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  • Welcome to episode 289 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Melissa Dumaz to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the common issues for parents and intimacy, being creative with your ideas for having sex and how you can adapt your sex life around your kids.

    Melissa Dumaz is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, best selling author, and podcaster. She specializes in guiding clients through the complexities of overcoming trauma, grief & loss, improve their relationship satisfaction, and supportive therapy for moms in all stages of motherhood.

    Melissa passionately supports high-achievers that hide their pain and neglect themselves with the everyday stressors of their personal and/or professional lives. As a big advocate for self-care she weaves that component into her work with all of her clients. Melissa sees clients through her Practice, U Help You, where she offers EMDR therapy; and believes that a healthy you starts with you making new (healthier) choices to live your best life!

    In this episode, you will hear:

    What are the common issues for parents and intimacy? How parents may unconsciously weaponize sex Why communication is so important to keep your sex life healthy Ways parents can find time for sex Being creative with your ideas for having sex Understanding that successful sex doesn’t always have to mean penetration How you can adapt your sex life around your kids Tips to maintain your sex life in your kid shares your bed with you Ways in which to overcome issues of sexual frustration How you can keep your sex life great whilst not going out much

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  • Welcome to episode 292 of the Sexology Podcast! Today we’re doing something a little bit different as we seek the advice of sexual experts on the best tips for men to have better sexual experiences.

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    In this episode, you will be hearing sex tips from:

    Michael Castleman

    https://www.mcastleman.com

    Michael Castleman is a journalist and novelist, author of more than 2,000 newspaper, magazine, and Web articles, 14 consumer health books, and four mystery novels.

    He is "one of the nation's leading health writers" (Library Journal). For 35 years, he has been a prolific freelance medical journalist focused on optimal health, mainstream medicine, alternative therapies, nutrition, fitness, and sexuality.

    Dr. Jed Kaminetsky

    https://www.universityurology.com

    Recognized as a Top Urologist in NYC, Dr. Jed Kaminetsky, M.D. is a Clinical Assistant Professor at NYU Medical Center and a Board Certified Urologist at University Urology, one of the largest urology practice in the New York City area.

    He pioneered the minimally invasive Rezum BPH treatment, is highly skilled in treating all urologic disorders and excels in minimally invasive prostate surgeries and penile implants.

    Katie Ziskind

    https://wisdomwithinct.com

    Katie Ziskind is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Florida and Connecticut, a yoga therapist for complex trauma, and she is Gottman level two certified.

    Katie Ziskind runs, Wisdom Within Counseling, a group practice, and is passionate about helping distant couples who have stopped expressing themselves emotionally and have stopped sexually connecting.

    Tim Norton

    https://www.timnortontherapy.com

    Tim Norton is a Los Angeles-based sex therapist working in private practice, and host of a podcast on erectile issues and male sexuality - Hard Conversations.

    He obtained his bachelor’s and master’s degrees from the University of Southern California.

    Erik Everhard

    https://www.erikeverhard.com

    Erik Everhard is one of the top paid and most recognized performers in adult films of the last two decades. He has won numerous Male performer awards and been enshrined in the hall of fame of the AVN and XRCO organizations.

    Caitlin V

    https://www.bettersexcoach.com

    Caitlin V is a sex and relationship coach who helps men become amazing lovers and incredible partners. Formerly a sexual health researcher and policy analyst, she was catapulted into internet stardom after a video featuring her went viral.

    Fredrick Zal

    http://www.tantrickink.com

    Fredrick’s sexuality education work has focused upon erotically marginalized communities, partnerships, and individuals since 2006 by "Teaching the Art within Sexual Acts" in private lessons, semi-public and private events, and workshops in Oregon, Washington, California, British Columbia, and via Zoom worldwide.

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  • Welcome to episode 294 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Sheila Wray Gregoire to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the inspiration behind her book, The Great Sex Rescue, how you can honor religion with a great sex life, and how men can empower women to say no.

    Sheila Wray Gregoire is the face behind ToLoveHonorandVacuum.com, the largest single-blogger marriage blog. A sought-after speaker, she’s also an award-winning author of nine books, including The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex and The Great Sex Rescue. Sheila has a Master's in Public Administration and Master of Arts in Sociology both from Queen’s University.

    Sheila built the successful blog, To Love, Honor, and Vacuum, with traffic of one million page views a month. Her email list is 45,000 strong and her social media reach is over 100,000. Her podcast, Bare Marriage, has more than 5,000 downloads each week. She is an award-winning author with seven royalty published books. A sought-after speaker, Sheila has spoken at churches and conferences around the globe. She is a frequent contributor at Family Life Canada events.

    Her latest book, “The Great Sex Rescue” was featured in the New York Times Book Review, Publishers Weekly, and the Washington Post. She has bylines at Religion News Service, Relevant Magazine, and other news sources. Sheila and her husband Keith, a pediatrician, live in Belleville Ontario.

    They have two grown daughters and one very adorable grandson and granddaughter who live down the road. She enjoys hiking, birdwatching, RV camping trips, and board games. And she knits - even in line at the grocery store.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    The inspiration behind the book, The Great Sex Rescue Looking at the common beliefs that hurt sex Understanding sex isn’t just vaginal penetration The difference between sex and intimacy The dynamic between sexual and relational satisfaction Ways in which couples can find good resources to educate themselves How you can honor religion with a great sex life Overcoming orgasm anxiety Tips for women on how to better communicate with male partners How men can empower women to say no

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  • Welcome to episode 296 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Mary Jo Rapini to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the difference between intimacy and sex, analyzing intellectual intimacy and how you can gain better access to your emotions.

    Mary Jo Rapini, MEd, LPC is a psychotherapist specializing in intimacy, sex and relationships. She lives in Houston, Texas and maintains a private practice as a relationship, intimacy/sex psychotherapist.

    Rapini is a renowned lecturer, author and television personality. Currently, you can find Mary Jo on Fox 26 Houston with her segment on healthy relationships on Mondays and “Ask Mary Jo” on Thursdays. She has been a contributor on air for CNN’s Prime News and has been on CBS Up to the Minute, Fox National Morning News, Montel, Steve Harvey, the Today Show and Dateline.

    Rapini contributes and writes a love/relationship expert page for Your Tango. She also contributes to magazines including Cosmopolitan, Women’s Health, Men’s Health, Playboy, First, Seventeen, Teen, Redbook and Self. She has written for Huffington Post and the New York Times.

    Rapini is the author of Is God Pink? Dying to Heal, and a co-author of Start Talking: A Girl's Guide for You and Your Mom about Health, Sex or Whatever and Re-Coupling; a Couple’s 4 Step Guide to Greater Intimacy and Better Sex.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Looking at the difference between intimacy and sex Understanding the different types of intimacy How you can gain better access to your emotions The importance of not rushing to find solutions if you’ve been emotionally hurt Analyzing intellectual intimacy How you can manage different religious and political beliefs in a relationship The difference between physical and sexual intimacy How men and women engage differently with intimacy

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  • Welcome to episode 297 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Tom Murray to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the way in which over control gets in the way of great sex, understanding the issue of forced celibacy and exercises you can do to improve your sex life.

    Dr. Tom Murray, author, international trainer, educator, and couples and sex therapist-supervisor, is a widely sought-after expert in sexuality and intimate relationships. For 20+ years, Murray has worked with everyday folks to embrace their weirdness, shed labels and shame, lean into anxiety, and build better and stronger relationships.

    Murray has appeared in numerous venues, including the Huffington Post and The Daily Mail, as well as radio, television and podcasts, including the Practice of Being Seen and Shrink Rap Radio.

    Murray directs A Path to Wellness Integrative Psychiatry. He authored Making Nice with Naughty: An intimacy guide for the rule-following, organized, perfectionist, practical, and color within the line types.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    How Tom became interested in this subject area The way in which over control gets in the way of great sex Why sex needs mystery The pressure we put on ourselves to be “Sexually perfect” Recommendations for dealing with an over developed desire to control things Analyzing the monogamous agreement Understanding the issue of forced celibacy The pleasures of mutual masturbation Looking the issues around the “Neutral Face” How you can learn to better show your emotions Exercises you can do to improve your sex life

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  • Welcome to episode 298 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Nicoletta Heidegger to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss dealing with erotic conflict, exploring other relationship types such as polyamorous and figuring out when’s the right time to end a relationship.

    Nicoletta Heidegger is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (#110256) and sexologist practicing in Los Angeles, California.

    Nicoletta received her BA in Psychology from Stanford University, her MA in Clinical Psychology from Pepperdine University, and her Masters of Education in Human Sexuality from Widener University.

    She sees therapy clients virtually and at her unique ranch office in Los Angeles, where she offers sex therapy, outdoor sessions, and Equine Facilitated (also called Equine Assisted) Psychotherapy and Learning. Nicoletta also creates weekly content via her growing hit show Sluts and Scholars: a sex positive, shame-free educational podcast.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Dealing with erotic conflict Discovering your partner likes something sexual you’re not interested in What to do when your partner reveals they have a fetish to you How to communicate if your partner revels a different sexual side to you Exploring other relationship types such as polyamorous The different types of modality people can explore Looking at equine assisted therapy What we can learn from equine assisted therapy Figuring out when’s the right time to end a relationship

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  • Welcome to episode 300 of the Sexology Podcast! Today is a special episode where Dr Nazanin Moali answers your questions around desire discrepancy, improving an unhealthy open relationship, overcoming performance challenges and how pornography can cause erectile dysfunction.

    Dr. Moali also reflects hosting Sexology Podcast for five years and how the podcast has changed Dr. Moali as a clinician.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Analyzing a desire discrepancy between a couple Ways to manage differences in sexual drive between partners Understanding your baseline desire Overcoming challenges of remaining present during sex The importance of mindfulness for better sex How you can use sensate focus touch Create rituals before having sex How you can seduce your partner in a way they like Overcoming the challenges of open relationships Identifying the red flags of an unhealthy open relationship The importance of creating co-consent for an open relationship Understanding the need for your own privacy & boundaries Looking at how pornography can cause erectile dysfunction Does porn only affect erectile dysfunction when watched or can audio only porn do the same thing? Understanding that porn is not real life and is an unrealistic expectation of how your actual sex life will be Managing your sexual fantasies alongside porn through masturbation Reflecting on hosting Sexology Podcast for five years How the podcast has changed Dr. Moali as a clinician

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  • Welcome to episode 305 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Stephen Foster to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how Stephen become interested in this area of research, looking at the internalized concept of masculinity and understanding honor culture among men.

    Dr. Stephen Foster is a social psychologist at Penn State York. His academic work is primarily centered around the intersection of culture, stigma, and health behaviors, including vaccine attendance, screening attendance, and various forms of help-seeking.

    Other research interests include conflict resolution in relationships, sexual function, and subjective socioeconomic status.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    How did Stephen become interested in this area of research? How erectile dysfunction is defined Understanding why people do things against their best interest Looking at the internalized concept of masculinity Ways we can motivate people to ask for help Are people more comfortable asking for help from same or different gender? Understanding the importance of communication to help address these issues Looking at other findings in Stephen’s study Is opening up to your partner about this well received? Understanding honor culture among men

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  • Welcome to episode 308 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Amir Marashi to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss the best sexual positions for orgasms, how can we intensify orgasms, and how sex toys can improve orgasms.

    Dr. Marashi is a board-certified OB/GYN, author, and founder of Cerē. Dr. Marashi has over twenty years of experience in the medical field, and was the first doctor in the U.S. to host an official cosmetic gynecology rotation for OB/GYN residency training.

    In 2020, Dr. Marashi published A Woman’s Right to Pleasure, a distinctive collection of over 200 works and original texts from over 60 of the world’s most important and well-recognized female-identifying artists, writers and creative thinkers from around the globe.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Why sex is important in a relationship Do we experience orgasms differently when masturbating? The common barriers that get in the way of women having great orgasms Looking at the best sexual positions for orgasms Why cowgirl and women on top is great for orgasms How can we intensify orgasms? What can you do outside the bedroom to improve your sex life How sex toys can improve orgasms Looking at the toys Dr. Marashi has worked on

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  • Welcome to episode 309 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Yana Tallon-Hicks to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss how you can bring back passion in a relationship, overcoming low desire and recommendations for ways to explore new sexual interests.

    Yana Tallon-Hicks, MA is a couples & relationships therapist and a consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator living in Western Massachusetts. Her work centers around the belief that pleasure-positive & consent-based sex education can positively impact our lives and the world.

    Yana’s workshops for youth & workshops for adults work to create a welcoming & comfortable space to explore crucial aspects of our holistic, sexual selves such as pleasure, communication, consent & the body. Her workshops such as Consent & Cookies, Polyamory & Open Relationships, Hitting the Spot: Pleasure-Based Sex Education, and Pleasure-Based Consent have taken place at Duke University, Marlboro College, Oh My Sensuality Shop, Hampshire College, Smith College, Bennington College, Brandeis University, and Simmons University, along with a growing list of other colleges & universities across New England and the U.S.

    Her popular workshop Consent Cookies: A confidence-building workshop for teens has been taught at various high schools & teen youth groups. Though much of her published sex advice is written for an adult audience, Yana also has years of experience working with teens. Her workshops for youth are tailored to be approachable & age-appropriate and focus on essential components of healthy sexuality and relationships for young people including consent, communication, safer sex & body-ownership.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    How Yana became interested in writing her book: Hot and Unbothered: How to think about, talk about, and have the sex you really want. Recommendations for people wanting to explore their sexual interests Looking at kink and the safest way to explore it The importance of community when exploring kink Ways you can overcome low desire Maintaining excitement in a long-term relationship Understanding how you and your partners needs will change over time Overcoming sexual dissatisfaction in a relationship How you can re-energize yourself to become interested in sex again Having a great sex life if you’re both parents

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  • Welcome to episode 407 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Justin Houman. In this conversation, we discuss the often overlooked issue of delayed orgasm in men. Dr. Houman explains the primary causes, including aging, erectile dysfunction, and mental factors, and provides insights into the differentiation between physiological and psychological issues.

    Dr. Justin Houman is a urologist and fellowship-trained Male Reproductive Medicine and Surgery specialist, whose practice is focused on men’s health, include male hormone management, sexual and ejaculatory dysfunction, male fertility, male incontinence, and Peyronie’s disease. As a minimally-invasive microscopic surgeon, he specializes in microsurgical varicocelectomies, vasectomy reversals, sperm retrievals, penile implants, Peyronie’s disease, and male incontinence. Dr. Houman’s practice is centered on enhancing men’s quality of life through hormone management, improving sexual function, and achieving reproductive goals.

    In his academic pursuits, Dr. Houman has published multiple manuscripts on Men’s Health, male fertility, and the health effects of wearable technology.

    Dr. Houman’s studies have been published in peer-reviewed journals such as the Journal of the American Medical Association and the Journal of Sexual Medicine. He has also presented his research at the national and international levels.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    · Understanding Delayed Orgasm

    · Causes of Delayed Orgasm

    · Penile Sensitivity and Aging

    · Psychological vs. Physiological Factors

    · Impact of Medications

    · Alternative Therapies and Placebo Effect

    · Emerging Treatments and Techniques

    · Addressing Sexual Health Concerns

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  • Welcome to episode 311 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Candice Nicole Hargons to the podcast. In this episode, we look at racial trauma, how it impacts men and women differently, and how our cultural scripts can affect our sexual pleasure.

    Dr. Candice Hargons (she/her) is an award-winning associate professor in the counseling psychology program at the University of Kentucky, where she studies sexual wellness and healing racial trauma – all with a love ethic. She is the PI of the SAMHSA funded Neighborhood Healers Project, which seeks to advance mental health literacy and utilization among Black Lexingtonians.

    She is also a co-I on projects funded by NIDA, HRSA, and NIMHD examining substance use outcomes, treatment, and sexual health disparities. Additionally, she leads the Big Sex Study, a mixed methods, community-based participatory action research project investigating Black sexual wellness.

    She is the founding director of the Center for Healing Racial Trauma, and the host of the How to Love a Human Podcast. Her new sexual liberation podcast, F*ck the System, launches January 2023.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Looking at racial trauma The different impacts of racial trauma between men and women Understanding sexual liberation How our cultural scripts can affect our sexual pleasure Analyzing the orgasm gap How is pleasure defined? Practice makes perfect! How you can continue to improve your sex life over time Discovering your sexual identity Looking at sex in deep and intimate relationships Exploring and cultivating fantasies Recommendations for parents improving their sex lives

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  • Welcome to episode 310 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Ali Mushtaq to the podcast. In this episode, look at the underlying reasons why Americans are having less sex, analyse the differences between genders on this issue and differentiating sexuality v eroticism.

    Ali Mushtaq has his PhD from University of California: San Francisco in Sociology. Ali has over 10-years' experience in both qualitative and quantitative research methods and taught numerous college-level courses to hundreds of students.

    As a former leather title holder, Ali has used his platform to speak on multiple social issues and address social inequality. Through his written work, press engagements, modeling, and his courses, he continues to address diversity, inclusion, and equity in hopes of creating a better world.

    Through his teachings, his main goal is to help professionals in media, market research, business, and others learn techniques to be inclusive as well as help others empower themselves.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Are Americans having less sex? Is celibacy on the rise? Looking at the underlying reasons why Americans are having less sex How issues such as depression can affect sexual activity Is this a global trend or just an American issue? Analyzing the differences between genders on this issue Understanding the pros and cons of having less sex Differentiating sexuality v eroticism Looking at issues such as consent and the Me-Too movement How we have more people identifying as non-binary than in previous years

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  • Welcome to episode 314 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Jason Julius to the podcast. In this episode, we discuss oral sex, the common mistakes men make when giving oral sex, analyzing tongue movements, and the best positions to take for oral sex.

    Jason Julius is a sex coach with over 15 years of experience teaching couples all over the world how to have incredible experiences in the bedroom. Surprised with how little information there is in the mainstream world around sex, female orgasms, and sexual performance Jason sought out uncommon techniques and practices that would help the average man or woman elevate their intimate experiences.

    Jason is known for creating a clean, respectful, mature, intelligent conversation around having great sex. Jason wanted to create a place for people to discover a deeper level of understanding, especially when it comes to the mental aspects of female orgasms.

    Jason began posting intimate details of his experiences and has since amassed a loyal following on YouTube of others seeking a deeper understanding of what it takes to be an amazing lover. Frustrated by the negative beliefs that are perpetuated by the adult film industry, Jason separates what he teaches by creating content without nudity, done in a tasteful way that reaches people who are genuinely looking to please their partner and have more confidence in themselves when it comes to sex.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    How Jason became involved in this line of work The importance of being present with your partner during oral sex Should you use breath as teasing? The common mistakes men make when giving oral sex What gets in the way of men experiencing enthusiasm Understanding the more you give the more you get back Analyzing tongue movements How sexy language can amplify the experience further Do men care about the shape of vulvas? Looking at squirting The best positions to take for oral sex What’s a reasonable amount of time for a man to give oral sex? Is face sitting enjoyable?

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  • Welcome to episode 317 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Sebastian Harris. In this episode, we discuss how you can keep a long term relationship hot, the importance of seduction, tips on how you can get better at seducing your partner and how to create more space in your relationship to allow for sexy time!

    Sebastian Harris is a dating coach and sex coach who is on a mission to help men to live more fulfilling dating and sex lives.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    What inspired Sebastian to write his book Rise of the Phoenix: How to Get the Hottest Girls in a World That Wants You to Fail Keeping a long-term relationship hot Why it’s important for you to seduce your partner Mistakes men often make when it comes to seduction How it’s easy to get lazy in a long-term relationship Tips on ways to break out of the laziness Steps you can take to really turn your partner on Keeping communication open so you can be honest about what is and isn’t working Creating space in your relationship to allow for sexy time Looking at the pillars of seductive touch

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  • Welcome to episode 404 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Daniel Watter. In this conversation, we discuss his insightful book: “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”. Dr. Watter explains how childhood trauma can influence sexual dysfunction, why men might experience erectile unpredictability in deepening relationships, and how existential crises can lead men to seek a functioning penis at great lengths.

    Dr. Watter is an AASECT-certified sex therapy supervisor and has been elected to Fellowship Status in the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health (ISSWSH) and the Sexual Medicine Society of North America (SMSNA). In addition to his clinical practice, Dr. Watter has held several faculty appointments. Currently, he is a faculty member at the University of Michigan School of Social Work’s Sexual Certification Program and the Modern Sex Therapy Institutes.

    A frequent lecturer at professional meetings throughout North America, Dr. Watter is the author of more than 30 professional articles and book chapters on topics such as sexual function and dysfunction, and ethics in healthcare practice. He is the author of the recently released book, “The Existential Importance of the Penis: A Guide to Understanding Male Sexuality”.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    ● Understanding Male Sexual Communication

    ● War Veterans and the Existential Crisis of Losing the Penis

    ● Medical Interventions and Psychological Impacts

    ● The Deepening Relationship and Erectile Unpredictability

    ● Existential Psychotherapy and Sexual Addiction

    ● Sexual Addiction and Existential Psychotherapy

    ● Confrontation with Mortality and Sexual Behavior

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  • Welcome to episode 379 of Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to welcome Dr. Sadaf Lodhi, who discusses the inadequacies of sexual education within the medical field, especially concerning women's sexual health issues during premenopausal and postmenopausal stages.

    Dr. Sadaf Lodhi, with over two decades as an OBGYN in New York, champions women's holistic health, blending her professional expertise with personal insights as a Muslim woman. She extends her practice beyond conventional medicine, focusing on comprehensive well-being and sexual empowerment, encouraging self-discovery and autonomy in sexual matters.

    Dr. Lodhi's educational path includes an honors degree in Biochemistry from the University of Michigan, Dearborn, and a Doctorate of Osteopathic Medicine from Michigan State University College of Osteopathic Medicine, earned in 2000. After completing her residency at St. Joseph Mercy in Michigan, she moved to New York, engaging in diverse medical roles across private practices, hospitals, and clinics serving underprivileged communities.

    Her career is marked by a commitment to diagnosing and managing gynecological issues, advocating for reproductive wellness, and offering tailored care in sexual health and infertility. Dr. Lodhi stands out for her dedication to nurturing pregnant patients through to childbirth.

    In this episode you will hear:

    The Gap in Sex Education for Healthcare Professionals Challenges and Misconceptions Around Menopause Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Solutions in Menopause Exploring FDA Approved Medications and Interventions for Women's Libido The Importance of Vulvar Health and Preventive Measures Addressing Sexual Dysfunction and Advocating for Women's Sexual Health

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  • Welcome to episode 390 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Dr. Kirk Honda. In this conversation, we discuss the complex and often misunderstood topic of infidelity. Dr. Honda debunks several pervasive myths, such as 'it takes two to cheat,' 'once a cheater, always a cheater,' and gendered reasons for cheating. We also explore the notion of forgiveness, the multifaceted process of recovery, and the critical role of therapy for both the individual and the couple.

    Dr. Kirk Honda, PsyD, LMFT, is the esteemed host of The Psychology in Seattle® podcast and YouTube channel. The mission of this platform is to enhance the world by delivering educational and engaging content focused on psychology, psychotherapy, and culture.

    Established in 2008, the podcast and YouTube channel have expanded significantly, now boasting over 4,000 episodes, 350,000 YouTube subscribers, and thousands of paying members on Patreon and YouTube. Currently, we release approximately 12 episodes per week. Dr. Honda holds a Doctorate in Psychology and a Master’s in Marriage and Family Therapy. With a career spanning back to 1996 as a psychotherapist and 1998 as a professor, he brings extensive experience and insight to the show.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Common Myths About Cheating

    The Impact of Infidelity on Relationships

    How Patriarchy Historically Blames Women for Men's Infidelity

    Navigating the Aftermath of Cheating

    Factors Contributing to Infidelity

    Understanding that forgiveness is an intentional process

    ● The Complexities of Forgiveness

    Looking at Infidelity as an Opportunity to Strengthen Relationships

    ● Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

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  • Welcome to episode 392 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with August McLaughlin. In this conversation, we discuss the complexities and richness of orgasms, how societal myths influence sexual experiences, and the importance of sexual education. August shares her journey and insights on overcoming taboos around discussions of sex and pleasure. We also talk about accidental orgasms, sleepgasms, and the impact of mindset and fantasy on sexual experiences.

    August McLaughlin is a journalist, author, sex educator and host/producer of the true story podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which was named “one of the best sex podcasts you should be listening to” by Romper and a top feminist podcast by Bellesa.

    August's articles and expertise have been featured in a range of publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post, O: The Oprah Magazine and Shape. And her Girl Boner book, called a "refreshingly inclusive...welcome addition to sexual health literature" by Publisher's Weekly, is currently in its second printing.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    · The Importance of Orgasms

    · Overcoming Orgasm Myths

    · The Power of Fantasy and the Mind

    · Exploring Different Types of Orgasms

    · The Debate on Female Ejaculation

    · Accidental Orgasms: Stories and Experiences

    · Sleepgasms and Sexual Curiosity

    · Erotic Audiobooks and Sexy Experiments

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  • Welcome to episode 397 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am delighted to be speaking with Irene Fehr. In this conversation, we discuss the various forms of sensitivity, including sensory, energetic, and emotional, and how these impact a person's daily life and intimate relationships.

    Irene Fehr, MA, CCPC, SEP, Sex & Intimacy Coach helps couples make love and sex work in a long-term relationship and bring sex and passion into sexless ones. Weaving together somatic coaching, mindfulness, emotional communication work and experience around the intricate dynamics of women's sexual desire in a long-term relationship, Irene has developed and successfully applied her holistic Connection SexTM approach with couples who come to her as a last resort before divorce to turn their relationships around towards to include sexual intimacy and passion. Irene is no stranger to her clients’ issues.

    Her personal story of losing her libido and ending up in a sexless marriage all by the time she was 29 has been featured worldwide in more than 40 podcast interviews and in articles in major publications such as HuffPost, Cosmopolitan, Refinery29, Bustle, EliteDaily, and ScaryMommy.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    · Understanding Highly Sensitive Individuals

    · Sensory Sensitivity Explained

    · Energetic and Emotional Sensitivity

    · Impact of Trauma on Sensitivity

    · Recognizing a Highly Sensitive Partner

    · Navigating Sensitivity in Relationships

    · Pre-Sex Needs for Highly Sensitive People

    · Couple Dynamics and Sensitivity

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    This is our way of saying thank you for your support and being part of our journey!

    Bonus Entry: Get your copy of the FREE Sex Bucket List and subscribe to our newsletter HERE, then respond to our latest edition with "GIVEAWAY" to enter. We email out our newsletter every Tuesday morning.

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