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  • 96 | The Myth of the

    96 | The Myth of the "Good Dog "

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    đŸŸHey there, Dog Lover,
    You want to do right by your dog. 💜

    You want connection, confidence
 and if we’re honest, you probably want them to be “good.”

    But what does that even mean?

    And who gets to decide?

    This episode unpacks where the “good dog” myth really comes from, how it quietly shows up in our daily lives, and what it might be costing you—and your dog.

    If you’ve ever thought, “She should be over this by now” or “I just want him to be good,” this one’s for you.

    👣Next Steps:
    👉 Join the Fearless Framework! Share your journey with fellow dog lovers 🐕
    Inside our student community, you'll learn how to lead your dog with calm confidence—without relying on obedience, tools, or treat-based tricks.
    This isn’t just another training program—it’s where real change begins.
    www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

    📅 Book a Calm, Confident Coaching Call - One-on-one help from the comfort of your home 😊
    Let’s talk about your dog, your challenges, and how to start building trust and connection in a way that actually works for you both.
    No pressure—just an honest conversation.
    https://calendly.com/beyondobedience-info/leadership

    Hope you enjoy—and please share with your dog-loving friends!
    Cheers,
    Tracy
    Music credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

  • 95 | What if You Didn't Have to Train Your Dog?

    95 | What if You Didn't Have to Train Your Dog?

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    đŸŸHey there Dog Lover,
    What if your dog didn’t need more drills, tools, or treat pouches
 but a completely different kind of relationship?

    In this episode, I’m sharing the 5 core values that guide everything I do inside Beyond Obedience.

    These aren’t training tips—they’re mindset shifts.

    Anchors. Invitations to lead from trust, not pressure.

    If you’ve felt stuck in the “shoulds,” these pillars might just set you free.😊

    Next Steps:
    👉 Join the Fearless Framework- Join the most supportive, amazing dog lovers♄
    This is where transformation really begins—not with more to-dos, but with a shift in how you show up for your dog.
    Inside, you’ll find education, community, and support. Come "unlearn" some things with us!
    www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

    📅 Book a Calm, Confident Coaching Call
    Not sure where to start? Let’s talk.
    In just one call, we can uncover what’s actually going on and what your next best step might be—no judgment, no pressure.


    https://calendly.com/beyondobedience-info/leadership

    Hope you enjoy—and please share with your dog-loving friends!
    Cheers,
    Tracy
    Music credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

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  • 94 | From Struggle to Delight: Heather & Geordie’s Story of Partnership

    94 | From Struggle to Delight: Heather & Geordie’s Story of Partnership

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover,

    What happens when we stop trying to “fix” our dog — and start asking who they truly are?

    In this episode, I sit down with Heather to talk about her incredible journey with Geordie — a dog she once believed she’d never truly connect with. Together, we explore what it means to see the world through your dog’s eyes, to lead with emotional reliability, and to step into a quiet, shared language of partnership.

    Heather reflects on:đŸŸ Moving from confusion to clarity
    đŸŸ The power of calm, present leadership
    đŸŸ Why curiosity changed everything
    đŸŸ And how walks once filled with frustration have become joyful adventures in connection

    If you’ve ever felt like you and your dog were living parallel lives — or wondered if a deeper bond was even possible — Heather’s story will remind you:
    You’re not alone. And it’s never too late to become the partner your dog has been waiting for.

    Hope you enjoy this one!

    Talk soon

    Tracy

    ✹ Next steps?
    If you're ready to experience this kind of transformation with your own dog — it starts with a conversation.
    👉 Click here to book a call with me and let’s talk about what’s possible for you and your dog.

    đŸŽ¶ Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the original music featured in this episode.
    Visit shawntrotter.com to explore more of his work.

  • 93 | 3 Signs It's Not A Training Problem-And What You Can Do About It

    93 | 3 Signs It's Not A Training Problem-And What You Can Do About It

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey dog lover!

    Okay, so here’s the deal

    You’ve done the training. Your dog knows the cues.
    And yet
 every walk feels like a strategy session, every outing ends in stress, and you're still left wondering, “Why isn’t this working?”

    If that sounds familiar, this episode is for you.

    In today’s chat, I’m walking you through three signs that the real issue isn’t obedience—it’s something deeper.

    We’ll unpack why your dog might be better off-leash than on, what your exhaustion is trying to tell you, and how to stop micromanaging and start leading in a way that actually feels good for both of you.

    And of course, I’ll share what you can do to turn things around—without adding more training to your already overflowing plate.

    Let’s trade pressure for partnership.
    Let’s build trust instead of managing behaviour.
    Let’s get curious (and maybe say “how interesting!” once or twice 😉).

    So grab your tea, leash, or laundry basket and let’s dive in.

    With heart and a whole lotta calm,
    – Tracy 💛

    P.S. Ready for your next steps?

    🎯 Join the Fearless Framework and start building trust with your fearful or reactive dog the relationship-first way:
    👉 Fearless Framework Course & Community

    🎧 Need clarity fast? Book a Leadership Coaching Call with me here:
    👉Calm Coaching Call

    Music credit:
    đŸŽ¶ Original music Shawn Trotter 🎾 www.shawntrotter.com

  • 92 | 3 Truths About Fear & Body Language You Might Be Missing

    92 | 3 Truths About Fear & Body Language You Might Be Missing

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    đŸŸHey Dog Lover!,

    You’ve probably asked it at some point — maybe even this week:
    “Is my dog doing this because they’re afraid?”

    It’s such a common question
 and honestly, a really complicated one.
    Because fear can show up in a lot of ways: barking, lunging, freezing, chasing, or even growling. And to make it even trickier? Those same behaviors could also come from frustration, confusion, or instinct.

    And when you’re the one holding the leash — trying to read your dog’s body language in real-time, while your own heart rate is going up — well, that’s a lot to ask of yourself.

    Here’s the truth I’ve learned:
    You can’t see the whole picture when you’re standing in the frame.

    That’s why in this episode, I’m walking you through:

    What fear really looks like (and why it’s not always obvious)

    The difference between defensive and offensive right brain behavior

    How emotions and instinct overlap in dogs

    And why understanding your dog’s Dogonalityℱ gives you the power to ask better questions — not just get better answers

    If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “Is it fear
 or something else?” — this one’s for you.
    Let’s slow it down, zoom out, and figure out what’s really going on under the surface.

    Hope you enjoy this episode,
    Tracy đŸŸ

    👉 NEXT STEPS:

    🎯 Take the Dogonalityℱ Quiz to better understand your dog’s brain and behaviour:
    www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz

    đŸ“„ Want my help?
    Book a Calm Coaching Call to get clarity on what’s going on with your dog — and what to do next.

    💬 Let’s stay connected:
    Come join the free Facebook group for more stories, support, and nerdy behaviour talk:
    www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience

    Music Credit: đŸŽ¶. Shawn Trotter of www.shawntrotter.com

  • 91 | Struggling with Fear, Barking & Big Emotions? (Q&A Episode!)

    91 | Struggling with Fear, Barking & Big Emotions? (Q&A Episode!)

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey there Dog Lover!đŸŸ

    This week, Paisley and I sat down to answer some of your most honest, heartfelt questions — and wow, did you deliver.

    From a siren-sensitive Malinois who never leaves your side
 to a fearless Boston with a taste for freedom
 to a big, beautiful German Shepherd whose jumping has turned into bruises and scratches — every question we answered this week was rooted in one thing:
    A deep desire to understand.

    Here’s what we unpack in this April Q&A episode:đŸŸ Should you let your fearful dog follow you everywhere?
    đŸŸ What to do when your large, excited dog’s jumping becomes dangerous
    đŸŸ How to know if your dog’s barking is social, defensive, or something else
    đŸŸ When to consider tools like an e-collar — and how to know if you’re ready
    đŸŸ What to do when reactivity becomes a dopamine-driven pattern
    đŸŸ Helping your dog feel safe around guests
    đŸŸ Teaching a larger dog to be gentle with smaller dogs in the home

    If you’ve ever found yourself asking:
    “Am I doing the right thing?”
    “Is this fear, or something else?”
    “What if I’m not enough?”
    
this episode is for you.

    You’re not alone. And more than ever, the world needs the kind of leadership that begins with empathy — not control.

    Hope you enjoy this episode!


    Tracy đŸŸ

    👉 NEXT STEPS:

    💛 If you’re ready for real change

    Come join the incredible community inside the Fearful Dog: Fearless Framework — my online course and group coaching space where we go far beyond obedience.

    It’s where you’ll find:

    Support from dog lovers who truly get it

    Tools that help you build trust and confidence — without relying on treats or tools

    Monthly coaching calls and personalized guidance

    And a safe space to stop feeling so alone in your dog journey

    đŸŒ± The world is heavy right now. And I believe, more than ever, people need what our dogs can teach us — and what we can teach them in return.
    Come join us → www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

    💬 Let’s stay connected:
    Come hang out in the Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group for more support, reflection, and real-talk:
    www.facebook.com/groups/LivingBeyondObedience

    🎯 Take the Dogonalityℱ Quiz to understand your dog’s behaviour on a deeper level:
    www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz

    đŸŽ¶ Music by Shawn Trotter – www.shawntrotter.com

  • 90 | Struggling to Help Your Fearful Dog? Here’s What You Need to Hear

    90 | Struggling to Help Your Fearful Dog? Here’s What You Need to Hear

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey dog lover đŸŸ

    Have you ever found yourself wondering, “Why isn’t this getting better yet?”
    You’re showing up, doing the work, being patient
 but your fearful or sensitive dog still seems stuck.

    In today’s episode, I’m sharing the story of Levi—a shutdown rescue who couldn’t even be touched when he arrived. He taught me one of the most powerful lessons I’ve ever learned:
    Progress doesn’t happen on our timeline.
    And sometimes, letting go of the clock is what finally opens the door to trust.

    If you’ve been feeling behind, discouraged, or unsure if you’re doing it “right,” this episode is for you.

    Hope you enjoy,
    Tracy

    NEXT STEPS:
    ✹ Ready to break the fear cycle and build confidence naturally?
    Join the Fearful Dog: Fearless Framework and start building trust—without pressure or overwhelm.
    👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/fearless

    đŸŽ¶ Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the music – www.shawntrotter.com

  • 89 | Tired Of Being Ignored on Walks? Here's What Actually Works

    89 | Tired Of Being Ignored on Walks? Here's What Actually Works

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey dog lover! đŸŸ

    Ever feel like you're just the dope at the end of the rope—being dragged along while your dog follows their nose and completely tunes you out? I’ve been there. And so was Chuckles, my husband’s swamp-loving, scent-obsessed Basset Hound who taught me one of the most powerful lessons about fulfillment, relevance, and real connection.

    In today’s episode, I take you on a muddy little adventure that changed everything for Chuckles and me—and I just might do the same for you and your dog especially if you're living with a confident, right-brained extrovert who seems more into ditch water than anything you have to offer.

    Hope you enjoy,
    Tracy

    NEXT STEPS:
    ✹ Want to understand your dog’s Dogonalityℱ? Take the free quiz: www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
    💬 Want personalized support? Book a coaching session with me: www.beyondobedience.ca/session

    đŸŽ¶ Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the music – www.shawntrotter.com

  • 88 | When You Love Your Dog
 But Don’t Always Like Them

    88 | When You Love Your Dog… But Don’t Always Like Them

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover,

    Apollo wasn’t the easiest dog to live with. He had a massive prey drive, a fearless attitude, and a knack for chaos — and honestly, there were days I didn’t even like him.

    But behind all that intensity
 was one of the most fiercely loyal, deeply devoted dogs I’ve ever known.

    In this episode, I’m telling the story of Apollo — the dog who made me question everything I thought I knew about leadership, love, and what it means to accept the whole dog, not just the easy parts.

    We’ll explore:đŸŸ How I learned to stop “managing” Apollo’s intensity and start honouring it
    đŸŸ Why the traits that frustrate us most are often signs of something deeper
    đŸŸ What it looks like to lead a strong-willed, big-hearted dog with structure and respect

    If you’ve ever had a dog who made you feel like a failure
 or tested your patience more than you care to admit
 this story is for you.

    Because sometimes, the dog who challenges you the most is the one who loves you the hardest.

    Next Steps:
    Got a bold, high-energy dog like Apollo? Take the Dogonalityℱ Quiz to discover how to guide them with confidence — no treats or tricks required.
    👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz

    Be sure to share your quiz results with other dog lovers in our Free Facebook Community Living Beyond Obedience

    Music credit: Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com

  • Celebrating Our Dogs’ Cultures (Totally Legit, Not at All Made Up)

    Celebrating Our Dogs’ Cultures (Totally Legit, Not at All Made Up)

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey dog lover! đŸŸ

    Have you been unintentionally denying your dog’s cultural identity?

    In this episode, we explore the surprisingly overlooked world of honouring your dog’s roots—whether that’s through themed meals, heritage-based enrichment, or just a deeper understanding of who they really are. Because maybe the reason your dog is ignoring you
 is cultural.

    Or maybe—it’s something else entirely. 😉

    Hope you enjoy,
    Tracy

    NEXT STEPS:
    ✹ Want to understand your dog’s Dogonalityℱ? Take the free quiz: www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz
    💬 Ready to connect on a deeper level? Book a coaching session: www.beyondobedience.ca/session

    đŸŽ¶ Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the music – www.shawntrotter.com

    (P.S. You might want to check the calendar... 😉)

  • 87 | Training Didn’t Work. No Tools, No Treats—Just This One Shift

    87 | Training Didn’t Work. No Tools, No Treats—Just This One Shift

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover,

    What do you do when your dog couldn’t care less that you exist?

    Jayce was one of the most confident, independent dogs I’ve ever worked with — and for the first few days we lived together, I was just the dope at the end of the leash. He didn’t want my attention, my approval, or my connection.

    But one weird little moment — involving a frog and a puddle — shifted everything.

    In this episode, I’m sharing the full story of my time with Jayce and the powerful lesson he taught me about relevance, leadership, and the quiet magic that happens when we stop trying to matter
 and start showing up.

    You’ll hear:đŸŸ What it’s like to live 24/7 with a dog who couldn’t care less about you
    đŸŸ How I stopped chasing connection and started earning it
    đŸŸ Why being invited into your dog’s world is more powerful than any command or cue

    This one’s for every dog lover who’s ever felt ignored, invisible, or unimportant in their dog’s eyes. You are not alone — and this story might just change how you see your dog forever.

    Next Steps:
    Not sure what kind of dog you’re living with? Start by taking the Dogonalityℱ Quiz to better understand your dog’s unique personality and how to connect on their terms.
    👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz

    Music credit: Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com

  • 86 | How to Be the Leader Your Dog Needs (without Treats or Tricks)

    86 | How to Be the Leader Your Dog Needs (without Treats or Tricks)

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover,

    If you’ve ever wondered, “Why isn’t my dog listening?” or felt like you’re doing all the right things but still struggling to connect—this episode is for you.

    Because treats and tricks can only take you so far.

    The leadership style your dog really needs isn’t about obedience cues or bribery. It’s about trust, relevance, and understanding who they are at their core.

    And that’s where your dog’s Dogonality comes in.

    In this episode, I’m breaking down how to lead your dog based on their unique personality—without treats or gimmicks—just trust, understanding, and a whole lot of love. You’ll learn:
    đŸŸ How to lead a Sensitive Soul (RB/I) who needs safety and gentle encouragement.
    đŸŸ Why an Overwhelmed Runner (RB/E-U) needs you to handle threats and create calm.
    đŸŸ How to become part of the adventure for a Fearless Explorer (RB/E-C).
    đŸŸ How to guide a Life of the Party (LB/E) with structured fun.
    đŸŸ And why a Calm Thinker (LB/I) needs to know why you're worth following.

    Because leadership isn’t about controlling your dog. It’s about meeting them where they are and showing them you’re worth trusting, every single day.

    I hope you enjoy this episode!

    ❀ Tracy

    P.S. Next Steps:
    Not sure what kind of leadership your dog needs? The Dogonality Quiz will show you exactly how they’re wired—so you can lead with calm confidence and build a bond that feels natural and effortless. 👉 ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠

    And once you’ve taken the quiz, join the Living Beyond Obedience Group and share your results. Let’s celebrate those lightbulb moments together!

    đŸŽ” Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

  • 85 | 3 Signs You Are Misunderstanding Your Dog and How to Fix it

    85 | 3 Signs You Are Misunderstanding Your Dog and How to Fix it

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover,

    Have you ever looked at your dog and thought, “Why are you doing that?” Maybe they freeze, ignore you, or even react in ways that leave you feeling frustrated or confused. It’s easy to assume they’re being stubborn, ignoring you, or just plain difficult. But what if it’s none of those things?

    What if it’s a misunderstanding?

    In this episode, I’m sharing the 3 most common signs that you might be misunderstanding your dog—and how a simple shift in perspective can change everything. We’ll talk about:
    đŸŸ Why some dogs seem “stubborn,” when really, they’re feeling confused or unsure.
    đŸŸ Why your dog might be ignoring you—and why it’s not personal.
    đŸŸ How stress and uncertainty can look like aggression (and what to do instead).

    Because the truth is, every behavior is communication. And when you know how to really listen—through the lens of your dog’s Dogonality—you stop trying to fix behavior, and you start building trust.

    I hope you enjoy this episode!

    ❀ Tracy

    P.S. Next Steps:
    Want to know how your dog naturally thinks, reacts, and connects? Take the Dogonality Quiz and discover how they’re wired—so you can meet them where they are and build a bond that feels easy and effortless. 👉 ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠

    And once you’ve got your results, join the Living Beyond Obedience Group and share what you’ve learned. Let’s celebrate those lightbulb moments together!

    đŸŽ” Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

  • 84 | The Key to a Beautiful Bond with Your Dog Starts Here:

    84 | The Key to a Beautiful Bond with Your Dog Starts Here:

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover! đŸŸ

    You love your dog—that part is easy. But the deep, beautiful bond where you just get each other? That kind of connection doesn’t happen by chance. It happens when you understand who your dog really is at their core.

    Because here’s the truth: love is simple, but understanding is transformational.

    In this episode, we’re digging deep into what it really takes to build a bond that feels effortless and unshakable. We’ll explore:

    đŸŸ Why training, treats, and time aren’t enough to create true connection.đŸŸ How to move beyond surface-level bonding and connect on a deeper level.đŸŸ How understanding your dog’s unique Dogonality can change everything—because when you know how your dog is wired, you stop fighting against their instincts and start working with them.đŸŸ Why understanding your dog's Dogonality is the first step in learning how to be the reason and the reward in their life—creating a bond built on trust, leadership, and true connection.

    💡 Whether your dog is a Sensitive Soul (RB/I), a Fearless Explorer (RB/E-C), or the Life of the Party (LB/E), this episode will help you uncover what they really need to feel safe, understood, and deeply connected to you.

    🎯 Next Steps:
    Not sure how your dog is wired? That’s exactly why I created the Dogonality Quiz—to help you understand your dog’s unique personality and how to build a bond based on true trust and understanding. 👉 ⁠www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz⁠

    đŸŸ And once you’ve taken the quiz, join the conversation in the Living Beyond Obedience Group and share your results! Let’s talk about how understanding your dog changes everything.

    Because when you truly see your dog for who they are, you don’t just change their world—you change yours too.

    ✹ Hope you enjoy this episode!

    Tracy

    đŸŽ” Music Credit: Shawn Trotter – shawntrotter.com

  • 83 | Is Your Dog Ignoring You or Are You Ignoring Your Dog?

    83 | Is Your Dog Ignoring You or Are You Ignoring Your Dog?

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover!

    Ever feel like your dog is straight-up ignoring you? You call their name, and they keep sniffing. You ask them to sit, and they stare off into the distance. Frustrating, right? But what if the problem isn’t that they’re ignoring you
 what if it’s that you’re ignoring who they really are?

    In this episode, we’re diving deep into how understanding your dog’s unique personality is the key to better communication and a stronger bond. Because once you know why your dog behaves the way they do, you can stop fighting against their instincts and start working with them.

    We’ll explore:
    đŸŸ Why some dogs seem to ignore commands (and why it's not personal)
    đŸŸ How your dog’s Dogonality shapes how they respond to you
    đŸŸ Simple ways to become more relevant to your dog and finally get their attention

    🎯 Next Steps:
    Want to know how your dog is really wired? Take the Dogonality Quiz and discover how to work with your dog’s natural instincts, not against them! 👉 www.beyondobedience.ca/quiz

    đŸŸ And don’t forget to post your quiz results in the Living Beyond Obedience Group—I’d love to hear what Dogonality your dog falls into and how it’s changing the way you see them!

    Comment, Share & Enjoy!

    See you next time!

    Tracy

    Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the music. Check out more at www.shawntrotter.com.

  • 82 | Your Dog Questions, Answered! A Special Q&A Episode

    82 | Your Dog Questions, Answered! A Special Q&A Episode

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover~

    Got dog behavior questions?

    We’ve got answers! đŸŽ€đŸŸ

    In this special Q&A episode, (Paisley is jumping on the mic with us today!) we tackle some of the most common (and quirky) dog training questions from our Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group and past bootcamps.

    We’re diving into questions like:

    ✅ What are subtle but powerful ways to boost my dog’s confidence at home?
    ✅ How do I help my dog feel safe and calm around cars?
    ✅ My dog got spooked by a loud noise—now they’re terrified of certain areas. What should I do?
    ✅ How do I handle my reactive dog when a threat comes out of nowhere?
    ✅ Is my dog really protecting me, or is there something else going on with their barking at visitors?

    And much more! If you’ve ever wondered, “Am I handling this the right way?”—this episode is for you.

    Hope you enjoy this one!

    Tracy and Paisley

    🎙 Got a question for a future Q&A? Drop it in the free Living Beyond Obedience Facebook group or message us!

    đŸŽ” Music Credit: Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the music. Check out more of his work at shawntrotter.com.

  • 81 | Why Sit? – When Obedience Lets Your Dog Down

    81 | Why Sit? – When Obedience Lets Your Dog Down

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover,

    “Sit!” It’s the go-to command, the first thing we teach our dogs, the magic word that’s supposed to mean they’re well-behaved and under control. But have you ever stopped to ask why we make our dogs sit in certain situations?

    What if, in some cases, asking your dog to sit is actually making them feel more insecure?

    Today, we’re diving into why obedience isn’t always the answer—and how sometimes, the very thing we think is helping is actually working against our dogs.

    In this episode, we’ll talk about:

    Why obedience should serve a purpose—not just be about compliance.How forcing a sit in uncomfortable situations might be making your dog feel more trapped.The way a leash can interfere with your dog’s natural communication.What to do instead—so your dog feels safe, understood, and supported.

    Next time you instinctively tell your dog to sit, take a moment and ask yourself why. Are you helping your dog feel more secure, or are you unknowingly making them more vulnerable?

    Let’s shift the way we think about obedience—because a “good dog” isn’t just an obedient one, but a confident one.

    See you inside the episode!

    đŸŸ Tracy

    Next Steps

    Want to chat more about this? Send me a DM or join my free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience to dive deeper into trust-based training.

    Need one-on-one support? Book a coaching call and let’s create a plan that works for you and your dog.

    đŸŽ” Special thanks to Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com for the music!

  • 80 | Stranger Danger! Helping Your Nervous Dog Feel Safe Around House Guests

    80 | Stranger Danger! Helping Your Nervous Dog Feel Safe Around House Guests

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover,

    Does the thought of having guests over send you into a panic—not because of your guests, but because of your dog? Maybe they bark like a maniac, hide under the table, or pace like they’re planning an escape route. Sound familiar? You’re not alone.

    Let's talk about what we can do to set our dog up for success and actually enjoy having friends over again.

    In this episode, we’ll dive into:

    Why dogs struggle with house guests (hint: it’s not just “stranger danger”).How to set your dog up for success before guests arrive.The do’s and don’ts of first greetings (spoiler: no talking, no forcing, just space!).What to do if your dog freaks out when a guest stands up.How to build your dog’s confidence over time so they don’t just tolerate guests, but actually feel safe around them.

    This approach is part of my Build Your Brave Protocols inside the Fearful Dog Fearless Framework program. When you join, we can create a step-by-step plan specifically for your dog and your home—because no two dogs are the same!

    So take a deep breath, and let’s talk about how to make having guests over a whole lot less stressful—for both of you.

    See you inside the episode!

    đŸŸ Tracy

    Next Steps

    Want more guidance? Check out my Fearless Framework program to break the fear cycle and build trust in a way that feels natural and stress-free. Join here.

    Got questions or need support? Join my free Facebook group Living Beyond Obedience for real talk and practical training tips.

    đŸŽ” Special thanks to Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com for the music!

  • 79 | Should I Stay or Should I Go? Making the Best Travel Decision for Your Dog

    79 | Should I Stay or Should I Go? Making the Best Travel Decision for Your Dog

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover~

    Spring break is here, and while you're planning your getaway, your dog might not be as excited about the change! đŸŸ Should they come along for the adventure, or would they be happier staying home with a sitter or at a boarding facility? The key to making the right decision lies in the Three Stages of Trust-Building from the Fearless Framework.

    In this episode, we’ll help you determine:

    ✅ The three stages of trust-building and how they affect travel readiness
    ✅ Why trust, not obedience, determines your dog’s ability to handle new experiences
    ✅ How to evaluate sitters and boarding facilities to match your dog’s needs
    ✅ The one question every dog owner should ask: Will I actually enjoy this trip if my dog isn’t comfortable?

    No one wants a vacation filled with stress and worry—for you or your dog! Tune in to learn how to set both of you up for success.

    🎙 Need help deciding? Book a Calm & Confident Coaching Call where I’ll help you create a stress-free travel or sitter plan based on YOUR dog’s trust level.

    đŸŽ” Music Credit: Special thanks to Shawn Trotter for the music. Check out more of his work at shawntrotter.com.

  • 78 | Is Letting Your Dog on The Furniture a Mistake?

    78 | Is Letting Your Dog on The Furniture a Mistake?

    · Beyond Obedience | Dog Training, Dog Behaviour Training, Scared Dogs, Reactive Dogs

    Hey Dog Lover,

    Some people say, “Never let your dog on the couch—it’ll ruin your leadership!”
    Others say, “My dog is my baby! Of course, they’re on the furniture!”
    Me? I say, have your cake and eat it too! 🍰đŸ’Ș

    But here’s the thing—it’s not just about saying yes or no to dogs on the furniture. It’s about understanding how dogs use space, levels, and positioning as part of their communication.

    In this episode, we’re digging into:

    Why the real question isn’t “Can my dog be on the couch?” but “Do I understand what access to space means to a dog?”How dogs use height and positioning as part of their natural social dynamics.Why a no-furniture rule can be a helpful leadership reset (and why it doesn’t have to be forever).How to create clear and consistent rules so your dog doesn’t feel entitled to the couch—but invited when it makes sense.

    This isn’t about dominance or control. It’s about clarity, structure, and making intentional choices that support leadership, trust, and a peaceful home.

    So whether your couch is already covered in dog hair or you're wondering if your dog’s furniture privileges are affecting their mindset, this episode is for you.

    See you inside!

    đŸŸ Tracy

    Next Steps

    Feeling unsure about your leadership and boundaries with your dog? Let’s work through it together. Book a Calm & Confident Coaching Call and get personalized guidance for you and your pup.

    đŸŽ” Special thanks to Shawn Trotter of shawntrotter.com for the music!

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