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In this episode of the 8000 Promises Podcast Ondi Mejia and her father Peter discuss their journey of faith, dreams, and longings. Ondi shares about her new book Heavenly Hustle: Giving Your Earthly Life a Heavenly Purpose and reflects on her childhood dreams and how they shape her life today. Peter adds his insights on dreams from his own childhood and how they influenced his path, including his commitment to ministry and living a Jesus-centered life. The conversation also delves into the importance of reading scripture, living a congruent life, and the role of parents in discipling their children. The episode concludes with a shared practice of gratitude.
00:00 Welcome to the 8000 Promises Podcast: A Special Episode with Ondi and Peter
00:50 Exploring Dreams and Longings with Ondi and Peter
01:37 Childhood Dreams: Soccer Aspirations and National Park Ranger Wishes
04:54 Introducing Ondi and Peter: A Deep Dive into Their Lives and Ministries
10:57 Ondi's Book Heavenly Hustle: Blending Earthly Life with Heavenly Purpose
13:05 Generational Faith and Ministry: The Legacy of Living a Jesus Life
20:10 Discerning God's Will: Aligning Desires with Divine Purpose
25:12 Finding God in Unexpected Places
25:31 The Journey to Open Spaces with God
25:55 Grocery Store Gospel: Encountering God in Everyday Life
26:36 Embracing Secular Spaces to Share Jesus
27:25 Teaching and Living Jesus in Public Schools
28:02 Reflecting Jesus Beyond the Church Walls
30:24 Spiritual Practices for a Congruent Life
39:43 Empowering Parents in Spiritual Discipleship
43:36 Gratitude: Reflecting on Blessings
Keywords: dreams, desires, longings, childhood dreams, athletics, discipline, mission, purpose, faith, love, kindness, public spaces, schools, spiritual practices, scripture, discipleship, parenting, congruency, church, community, gratitude
Get your copy of Heavenly Hustle HERE
To hear more about Heavenly Hustle or read more things like you just heard visit www.abideandwrite.com, or follow along with me on Instagram: @abideandwrite, or Facebook: Abide & Write.
8KP Episodes with Ondi:
Little Yeses Go A Long Way - Season 1
Surprise: Godâs Promise for Friendship - Season 2
Your Words Defeat the Enemy (Ignite Insight) - Series 4
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In this captivating interview, Cameron shares her journey from a child entrepreneur with a passion for making a difference to the founder of Reverent Rhythms, a faith-based performing arts ministry. She discusses the importance of following through on million-dollar ideas with determination, her personal struggles and triumphs, including overcoming divorce and personal challenges while building her ministry. Cameron emphasizes the role of privilege in pursuing dreams and the need for boundaries to protect priorities. She also provides advice for young listeners, encouraging them not to let fear of failure hinder their success. The interview touches on Cameron's gratitude for her upbringing and how it enabled her to chase her dreams. Supporting Reverent Rhythms and their programs, especially those aimed at providing dance classes to underprivileged children, is highlighted as a way to make a tangible difference.
00:33 Unveiling Childhood Dreams: Cameron's Entrepreneurial Spirit
03:31 The Power of Support: Encouraging Young Entrepreneurs
06:11 Embracing Imperfection: A Journey of Growth and Apology
11:28 The Genesis of Reverent Rhythms: A Dream Realized
13:45 From Vision to Reality: The Expansion of Reverent Rhythms
22:07 A Leap of Faith: Securing the Future Home of Reverent Rhythms
27:43 The Journey of Reverent Rhythms: From Gymnasium to Global Impact
28:44 Facing Challenges and Celebrating Successes
29:08 The Power of Saying Yes to God's Call
30:14 Building a Community of Support: The Role of Prayer and Partnership
33:52 Navigating Personal Growth and Professional Dreams
37:36 Embracing Boundaries and Priorities in Personal and Professional Life
52:55 The Importance of Recognizing Privilege and Gratitude
55:19 Supporting Reverent Rhythms and Making a Difference
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Keywords: Cameron Cunningham, Reverent Rhythms, performing arts, ministry, dance, outreach, missions, growth, dreams, vision, dance ministry, underprivileged children, community support, setting boundaries, pursuing dreams, overcoming challenges, gratitude, privilege, support Reverend Rhythms
Connect with Cameron Cunningham:
https://www.reverentrhythms.com
https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100087015128288
https://www.instagram.com/reverentrhythmsdancecompany/
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
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HomeTown Episodes:
My Body IS a Temple with Health Coach Lina Warner
Saying Yes to the Adventure of Relationship with Tom and Shelly Hansen and Sam Tilford
Stacey Lyons: Part I and Part II
Courtney Carlson Healing Journey
Saying Yes! To Proxy Power and Preserving Dignity with Mona Highline
Unburdened Heart: A True Tale of Forgiving the Unforgivable with Janielle Westermire
Exploring Spiritual Direction and the Power of Desires with Megan Babayco
Dreams, Desires and Choreography with Sally Henry
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This episode of 8000 Promises features a special Ignite Insight session with the highly appreciated guest Sally Henry, who discusses the impact of dreams, desires, and longings on our lives, especially in the context of understanding God's will. Sally, a writer, pastor, musician, and behavioral health care coordinator, shares insights from her journey, including how her understanding of dreams, desires, and God's will has evolved over the years. She emphasizes that God wants us to learn how to be loved and to love well, suggesting that fulfillment can come from various paths in life. The conversation touches on themes like self-reflection, the importance of sharing our stories, the concept of being loved by God, and how personal and community dreams can lead to significant impacts and cultural shifts. The episode concludes with an encouragement to remember God's works in our lives and to stay open to how our dreams and desires might shift, inviting listeners to reflect on their own dreams and the concept of divine choreography in navigating them.
00:00 Welcome to Ignite Insight: Exploring Dreams and Desires
00:29 Introducing Sally Henry: A Life of Impact and Insight
03:40 Sally Shares: Reflecting on Dreams, Desires, and God's Will
10:01 Deep Dive into Dreams and Desires: A Conversation with Sally
27:38 The Power of Dreams: Transforming Communities and Lives
42:48 Wrapping Up: An Invitation to Remember and Envision
More resources for you:
Mark 10:35-44
Start to the Forgiveness Series on 8KP
Learn more about Sharefest
Learn more about Hope of the Grand Valley
More 8KP from Sally Henry
Read Sallyâs Essay The Henry Adventure
Connect with Sally on Instagram
Living in the Kingdom for Real
The Journey of Forgiving
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In this episode of the 8000 Promises Podcast, host Adi Tilford, invites her friend and spiritual director, Megan Babayco, to discuss the significance of desires, longings, and dreams in spiritual formation. Megan shares her journey from dreaming of becoming an astronaut to actually becoming a pastor, highlighting how her underlying desire to make a difference manifested in her spiritual calling. They delve into the misconceptions about desires within the church and emphasize the importance of aligning desires with God's will for personal growth and fulfillment. Megan introduces practical spiritual practices, such as the prayer of examen to help listeners discern their deepest desires. She also explains the role of spiritual direction in guiding individuals on their spiritual journey. The conversation concludes with advice on finding a spiritual director and the positive impact of community in spiritual development.
00:00 Welcome to the 8000 Promises Podcast: A Conversation with Megan
00:42 Exploring Spiritual Direction with Megan
01:51 Megan's Childhood Dream and Its Impact
07:57 The Essence of Spiritual Direction and Its Personal Journey
17:20 Understanding Desires, Longings, and Dreams in Spiritual Formation
24:50 Exploring Spiritual Desires and Practices
25:37 The Journey of Spiritual Formation
26:22 Embracing and Understanding Our Desires
26:54 Daily Delights: A Practice of Gratitude and Connection
27:44 Spiritual Practices for Deeper Connection
28:11 The Prayer of Examine: Reflecting on God's Presence
31:05 Discerning Our Desires in Light of God's Will
42:23 The Role of Spiritual Direction in Intentional Living
45:00 Closing Thoughts on Gratitude and Spiritual Practice
Keywords
spiritual direction, desires, longings, spiritual formation, self-awareness, discernment, Christian faith, desires, spiritual formation, prayer of examen, discernment, spiritual director, gratitude
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: â https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/supportâ
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Resources Mentioned:Parker Palmer- Let Your Life Speak
Transforming Center
Practicing the Way - John Mark Comer
Sacred Rhythms - Ruth Haley Barton
The Spiritual Disciplines Handbook - Adele Calhoun
The Bema Podcast - Episode 96
List of spiritual directors
Get ahold of Megan or watch her preach Monument Presbyterian Church
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In this episode of '8,000 Promises,' the hosts, known as the Nerdy Bible Girls - Tiff, Jayme, and Amy, embark on a new series exploring dreams, longings, and desires titled 'These Dreams We Have: The Role of Desire and Longing in Our Lives.' They begin by discussing childhood dreams and how they intertwine with their present lives. Special focus is on Tiff's journey from a respiratory therapist to fulfilling her dream of writing a children's book, 'Mrs. Poppish's Pickles,' inspired by a family story and her longing for laughter during the challenging COVID-19 pandemic. The episode delves into the themes of spiritual formation, the role of community in fulfilling dreams, and trusting God's timing and plans. Encouragement is offered to listeners to pursue their dreams, recognizing the importance of surrendering to God, surrounding oneself with supportive people, and discerning the difference between dreams and goals.
00:00 Welcome to the New Series with the Nerdy Bible Girls!
00:55 Introducing 'These Dreams' Series: Exploring Dreams and Longings
02:09 Childhood Dreams: Marine Biologists, Olympians, and More
08:45 Tiff's Journey: From Respiratory Therapist to Children's Book Author
22:51 The Power of Dreams, Encouragement, and God's Guidance
28:03 The Power of Dreams and Intentionality
29:22 The Birth of Nerdy Bible Girls Podcast
31:46 The Journey of Sharing Dreams
32:48 Navigating the Fear of Failure
41:28 The Difference Between Dreams and Goals
45:28 Surrendering Dreams to God's Plan
51:33 Gratitude: A Spiritual Practice
Keywords
dreams, longings, childhood dreams, pursuing dreams, support, walking with God, dreams, goals, pursuing dreams, turning dreams into reality, sharing dreams, validation, difference between dreams and goals, gratitude
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: â https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/supportâ
You can now subscribeâ to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to Godâs promises for your life. â Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
Want to connect with Jayme? Email her at [email protected]
What about Tiff? Give her a follow and DM her on instagram! @tiffanyhaifleywriter
Resources:
Mrs. Poppishâs Pickles: Barnes and Noble, Amazon
https://www.tiffanyhaifley.com/
Dream Big by Bob Goff
Steven Furtick on Breaking Mental Barriers, Working Out and Embracing Your Strengths on the Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast
Scripture that Wreckâs Us - Adiâs Sermon from April 14, 2024
More Nerdy Bible Girl Episodes:
Intro to the Nerdy Bible Girls
Amplify: God Sees & Hears Every ONE
Unpacking Forgiveness: A Journey with the Nerdy Bible Girls
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In this episode, Adi and Spencer discuss the theological aspects of forgiveness and the challenges that come with it. They emphasize the importance of understanding forgiveness as a process that starts within ourselves and extends to others. They also explore the concept of justice and how it relates to forgiveness, highlighting the need for restorative justice rather than punitive justice. The conversation touches on the role of the body in forgiveness and the significance of seeing ourselves and others as image bearers of God. They conclude by discussing the difference between trust and forgiveness and the importance of creating safe spaces for healing and restoration.
Keywords: forgiveness, theology, justice, restorative justice, image of God, trust, safe spaces
You can connect with Spencer through his website Renewed Life Counseling and on Facebook at Renewed Life Counseling
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: â https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/supportâ
You can now subscribeâ to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to Godâs promises for your life. â Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
Additional Episodes with Spencer
The Promise for Atonement (re-pair): with Spencer Owen
Grapple Loudly - Wrapping up Amplify: God Sees and Hears Everyone
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Adi (Christian) and Casey (Agnostic) discuss the topic of forgiveness. They explore the definition of forgiveness, the challenges of forgiving, and the importance of understanding and empathy in the process. They also touch on the role of faith in forgiveness and the impact of past experiences on one's ability to forgive. The conversation highlights the complexity of forgiveness and the need for personal growth and self-reflection in order to let go of anger and resentment.
Keywords: forgiveness, understanding, empathy, faith, past experiences, letting go, anger, resentment
Resources Mentioned
Old School Episode 20: 8000 Promises with Adi Tilford
Mercy - Live, Bethel Music, Amanda Cook
Nadia Boltz Webber - â Forgive Assholesâ
Find Casey at https://www.facebook.com/casey.rippy/
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: â https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/supportâ
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In this conversation, Janielle shares her story of forgiveness after experiencing childhood trauma. She discusses the importance of forgiveness in the healing process and how it lifts the weight of anger and resentment. Janielle emphasizes the role of God in guiding her through forgiveness and the need to trust Him. She also highlights the significance of boundaries and self-care in the forgiveness journey. Janielle's story serves as a reminder that forgiveness does not mean forgetting, but rather letting go and finding wholeness.
Janielle Westermire is a native of the Grand Valley on the Western Slope in Colorado. She is 5 generation and comes from a strong family of faith and love for God. She is widowed and has three wonderful adult children and 3 amazing grandchildren.
Connect with Janielle at her email: [email protected]
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: â https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/supportâ
You can now subscribeâ to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to Godâs promises for your life. â Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
Resources:
Louder Than Silence: Providing Survivors with Community and Resources they need to rebuild their lives
âDelayed Disclosure of Child Sex Abuse: Why Children Donât Tellâ
Nadia Boltz Webber - â Forgive Assholesâ
Takeaways
Forgiveness is a crucial part of the healing process and lifts the weight of anger and resentment.
Trusting in God and letting go of control are essential in the forgiveness journey.
Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, but rather setting boundaries and practicing self-care.
Sharing our stories of forgiveness can inspire and help others on their own forgiveness journey.
God's love and guidance are always present, even in the most difficult times.
Keywords
forgiveness, healing, trauma, childhood, God's guidance, trust, boundaries, self-care, wholeness
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S 5: E 64 Born to Be Queen Part II: Born to Be Queen
Born to Be Queen Part I: The Lost Crown
Part I:Read it Here: AdiTilford.com
Part II: Read it Here: AdiTilford.com/blogSummary
In this episode, Adi Tilford shares part two of her therapeutic story, 'Born to be Queen.' The story follows a young girl who experiences harm in the desert and gives up her crown. As she grows up and becomes a mother, she tries to protect her child from the desert by following a map. However, her worst fear comes true when her child is dragged into the desert. In her despair, she meets a gardener who shows her the beauty on the other side of the thorns and helps her reclaim her crown.
Takeaways
Therapeutic storytelling can help individuals process and integrate healing truths about their own experiences.
Forgiveness often involves forgiving oneself and reclaiming one's worthiness.
There is beauty and growth on the other side of pain and despair.
Books by Susan Perrow: Healing Stories for Challenging Behavior, Therapeutic Storyteling: 101 Healing Stories for Children
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
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8000 Promises host, Adi Tilford and comedian Monique Bellamy, explore the heavy topic of forgiveness and moving forward after experiencing harm. Monique shares her personal journey, highlighting the importance of laughter in difficult times and discussing complex issues like social media's influence, personal struggles, and the process of forgiveness. She emphasizes how humor has been a vital tool in her healing process and in facing life's challenges. Additionally, Monique touches on her experiences with alcoholism, the importance of community in overcoming personal struggles, and how she employs comedy to navigate and express complex emotions and experiences. The conversation concludes with a focus on the simple delights in life, illustrating the importance of finding joy amid hardship.
00:00 Opening Greetings and the Power of Laughter
01:22 A Light-hearted Interlude: The Selfie Dilemma
06:36 Introducing Monique Bellamy: A Journey of Identity and Faith
17:25 Exploring Forgiveness: From Personal Struggles to Universal Challenges
31:40 Unpacking Forgiveness and Its Complex Layers
32:47 The Role of Family in the Forgiveness Journey
33:59 Breaking the Cycle: Forgiveness as a Daily Offering
38:38 Navigating Triggers and Boundaries in Forgiveness
45:42 The Healing Power of Humor and Community
58:16 Embracing Delight: Finding Joy in the Everyday
Connect with Monique Bellamy on her instagram account @moniquebcomedy
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: â https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/supportâ
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Resources mentioned in the show:
Reel life â> Real Life by Monique Bellamy
Nadia Boltz Webber - â Forgive Assholesâ
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Courtney is an author, speaker and teacher. She has been through a lot in your life and now uses this wisdom to empower and inspire others to go on their own healing and recovery journeys with the Lord. Her resilience and belief in God's promises for her life have kept her going through the hardest times. She now shares these techniques, and experiences with others. You can read todayâs writing by heading to Courtneyâs blog: https://www.the-colorful-table.com/blogposts/forgiveness
To support Courtney Carlson and her ministry, as well as check out her current books and resources, click here: The-colorful-table.com
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: â https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/supportâ
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You might also enjoy:
Saying Yes! To Relationship in the Healing Journey with Courtney Carlson
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In this episode of the 8000 Promises podcast, host Adi converses with Nicole Williams, a forgiveness coach, writer, and author, exploring the sensitive and profound subject of forgiveness. Nicole shares her personal journey of forgiveness with her mother, emphasizing how understanding and seeing the image of God in others can lead to transformative healing and forgiveness. The discussion delves into the challenges and misconceptions surrounding forgiveness, highlighting the difference between forgiving as a one-time act and viewing it as a continuous, grace-filled journey. Nicole offers insights into her work as a forgiveness coach, including the importance of identity in Christ, setting boundaries, and employing practical techniques for healing. She also introduces her upcoming course, 'Forgiveness School,' designed to help individuals find freedom from unforgiveness. Throughout the episode, Nicole underscores the significance of empathy, compassion, and seeing God's image in everyone for fostering true forgiveness and healing.
00:00 Welcome to the 8,000 Promises Podcast: A Tender Topic of Forgiveness
00:36 A Lighthearted Start: Would You Rather Sing or Dance?
03:36 Nicole's Journey to Becoming a Forgiveness Coach
04:58 The Transformative Power of Seeing God in Others
11:40 Defining Forgiveness and Its Continuous Journey
18:12 The Role and Impact of a Forgiveness Coach
25:57 Exploring Forgiveness and Personal Growth
26:41 Improving Communication and Setting Boundaries
30:00 The Difference Between a Coach and a Counselor
34:31 Facing the Struggle with Forgiveness
43:55 Unveiling the Course on Forgiveness
47:29 A Personal Delight: The Power of Empathy
*Shownotes were generated by Descript AI
Resources:Atul Gawande âWhy Everbody Needs a Coachâ
Instagram: https://instagram.com/ms.nicolewilliams
Facebook: https://facebook.com/nicolewilliamsauthor
TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@msnicolewilliams
YouTube: https://youtube.com/@ms.nicolewilliams
Website: https://msnicolewilliams.com
Start Tiny: 7 Habits to Forgive & Be Free: https://msnicolewilliams.com/start-tiny
Book: https://www.amazon.com/RISE-UP-Believing-World-Falling/dp/B08KJXJQSH
You can find me on Instagram at â AdiTilfordWritesâ , Facebook at â AdiTilford-Author â and at my website â AdiTilford.com.â
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: â https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/supportâ
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Adoptee Sara Easterly, Birth Parent Kelsey Vander Vliet Ranyard, and Adoptive Parent Lori Holden join host Adi Tilford in a discussion focusing on the theme of forgiveness within the context of adoption. The authors of Adoption Unfiltered explore the complex emotional landscapes of adoptees, birth parents, and adoptive parents, utilizing Dr. Gordon Neufeld's metaphor of a traffic circle to illustrate the process of frustration, adaptation, grief, and attack when unaddressed emotional needs fester. Each guest shares their personal journeys and struggles with grief, loss, and the necessity of facing one's emotions to heal and forgive, emphasizing the importance of feeling sadness to move towards forgiveness.
The conversation highlights varied methods that the guests use to connect with their emotions, including engaging with animals, enjoying nature, indulging in sad media content, and creating intentional quiet moments. Towards the end, the participants reflect on moments of delight in their lives, illustrating the significance of recognizing simple pleasures amidst complex emotional experiences. The overall discussion underscores the critical role of understanding, processing grief, and the ongoing nature of forgiveness in the adoption triad's journey towards healing and connection.
00:00 Welcome to 8000 Promises: A Conversation on Forgiveness
00:54 Would You Rather: Funniest or Smartest?
04:04 Introducing the Guests: Stories of Adoption and Identity
05:13 Sara's Journey: Developing Adoption Consciousness
09:17 Kelsey's Perspective: A Birth Parent's Experience
13:45 Lori's Insights: An Adoptive Parent Navigating Adoption's Complexities
18:25 Exploring Forgiveness in the Adoption Narrative
30:24 Navigating Grief and Loss: Insights and Personal Stories
32:56 The Power of Sadness in Healing and Forgiveness
36:22 Embracing Forgiveness in Adoption: A Deep Dive
42:58 Finding Peace Through Feeling: Strategies and Personal Experiences
54:42 Simple Pleasures: Sharing Moments of Delight
Links:
AdoptionUnfiltered.com
YouTube video podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@AdoptionUnfiltered/videos
Audio podcast: search your platform for Adoption Unfiltered
Sara: SaraEasterly.com and Adoptee-Voices.com
Kelsey: AdoptChange.org and the Twisted Sisterhood podcast
Lori:LavenderLuz.com and Adoption: The Long View podcast
Instagram:
@adoptionunfiltered
@saraeasterlyauthor
@fromanothamotha
@lavluz
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
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Rule of Life: Printable PDF
Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
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Sally shares her reflective writing on the journey of forgiveness in the Ignite Insight episode!
Hi there, Iâm Sally Henry. I am wife to Kim, mother of Sarah and Sean and grandmother of three crazy boys: Rilo, Rocco and Vito. I also have two sisters who sandwich me and I love dearly. I am a writer, pastor, musician and listener. As an Enneagram 9, I love having people in our home, cooking for friends and family, having meaningful conversations and doing work that makes a difference. I am an ordained Presbyterian minister, but currently work as a behavioral health care coordinator working with families who have children coming out of mental health crises. Kim and I host a house church every other week in our home, Iâve taken up lap swimming to be active and work out stress and therapy to keep chipping away at all those things that keep me from being truly whole. I turned 60 in 2023, and it was my best birthday yet. I donât do âchurchy talkâ and Iâm usually 5-7 years behind the latest trends (be they clothing, social media or catchy phrases). I believe in transparency and sharing our stories because thatâs how we learn from each other and grow as individuals, and Iâve been sharing my sh$% for a long time now. Oh, and I try to sometimes filter for the sake of others (thatâs the Enneagram 9 in me), but sometimes a good f-bomb is whatâs appropriate. Sorry not sorry.
Read Sallyâs Essay The Henry Adventure
Connect with Sally on Instagram
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com.
Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/support
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Rule of Life: Printable PDF
Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF
Anam Cara by Adi Tilford on Substack
Episodes You might Like:
Living in the Kingdom for Real with Sally Henry
Grapple Loudly - Wrapping up Amplify: God Sees and Hears Everyone
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In this episode of '8,000 Promises,' host Adi Tilford, alongside guests Tiffany (Tiff) and Jayme, delve into the profound topic of forgiveness within the Christian faith. Tiffany, a respiratory therapist, mom, and soon-to-be-published author, and Jayme, an amazing mom deeply involved in Young Life, share their personal journeys and struggles with understanding and practicing forgiveness. The discussion evolves to a deeper exploration of what forgiveness truly means, especially in challenging times. They ponder the difference between forgiving as God doesâinstantly and completelyâand human forgiveness, which they note as a process filled with struggle, repeated efforts, and sometimes, shame for not achieving immediate closure. Additionally, the group discusses the concept of forgiveness as not just a one-time act but a repeated choice to let go of bitterness and anger, with God's help. Touching on forgiveness in the context of both interpersonal relationships and broader social injustices, they clarify that forgiveness does not necessarily imply restored trust or relationship. The episode closes with reflections on delight in daily life and the metaphorical packing of one's wounds with love, truth, and God's goodness as a way to heal and find freedom in forgiveness.
00:00 Welcome to Another Episode of 8,000 Promises
00:06 Introducing the Nerdy Bible Girls
02:34 Exploring the Complexities of Forgiveness
04:41 The Process of Forgiveness: Insights and Reflections
09:56 Forgiveness as a Continuous Journey
15:51 The Role of God in the Process of Forgiveness
21:01 Exploring Forgiveness and Relationship Healing
21:46 The Complex Nature of Forgiveness and Trust
22:35 Spiritual Insights on Forgiveness
23:19 Healing Wounds: A Metaphor for Forgiveness
25:38 The Journey of Forgiveness and Letting Go
26:56 Scriptural Reflections and Personal Growth
30:27 The Power of Naming and Trusting in God's Process
39:44 Embracing God's Truth and Love in Healing
44:01 Sharing Delights and Reflecting on God's Goodness
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com. Keep up with tips for living into the promises for you life and the latest news on the pod by subscribe to my newsletter Rule of Life: Printable PDF Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF Anam Cara by Adi Tilford on Substack
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Adi and Spencer grapple with concepts brought up in various episodes this series. Topics you'll hear about: empathy, mirror neurons, regulate/relate/reason, how scripture can serve as a Rorschach Test and so much more!You can connect with Spencer through his website Renewed Life Counseling and on Facebook at Renewed Life CounselingYou can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com. Are you loving what you hear and want to help financially support the production of this podcast? You can contribute through this link: https://anchor.fm/adi-tilford/supportYou can now subscribe to my monthly newsletter for the pod and fun tips for saying Yes to Godâs promises for your life. When you do you get a free printable to help you increase love and invite healing with Bryan Postâs 3 up 3 down strategy found in episode 11. BIO: Spencer Owen was born and raised in central Illinois and went to college at Huntington University near Ft. Wayne, Indiana. While there, he discovered his passion for helping people heal from their psychological hurts; after he graduated he went to University of Colorado in Colorado Springs for his Master's degree in counseling and human development. He started out as a school counselor, working first with elementary-age students and then later with middle-school ages. During the latter half of that time, he was working after hours as a counselor to gain his licensure status. When he achieved that, he left the education system and started working in a group counseling practice specializing in adolescents and couples. Last June, he opened up his own solo private practice -- Renewed Life Counseling -- and has since gained additional certification in working with trauma. Now, he operates his private practice in Colorado Springs, specializing in using innovative and integrative counseling techniques to help people heal from trauma of all kinds but particularly in the areas of spiritual trauma and religious abuse.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/adi-tilford/support
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Casey (the agnostic) and Adi (the follower of Jesus) talk about what it means from two different world views to Amplify Voices.
Find Casey at https://www.facebook.com/casey.rippy/
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com. Keep up with tips for living into the promises for you life and the latest news on the pod by subscribe to my newsletter Rule of Life: Printable PDF Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF Anam Cara by Adi Tilford on Substack
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Adi and Stephanie Jordan talk about Stephâs journey of widowhood, the lessons sheâs learned along the way and how we can better care for the widows and widowers in our lives.
Stephanie Jordan is an author, teacher, and speaker. She has been a cosmetologist for 24 years. She has 5 amazing kids. She has two dogs and two cats.
She has broad life experiences and likes adventure. She loves Jesus and intends to spend her life sharing His message in an unconventional way. Her artistic and rock n roll style influence her outlook on life and living it to the full. She is passionate about riding her Harley Davidson Sportster 48 and reading, writing and painting.
Links:
Stephanie Jordan's
Website: https://thestephaniejordan.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/thestephaniejordan/
FB: https://www.facebook.com/TheStephanieJordan
Twitter: https://twitter.com/The_StephJordan
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/company/thestephanie-jordan/
Amazon link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1958441007 (BIB book)
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B1W6SQNK (BIB ebook)
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CM63F993 (TDS books)
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com. Keep up with tips for living into the promises for you life and the latest news on the pod by subscribe to my newsletter Rule of Life: Printable PDF Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF Anam Cara by Adi Tilford on Substack
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Molly Evans lives in Grand Junction, Colorado. She is a proud Auntie, recovering perfectionist and karaoke enthusiast. She has lived all over the world including Flagstaff, Arizona, Bandung, Indonesia, Bangkok, Thailand, and Portland, Oregon. Passionate about education, mental health, and advocating for children, she champions the cause of the vulnerable in her work as a school psychologist. When she isnât lacing up her running shoes for a trail run, sheâs crafting delicious treats in her kitchen to share with friends and family.
She occasionally adds to her blog which is a collection of stories and reflections from her adventures overseas and in the world of education. She also has a weekly podcast with her two younger sisters called A Word with the Girls, a podcast where one word sparks conversation.
With Eyes Wide Open (Blog)
https://lovefuriously.wordpress.com/
A Word with the Girls (Spotify)
https://open.spotify.com/show/4ma45liWALp3Wv904OxjQb?si=0b725041684d476d
A Word with the Girls (YouTube)
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxD372OY9KzuNF0cIH7bzGg
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com. Keep up with tips for living into the promises for you life and the latest news on the pod by subscribe to my newsletter Rule of Life: Printable PDF Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF Anam Cara by Adi Tilford on Substack
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Adi and Michelle Vrabel talk about how the concept of amplifying a voice can start with your own inner work and eventually become a journey of deliverance for others. We talk about the challenges of writing a story that includes really traumatic events and we discuss the journey of becoming a podcaster! Itâs never too late to learn something new!
Michele Vrabel is an expert bean counter by day. Her super powers and side hustles include pastry chef and author in training. Her writing coach, Bob Goff, says she has âsassâ, which she deploys regularly. She is nearing the finish line with her first bookâŠButterfly StitchesâŠand according to her King apparently has several others in her.
Michele is available and lives in Mesa, Arizona. She has a daughter in college who lives with her and is lovingly known as Peanut. She is a passionate traveler, foodie, smart alec and lover of her King Jesus.
Micheleâs Links:
Website: www.michelevrabel.com
IG: @sweetartbyshelly
FB: https://facebook.com/michelevrabel
You can find me on Instagram at AdiTilfordWrites, Facebook at AdiTilford-Author and at my website AdiTilford.com. Keep up with tips for living into the promises for you life and the latest news on the pod by subscribe to my newsletter Rule of Life: Printable PDF Harvest Reflection Guide: Printable PDF Anam Cara by Adi Tilford on Substack
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Other Resources Mentioned:
Wiser than me
COMPEL Writerâs Training at Proverbs 31 Ministries
Old School w/ Bob Goff
Old School Life Like Jake with Jake Thomas
8KP Dedication to Beth Moore 8KP
8KP Your Not as Bad as You think You are With Nancy Neufeld
All My Knotted Up Life - Beth Moore
What My Bones Know: A Memoir of Healing from Complex Trauma - Stephanie Foo
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