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Episode 160 - Empowering Dads - How to Thrive Amid Overwhelm by Doing What You Can with What You Have
Theodore Roosevelt's quote "Do what you can, with what you have, where you are" offers powerful encouragement for overwhelmed dads struggling to meet expectations. Let's break it down into three distinct points:
Do What You Can
As a dad, you might feel like you're not doing enough, but remember that your best effort is all that matters. Focus on what's within your control and take small steps each day. Don't compare yourself to others or unrealistic standards. Your children value your presence and effort more than perfection
With What You Have
You may feel limited by your resources, time, or energy. However, it's crucial to work with what's available to you right now. Use your current skills, knowledge, and means to support your family. Remember, it's not about having everything figured out, but about making the most of what you posses
Where You Are
Your current situation, whether it's your job, location, or family dynamics, is your starting point. Instead of wishing for different circumstances, embrace your present reality and make the best of it. Your ability to adapt and thrive in your current environment sets a powerful example for your children
Remember, you're not alone in feeling overwhelmed.
Many dads struggle with similar challenges. By focusing on doing your best with your available resources in your current situation, you're already making a significant positive impact on your family. Your efforts, no matter how small they may seem, are valuable and appreciated.
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Episode 159 - Navigating Fatherhood, Supporting Your Adult Children in Their New Lives
As fathers of adult children who have moved out and started their own families, it's important to understand how to navigate this new phase of parenting. Here's a summary of key points for dads:
Respect Boundaries and IndependenceRecognize that your adult children are starting their own family unit with their own decisions and traditions.Avoid showing up uninvited or expecting to have the same level of involvement as before.Allow them to make their own choices about where to live, work, and how to celebrate holidays.
Offer Support Without OversteppingMake yourself available for advice and support, but only when invited.Respect their parenting choices and household rules, even if they differ from yours.Be open to learning about their new family dynamics and priorities.
Maintain CommunicationKeep in touch regularly, but don't expect daily updates.Show interest in their lives without being intrusive.Use active listening skills and open-ended questions to foster meaningful conversations.
Adapt Your RoleTransition from an authority figure to more of a mentor or friend.Focus on building an adult-to-adult relationship with your children.Be prepared to step back and let them handle their own challenges.
Self-Care and Personal GrowthDevelop your own interests and relationships outside of your role as a parent.Seek support from other fathers going through similar transitions.Consider joining support groups or counseling if you're struggling with the change.
Grandparenting (if applicable)Respect the parenting decisions of your adult children regarding their own kids.Offer to help with grandchildren, but always within the boundaries set by their parents.Focus on building positive relationships with grandchildren without undermining their parents' authority.Remember, this transition can be challenging for fathers, who may feel a loss of purpose or struggle with their changing role. It's normal to experience a range of emotions during this time. The key is to maintain a loving, supportive presence in your adult children's lives while respecting their independence and new family dynamics.
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Episode 158 - Freedom's Path, The Story of Salem Chapel and the Underground Railroad
Do you have a significant historical landmark in your community - have you spent time there? Well I did. I spent time at the last stop of the Underground Railroad, where black slaves seeking freedom found community, safety and the true freedom they desired. I had the honour to sit in this small chapel and to let the walls and the wood pews tell me about the history of this lighthouse of freedom.
WELCOME TO THE SALEM CHAPEL SANCTUARY OF HISTORYPeople of African descent began settling in the St. Catharines, Ontario area around 1788 and they brought their religion with them. Many were followers of Rev. John Wesley, the founder of Methodism. Wesley was a staunch abolitionist and advocated for the end of slavery and the slave trade.
Many of the freedom seekers that relocated to this area were also followers of Bishop Richard Allen, the founder of the African Methodist Episcopal Church (AMEC).
An AMEC Society was established in St. Catharines, Ontario between 1814 and 1820. A small chapel was built to serve the faithful in the Queenston Street area. When construction on the first Welland Canal began (1824-1829) in their neighbourhood, members of the Black community relocated to the under developed area of Geneva and North Streets. In 1835, they purchased property on North Street from abolitionist businessmen William Hamilton Merritt and Oliver Phelps to build a new AMEC. This church would be the second in St. Catharines and it would hold about 70 members.
In 1837, the St. Catharines group sent a petition to the AMEC New York Conference asking for pastoral care and to be received into the AMEC Connection. As a result of this action, AMEC missionaries stationed in Upper Canada were instructed to "regulate the existing Societies, organize more in other regions and also communicate that they shall be subject to the order of the Bishops, and amendable to the Annual Conference of the New York District." One year later, the New York AMEC Conference organized a church in St. Catharines with forty members and two local preachers. The church was named Bethel Chapel.
In less than a generation this Methodist group would out grow the second church. The Black community in
St. Catharines began to increase immediately after the US Congress passed the 1850 Fugitive Slave Act. Thousands of free and escaped African Americans living in the Northern States moved to various parts of Canada West to secure their safety and freedom. The new fugitive slave laws also caused thousands of fleeing enslaved African Americans to settle in Canada.
In order to accommodate the influx of new comers, the AMEC congregation in St. Catharines decided to build a larger church. Resident freedom seekers began to construct the third church in October 1853. On November 4, 1855 the new AMEC was opened and publicly "dedicated to the Service of Almighty God" by Bishop Daniel Alexander Payne.
In less than one year (September 1856), most of the Canadian AME Churches would separate from the AMEC Conference in the US and establish the British Methodist Episcopal Church (BMEC). This was partly due to the 1850 Fugitive Slave Act. Most of the AME Church members in Canada refused to attend Conference in the US because of the fugitive slave laws. They also wanted to identify themselves more closely with the country that granted them their freedom and equal rights.
As a Methodist meeting house, from its early beginnings the AMEC in St. Catharines hosted anti-slavery lectures, civic protests and provided shelter and aid to the newly arrived freedom seekers until the end of the Civil War.
The National Underground Railroad Network to Freedom Program announces new listings
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Episode 157 - Behind the Scenes of The Dad Space Podcast - Are You Curious About This Show
Happy December Dads! I take you behind the scenes of Dad Space, share a little about who listens to this show, and I thank all of you for listening!
A question for you - outside of the podcast, what can we do to build the Dad Space Community? Any Suggestions?
Head over to Dad Space and let me know!
Thanks for listening
Dave
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Episode 156 - Reflecting on Movember - Grow a Mo, Save a Bro - The Story and Impact of Movember
Movember: Changing the Face of Men's HealthEvery November, a global phenomenon emerges as men worldwide grow moustaches for a cause. This is Movember, a campaign that has revolutionized awareness and support for men's health issues, particularly prostate cancer, testicular cancer, and mental health challenges.The Mo-vement Begins
In 2003, a group of 30 friends in Melbourne, Australia, sparked a revolution with a simple dare: grow a moustache for 30 days. This playful challenge quickly evolved into a powerful campaign for men's health awareness. Today, Movember has spread to over 20 countries, engaging millions of participants.
Why Movember Matters
Men's health often takes a backseat, with societal norms discouraging open discussions about health issues. Movember breaks these barriers, advocating for:Early detection and diagnosis of male-specific cancersEffective treatments for prostate and testicular cancerMental health support and suicide prevention
Making an ImpactSince its inception, Movember has:Funded over 1,250 men's health projects globallyRaised millions for research and support servicesChanged perceptions about men's healthEncouraged open dialogue and reduced stigma
How to Get InvolvedGrow a Mo: Start November clean-shaven and grow your moustache all monthMove for Movember: Run or walk 60 miles over the monthHost an event: Organize a fundraiser or awareness eventMo Your Own Way: Create your own Movember challengeWhether you're growing a moustache, organizing an event, or simply spreading the word, every action contributes to improving men's health outcomes and encouraging healthier, longer lives.Join the movement and be part of the change. Visit Movember.com to learn more about how you can participate, donate, and help reshape the landscape of men's health.
https://movember.com/
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Episode 155 - Books for Dads - A Father's Story by Lionel Dahmer, Are You Guilty of Your Child's Choices?
"A Father's Story" by Lionel Dahmer details the harrowing experience of Lionel as he grapples with the shocking revelations about his son, Jeffrey Dahmer, who became infamous as a serial killer. The narrative is not just a recounting of Jeffrey's crimes, but a deep exploration of Lionel's feelings of sorrow, guilt, and confusion as he reflects on his role as a father. Throughout the book, Lionel acknowledges his failures in communication and connection with Jeffrey, which he believes contributed to his son's tragic path. He shares insights into the psychological aspects of their relationship, the challenges of parenting a troubled child, and the societal perceptions that followed Jeffrey's arrest. Ultimately, Lionel's memoir serves as both a personal catharsis and a poignant reminder of the complexities of fatherhood.Key Takeaways
The Complexity of Fatherhood: Lionel's story illustrates that fatherhood is fraught with challenges, particularly when faced with a child's troubling behavior. It emphasizes the importance of open communication and connection between parents and children.Reflection and Responsibility: The narrative encourages fathers to reflect on their parenting styles and recognize how their actions (or inactions) can impact their children's lives. Lionel's journey reveals that acknowledging one's shortcomings is vital for personal growth.The Importance of Support Systems: Lionel recognizes that external support—whether from friends, family, or professional help—is crucial in addressing serious issues within a family. This underscores the need for fathers to seek help when navigating difficult situations.Navigating Shame and Stigma: The book addresses the stigma associated with having a criminal child and how it affects familial relationships. It highlights the emotional toll this can take on parents, urging them to find ways to cope with public scrutiny while maintaining their dignity.https://a.co/d/4bhwbYh
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Episode 154 - Books For Dads - Girl Dad - Navigating Fatherhood With Daughters by David Hall
"Girl Dad: Navigating Fatherhood With Daughters" by David Hall is a comprehensive guide for fathers raising daughters. Here's a summary review of the book:Overview
This book serves as an essential resource for fathers looking to build strong, meaningful relationships with their daughters. It goes beyond typical parenting advice, offering insights into the unique dynamics of father-daughter bonds and providing practical strategies for navigating various stages of a daughter's life.Key Strengths
Comprehensive Coverage: The book addresses a wide range of topics, from early childhood to adolescence and beyond, giving fathers a holistic view of their role throughout their daughter's development4.
Practical Advice: Hall offers actionable tips and strategies for everyday situations, making the book immediately applicable to real-life parenting challenges
Emotional Intelligence Focus: The guide emphasizes understanding and navigating the emotional landscape of daughters, helping fathers foster emotional intelligence and strong communication
Adaptability: It provides insights on how the father-daughter relationship evolves over time, preparing dads for changing dynamics as their daughters grow
Empowerment Strategies: The book includes advice on building self-esteem and confidence in daughters, empowering them to pursue their goals
Balanced Perspective
While the book offers valuable insights specific to raising daughters, it also acknowledges that many parenting principles apply regardless of gender, especially in early childhood. However, it does highlight the unique considerations that come into play during puberty and adolescence4.Additional Features
The book includes a helpful reference section at the end, providing fathers with additional resources for further learning
"Girl Dad" is generally well-received as a valuable resource for fathers navigating the challenges and joys of raising daughters. It offers a mix of psychological insights, practical advice, and strategies for fostering strong father-daughter relationships. While it may contain some basic advice, its comprehensive approach and focus on emotional intelligence make it a worthwhile read for many fathers, both new and experienced.
https://a.co/d/fvHF9MF
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Episode 153 - A Thought For Dads - I Am Not an Option, Embracing My Value
I will never beg anyone to choose me.
If you think there’s something better out there, then go. I won’t hold you back. Life is too short to keep someone who is unsure, who wavers like the wind.
I believe in the freedom that comes from being true to one’s heart. If you stay, it will be because your heart commands it—not because I asked or because you have nowhere else to go.
I am not an option, nor am I a convenience.
I am a choice, and I demand that whoever stays by my side chooses me for who I am, not for who you wish I could be.
The door is always open.You are free to leave, but remember this: once that door closes, it stays shut.
I don’t offer second chances because I value what I have to give. If you can’t see that now, someone else will.
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Episode 152 - A Thought For Dads - The Villain's Perspective - Understanding My Journey
If I'm being honest, truly honest with myself, I'm tired.
Not the kind of tired that sleep can cure. No, this is deep.
This is the kind of tired that weighs on your soul. I'm so tired of going through the same struggles, tired of trying and nothing working out.I've given it everything I've got.
But here I am, drained. It's not about wanting to die. It's not that.
But if the gods were sitting right across from me, I'd look them in the eye and say, "I'm done. I've had enough. I can't carry this burden anymore."
But then I remind myself:I've felt this way before, and I'm still here. I've been broken, I've been tired, I've been shattered. And somehow, I keep going. So maybe, just maybe, there's still some fight left in me.
Maybe that's why I'm still standing.If someone from my past, or even my present, tells you a tale about me, one that casts me as the villain, believe them.
Go on.
But before you do, ask yourself this: What did they do to push me that far?
I know I'm the villain in some people's stories, and that doesn't bother me.
People have a way of twisting the truth or starting the story when it suits them, when I become the villain. But they forget what led to that moment.
I don't wake up and decide to harm anyone.
But if you betray me, if you cross me, I won't come after you with revenge.I don't need to. You'll lose access to me.
That is punishment enough. If that makes me the villain in your eyes, so be it. I stand where I stand. I make no apologies.
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Episode 151 - A Thought For Dads - The Power of Your Words, Stop Being A Joke
Never speak bad words to yourself, not even in jest.
Your mind and body don't know the difference between what is real and what you only think. Words have power, and this world is built on power.
If you want to change your fate, then change the way you speak to yourself.
The words you whisper and the thoughts you carry shape your destiny.
If you fill your mind with weakness, you will crumble.
But if you speak with strength, if you fill yourself with fire, the world will bend to your will.
It's a simple truth: you control your words, you control your fate.
When you master that, you can conquer your life.
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Episode 150 - What Eddie Van Halen and His Guitar Has Taught Me About Parenting
The comparison between guitar players and parenting highlights a common psychological response to perceived inadequacy:
Guitar Players:
Positive response: Use the better player as inspiration to improve.
Negative response:
Give up due to feeling overwhelmed by the skill gap.
Parenting:
Positive response:
Learn from experienced parents and strive to improve.
Negative response:
Abandon efforts or avoid parenting altogether due to feeling inadequate.
In both scenarios, the negative response stems from a fixed mindset, where individuals believe their abilities are static and unchangeable. This leads to avoiding challenges and giving up easily.
The key lesson is that both guitar playing and parenting are skills that can be developed with practice, patience, and persistence. Just as a novice guitarist can improve through dedication, a new or prospective father can learn and grow into the role of a good dad.
The challenge is to shift from a fixed mindset to a growth mindset, recognizing that abilities can be developed over time.
This approach encourages embracing challenges, learning from others, and persevering in the face of setbacks, ultimately leading to personal growth and success in both guitar playing and parenting.
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Episode 149 - A Thought For Dads - A Father's Dreams, A Child's Journey
The day you bury your father, it strikes you like a blade to the heart.
You've lost the one man who truly wanted you to rise higher than he ever did.
The man who silently prayed for your victories, even when you were too blind to see.
In the silence, you feel the weight of his hopes, his strength.
It wasn't just his own; it was yours, forged in the belief that you could be more than him.
And now, with him gone, you realize he was the reason you stood so strong all along.
But now, the weight is yours to carry.
His hopes don't die with him; they live in you.
The time for looking up to him has passed.
Now, it's time for others to look up to you, to rise and become what he always knew you could be.
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Episode 148 - A Thought For Dads - The Beautiful Chaos of Marriage
If your husband isn’t the most annoying person in your life, can he even be considered your husband?
Think about it. If he doesn’t drive you mad at least once a day, can you truly call it a marriage? A real husband knows how to push your buttons better than anyone else.
He leaves his socks everywhere, you end up taking out the trash, and he snores like a wild beast. But that’s part of the deal, isn’t it?
Those little annoyances are proof that he’s comfortable with you—no pretense, just his true, annoying self.And that’s where the love lies.
The man who makes you want to scream is also the one who makes you laugh until your sides hurt.
Without the madness, it’s not real. It’s in the chaos, the mess, and the everyday frustrations that you find genuine love.
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Episode 147 - A Thought For Dads - What to do if I Have Wronged You
Did you hurt someone recently? Read this!
If I've wronged you, come to me,
Speak your truth, let your words be free.
Don't hide behind a veil of silence,
Or turn away in quiet defiance.If I've caused you pain or sorrow,
Tell me now, don't wait for tomorrow.
I'm no stranger to imperfection,
My flaws are clear upon reflection.But I can't mend what I don't know,
Silence builds walls that only grow.
Fortresses of unspoken words,
Leaving feelings unheard, unheard.I won't let walls divide us two,
You mean more than you ever knew.
I'd rather face the hardest truth,
Than lose you to a silent ruth.I am here, ready to listen,
To make things right, to make them glisten.
Don't shut me out, let's face this together,
We'll mend what's broken, now and forever.For this is love in its purest form,
Not running from the gathering storm.
But standing strong through wind and rain,
Fighting to heal, to ease the pain.Speak your truth, I'll meet you there,
With open heart and tender care.
For in your words, we'll find a way,
To brighter skies and a new day.
how to approach a situation where someone has wronged you:
Open communication: Instead of remaining silent or avoiding the person who has wronged you, the text encourages direct communication. It emphasizes the importance of speaking up and expressing your feelings.
Face the issue: Rather than turning away or building emotional walls, confront the problem head-on. This approach prevents misunderstandings from festering and growing worse over time.
Express your pain: If someone has hurt you, let them know. The text suggests that it's important to articulate how their actions have affected you.
Give them a chance to make amends: By speaking up, you're giving the person who wronged you an opportunity to understand their mistake and potentially correct it.
Avoid silent treatment: The text strongly discourages using silence as a weapon, as it only creates barriers in relationships.
Choose reconciliation over distance: Instead of allowing the relationship to deteriorate, the text advocates for working through issues together.
Be ready to listen: While expressing your own feelings is important, be prepared to listen to the other person's perspective as well.
Prioritize the relationship: The text emphasizes the value of the relationship over the comfort of avoiding difficult conversations.
Approach with love and understanding: The overall tone suggests approaching the situation with care and a willingness to work things out, rather than with anger or resentment.
Seek resolution together: The text encourages facing and resolving issues as a team, strengthening the relationship in the process.
In essence, this approach promotes active, compassionate communication as a means of addressing and resolving conflicts, rather than allowing them to silently damage relationships.
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Episode 146 - Ron Nussbaum - Veteran, Father and Host of Construction Champions Podcast Answers 3 Dad Questions
Ron Nussbaum is a visionary leader in the construction industry, renowned for his expertise and innovative mindset. From his time in the Marine Corps to over a decade of experience in construction, he has become a driving force for change and growth.
Having worked in field operations, sales, leadership, and management, Ron comprehensively understands the construction industry's intricacies. He has demonstrated an unwavering commitment to driving positive change and fostering growth throughout his career.
As the Founder and CEO of BuilderComs, Ron leverages his knowledge and experiences to push the boundaries of the industry further. BuilderComs is focused on becoming the construction industry's leading customer communication software, transforming how builders and contractors communicate, document, and excel in their projects.
In addition to his extensive industry experience, Ron hosts the Construction Champions Podcast, where he brings together industry experts to share their insights, stories, and best practices. Through the podcast, Ron provides a valuable platform for discussions on innovation and the future of construction.
As a true construction champion, Ron Nussbaum is leaving an indelible mark on the industry. His visionary leadership, combined with his role as the host of the Construction Champions Podcast, positions him as a driving force in shaping the future of construction.
https://www.buildercoms.com/constructionchampionspodcast
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Episode 145 - Quoteable Moments - Inspiring Quotes to Encourage a Dad with William Shakespeare
"It is a wise father that knows his own child." — William Shakespeare
Shakespeare’s words remind fathers of the importance of understanding and connecting with their children on a deeper level
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Episode 144 - Quoteable Moments - Inspiring Quotes to Encourage a Dad with Craig D Lounsbrough
"A father is the man who, in the absence of a god, builds a tiny human that is part of him." — Craig D. Lounsbrough
This quote emphasizes the profound responsibility and honor of fatherhood, highlighting the unique bond between a father and his child
What is your legacy? How are you building your tiny human(s)?
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Episode 143 - Podcast Rewind - The Basics of Money with David Chudyk - Credit Cards, Real Estate and More Money Wisdom
David joins us to give us the BASICS of Money Management, including
- when to get your kids a credit card?
- renting or owning property - How Dave set up his son when he went off to university
- How we need to improve who we are and how doing so impacts our finances
More about our guest:
As a financial planner with offices in Greenville and Seneca, South Carolina, David has been helping clients to build wealth since 2005. David began his career in the financial services arena in 2002. In 2005, David had the opportunity to purchase an insurance and financial services agency in Seneca, SC, and later, in 2006 obtained the prestigious Certified Financial Planner designation. During his career, David has won numerous company and local awards.
David believes that it is his duty to shepherd his clients by empowering them to make the best possible financial decisions for the reasons that are important to them. By developing plans and strategies for business owners and individuals for all areas of financial planning, such as investment planning, risk management, tax planning, estate planning, etc., David believes that he can help his clients’ overall financial wellbeing.
link to David's episode https://youtu.be/HnFZsPC8slc
https://www.weeklywealthpodcast.com/
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Episode 142 - Quoteable Moments - Inspiring Quotes to Encourage a Dad with Clarence Budington Kelland
"My father didn’t tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it." — Clarence Budington Kelland
Time to stop saying "Do what I say and not what I do"
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Episode 141 - Podcast Rewind - Jim Burns, Empty Nesting and Living With Your Adult Children
Back on episode 15 of Dad Space, Jim Burns was an early guest and I really love our conversation around preparing for the empty nest and how to effectively parent your adult children.
Episode 15 - https://youtu.be/mLu4tLCbj5k
Book: Finding Joy in the Empty Nest: Discover Purpose and Passion in the Next Phase of Life
When the kids are gone, you can discover a richer, deeper, and more fulfilling life than you ever imagined!
Whether you've been looking forward to it or dreading it, the experience of coming home to an empty nest brings with it a well of emotions, realizations, and one gigantic, all-consuming thought: Now what? In Finding Joy in the Empty Nest, Jim Burns combines his personal experiences with his expertise as a family educator to help you navigate your new life as an empty nester and find joy in this new season of life.
Rather than offering shallow suggestions of hobbies you should take up, Burns encourages you to actively pursue a fresh start, reinvent yourself, and thrive. Backed by extensive research and filled with interviews with fellow empty nesters, this book equips you with practical advice and timeless principles, teaching you how to:
Change the relationship you once had with your children for the betterFace big issues--including aging parents, finances, and kids returning home--with confidenceRekindle your fire and purpose to live with passion day by dayAmid Burns' wealth of know-how, you'll uncover what may be the most important takeaway of all: the best is yet to come.
Praise for Finding Joy in the Empty Nest:
"Jim Burns is smart, witty, grounded, and immeasurably practical. Whether you're getting close to the second half of marriage or are in the thick of it, you won't want to miss out on this fantastic book."
--Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, bestselling authors of Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts
https://a.co/d/iZJqr3F
Book: Doing Life with Your Adult Children: Keep Your Mouth Shut and the Welcome Mat Out
Are you struggling to connect with your child now that they've left the nest? Are you feeling the tension and heartache as your relationship dynamic begins to change? In Doing Life with Your Adult Children, bestselling author and parenting expert Jim Burns provides practical advice and hopeful encouragement for navigating this tough yet rewarding transition.
If you've raised a child, you know that parenting doesn't stop when they turn eighteen. In many ways, your relationship gets even more complicated--your heart and your head are as involved as ever, but you can feel things shifting, whether your child lives under your roof or rarely stays in contact.
Doing Life with Your Adult Children helps you navigate this rich and challenging season of parenting. Speaking from his own personal and professional experience, Burns offers practical answers to the most common questions he's received over the years, including:
My child's choices are breaking my heart--where did I go wrong?Is it OK to give advice to my grown child?What's the difference between enabling and helping?What boundaries should I have if my child moves back home?What do I do when my child doesn't seem to be maturing into adulthood?How do I relate to my grown child's significant other?What does it mean to have healthy financial boundaries?How can I support - Laat meer zien
