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In this episode, we delve into the fascinating world of child play through the lens of play schemas and the powerful impact of words of affirmation. Understanding why children engage in particular play patterns allows us to connect with them on a deeper level and support their growth more effectively. These schemas are not simply repetitive behaviors; they serve as gateways to developing essential skills like problem-solving and spatial awareness.
We discuss how to frame our communication to not only encourage our children but also help them understand the value of their efforts. Words hold tremendous power; hence, using affirmations thoughtfully can have a lasting impact on their self-esteem and overall development. Through concrete examples, we explore how to apply praise thoughtfully, nurturing your child’s sense of self regardless of the situation.
As we navigate the complexities of parenting, we recognize the importance of our energy and positivity in our interactions. Listening to your child’s play and responding with affirmation is key to fostering a supportive learning environment. This conversation focuses on practical, actionable insights for parents to implement at home, enhancing connections with your children while encouraging their unique paths to learning and exploration.
What You’ll Discover in This Episode:✔️ The 10 Play Schemas – How children explore the world through play
✔️ Why Play Schemas Matter – Reduce frustration and support learning
✔️ Words That Empower – Practical scripts to affirm and encourage your child
✔️ The Hidden Power of Praise – How to uplift without over-praising
✔️ Avoiding Common Pitfalls – The impact of sarcasm, tone, and empty praise
Join us for a warm, engaging discussion that encourages deeper understanding and nurturing connections in your parenting journey. Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave a review to help us reach even more families!Support the show
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✅ How to enter: Join my mailing list before March 31, 2025, at 👉 playschemas.comDid you know that something as simple as a hug, a high-five, or a game of tag could be the key to your child feeling deeply loved and secure? In this episode, we’re exploring Physical Touch as a love language—how it shapes your child’s emotional development, why some kids crave it more than others, and how you can easily incorporate it into everyday moments of play.
For many parents, physical touch comes naturally in the early years—rocking, holding, carrying—but as children grow, affectionate touch often fades into the background. And if your love language isn’t physical touch, you might find yourself wondering: “Am I giving my child what they need to feel truly loved?”
💡 Here’s the good news: You don’t need to be a “cuddly” parent to make this love language work. Physical touch isn’t just about hugs—it can be playful, fun, and part of your daily routines!
Let’s start by addresing something important: body safety and consent. In a world where we’re constantly teaching our kids about personal space and “safe touch,” how do we also make sure they’re getting enough loving, appropriate, and secure physical connection? That’s why I’ve partnered with Victoria Barendsen from The Safe Kids Project, a registered psychologist specialising in childhood trauma and body safety. If you want to feel empowered in teaching your child about safe boundaries, check out her ‘Foundations of Body Safety’ course—and get a special discount just for listeners at https://thesafekidsproject.com/ and use the code playschemas10 at checkout for a 10% discount.
🎧 What You'll Learn in This Episode:✔️ Why Physical Touch Matters – The emotional and developmental benefits of affectionate touch
✔️ How Play Naturally Encourages Physical Connection – Simple ways to build touch into your child’s day
✔️ Age-Appropriate Ways to Use Physical Touch – From toddlers to tweens, what works best?
✔️ Respecting Boundaries – Teaching consent without withdrawing affection
✔️ Easy, Everyday Play Ideas for Connection – No extra effort required!
🤹♀️ Using Play to Connect Through Touch
Physical touch doesn’t have to feel forced—it’s naturally woven into so many types of play! In this episode, I share:
🎯 Rough-and-Tumble Games – Chase, tag, tickling, piggyback rides
🎨 Sensory Play – Messy play with dough, mud, and textures
🎵 Rhythmic Clapping & Hand Games – Fun ways to include gentle touch
🎠 Swinging & Spinning – Playful movement that strengthens connection
💡 Building Together – Snuggle in a fort, sit closely while crafting, or create hand-linked towers👉 Want a FREE Play Schema Guide? Grab yours at playschemas.com/free!
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LOVE to a Child is Spelt TIME: Understanding the 5 Love Languages of Children
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Join my mailing list at playschemas.com—you’ll be in the draw to win, no matter where in the world you are!💛 Do you ever wonder if your child truly feels loved? You tell them “I love you” a hundred times a day, but sometimes, their behaviour suggests they need more. The secret? Kids don’t just hear love—they experience it. And every child has their own way of receiving love.
In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we dive into Gary Chapman’s 5 Love Languages of Children and how you can use play to meet your child’s emotional needs in a way that makes sense to them. Whether your little one thrives on cuddles, words of affirmation, quality time, gifts, or small acts of kindness, understanding how they receive love can transform your relationship and strengthen their emotional security.
🎙️ Inside This Episode, You’ll Discover:
✅ The 5 Love Languages of Children—and why toddlers need all of them!
✅ Why love is the foundation of all child development (without it, nothing else sticks!)
✅ How your child’s play behaviour gives clues about their emotional needs
✅ Why kids’ love languages change—especially before age 5
✅ How big life changes (like a new sibling) can shift how they seek connection
✅ Practical ways to show love through play—based on your child’s play schema✨ A Full Emotional Tank = A Happy, Secure Child
Children don’t always have the words to say, "I need love right now." Instead, they show us through clinging, meltdowns, defiance, or attention-seeking behaviour. In this episode, we unpack how to spot the signs of an empty emotional tank—and how to fill it up again in a way that truly resonates with your child.🚀 What’s Coming Next?
This episode is just the beginning! Over the next few weeks, we’ll deep dive into each love language and explore how you can nurture it through play.💌 Let’s Keep the Conversation Going!
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Play Schemas at Home: Turning Play Into ProductivityHow to Encourage Your Child to Help Around the House—Through Play!
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Does it feel like you’re constantly cleaning up after your little one while they seem more interested in making a mess? What if, instead of working against their natural play instincts, you worked with them?
Children explore the world through play schemas—repetitive patterns of behaviour that help them make sense of their surroundings. Understanding these schemas can turn everyday chores into engaging activities, helping you get things done while fostering their development.
Today you’ll discover:
How play schemas influence your child’s behaviour.Practical, play-based ways to get your child involved in household tasks.Simple activities that turn playtime into productive time.What Are Play Schemas?
Play schemas are the natural ways children explore and understand their world. When you match everyday activities to these schemas, you make chores feel like play—encouraging your child to participate instead of resist.
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Playing Together – How to Join the Fun Without Taking Over
Have you ever found yourself ‘playing’ with your child, only to realise that you’re the one in charge? One moment you’re happily stacking blocks, and the next, you’re directing the entire build like an overzealous project manager. Sound familiar? You’re not alone!
In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re diving into the art of playing with your child—without taking over. If you’ve ever wondered how to join in their games while still allowing them to lead, this episode is for you.
Why This Matters for You and Your Child
Play isn’t just about keeping little ones entertained—it’s how they learn, express creativity, and process the world around them. But as adults, we often struggle to step back and let them take the lead. Maybe it feels unnatural, or you’re unsure what to do, or you slip into ‘teaching mode’ without realising. The good news? There’s a better way to support your child’s play without overshadowing their creativity.
Inside This Episode, You’ll Discover:
🔹 Why letting kids lead their play is key to their development and confidence
🔹 How to engage in play without turning it into an adult-led production
🔹 Four simple steps to join the fun—without taking over
🔹 Real-life examples of parents finding the balance between guidance and freedom
🔹 How to harness play schemas to make everyday tasks fun and engagingPlus, we’ll explore easy, schema-based activities that transform everyday chores into playful learning moments. Whether your child loves throwing, transporting, spinning, or stacking, you’ll learn creative ways to channel their energy into helping around the house—without the battles!
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This week, we’re setting a fun challenge: Try one schema-based activity from today’s episode and see how your child responds! You might be surprised at how naturally they engage in meaningful play when given the freedom to explore.
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If this episode gave you a fresh perspective on play, we’d love to hear from you! Share your experiences, tag us on social media, or leave a review—it helps other parents discover the magic of play schemas too. And don’t forget to grab your FREE Schema Cheat Sheet at playschemas.com/free.
Hit play now and discover how to make playtime more fun, connected, and stress-free for both you and your child! 🎧✨
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🎙️ Play Schemas and Siblings – How to Make Schemas Work for (Not Against!) You!
👧👦 Do your kids constantly clash over toys, fight over space, or seem to have completely different play styles? You’re not alone! Sibling play can be tricky—one child wants to build, while the other wants to knock things down. One loves to throw, while the other carefully arranges their toys in a perfect line. What if we told you that these differences aren’t just personality quirks but deeply rooted in the way children naturally explore the world?
In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play | Play Schemas, we’re diving into the science behind play schemas and how they can either cause frustration between siblings—or bring them closer together. By understanding how your children’s play instincts work, you can create a more peaceful, engaging, and cooperative play environment at home.
✨ In This Episode, You’ll Discover:✅ What play schemas are (and why they’re the key to understanding your child’s play behaviour)
✅ Why siblings often have different schemas—and how this can lead to conflict
✅ How to support multiple schemas at the same time without chaos taking over
✅ Simple strategies to turn play struggles into opportunities for bonding
✅ Real-life examples of how parents can guide sibling play for fewer arguments and more connection
🏡 Practical Tips for Real FamiliesWe know that parenting is busy, and there’s no time for complicated solutions. That’s why we’re sharing easy, doable strategies that fit into everyday life. Whether it’s setting up play invitations that cater to different schemas or gently redirecting play conflicts in the moment, these tips will help you feel more in control of playtime and more confident in your parenting.
❤️ Because Play Shouldn’t Be a Battleground!When you understand why your children play the way they do, you’ll be able to guide them in a way that supports their natural development—without the stress. Let’s make play work for you, not against you!
🎧 Tune in now and transform sibling playtime into a moment of learning, connection, and fun.
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Episode 9: The Power of Independent Play – Nurturing Confident and Creative Kids
Do you dream of guilt-free moments to enjoy a hot drink while it’s still hot—without hearing a desperate “Muuum!” every two minutes? What if those moments didn’t just give you a breather but also helped your child grow into a confident, creative problem solver?
In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re diving deep into the world of independent play—what it is, why it’s crucial for your child’s development, and how you can encourage it while understanding your child’s unique play style through play schemas.
Why Independent Play Matters
We’re busting the myth that independent play is about “leaving kids to it.” Instead, it’s about creating the right conditions for your child to explore, learn, and grow through self-directed play. You’ll discover how this magical time enhances:
Cognitive growth, sharpening focus, problem-solving, and critical thinking.Emotional regulation, teaching patience and resilience.Confidence and autonomy, empowering your child to trust their abilities.The Key to Easier Independent Play: Understanding Play Schemas
If you’ve ever wondered why your child loves lining up cars, spinning objects, or wrapping their toys in blankets, you’re not alone! These behaviours are rooted in play schemas—natural patterns in the way children explore the world. When you identify your child’s schema, you can offer toys and activities they’ll naturally love, such as:
Ramps and balls for kids who love all things trajectory.Buckets and trolleys for little transporters.Boxes and blankets for the enclosing enthusiast.By working with your child’s natural play urges, rather than against them, you can make independent play longer-lasting and more fulfilling—for both of you!
Practical Tips to Set the Stage
Creating a space for independent play doesn’t require a Pinterest-perfect playroom or expensive toys. In this episode, you’ll learn how to:
Craft a simple, child-friendly play area in your home.Use open-ended toys (yes, trucks and dinosaurs can work!) to fuel creativity and engagement.Rotate toys to keep things fresh and prevent overstimulation.What If Your Child Struggles to Play Alone?
We’ve got you covered! From starting with just 5 minutes a day to gently stepping back as their confidence grows, you’ll gain actionable strategies for encouraging independence—no tears (or tantrums!) required. Plus, tips for handling attention-seekers and reigniting stagnant play sessions.
For more inspiration, grab your free Top 10 Play Schemas Cheat Sheet at playschemas.com/free. If you want to dive deeper into play schemas, check out the show notes and extras at playschemas.com/009.
Don’t forget to subscribe, share this episode with other parents, and follow me on social media @play_schemas. Let’s build a community where we celebrate the beauty of play—and enjoy a sneaky biscuit while the kids are happily engaged!
Because today is a great day to play!
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Ready to make 2025 the best year yet for your family? Dive into this exciting episode of Demystifying Child’s Play as we explore how understanding and embracing play schemas can transform your parenting journey. Whether you’re a returning listener or new to the podcast, this episode is packed with inspiration and actionable tips to help you connect with your child through meaningful play.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
🔹 What are Play Schemas? Discover the 10 universal patterns of play – from trajectory and transportation to enveloping and positioning. Learn how these natural, repetitive behaviours help children make sense of the world.
🔹 Why Play Schemas Matter: Understand the cognitive, physical, and social-emotional benefits of play schemas, like building problem-solving skills, fostering creativity, and boosting confidence.
🔹 How to Spot Your Child’s Play Patterns: Simple observation tips to identify schemas in action, whether it’s lining up toys (positioning) or wrapping objects in blankets (enveloping).
🔹 Practical Ways to Nurture Play: Explore ideas to provide toys and activities that align with your child’s unique interests. Learn how to create daily routines that prioritise play and build lasting skills.
Why This Episode Matters for Parents:
Parenting toddlers and young children often comes with questions like:
Why does my child repeat the same actions over and over?How can I encourage their natural curiosity and creativity?What activities will truly engage and support their development?By understanding play schemas, you’ll gain insights into these behaviours, helping you respond with empathy and intention. This knowledge makes parenting more joyful, less frustrating, and filled with opportunities for connection.
Storytime: Real-Life Schema Moments Over the Holidays
Hear relatable examples of how schemas show up in everyday play. From a child obsessed with stacking cups (positioning) to one delighting in packing bags (transporting), these stories illustrate how play schemas are universal, playful expressions of learning.2025: The Year of Playful Connection
This episode is just the start of an incredible lineup for the year. Get a sneak peek of our upcoming 3-part series on play with others – independently, with siblings or friends, and with adults. Plus, hear a hint about a game-changing topic that will deepen your connection with your child.Play as an Investment in Your Child’s Future
Discover why play is so much more than just fun. It’s an essential tool for developing resilience, creativity, and social skills. Learn how to model playfulness and create cherished family memories that last a lifetime.Let’s Make 2025 a Year of Joyful Play!
Subscribe to Demystifying Child’s Play today and never miss an episode filled with practical parenting tips and those all-important “aha” moments. Visit playschemas.com/008 for show notes and bonuses, and follow us on social media @play_schemas to share your stories or ask your questions.
Together, let’s embrace play, reduce stress, and create a year full of laughter and connection. Because as we
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Is your child tossing baubles, spinning ornaments, or carrying presents across the room? Before you wonder if they’re being “naughty,” take a deep breath—they’re not being difficult; they’re being explorers! In this episode, we’ll decode these behaviours through the lens of play schemas, helping you see the magic in your child’s play this Christmas.
✨ What’s Inside This Episode?
Christmas can be a magical time, but for parents of young children, it’s often filled with unexpected moments. Your toddler’s fascination with spinning decorations, piling presents, or mixing food can leave you feeling frustrated or embarrassed—especially when relatives raise an eyebrow. But what if you could make sense of it all?In this episode, I’ll help you understand these quirky actions as play schemas—a natural part of your child’s development that allows them to learn, grow, and make sense of the world. You’ll gain practical tools to:
✅ Recognise the most common play schemas in action this Christmas.
✅ Redirect your child’s play in ways that support their development and protect the festive vibe.
✅ Explain their behaviour to family members with confidence and clarity.🎄 Real-Life Festive Scenarios & Solutions
Trajectory Schema: Throwing baubles or tossing wrapping paper? They’re exploring movement and physics—offer soft balls or paper snowballs instead.Transporting Schema: Carrying gifts across the room? They’re mastering coordination—set up a ‘delivery station’ to channel this energy.Enveloping Schema: Wrapping themselves (or the dog!) in blankets? They’re exploring boundaries—provide scarves or a box they can crawl into.Rotation Schema: Spinning ornaments or twirling in circles? It’s all about balance and coordination—encourage safe spinning toys or activities.Transforming Schema: Mixing food or tearing paper? They’re little scientists experimenting—give them playdough or edible ‘safe science’ tasks.
Here’s a taste of what we’ll cover:These scenarios—and more—will give you simple, actionable tips to turn potential chaos into calm, all while fostering your child’s natural curiosity.
🎁 The Cheat Sheet You’ll Love
To make this even easier, I’ve created a free cheat sheet summarising these insights. Whether you print it for quick reference or share it with family, it’s a practical way to front-foot those awkward conversations and keep everyone on the same page. Download it here: 👉 playschemas.com/007 or playschemas.com/free✨ Why This Matters
When you understand why your child behaves the way they do, you can replace stress with connection. Play schemas aren’t just about play—they’re about learning, discovery, and growth. This Christmas, let’s celebrate your child’s curiosity and help others see the beauty in their actions too.Get your free cheat sheet and show notes here: 👉 playschemas.com/007
🎙 Coming Up Next: We’ll explore more play schema insights to help you connect with your child in fun and meaningful ways—because, as I always say, today is a great day to play!
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Unlock the Secret to Your Child’s Play: Why Nature Play and Play Schemas Matter! 🌱
Ever wondered why your toddler spends hours collecting sticks, throwing pebbles, or carefully lining up leaves? What if these seemingly random behaviours were actually the building blocks of their development? In this episode of Demystifying Child's Play, we explore the fascinating world of play schemas—the patterns of play that children naturally engage in to learn about their world—and how getting outside in nature can supercharge these essential learning experiences.
🌟 What You’ll Discover in This Episode:
What Are Play Schemas? A simple, clear explanation of the 10 most common play schemas—like trajectory, transporting, and transforming—and why they’re crucial for your child’s mental, physical, and emotional development.The Power of Nature Play: Learn why outdoor play isn’t just fun—it’s vital for reducing stress, boosting creativity, and helping kids grow into confident, resilient individuals.Real-Life Stories: Hear relatable, heartwarming examples of how children explore these schemas in their everyday play—like the toddler who collects rocks with a sense of purpose or the preschooler who builds a leafy fort in the backyard.Practical Tips for Parents: Get actionable advice on how to recognise, support, and encourage your child’s natural play patterns at home and outdoors. From setting up a simple mud kitchen to organising a treasure hunt, these ideas are easy to try and packed with developmental benefits.🌿 Why You’ll Love This Episode:
This episode is for every parent who has ever felt overwhelmed by messes, puzzled by repetitive play, or wondered how to make the most of their child’s curiosity. By understanding play schemas, you’ll gain a fresh perspective on your child’s behaviours and learn how to nurture their growth through joyful, meaningful play. Plus, we’ll show you how nature offers the perfect playground for these magical learning moments!✨ Key Takeaways Include:
How recognising play schemas can reduce frustration and strengthen your parent-child bond.Creative outdoor activity ideas for summer that engage your child’s natural curiosity.Tips for turning everyday items—like sticks, leaves, and mud—into tools for learning and exploration.💡 Listen Now and Empower Your Parenting!
Your child’s play is more than just play—it’s how they grow, learn, and connect with the world. By tuning into this episode, you’ll discover how to embrace these moments with confidence and joy.🎧 Subscribe and Stay Inspired!
If you love discovering simple, research-backed parenting tips, don’t forget to hit subscribe and leave a review. Share this episode with a fellow parent who could use some fresh play inspiration, and let’s build a community where play is celebrated and understood.🔗 Resources Mentioned:
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Unlock the Secrets Behind Your Child’s Play: The Origins of Play Schemas
Ever wondered why your little one loves to spin wheels, drop toys, or line up blocks over and over again? Those seemingly simple actions aren’t just random—they’re part of something much bigger: play schemas. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re diving deep into the fascinating origins of these repeated behaviours and uncovering why they are essential for your child’s cognitive and emotional growth.
As a parent, you might feel overwhelmed trying to understand your child’s play habits. Are they learning? Is their behaviour normal? This episode will help you see the brilliance behind their play and give you confidence in how to support it.
We’ll explore the roots of play schemas, tracing them back to pioneering research by Frederick Bartlett and Jean Piaget, two of the most influential minds in child development. Plus, we’ll break down the science into bite-sized, relatable insights that will leave you in awe of what your child is achieving every time they play.
🎙️ What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
What Are Play Schemas?
Discover the simple yet powerful patterns of behaviour that help children make sense of their world. Whether your child loves spinning, throwing, or hiding objects, these actions are building their understanding of how things work.The Science Behind Play Schemas:
Learn about schema theory, a concept that’s been shaping our understanding of learning since the 1930s. From Bartlett’s original ideas to Piaget’s groundbreaking work on cognitive development, we’ll explain why play schemas are vital for your child’s brain development.The Magic of Early Development:
Explore the Sensorimotor Stage, where babies learn through their senses, and the Preoperational Stage, where imagination takes flight. We’ll share real-life examples of how these stages connect to the play schemas you see every day.💡
Understanding play schemas isn’t just about decoding your child’s actions—it’s about unlocking the window into their growing mind. By supporting these behaviours, you’re fostering their creativity, curiosity, and love of learning. And here’s the best part: you don’t need to overhaul your parenting approach. With just a few small adjustments, you can make playtime even more enriching and enjoyable—for both of you.📌 Take Action Today:
Notice your child’s play patterns this week. Is there a schema you can recognise? Whether it’s transporting toys in bags or dropping blocks from a height, think of one simple way to support their learning through this behaviour.💬 Let’s Connect!
If you’re ready to dive deeper into play schemas, visit playschemas.com/005 for show notes, resources, and a free cheat sheet on the top 10 play schemas. Follow us on Instagram @play_schemas to share your playtime wins and mysteries!Subscribe to Demystifying Child’s Play wherever you listen to podcasts, so you never miss an episode. And if you found this episode helpful, share it with a fellow parent who’s ready to discover the magic of play schemas.
🎉 Remember: Today is a great day to play!
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🎙️ Welcome to Demystifying Child's Play 🌟
Do you ever wonder why your child insists on lining up toys or endlessly pouring water? Are you curious about how these playful quirks unlock their learning and development? You're in the right place! 🎉
In this episode, we’re diving into 10 play schemas—the building blocks of children’s play—and how understanding them can transform your parenting journey. From Transporting 🛻 to Enclosing 🏗️, I’ll guide you through each schema with real-life examples and tips to nurture your child’s creativity and growth.
👩👧👦 Whether you’re a parent juggling busy days or a caregiver seeking new insights, this podcast is your go-to resource for actionable advice and relatable stories. By the end of this episode, you’ll not only recognize your child’s play patterns but also feel equipped to foster their unique style of learning. 🌱
Why This Matters:
🔑 Unlock Development: Play schemas aren’t just fun—they’re how kids make sense of the world. Recognising them helps you support their natural curiosity. 💡 Boost Your Confidence: Feel more connected to your child by understanding why they play the way they do. 🧸 Enrich Their Play: Discover simple tweaks to toys, activities, and your environment to encourage deeper, more meaningful play.
🎧 Tune In and Discover:
What are play schemas? 🤔The 10 most common play schemas and their unique characteristics 🛝How to spot your child’s favourite schema in everyday play 🕵️♀️Easy, low-cost ways to extend their play at home 💡💌 Ready for more? Download your free Play Schema Cheat Sheet for quick reference at playschemas.com/free.
🌟 Let’s connect! Share your “aha” moments or your child’s latest play adventures on Instagram @play_schemas or visit playschemas.com/contact. I’d love to hear from you! 💬
Join us on this journey to demystify the magic of play and create stronger bonds with your child—one schema at a time.
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Ever wonder why your toddler insists on throwing toys, spinning in circles, or hiding your kitchen towels? Believe it or not, there’s a method to the madness—it’s called play schemas. These are natural, repeated behaviours that children use to explore and understand their world. In this episode of Demystifying Child’s Play, we’re uncovering how recognising these play patterns can revolutionise your parenting.
What play schemas are and why they’re key to your child’s development.How understanding these behaviours can reduce frustration and bring more joy to your home.Real-life examples of parents transforming chaos into connection and creativity.Practical tips for supporting your child’s schemas and making playtime a collaborative, fun experience.
🎯 What You’ll Learn:Join me as I share insights, stories, and actionable strategies to help you lean into your child’s natural tendencies instead of fighting against them. From the trajectory schema (hello, flying food!) to the enveloping schema (goodbye, tea towels!), you’ll discover how to turn everyday challenges into opportunities for learning and bonding.
💡 Bonus! Grab your free cheat sheet outlining the 10 most common play schemas at playschemas.com/free.
💬 Let’s Connect:
Share your parenting wins, struggles, or aha moments with me!
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✨ Parenting doesn’t have to feel like a battle. Tune in to learn how understanding play schemas can help you foster curiosity, connection, and calm—one play session at a time. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and share with other parents on this journey!
🎧 Listen now and discover how today is a great day to play!Support the show
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Unlocking Play Schemas: Understand & Support Playful Learning | Episode 002 🎙️
Hey there! 👋 Ever wondered why your child keeps repeating the same actions, like throwing toys, moving objects around, or spinning in circles? Believe it or not, there's a fascinating reason behind these repetitive behaviours. They’re called play schemas—patterns of play that help kids explore and make sense of the world.
In today’s podcast, I’ll walk you through the 10 most common play schemas, from the Trajectory Schema (think throwing and dropping) to the Positioning Schema (lining up toys). Each schema offers unique benefits, like building motor skills, spatial awareness, problem-solving, and creativity.
Here's a sneak peek at what you'll learn:
Trajectory Schema 🏀 - Throwing, pushing, and dropping. Discover how this schema teaches gravity, force, and motion.
Transporting Schema 🚚 - Moving objects from one place to another. Learn how transporting builds spatial understanding and organisation.
Enveloping Schema 📦 - Wrapping and hiding objects (or even themselves!). Enveloping helps kids explore boundaries and containment.
Rotation Schema 🔄 - Spinning objects or themselves. This schema promotes balance, coordination, and motor skills.
Connecting Schema 🔗 - Joining items together (think blocks, magnets). Connecting is key to problem-solving and understanding relationships.
Disconnecting Schema 🧩 - Taking things apart. Perfect for building fine motor skills and problem-solving.
Enclosure Schema 🏠 - Putting items inside other items. Enclosure helps kids learn about “inside vs. outside” and spatial awareness.
Orientation Schema 👀 - Looking at things from different perspectives (tilting heads, looking upside down). This builds spatial skills and creative thinking.
Transforming Schema 🍲 - Mixing, tearing, or changing things (like making mud!). Transforming supports understanding cause and effect.
Positioning Schema 📏 - Arranging objects in patterns or lines. Great for math and science skills.
Tips for Encouraging Play Schemas at Home:
Create Schema-Friendly Play Opportunities: Set up simple activities that match your child’s schema interests.
Observe Without Interrupting: Watching your child can reveal a lot about their learning style.
Play Areas for Each Schema: Give them tools like soft balls for trajectory play or blankets for enveloping.
By understanding play schemas, you can create a supportive environment for your child’s natural learning. Not only does it make playtime more fun, but it also helps your child build essential skills they’ll use for a lifetime.
And remember: today is a great day to play!
Don’t forget to download my FREE Play Schemas Cheat Sheet at PlaySchemas.com/free to get ahead on the 10 most common Play Schemas. Let’s make every day a great day to play! 🎉
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Understanding Play Schemas: Demystifying Child's Play | Episode 1 🎙️
Welcome to the first episode of "Demystifying Child’s Play"! I’m Ruth Vercoe, and today we’re diving into the fascinating world of play schemas—the patterns that shape how children learn and grow through play. Whether you're a parent, grandparent, or caregiver of children aged 0-7, this episode is packed with insights on how understanding these schemas can transform your parenting approach. 🧸
In this episode, I share my own journey from being a teacher to a Mum and how recognising these play schemas has helped me connect with my children on a deeper level. Learn how play isn’t just random fun, but a vital part of your child’s development, with schemas like the trajectory schema, rotation schema, and enveloping schema guiding their exploration of the world. 🌍
If you've ever wondered why your little one throws things, spins around, or hides objects, this episode will shed light on those behaviours and how they contribute to cognitive growth. By embracing play schemas, you’ll discover how to turn frustrating moments into meaningful play experiences. Plus, I’ll share practical tips for engaging with your child’s play in ways that support their learning and reduce tantrums. 🙌
Don’t forget to download my FREE Play Schemas Cheat Sheet at PlaySchemas.com/free to get ahead on the 10 most common schemas. Let’s make every day a great day to play! 🎉
👉 Subscribe for weekly episodes and join the conversation on how play can unlock your child's potential.Support the show
If this episode resonated with you, subscribe, share with a friend, and leave a review!
I would love to hear your playtime stories—whether you’re celebrating a win or trying to crack the mystery behind a new behaviour, I’m here for it. Reach out on social media or drop me a message.
Facebook and Instagram @play_schemas
Ruth@PlaySchemas.com
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