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So many men get it wrong in the bedroom... Trying to be nice... Unsure of how to take the lead... And even ashamed of their own desire... If you've ever felt these ways, you’re not alone (and I have to regularly work on this too). In this episode, Layla Martin and I dive deep into how you can sexually unleash your primal masculine energy - in a way that’s bold, conscious, attuned, and deeply sexy.
🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
In this episode you'll discover why women crave a man’s powerful presence - one that combines focus, strength, desire, the ability to ravish with care... And you'll discover how to embody it in a way that transforms your sexual relationships and ignites desire.
You'll also learn a transformative practice Layla calls “fuck and kill to consciousness,” which will probably be really confronting for you - in a good way... It's an exercise to help you integrate your raw, primal instincts and channel them into connection, confidence, sexual pleasure and leadership in the bedroom.
This episode is your invitation to stop holding back, to own your power unapologetically, and show up as the man you’re truly capable of being — magnetic, present, powerful and unforgettable. Join us!
❤️🔥 CONNECT WITH LAYLA:
🔸 The Tantric Mastermind for Couples (Upcoming in 2025)
🔸 Layla’s Youtube Channel
🔸 Layla’s Podcast "This Tantric Life"
🔸 Layla’s Instagram
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course (February 2025)
🔸 Taylor’s Youtube Channel
🔸 Taylor’s Podcast "Sex Upgraded"
🔸 Taylor’s Website
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Ever felt stuck in your sexual self-mastery journey? Have you tried all kinds of techniques but feel like you’re still missing something? If so, this episode is for you. You'll learn the #1 reason most men struggle to see real progress in their sexual growth - and how you can overcome it.
HINT: techniques alone won’t get you there. You've got to dive into the deeper emotional and psychological layers under the techniques - to create a strong foundation for the techniques to rest on top of - and by doing so, you’ll unlock the true sexual growth, confidence, pleasure, and connection you desire.
🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
❤️🔥 CONNECT WITH LAYLA:
🔸 The Tantric Mastermind for Couples (Upcoming in 2025)
🔸 Layla’s Youtube Channel
🔸 Layla’s Podcast "This Tantric Life"
🔸 Layla’s Instagram
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course (February 2025)
🔸 Taylor’s Youtube Channel
🔸 Taylor’s Podcast "Sex Upgraded"
🔸 Taylor’s Website
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As a man, if you want incredible sexual experiences, you MUST learn how to embody alpha consciousness - so you can sexually lead from that place. In this episode you'll learn practical ways to do that - in sex, in dating, and in solo-cultivation practices too.
🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
❤️🔥 This episode is part 2 of the Sexual Polarity episodes with Justin Patrick Pierce. You can listen to the first interview here: https://youtu.be/aTwQST3CMc0 👉 I recommend listening to part one BEFORE you listen to this episode, because you'll learn lots of fundamental sexual polarity concepts that will help you to get the most out and apply the techniques of this second interview.
EPISODE TOPICS:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
04:08 Alpha Consciousness Fundamentals
10:40 Authentic Confidence VS "Mainstream" Confidence
19:10 Embodying Alpha & Omega Consciousness
27:23 Posture, Refinement, Service & Impact
34:40 Intro to Sexual Yoga
36:20 Alpha Practices with Your Partner
53:24 Three Practical Techniques to Create Sexual Polarity
01:03:11 Completing the Energetic Circuit in Sex
🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS:
🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/
🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5
#longtermrelationships #relationshipadvice #menssexualhealthSupport the show
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If you want to have amazing sex in a long-term relationship (consistently), you've got to understand HOW TO BUILD SEXUAL POLARITY. ❤️🔥 This interview is part 1 of a 2-part series to teach you a new model of sexual polarity, that you can start using today to build sexual charge in your relationship. Part 2 will come out in a couple of weeks.
🔴 🎥 You can watch the video version of this episode here on Youtube.
EPISODE CHAPTER LIST:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
02:46 Justin's Backstory (in the Pick Up Artist World)
08:26 Justin's Long-Term Relationship Success with Londin Winters
11:05 The THREE Ways of Relating with our Partners
11:41 Navigating Relationship Dynamics for Thriving Intimacy
20:21 The PROBLEM with "Masculine" and "Feminine" Terminology
34:27 Exploring Consciousness and Self-Integration
46:31 Developing Emotional Resilience in Relationships
53:01 What IS Sexual Practice?
56:55 How to Build Sexual Polarity in Relationship
01:04:58 PRACTICE: How to Build Sexual Energy With Your Partner
🔱 JUSTIN'S LINKS:
🔸 Website: https://www.justinpatrickpierce.com/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinpatrickpierce/
🔸 Couples Retreat (Aug 22-25): https://kripalu.org/presenters-programs/yoga-intimacy-spiritual-path-intimate-relationship
🔱 TAYLOR'S LINKS:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLijj64iRfquV67jfmCuQoDHHA8T52Vhp5
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Have you ever felt a primal stirring within - a draw to the wild that seems at odds with our digital, modern world? If so, this episode is for you. The wild man archetype is important, and together we'll explore HOW TO INTEGRATE THE WILD MAN into our every day life. Including sex, business, relationship, community, etc...
2024 Wild Man RetreatJeremy's WebsiteJeremy's New Book
🔴 🎥 You can watch the youtube version here.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS**
**(Add 2 minutes to each of these times because of the added intro clip describing my upcoming workshop).
0:00 Intro
2:32 The Wild Man Archetype Defined
9:20 What is an Archetype?
13:17 Wild Man & Work: Practical Example
15:53 Wild Man & Sex: Personal Story from Taylor
21:36 There's a Rising Anxiety in Society...
25:58 Healthy VS Unhealthy Wild Man
34:27 Integrating the Wild Man into Sex & Relationship
38:35 Integrating the Wild Man into Work
39:53 Embodying the Wild Man AND King Archetype
41:07 Importance of Council in Personal Growth
48:38 The Importance of IN-PERSON Men's Work
51:59 The Importance of FUN in Men's Work
53:15 European Shamanic Traditions (Jeremy's New Book)
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🔶 CONNECT WITH JEREMY:
Taylor's Upcoming Retreat (July 2024)Taylor's WebsiteTaylor's Instagram
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This episode is a deep journey into the PRACTICE of sexual integrity. It's one of the most important episodes on this podcast so far, so please take your time with it - and note the chapters below too. Also, please read the important note below before you finish the episode.
Mischa's Website: www.evolve.menMischa's Instagram: @mischabyruck
⚠️ IMPORTANT NOTE: While this conversation is in-depth and provides great options for moving forward in healthy ways, it does not cover all the nuances of sexual harm, integrity and accountability. There will always be scenarios that do not fit into what has been discussed here (for example, we did not talk about when people weaponize the idea/accusation that someone has caused harm to them when they haven't. Those instances are rare, but they're very real when they do happen).
🔴 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
✅ IMPORTANT TOPICS:
0:00 Intro/Welcome
2:17 Introducing Mischa (Work & Harm)
10:22 We Can ALL Cause Harm...
15:31 What is Power? (How to Lead More Effectively)
25:41 Reevaluating Consent Violations and Sexual Harm
32:34 Harm Reduction in Sex-Positive Communities
36:23 Ecstatic Dance, Consent & Community Impact
41:34 How to Dance Wild & Crazy with Positive Impact
43:08 How Our "Energy" Impacts Others (In Ecstatic Dance and Life)
45:55 The Art of Attunement
48:13 Sexual Integrity VS Subjective Harm
55:04 Sexual Liberation REQUIRES a Deeper Look at Justice & Accountability
1:03:52 Navigating Feedback, Cancel Culture & Public Call Outs
1:13:55 The TEST of Men's Sexual Integrity & Accountability
1:17:59 Men's Responsibility in Leadership Roles
1:24:21 The Power of DIGNITY vs Shame & Self-Victimization
1:33:48 The Art of Apologizing
1:45:52 Men are Good
If you have any questions or feedback about this episode, please feel free to get in touch with Mischa and I. You can find our contact info below.
Thank you for being part of this conversation!
-Taylor
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🔶 CONNECT WITH MISCHA:
Taylor's Website: www.taylorjohnson.lifeTaylor's Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson
🔶 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:Support the show
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Most of us (as men) aren't living at our full potential. And breaking free of this - of being shut down - takes work... So most men stay stuck... In this episode you'll learn tools to work through your blocks, and you'll hear personal stories (from Thomas and I (Taylor) about how we both worked through MAJOR blockages in our lives.
🔴🎥 You can watch the Youtube version here.
And if you resonate with this episode...
Check out our upcoming hybrid online & in-person training & retreat in Asheville, NC - specifically designed to help men overcome the most common blocks we face, so you can thrive in life, sex, relationships AND your WHY for being alive. The program is called Liberate Your Life(Force), and you'll find all the info below. 👇
🔱 RETREAT INFO & APPLICATION 🔱
https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforce
🔸 Enrollment is by application only
🔸 Space is limited to 18 men
🔸 Enrollment is open, on a first come first serve basis
COURSE & RETREAT DATES:
🔸 In-Person Retreat: July 11th-14th
🔸 9-Week Training: Starts June 17th, with weekly exercises for you to complete on your own time, AND live group calls every Monday evening from 6-8pm EST.
More info here: https://heartofmen.community/liberate-your-lifeforce
QUESTIONS?
If you have any questions, feel free to shoot me a voice message on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
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EPISODE CHAPTERS:
00:00 Intro
02:58 Thomas's Background in Men's Work
04:06 How We Met & What We're Doing Together
10:36 Our Personal Blocks...
18:18 We Need the Right Conditions to Heal & Grow
22:12 Life Wants us to Heal and Feel Pleasure
25:12 From Hyper-Mentality to Feeling Alive
33:16 From Numbness to Consciously Choosing Feeling
42:32 Integration of the Heart and Vitality
48:31 Integration of Sex and Heart
57:45 True Power Goes to Men on a Mission
1:03:52 What Makes a Powerful Man?
1:05:16 In-Person Retreat: Liberate Your Life(Force)
1:09:37 Closing Thoughts
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These could use some refinement:
00:00 - Intro
01:29 - Opening
02:08 - Ricky’s Background
02:29 - Relationship Issues Mistaken for Hormonal Issues
05:10 - The Correlation Between Long-Term Healthy Relationships and Happiness
09:58 - Prioritising Sex As A Parent & The Importance of Intimacy
17:10 - Biggest Struggles in Raising Children Today
22:19 - Comparing Today’s Parenting to Previous Generations
27:00 - Social Media and It’s Negative Effect on Relationships
31:12 - The Illusion of Social Media and How It Divides Us As A Society
35:45 - The Importance of Resolving Relationship Issues as A Team
38:08 - Shifting The Focus From The Individual to The Partnership’s Needs
41:44 - Identifying What You Need & Deciding If You Should Stay in A Relationship
48:10 - What Makes Us Happy
54:58 - The Consequences of Being Too Comfortable
57:59 - Final Words
01:00:34 - How to Find and Connect With Dr Ricky ArensonSupport the show
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My partner Naema and I recorded this episode to teach you how to SKILLFULLY penetrate a woman in a truly pleasure-filled & connective way - informed by Naema's profession as a pelvic bodyworker & sex coach for Women, and from our own personal sexual practices too.
In this episode you'll learn juicy & HIGHLY pleasurable sexual penetration techniques, you'll learn important female sexual anatomy (with visual diagrams in the video episode on Youtube), AND you'll learn how to avoid common penetration mistakes men make that can ruin sex for everyone involved.
*NOTE: I've made these sex mistakes too. Please remember that I'm human just like you, and I've come a loooong way on my journey to get to where I am now. Ideally you can learn from my mistakes so you can have better sex today - without having to stumble as much as I did when I was younger.
ABOUT NAEMA
Naema is a pelvic specialist for women, who combines powerful hands-on work with transformational ritual & coaching experiences too - proving a truly full-body, mind & spirit approach to healing sexual blocks and unlocking orgasmic, pain-free & fully confident sexual aliveness in the women she works with.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 - Intro
01:45 - Opening
06:15 - Theme’s Naema has learned about penetration working with women
08:15 - How rushing sex hurts women (and you too)
15:45 - What makes a bad penetrative sex experience
19:20 - What to do before sex
23:15 - Technique to help her open
24:30 - At what point should her pussy be touched?
26:25 - How to warm up a vulva/should you touch her clit?
32:05 - Diagram of Clitoris
34:00 - Waiting for the ask
36:40 - How to help your partner not feel rushed in penetration
40:20 - *IMPORTANT* Technique for helping women to move through pain
45:00 - How to help your woman heal her sexual trauma
47:00 - 2 things that guys should do differently during sex
50:00 - Playing with different types of pleasure with your partner
54:35 - Cervical orgasms and what the cervix likes
56:30 - How to stop penetration in a good way
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🔱 CONNECT WITH NAEMA
🔸 Instagram
🔸 Naema’s YouTube
🔸Naema’s Links & Pussy Workshop
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🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/
🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/
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Discover the unexpected ways pleasure and kink intertwine with human psychology as we navigate the often-misunderstood waters of BDSM, consent, and sexual liberation. Joined by the insightful Ashley and the experienced Kyle, we tackle the fallacy that kink is strictly a trauma response and instead reveal its potential for healing and empowerment. Through candid conversations, we explore the fluid dynamics of dominance and submission, the role of 'brat energy' in BDSM, and how these practices can lead to personal growth and deeper self-understanding.
As we peel away societal taboos, our guests share their transformative journeys from mere participants to passionate educators within the kink community. They illuminate the joys of helping others safely unearth their desires, pushing past conventional boundaries to a place of profound erotic expression. We also dissect the critical role of consent and the Wheel of Consent, emphasizing how these frameworks can foster a safe and fulfilling exploration of one's sexual landscape.
Join us for this thought-provoking session where we embrace our primal instincts and redefine what it means to engage in role-playing, objectification, and the pursuit of pleasure. With practical advice and shared vulnerabilities, this episode promises a welcoming space for the curious, the seasoned, and everyone in between who seeks to understand the profound impact of kink on personal transformation and sexual empowerment. Ashley and Kyle guide us through this rich tapestry, leaving us with a deeper appreciation for the nuanced world of kink and the liberation that comes with embracing our true desires.Support the show
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Sex transmutation is one of the most important skills men can learn. Napoleon Hill, author of Think and Grow Rich - dedicated a full chapter of his book to "The Mystery of Sexual Transmutation" as a step to greater riches in life - but he failed to explain the real techniques for how he and other successful men have used sexual transmutation in their lives... In this episode, I'll show you how.
🔴 🎥 You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
MICROCOSMIC ORBIT VIDEOS:
💫 Microcosmic Orbit Diagram
💫 Microcosmic Orbit Partner Practice
*(I forgot to add these graphics in the Youtube version of this interview, so I'm adding them here).EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
0:00 Sex Transmutation Intro
2:44 What is Sex Transmutation?
3:40 Practical Examples
5:24 Transmutation of Ejaculation During Sex
7:08 Porn: Transmuting the Desire
9:15 Sex Transmutation at Work
12:13 Sexual Desire is Healthy (Don't Ignore It)
12:54 Somatics & Transmutation Example
16:52 When Someone Is NOT Attracted to You
17:45 The REACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation
29:01 Taylor's Personal Sex Example
33:44 The PROACTIVE Model of Sex Transmutation
37:39 Intro to Sexual Energy Integration Exercise
38:36 Exercise: Sexual Energy Integration
43:41 How to End Sex Without Ejaculation
45:25 Sexual Energy Conservation VS Cultivation
49:28 The Most Important Technique of All...
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ORGASMIC MASTERY COURSE:
🔱 Master this practice in the bedroom, learn to last as long as you want, have strong erections, and experience full body orgasmic pleasure with my upcoming Orgasmic Mastery Course that begins on February 8th.Support the show
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Want to boost your testosterone naturally? This episode of the Sex Upgraded Podcast will tell you how. Join Taylor & male hormone expert Dr. Tracy Gapin for a practical & motivating conversation about how YOU can be the best version of yourself by optimizing all of your male hormone levels.
Hormone optimization is key to overall vitality, with insights into libido, peak performance, mental clarity, and conquering life's challenges. Check out my personal testosterone journey in this video.
And...
🔴 Get Your Testosterone Levels Tested Here
And use this code: TAYLORNEWYEAR for a big discount
In this episode, you'll:
• Learn about the science behind lab tests, stress's impact on hormones, and strategies to combat age-related changes.
• Gain wisdom on decoding your body's signals through advanced diagnostics and lifestyle adjustments.
• Discover tools for a revolutionized existence, including mastering metabolism with continuous glucose monitoring and employing heart rate variability in stress management.
• Better understand how you can have longevity, energy, strength, and enduring zest for life.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 - Intro
01:27 - Opening
02:15 - Dr. Tracy Gapin's Background
05:44 - Common Underlying Causes of Hormonal Problems
07:09 - What Is Low Testosterone
11:04 - Stress and The Link Between Testosterone and Cortisol
16:13 - The Effects of Low Testosterone on the Mind & Body
18:52 - Ways to Improve Testosterone Levels
20:08 - Impact of Low Testosterone on Society
21:52 - Minimizing Exposure to the Toxins in Our Environment
25:19 - Lifestyle & Time Frame To Improve Hormonal Levels
34:22 - Living With Suboptimal Levels of Testosterone Without Realizing
35:56 - The Natural Process of Aging and Finding Balance with Performance
39:30 - The Feeling and Experience of Optimal Hormonal Levels
41:47 - Healthy, Normal Sex Drive After 40 Years
44:38 - Advances in Men's Medicine Space
51:14 - Living With Intention, Sleep & Diet
56:35 - Final Advice
58:19 - How To Find and Connect With Dr. Tracy Gapin
---------------------🔱 CONNECT WITH DR. GAPIN:
🔸 Gapin Institute
🔸 Dr. Gapin's Website
🔸 High Performance Handbook---------------------
🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
🔸 Instagram
🔸 Website
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This episode is a look into my personal life - because I want to be transparent with you around my professional & life development as a teacher. You'll hear about the 3 big trainings I'm personally enrolled in for 2024 (and why)... and you'll also hear my 3 main personal growth areas I want to work on too.
Somatic Experiencing Practitioner TrainingEmbodied Men's Leadership Training (with John Wineland)Somatic Coach Training Program (with Strozzi Institute)
🔴🎥 You can watch this episode on Youtube here.
The best way to ask me anything about this episode would be to comment on the youtube version I linked to above. And if you have BDSM recommendations, please feel free to DM me on Instagram. I'm all ears.
MY 2024 PERSONAL/PROFESSIONAL EDUCATION PLANRESOURCES MENTIONED:
My Testosterone Video (On Youtube)Sex Upgraded Podcast (On Youtube)🔱 UPCOMING TRAINING FOR MEN:
🔸 The Orgasmic Mastery Course begins on February 8th, 2024. This is a 10-week training for any man who wants to become the best lover they can be - the kind of lover who blows his partner's mind - AND feels 100% confident and sexually alive in the process. Check out the course page for more info.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
0:00 Why I Made This Episode
2:30 The 3 Big Trainings I'm Taking in 2024
3:01 1 - Somatic Experiencing Practitioner Training
5:52 2 - Embodied Men's Leadership Training
8:28 3 - Strozzi Somatic Coaching Training
10:23 BDSM Training? (I Need Your Advice...)
11:21 Male Hormone Optimization
13:17 ADHD & Sex
16:16 Living a Balanced Life...
18:11 Request: I Need Your Help...Support the show
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Have you ever thought about becoming a sex coach for men? What does it take? Are there any requirements or certifications? Perhaps more importantly, what's it actually like to be a sex coach for men?
In this episode you'll hear some behind the scenes stories and experiences from both Cam Fraser and I (we're both certified sexologists and full time sex coaches for men), and you'll hear how we both got to be where we are today.
You'll also learn about his new sex coach certification training (with tons of great guest instructors) for people who want to become professional sex coaches that specifically work with men.
I've looked through the syllabus, and it looks pretty awesome. I'm going to actually take one part of the training too: the SAR (described in the episode).
If you're interested, check out the links below:
🔱 MEN'S SEX COACH TRAINING:
🔸 Check out the sex coaching certification program here.
🔸 And join here: https://bit.ly/Mens-Sex-Coaching-Program
*If you join through this link, I'll receive a small commission as a thank you for connecting you to this program. That commission will help me continue to create this podcast. Thank you! :)
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
08:53 Cam's Journey to Becoming a Sex Coach for Men
20:26 Benefits of Working With a Sex Coach
33:02 Understanding Masculinity and Sexological Approaches
47:12 Importance of Anti-Racism Education in Coaching
53:39 Exploring Tantra Communities and Sexuality
59:49 Sexual Attitudes Reassessment (SAR) and Training Program
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🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins July 2023)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery
🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show
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If you're a Christian, or if you've ever been impacted by Christianity in any way, this episode should be next on your list. Dr. Kevin Jenson believes that it's possible for Christians to have amazing, sacred sex - and that these experiences are also supported by the bible. Kind of mind blowing stuff...
Is sex sinful?Is masturbation sinful?What about sex before marriage? Is that a sin?Can sex be sacred as a Christian?What does sacred sex mean from a Christian perspective?What does the bible say about masturbation?What does the bible say about sex before marriage?What does the bible say about sex in general?
🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
Some topics we cover:
Join Dr. Kevin Jenson and I to explore the cultural divide between sex and spirituality, while examining Christianity, epistemology, and ancient texts, to create an entirely new perspective of healthy sexuality that's possible for Christians - without losing their faith.
Kevin Jenson is a distinguished author and scholar, who shares insights from his life path, bridging the gap between his Christian faith and sexual desires.
And for the record, I don't see myself as a Christian... though as I write this on Christmas Eve, I'm about to head into a church service with my family. I grew up in a Christian household, and was heavily influenced by this faith. That's why I thought it'd be interesting to do this episode.
I've also worked with a LOT of Christian men, who want to have great sex and NOT let go of their faith. I want to support them in their desires for that, and so whatever positive content I can create to help these men and their partners, the better.EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 - Intro
01:28 - Opening
03:34 - Kevin's Background
09:17 - The Conflict Between Sexuality and Spirituality
12:22 - Epistemology & the Ways of Knowing
19:20 - Christian Views on Sex & Masturbation
23:17 - Sex Positive View within Christianity
31:45 - The Original Intent about Sexuality in the Bible
36:59 - The Church & The Dichotomy of Healthy Sexuality
41:48 - The Myth of Onan & Is Masturbation Sinful
48:07 - The Christian View of Male/Female Dynamic in Society
53:24 - "Porneia"
59:17 - Prayerful Sex
1:05:41 - Kevin's Journey of Sharing His Work in The (Christian) World
1:12:02 - In & Out Group in the Christian Community
1:15:31 - How to Connect with Kevin
1:16:46 - Christian Trauma---------------------
🔱 CONNECT WITH KEVIN:
🔸 Special page for Sex Upgraded podcast listeners
🔸 Kevin’s Website
🔸 Kevin's Instagram: @drkevinjenson---------------------
🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
🔸 Instagram
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This is a serious and sensitive episode... for any man who has ever hurt a woman - accidentally or otherwise. Specifically, for any man who has caused harm (myself included), and who wants to do better... Who wants to heal, offer repair, get humble, grow and become a better version of themselves.
There's no shaming in this episode... Papillon and I wanted to create this for all of the men who want to improve themselves, but don't know where to go or what resources to turn to.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro
01:28 Opening
03:02 Papillon's Professional Background
03:58 Sexual Assault & Crossing Boundaries
09:35 Self-Reflection on Causing Sexual Harm
14:47 Finding a Therapist to Talk with
17:40 Other Options to Help with Self-Reflection
21:28 Healing Without Contacting the Person You've Sexually Assaulted
29:21 Recognizing When We Have Harmed Another Person
35:56 Finding Space to Share And Reflect
38:25 What to Do If You Realize You Have Assaulted Someone
47:40 Centering The Survivor's Needs
52:56 Facing the Pain of the Realization
54:55 Can a Changed Person Be Seen in a New Light
57:02 Restorative Justice
58:54 Accountability and Developing Self-Awareness
1:05:33 Resources and Materials to Look Up
GENERATED EPISODE DESCRIPTION:
In this episode, Taylor explores how we can prioritize survivors' needs in sexual assault cases, with insights from returning guest, Papillon, a licensed clinical mental health counselor specializing in sexual trauma.
Discover scenarios where boundaries are crossed, emphasizing humility, growth, and understanding survivors' needs before personal desires. Delve into the challenges survivors face, the impact of public disclosure, and the potential for restorative justice processes.
Listen now, as Taylor and Papillon reflect on their past actions, and discuss learning from mistakes with empathy and accountability. The conversation touches on sociopathic tendencies, self-reflection, and finding support in affinity groups, offering condensed insights into the complexities of addressing sexual harm and promoting healing.
🔱 PAPILLON’S WEBSITE & RECOMMENDATIONS
🔸 Papillon's Website
🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon
🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon for Kids
🔸 Consent “Cup of Tea” Cartoon (Clean Version)
🔸 Feel free to send us more resources on this that you recommend.
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🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery
🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast
🔸 Instagram
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What is the difference between Neo Tantra and Classical Tantra? What do they have in common, and what can we learn from them both, to implement into our own lives?
In this episode, Taylor explores tantric wisdom and history with Hema; a gifted mentor and teacher offering unique perspective from her upbringing and life full of experience with tantric traditions.Press play to learn about the historical complexities of Tantra, its cultural branches, the way it challenges societal norms, and can guide you beyond better sexual experiences and into deeper spiritual growth.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
02:36 Hema’s Story
05:03 Neo Tantra & Classical Tantra Explained
10:21 What is the history of Tantra?
19:10 Why Tantra is considered the “left hand path” in India
21:46 Tantra as a practice of deconstructing the ego
28:47 Sexuality as the primordial force where we get our power
33:53 Tantra for Common Householders
37:13 How we can be overly attached to sex
39:14 Meditation practices for deep states of bliss
43:00 How Taylor first found deep presence & bliss
45:25 Enlightenment through Tantra
50:11 “Spiritual Psychopaths” in Tantra
57:48 Practices Hema Recommends
1:01:42 Closing
🔱 CONNECT WITH HEMA:
🔸 Work with Hema: https://talk2hema.youcanbook.me/
🔸 Hema’s Website: https://hemaholisticmystic.com/
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🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/orgasmic-mastery-course/
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/semen-retention-mastery/
🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/free-7-day-semen-retention-challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide: https://learn.taylorjohnson.life/Free-Ejaculation-Control-Training
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Sex Upgraded Podcast: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/podcast
🔸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/
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Tantra is a spiritual system that invites you to experience sex and life in a more powerful way. Your sexual energy can be rocket fuel for your entire life, but most men waste it - and waste their lives away in the process. In this episode you'll learn how to harness it so you can truly thrive in sex AND life.
Shawn Roop is an expert on both classical and modern Tantra (Neo Tantra), and he focuses on helping men thrive in both sex and life. In this episode you'll learn about Tantric sex, ejaculation mastery and semen retention from the Tantric perspective, non-ejaculatory orgasms (Kria Vati), how to increase your capacity to hold more sexual pleasure and much more...
🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro & Welcome
02:13 Why Tantra is Important for Men
08:37 Common Questions (What is a Tantra Chair? Is Tantra Dangerous?)
10:22 Tantric Sex Positions & Kamasutra
13:56 Ejaculation Mastery
16:09 Alternatives to Ejaculatory Orgasm
19:16 Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms (Kriya Vati - Multiple Orgasms for Men)
30:35 Shawn's Experiences with Ejaculation Growing Up
33:05 Taylor's Most Amazing Sexual Experiences
36:15 Want to Last Longer in Bed? (Most Women Won't Like It)
41:50 Is Tantra Dangerous?
44:00 Redefining the Concept of Sex
53:37 Emotional Intelligence is KEY to Sexual Mastery
1:00:15 Build Your Capacity for Sexual Energy
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🔱 CONNECT WITH SHAWN:
🔸 Shawn's Upcoming Workshop (Discount Code: "Taylor"):
🔸 Shawn's Website "Tantra Quest"
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🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course (Begins February 8th, 2024)
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery (Self-Study Enrollment is Open Now)
🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
🔸 Instagram: @taylorclarkjohnson
🔸 Taylor's WebsiteSupport the show
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Have you ever watched porn on psychedelics? Tyson has, and he has some VERY interesting things to say about it. This is one of my favorite episodes so far, and I think you'll get a lot out of it IF you've ever watched porn or if you're in relationship with someone who has watched porn.
Check out the episode topics below, and please share this episode with a friend if you get something useful from it!
🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS:
00:00 Intro
03:31 Working With Porn Addiction
06:57 The Formation of Addictive Pattern with Porn
08:43 The Reality of the Porn Industry
12:57 Porn Stays in Our Energetic Field Some Time After Watching
15:35 Psychedelics & Porn, and Porn in Virtual Reality
21:27 Alternatives to Watching Porn
23:46 Is There Healthy Masturbation While Watching Porn?
26:52 The 11 Porn Users Archetypes
44:47 How You Masturbate is Important
55:16 How to Treat Your Penis
1:00:54 Circumcision
🔱 CONNECT WITH TYSON:
🔸 Tyson's Facebook
🔸 Tyson's Website
🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery
🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show
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If you're a man who likes women, the online dating world NOT easy. The odds are heavily stacked against you. You have to stand out. You have to market yourself. And this episode will show you how.
⚠️ The GOOD NEWS is that so few men actually put effort into their dating profiles, that IF you do, you will almost certainly stand out. Join Koen Goren and I as we dive into how you can optimize your dating profile, AND how to excel once you've matched with someone.
🔴 🎥 - You can also watch this episode on Youtube.
EPISODE TIMES & TOPICS
00:00 Welcome
03:01 Why Would Someone Hire a Dating Coach
09:57 The Difficulties in Online Dating
12:53 How to Optimize Your Dating Profile
19:32 Authenticity vs Marketing Yourself
24:01 Profile Photo Optimization
29:20 Improve Your Life BEFORE Online Dating
34:29 Profile Description Optimization
43:26 Clarify Your Desires
51:24 Online Dating vs Real Life Meeting People
54:19 Thoughts on Pick-up Artistry
1:02:59 How to Start Conversations After Matching
🔱 CONNECT WITH KOEN:
🔸 Koen's Website
🔱 TAYLOR'S SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY COURSES:
🔸 Orgasmic Mastery Course
🔸 Semen Retention Mastery
🔱 TAYLOR'S FREE GUIDES:
🔸 Free 7-Day Semen Retention Challenge
🔸 Free Ejaculation Control Guide
🔱 CONNECT WITH TAYLOR:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taylorclarkjohnson
Website: https://www.taylorjohnson.life/Support the show
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