Afleveringen
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This episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound
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This episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound
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Zijn er afleveringen die ontbreken?
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This episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound
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This episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound
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Everyone has a plan until life punches them in the face. In this episode, Joel and Hannah tackle what to do when chaos strikesâa family crisis, a health scare, an unexpected bill, a work emergencyâand how to stay productive, grounded, and sane while you're in the thick of it. The answer isn't pushing harder. It's doing less, on purpose, and protecting what keeps you human until you come out the other side.
Strategically Lower the Bar. When a crisis hits, scaling back your expectations is one of the smartest plays you can make. A Daily Big One executed faithfully beats an abandoned planner every time. Consistency at a lower level preserves momentum.Protect Your Rituals. The small, predictable rhythms of your dayâmorning coffee, an after-work walk, a bath before bedâare more important during chaos, not less. They cue your nervous system that you're safe, help you downshift, and keep you feeling like yourself.Reduce Decision Load. Decisions cost you something, even small ones. In a hard season, eliminate choices wherever you can (meals, outfits, routines) so you can protect your best thinking for the decisions that actually matter.Ask for Help. It feels counterintuitive, especially when you're most stressed, but people want to help. Feeling supported doesn't just feel betterâit makes the problem itself feel more manageable, even when nothing about the problem has changed.Ask the Essential Question. "What's the most important thing I can do right now?" works in productivity, and it works in crisis management. It separates what's truly essential from what can wait, be rescheduled, or dropped entirely.
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Most of us are working hard, but not always on the right things. In this episode, Joel and Hannah dig into the one question that cuts through overwhelm, busyness, and the pressure to do it all: What's most important right now? Simple to ask, harder to liveâbut the rewards on the other side are clarity, purpose, and a life that actually feels like yours.
Demands Will Always Outpace Your Capacity. No amount of optimization will give you more than 168 hours in a week. The goal isn't to fit it all in, but to decide what belongs. That shift, from doing more to deciding better, is where real productivity begins.Priority No. 1: Escape âDownhill Work.â Answering email, clearing notifications, filling out reportsânone of it is bad, but it's easy to fill an entire day with tasks that don't require your best thinking and don't move anything meaningful forward. Recognizing the difference is half the battle.Itâs a Two-Part Question (Both Parts Matter). What's most important identifies high-leverage, values-aligned work. Right now grounds it in the actual constraints of the real time, energy, and attention you have todayânot some ideal non-reality.Know Your Yes Before You Say No. Saying no gets easier when you're clear on what you're protecting. When you know what you're committed to, the asks that compete with your priorities become much easier to renegotiate.Make It a Habit, Not Just a Question. The goal is to internalize this question until it becomes a filter: an automatic reflex that runs before you dive into your task list each morning. Tools like the Weekly and Daily Big Three exist to make that reflex concrete and repeatable.
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Weâre wired to read other people's minds, or at least to think we can. And most of the time, we don't even realize we're doing it. In this episode, Joel and Hannah unpack the fascinating neuroscience behind mind reading, why it's both essential and deeply flawed, and what it actually costs us when we let our assumptions run the show. The good news: the solve is simpler than you think.
Mirror Neurons Are Almost Magic. In the 1990s, scientists discovered neurons that fire both when we perform an action and when we watch someone else perform it. These mirror neurons are the biological foundation of empathy. Theyâre also part of why we create stories about what other people are feeling and thinking.We Try to Read Other Peopleâs Minds. Maybe youâre assuming everything is equally urgent (itâs not). Maybe you decide youâre in trouble (youâre not). Maybe you think others disapprove of your work (they donât). These faulty stories burn emotional energy unnecessarily.We Expect Others to Read Our Minds. Not intentionally, of course. But the Curse of Knowledge can cause us to forget that other people donât know what we know. The result? We leave other people guessing about important information, and the likeliness of miscommunication and relational tension skyrockets.Slow Down and Check the Story. Before acting on what you think someone means, ask. A little curiosity can create clarity that prevents stress, second-guessing, and conflict. Asking can sometimes take humility, but it beats the alternative.Make the Invisible Visible. Make your thinking obvious. âShow your workâ and share your experience. Tools like the Vision Caster and the How to Work with Me Worksheet exist precisely to externalize the things we'd otherwise leave to mind reading. The more you make your thoughts and feelings explicit, the less you leave to chance.
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How to Work with Me Worksheet (Free)
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Procrastination has a reputation problem. We treat it like a character flaw, but what if some procrastination is actually the smartest move you can make? In this episode, Joel and Hannah borrow a framework from Dungeons & Dragons to map out four distinct types of procrastination. Once you know the difference, you can start being strategic about not just what you do, but when.
Lawful Good: Strategic Delay Is a Productivity Tool. Proactively putting something offâlike waiting to give feedback until the timing is right or deferring a goal until you have bandwidthâis actually a form of good planning. This productivity strategy is wildly underused and incredibly simple.Lawful Evil: Just Because You Can Doesn't Mean You Should. This form of procrastination creates real harm for others, even if itâs technically in bounds. Weâve all done it: punting a meeting when everyone else is ready, sitting on a decision that affects your team, or RSVPing "maybe" when you know it's a no. You might not be footing the bill, but someone else is.Chaotic Good: Save Room for the Magic. Some people do their absolute best thinking on the edge of a deadline. That last-minute brilliance is real, but it causes ripples. The move isn't to eliminate it; it's to build in runway, communicate proactively, and keep it to a mindful minimum so the magic doesn't become a mess.Chaotic Evil: The Kind That Costs You. Some procrastination is reactive, avoidant, and genuinely harmful to others and to your future self. It includes: sitting on resentment until it explodes, ignoring the check-engine light on your body, not responding to a message until the relationship just quietly fades. This one deserves to be taken more seriously than most people take it.It's Not Just What You Do, But When. Getting strategic about timing, not just tasks, is what sets you up for a different kind of success. The Full Focus Planner's monthly calendar is a practical starting point for sequencing decisions and creating the margin you need to do your best work.
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Watch on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/yKvGXP4jiocThis episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound
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Announcement for April 6th & April 13th episodes
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Work is never really finishedâso if you're waiting for the to-do list to run dry before you close your laptop, you'll be there all night. In this episode, Joel and Marissa tackle one of the most common struggles inside the Full Focus community: how to actually end your workday. From the always-on culture of remote work to the dopamine hit of checking dashboards after hours, the pulls are real. But so is your agency. With the right ritual and a few intentional shifts, you can stop letting work bleed into the rest of your life.
Work Doesn't Have a Natural Finish Line. Unlike a project with a clear deliverable, the workday as a whole never truly endsâthere's always another email, another task, another initiative. That means you have to decide when done is, rather than waiting for it to arrive on its own.Remote Work Has Erased the Built-In Boundary. The commute home used to signal the transition. Now, work lives in your pocket 24/7, and every time you open your laptop (even for personal reasons), it's staring you in the face. Awareness of this is the first step toward protecting your evenings.Overwork Is Often a Symptom, Not the Problem. If you can't seem to stop before 7pm, the real issue is probably something upstreamâunclear priorities, an inability to delegate, or projects that need to be eliminated altogether. Ask why you're overworking, not just how to stop.Schedule the Shutdown. Block the last 30 minutes of your workday on your calendar. Review your Daily Big Three, check email and Slack, capture any open loops in your planner, and set up tomorrow in advance. If your calendar is booked to the final minute, you'll never actually shut down on time.Your Body Doesn't Clock Out When You Do. Physiological arousal outlasts the workday. Even when the work hours are technically over, your nervous system is still running. You need a deliberate transitionâa walk, a change of clothes, dimmed lights, a warm drinkâto signal to your brain and body that the day is done.
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You know what distracts you. But do you know why? In this episode, Joel and Marissa dig into the real source of distractionâand it's not your phone, your boss, or the pile of laundry calling your name. Nearly half the time, we're interrupting ourselves. The good news: once you understand whatâs driving your distraction, you can actually do something about it. Less white knuckling, more momentum.
You Are the Biggest Distraction. Research shows we self-interrupt about 49% of the time. External interruptions get the blame, but the real culprit is usually usâreaching for something easier the moment things get hard.Your Brain Is Optimizing for Easy. Distraction spikes when tasks get difficult, boring, or tedious. That pull toward Instagram or your inbox isn't laziness; it's your brain chasing a dopamine hit over a delayed reward.Design Your Environment to Win. Willpower runs out, especially as the day wears on. The smarter play is to remove temptations before they become a choice: turn off the phone, close the door, change your Slack status, and tell your team in advance when you're going dark.Lower the Bar to Raise Your Output. Making the hard thing more enjoyable is often more effective than trying to make yourself tougher. Temptation stacking, time-bounded work sessions, and background music might feel like cheating, but theyâre actually strategic.Frustration Tolerance Is a Muscle. And like any muscle, you can build it. Every time you acknowledge that something is hard or boring and do it anyway, you're making it a little easier to do the next hard thing. Thatâs the essence of maturity: doing something you donât like to get a result you do like.A Real Break Is Productive. Distraction is sometimes your brain's way of signaling it's spent. A 10-minute walk, a snack, or even a bath beats scrolling social mediaâand you'll come back sharper for it.
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What if the fastest way to reach your goals is to stop fixating on the finish line? In this episode, Marissa and Joel explain why goal-obsession leads to discouragement, procrastination, and rigidity â and why progress actually accelerates when you focus on the process. Nine times out of ten, you'll get further when you focus on the next right thing.
The Game Isnât the Score. If you stare at the âscoreboardâ of your goal, you lose focus on the next playâthe only thing you can actually controlâand miss out on the satisfaction of feeling yourself grow.Progress Happens in the Present. A compelling vision can motivate you to change, but it's what you do right now that determines whether that vision becomes reality.Excellence is Better Than Success. The happiness of the moment you achieve a goal is fleeting. Becoming the kind of person who lives in alignment with your values and pursues hard thingsâthatâs always satisfying.Plan Your Next Play. Use your Weekly Big 3 and Daily Big 3 to let your goal inform today's actionable next step. Then, do it.Goals Can Change (And Thatâs a Win). As you move, clarity increases. Sometimes the goal you start with isnât the goal you need.
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Spring is a natural resetâand not just for your junk drawer. In this episode, Marissa and Joel explore what it looks like to spring clean your life by removing whatâs creating friction: too many goals, overly complicated routines, and nagging clutter that drains your attention. They talk about why subtraction often beats addition, how to build habits you can keep when life gets messy, and how a single clean-up win can create a ripple effect of momentum.
Subtraction is a Growth Strategy. When you want a better life, your instinct is probably to add more tools, more rules, and more effort. But subtraction often creates faster relief and better results.Fewer Goals = Better Progress. Trying to chase six priorities at once usually leads to shallow progress and burnout. Limiting yourself to a small number of goals isnât quittingâitâs choosing focus now so you can win over time.Pick the Goal that âTips the Row.â A domino-style goal (or âpush goalâ) has an outsized effect on everything else. Find the priority that makes other goals easierâor makes them unnecessary.Stop Hyper-Optimizing Your Rituals. If your morning ritual only works when nothing goes wrong, it wonât last. Sustainable rhythms start with real constraints: the time and energy you reliably have.Use a Ceiling + Floor for Habits. Your ceiling is the ideal version (when everything goes right). Your floor is the version you can keep on a hard day. When you define both, you protect consistencyâand consistency beats intensityClean One Squeaky Wheel. Choose one physical or digital space thatâs quietly nagging you (a drawer, a chair pile, a desktop, an inbox) and restore order. Closing one loop can give you immediate mental bandwidth back.
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Do your weeks feel overstuffedâeven when youâre trying to be intentional? In part two of this series, Marissa and Joel finish their conversation on Elizabeth Stanleyâs Planning 2.0 (from Widen the Window) and get extremely practical: they break down how to use the Ideal Week as a âtime budgetâ that creates margin, lowers stress, and helps you work with your energy instead of fighting it. Youâll learn how to build buffer for real life, knock out the nagging tasks that quietly tax your brain, and batch your work so your days stop feeling like mental pinball.
Expect the Unexpected. Planning 2.0 doesnât assume life will unfold perfectly. It anticipates that things will go sidewaysâand intentionally builds in room to absorb the impact.Margin Is Strategic. Planning 2.0 treats interruptions, transitions, and basic human needs as part of the design, not evidence that the plan failed.âSqueaky Wheelsâ Quietly Undermine You. Clutter, unfinished chores, lingering repairs, and small tolerations drain mental bandwidth in the background. Capturing them in writing and scheduling time to address them restores both order and confidence.Batch by Energy. When your day ricochets between deep work, meetings, and admin tasks, your brain pays a switching cost. Grouping similar work together protects focus and helps you finish with strength.The Ideal Week Is a Flexible Template. Think of it as a reusable map for the season youâre in. Revisit it quarterly, and let it guide your decisionsâwithout turning it into a rigid rulebook.
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Ideal Week PDFWiden the Window by Elizabeth StanleyWatch on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/Lv4DvAaIb9I
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How do we cope with an unpredictable world? Most of us overplanârehearsing scenarios and bracing for every outcomeâand then wonder why we feel anxious.
In this episode, Marissa and Joel contrast Planning 1.0 (fear-driven contingency planning) with Planning 2.0 (intentional, flexible planning rooted in clarity). Drawing on Elizabeth Stanleyâs research, they show how the Weekly Preview helps you move out of survival mode and into focused action.
If youâve ever felt behind before the week begins, this conversation will help you replace rumination with a plan you can trust.
Anxiety Feels ProductiveâBut Isnât. Catastrophizing and contingency planning can give you a sense of control, but they donât create meaningful progress. Planning 1.0 keeps you stuck in a narrow window of tolerance, where youâre only okay if everything goes according to plan.Plan When Youâre Calm. You make better decisions when youâre regulated and clear-headed. Thatâs why the Weekly Preview works best when done before the week beginsâon Friday, Sunday, or early Mondayâso youâre looking at the week, not scrambling inside it.If Everything is Important, Nothing Is. You canât fit everything into one week. Making real progress requires real tradeoffs. The Weekly Preview forces the question:
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What will I say no to so I can say yes to what matters most?Rest is a Strategy, Not a Reward. If you donât plan for rest and rejuvenation, you default to survival mode. And survival mode shrinks your capacity to think clearly and act strategically.The Weekly Preview is the Pause You Need. Itâs your opportunity to step back and shape the week with intention instead of urgency. You canât control everythingâbut you can clarify what matters most and decide when youâll move it forward. (Thatâs the kind of flexible plan that actually brings peace.)
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You canât manufacture more timeâbut you can restore and expand your energy. In this episode, Marissa and Joel explore the âtime-energy paradoxâ and why so many productivity strategies backfire by leaving you exhausted. They unpack three major energy drains and share practical strategies to give your mind and body more opportunities for truly restorative rest.
Time Is Fixed. Energy Isnât. You canât add hours to your week, but you can bring better energy to the hours you already have.Screens Often Masquerade as Rest. Streaming and scrolling feel like âchecking out,â but they overstimulate your brain. Instead? Get outside (trust us).Try Walking Meetings. When you can, take a meeting by phone and go for a walk. Less screen time, more oxygen, better energy.Information Overload Has a Cost. Weâre not built to process constant updates, endless content, and every crisis on-demand. Consuming less information today is one of the simplest ways to have more energy tomorrow.Protect Sleep (For Real). Sleep is how your body and brain restore. Many people chronically undersleep, then wonder why everything feels harder than it should.Make Bedtime More Attractive. If thereâs nothing attractive about your bedtime routine, youâll resist sleep. Design a calming, simple, enjoyable rhythm you actually look forward to.Run an âEnergy Experiment.â Donât overhaul your life. Pick one change for one week (earlier bedtime, outdoor breaks, screen cutoff time) and see what happens.
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Most people blame their phones for their lack of productivity, but the real culprit is sneakier: overestimation. In this episode, Marissa and Joel unpack why we consistently plan for best-case scenarios and then spiral when real life doesnât cooperate. Youâll learn how overestimating your capacity, self-control, productivity, and ability to âcatch upâ creates unnecessary stress, erodes trust, and drains your resources. Most importantly, theyâll show you how to set up a game you can actually win.
Plan for Reality, Not Best-Case Scenarios. We build days around âperfect conditions,â then feel behind by lunch. Assume interruptions, limited energy, and real-life constraintsâand plan accordingly.Stop Overbooking Your Capacity. If your calendar has no margin, exhaustion is inevitable. Build buffers for transitions, downtime, and breaks so your day can breathe.Use Your Ideal Week to Set Pace, Not Max Output. The Ideal Week isnât âHow much can I cram in?â Itâs âHow do I work and live at my best?â Include recovery time and whitespace.Assume Self-Control Drops as the Day Goes On. Discipline is finite. The later it gets (and the more drained you are), the easier it is to binge, scroll, snack, or procrastinate. In response, design your environment to support your discipline instead of relying on it.Give Everything More Time Than You Think. The planning fallacy hits everyone. Add cushion so you finish more consistently. Practically, plan 150â200% of the time you think it will take.Make Room for âStuff I Forgot to Plan For.â Surprises arenât exceptionsâtheyâre normal. Create a weekly block for the tasks and problems that inevitably pop up.Let the Daily Big 3 Keep You Grounded. Your Ideal Week is the vision. The Daily Big 3 is the reality check. If youâre not finishing, choose smaller targets and rebuild momentum.
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Watch on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/EdW89LAMJ90This episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound
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Would you plant flowers in Decemberâor plan a ski trip in June? Probably not. But many of us do the equivalent with our goals: we try to force outcomes that donât match our actual capacity, energy, or reality. In this episode, Marissa and Joel walk through five âseasonsâ you may find yourself inâsowing, fallow, tending, pruning, and harvestâplus the hidden danger in each one and the most effective response. Youâll also learn seven distinct kinds of rest and how to use the Weekly Preview to identify your season and take the right next step.
The Year is Full of Seasons. Thereâs a natural ebb and flow to life, not just nature. Acting like itâs spring when youâre actually in winter wonât help you. Name the season youâre in and orient around whatâs true right now, not what the New Year says.Sowing Season: Choose Focus Over Frenzy. When youâre ready to start new opportunities, the danger is starting too many things while motivation is high. The fix: pick one or two goals that actually move the needle and let the rest wait.Fallow Season: Rest on Purpose. After a sprint (or a crisis), your system needs recovery. Choose the kind of rest you actually needâphysical, mental, sensory, creative, emotional, social, or spiritual.Tending Season: Reconnect to Vision. Donât let âbusiness as usualâ make you forget why you started. Keep your why in view so you donât drift off course.Pruning Season: Prevent Ineffectiveness. Just like plants, we become less fruitful when weâre trying to do too much at once. Pruning helps you create margin and center your energy where it can have the greatest effect.Harvest Season: Choose Boundaries (Fight FOMO). Momentum is greatâoverextension isnât. Decide what must happen now, what can wait, and when the sprint ends.Align Your Plans and Your Season. During your Weekly Preview, name your season, watch for its danger signs, and plan your week accordingly. Work with the grain, and youâll get fewer splinters.
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2025 probably didnât go according to planâand thatâs exactly why itâs worth paying attention to. In this episode, Marissa and Joel walk you through a simple reflection process for the last 11 months: naming what worked, facing what hurt, and deciding what you actually want to carry into 2026. Youâll learn how to work with your brainâs negativity bias, complete the stress cycle in your body, reframe regret as a helpful signal, and distill the year into a handful of lessons you can build on.
Start with What Worked. Brain dump the last 11 months and name your winsâat work and at home. Use your camera roll and planner as prompts to remember moments youâd otherwise overlook. Let those checkmarks and snapshots remind you: it wasnât all bad.Donât Waste the Bruises. List what didnât go wellâdisappointments, losses, and the âmixed bagâ moments. Instead of reliving them, acknowledge what happened, name the emotions, and ask what still needs to be grieved or processed so youâre not dragging raw hurt into 2026.Pay Attention to Avoidance. Notice the projects, tasks, or conversations you kept procrastinating. Treat that dread as data: Is this a skills gap, a misfit task you shouldnât own, or something that needs to be rethought entirely? Avoidance is often a clue about what needs to change next year.Let Regret Invite a Do-Over. Treat regret as an âopen loop,â not a verdict. If something from 2025 still nags at you, ask, âWhat unfinished business is this pointing to?â Look for one concrete actionâan apology, a boundary, a new habitâthat lets you close the loop instead of carrying it forward.Distill the Year into a Few Core Lessons. Turn all of this into simple statements you can act on, like: âMy days go best when I start with a plan,â or âI canât love well when Iâm out of balance.â Those lessons become your guardrails and fuel as you design your goals and rhythms for 2026.
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Watch on YouTube at: https://youtu.be/hdmL3mfAyrcThis episode was produced by Sarah Vorhees Wendel of VW Sound
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The holidays can feel like a sprint with a suitcase. Marissa and Joel show you how to lighten the load with four concrete moves: define non-negotiables, eliminate what doesnât matter, delegate what doesnât require you, and (yes) procrastinate strategically. Youâll get scripts, shortcuts, and a Not-To-Do list for creating breathing roomâat work and at home.
Name Your Non-Negotiables. Brain dump everything for December, then identify the items that truly must happen. Accept that not everything will get doneâand choose what will.Run the âEverything Must Goâ Sweep. Cancel or reschedule recurring meetings, low-value check-ins, and nice-to-have socials. If it can be an email (or nothing), make it one.Resign as Chief Everything Officer. At home: potluck the menu, batch one meaningful gift for everyone, use gift bags, outsource a couple dishes, trade childcare. At work: hand off distinct slices of projects, hire a contractor for time-sinks, and coach for skillânot constant review.Procrastinate on Purpose. Push arbitrary deadlines to January. Ask, âWhat part truly must happen nowâand what can wait?â Renegotiate timelines for excellence, not exhaustion.Keep Self-Care Simple. Downshift to minimums that maintain energy (a 20-minute walk, earlier lights-out, simplified meals). Save the âperfect routineâ for January.
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