Afleveringen
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Anxiety is an emotion we all feel from time to time. Some of us experience it more often than others, but I think it’s safe to say none of us enjoy it. In this episode Shiv and Dave talk about their experience with anxiety and how they choose to move through it.
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Arguing with someone who is defensive is exhausting and oftentimes pointless. Being someone who is defensive is harmful to yourself and everyone close to you. This week’s episode Shiv and Dave share the ways that defensiveness has hurt their relationship and Shiv details the work that she has done to become less defensive. If you or someone you love struggles with being defensive (wink-wink that's almost all of us) you won’t want to miss this one!
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If you’re anything like me (Shiv here), sometimes you crave your comfort zone like a kid craving their baby blanket. Growth can be incredibly uncomfortable and in this episode we share how we sit with the discomfort…sometimes very well and sometimes not so well. Along with facing discomfort we also share how we handled some recent setbacks and let you in on Dave’s most recent breakdown!
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When Shiv lost her brother it was traumatic in a very obvious way. However, the lack of compassion and understanding by her teachers after her loss was also traumatic, in an entirely different way. Tune in to learn about how our experiences imprint onto us and how bottling emotions can affect you. This episode is both an invitation and a warning for you to reflect back on your own school experience and how it may have affected you.
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Everyone has a different definition of success, in this episode Shiv and Dave define what it means to them and the lengths they will go to achieve their vision of success.
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We all have insecurities because we have all been wounded. In this week’s episode Shiv and Dave talk about how to heal from insecurities and how to navigate insecurities in a relationship. Is it your job to heal your insecurity or your partner's job to cater to it? Tune in to find out our hot take on this!
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This week's episode shines a light on how shifting your mindset to one of abundance versus scarcity will actually bring you more. Shiv and Dave share how having an abundance mindset was not something they always have had, but how this change has radically impacted their lives and they feel more blessed because of it. Oh and there is also a wild tangent on how this affects the dating scene, buckle up!
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When we don’t forgive, resentment builds. In this week’s episode Dave takes us on a deeply insightful and personal journey into how and why he has learned to forgive. We dive into how resentment is created in relationships, how it keeps us from connecting and how forgiveness can release our mental tension in order to feel lighter.
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Shiv found herself level 10 triggered after reading an instagram comment and this episode is peeling back the curtain on how she used her trigger as an opportunity to heal and set boundaries to keep her peace. While others' feedback can be incredibly helpful in order to mirror our blindspots to us, it’s only helpful when we deeply trust the person providing the feedback. Dave shares how he discerns which mirrors he trusts and the importance of those mirrors in his life.
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In this episode, Shiv and Dave are joined by Camille Cook, host of the (Un)Fulfilled Podcast for an important conversation on how to find fulfillment. We each share parts of our stories that we regret, how we started doing innerwork to begin living a more aligned life, the importance of listening to your intuition and how to move beyond discomfort to get the life you want.
(Un)Fulfilled Podcast can be found here:
https://open.spotify.com/show/7pTkb9QoFa5H8Jdl2x5Scj?si=3c1b115840c84b4b
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We all struggle with trying to be perfect at times, but for some of us it can feel much more debilitating. Especially for Shiv, who opens up about the ways that her perfectionism has held her back. This episode highlights the struggles of being a perfectionist and how to approach yourself with compassion when stuck in a cycle of perfectionism in order to overcome it.
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This week Shiv and Dave dive into how learning to regulate their nervous system has helped them make better decisions, feel better in their lives, and has improved how they parent. They share the tools that they use that are simple to integrate into everyday life along with sharing their thoughts on attachment styles!
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Things get personal in this episode, Dave and Shiv share updates on recent life decisions and how they make decisions in alignment with their values. Even when we think we know what our values are, it’s still easy to become double minded and make decisions that are out of alignment. Shiv opens up about past decisions she made that she wouldn't make now.
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Warning: If you have high expectations for others this episode could be triggering, but with an open heart and mind it could also be just what you need. Tune in as Shiv and Dave discuss how to achieve mental peace by having low expectations and watch out for the unexpected twist as Dave throws the 5 love languages under the bus!
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I talk to myself and no I’m not crazy, you do it too. We all talk to ourselves and in this episode we dive into the impact our self talk has on our reality. We share thoughts that have hurt us in the past, thoughts that kept us stuck, and how we have changed our thoughts in order to have more peace and live in alignment. In order to change your thoughts, you have to become the watcher of your thoughts and in this episode we teach how to start practicing this!
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If I could heal the world of just one thing, it would be shame. Most roads of pain lead back to shame and we go down many of those roads in this episode along with sharing stories of ways we have experienced and passed on shame to others.
We mention a book called Healing the Shame that Binds you by John Bradshaw in this episode. I highly recommend reading it!
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Inspired by a trip to Shiv’s parents house, this episode takes you through the twists and turns of how to come back to the person you are deep within before things outside of you, shaped you. Shiv shares the blocks that she has had to work through on her journey that kept her from beginning to heal and how she has changed her perspective on views that were once deeply held within her. Healing isn’t linear and everyone’s journey will look different, but our hope is that this episode resonates with you wherever you’re currently at.
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We live and breathe all things mental health and healing so when it comes to finding and fixing our patterns, we are always on the hunt. With that said, it’s humbling to fall back into past patterns and in this episode we open up about how that happened this week. The pattern we fell into was one of major codependence and we dive into what that looks like. If you have ever felt like you aren’t okay if someone else isn’t okay then this is the episode for you!
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In honor of Mental Health Awareness month Shiv and Dave share some of the ways they maintain their mental health. This episode starts with small tricks and tips that are easy to implement and then dives deep into the hard stuff like setting boundaries with yourself and others.
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Triggered…you’ve likely heard this term tossed around before. I know I had, but I didn’t always know what it truly meant. Early in our relationship triggers were impacting us in a major way, but at the time we didn’t understand that it was our triggers since we didn’t know what triggers were. This episode will help you understand what a trigger is and how to work through your triggers so that you can show up better in your own life and for those you love!
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