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What do you do when your dad turns into a one-man dating app filterā¦ and swipes left on everyone? In this episode weāre talking about something major: when your fatherās wilayah (guardianship) can actually be removed. Yep, itās a thing, and itās not taken lightly.
Weāre diving into real stories, like the woman who aged out of her prime while her parents waited for Mr. Perfect Ethnic Match, and another whose mom basically ran the rejection department. We break down what wilayah is really supposed to be, how it's misused, and what to do if you're stuck in a no-win situation.
Hit download if youāve ever wondered: Is this protectionā¦ or control? And send this to a friend who's been āalmost marriedā 17 times.
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Misyar marriageāhalal but hotly debated. In this episode, we break down what it actually is, why some people turn to it, and why scholars arenāt exactly cheering it on. Think: waived rights, complicated intentions, and a whole lot of ethical gray area. We cover everything from divorced moms looking for companionship to men using it as a loopholeāand why thatās a problem. With shifting gender roles and evolving needs, Misyar is becoming more common, but is it the right move? We get into the real talk: when it works, when it hurts, and what to know before diving in.
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What happens when a student catches feelings... for her professor? And what if he feels the same but can't say a word until the semester ends? This isn't your average love story. Itās a journey shaped by quiet moments, bold choices, and some family drama that challenged what they thought love would look like. Now 25 years in, they're sharing how it all started and what kept them going.
This episode is for every Muslim single who still believes in love. Donāt miss it.
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"I wish she gave me more attention.. Why do I have to beg for intimacy?.. Maybe I should consider a second wife!"
Today we're unpacking a trend weāre seeing more often: men considering polygamy, and women actually open to it. While polygamy is part of our faith, itās not a free pass for avoiding deeper issues in a marriage.
We also talk about the practical side: the legal messiness of polygamy in the West (itās actually criminal in Canada), the emotional toll on everyone involved, and why itās not always the solution people think it is.
This episode isnāt here to judge, but to offer a real talk on whatās halal, whatās practical, and what might need more therapy than a second nikah. Give it a listen. You might come out with more questions than answers (and thatās kind of the point).
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In this episode, weāre diving into the world of halal courting with the incredible Lama Aboubakr, a relationship coach who specializes in helping Muslims attract the right person they truly deserve. Letās face itāsometimes, past experiences and old patterns can hold us back from finding the fulfilling relationship we long for. But Lamaās here to show us how to break free from those cycles and shift our mindset.
Lama shares powerful insights on building self-awareness, understanding attachment styles, and improving communicationāall crucial steps in attracting the right partner. Her approach helps you work on yourself, so you can become the kind of person who not only deserves a great relationship but is ready to build one too.
Tune in to discover how to approach the search for a spouse with confidence, patience, and clarity, knowing that when you do the inner work, the right person will come your way.
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"Muslim Matchmaker" is making waves, and weāre diving deep into it. In this episode, we break down whether the show hits or misses when it comes to Islamic courtship. Does it reflect our values, or are there some glaring mismatches? We chat about the show's ideas and how it stacks up against other matchmaking shows. Does the flashy aesthetic add anything meaningful, or is it just for the 'gram?
Our conversation goes beyond just the drama. Itās about the principles that should drive real connections, grounded in faith. We want to spark some reflection and critical thinking on how these portrayals shape the way we view relationships and the Muslim community. Trust us, you wonāt want to miss this one!
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Starting over after a breakup or divorce? We know itās not easy, but youāre not alone. In this episode, we sit down with therapist Sarah Sultan to talk about what it really takes to heal, grow, and move forward with confidence.
We discuss how to recognize red flags you might have missed the first time around and how to rebuild your self-worth so youāre not carrying past baggage into something new. We also cover the importance of finding clarity on what you need in a spouse, and why you should focus on becoming whole before looking for someone to complete you. If youāre ready to stop feeling stuck and start seeing this as a fresh beginning, this episode is for you.
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If youāve ever downloaded a Muslim 'dating' app full of hope, only to find yourself drowning in awkward chats, ghosting, and people who donāt seem to know why theyāre thereā¦ we get it. Itās exhausting.
In this episode, weāre talking about the real struggles of apps; the disappointments, the confusion, and the moments that make you want to delete them forever. Weāre also sharing tips on how to navigate them in a way that actually moves you forward. Because if youāre going to put yourself out there, you deserve to do it in a way that protects your mind, your heart, and your intentions. Tune in and bismillah.
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Today we're spilling the tea on how social media is turning our brains into mush when it comes to marriage expectations. From scrolling through picture-perfect weddings to comparing our own love lives to influencer highlight reels. Weāve all been there, feeling FOMO because your friendās husband just bought her a Ferrari, while youāre getting excited about a new couch. Whether youāre married or still in the "single and scrolling" phase, we get into how social media makes us rush into things or feel like our lives just arenāt up to par. So, if youāve ever wondered why your marriage doesnāt look like an Instagram post or felt like youāre missing out on a hashtag-worthy moment, tune in! Itās time to laugh, reflect, and hopefully put the phone down for a second.
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In this episode, weāre diving into the classic āI have a career, but Iām not paying for anythingā dilemma. You know, the one where women are out here making bank, but somehow, itās still all on the man to cover the bills. Weāre keeping it real and exploring the balance (or lack thereof) between having a career and contributing to the household financially. Weāre not here to judge. Just a little honest chat with a side of humor to keep things light.
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In this episode, weāre joined by Habeeb Akande, a sex educator and Muslim erotologist, to challenge outdated views on intimacy in Islam. Heās here to remind us of the true Islamic teachings on relationships. Think consent, mutual respect, and yes, female pleasure, and how cultural norms and misinformation have twisted our understanding of intimacy.
We also dive into how to read religious teachings the right way, without getting stuck in outdated, stuffy views. Plus, we tackle real-life topics like STIs and porn addiction. Tune in for a fresh take on sex and pleasure.
Habeeb is the founder of Erotology Institute For Sacred Pleasur and the author of many books. Find him on his website , on Amazon, and on InstagramGot a dilemma or story? The Single Muslim Hotline is here for you! Weāll play your anonymous messages in future episodes and offer real talk. Drop us a voice note šš»
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What does it mean to lead in a marriage? For men, itās not about being bossy; itās about responsibility, humility, and knowing when to step up. For women, itās about recognizing those qualities before you commit.
In this episode, we explore the Prophet's leadership in his family and how it sets the gold standard for modern Muslim marriages. Weāll talk about what real leadership looks like, beyond the big speeches and fancy words, and how itās built on trust, communication, and action.
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In this episode, we dive into the awkward, and sometimes painful journey of figuring that out. From emotional maturity to basic life skills (yes, knowing how to cook counts), weāre keeping it real and relatable. Spoiler: If you think āromanticā means sending memes at 2 a.m., you might want to tune in. Weāre sharing stories, tips, and a few laughs to help you level up for the marriage game. Letās find out if youāre ready to say āI doāāor if you need a little more practice folding laundry first!
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In this episode, we dive into the impact of trauma on single Muslims, especially how past experiences shape relationships. A trauma-informed coach joins us; Hana Alasry who shares insights on the importance of hope in healing and how the Prophet (PBUH) navigated immense personal loss with resilience, trusting in Allahās Qadr. We also discuss how small triggers can lead to emotional breakdowns and the need to reach out for help, even with the cultural stigma around it. This conversation is a powerful reminder that healing is not only possible but essential, and with faith, even the deepest wounds can transform into strength.
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In this episode, we dive into the concept of soulmates; are they just a rom-com myth, or is there something deeper? We explore the idea from an Islamic perspective, discuss the role of qadr (divine decree), and unpack why "waiting for Mr./Mrs. Perfect" might be holding you back. Spoiler alert: marriage isn't the end of the story. Join us for a fun, insightful chat that might just change the way you see "happily ever after."
Brought to you by your favorite matchmakers; Hiba and Zaid with opinions on everything, including Robert Downey Jr.ās early movies.
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In this episode, we dive into the Quranās only detailed proposal storyāProphet Musa (AS) and his journey from being a refugee to finding a wife. Itās a story filled with timeless lessons about character, divine timing, and how a simple act of kindness (like watering sheep!) can change your life. We loved reflecting on how this story connects to what we see in matchmaking today. Whether youāre single, married, or just curious, we break it all down with warmth and a light touch. After all, who doesnāt love a story that feels both ancient and surprisingly relatable?
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This week we confront the notorious Haram Police! š From awkward aunties and clapping controversies to MSAs that outdo Islamic rulings themselves, we share our personal run-ins with this self-appointed moral authority. š» Spoiler: classical music, theater, and even holding hands while married arenāt safe from judgment. We discuss how culture complicates the marriage process and why Islamās simplicity often gets lost in translation. So, ever been āticketedā by the Haram Police? Drop your stories in the comments. No fines, we promise!
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In this episode, we take you behind the scenes of our matchmaking process, revealing the immense effort and dedication we pour into finding meaningful, compatible matches for single Muslims. From in-depth discovery calls and personalized assessments to carefully planned double dates, we share how our hands-on, halal approach goes above and beyond to help our clients on their journey to marriage.
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Unlock the secrets of forming successful relationships as we bring you an exciting conversation with the esteemed Imam Navaid Aziz. Together, we explore the intricate dynamics of emotional intelligence in relationship matching.
This episode promises to provide valuable insights into recognizing emotional intelligence in a potential spouse, a key determinant in nurturing loving connections.
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What if a simple piece of paper could dictate the course of your life's most personal decision? Today we unravel the world of Biodatas, questioning whether this 'marriage resume' truly captures the essence of a person or merely reflects outdated societal norms. From personal stories of arranged marriage proposals to the cultural expectations that surround them, we shed light on the double standards and frustrations that come with being judged by family prestige and hierarchical status.
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