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So many women experience a postpartum mental disorder after having a baby. For me, it was postnatal depression. For Catherine Cho, it was postpartum psychosis.
You might not have thought about postpartum psychosis before. Certainly, I had no idea before I read Catherineâs memoir, that 1-2 in every 1000 women will be affected by it. So why isnât it being talked about more? Or even, at all?
In this episode, Catherine explains how she came to be sectioned on a psychiatric ward, how it impacted her relationship with her baby son and the rest of her family, the depression which followed her psychosis, and how she navigated second time motherhood.
I know this episode might feel scary to some of you. But I believe that forewarned is forearmed. That knowing about these things can better protect us and those around us. And that politically, we should be talking more about matrescence - thought to be as big a cognitive change as puberty! - and how to improve maternal mental health.
If you or someone you know is struggling, please call your GP or the NHS helpline, on 111. If it is an emergency, please call 999. For more information, visit app-network.org.
Inferno: A Memoir of Motherhood and Madness by Catherine Cho
You can read an excerpt of Catherineâs book, here.
Get in touch at [email protected]
Presented by Pandora Sykes
Sound by Kelsey Bennett
Co-production by Pandora Sykes and Kelsey Bennett
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Iâm really interested in talking about the gnarly parts of the beauty industry - where things like tanning and hair removal actually come from. In the last series, Jessica DeFino debunked many myths about make-up and skincare. This season, I talk to journalist, author and broadcaster Afua Hirsch about beautyâs colonialist ideals and how she sought to break up with them.
Afua talks about reconnecting with her ancestral heritage through beauty ritual, why rest is resistance, how tattooing can be a sacred act, why puberty should be celebrated, and how globalisation and the borderless world has left us yearning for community and ritual.
As youâll glean from our sprawling conversation, âbeautyâ - and by that I donât mean make-up, but the social, political and cultural ideals around womenâs bodies - is the portal to the way we live. I found this conversation so galvanizing (I am now on the path to getting âspiritually rippedâ) and I really hope you do too.
Decolonising My Body: a radical exploration of rituals and beauty by Afua Hirsch
Get in touch at [email protected]
Presented by Pandora Sykes
Sound by Kelsey Bennett
Co-production by Pandora Sykes and Kelsey Bennett
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What does the term âsociopathâ mean to you? Serial killer? Social outcast? Or wait - is that a psychopath?
Patric first told her story in a column for the cult Modern Love series, titled âHe Married a Sociopath: Meâ. After the piece received an enormous response, Patric wrote a probing memoir about a life spent searching for answers: Why didnât she feel guilt or shame like other people? Why did she have this overwhelming feeling of apathy? And how could she escape the strange pressure she felt, without resorting to violence?
In this episode, Patric, a qualified psychotherapist, debunks the myths around sociopathy, sharing some of the cons, but also the pros. Above all, she wants us to see that sociopathy is a part of neurodiversity - and not a mere personality type.
[NB: âsociopathâ is not a recognised psychiatric term in the UK - it comes under âantisocial personality disorderâ. But Patric thinks the two are different and so I defer to her experience/ language.]
Sociopath: A Memoir by Patric Gagne
The Perks of Being a Sociopath by Patric Gagne for TIME magazine
He Married A Sociopath: Me by Patric Gagne for The New York Timesâ Modern Love column
Get in touch at [email protected]
Presented by Pandora Sykes
Sound by Kelsey Bennett
Co-production by Pandora Sykes and Kelsey Bennett
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The homogenisation of popular culture is something Iâve been thinking about for a long time. In my 2020 book, How Do We Know Weâre Doing It Right? (which spawned this very podcast), I wrote an essay called Get The Look - inspired by a wildly successful Zara polkadot dress - about how internet culture is encouraging young women to dress as facsimiles of one other.
So I was really excited to talk to Kyle Chayka, a staff writer at The New Yorker and the author of a book Filterworld, about how technology - and more specifically, the algorithm - has come to shape what we watch, listen to, eat, dress and even how we travel.
In this episode, we discuss the paradox of choice, decision fatigue, surveillance capitalism, dumb phones and how to break free of âthe algoâ in order to re-learn what you actually like.
Filterworld: How Algorithms Flattened Culture by Kyle Chayka
Read Kyleâs writing on tech and social media for The New Yorker here.
Get in touch at [email protected]
Presented by Pandora Sykes
Sound by Kelsey Bennett
Co-production by Pandora Sykes and Kelsey Bennett
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Feeling demotivated? Aimless? Without meaning, or purpose? According to sociologist and psychologist Corey Keyes, you could be languishing.
In this episode, I talk to the renowned pioneer of mental wellbeing about his theories of languishing and flourishing, the subject of a thought-provoking new book. Corey explains why so many of us are languishing, how itâs different from burnout and depression, and the habits (such as âpassive entertainmentâ) which can keep you stuck in the rut.
Corey also explores his opposing theory of flourishing, which is not just about âfeeling goodâ but âfunctioning wellâ - and how seeking it saved his life. So what does it mean to flourish? And how can we achieve it?
Languishing: How To Feel Alive Again in a World That Wears Us Down by Corey Keyes
Adam Grantâs piece for The New York Times on languishing
Coreyâs interview with The Guardian
Get in touch at [email protected]
Presented by Pandora Sykes
Sound by Kelsey Bennett
Co-production by Pandora Sykes and Kelsey Bennett
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Welcome to the last episode of Series 3! I really hope you have enjoyed the series and itâs given you some pause for thoughts. Donât forget to rate and review the show on iTunes to help other people find me.
Priya Parker is a conflict resolution strategist, based in the States and the author of a 2018 book, The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters. Iâve wanted to speak to her since I read her book in 2019 , because so many of us - myself included! - struggle to maintain our social lives. What to say yes to, what to say no to, what to seek out and what to avoid.
Priya talks about gatherings big and small in a way that she calls âsmall p politicalâ - because it is deeply political, she says, to decide what we celebrate, elevate and value through who, why and when we come together. I think Priya offers a really unique perspective on what gathering actually means. I hope you enjoy it - and thanks for joining me, for series 3!
How should we meet? And who decides? by Priya Parker for The New York Times
The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker
When do we actually need to meet in person? By Rae Ringel for The Harvard Business Review
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Production by Joel Grove
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Can the way you think about your body, change the way it works? Can a positive outcome about ageing, actually cause you to live longer?
Iâve been curious about the mind-body axis for a while, and then I read The Expectation Effect by the award-winning science journalist and author, David Robson about how our expectations can shape our experience - and I was fascinated.
Using dozens of jaw-dropping studies throughout history, David explores how thinking a certain way about something, can change the way your body responds. Now, you cannot think yourself fitter, happier, richer. This is not The Secret. But you can also harness the power of your brainâs predictive machine, to live a healthier, longer, life.
David and I discuss the power of âreframingâ, the effect of placebos and nocebos and the incredible impact of self-affirmation in young people, and how it can shape their entire future. I hope this episode gives you some tools to take away.
The Expectation Effect by David Robson is out now
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Production by Joel Grove
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Did you find yourself scrambling for words, losing your keys, forgetting basically everything, when you had a baby? Perhaps you witnessed it in your best friend, your sibling, your partner. The jokes about how women are lobotomised by motherhood are damaging and misogynistic - the term âbaby brainâ used to keep women in their place - but how was i to reconcile that knowledge with a brain that felt like it had turned to cheese?
Which is why I was so excited to speak to science writer, Chelsea Conaboy. With her new book, Mother Brain - and a searing recent New york times op-ed âWhy maternal instinct was a myth created by menâ - Chelsea uses science to myth bust so many idea we have around biology, birth and the brain.
We discuss why the idea of âmaternal instinctâ is unhelpful to new mothers AND fathers, why âthe golden hourâ is not the only chance you have to bond with your baby, why oxytocin aka âthe love hormoneâ is not just released by birth and breast-feeding and - this is a big one - why the fact that a birthing parentâs brain shrinks after birth is not a negative thing, but a sharpening of the synapses -- AND it happens in male primary carers, too. Chelsea doesnât deny that the brain changes through giving birth. But the physiological changes are not relegated to the biological parent, she argues: they exist in every primary carer.
I found Chelseaâs research as fascinating as I did reassuring - and I really hope this episode helps any new parents, or anyone supporting new parents - and may help guide us towards a more equitable vision of what parenthood looks like.
https://www.nytimes.com/2022/08/26/opinion/sunday/maternal-instinct-myth.htmlBuy Chelseaâs new book, Mother Brain, here: https://www.hive.co.uk/Product/Chelsea-Conaboy/Mother-Brain--Separating-Myth-from-Biology---the-Science-/26445858
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Tired all the time? Worried youâre not getting the fabled â8 hoursâ ? Youâre not alone: weâve become a nation of orthosomniacs. But panic not, because sleep scientist Russell Foster is here to help.
The University of Oxford neuroscientist and the author of a new book, Life Time, is a world leading expert on circadian rhythms, also known as: the body clock. And guess what? The whole 8 hours a night isâŠ. A myth.
We discuss the difference between sleepiness and fatigue; why broken sleep is not a bad thing but a natural occurrence; and why we are facing a public health crisis when it comes to looking after our night-shift workers. We also discuss what works and what doesnât work: such as sleep tracking apps, sleeping pills, CBD drops and more - and why trying to become an early bird, when youâre a night owl is so damn hard. (Blame your parents.)
Life Time: The New Science of the Body Clock, and How It Can Revolutionize Your Sleep and Health by Russell Foster
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Production by Joel Grove
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Iâve been wanting to do an episode on the many myths of fast fashion since I wrote an essay titled Get The Look, for my 2020 essay collection (which this podcast series first spun off from). And Venetia La Manna, a presenter and podcaster campaigning against fast fashion and advocating for more mindful consumption, is the ideal guest to explore this issue with. She regularly organises protests against fast fashion brands and her Instagram account is a vital trove of statistics about what really lies behind that âsustainableâ clothing tag.
Venetia and I discuss overproduction, why luxury is as bad as the high street at underpaying their workers, the stigma of second hand (and how we can make it more inclusive) and why this isnât an individual issue, but a corporate one. We also discuss the role of social media and influencer culture in maintaining fast fashionâs stronghold.
Resources: @theorispresentLauren Bravo on Sentimental Garbage
Second hand & clothes swaps:VintedThreadUpNuw DepopeBayImparfaite ParisVestiaireRococo Paris The Real Real
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Production by Joel Grove
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What do you know about knife crime? Itâs something that happens in gangs and on the streets. Itâs something youâve never had to worry about. Right?
Gary Younge is an author, broadcaster and a professor of sociology at the university of Manchester. Formerly an editor at large of the guardian newspaper, he has written 5 books including Another Day In The Death of America, which chronicled the lives of ten children and adolescents who were shot dead on one day in November 2013.
Iâve wanted to talk to Gary since his award winning investigation for the Guardian in 2018, Beyond The Blade, where he took a similar approach to another day in the death of america: except he took a year, not a day, and he told the stories of the 39 children and adolescents who had been stabbed to death, in 2017. Gary has lived in both America - where he wrote extensively about gun culture - and now, back in the UK, where he has written extensively about knife crime, and I donât think thereâs anyone who descontructs the myths around social violence, like Gary.
We discuss why knife crime is a public health issue, why the term âknife crimeâ itself is a social construct lacking in context, the ramifications of shutting down shared, free spaces for adolescents and how we wonât ever get on top of it until we understand that knife crime is about poverty, not race.
Follow @garyyounge on Twitter
Read Beyond The Blade
Buy Another Day In The Death of America
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Production by Joel Grove
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Professor Pragya Agarwal is a data and behavioural scientist, a visiting professor of social inequities and injustice at Loughborough University and the founder of a research think tank, The 50% Project. She is also the author of five books, most recently Hysterical: Exploding The Myth of Gendered Emotions.
In this episode, we talk about whether women really do cry more; the myth of the hysterical woman; how emotional expression varies over cultures and societies; and why we need to talk more about the biases in science.
Buy Hysterical: Exploding The Myth of Gendered Emotions
Follow Pragya on Twitter @DrPragyaAgarwal
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Production by Joel Grove
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There are 50million people living with dementia worldwide. By 2050, itâs likely to rise to 152 million. But how much do you know about dementia? When itâs a disease so rapidly on the rise, why arenât we talking more about it?
Wendy Mitchell is a former NHS worker who was diagnosed with young-onset dementia at the age of 58. Sheâs written two books: Somebody I Used To Know and What I Wish People Knew About Dementia
We talk about why dementia is so much more than memory loss; how the arts often falls back on stereotypes when featuring characters with dementia; and how Wendy thinks a diagnosis of dementia could be better broken by doctors - itâs not the end of life, she says, itâs the beginning of a different one.
Buy What I Wish People Knew About Dementia, by Wendy Mitchell
Follow Wendy on Twitter @WendyPMitchell
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Production by Joel Grove
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Jessica DeFino is not your regular beauty journalist. After finding her pieces were regularly rejected from newspapers and magazines for being too incendiary, or dissing beauty brands who advertised, she founded her newsletter, The Unpublishable, where, in her own words she âdismantles beauty standards, debunks marketing myths and explores how beauty culture impacts peopleâ. It now has 40,000 readers.
The Huffington Post once described her as âgiving the middle finger to the entire beauty industryâ.
Jess and I discuss why clear skin isnât a health objective but an aesthetic one, the evolution of a tan, the explosion of celebrity makeup and skincare lines and why weâre at a tipping point in beauty.
Subscribe to The Unpublishable
Follow Jess on Twitter and IG @jessicadefino_
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Production by Joel Grove
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I'm so pleased to bring you this s2 bonus episode sponsored by Sage Appliances, with Cariad Lloyd, which we recorded in front of a live audience a month ago. Cariad is a comedian and writer and the creator of the cult podcast, Griefcast, where she interviews famous people (usually comedians) like Robert Webb, David Baddiel and Sara Pascoe about the human experience of death and grief, and which has won multiple British Podcast Awards.
I'm really interested in grief: why we fear it (especially other people's), why we expect grief to look a certain way, the lack of nuance in our understanding of grief. What I love about Griefcast is the way it democratises grief: there is no one way to grieve. Grief, as Cariad digs into, is not just very sad, it is funny, absurd, weird and life-expanding.
You can listen to a new series of Griefcast now, on all good pod platforms and find Griefcast on Twitter @thegriefcast. Here are some helpful resources from Cariad:
The Grief Network
Let's Talk About Loss charity
Dead Parent Club podcast
The New Normal charity
Bereavement Room podcast
And some books I recommend: Grief Works by Julia Samuel, Once More We Saw Stars by Jayson Greene, It's Your Loss by Robyn Donaldson and Emma Hopkinson, Languages of Loss by Sasha Bates, Sunset by Jessie Cave and The Year of Magical Thinking by Joan Didion. -
Helen Russell is a journalist, podcaster and author of How To Be Sad, a part memoir/ manifesto which argues that we canât talk about happiness, without making space for sadness. But why are we so scared of being sad? We discuss âwarm glow givingâ, what we can learn about sadness from the Russians and why "money can't buy you happiness" isn't quite right.
Buy How To Be Sad, here: https://www.hive.co.uk/Product/Helen-Russell/How-to-be-Sad--Everything-IVe-Learned-About-Getting-Happi/24958621
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Pooja Lakshmin MD is a psychiatrist and writer, specialising in women's mental health. The founder of digital women's health platform Gemma, she is a regular contributor to The New York Times, where she writes about wellness and self-care (amongst other subjects) about which she is currently writing a book. We talk about what the business of wellness gets wrong, what real self-care looks like and the difference between burnout and despair.
Follow Pooja's work, here: https://www.instagram.com/womensmentalhealthdoc/
Gemma's first all digital course on dealing with mom guilt, martyr-mode, and perfectionism can be found here: https://gemmawomen.com/unloadmomguilt
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Noreena Hertz is an economist and thought leader and the author of The Lonely Century, a fascinating and sprawling study of the epidemic of loneliness. We discuss why loneliness is higher in cities where people walk faster, how robots can be a force for good in social care and how to reconnect communities.
Buy The Lonely Century here: https://www.hive.co.uk/Product/Noreena-Hertz/The-Lonely-Century--A-Call-to-Reconnect/24115876
Tickets for Pandora Sykes in conversation with Candice Brathwaite are available here: fane.co.uk/pandora
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Arthur Brooks is a social scientist, Harvard professor and author of multiple books, who writes a column for The Atlantic about happiness. After his column on introverts and extroverts caught my attention (I am fascinated in personality theories), I rung him up to discuss why introverts fared better during the pandemic and what extroverts and introverts can learn from one another. Plus, we take a little detour into why 'more' isn't always better. You can read that column here: https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2021/05/introverts-extroverts-happiness-gap-pandemic/618925/Tickets for Pandora Sykes in conversation with Candice Brathwaite are available here: fane.co.uk/pandora
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Alexandra Wilson is a criminal and family law barrister, the founder of Black Women In Law and the author of Black & White: a young barristerâs story of race and class in a broken justice system. We discuss the barâs diversity and access problem, Stop & Search, the over-representation of black people in prisons and what we get wrong when we talk about knife crime. Plus, she drops some deliciously archaic nuggets about the process of becoming a barrister.
Buy In Black and White https://www.hive.co.uk/Product/Alexandra-Wilson/In-Black-and-White--A-Young-Barristers-Story-of-Race-and-/25680126 Tickets for Pandora Sykes in conversation with Candice Brathwaite are available here: fane.co.uk/pandora - Laat meer zien
