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What are the questions about sex youâve always wanted to ask but felt too awkward to say out loud? In this open and insightful episode, we take on seven of the most commonâand most avoidedâsex questions, inspired by this Buzzfeed article featuring Dr. Sue herself. Using our signature mix of expertise, humor, and candor, we shed light on topics many are too shy to talk about.
The questions we talk about are:
âWhat comes out when I squirt? Is it just pee?â
âAm I masturbating too much?â
âWill my vibrator desensitize me?â
âDo my weird sexual fantasies mean thereâs something wrong with me?â
âIs there anything I shouldnât be putting in my butt?â
âIf I enjoy butt play, does that mean Iâm gay?â
âHow can I make my penis bigger?â
Through it all, we point out the importance of open communication, breaking down taboos, and embracing curiosity about your body and your pleasure.
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What is the âmating crisis,â and what does it really mean? In this episode, we unpack the complexities behind this increasingly popular term used to describe shifting dynamics in modern heterosexual relationships. We challenge its implications, questioning whether it reflects a genuine societal issue or simply perpetuates fear and blameâparticularly targeting women.
We delve into the evolving concept of male loneliness, especially among straight men, and how it has been reframed as a "mating crisis." Our conversation explores how societal changes, including womenâs growing autonomy and empowerment, have disrupted traditional relationship expectations. We also discuss the backlash women face, such as being labeled âchildless cat ladies,â and how these narratives pressure women into relationships while ignoring menâs responsibility to themselves to evolve and adapt.
Dr. Sue and Charlie highlight the importance of embracing paths that align with personal desires and values, free from societal pressure. With a focus on rethinking harmful language and fostering honest conversations, this episode invites listeners to challenge outdated norms, redefine relationships on their own terms, and celebrate the beauty of autonomy and self-discovery.
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In this episode, we get real about the frustration, determination, and unwavering commitment it takes to keep pushing forward in a world that often tries to silence necessary conversations. From the political attacks on marginalized communities to the spread of misinformation, we explore the challenges of staying informed, the power of community, and the importance of resisting fear. We discuss why self-care isnât just personal but political, how to support those most affected, and why we refuse to back down. Tune in for an unfiltered, passionate conversation about fighting for truth, justice, and the right to speak freely.
With the current political climate threatening access to accurate information and open discussions, we dive into how fear is used as a tool of controlâand why itâs crucial to push back. We also emphasize the need for collective resilience, allyship, and finding strength in numbers, even if itâs just one trusted person. This episode is a reminder that questioning sources, seeking diverse perspectives, and holding space for difficult conversations are acts of resistance.
This episode serves as a call to actionâbecause when we fight for truth, justice, and freedom of speech, we all rise together.
What you can do:
Share the podcast with others and on social media to help spread the word.
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Prioritize self-care while continuing activism, recognizing the balance is vital for long-term resilience.
Find your communityâwhether online or offlineâto provide support and solidarity during these trying times.
Use your power and privilege to support targeted communities through actions, not just words.
Be critical of information sources and make a conscious effort to seek out diverse, factual perspectives.
Diversify your social media feeds to include voices from communities outside your own.
Contact your elected representatives and speak up about the issues that matter.
Take the initiative to educate yourselves on how to best support marginalized communities.
Older listeners, keep engaging with activism and stay informed about current issues to continue being a force for change.
Send questions or topic suggestions to us to help shape future episodes and contribute to ongoing conversations.
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In this episode, we dive into the critical but often overlooked topic of sexual health in healthcare settings. Did you know that only 6% of healthcare providers start conversations about sexual health? We highlight why this needs to change and discuss ways the system can do betterâstarting with medical school and advocacy programs. We talk about the gaps in training for medical professionals, the discomfort many of us feel when raising concerns with our healthcare providers, and the challenges of dealing with gender and racial bias.
We also share insights on the importance of treating the whole person and fostering open communication. On the patient side, we talk about how to prepare for appointments, advocate for yourself, and push back when your concerns arenât being taken seriously.
This conversation is packed with practical advice, personal stories, and a call to action for providers to prioritize sexual health as a vital part of overall well-being. And we want to hear from you! Share your experiences and help us keep this conversation going.
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Statistics cited: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7177861/
National Coalition for Sexual Health https://www.nationalcoalitionforsexualhealth.org/
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In this episode of Unzipping Taboos, we dive into the often-asked question: What is the ânormalâ frequency for sex? *Spoiler Alert*âitâs different for everyone. We explore how individual preferences, partner compatibility, and life factors like stress, health, and age play a role in what feels ânormal.â
The conversation delves into the motivations behind questions about sexual desire and frequency, the importance of open communication in relationships, and how to address differing libido levels. We also chat about challenges like the impact of medications on sex drive and navigating conversations about sexual needs in a vulnerable, non-judgmental way.
Whether you're curious about your own experiences or wondering how to have better conversations about sex and intimacy, this episode is packed with insights to help you understand what your ânormalâ is and what it can be for your relationships.
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In this episode of Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie, we dive into the essentials of reproductive health, focusing on the teenage years and the transformative changes of puberty. We discuss why understanding the basicsâlike the reproductive system, the hormonal shifts of adolescence, and when someone can get pregnantâis crucial for everyone.
The conversation explores common misconceptions about reproductive health, emphasizing the importance of empowering people with accurate information, and highlights the role of empathy in bridging the knowledge gap. Whether youâre a parent, a teen, or just curious, this episode is packed with insights to help foster informed and respectful conversations.
Tune in to discover why education and understanding are the keys to fostering a healthier, more informed future for all.
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In this episode of Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie, we dive into the evolving landscape of relationship structures, focusing on consensual non-monogamy (CNM) like open relationships or polyamory, and the importance of clear communication and boundaries. We talk about how societal expectations around marriage and commitment are shifting, creating space for people to redefine what partnership means to them.
From defining terms like monogamy, polyamory, and monogamish to addressing the complexities of jealousy, family dynamics, and social stigma, our conversation emphasizes the value of honesty, self-awareness, and proactive communication. We also share how these relationship styles challenge societal norms while offering opportunities for personal growth and deeper connections.
Whether youâre curious about non-monogamy or exploring it yourself, this episode provides insights into what non-traditional relationships can mean, and offers tips for fostering healthy, communicative partnerships in todayâs evolving world.
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In this episode of Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie, Dr. Sue and Charlie explore the critical differences between sex and gender, shedding light on how these terms are often misunderstood and misused. They delve into the significance of respecting people's identities, using affirming language, and understanding the evolving nature of gender as a social construct.
The conversation explores the evolution of language surrounding gender, the importance of affirming people's chosen names and pronouns, and how respecting identities fosters safety, health, and happiness for those who donât fit traditional labels. This episode encourages listeners to embrace the power of understanding and respect to foster a safer and healthier world for everyone.
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In this episode of Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie, Dr. Sue and Charlie talk about how dating and relationships have evolved in the wake of COVID-19. They also explore the pandemicâs impact on emotional connections, communication gaps between men and women, and the rise of new dating standards shaped by shifting social norms.
Dr. Sue and Charlie talk about the prevalence of online dating apps and the challenges of transitioning from digital to in-person interactions, as well as the pressures of navigating a world where dating expectations have transformed. From ghosting to misrepresentation and the resurgence of in-person events, Dr. Sue and Charlie discuss the ups and downs of modern dating.
With a focus on empowerment, effective communication, and setting personal standards, this episode offers insights into the current dating landscape and encourages listeners to reflect on what works best for them in this ever-changing world.
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In this episode of Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie, Dr. Sue and Charlie dive into the complex and often misunderstood topic of abortion as healthcare. Tackling societal conditioning and pervasive myths, they shed light on the impact of restrictive reproductive laws, the importance of comprehensive sex education, and why access to contraception is crucial for real choice in reproductive health.
Dr. Sue and Charlie break down the misleading claims behind recent restrictive laws and policies, exposing how medical inaccuracies shape public perception and policy. They explore the stark realities of maternal mortality in the United States, and the profound effects of restrictive abortion laws on families and quality of life. Through a compassionate and clear discussion, they emphasize that reproductive choices are deeply personal and should not be politicized.
Dr. Sue and Charlie encourage listeners to protect their privacy by deleting period-tracking data (except for Euki), seek reliable health resources, and challenge misinformation. Wrapping up, they invite listeners to share the episode, join the conversation, and consider what it means to empower individuals to make informed choices about their bodies.
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we challenge the concept of virginity. Dr. Sue and Charlie explore the conceptâs social and cultural weight, diving into how gender roles and expectations shape our perceptions. They dissect the pressure and confusion that surrounds first-time sexual experiences and question why society is so fixated on âlosing your virginityâ as a milestone.
Our hosts also discuss the problematic nature of terms like âvirginâ and how religious and heteronormative influences complicate our understanding of abstinence and sexual identity. The episode touches on unique cultural pressures and examines how these expectations can lead to risky sexual behavior or feelings of shame.
With a mix of expert insight and empathetic conversation, Dr. Sue and Charlie stress the importance of communication and comfort during those pivotal first experiences. They address common concerns and emphasize that everyoneâs journey is valid and unique. Wrapping up with a look at the societal and historical influences that perpetuate virginity myths, this episode encourages listeners to rethink, communicate, and challenge these outdated constructs.
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we invite listeners to a candid, compassionate conversation about sex and aging - an essential discussion for everyone at every stage of life.
Together, they explore the changing perception of aging and how media shapes our views on what it means to grow older, especially when it comes to love and intimacy. Dr. Sue discusses how societal pressures around youthfulness affect both men and women as they age, and why diverse, authentic representation of aging in media can impact our sense of self. They also address the rising rates of STIs among older adults, unpacking the biases in healthcare that often leave this demographic without the education and support they need to maintain their sexual health.
Dr. Sue and Charlie touch on the role of adult children in supporting aging parents who are re-entering the dating scene. They discuss the importance of being open, supportive, and nonjudgmental, as well as how adult children can help their parents navigate new relationships and online dating safely.
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we talk about how pop culture influences our perceptions of sex and sexuality. Dr. Sue and Charlie explore the impact of movies, music, social media, and celebrity culture on the way we view sex, relationships, and body image. From unrealistic expectations to sensationalized narratives, they break down how media messages shape our beliefs and behaviorsâsometimes in ways we donât even realize.
Weâll discuss the power of representation, how pop culture can both challenge and reinforce the taboo, and why itâs crucial to approach these messages with a critical eye. Dr. Sue and Charlie provide insights on the importance of media literacy, and share examples that highlight how pop culture shapes everyday conversations about sex. Tune in as we unpack the influence of media and discover ways to engage with it thoughtfully, so you can take control of your own narrative.
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we tackle the topic of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) with a focus on support and open communication. Dr. Sue and Charlie discuss how STIs impact different age groups and the unique challenges each group faces, breaking down common fears and misconceptions. They emphasize that anyone can be affected and that no one should feel alone or without options.
We discuss the importance of open and honest conversations about STIs with partners, and removing the stigma that often surrounds these discussions. Dr. Sue talks about how common STIs are, and some of the reasons why people donât take steps to reduce their risk, while Charlie helps to highlight the importance of staying informed and connected. Charlie and Dr. Sue emphasize that you are not alone in your reaction to the amount of information to consider surrounding STIs and individual risk. Tune in for a supportive, judgment-free conversation that reminds you that youâre never alone in your journey toward sexual health.
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we tackle one of the most important topics that is often overlooked or under discussed - consent. Dr. Sue and Charlie talk about what consent really is, going beyond the simple âyesâ or ânoâ to explore how ongoing conversations around consent are essential for healthy and respectful relationships and sexual interactions.
We stumble through the complexities that often surround consent, and discuss the importance of clear communication, and why that can be difficult. Dr. Sue and Charlie offer advice on recognizing verbal and non-verbal cues, and talk about real world examples of how consent plays out. Tune in for a candid conversation about the importance of consent.
If this episode brought something up and you need to talk to someone or need help, contact RAINN Theyâre available by chat and phone 24/7.
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Thanks to Allie OâBrien for our incredible theme music!
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we dive into one of the key elements of healthy relationships: communication. Whether itâs discussing desires, setting boundaries, or tackling tough topics like consent and vulnerability, Dr. Sue and Charlie explore how open, honest communication can transform your sex life and relationships.
Weâll discuss why itâs so hard for many people to talk about sex, what to consider when you want to have those awkward conversations, and the tools you can use to communicate more effectively with your partner. From understanding the role of body language to the importance of timing, this episode is packed with practical advice for building deeper connections through honest communication.
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Thanks to Allie OâBrien for our theme music!
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we explore the Circles of Sexuality, a framework that helps break down the many layers of human sexuality. Dr. Sue and Charlie talk about each of the five circlesâsensuality, intimacy, sexual identity, sexual health and reproduction, and sexualizationâdiscussing how they intersect and influence our overall understanding of sex and relationships.
We dive into how these circles impact everything from body image and trust, to communication and pleasure, while also tackling some common misconceptions. Dr. Sue shares her insights, and Charlie offers relatable examples to make the concepts easier to understand and apply to everyday life. Join us for a deeper look at the complexity of sexuality and how understanding and embracing the circles can lead to a healthier, more informed relationship with yourself and others.
If you have a topic or question for us please submit your ideas here: Show suggestionsCurious about the Circles of Sexuality - check it out here: Circles of Sexuality
A huge thanks to Allie OâBrien for our theme music.
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we dive into the current state of sex education in the United States. From inconsistent policies to outdated curriculums, Dr. Sue and Charlie explore how sex education varies greatly across states and the impact this has on peopleâs understanding of their bodies, relationships, and sexual health.
We discuss gaps in the system, the influence of politics and cultural values, and why comprehensive, inclusive sex education remains elusive in many areas. Charlie guides the conversation as Dr. Sue shares insights from her experiences, highlighting how these inconsistencies affect people's everyday lives. Join us as we examine what needs to change and why better sex education is crucial for healthier, more informed communities.
Curious about where your state stands on sex education? Check out this link: SIECUS State Profiles
To learn about confidentiality for minors in healthcare settings: CDC Minor Consent Laws
And donât forget to reach out to your local school districts to learn about their sex education policies, and find out how to get involved.If you have a topic or question for us please submit your ideas here: Show suggestions
Thanks to Allie OâBrien for our music!
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we break down persistent myths about pregnancy, such as when a woman can and canât get pregnant, and discuss common misconceptions around things like condoms, anatomy, and virginity.
Dr. Sue and Charlie explore how pop culture and social norms keep these myths alive, often fueled by clickbait headlines and misinterpreted research. We also discuss why making sex education accessible to people of all ages is important for breaking down these myths.
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Thanks to Allie OâBrien for our incredible theme music!
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In this episode of "Unzipping Taboos: Candid Conversations about Sex with Dr. Sue & Charlie," we tackle the complex issue of sex and censorship. Dr. Sue and Charlie explore how censorship in media, education, and public discourse perpetuates the taboo surrounding sex. By limiting what we can see, say, and learn about sex, censorship reinforces shame, stigma, and misinformation.
We discuss the impact of censoring sexual content on people's understanding of their own bodies, relationships, and sexual health. Dr. Sue provides insights into how this censorship affects sex education and public awareness, while Charlie questions the societal motivations of keeping conversations about sex behind closed doors.
Join us as we uncover the ways censorship keeps the taboo alive and how breaking the silence can lead to healthier, more open conversations about sex.
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