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Welcome to episode 271 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Erik Everhard to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the common mistakes people make when trying to last longer, analyzing the importance of conscious choice and what men can do to delay ejaculation.
Erik Everhard is one of the top paid and most recognized performers in adult films of the last two decades. He has won numerous Male performer awards and been enshrined in the hall of fame of the AVN and XRCO organizations.
In 2010 he embarked on a transformational journey studying NLP at one of the top institutions in America. Since then he has dedicated his time and effort to helping high achievers by teaching them elite level sexual skills in order to master the bedroom like they dominate the boardroom.In this episode, you will hear:
The common mistakes people make when trying to last longer How you need to train your body to be ready for great sex Looking at the arousal gap between women and men Ways you can overcome being nervous in the bedroom Analyzing the importance of conscious choice Understanding even top-level athletes struggle with performance anxiety How you can successfully navigate foreplay The importance of creating the right mental state for great sex How you can turn ‘I hope to have great sex’ into ‘I know I can have great sex’ What can men do to delay ejaculation? Ways we can manage and overcome any pain in the bedroom Why having lots of bad sex is worse than having no sexThank You to Our Sponsor, Promescent!
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Welcome to episode 272 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome La' Shae Alexander to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how exploring different positions can improve your sex life, why missionary is an underrated position and incorporating power play into certain positions.
California Native, Renaissance Woman, Momepenuer, Writer, Real Estate Associate and Philanthropist. Shae wears many hats, all of which she like to wear in a nice dress and open toe heels. She is a blend of beauty, brains, and wit.
Her fresh perspectives on life, women and empowerment gives new meaning to what it means to have beauty, class, sensuality and soul. Modern day renaissance woman, Shae is on a journey like no other. Enjoy her raw and authentic take on life and share with her endless soul filling conversations.In this episode, you will hear:
Why exploring different positions can improve your sex life How you may prefer different positions as you get older Looking at good instructions for your partner on the best positions Why missionary is an underrated position Looking at the best positions for clitoral stimulation How you can use good positioning to build tension and excitement Which positions are best for connecting with the G Spot How deep breathing can further help your positions Incorporating power play into certain positionsThank You to Our Sponsor Promescent!
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Welcome to episode 273 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Evan Goldstein to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the best ways to explore anal sex, looking at the common mistakes people make when starting out and understanding it takes time to train your anus to make it ready for sex.
Dr. Evan Goldstein is the Founder & CEO of Bespoke Surgical and the Co-Founder of Future Method. As the preeminent expert and thought leader in the field, Dr. Goldstein is com- mitted to education and awareness—not only bringing the important issues sur- rounding gay sexual health to the forefront, but also eliminating the stigmas at- tached to it.
Relating to a wider audience, Dr. Goldstein leaves the medical jargon behind and communicates in a straight-forward, direct manner, breaking down taboos and allowing for more conversational and open discussions with the aim to educate. Dr. Goldstein has extensive experience educating and shedding light on health care issues relating to the gay community, and has been published in several na- tional media outlets including NBC.com, HuffPost, GQ, Men’s Health, The Advo- cate, well+good, Shape, and more.
Supporting many LGBTQ-focused non-profits, Dr. Goldstein is dedicated to rais- ing awareness and is involved with GLSEN, ACRIA, HRC, and is a member of Callen- Lorde’s exclusive Howard J. Brown Society. Dr. Goldstein is also the founder of the Bespoke Surgical college scholarship grant for LGBTQ students, which launched in December 2017.
Dr. Goldstein received his osteopathic doctorate from the University of Medicine and Dentistry School in 2002. Receiving the highest osteopathic education was pivotal in shaping his integrated whole-life approach towards his practice of pri- vate surgical care. Dr. Goldstein completed his residency in General Surgery at Maimonides Medical Center, exposing him to a high level of surgical acuity and a vast array of pathology.
Dr. Goldstein and his partner Andrew Yu reside on the Upper West Side of Man- hattan with their eight-year-old twin boys, Phoenix and Sebastian. Dr. Goldstein is an avid tennis player and skier, and enjoys attending concerts, collecting art and classic cars, and spending time with his family.
In this episode, you will hear:
How Dr. Goldstein became interested in this line of work The importance of knowing your entitlement to pleasure Ways in which Dr. Goldstein works with the entire anal community Why many people get anal sex wrong a lot Looking at the common mistakes people make when exploring anal sex Understanding it takes time to train your anus to make it ready for sex Why starting out with toys is essential for anal sex The pros and cons of using toys over your fingers Looking at douching and recommendations for best practices Knowing the best practices to reduce chances of catching STI’s via anal sex Is it common to bleed after anal sex? Should you use numbing creams for anal sex? Looking at medical interventions that can help with better anal sexThank You To Our Sponsor Promescent!
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Welcome to episode 275 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jeff Abraham back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can improve your sex life with your partner, the importance of open and honest communication and how you can overcome a lack of creativity in the bedroom.
Jeff Abraham is the CEO of Absorption Pharmaceuticals, whose lead product, Promescent, is addressing a global need for men suffering from Premature Ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction. He and his team are dedicated to bringing innovative products to market that solve sexual performance issues for both men and women.
With over 10-years' experience in the field of sexual wellness, Jeff has seen and heard from thousands of couples and is a great thought leader in the space.In this episode, you will hear:
The importance of open and honest communication with your partner Understanding that we can’t be mind readers and anticipate all of our partners needs How you can overcome a lack of creativity in the bedroom Analyzing the dynamic between male and female characteristics Why models on TV, social media etc are not a real representation of the human body Ways in which you can reassure your partner when exploring new sexual areas How you can use lube to greatly increase your sex life Understanding that masturbation is healthy and can be a part of your sexual paletteFind Promescent Online
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Welcome to episode 278 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Alicia Davon back to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss extended massive orgasms, how you can achieve them, tips for the giver and how you can work through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm.
Alicia Davon holds a Master’s degree in Integral Psychology with a focus on women’s romantic and sensual expression. She trained as a therapist before meeting Erwan and led numerous women’s groups devoted to female pleasure and life fulfilment from career to relationship. She met Erwan 15 years ago and started teaching with him soon after.
Together with her partner Erwan, Alicia developed The Pleasure Course, which has helped thousands achieve their ideal love lives. They provide a safe place to explore psychological inquiry, pleasure, and sexuality.
In this episode, you will hear:
Working through anxiety to have an extended massive orgasm Looking at the first time Alicia achieved an extended orgasm Understanding your body to allow involuntary genital contractions Incorporating your fantasies for extended orgasms Tips for the giver to help achieve extended orgasms Practical tips for best movements and touch around the genitals Knowing when it’s best to incorporate lube Communicating effectively with your partner about what’s working and what’s not Understanding the signs of when your close to an extended orgasmFind Alicia Davon Online
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Welcome to episode 280 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a solo episode where we discuss the best ways to initiate sex.
In this episode, you will hear:
How couples in long term relationships can learn new ways to initiate sex Ways you can add novelty into your relationship The importance of reciprocation for a healthy sexual relationship Understanding the arousal gap between men and women Analyzing the responsive model of desire How partners can become resentful of things that happen in a relationship Using communication to improve your sex life with your partner How a good sexual plan can be a game changer Learning to take things slow so you can last longer Overcoming issues of partners liking other people’s Instagram photos, leading to issues of anxiety and insecurity The importance of having a relationship agreement Setting realistic goals and expectations that you can both achieveFind Dr. Nazanin Moali Online
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Welcome to episode 282 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr Jennifer Lincoln to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss having sex on your period, how you can pay attention to your desire cycle, and how it’s normal for many women to feel more turned on during their period.
Jennifer Lincoln, MD, IBCLC, is a board-certified generalist obstetrician/gynecologist and attending physician in Portland, Oregon. She primarily works on labor and delivery as an OB hospitalist and loves the excitement and pace this work brings. Jennifer is also an International Board-Certified Lactation Consultant.
Jennifer received her undergraduate degree from Washington College in Chestertown, Maryland, where she graduated Summa Cum Laude. She received her medical degree from Tulane University in New Orleans, Louisiana, where she was a member of Alpha Omega Alpha, the nation’s honor medical society. She completed her residency at Oregon Health and Science University in Portland, Oregon.
Jennifer enjoys educating women about their bodies and their pregnancies. She has particular interests in adolescent medicine, breastfeeding advocacy, and supporting women in labor in an informed, relaxed manner. She currently serves on the Board of Directors for the Northwest Mothers Milk Bank as well as for the Society of OB/GYN Hospitalists.
She is happily married to a pediatrician and has two sons, one in elementary school and the other a preschooler, who teach her more everyday than any textbook could.
In this episode, you will hear:
Can we have sex during our period? What are the benefits of having sex on your period? How having sex on your period can act as a natural lubricant Can you get pregnant while having sex on your period? How it’s normal for many women to feel more turned on during their period Exploring oral sex while on your period Looking at “Menstrual Masking” Can you reduce your period flow? How having sex on your period can be great in the shower Ways you can increase novelty into the relationship through period sex Learning to pay attention to your desire cycleFind Dr Jennifer Lincoln Online
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Welcome to episode 283 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Kenneth Play to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Kenneth became a Sex Hacker, ways you can achieve multiple orgasms and cultivating energy for amazing foreplay.
Kenneth Play is an international sex expert and sex educator. Named the world’s greatest sex hacker by GQ, he has been featured by more than one hundred media outlets, including The New York Times, Men’s Health, Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and Nightline.
Kenneth has been a guest lecturer on female sexual pleasure at New York University and San Jose State University. His work has helped millions of men gain lasting confidence and competence. AskMen described Kenneth’s most recent course as having "at least one nugget of sexual learning you’ve almost certainly never encountered before, if not several."
In this episode, you will hear:
How Kenneth became a Sex Hacker Can anyone have multiple orgasms? Looking at the different types of orgasms How women can continue having an orgasm when the clit is very sensitive Ways you can best equip yourself with the tools needed for great orgasms The importance of foreplay for achieving multiple orgasms Cultivating energy for amazing foreplay Understanding a Lady Boner is The importance of learning skills so you’re not shooting in the darkFind Kenneth Play Online
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Welcome to episode 288 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Greg Matos to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss erotic love maps, how challenges outside the bedroom can affect your sex life and how you can re-connect with your partner if there’s a disconnect.
Dr. Greg Matos is a board-certified Couple and Family Psychologist who served over a decade in the U.S. Marine Corps and Navy, becoming a Lieutenant Commander. Greg was awarded the Bronze Star with Combat Valor and the Department of State’s Award for Heroism. He’s the author of Shattered Glass: The Story of a Marine Embassy Guard.
After the military, Dr. Greg began specializing in systems work and Gottman-Method Couples Therapy. He founded a charity on TikTok @abetterloveproject to share science-based advice on love and life with his 40,000 audience members. You can join him for a casual chat and mindful breathing every day on TikTok.
In this episode, you will hear:
How Dr Greg became interested in this line of work The ways in which trauma affects relationships Why it’s so important to be able to connect emotionally Looking at erotic love maps and how they work How you can keep improving communication with your partner Analyzing the success of great sex in long term relationships How challenges outside the bedroom can affect your sex life Ways in which you can devise rituals for initiating sex The importance of sexual attunement How you can re-connect with your partner if there’s a disconnect The importance of curiosity and staying open to new experiencesThank you to our Sponsor: Cozy Earth! Use code ‘Sexology’ for 40% off.
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Welcome to episode 289 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Melissa Dumaz to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the common issues for parents and intimacy, being creative with your ideas for having sex and how you can adapt your sex life around your kids.
Melissa Dumaz is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, best selling author, and podcaster. She specializes in guiding clients through the complexities of overcoming trauma, grief & loss, improve their relationship satisfaction, and supportive therapy for moms in all stages of motherhood.
Melissa passionately supports high-achievers that hide their pain and neglect themselves with the everyday stressors of their personal and/or professional lives. As a big advocate for self-care she weaves that component into her work with all of her clients. Melissa sees clients through her Practice, U Help You, where she offers EMDR therapy; and believes that a healthy you starts with you making new (healthier) choices to live your best life!
In this episode, you will hear:
What are the common issues for parents and intimacy? How parents may unconsciously weaponize sex Why communication is so important to keep your sex life healthy Ways parents can find time for sex Being creative with your ideas for having sex Understanding that successful sex doesn’t always have to mean penetration How you can adapt your sex life around your kids Tips to maintain your sex life in your kid shares your bed with you Ways in which to overcome issues of sexual frustration How you can keep your sex life great whilst not going out muchFind Melissa Dumaz Online
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Welcome to episode 292 of the Sexology Podcast! Today we’re doing something a little bit different as we seek the advice of sexual experts on the best tips for men to have better sexual experiences.
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Michael Castleman
https://www.mcastleman.com
Michael Castleman is a journalist and novelist, author of more than 2,000 newspaper, magazine, and Web articles, 14 consumer health books, and four mystery novels.
He is "one of the nation's leading health writers" (Library Journal). For 35 years, he has been a prolific freelance medical journalist focused on optimal health, mainstream medicine, alternative therapies, nutrition, fitness, and sexuality.
Dr. Jed Kaminetsky
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Recognized as a Top Urologist in NYC, Dr. Jed Kaminetsky, M.D. is a Clinical Assistant Professor at NYU Medical Center and a Board Certified Urologist at University Urology, one of the largest urology practice in the New York City area.
He pioneered the minimally invasive Rezum BPH treatment, is highly skilled in treating all urologic disorders and excels in minimally invasive prostate surgeries and penile implants.
Katie Ziskind
https://wisdomwithinct.com
Katie Ziskind is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Florida and Connecticut, a yoga therapist for complex trauma, and she is Gottman level two certified.
Katie Ziskind runs, Wisdom Within Counseling, a group practice, and is passionate about helping distant couples who have stopped expressing themselves emotionally and have stopped sexually connecting.
Tim Norton
https://www.timnortontherapy.com
Tim Norton is a Los Angeles-based sex therapist working in private practice, and host of a podcast on erectile issues and male sexuality - Hard Conversations.
He obtained his bachelor’s and master’s degrees from the University of Southern California.
Erik Everhard
https://www.erikeverhard.com
Erik Everhard is one of the top paid and most recognized performers in adult films of the last two decades. He has won numerous Male performer awards and been enshrined in the hall of fame of the AVN and XRCO organizations.
Caitlin V
https://www.bettersexcoach.com
Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral.
Fredrick Zal
http://www.tantrickink.com
Fredrick’s sexuality education work has focused upon erotically marginalized communities, partnerships, and individuals since 2006 by "Teaching the Art within Sexual Acts" in private lessons, semi-public and private events, and workshops in Oregon, Washington, California, British Columbia, and via Zoom worldwide.
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Welcome to episode 294 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Sheila Wray Gregoire to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the inspiration behind her book, The Great Sex Rescue, how you can honor religion with a great sex life, and how men can empower women to say no.
Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. A sought-after speaker, she’s also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex and The Great Sex Rescue. Sheila has a Master's in Public Administration and Master of Arts in Sociology both from Queen’s University.
Sheila built the successful blog, To Love, Honor, and Vacuum, with traffic of one million page views a month. Her email list is 45,000 strong and her social media reach is over 100,000. Her podcast, Bare Marriage, has more than 5,000 downloads each week. She is an award-winning author with seven royalty published books. A sought-after speaker, Sheila has spoken at churches and conferences around the globe. She is a frequent contributor at Family Life Canada events.
Her latest book, “The Great Sex Rescue” was featured in the New York Times Book Review, Publishers Weekly, and the Washington Post. She has bylines at Religion News Service, Relevant Magazine, and other news sources. Sheila and her husband Keith, a pediatrician, live in Belleville Ontario.
They have two grown daughters and one very adorable grandson and granddaughter who live down the road. She enjoys hiking, birdwatching, RV camping trips, and board games. And she knits - even in line at the grocery store.
In this episode, you will hear:
The inspiration behind the book, The Great Sex Rescue Looking at the common beliefs that hurt sex Understanding sex isn’t just vaginal penetration The difference between sex and intimacy The dynamic between sexual and relational satisfaction Ways in which couples can find good resources to educate themselves How you can honor religion with a great sex life Overcoming orgasm anxiety Tips for women on how to better communicate with male partners How men can empower women to say noThank you to our Sponsor: Cozy Earth! Use code ‘Sexology’ for 40% off.
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Welcome to episode 296 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Mary Jo Rapini to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the difference between intimacy and sex, analyzing intellectual intimacy and how you can gain better access to your emotions.
Mary Jo Rapini, MEd, LPC is a psychotherapist specializing in intimacy, sex and relationships. She lives in Houston, Texas and maintains a private practice as a relationship, intimacy/sex psychotherapist.
Rapini is a renowned lecturer, author and television personality. Currently, you can find Mary Jo on Fox 26 Houston with her segment on healthy relationships on Mondays and “Ask Mary Jo” on Thursdays. She has been a contributor on air for CNN’s Prime News and has been on CBS Up to the Minute, Fox National Morning News, Montel, Steve Harvey, the Today Show and Dateline.
Rapini contributes and writes a love/relationship expert page for Your Tango. She also contributes to magazines including Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Playboy, First, Seventeen, Teen, Redbook and Self. She has written for Huffington Post and the New York Times.
Rapini is the author of Is God Pink? Dying to Heal, and a co-author of Start Talking: A Girl's Guide for You and Your Mom about Health, Sex or Whatever and Re-Coupling; a Couple’s 4 Step Guide to Greater Intimacy and Better Sex.
In this episode, you will hear:
Looking at the difference between intimacy and sex Understanding the different types of intimacy How you can gain better access to your emotions The importance of not rushing to find solutions if you’ve been emotionally hurt Analyzing intellectual intimacy How you can manage different religious and political beliefs in a relationship The difference between physical and sexual intimacy How men and women engage differently with intimacyThank you to our Sponsor: Cozy Earth! Use code ‘Sexology’ for 40% off.
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Welcome to episode 297 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Tom Murray to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the way in which over control gets in the way of great sex, understanding the issue of forced celibacy and exercises you can do to improve your sex life.
Dr. Tom Murray, author, international trainer, educator, and couples and sex therapist-supervisor, is a widely sought-after expert in sexuality and intimate relationships. For 20+ years, Murray has worked with everyday folks to embrace their weirdness, shed labels and shame, lean into anxiety, and build better and stronger relationships.
Murray has appeared in numerous venues, including the Huffington Post and The Daily Mail, as well as radio, television and podcasts, including the Practice of Being Seen and Shrink Rap Radio.
Murray directs A Path to Wellness Integrative Psychiatry. He authored Making Nice with Naughty: An intimacy guide for the rule-following, organized, perfectionist, practical, and color within the line types.
In this episode, you will hear:
How Tom became interested in this subject area The way in which over control gets in the way of great sex Why sex needs mystery The pressure we put on ourselves to be “Sexually perfect” Recommendations for dealing with an over developed desire to control things Analyzing the monogamous agreement Understanding the issue of forced celibacy The pleasures of mutual masturbation Looking the issues around the “Neutral Face” How you can learn to better show your emotions Exercises you can do to improve your sex lifeFind Dr. Tom Murray Online
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Welcome to episode 298 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Nicoletta Heidegger to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss dealing with erotic conflict, exploring other relationship types such as polyamorous and figuring out when’s the right time to end a relationship.
Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) and sexologist practicing in Los Angeles, California.
Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University.
She sees therapy clients virtually and at her unique ranch office in Los Angeles, where she offers sex therapy, outdoor sessions, and Equine Facilitated (also called Equine Assisted) Psychotherapy and Learning. Nicoletta also creates weekly content via her growing hit show Sluts and Scholars: a sex positive, shame-free educational podcast.
In this episode, you will hear:
Dealing with erotic conflict Discovering your partner likes something sexual you’re not interested in What to do when your partner reveals they have a fetish to you How to communicate if your partner revels a different sexual side to you Exploring other relationship types such as polyamorous The different types of modality people can explore Looking at equine assisted therapy What we can learn from equine assisted therapy Figuring out when’s the right time to end a relationshipFind Nicoletta Heidegger Online
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Welcome to episode 300 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special episode where Dr Nazanin Moali answers your questions around desire discrepancy, improving an unhealthy open relationship, overcoming performance challenges and how pornography can cause erectile dysfunction.
Dr. Moali also reflects hosting Sexology Podcast for five years and how the podcast has changed Dr. Moali as a clinician.
In this episode, you will hear:
Analyzing a desire discrepancy between a couple Ways to manage differences in sexual drive between partners Understanding your baseline desire Overcoming challenges of remaining present during sex The importance of mindfulness for better sex How you can use sensate focus touch Create rituals before having sex How you can seduce your partner in a way they like Overcoming the challenges of open relationships Identifying the red flags of an unhealthy open relationship The importance of creating co-consent for an open relationship Understanding the need for your own privacy & boundaries Looking at how pornography can cause erectile dysfunction Does porn only affect erectile dysfunction when watched or can audio only porn do the same thing? Understanding that porn is not real life and is an unrealistic expectation of how your actual sex life will be Managing your sexual fantasies alongside porn through masturbation Reflecting on hosting Sexology Podcast for five years How the podcast has changed Dr. Moali as a clinicianFind Sexology Podcast Online
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Welcome to episode 305 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Stephen Foster to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Stephen become interested in this area of research, looking at the internalized concept of masculinity and understanding honor culture among men.
Dr. Stephen Foster is a social psychologist at Penn State York. His academic work is primarily centered around the intersection of culture, stigma, and health behaviors, including vaccine attendance, screening attendance, and various forms of help-seeking.
Other research interests include conflict resolution in relationships, sexual function, and subjective socioeconomic status.
In this episode, you will hear:
How did Stephen become interested in this area of research? How erectile dysfunction is defined Understanding why people do things against their best interest Looking at the internalized concept of masculinity Ways we can motivate people to ask for help Are people more comfortable asking for help from same or different gender? Understanding the importance of communication to help address these issues Looking at other findings in Stephen’s study Is opening up to your partner about this well received? Understanding honor culture among menWorkshop: 7 Tactics for Achieving Optimal Performance Without Medication
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Welcome to episode 308 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Amir Marashi to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the best sexual positions for orgasms, how can we intensify orgasms, and how sex toys can improve orgasms.
Dr. Marashi is a board-certified OB/GYN, author, and founder of Cerē. Dr. Marashi has over twenty years of experience in the medical field, and was the first doctor in the U.S. to host an official cosmetic gynecology rotation for OB/GYN residency training.
In 2020, Dr. Marashi published A Woman’s Right to Pleasure, a distinctive collection of over 200 works and original texts from over 60 of the world’s most important and well-recognized female-identifying artists, writers and creative thinkers from around the globe.
In this episode, you will hear:
Why sex is important in a relationship Do we experience orgasms differently when masturbating? The common barriers that get in the way of women having great orgasms Looking at the best sexual positions for orgasms Why cowgirl and women on top is great for orgasms How can we intensify orgasms? What can you do outside the bedroom to improve your sex life How sex toys can improve orgasms Looking at the toys Dr. Marashi has worked on20% Discount Code – Sexology20
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Welcome to episode 309 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Yana Tallon-Hicks to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can bring back passion in a relationship, overcoming low desire and recommendations for ways to explore new sexual interests.
Yana Tallon-Hicks, MA is a couples & relationships therapist and a consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator living in Western Massachusetts. Her work centers around the belief that pleasure-positive & consent-based sex education can positively impact our lives and the world.
Yana’s workshops for youth & workshops for adults work to create a welcoming & comfortable space to explore crucial aspects of our holistic, sexual selves such as pleasure, communication, consent & the body. Her workshops such as Consent & Cookies, Polyamory & Open Relationships, Hitting the Spot: Pleasure-Based Sex Education, and Pleasure-Based Consent have taken place at Duke University, Marlboro College, Oh My Sensuality Shop, Hampshire College, Smith College, Bennington College, Brandeis University, and Simmons University, along with a growing list of other colleges & universities across New England and the U.S.
Her popular workshop Consent Cookies: A confidence-building workshop for teens has been taught at various high schools & teen youth groups. Though much of her published sex advice is written for an adult audience, Yana also has years of experience working with teens. Her workshops for youth are tailored to be approachable & age-appropriate and focus on essential components of healthy sexuality and relationships for young people including consent, communication, safer sex & body-ownership.
In this episode, you will hear:
How Yana became interested in writing her book: Hot and Unbothered: How to think about, talk about, and have the sex you really want. Recommendations for people wanting to explore their sexual interests Looking at kink and the safest way to explore it The importance of community when exploring kink Ways you can overcome low desire Maintaining excitement in a long-term relationship Understanding how you and your partners needs will change over time Overcoming sexual dissatisfaction in a relationship How you can re-energize yourself to become interested in sex again Having a great sex life if you’re both parentsWorkshop
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Welcome to episode 407 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Justin Houman. In this conversation, we discuss the often overlooked issue of delayed orgasm in men. Dr. Houman explains the primary causes, including aging, erectile dysfunction, and mental factors, and provides insights into the differentiation between physiological and psychological issues.
Dr. Justin Houman is a urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist, whose practice is focused on men’s health, include male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction, male fertility, male incontinence, and Peyronie’s disease. As a minimally-invasive microscopic surgeon, he specializes in microsurgical varicocelectomies, vasectomy reversals, sperm retrievals, penile implants, Peyronie’s disease, and male incontinence. Dr. Houman’s practice is centered on enhancing men’s quality of life through hormone management, improving sexual function, and achieving reproductive goals.
In his academic pursuits, Dr. Houman has published multiple manuscripts on Men’s Health, male fertility, and the health effects of wearable technology.
Dr. Houman’s studies have been published in peer-reviewed journals such as the Journal of the American Medical Association and the Journal of Sexual Medicine. He has also presented his research at the national and international levels.
In this episode, you will hear:
· Understanding Delayed Orgasm
· Causes of Delayed Orgasm
· Penile Sensitivity and Aging
· Psychological vs. Physiological Factors
· Impact of Medications
· Alternative Therapies and Placebo Effect
· Emerging Treatments and Techniques
· Addressing Sexual Health Concerns
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