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In this episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Jacob "Cheech" Cook, a dedicated father raising two sons—one autistic and one neurotypical.
Together, they dive into the unpredictable transitions that come with autism, from evolving communication challenges to sensory preferences and food aversions. Jacob shares his personal journey of recognizing the signs, navigating diagnosis, and learning how to adapt as his son, Beau, grows.
With humor, honesty, and real-life experiences, Mark and Jacob discuss everything from the importance of early diagnosis to the role of ABA therapy, as well as the unique sibling dynamic between Beau and his older brother.
They also touch on self-care for dads, the power of patience, and the surprising ways autistic children perceive the world. If you’re in the trenches of autism parenting, this episode offers both reassurance and practical insights.
TOPICS COVERED:
Recognizing early autism signs & the journey to diagnosisHow autism behaviors evolve over time (sensory habits, communication, food preferences)The unique sibling relationship between a neurotypical and autistic childStrategies for handling self-harm, meltdowns, and communication frustrationThe importance of self-care for autism dads and finding outlets like music, exercise, and hobbiesHow exposure to autism helps build empathy and understanding in siblings and the broader communityQUOTES:
"If there was a toy with a tag on it, he wouldn't play with the actual toy. He would flap the tag back and forth, back and forth." – Jacob Cook"He knows where we're at in town—if we pull up to the rec center, he knows right away. He’s all stoked, hands flapping, making a bunch of noise." – Jacob Cook"He’s the only kid I have that will drive for four hours and not even make a peep." – Jacob Cook"He used to eat everything—ramen, spaghetti, rice, cheeseburgers—and now I’m like, ‘Oh no, what happened?’" – Jacob Cook"If you're mad, they’re gonna probably be mad too. They feed off your energy." – Jacob CookDISCLAIMER:
Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
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Fatherhood is a journey—but raising a child on the autism spectrum adds layers of complexity, resilience, and growth that few understand. In this episode of Dads in Autismland, Mark de Grasse sits down with Patrick Hurley, a dedicated father balancing life with both a neurotypical and autistic son.
Patrick shares his raw and unfiltered experience—from the early signs of autism and the diagnosis process to navigating therapy, school transitions, and the emotional toll of meltdowns. He reflects on how shifting his mindset—from "fixing" his child to adapting his own approach—made all the difference.
This episode is for fathers who seek practical strategies, honest conversations, and a sense of solidarity in the autism parenting journey. Whether you're managing therapy decisions, advocating in the school system, or balancing your marriage and career with special needs parenting, this conversation offers insight, support, and real-world wisdom.
TOPICS COVERED
The emotional journey of an autism dad: From diagnosis to acceptanceHow therapy, structure, & school choices shape progressBalancing attention between neurotypical & autistic childrenThe reality of meltdowns and how to manage them effectivelyWhy self-care is not a luxury, but a necessity for autism dadsQUOTES
"I spent many years thinking there was something I could do to fix him. It took a long time for me to accept that he doesn’t need to be fixed—I needed to fix my approach toward him."
"At the end of the day, they just didn’t have the resources. And they admitted that. They said, ‘We can’t provide him the level of support he needs.’ That was a hard pill to swallow as a father."
"My son knows he has autism, but I don’t think he sees himself as different. He just sees himself as Patrick. And I think there’s something really powerful in that."
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In this heartfelt episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Scott Bisbee, a father of four, navigating the unique challenges of raising two children on the autism spectrum.
Scott opens up about his son Alex’s pathological demand avoidance (PDA), food struggles, and the unexpected journey of discovering his diagnosis during the pandemic. He also shares insights into supporting his younger son, who is also showing signs of autism, while balancing the needs of his neurotypical children.
Mark and Scott discuss coping strategies, sensory-friendly home adjustments, and the emotional toll on parents, including the impact on mental health and marriage.
From building a sensory room to understanding the ever-changing food preferences of autistic kids, Scott shares the raw realities of parenting with honesty, humor, and wisdom. Tune in for an authentic, unfiltered look at what it truly means to be a dad in Autismland.TOPICS
Discovering Autism at Home – How Scott first recognized Alex’s signs during the pandemicPathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) – What it is and how it impacts daily lifeSensory Rooms & Special Diets – Practical adaptations for a smoother routineMental Health for Autism Dads – Why self-care is a must, not a luxuryBalancing Neurodiverse & Neurotypical Kids – Avoiding the appearance of favoritismThe Struggles of Feeding an Autistic Child – Managing avoidant restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID)Finding Support & Respite – Why community matters for fathers of autistic kidsQUOTES
"I used to push myself nonstop—work, kids, everything—until I finally admitted: My mental health is more important than constantly grinding."
"We fought the healthcare system for support, but they act like autism is just kids who don’t talk. They don’t get that it’s so much more than that."
"My advice? Just do your best. Your other kids know you’re trying, even when it feels like you’re not doing enough."
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On this episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse dives deep into the critical role of self-development for fathers raising children on the autism spectrum.
As the lifelong caregiver of his 12-year-old son Damien—who is nonverbal and requires full-time care—Mark shares his journey of acceptance, physical transformation, and mental resilience.
He explores how fitness, faith, and self-care are not just personal luxuries but essential tools for sustaining a lifetime of caregiving.
From unconventional training methods to breathwork, meditation, and therapy, Mark reveals the strategies that have helped him prepare for the long road ahead.
Whether you’re struggling with burnout, feeling isolated, or simply looking for practical ways to stay strong for your family, this episode is packed with insights and encouragement to help you thrive—not just survive—as an autism dad.
TOPICS COVERED
- Accepting the reality of lifelong caregiving for a child with severe autism
- Why self-care isn’t selfish—it’s essential for long-term resilience
- Functional fitness: unconventional training for real-life strength
- Diet and inflammation: how nutrition impacts energy and well-being
- The power of faith, therapy, and meditation in navigating fatherhood
- Finding support through community, church, and self-improvement
- How to start small: one self-development habit at a time
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"Self-care isn’t selfish. It’s a requirement if you’re going to take care of your family for the long haul."
"I don’t train to look good—I train to be strong enough to care for my son, no matter how big he gets."
"It doesn’t matter which self-improvement habit you start with—just pick one and begin."
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Ever felt like you were handed a puzzle with no picture on the box?
In this unfiltered episode of Dads in Autismland, Corey Michael opens up about the rollercoaster of raising a neurodiverse family. With a five-year-old daughter on the spectrum, a wife with ADHD, and his own journey with Tourette’s, Corey knows firsthand what it’s like to piece together a life that doesn’t fit the traditional mold.
From recognizing Evie’s early autism signs to navigating the overwhelming world of therapies, school systems, and public perceptions, Corey shares what it's really like to parent with intention—while also processing his own childhood experiences. We tackle the emotional weight of diagnosis, the trial-and-error of finding what works, and the faith that keeps him grounded through it all.
This isn’t about fixing our kids—it’s about understanding them. It’s about embracing neurodiversity as a different brain style, not a disorder. And it’s about having the conversations most dads never get to have.
Listen now to hear how one father is turning uncertainty into empowerment, one day at a time.
TOPICS COVERED:
- Recognizing early autism signs in Evie and the journey to diagnosis
- How a neurodiverse family adapts and supports one another
- The role of faith in accepting and embracing neurodiversity
- Navigating ABA therapy, school accommodations, and daily challenges
- Managing emotions as a father and supporting a highly empathetic child
- How routines and structured transitions make a difference in parenting
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In this solo episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse takes on a frustrating but all-too-common topic—how to handle trolls, critics, and public judgment as an autism dad.
Whether online or in person, autism parents frequently face uninformed, judgmental, or outright cruel comments about their parenting choices.
He breaks down the three types of trolls, explores why people react negatively to autism behaviors, and offers practical strategies for managing these encounters with calm, confidence, and perspective.
Most importantly, he encourages autism dads to stand strong, support each other, and never let public opinion dictate their child’s experiences.
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Understanding Trolls: The three types—uninformed, judgmental, and cruelPublic Judgment vs. Private Strength: Why autism parents face criticismStrategies for Handling Negativity: Ignoring, educating, or engaging?Personal Stories: Dealing with restaurant stares, airplane complaints, and online attacksWhy Taking Your Child Out in Public Matters: Visibility, acceptance, and normalizing autismQUOTE
"If you're dealing with trolls, sorry about that. But thank you for keeping your cool. It's the best for your family, and it's the best for your mental health, too." - Mark de Grasse
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Whether you're navigating the autism journey yourself or simply seeking insight into fatherhood's deeper moments, House's blend of vulnerability and quiet strength offers wisdom that resonates. His candid reflections and hard-earned perspective make this episode one worth your time.
Sibling Struggles & Breakthroughs – The complex relationship between his twin boys and the unexpected moments of connection.Fatherhood & Resilience – How Davon balances raising twins with autism while recovering from surgery.Exploring Stem Cell Therapy for Autism – Davon’s research, decision, and experience traveling to Mexico for treatment.The Role of Routine & Structure – How disruption impacts autistic children and the strategies that help stabilize them.The Emotional Toll & Rewards of Autism Parenting – Learning to embrace the journey and celebrate the small victories.
Between exploring stem cell therapy and running a tight ship at home, House opens up about the daily plays and audibles of autism parenting. The former defensive back brings his A-game to breaking down sibling dynamics, celebrating progress, and turning setbacks into comebacks.
Whether you're walking a similar path or just curious to hear an unfiltered story of fatherhood, House's reflections on persistence, growth, and unexpected joys make this conversation uniquely compelling. He shares his reality without polish or pretense—just honest words from one dad to another.
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In this powerful episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse takes on a difficult but necessary topic—the use of the R-word and why it will never be acceptable. Mark dives into the word’s history, its dehumanizing impact on the autism community, and how language shapes public perceptions of disability.
Drawing from personal experience and historical context, he explores the dangers of normalizing offensive language and how it has been used to justify discrimination.
This episode isn’t just about calling out harmful language—it’s about education, advocacy, and protecting the dignity of autistic individuals and their families. Mark also shares practical ways to address the use of the R-word in everyday conversations, encouraging dads to stand up for their children with confidence and compassion.
If you've ever wondered how to respond when someone uses the term, this episode is a must-listen.
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The historical origins of the R-word and why it became offensiveThe real-world impact of dehumanizing language on the autism communityHow harmful language has historically led to discrimination and worseThe importance of speaking up when you hear the R-word usedPractical ways to educate others and advocate for respectful languageThe role of inclusion in shaping a better future for autistic individualsQUOTE
“It doesn’t just dehumanize and devalue the autistic community—it also devalues everybody who supports the autistic community.” - Mark de GrasseDISCLAIMER
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In this emotional and eye-opening episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Alfred Samson, a dedicated father navigating the complexities of raising his autistic daughter, Sophie. Alfred shares the raw and deeply personal journey of discovering her condition—marked by seizures, an epilepsy diagnosis, and a potential Harvard medical study that could provide crucial insights into her condition.
Through candid storytelling, Alfred discusses the emotional struggles, the toll on marriage, and the resilience required to accept and embrace an unexpected parenting journey. From early signs of autism to learning to grieve the life he once imagined, he offers powerful advice on coping mechanisms, therapy, and the importance of support systems. Whether you’re a dad feeling overwhelmed or someone seeking inspiration, this episode is a must-listen.
TOPICS COVERED
✔️ Early Signs & Diagnosis – The unexpected medical episodes that led to Sophie’s autism & epilepsy diagnosis
✔️ The Emotional Rollercoaster – How Alfred struggled with resentment, exhaustion, and eventually found peace
✔️ Seeking Help – The power of therapy, faith, and support systems in navigating the challenges of special needs parenting
✔️ The Impact on Marriage – How Alfred and his wife strengthened their bond despite the hardships
✔️ Choosing to Have Another Child – The thought process and fears behind expanding their family
✔️ Words of Wisdom for Dads – The importance of grieving, adapting, and embracing the unique journey of raising a neurodivergent child
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Unmodern Podcast – https://unmodernpodcast.com/episodes
QUOTE
“You have to grieve the life you thought you’d have and learn to love the life you’ve been given.” – Alfred Samson
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In this heartfelt episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse takes listeners on a personal journey exploring the unexpected blessings and silver linings that come with raising a child on the autism spectrum.
Drawing from his experience as a father to Damien (12, severe nonverbal autism) and Declan (11, neurotypical), Mark offers a refreshingly honest perspective on the different paths of fatherhood.
Through candid reflection and genuine vulnerability, he challenges the narrative that autism parenting is solely about challenges, revealing the profound ways his son has transformed his life for the better.
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The Freedom from Social Expectations: How autism parenting can liberate both parent and child from societal pressuresCelebrating Different Victories: Finding joy in unconventional milestones, from pointing to keeping a jacket onLiving Authentically: Learning from children who experience life without masks or pretensePersonal Growth Through Parenting: How having an autistic child motivated positive life changesThe Power of Present Moment: Embracing a different perspective on time and achievementQUOTE:
"My son loves me. That's the biggest thing I could ever want or wish for in life. And I have that every day, so I'm doing good." -Mark de Grasse
Note: Every child's autism journey is unique. This video shares one family's personal experience and is meant for informational purposes only. Always consult with healthcare professionals for medical advice.
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In this heartfelt episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse sits down with Dennis Procopio, a father navigating the complexities of raising his 14-year-old son, Bennett, who lives with moderate-to-severe autism and achondroplasia dwarfism. Dennis shares raw, unfiltered insights into his parenting journey, from grappling with initial feelings of frustration and loss to embracing the unique bond he has with his son.
The conversation dives into the challenges of raising a child with additional needs, including navigating aggressive behaviors, advocating for school support, and fostering resilience through humor and understanding. Dennis also discusses how his personal growth, martial arts training, and empathy have helped him become the dad Bennett needs. Filled with wisdom, humor, and practical advice, this episode is a must-listen for any parent learning to thrive in the unexpected.
Parenting Through a Triple Diagnosis: Autism, dwarfism, and unique challengesEmotional Vulnerability: Overcoming societal expectations of fatherhoodAdvocacy in Schools: Fighting for special needs rights and educationMartial Arts & Parenting: How Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu helps manage behavior safelyThe Father’s Role: Providing strength, humor, and love in difficult moments
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Dennis Procopio: https://www.manuplifecoaching.com/
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When doctors suggested institutionalizing his 6-month-old son, Steve Levine faced a defining moment in fatherhood. Now, 35 years later, he shares how rejecting that advice led to an extraordinary journey of discovery, determination, and joy. His son Nathan - once considered "too disabled" for regular school - has become an award-winning employee at a major Austin hotel, challenging everything society assumes about severe autism.
But this isn't just a story about autism success. It's about a father who refused to treat his autistic son differently from his other children, who discovered that being "just a dad" was exactly what all his kids needed. Through hilarious stories of dumpster diving for precious toys, heartwarming moments at live music venues, and the daily symphony of door alarms and safety measures, Steve reveals how fatherhood transcends diagnosis.
In this episode, you'll discover:
How to identify and build on your child's natural interests and strengthsCreative approaches to workplace success beyond traditional "disability jobs"Practical home adaptations that actually workWhy being "just a dad" is exactly what our kids need📱 Connect With Us:
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ℹ️ Note: Every autistic person's journey is unique. This video shares one family's experience of finding success through focusing on interests and abilities rather than limitations. Always consult with appropriate professionals when developing employment plans.
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Are you wondering if your child might be on the autism spectrum? One dad's powerful journey of discovery could help you find answers sooner. Mark de Grasse describes the early years of his autism journey with his son Damien.
In this episode, you'll discover:
- Critical early signs of autism that are often overlooked
- How to navigate the diagnosis process with confidence
- Game-changing routines that actually work
- Expert-approved therapy options that make a difference
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Central Texas Autism Center
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In this heartfelt debut episode of Dads in Autismland, host Mark de Grasse introduces listeners to the mission behind the podcast: creating a supportive space for fathers raising children on the autism spectrum. Sharing personal stories about his son Damien, who is severely autistic and nonverbal, Mark candidly reflects on the challenges and triumphs of navigating fatherhood in Autismland.
From traveling with a child who craves sensory input to the importance of community understanding, Mark provides relatable anecdotes and practical advice. He discusses the transformative journey of parenting a child with autism, touching on themes of resilience, empathy, and personal growth. Mark’s openness about his own emotional evolution and his goal to empower other dads creates a warm, inclusive environment.
Tune in for honest conversations, shared experiences, and insights to help fathers embrace their unique journey in Autismland.
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Mark’s journey as a father to a nonverbal, severely autistic son.Challenges and strategies for traveling with a child with sensory needs.Building patience, empathy, and personal growth through fatherhood.The societal pressures and misconceptions fathers of autistic children face.The importance of fostering connection and community among autism dads.Setting realistic expectations and embracing the highs and lows of autism parenting.A preview of future episodes featuring other autism dads and their stories.Support the show
