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Hi, I'm Dr. Stan Steindl and welcome back to Compassion in a T-Shirt. This week, I’m thrilled to introduce Dr. Jodi Richardson, a leading expert in understanding and managing anxiety. In this episode, we dive deep into what anxiety is, common misconceptions, and how it differs from fear. Jodi brings her professional expertise as a speaker, educator, and author, along with her personal lived experience, to offer valuable insights and practical strategies for managing anxiety in children, parents, and in the workplace. Join us for an engaging and compassionate conversation filled with wisdom and actionable advice.
TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Introduction and Movember Reminder
00:19 Meet Dr. Jody Richardson: Anxiety Expert
02:19 Understanding Anxiety: Fear vs. Anxiety
04:33 Misconceptions About Anxiety
10:13 Anxiety in Children: Personal Stories and Strategies
15:55 Parental Anxiety and Co-Regulation
21:43 Managing Anger and Anxiety
34:55 Expressing Emotions Through Physical Activities
36:01 Addressing Anxiety in Workplaces and Schools
38:49 Busting Myths About Happiness
50:46 The Importance of Self-Compassion
55:21 A Personal Story of Self-Compassion
59:28 Reflections on Parenting and Emotional Support
01:03:37 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Dr Jodi Richardson's website
https://drjodirichardson.com/
Anxious Kids: How children can turn their anxiety into resilience (Grose and Richardson, 2019)
https://www.amazon.com.au/Anxious-Kids-children-anxiety-resilience/dp/0143794957
Anxious Mums: How mums can turn their anxiety into strength (Richardson, 2020)
https://www.amazon.com.au/Anxious-Mums-their-anxiety-strength/dp/1760897744/ref=sr_1_fkmr2_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.3REA85G_ANixZQ3f_IY4WroqFHfpOkLPUqX3q5mkNFzK5HFu41sfkRlA3nnDL3zn5nBgMIBSk-CCmvxLi2pPiYiQnr3qkIF2HGcmvBRt5p4.irtHfQLNAhzb5sPX06QOxx6Iw7E0LzvqXS4m9wBIlvI&dib_tag=se&keywords=anxious+mums+richardson&qid=1732260644&sr=8-1-fkmr2
Well, Hello Anxiety: The Podcast
https://drjodirichardson.com/podcast/
Stan Steindl on Well, Hello Anxiety
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/becoming-our-own-safe-haven-with-dr-stan-steindl/id1585382774?i=1000662412620
If you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here: https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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[This episode with Dr Wendy Wood is from a YouTube episode aired on 28 June 2024. It is released here as a podcast to compliment the episode with Dr Kerensa Hocken, which discussed Compassion Focused Therapy in forensice populations, released last Friday (15 November 2024).]
One of my most watched videos is WHAT IS COMPASSION FOCUSED THERAPY, from back in 2020! In this video, I speak with Dr Wendy Wood from The Compassionate Mind Foundation (CMF) about LEARNING COMPASSION FOCUSED THERAPY.
Wendy has a long history teaching and supervising psychotherapy and counselling, and has helped create the DIPLOMA IN COMPASSION FOCUSED THERAPY at CMF. And the diploma course beautifully integrates CFT principles into its admissions, tuition and assessment, so that people can thrive and become part of a supportive community.
She mentions CFT and chair work, trauma, forensic populations, running CFT in groups, masterclasses, case studies, supervision and the role for deliberate practice. For anyone interested in becoming a CFT therapist, the diploma course at CMF is definitely a great way to go!
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Compassionate Mind Foundation
https://www.compassionatemind.co.uk/
If you would like to learn more about Compassion Focused Therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here:
https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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"CFT helps us understand the evolved function of harmfulness...it's not our fault that we have these drives and tendencies to harm, but it is our responsibility."
Today, I'm thrilled to have Dr. Karensa Hocken with me, a forensic psychologist who has spent over 20 years working with people convicted of serious offences. She’s a leader in her field, and today we dive into the challenging topic of working compassionately with individuals who have caused serious harm. We discuss the origins of human harmfulness, the role of CFT (Compassion Focused Therapy) in forensic work, and the importance of empathy, sympathy, and creating safer environments. Get ready for an impactful conversation on complexity, compassion, and change in forensic settings.
TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Introduction and Movember Update
00:29 Introducing Dr. Karensa Hocken
02:28 Understanding Human Harmfulness
08:06 The Role of Evolution in Harmfulness
16:20 Forensic Work and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)
22:46 Shame, Guilt, and Compassion in Forensic Populations
29:35 Applying CFT in Forensic Settings
32:47 Building Compassion in Forensic Therapy
33:25 Risk Assessment and Compassion in CFT
34:59 Creating Compassionate Cultures in Prisons
39:04 Understanding Community Reactions to Harmfulness
45:58 Empathy and Sympathy in Forensic Work
53:12 Challenges and Emotions arising as CFT progresses
58:52 Future Directions for CFT in Forensics
01:01:42 Resources and Connections for Forensic CFT
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Find the Compassionate Mind Foundation Special Interest Groups here:
https://www.compassionatemind.co.uk/resource/special-interest-groups
For more from Kerensa and her colleague Jon Taylor, speaking with Professor Paul Gilbert, go here:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KvYy_e4SEes
The Forensic Psychology Podcasts:
On Apple
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/the-forensic-psychology-podcast/id1533101974
On Spotify
https://open.spotify.com/show/6RkkZsEFg8xkooawuXe8En?si=cb0654f577c2442c
If you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here:
https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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[This episode with Dr Steve Hickman is from a YouTube episode aired on 1 March 2024. It is released here as a podcast to compliment the episode with Dr Daniel Ellenberg, which discussed men, masculinity and compassion, released last Friday (8 November 2024).]
Dr Steve Hickman is the former Executive Director of the non-profit Center for Mindful Self-Compassion, a Certified Mindful Self-Compassion teacher and trainer, and a Clinical Psychologist by training. He is also a Retired Associate Clinical Professor in the University of California at San Diego School of Medicine, as well as the Founding Director of the UC San Diego Center for Mindfulness. Here we chat about self-compassion and the Mindful Self-Compassion program, as well as self-compassion for men.
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Self-compassion for Dummies by Dr Steve Hickman
https://www.amazon.com.au/Self-Compassion-Dummies-Steven-Hickman/dp/1119796687
Dr Steve Hickman website
https://www.drstevenhickman.com
Center for Mindful Self-Compassion
https://centerformsc.org
If you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here:
https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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Join me in this episode of Compassion in a T-Shirt as I explore the intricate world of men and compassion with Dr. Daniel Ellenberg. Dr. Ellenberg, a leadership coach and psychotherapist, delves into the challenges and barriers men face in expressing vulnerability and developing self-compassion. With over 25 years of experience, he discusses traditional male roles, the impacts of shaming, and how compassion can transform relationships and improve mental health. Through personal anecdotes and rich discussion, learn how fostering compassion can create significant ripple effects in society.
TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Welcome and Introduction
00:30 Introducing Dr. Daniel Ellenberg
02:12 Daniel's Journey into Men's Emotional Wellbeing
05:14 The Impact of Traditional Masculine Roles
08:05 The Importance of Compassion and Self-Compassion
10:34 Challenges in Promoting Compassion Among Men
13:26 The Role of Vulnerability in Men's Mental Health
21:01 Revising Traditional Masculinity Paradigms
27:23 The Complexity of Competition and Vulnerability
30:53 How to Foster Compassion in Men and Boys
33:15 The Natural Movement Toward Growth
34:06 The Impact of Shaming on Boys and Men
35:19 Understanding Real Compassion
38:53 The Theory of Precarious Manhood
43:56 Cultural Differences in Compassion
51:38 The Ripple Effects of Compassionate Men
57:58 Defining Compassion and Love
01:00:43 Concluding Thoughts on Compassion
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Rewire Leadership
https://www.rewireleadership.com/daniel-ellenberg-phd
Strength With Heart
https://www.strengthwithheart.com/
Relationships at Work
https://www.relationshipsthatwork.com/
Lovers for Life
https://www.amazon.com.au/Lovers-Life-Judith-Bell/dp/0944031617
If you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here:
https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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men, masculinity, compassion, self-compassion, vulnerability, global compassion coalition, Rick Hansen
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[This episode with Dr Mats Hogmark is from a YouTube episode aired on 2 May 2021. It is released here as a podcast to compliment the episode with Brendan Murphy, which discussed empathy and related topics, released last Friday (1 November 2024).]
“Compassion brings light and it brings hope into the darkest of stories.”
Dr Mats Hogmark is a medical doctor specialising in general medicine at Darlana County Council in Sweden. He is also a motivational interviewing trainer and member of the Motivational Interviewing Network of Trainers (MINT). He runs training and seminars on motivational interviewing and communication skills with professionals in health care and social services.
Time Stamps:
3.43 Tell us a little bit about yourself, your work, your life.
6.50 What does your working week entail?
10.07 Feeling safe in the context of a longterm working relationship.
12.19 Sometimes you can form a relationship and create safeness quite quickly.
14.22 Fine tuning facial expressions, body posture and voice tone to express warmth, openness and empathy.
16.59 Carefully choosing what to say and what not to say to help create safeness.
19.06 Dividing the consultation into three parts: the patient's part, the doctor's part, and the mutual part at the end.
20.28 The patient's part involves: Ideas--Concerns--Expectations (ICE).
25.46 A compassionate conversation is a conversation between two experts.
30.37 Taking the lower place, elevating those who we are working with.
35.28 A compassionate outlook towards others, and towards oneself.
36.53 When the clinician's threat system is activated too.
39.27 Considering compassion fatigue or physician burnout.
40.42 How do you offer yourself compassion, how do you look after your self-care?
44.25 Compassion and self-compassion can involve joy.
46.52 A Carl Rogers quote.
48.17 A Bill Miller quote.
49.51 How can people find you or engage with you and your work?
51.03 Three tips for others making their way on their own compassionate journeys.
YouTube Link:
https://youtu.be/SrMs98VTC9U
Email:
Social Media:
Twitter @matshogmark
If you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here:
https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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Join Dr. Stan Steindl on 'Compassion in a T-Shirt' for an enlightening exploration of empathy, compassion, and their applied intricacies in therapeutic and daily settings. Featuring expert insights from Brendan Murphy, the episode delves into the multifaceted nature of empathy, including its positive impacts and challenges, the crucial role of eye contact in both digital and face-to-face interactions, and the ethical considerations of Motivational Interviewing. The discussion highlights the importance of self-awareness, the balance between empathy and self-protection, and the nuanced differences between empathy, sympathy, and compassion. Through personal stories and professional experiences, the conversation also touches on creating safe environments for trauma therapy and managing empathy to avoid burnout, offering practical advice for cultivating genuine, ethical, and effective empathetic connections.
TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Welcome and Introduction to Brendan Murphy
01:15 Diving into Empathy -- "feeling into"
03:02 The Complexities of Empathy
04:43 Empathy in Practice
06:37 The Darker Sides of Empathy
16:22 The Role of Eye Contact in Empathy
30:13 Empathy vs. Sympathy
35:26 Exploring Compassion and Toxic Compassion
36:41 Empathy Without Sympathy: The Empathic Torturer
38:59 Motivational Interviewing and Compassion
39:50 Boundaries in Motivational Interviewing
42:22 Ethics and Empathy in Therapy
43:29 The Dance of Empathy in Therapy
44:25 Empathy and Trauma: A Therapist's Perspective
53:42 The Dialectic of Empathy and Safety
57:44 Empathy in Daily Life and Personal Boundaries
01:06:27 The Joy and Pride in Empathy
01:11:22 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
TARGETED PLAYLIST:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Brendan Murphy's website
https://westernconsultancyservices.com/
If you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here:
https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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Empathy, motivational interviewing, psychotherapy, compassion, self-compassion, ethics, eye contact, non-verbal
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[This episode with Shay Addison and Lars Madsen is from a YouTube episode aired on 24 May 2024. It is released here as a podcast to compliment the episode with David Prescott, which discussed building safer societies, released last Saturday (26 October 2024).]
What is Schema Therapy? Are compassion and self-compassion a part of Schema Therapy? Is the Compassionate Self in Compassion Focused Therapy the same as, or a subset of, the Healthy Adult Mode in Schema Therapy?
Shay Addison is a psychologist and director of the Forensic + Clinical Psychology Centre in Brisbane Australia. She has been a psychologist for over 20 years and has worked in custodial and community corrections since the mid-90s, especially taking a schema therapy approach to her work.
Dr Lars Madsen is Clinical Director of the Forensic and Clinical Psychology Center and is an industry leader in forensic psychology, bringing schema therapy to forensic populations in his work as a therapist, clinical supervisor, and trainer.
Join Shay, Lars and myself as we discuss, "Is compassion a part of schema therapy?"
TARGETED PLAYLIST:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Forensic + Clinical Psychology Centre
https://psychclinic.com.au/
Course:
. Foundations of schema therapy for offending populations
. A hero's journey: The forensic schema therapy sessions
https://www.schematherapytrainingonline.com/courses/author/1152602
Facebook page:
https://www.facebook.com/fandcpc
Instagram page:
https://www.instagram.com/forensic.clinical.psychology/
Shay and Lars's podcast, along with Dr Rob Brockman
Beyond the Crime: A Psychological Analysis
https://podcasts.apple.com/au/podcast/beyond-the-crime-a-psychological-analysis/id1709409255
If you would like to learn more about Compassion Focused Therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here:
https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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Join me and my special guest David Prescott, LCSW, in an enlightening discussion about the evolution of compassionate approaches in sex offender treatment. Explore the integration of empathy and a therapeutic alliance in contemporary practices such as cognitive behavioral therapy, feedback-informed treatment, and motivational interviewing. Delve into the complexities and challenges faced by therapists, including dealing with societal reactions, stigmatisation, and maintaining professional boundaries. The conversation also highlights the importance of continuous learning and self-improvement, with insights into using client feedback and the impact of community-driven efforts to end sexual abuse and violence through organisations like Safer Societies.
TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Welcome and Introduction to David Prescott
01:49 Historical Approaches to Sex Offender Treatment
04:05 Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and Its Evolution
06:26 The Role of Empathy and Compassion in Therapy
12:11 Challenges and Advances in Treatment Approaches
18:41 Balancing Risk Assessment and Compassion
26:23 Public Perception and Framing the Issue
32:40 The Power of Empathy and Compassion
33:11 Challenges in Working with Perpetrators and Survivors
34:20 The Calling of Compassionate Work
35:21 Integrating Motivational Interviewing
39:11 Feedback Informed Treatment
41:26 The Importance of Client Feedback
50:26 Self-Care and Compassion Practices
56:35 Safer Societies and Final Thoughts
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
David Prescott's Website:
https://www.davidprescott.net/
Safer Societies Website:
https://safersociety.org/
Feedback-Informed Treatment in Clinical Practice: Reaching for Excellence (Prescott, Maeschalck & Miller, 2017)
https://www.amazon.com/Feedback-Informed-Treatment-Clinical-Practice-Excellence/dp/1433827743
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sex offender treatment, compassion, self-compassion, motivational interviewing, feedback informed treatment, Paul Gilbert, Scott Miller
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[This episode with Dr Nadine Levy is from a YouTube episode aired on 10 November 2023. It is released here as a podcast to compliment the episode with Dr Tony Fernando about his book, Life Hacks from the Buddha, released last Friday (18 October 2024).]
Dr Nadine Levy is Head of the Health and Social Wellbeing Program at the Nan Tien Institute, a private, not for profit, government accredited higher education provider offering courses in the areas of Buddhist studies, health and wellbeing.
Nadine holds a PhD in sociology and Honours degrees in both law and gender studies. She is a committed Buddhist practitioner and is currently completing teacher training in the Insight meditation tradition. As such, she has a particular interest in Buddhist sociology/a sociology of Buddhism and the ways these two paradigms can enliven each another.
She is a researcher with several publications, and is particularly interested in translating research for general dissemination and consumption through various news outlets, such as The Guardian.
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt
LINKS:
Nadine Levy at the Nan Tien Institute
https://www.nantien.edu.au/about-us/faculty-and-staff/nadine-levy/
Articles at The Guardian
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/nov/06/try-parenting-the-buddhist-way-drop-your-expectations-and-go-with-the-flow
https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2023/sep/11/if-you-want-to-live-a-life-rich-in-meaning-first-you-must-learn-how-to-do-nothing
The book Nadine mentions, The Five Invitations by Frank Ostaseski
https://fiveinvitations.com/
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In this insightful interview, Dr. Tony Fernando, psychiatrist, mindfulness expert, and author of Life Hacks from the Buddha: How to Be Calm and Content in a Chaotic World, shares 50 practical and easy-to-follow life hacks inspired by the Buddha’s timeless wisdom. We explore how these simple yet powerful techniques can help you quieten your mind, create peaceful environments, and find the calm you need to thrive in today’s hectic world.
Dr. Fernando also draws from his unique experience as a Buddhist monk, blending ancient teachings with modern science to offer a roadmap to contentment and well-being. Whether you’re new to mindfulness or looking for deeper insights, this conversation is full of valuable takeaways to help you cultivate inner peace, reduce stress, and leave a positive impression on those around you.
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Life Hacks from the Buddha: How to be Calm and Content in a Chaotic World
https://www.amazon.com.au/Life-Hacks-Buddha-content-chaotic/dp/1775542394
Buddhist philosophy and psychiatry | Tony Fernando (working at the intersection)
https://youtu.be/Ov9xtUCsQRQ
Helping doctors cultivate compassion | Tony Fernando (What are the blocks?)
https://youtu.be/4mGoEHCeZwo
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[This episode with Dr Kristin Neff is from a YouTube episode aired on 31 May 2024. It is released here as a podcast to compliment the episode with Dr Elijah Zimmerman from Center for Mindful Self-Compassion released last Saturday (12 October 2024).]
Dr Kristin Neff is a pioneer of our contemporary understanding and approaches to self-compassion. She defines THE THREE COMPONENTS OF SELF-COMPASSION: mindfulness, common humanity and self-kindness. She highlights THE SPACE BETWEEN SELF-ESTEEM AND SELF-COMPASSION and also distinguishes self-compassion from notions of self-pity. She offers an OVERVIEW OF THE MINDFUL SELF-COMPASSION PROGRAM (MSC), including adaptations and recent developments, and some TIPS: HOW TO PRACTICE SELF-COMPASSION. She offers hope of SELF-COMPASSION AS AN ANTIDOTE TO SHAME. She discusses how we might start OVERCOMING OBJECTIONS TO SELF-COMPASSION, the common fears, blocks and resistances to self-compassion, not least self-criticism, and WHY SELF-COMPASSION IS KEY TO MOTIVATION.
LINKS:
Dr Kristin Neff website
https://self-compassion.org/
Centre for Mindful Self-Compassion
https://centerformsc.org/
The Space Between Self-Esteem and Self Compassion: Kristin Neff at TEDxCentennialParkWomen (2.9 million views!)
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IvtZBUSplr4
Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself
https://www.amazon.com.au/Self-Compassion-Kristin-Neff/dp/1444738178/
Fierce Self-Compassion: How Women Can Harness Kindness to Speak Up, Claim Their Power, and Thrive
https://www.amazon.com.au/Fierce-Self-Compassion-Women-Stand-Claim/dp/0241448654/
Teaching the Mindful Self-Compassion Program: A Guide for Professionals
https://www.amazon.com.au/Teaching-Mindful-Self-Compassion-Program-Professionals/dp/1462538894/
The Mindful Self-Compassion Workbook: A Proven Way to Accept Yourself, Build Inner Strength, and Thrive
https://www.amazon.com.au/Mindful-Self-Compassion-Workbook-Yourself-Strength/dp/1462526780/
NEFF, K. (2003). Self-Compassion: An Alternative Conceptualization of a Healthy Attitude Toward Oneself. Self and Identity, 2(2), 85–101. https://doi.org/10.1080/15298860309032
NEFF, K. D. (2003). The Development and Validation of a Scale to Measure Self-Compassion. Self and Identity, 2(3), 223–250.
https://doi.org/10.1080/15298860309027
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Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
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Join me in this episode of Compassion in a T-shirt as I host Dr. Elijah Zimmerman, the Executive Director of the Center for Mindful Self Compassion (CMSC). Explore Dr. Zimmerman's journey in compassionate leadership and the impactful initiatives at CMSC. Discover how self-compassion can enhance community wellbeing and individual resilience, learn about the challenges faced in nonprofit organisations, and the role of self-compassion in leadership and psychotherapy. Dr. Zimmerman shares his insights on maintaining openness, mindfulness, and providing feedback for personal and professional growth.
TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Welcome and Introduction to Dr. Elijah Zimmerman
01:40 Elijah's Leadership Journey and Core Values
04:56 The Role of Self-Compassion in Leadership
09:34 Daily Practices and Challenges in Leadership
12:22 Handling Feedback and Workplace Dynamics
19:12 Compassion in Nonprofit Organizations
28:47 CMSC's Initiatives and Future Directions
43:11 The Importance of Self-Compassion in Modern Challenges
49:47 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
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Center for Mindful Self-Compassion
https://centerformsc.org/
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[This episode with Dr Syd Hiskey is from a YouTube episode aired on 21 February 2021. It is released here as a podcast to compliment the episode with Dr Neil Clapton released last Saturday (5 October 2024).]
Fierce compassion, radically embodied compassion, and drawing on martial arts to practice stability, groundedness, flexibility and distress tolerance for therapists.
Dr Syd Hiskey has an academic background in trauma psychology and more recently compassion based therapeutic approaches. He has worked in the NHS as a Consultant Clinical Psychologist, with adult and older adult clients in secondary and tertiary mental health settings in North Essex (UK). He is currently in full-time private practice.
He has practised a wide range of martial arts for the last two decades, originally focusing on Wing Chun Kung Fu (in which he has a black sash) and Mixed Self Defence/Martial Arts (Hybrid Defence).
Time Stamps:
2.36 Tell us a bit about yourself, your work, your life.
12.25 Your journey into compassion and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)
20.33 How do you use Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT) in your work?
27.26 What are some of the biggest challenges working with Compassion
Focused Therapy (CFT)?
33.52 Fierce compassion and radically embodied compassion through
martial arts.
47.46 What are three tips you would offer others who are making their
way on their own compassionate journey?
51.15 How can people find you and engage with you and your work?
Websites:
https://www.sydhiskey.com/
https://www.fiercecompassionmartialarts.com/
Journal Articles:
Clapton, N. & Hiskey, S. (2020) Radically Embodied Compassion: The Potential Role of Traditional Martial Arts in Compassion Cultivation. Frontiers in Psychology, 10.3389/fpsyg.2020.555156, 1-5.
https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2020.555156/full
Hiskey, S. & Clapton, N. (2019) Rolling with the punches: The martial arts as a vehicle for personal and therapist self-development. Private Practice, September, 6-9.
Hiskey, S. & Clapton, N. (2019) The martial arts and embodied distress tolerance in psychological therapy. International Journal of Martial Arts, Volume 5, Article 4.
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In this episode of Compassion in a T-Shirt, I sit down (and stand up) with Dr. Neil Clapton, a UK-based clinical psychologist with a passion for radically embodied compassion.
Neil’s innovative approach takes compassion beyond the mental and emotional realms, connecting it with the physical body through martial arts.
He is the co-founder of Fierce Compassion Martial Arts, alongside Dr. Syd Hiskey, where they blend Compassion Focused Therapy with the discipline of martial arts, helping people channel emotions like anger into constructive, compassionate action.
In this conversation, we explore the power of embodiment in compassionate practice and how this can transform both therapy and daily life.
Tune in to learn about how compassion can be something we feel, think, and live physically through the body!
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Fierce Compassion Martial Arts website
https://www.fiercecompassionmartialarts.com/
Radically Embodied Compassion Training: Cultivating
Psychotherapist Courage, Distress Tolerance and Compassionate
Responsiveness via Traditional Martial Arts
https://journals.scholarpublishing.org/index.php/ASSRJ/article/view/16285
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[This episode with Dr Michelle Drapkin is from a recent YouTube episode aired on 15 March 2024. It is released here as a podcast to compliment the episode with Professor Bill Miller released last Friday (27 September 2024).]
Michelle L. Drapkin, PhD, ABPP, is a clinical psychologist who owns and operates the Cognitive Behavioral Therapy Center, and has worked in behavioral science for over twenty years.
She held various roles as a behavioral scientist in industry, including leading the development and deployment of behavior change interventions at Johnson & Johnson. She held a national motivational interviewing (MI) training position at the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA), and was on faculty at the University of Pennsylvania.
Dr Drapkin completed her PhD in clinical psychology from Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey; and joined the Motivational Interviewing Network of Trainers (MINT) in 2008. She has trained thousands of health care professionals and industry leaders in MI.
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
The Motivational Interviewing Path to Personal Change: The Essential Workbook for Creating the Life You Want (Drapkin, 2023).https://www.amazon.com.au/Motivational-Interviewing-Path-Personal-Change/dp/164848154X
Cognitive-Behavior Therapy (CBT) Center https://cbtcenterofcentralnj.com/
Michelle Drapkin on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelledrapkin/
If you would like to learn more about Compassion Focused Therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here: https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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In this enlightening episode of Compassion in a T-Shirt, I have the privilege of sitting down with Professor Bill Miller, co-founder of Motivational Interviewing and Emeritus Distinguished Professor of Psychology and Psychiatry at the University of New Mexico, to explore his profound new book, 8 Ways to Hope: Charting a Path Through Uncertain Times.
Together, we dive deep into the eight facets of hope—desire, probability, possibility, optimism, trust, meaning and purpose, perseverance, and hope beyond hope—while also examining the delicate balance between hope and fear, and the choice to hold onto hope even in the face of despair.
Professor Miller shares timeless wisdom, backed by science, as well as poetry and quotes, that illuminate the essence of hope and its power to transform lives. We also tackle the concept of false hope, and what it means to cultivate a hope that is both realistic and enduring. This conversation offers rich insights for anyone seeking hope, purpose, and compassion in their journey. Oh yes, we do also speak about compassion!
Join us for a thought-provoking, soulful discussion that will leave you inspired and uplifted...and, dare I say, hopeful!
TARGETED PLAYLIST:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Professor Bill Miller's website: https://williamrmiller.net/
Professor Bill Miller's books and resources: https://williamrmiller.net/books-and-resources/
8 Ways to Hope: Charting a Path Through Uncertain Times (Miller, 2024): https://www.amazon.com/Ways-Hope-Charting-through-Uncertain/dp/146255492X
If you would like to learn more about compassion focused therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here: https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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[This episode with Professor James Doty is from a recent YouTube episode aired on 19 April 2024. This was a highly popular episode and one not to be missed! It compliments the episode with Professor Rhonda Magee from last Friday, 20 September 2024, both guests being San Franciscans.]
James R. Doty, M.D., is a clinical professor of neurosurgery at Stanford University and founder and director of the Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education (CCARE). He is the author of the bestselling memoir/self-help book called Into the Magic Shop: A Neurosurgeon's Quest to Discover the Mysteries of the Brain and the Secrets of the Heart. He is just about to publish his second book, Mind Magic: The Neuroscience of Manifestation and How it Changes Everything, which is the main topic of today's episode.
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shit: In Session
LINKS:
Mind Magic: The Neuroscience of Manifestation and How it Changes Everything (Doty, 2024)
https://www.amazon.com.au/Mind-Magic-Neuroscience-Manifestation-Everything/dp/1399710966
Into the Magic Shop: A Neurosurgeon's Quest to Discover the Mysteries of the Brain and the Secrets of the Heart
https://www.amazon.com.au/Into-Magic-Shop-James-Doty/dp/0399183647
Happi, a virtual mental health coach
https://www.happi.ai/
Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education (CCARE)
https://ccare.stanford.edu/
If you would like to learn more about Compassion Focused Therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here: https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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I have the great honour of welcoming Professor Rhonda McGee, a pioneering voice in mindfulness, compassion, and social justice, to discuss how mindfulness can be a tool for social change.
In this enlightening conversation, we explore the importance of care and compassion, the inner work required to address racism and inequality, and the ways mindfulness can transform individuals and communities.
Professor McGee, author of 'The Inner Work of Racial Justice,' shares insights on how traditional ideas about identity and hyper-individualisation can cause suffering, and emphasises the need for interconnectedness.
We also discuss systemic issues and the historical context of racism, along with the role of mindfulness and compassion practices in bringing awareness and fostering courage to address these deep-rooted challenges.
TIME STAMPS:
00:00 Introduction to Compassion in a T-Shirt
00:14 Meet Professor Rhonda McGee
00:44 The Intersection of Mindfulness, Compassion, and Social Justice
01:54 Exploring Conventional Ideas and Identity
09:37 Understanding Racism, Inequality, and Privilege
14:38 The Historical Context of Racism in the United States
30:08 The Role of Mindfulness in Addressing Social Injustice
45:42 The Importance of Inner Work and Self-Compassion
53:44 Ethics, Morality, and Compassion in Practice
01:01:46 Upcoming Projects and Final Thoughts
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Professor Rhonda Magee's website
https://rhondavmagee.com/ Professor
Rhonda Magee at University of San Francisco
https://www.usfca.edu/law/faculty/rhonda-magee
The Inner Work of Racial Justice: Healing Ourselves and Transforming Our Communities Through Mindfulness
https://www.amazon.com.au/Inner-Work-Racial-Justice-Transforming/dp/059308392X
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[This episode with Dr Aaron Frost is from a recent YouTube episode that aired on 5 July 2024. It is released here as a podcast to compliment the episode with Dr Scott Miller released last Friday (dated 13 September 2024)]
DELIBERATE PRACTICE helps us ACHIEVE MASTERY IN ANYTHING...including compassion! Dr Aaron Frost talks here about a very particular aspect to compassionate action: psychotherapy. And even here, we need to know how to PRACTICE EFFECTIVELY.
In this conversation, Aaron explains WHAT IS DELIBERATE PRACTICE, as well as the four pillars of excellence for psychotherapists: focusing on the client, the therapist, the practice and the business.
Routine outcome measurement, session feedback from clients, reducing client dropout, focusing on core therapist skills...all of this gets discussed in a conversation that emphasises that LEARNING TO LEARN IS OUR MOST IMPORTANT SKILL.
And it is just as important when we are trying to cultivate a more compassionate life.
TARGETED PLAYLIST LINK:
Compassion in a T-Shirt: In Session
LINKS:
Buy the book Creating Impact: The Four Pillars of Private Psychology Practice
https://creatingimpact.com.au/
Get in touch with Dr Aaron Frost
https://www.benchmarksteps.com/
Aaron on LinkedIn
https://www.linkedin.com/in/aaronfrostphd/
Aaron on Facebook
https://www.facebook.com/DrAaronFrost
If you would like to learn more about Compassion Focused Therapy, you can find Dr Stan Steindl's book The Gifts of Compassion here: https://www.amazon.com.au/Gifts-Compassion-understand-overcome-suffering/dp/1925644480
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