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Welcome to episode 157 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Xanet Pailet to the podcast. In this episode Xanet speaks to me about she overcame a sexless marriage, looking at the barriers of sexual shame and taking the power back over arousal.
Xanet Pailet is the best-selling author of Living an Orgasmic Life. Xanet is a recovered NYC health care lawyer who lived in a sexless marriage for over two decades. After experiencing her own sexual healing and awakening in 2011, she transitioned her career into a full-time sex and intimacy educator and coach.
Xanet believes that pleasure is our birthright and she is passionate about helping women and men find their way back into their bodies, their desires, and their pleasure. Xanet works with couples who are in sexless marriages and women who have experienced abuse and trauma. She helps them heal their wounds, release their shame, and reconnect with their sexuality.
Xanet is a certified Somatica Sex and Intimacy Coach, Sexological Body Worker, Holistic Pelvic Care Practitioner, Tantra Educator and Somatic Experiencing Trauma practitioner. She is on the faculty of 1440 Multiversity, Ecstatic Living Institute and the Somatica Institute.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
How Xanet pursued overcame a sexless marriage The tremendous amount of shame that surrounds sex The way in which couples lose intimacy when they stop having sex How many people don’t see themselves as sexual beings The negative messages women receive throughout life about sex Overcoming the barriers of sexual shame How women are programmed to say no to sex Taking a look at the Madonna–whore dilemma How women get sexualised in a negative way Looking at the issue of verbal harassment Dealing with the issue of slut shaming Learning to take the power back over your own arousal25 Ways to Increase Desire
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Welcome to episode 154 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Amy C. Moors, Ph.D to the podcast. In this episode, Amy speaks with me about consensual non-monogamy, looking at the quality of attachment, and recommendations for how to deal with minority stress.
Amy C. Moors, Ph.D., is an Assistant Professor of Psychology at Chapman University and a Research Fellow at The Kinsey Institute, Indiana University. She also serves as the co-chair of the American Psychological Association’s Division 44 Consensual Non-Monogamy Task Force. Prior to joining Chapman, she was the Director of the Social Science Research and Evaluation Program in the College of Engineering at Purdue University. She is an interdisciplinary researcher with backgrounds in psychology and women’s studies (Ph.D., University of Michigan), higher education (postdoctoral fellow, National Center for Institutional Diversity) and social science evaluation (researcher, University of Michigan's ADVANCE Program).
Dr. Moors’s research interests lie at the intersection of gender, sexuality, interpersonal relationships, and inclusion. In one area of research she focuses on diverse expressions of sexuality, including same-sex/gender relationships and consensually non-monogamous relationships. In another line of research, she focuses on ways to promote inclusion in higher education. She has published more than 40 articles and has received several grants to fund her work. Recently, Dr. Moors was recognized as a “Rising Star” by the Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
How Dr. Amy became interested in this line of research What is consensual non-monogamy? What the research says about the benefits of consensual non-monogamy The pressures we face to be the best at everything in life from lover to parent Expanding your tribe whilst being more sexually fulfilled Looking at the quality of attachment How the going assumption has been that monogamy is superior Dealing with the stigma surrounding this issue Recommendations to deal with minority stress101 Ways To Keep Your Relationship Hot
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Welcome to episode 155 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Fiona O'Farrell to the podcast. In this episode Fiona speaks with me about paper dolls, how they can be used as a vehicle for self-pleasure and understanding you can still be sexual when not reproductive.
Fiona O'Farrell is a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Sex Educator and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist. In her practice, she works with clients on issues relating to sexual identity, dismantling sex negative messages, and enhancing pleasure and intimacy.
She is the coordinator of the Sexuality Therapy and Sex Education Certificate Programs at Antioch University in Seattle and teaches classes in human sexuality, sex therapy, and relationship therapy. Fiona is dedicated to expanding sex ed resources to be inclusive of body diversity and challenge binary thinking.
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How paper dolls allows for diversity Having many options available as an add-on Using paper dolls for sexual arousal Accessing good materials to process self-image Understanding you can still be sexual when not reproductive The reactions Fiona sees from participants? How you can use paper dolls as a vehicle for self-pleasure101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot
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Welcome to episode 156 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. JoAnna Nguyen to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Nguyen speaks to me about labia surgery, why people have the surgery, how common it is and looking at the process of the surgery.
Dr. JoAnna Nguyen is a board-certified plastic and reconstructive surgeon in Los Angeles, California, with expertise in all fields of plastic surgery, including aesthetic, reconstructive, pediatric, hand, and burn surgery. She has a particular interest in aesthetic surgery of the eyes and face, breast surgery and labiaplasty. Dr. Nguyen is also passionate about skincare and has extensive experience with non-surgical treatments such as lasers, peels, and topical treatments.
Dr. Nguyen was born and raised in beautiful Southern California. Spoiled by the perennial sunny weather in Huntington Beach, her curiosity for the seasons led her to the the East Coast, where she attended Boston University. There she graduated Summa Cum Laude with dual degrees in Psychology and Biology with a Specialization in Neuroscience. After volunteering with a non-profit organization that provides plastic surgery to children in need, Dr. Nguyen’s interest in plastic surgery was ignited.
Having experienced her fair share of Boston weather, Dr. Nguyen was drawn to the sunshine of Miami where she received her Doctorate in Medicine (M.D) from the Univeristy of Miami Miller School of Medicine. She returned home to Southern California to complete a one year clinical research fellowship in reconstructive plastic surgery at the University of Southern California. During that year, she was the driving force behind 23 research projects, presented at numerous national meetings, and published over 11 manuscripts.
She then went on to complete six years of formal plastic and reconstructive surgical training at the prestigious plastic and reconstructive surgery program at USC. During her training, Dr. Nguyen operated at premier hospitals on the west coast, including Cedars-Sinai Medical Center and USC Keck Medical Center. Dr. Nguyen lives with her husband and daughter in Los Angeles and in her free time, she enjoys exercising, cooking, listening to music, and traveling.
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Is there a medical guideline to how labia should look? How labia surgery is much more common now than in the past How can women realize the difference between a medical and aesthetic issue? Is this a common surgery in Los Angeles? Looking at the process of the surgery The risk involved with the surgery Looking at sexual health issues, are there side effects? The age range of people participating in this surgery Can you have this surgery after having a child?101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot
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Welcome to episode 159 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Barbara Carrellas to the podcast. In this episode Barbara speaks to me about Tantra, how you can enjoy it with a partner and we also take a look at Energygasms and Sex Magic.
Barbara is the founder of Urban Tantra®, a hot and healing approach to sexuality that adapts and blends a wide variety of sacred sexuality practices from Tantra to BDSM. She is the author of Urban Tantra: Sacred Sex for the Twenty-first Century—now in its second edition, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide to Sex, Relationships and Oh So Much More, and Luxurious Loving.
She was named Best Tantric Sex Seminar Leader in New York City by Time Out/NY Magazine for her Urban Tantra workshops, and received a Lifetime Achievement Award at the Sexual Freedom Awards in London. She is a proud graduate of the Coney Island Sideshow School with a double major in fire eating and snake handling.
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What is Tantra? Ways you can approach Tantra? How can one enjoy tantric sex with a partner? What are some of the rituals involved? Learning how to slow our minds and bodies down Looking at breathing exercises Are men able to maintain erections with Tantra? Why erections alone are not the focus point What is an Energygasm? How can one achieve it? The relationship between energy and thought What is sex magic and how can that be a form of relaxation?25 Ways to Increase Desire
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Welcome to episode 158 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special anniversary episode celebrating three years of Sexology Podcast. In this episode we hear from Dr. Cat Meyer, Tara Galeano, Jessica Graham, Dr. Ari Tuckman, Wendy Maltz LCSW, Rachel Grant and Jonathan Miller on their best sex tips.
Dr. Cat Meyer, PsyD, LMFT is a licensed couples therapist #88224, sex therapist, yoga instructor, published researcher, and reiki practitioner dedicated to evolving the relationship we have surrounding sexuality and our bodies. She hosts an online women's sexuality + embodiment program called LOVE.body
Tara Galeano helps women reimagine their bodies after cancer and rekindle their sexuality. She is a certified sex therapist and teaches the class, Rediscovering My Body after Cancer, to amazing, courageous women who have had cancer.
Jessica Graham is a meditation teacher, sex, relationship, and spiritual guide for couples and individuals, speaker, and author of Good Sex: Getting Off Without Checking Out.
Ari Tuckman, PsyD, CST has given more than 350 presentations across America and in nine countries. His fourth book, ADHD After Dark: Better Sex Life, Better Relationship, was just published and is the first to examine how ADHD impacts a couple’s sexual and relationship satisfaction and how to improve both.
Wendy Maltz LCSW, DST, is an internationally recognized sex therapist, author, and speaker, with more than thirty-five years of experience treating sex and intimacy concerns.
Rachel Grant is the owner and founder of Rachel Grant Coaching and is a Sexual Abuse Recovery Coach. She is also the author of Beyond Surviving: The Final Stage in Recovery from Sexual Abuse.
Jonathan Miller helps high-performing couples upgrade their communication skills to have fight-free relationships. As a speaker, coach and trainer, Jonathan is dedicated to empowering others to communicate mindfully.
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Learning about mirror work Embracing new things in your life Looking at self-love The importance getting more sleep can have on your sex life Understanding the need for more intimacy Looking at trust and surrendering Paying attention to external factors that can affect our sex life25 Ways to Increase Desire
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Welcome to episode 163 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Molly Winterrowd to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Winterrowd speaks with me about how attitudes and beliefs impact the quality of our sex lives, creating more space in your life for sex and how to know if we need a sexual attitude adjustment.
Dr. Molly Winterrowd is an advocate in providing affirmative care, is dedicated to creating a safe space where individuals and partners experiencing challenges with their sexuality or gender are able to explore these aspects openly and honestly with care and compassion. Dr. Winterrowd believes that individuals are courageously vulnerable in therapy, and it is a privilege to be trusted to explore others’ deepest needs. In our work together, she helps to navigate how to fulfill these needs most functionally within clients’ lives. Dr. Winterrowd strives to create a safe space where open communication and honesty are welcomed and embraces a holistic approach that combines various therapies to help individuals and couples achieve greater levels of satisfaction in their relationships as well as lives.
Currently, Dr. Winterrowd is a Postdoctoral Fellow in Human Sexuality at the Center for Sexual and Reproductive Health and is devoted to helping clients to overcome sexual and relationship challenges by improving the connection with partners, enhancing relational intimacy by focusing on desires, and identifying new ways in which to bond that fulfill each person’s needs. Dr. Winterrowd helps individuals navigate the physical and emotional process encountered by sexual pain challenges, erectile dysfunction, or struggling with out of control sexual behaviors that are causing emotional pain and difficulties in their relationships. Dr. Winterrowd received her Bachelors of Arts Degree in Psychology and Comparative Sociology from University of Puget Sound, her Master of Arts Degree in Clinical Psychology from George Fox University, and Doctoral Degree in Clinical Psychology from George Fox University.
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How does one’s attitudes and beliefs impact the quality of her/his sex life? What are some of the limiting beliefs that you have come across in your clients who are struggling with sexual dysfunction? How creating more space for sex can lead to better sexual experiences How does our language impact our sexual attitudes? The correlation between the way we consume food and sex How does one assess if her/his attitudes are getting in the way of a fulfilling sex life? Looking at the benefits of sexual examination and exploration How do we know if we need a sexual attitude adjustment?25 Ways to Increase Desire
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Welcome to episode 166 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Menije Boduryan-Turner to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Menije speaks with me about sexual orientation OCD, distinguishing between anxiety and sexual arousal and looking at what treatment entails.
Dr. Menije of Embracing You Therapy is a leading expert on OCD who is passionate about helping you be in charge of your life, not OCD. In therapy, her goal is to break the cycle and help her clients regain their power and strength. Dr. Menije works collaboratively with her clients to tolerate the comfort, the unknown, and the uncertainty. Dr. Menije knows that her clients are completely capable of busting out of their comfort zone, taking ownership of their dreams, and creating a new sense of self.
Dr. Menije is a licensed psychologist in private practice in Los Angeles, CA. She has been treating OCD and OCD Spectrum Disorders since 2012. She completed the Behavioral Training offered by the International OCD Foundation’s Training Institute. She utilizes Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), which are both evidence-based treatment for anxiety disorders.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
What is sexual orientation OCD? How many times this issue can go undiagnosed Why sexual arousal to the opposite of your orientation doesn’t automatically make you gay /straight /bi How does one distinguish between sexual orientation OCD versus being gay and in denial? Looking at the issue of denial How our sexualities are fluid and not set in stone How can one distinguish between anxiety and sexual arousal? What are some of the common misconceptions about sexual orientation OCD? The role anxiety plays around this issue What does the treatment entail? Making sure your therapist is a specialist in OCDResources:
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Welcome to episode 162 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Amir Mohebbi to the podcast. In this episode Amir speaks with me about Sexsomnia, the behavioral patterns around this issue and what treatment can look like.
Amir Mohebbi is a proud Iranian-American currently completing his psychiatry residency at St. Louis University. He trained under mentorship from world-renowned forensic psychiatrists, Drs. William J. Newman and Brian J. Holoyda, whom co=authored a review related to his interests in sleep medicine and forensics entitled “Sexsomnia as a Defense in Repeated Sex Crimes”.
Amir presented his work alongside an expert panel consisting of forensic psychiatrists at the American Psychiatric Association 175th Annual Meeting in San Francisco, CA. In 2020, he will join a panel consisting of sleep medicine experts at the SLEEP 2020 conference hosted by the American Academy of Sleep Medicine and the Sleep Research Society in Philadelphia, PA. He earned his medical degree from St. Louis University and holds a Bachelor of Science degree in Biology from the University of California, Irvine.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
What is Sexsomnia? Looking at the behaviors people are showing and engaging in Sexual acts people can perform in their sleep Looking at this through a psychiatric lens What treatment for Sexsomnia looks like The relationship between this condition and criminal law How this issue stretches back hundreds of years Why lawyers are very skeptical of Sexsomnia Evaluations that can be made around Sexsomnia Taking a look at ictal orgasms25 Ways to Increase Desire
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Welcome to episode 165 of the Sexology Podcast! Today we have a solo episode where we hear from listeners about their experiences of sexual fantasies, erectile dysfunction and coming out later in life.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
Learning to not add unnecessary pressure to yourself Looking at achievements we to aim for in relationships Understanding and talking about the monogamous agreement Making long distance relationships successful Understanding your sexual fantasies Ways you can play out your fantasies Approaching your partner with your fantasies Looking at erectile dysfunction and what can be done The importance of seeing a sex therapist to overcome sexual issues Exploring mutual masturbation Looking at premature ejaculation and it’s causes How you can improve upon premature ejaculation How longer intercourse doesn’t always mean better sex Coming out later in life Recognizing signs that you might be gay and how you can come out earlier in life ReferencesSexology Podcast EP133: Penile Implant Surgery with Dr. Jeffrey Loh-Doyle
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Welcome to episode 231 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m delighted to welcome Dr. Megan Stubbs to the podcast. In this episode, Megan talks to me about sex toys, the evolution of them over the years, how they can improve your sex life, and recommendations for the best ones to check out.
Holding degrees in Human Sexuality and Biology, Dr. Megan Stubbs is an energetic multi-media savvy Sexologist. She has been building a brand that has sexual wellness, education, and pleasure at the forefront. With her respective degrees, she is able to combine two of her favorite things, science and sex, into a cohesive platform to impact her audience. She offers presentations on a wide variety of topics ranging from positive body image to sexual assault prevention. She is mindful of inclusion and brings a sensitivity to ethnic diversity rooted in her own complex heritage.
Her programming is designed to entertain and educate with actionable steps and information the participants can use as soon as they leave. Her advice is frequently quoted in national media outlets, she writes for many online and print publications, appears on television, speaks on radio, and presents at public and private events. Her new book, Playing Without a Partner: A Singles' Guide to Sex, Dating, and Happiness, is available now.
In this episode, you will hear:
Looking at the history of sex toys The evolution and changes to sex toys over the years How sex was unknowingly used as treatment for women hundreds of years ago The ways in which sex toys can improve your sex life How sex toys can be an addition to your existing sex life The ways in which sex toys can break sexual boredom How couples can use sex toys together Can sex toys become addictive? Looking at health considerations when using sex toys Using lubricant alongside sex toys Good practices for using, cleaning and maintaining your sex toys Looking at the rising popularity of CBD oils Recommendations for good vibrators to check outFind Dr. Megan Stubbs online
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Note: This episode was pre-recorded two months ago. Like the rest of the world, we are experiencing the reality and stress of the current COVID-19 situation. Our hearts go out to those who have been directly affected by this pandemic, and we are deeply saddened by its impact on our community. We will be releasing an episode soon addressing COVID-19 and sex. We hope all of you are taking the necessary precautions to keep you and your loved ones safe.
Welcome to episode 168 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Andrea Barrica to the podcast. In this episode Andrea speaks to me about the sex tech revolution, overcoming negative stigma around sexual wellness and why we need more advocacy in this area.
Andrea Barrica is CEO and Founder of O.school, a judgment-free media platform to learn about sexuality and pleasure. As a queer woman of color, she’s been fighting to bring more humanity to the tech industry, and her mission is to create the world’s most trusted sexual wellness brand to help people increase their sexual health, power, and confidence. Previously, Andrea co-founded the leading financial solution for growing startups, inDinero.com, which now employs 150+ employees globally. She also served as a venture partner at 500 Startups, a global venture capital fund, where she worked with hundreds of startup companies.
Andrea was raised in a religious, conservative Filipino family that only taught abstinence and she only had fear-based sex education in public schools. Seeking support and information, Barrica could not find reliable resources and experienced harassment online. Determined that no one else should have to struggle like she did, Barrica launched O.school in 2017 to change the way people learn about sexuality.
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How can sex tech improve women’s sex lives? Overcoming negative stigma around investing in your sexual health How did Andrea get involved in this field? The first things Andrea explored when examining sexual wellness products How did Andrea raise the money needed? Why we are behind in innovation and solutions when it comes to sexual wellness Why it’s difficult to teach people about sexual wellness What does Andrea see in the future of sexual wellness The need for more advocacy in this area Why Andrea started the O SchoolFind Andrea Barrica here:
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Welcome to episode 171 of the Sexology Podcast! Today it’s my pleasure to welcome Dr. Jess O’ Reilly to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Jess speaks with me about seductive communication, keeping things sexy while separated and cultivating your core erotic feelings.
Dr. Jess O’Reilly began working as a sexuality counselor in 2001 and she has never looked back! Her PhD studies involved the development of training programs in sex education for teachers and her education and undergraduate degrees focused on equity and sexual diversity.
Her training includes courses in counselling skills, healthy relationships, resolving sexual concerns, sex education, clinical sexology, sexual development, sex and disability, group therapy and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy.
Alongside her academic and television credits, Dr. Jess is also an accomplished author with three best-selling titles. Her latest, The New Sex Bible, has received rave reviews from professionals and clients alike and her first book Hot Sex Tips,Tricks and Licks is in its fourth print! Look for her monthly column in Post City or catch her on Tuesday mornings on Global TV’s The Morning Show, Wednesdays on 102.1 The Edge and Saturdays on PlayboyTV.
Dr. Jess’ work experience includes contracts with school boards, social services agencies, community health organizations and private corporations. A sought-after speaker, her sessions always attract a full-house at conferences and entertainment events alike.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
Taking a look at seductive communication Assessing our own strengths and weaknesses around seduction Exploring sexting and teledildonecs Looking at and understanding the best platform for you to use Keeping things sexy whilst separated Making the most of sex toys Understanding what your partner is most receptive to Cultivating your core erotic feelings The need to change our lifestyles to have better sex Making scheduled sex work Tips for busy couples who want to re-kindle their sex livesFind Dr. Jess here:
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Welcome to episode 174 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I delve into the subject of experiencing orgasms, overcoming performance anxiety, the importance of communication and steps you can take to improve your orgasms.
In This Episode You Will Hear:
How anyone can achieve having great orgasms Cultural factors that play into this issue Steps you can take to improve orgasms Analyzing how long this has been a problem How a lack of sex education can lead to issues with orgasms Are you getting aroused during sex? Looking at the quality of your relationship with your partner Can medication affect sexual performance? How ageing affects our sex drive The ways in which mental health can affect orgasms The importance of giving good sexual feedback Wanting to explore sexual areas your partner doesn’t Learning to properly understand your body Overcoming performance anxiety Improving your communication skillsResources:
Sex & Recreational Drug Use
Becoming Cliterate
Come As You Are
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Welcome to episode 181 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Tristan Taormino to the podcast. In this episode Tristan speaks with me about anal pleasure, how we can start our journeys into the world of anal play, recommendations on sex toys and understanding to not put pressure on yourself as you start this journey.
Tristan Taormino is a sex educator, media maker, and speaker. She is the author of eight books and editor of 25 anthologies including the award-winning The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women and The Ultimate Guide to Kink. She keynotes, lectures, and teaches workshops around the world on sexual pleasure and health, relationships, and social justice. She is the host of the long-running podcast Sex Out Loud. She is the creator of Sex Educator Boot Camp, a professional training program, and she runs a coaching and consulting business for sexuality professionals.
In this episode, you will hear:
How can you introduce anal pleasure into your sexual life? Exploring anal sex as a couple The myths and misconceptions around anal sex How anal sex can be more intense than vaginal sex What does anal play involve? Recommendations for the best anal sex toys to use How to make anal sex non-painful Understanding to not compare yourself to porn stars Learning the best practices for anal How to start your journey into the world of anal The best ways to communicate you’re interested in anal sex to your partner The importance to take your time and not put pressure on yourselfFind Tristan online
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Welcome to episode 183 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Miss Couple to the podcast. In this episode Miss Couple speaks to me about wax play, incorporating wax play into your sexual make-up and maintaining your connectivity to sexuality.
Described by Playboy as “equal parts Betty Grable and ‘90s Ani DiFranco,” Miss Couple is a Sexual Empowerment Coach known for class, professionalism, and a forward-thinking mindset.
Miss Couple has been interviewed as an authority in the field by Cosmopolitan, VICE, People Magazine, The Daily Beast, Huffington Post, and numerous other media outlets.
She is best known for her psychological perspective on intimacy and her ability to make others feel comfortable discussing difficult topics. Miss Couple comes to the field of coaching with a diverse background and draws from the skill-sets that she has accumulated through her education in psychology, time as an award-winning ballroom dancing instructor, and experience as a world-renowned BDSM expert, to provide a well-rounded perspective.
Miss Couple is devoted to normalizing modalities of connection that have been obscured, ridiculed, or simply misunderstood. She caters to a variety of clients, from individuals looking to explore their sexuality or relationship with power, newlyweds looking to build a strong foundation, empty nesters looking to spice things up, couples who are navigating non-monogamy, and more. Through virtual coaching, she provides space to build trust so that clients feel comfortable sharing and receiving feedback. Her biggest goal is to help empower people to create relationships, and ultimately lives, they crave.
In this episode, you will hear:
How can people build confidence to have conversations around kink? Understanding that whilst stimulating, porn is a production and not a reflection of reality What is wax play? Incorporating wax play into your sexual make-up Learning how to do wax play safely Exploring the power play dynamics around wax play Using wax play for a greater sense of pleasure in a relationship Maintaining your connectivity to sexuality Ways you can prepare as a couple for successful wax play and other sexual experiences101 Ways to Keep Your Relationship Hot:
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Welcome to episode 186 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Lyndsey Harper to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Harper talks to me about how to increase your sexual desire at any stage in life, evidence-based ways to increase your libido and we take a look at her wonderful app – Rosy.
Lyndsey Harper, MD is the Founder and CEO of Rosy, an app for women with decreased sexual desire. Dr. Harper created Rosy out of frustration when she couldn’t find a modern and accessible resource to help her many patients with this problem. Rosy is a resource to connect the 25 million women in the US with decreased sexual desire with hope, community, and research-backed solutions to improve their lives.
Dr. Harper completed Ob/Gyn residency in 2011 at Baylor Scott & White Health in Dallas, Texas, and Dr. Harper saw patients in private practice for seven years and now is a hospitalist. Dr. Harper is Associate Professor of Ob/Gyn for Texas A&M College of Medicine, a Fellow of The American Congress of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, and a Fellow of the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health.
In this episode, you will hear:
Does menopause effect your sex life? Looking at the feeling of having your desire stolen from you Are hormonal treatments effective? How sex can be become a physically painful experience They key ingredients for people having a fulfilled sexual life The importance of communication How you can advocate for yourself Learning to be brief and direct Evidence based ways to increase your libido Looking at Dr. Harper’s fantastic app – RosyBetter Help
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Welcome to episode 187 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I’m excited to welcome Dr. Stephen Snyder to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Snyder talks to me about having better sex in long term monogamous relationships, creating better psychological arousal and recommendations to improve your sex life.
Stephen Snyder MD — sex therapist, relationship therapist, and sexual medicine specialist — has dedicated his entire career to helping individuals and couples with sex and relationship concerns. Over 30+ years, he’s helped over 1,500 individuals and couples regain closeness and satisfaction in their relationships.
Dr. Snyder is Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mount Sinai in New York City and the author of one of the most acclaimed sex and relationship books of our time, LOVE WORTH MAKING: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship (St Martin’s Press, 2018).
As an MD sex therapist, Dr. Snyder has a unique combination of skills that enables him to handle the most complex, difficult situations. He received his medical degree from the University of California, San Francisco (M.D. 1983), trained in internal medicine at Mt Zion Medical Center in San Francisco (1983-84), then in psychiatry at the Payne Whitney Clinic, New York Hospital / Cornell University Medical Center (1984-87) and as a Fellow in Behavioral Medicine at Mount Sinai School of Medicine in NYC (1987-89).
Dr. Snyder was Director of the Psychiatric Consultation Service at Mount Sinai Medical Center from 1990-2000. Since 2000, he has been in full-time private practice in Manhattan, specializing in sex and relationship concerns.
Dr. Snyder is an active member of the Society for Sex Therapy and Research (SSTAR); has been a presenter, workshop leader, and discussant at the Society’s national meetings; and has served on its Professional Book Award Committee and as Chairman of its Consumer Book Award committee.
In this episode, you will hear:
What are the barriers experience people in monogamous relationships face? How do you define good sex? Looking at psychological arousal How passion is erotic selfishness Creating psychological space for arousal The role that fantasy plays in this issue Why women lose interest in sex in long term relationships Recommendations to improve your sex life in a long-term relationship The fear men hold about disappointing their partners Looking at the issue of erectile dysfunctionBetter Help
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Welcome to episode 194 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where I answer your questions about ways in which you can improve your sex life. We’ll look at issues such as sexual trauma re-enactment, improving your sex life after the honeymoon period and the importance of intimacy after sex.
In this episode, you will hear:
Why we engage in trauma re-enactment and ways to overcome those behaviors Learning to confront what happened in the past The importance of body work that can be healing How power play and BDSM can help overcome trauma Looking at the dynamics of bisexuality Understanding when the right time is to start taking medication Improving your sex life after the “Honeymoon Period” The importance of communicating effectively and directly with your partner about what you want sexually How masturbation can affect our sleep cycles Using masturbation as a crutch to get better sleep The importance of intimacy after sex Looking at cultural differences in sexHead to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday in September for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido!
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Welcome to episode 197 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I'm delighted to welcome Dr. Stephen Diamond to the podcast. In this episode Dr. Diamond talks to me about how we can best use the daimonic in our lives, analyzing the underlying reasons for our sexual fantasies and different ways we can engage with our fantasies.
Dr. Stephen Diamond is a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist practicing in Los Angeles, CA. A former pupil and protégé of existential psychoanalyst Rollo May, he is the author of Anger, Madness, and the Daimonic: The Psychological Genesis of Violence, Evil, and Creativity (State University of New York Press, 1996). Dr. Diamond has contributed chapters to the bestselling anthology Meeting the Shadow: The Hidden Power of the Dark Side of Human Nature (1990), Spirituality and Psychological Health (2005), the Encyclopedia of Psychology and Religion (2009), Writing Music (2018), a chapter titled "Existential Therapy: Confronting Life's Ultimate Concerns" to the textbook Contemporary Theory and Practice in Counseling and Psychotherapy (SAGE, 2015), and, most recently, a chapter titled “Existential Explorations of Psychopathy” for a forthcoming forensic psychology text.
His writing has also appeared in various professional journals such as the San Francisco Jung Institute Library Journal, Psychological Perspectives, the Journal of Applied Psychoanalytic Studies, PsycCRITIQUES, Existential Analysis, and Dasein, and he has lectured and taught at diverse institutions including Pacific Graduate School of Psychology (Palo Alto University), J.F.K. University, Argosy University, the C.G. Jung Institute-Zurich, Ryokan College, Loyola Marymount University, and the Existential Academy in London.
Dr. Diamond appears frequently as a guest expert in made-for-television documentaries about high-profile criminal cases. Presently, he authors a long-running blog titled “Evil Deeds” for Psychology Today, serves on the editorial board of JHP, and maintains a private psychotherapy practice. He is a contracted provider of psychotherapy for Kaiser Permanente Medical Group, and is also currently employed as a Consulting Psychologist for a private subacute psychiatric hospital in Sylmar, CA.
In this episode, you will hear:
Taking a look at the daimonic quality of sex How aspects of the daimonic can take over or possess us How can we channel the daimonic for our creativity? Understanding what our sexual fantasies and desires might mean Learning to embrace and not shut out your fantasies Connecting with your erotic self The difference between thinking about a fantasy and acting one out Different ways we can engage with our fantasies Analyzing the underlying reasons for our sexual fantasies How using the daimonic can be a source of energyHead to Nazanin’s Instagram each Friday for a new cooking challenge she is doing, focusing on enhancing your sensuality and libido!
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