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Today, I want to honor the fathers who bear the pain of missing or lost children. Father's Day can be a reminder of the grief that runs deep. It's okay if your day doesnât look like anyone else'sâfeel what you need to feel.
Tears aren't a sign of weakness; they are love and sorrow wanting to breathe. Remember, there's no right or wrong way to carry your loss. Let this day be whatever you need it to be.
For those grieving, a simple message can mean the world: "I'm thinking of you today." Sometimes presence is more healing than words. Letâs hold space for each other and remember that love, even in loss, still lives on.
Sending love and peace to all fathers today. Your fatherhood matters, and so does your grief. â€ïž
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We wrapped up an incredible Season 1 with 27 episodes filled with powerful stories and expert insights on family abduction. Thank you to everyone who shared their experiences and knowledge!
After a successful first season, I want to take some time to enhance the podcast's quality. I will not be publishing new episodes until September, as I plan to work hard this summer on recording more episodes and improving our content. My goal is to provide even more valuable insights and stories when we return. Special thanks to everyone who supported me this season.
Letâs continue to mend hearts and help others together. If you have a story or expertise to share, reach out!
I hope you will subscribe, send me your feedback/comments and contact me if you would like to be a guest.
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In todayâs episode, I share my journey and the heartbreaking reality of family abduction. Itâs not just a custody dispute; itâs a profound trauma that impacts everyone involved.
Youâll hear from my dear friend Gary, who spent years working with the National Center for Missing and Exploited Children and law enforcement. Heâll shed light on the challenges faced and the resources available for those who find themselves in this painful situation.
Letâs create a safe space to discuss and understand the gravity of family abductions. Youâre not alone in this.
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In episode 26 of Abduction: Victim to Survivor Laura recounts her experience of being taken from her home at a young age. She describes a day that started like any other, coming home from school, only to find her father waiting in a van to take her and her brother away.
- Immediate Confusion: Laura was just a child, and the shock of being taken by a parent she barely knew was overwhelming.
- Feeling Unwanted: The experience was terrifying, filled with uncertainty and a sense of abandonment. Laura felt unwanted, not just by her father but by her mother as well, which deepened her emotional scars.
I have known Laura for years and have had the honor of watching her in her healing journey and become the strong, compassionate, resilient woman she is today. I hope you will watch/listen/subscribe/comment. Thank you.
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Family abduction devastates lives â but understanding how mediation can help prevent, resolve, or transform these high-conflict situations offers hope. If you've ever wondered whether peaceful solutions exist when a child is forcibly taken by a parent, this episode with expert mediator Shari Doherty unveils the truth about mediation's potentialâand its limits. Shari, a seasoned child advocate with 20 years of experience at Child Find of America, breaks down the complex landscape of family mediation. She reveals the three fundamentally different typesâevaluative, facilitative, and transformativeâand explains how each can either help or hinder healing, especially when an abduction is involved. You'll discover: the myths surrounding mediation, why some processes are inappropriate in high-conflict family separations, and how understanding these modes can make all the difference. Shari shares real stories that shine a light on success cases, including her work with searching parents and abducting parents, and the delicate balance of empathy, legal considerations, and emotional regulation. In this episode, you'll learn how mediation can empower parents, foster compassion, and even transform blame into understandingâif the parties are committed. We delve into the warning signs that mediation may do more harm than good, such as coercion, power imbalances, or the presence of domestic violence and abuse. Most critically, you'll grasp how unrecognized conflict patterns and unaddressed trauma can entrench harmful behaviors, making resolution impossible without proper guidance. Why does this matter? Because family conflictâespecially involving parental abductionâcan leave lifelong scars on children, affecting their emotional development and sense of safety. Without awareness of the different mediation approaches, families risk escalating trauma or losing crucial opportunities for healing. But with the right knowledge, parents, advocates, and officials can choose more effective, trauma-informed strategies to protect children and rebuild relationships. Perfect for parents, family law practitioners, and anyone involved in high-stakes custody disputes, this episode offers practical insights and hope. If you're navigating a complex family situation or want to better understand how the right mediation approach can help turn conflict into connection, donât miss it.
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A Mother's Day Message for all mothers, for mothers whose children were taken far too soon, for mothers with missing children, for mothers with children who are alienated from them, for women who carry the ache of the children they longed for but never had, for mothers separated from their children, and for those whose mothers are gone or whose hearts still ache for the love of a mother they never truly had.
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Today, Iâm sharing a moving experience from a dear friend, Dr. John E. Bischoff, Vice President of the Missing Children Division of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children, who has dedicated his life to helping families of missing children. He told a heartfelt story about his niece, who unexpectedly found herself in a race longer than she was prepared for.
As she ran, she felt overwhelmed and questioned her ability to finish. But with encouragement and support, she pushed through every difficult mile. This isnât just about running; itâs about lifeâs unexpected challenges.
We often find ourselves in situations we didnât choose, just like families dealing with abductions. The key is to keep going, to seek support, and to remember that you are not alone in this race.
This episode also features Dr. Bischoff sharing insights on family abduction cases, the law enforcement process, and how support organizations aid families. Learn about the emotional and procedural aspects of child recovery and the vital role of case managers and community resources.
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Episode 23 shares the powerful true story of a baby who was abducted at six weeks old by his father and endured years of abuse before being found and reunited 22 years later. The episode traces their fight back from heartbreak, underscoring how hope, vigilance, and immediate action can save lives in parental abduction cases. It also delivers an urgent truth: the child abducted by the other parent is not inherently safeâwhen abuse is present, a childâs safety must be the first priority, and every moment matters.
Thank you so much for following the podcast, I hope you will subscribe/like/comment. I appreciate your feedback.
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Iâm excited about this episode that discusses compliant victimization. When a child is abducted by a family member, the trauma runs deep. The pain is psychological. Today, my guest and friend is Carol Ryan, LPC, LCAC. Carol is a licensed professional counselor and addiction counselor who has worked extensively with families affected by abduction and trauma. She sheds light on how compliance can be a survival strategy for children in these situations. Itâs crucial to recognize that this behavior stems from a place of fear and manipulation. Understanding these dynamics can foster compassion and healing. If you or someone you know is navigating these waters, remember to approach the situation with empathy and patience. The journey of recovery is complex. Letâs support one another in this heartbreaking reality.
To understand compliant victimization in the context of parental abduction, watch this episode where Carol Ryan, through an in-depth conversation, reveals the intricacies of compliant victimization. Compliant victimization refers to situations where a child appears to cooperate with their abductor out of fear or psychological manipulation, rather than genuine willingness.
I hope you will watch/listen/SUBSCRIBE/like/comment. I invite you to share your thoughts or experiences. Thank you!
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In the latest episode of "Abduction: Victim to Survivor," host Abby shares a poignant conversation with Kevin, a father whose life was irrevocably altered by family abduction. This episode sheds light on the emotional struggles faced by parents in similar situations and the importance of support networks in the journey toward healing and recovery.
Understanding Family Abduction:
Family abduction is a complex issue that impacts not only the children involved but also the searching parent. As Abby explains, this podcast aims to create awareness about the emotional and psychological turmoil that arises from these situations. Kevin's story exemplifies this struggle, as he recounts the harrowing experience of losing his two children to an international abduction.
Kevin's Story:
Kevin's journey begins in Belgium, where he met his ex-wife while serving in the military. Despite initial hopes for a happy family, their relationship quickly deteriorated. With two young children, Tyler and Kevin Jr., Kevin fought to maintain a semblance of normalcy. However, the situation escalated into a contentious divorce, eventually leading to his ex-wife abducting the children.
During the podcast, Kevin reflects on the moment he received a surprising phone call from his daughter, who seemed to say goodbye. This haunting memory foreshadowed the impending loss as he discovered his family's home empty. Kevinâs emotional turmoil is palpable as he describes the helplessness he felt when he realized that the authorities, including the FBI, provided little to no assistance in locating his children.
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In todayâs episode, I share the painful yet inspiring story of recovery and reunification, featuring my amazing guest, Pina Arcamone. With her experience at the Missing Children's Network in Montreal, Canada, she sheds light on the emotional journey faced by families in crisis.
Did you know that the longer a child is missing, the deeper the trauma they face? Thatâs why time is critical. Weâll discuss the emotional toll on parents, the kids, and everyone involved. Pina tells the story of the reunification she facilitated that was child centered and actually the best most sensitive and beneficial reunification I have ever heard of. Pinaâs work was extraordinary.
Pina reminds us that childhood should be a time of joy, not fear. Letâs work together to ensure every child can grow up safe and sound
Listen/watch to the full episode for more insights and inspiring stories. Comment/Like/SUBSCRIBE
Email me with your suggestions/questions/comments, I would love to hear from you.
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In this episode of 'Abduction Victim to Survivor', host Abby speaks with Henry, a father who shares his harrowing experience of family abduction. The conversation delves into the emotional and psychological toll of abduction on both parents and children, the complexities of international abduction, and the importance of support networks. Henry recounts the day of the abduction, the subsequent search for his daughter Pearl, and the challenges faced during their reunification. The episode emphasizes the need for understanding the perspectives of both parents and children in abduction cases and highlights the resilience required to navigate such traumatic experiences.
Thank you, Abby
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In this episode of 'Abduction Victim to Survivor', host Abby discusses the profound impact of family abduction, sharing her personal experiences and insights. Joined by Shelly Acker, they explore the importance of self-care during crises, the emotional triggers that arise from trauma, and the necessity of support systems. The conversation emphasizes practical self-care strategies, the journey of self-forgiveness, and the power of positive affirmations. Listeners are encouraged to take care of themselves while navigating the challenges of family abduction, highlighting that they are not alone in their struggles.
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In this episode of "Abduction Victim to Survivor," host Abby engages in a heartfelt conversation with Chewey, a father who experienced the trauma of family abduction when his daughter, Jennifer, was taken by her mother. Chewey shares his harrowing journey of searching for his daughter, detailing the emotional turmoil and the lengths he went to in order to bring her back home. He emphasizes the importance of community support and the need for parents to remain proactive in their search for missing children. Chewey's story is not just one of loss but also of resilience, hope, and the unbreakable bond between a father and his daughter.
Throughout the episode, Chewey reflects on the challenges he faced, including navigating the legal system and the emotional impact of being separated from his child. He also discusses the importance of maintaining a positive mindset and staying active in the search process. The conversation highlights the broader implications of family abduction, the psychological effects on children, and the critical role of support networks for affected families. Chewey's journey culminates in a message of hope, as he shares how his daughter is now thriving and how he continues to help others in similar situations through his volunteer work with Team Hope.
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My friend and colleague, Lanae Holmes, the Executive Director of Family Advocacy of the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC), shares the mic with me and Sarah talking about a retreat NCMEC held with survivors of sex trafficking and parental abduction. It is fascinating and shows how family abduction is not okay.
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In this 13th episode of Abduction: Victim to Survivor, hosts engage in a heartfelt conversation with Baroness Catherine Meyer, who shares her personal experiences with family abduction and her advocacy work. The discussion delves into the complexities of parental alienation, the emotional impact on children, and the importance of maintaining healthy relationships post-abduction. Catherine emphasizes the resilience of children and the need for hope and understanding in navigating these challenging situations. The episode concludes with reflections on healing and the importance of children's rights.
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The conversation in this podcast episode sheds light on the often-overlooked aspects of family abduction, particularly the emotional and psychological aftermath for both children and parents. It underscores the necessity for continued research and support for affected families, ensuring they are not left to navigate their trauma alone. The insights provided by experts like Marilyn and Nicola pave the way for a better understanding of the complexities of abduction and the essential support needed for recovery.
Key Takeaways:
1. Family abduction has lasting emotional and psychological impacts on victims and their families.
2. There is a critical need for evidence-based research to understand the post-return experiences of abducted children.
3. Support systems must be improved to help families navigate the challenges that arise after reunion. In this episode you will learn the important research Marilyn and Nicola are working on. I encourage you to listen/watch this episode and if you are a parent who had a missing child or were a missing child yourself, you can click on the links below and be part of their research study.
These two online surveys are available for completion until 31 March 2026 by:
Parents and family members of children who have experienced their childâs removal to, and/or retention in, another country in a way which was considered wrongful in law â https://westminsterpsych.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_agedV42lzL7kS22Adults over 18 years of age who were previously abducted as children - https://westminsterpsych.az1.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_0HBOXOpBs6UCwB0Hope you will watch/listen/subscribe. Thank you.
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Introduction: In this episode of Abduction, From Victim to Survivor, hosts Sarah and Abby delve into the harrowing yet inspiring journey of Scott, a survivor of parental abduction. Through his story, we explore the complexities of family abduction, the trauma it inflicts, and the remarkable strength it takes to overcome such adversity.
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In this episode 10 of 'Abduction Victim to Survivor,' hosts Sarah C. Finkelstein Waters and Abby are joined by Professor Geoffrey Greif to discuss the complexities of parental abduction and the nuances of family reunification. They explore the emotional and cultural challenges faced by abducted children and their families, emphasizing the importance of understanding, acceptance, and healing. The conversation delves into the messiness of human relationships, the impact of cultural differences, and the journey towards reconnection and forgiveness.
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