category in my city's holiday decorating contest. With an array of delightful animal-themed decorations—from reindeer to Snoopy—the journey, though quirky with its delays, is a heartwarming reminder of the power of creativity and community spirit during the festive season.
Amidst the twinkling lights and festive inflatables, discover how a simple act of decorating can create magical moments and foster community connections. the real victory was the smiles and joy my decorations sparked among neighbors and passersby. Whether it was a child’s wide-eyed wonder or a neighbor’s appreciative nod, these little moments of shared happiness are what truly make the holidays special. Join me as we unwrap the joy of holiday cheer and perhaps find inspiration to sprinkle a bit of magic in your own corner of the world.
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As this week's episode goes live, I'm still waiting to hear if our festive front yard Christmas decorations were judged a winner or not! Oh the waiting is the hardest part! Tom Petty was a genius! Here about the night the community judges visited and woke up my neighbors!
There's also a personal celebration on the horizon—our upcoming wedding anniversary. While we reflect on these joyous milestones, we explore the art of balancing life's unpredictable moments with humor and grace. Whether it's the anticipation of the judges' visit or the heartwarming community votes, this episode offers a cozy blend of festive fun and heartfelt reflection that's sure to sprinkle some holiday spirit into your day. So, grab your favorite warm beverage and join me for an episode brimming with laughter, love, and a touch of holiday magic.
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Yes! It's ANOTHER update on my root canal journey! I thought the follow-up visit was supposed to be easier? But no, I found myself enduring a string of Novocaine shots and shaky-handed procedures—and silly me, I thought I could get through without taking Xanax. If you've ever had your expectations challenged in the dentist's chair, this story might just resonate with you. But that's not all; my overachiever spirit shines through in my quest to win our city's holiday decoration contest. I love decorating, but gosh, it has been labor AND love! Sometimes I feel like more on the LABOR side!
And while the lights twinkle outside, the holidays bring a different kind of reflection within. Inspired by Anderson Cooper's poignant interviews, I explore the emotional labyrinth of grief during this festive time. From honoring my late father's December birthday to grappling with the loss of my cherished horse, Dallas, the season is a mix of celebration and remembrance. The new year is approaching and sometimes it's a struggle to embrace the holiday spirit. Tune in next week as we continue to uncover life's personal stories and reflections. And thanks for listening!
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Ever found yourself caught in the whirlwind of holiday expectations, only to realize you've done more napping than prepping? In this episode of the Only Child Diaries podcast, I'm laughing about holiday burnout and the pitfalls of overambitious holiday plans. Picture this: a Thanksgiving spent blissfully snoozing until noon, followed by the inevitable 3 a.m. insomnia. Despite the quiet celebration with just my husband, the pressure to be productive was alive and well, leading to a grand achievement of...cleaning a single hummingbird feeder! You'll relate to the humor and irony of planning big while winding up with small victories.
Let's not forget the festive flair of holiday decorating—a task that promises both joy and a few neighborly laughs. This year, our town's holiday decorating contest prompted me to add ten poinsettia plants to my outdoor display, earning me compliments from the neighbors. So, if you've ever felt the tug-of-war between grand holiday ambitions and the cozy pull of laziness, tune in for a lighthearted take on embracing creativity and chaos during the festive season.
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Thanksgiving with my family has always been a comedy of errors, with dry turkey and awkward conversations taking center stage. Remember those flavorless, obligatory meals at Grandma's? They're forever etched in my memory, alongside my mother's bizarre kitchen concoctions. This week I'm reminiscing about the tasteless chaos of past Thanksgivings and how I eventually discovered a savior in seasoning. It's a nostalgic journey filled with humor. You can live through anything if you can laugh about it, right?
As I finally braved my first Thanksgiving dinner in my own apartment, chaos greeted me like an old friend. Between an unexpected night at my boss's house thanks to a work emergency and the raw turkey battle in my new kitchen, holiday preparations were nothing short of a sitcom episode. Despite these challenges, I find moments of gratitude sprinkled throughout the madness, from my loving husband and furry companions to the freedom of pursuing my passions. Join me in reflecting on these blessings and the hilarity of holiday mishaps on this special episode of Only Child Diaries.
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Can physical fitness overcome the rigors of age? Can we back Father Time into a corner? What happens when a gentle soul like me stumbles into the raucous world of boxing? This week I'm sharing my unexpected fascination with the recent Mike Tyson-Jake Paul showdown and a night of electrifying matches streamed on Netflix. Despite never having been a boxing enthusiast, I found myself cheering for the seasoned Tyson.
With humor and curiosity, I recount the entire evening's experience, from the impressive shape of a 58-year-old Tyson to the streaming hiccups that came with 65 million eager viewers. It's not just about the punches thrown or the titles won; it's a story of promotion, excitement, and the unexpected allure of the boxing ring. Whether you're a seasoned fan or a curious newcomer like me, get ready for an engaging and lighthearted perspective on a night that had the world tuned in and talking.
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