Afleveringen
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Giles and Alison explore Type 5 â The Investigator, a deeply thoughtful and independent personality that seeks understanding, clarity, and competence. Type 5s are driven by a need to conserve energy and protect themselves from being overwhelmed, often retreating into their minds to analyze and observe rather than engage directly. But beneath their quest for knowledge, they often struggle with a fear of depletion, emotional detachment, and the belief that they must accumulate enough knowledge before they can act.
Through biblical insights, including the wisdom of Solomon, we discuss how Fives can move from isolation to connection, from withholding to generosity, and from self-reliance to trusting Godâs provision. We also explore their false identity of âI am what I haveâ and the false self that tempts Fives to seek security and survival through knowledge and self-sufficiency rather than dependence on God.
If you or someone you love is a Type 5, this episode offers encouragement, truth, and practical wisdom for stepping out of isolation, sharing their insights, and trusting that God is their ultimate source of security.
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Giles and Alison explore Type 4 â The Individualist, a deep-feeling, introspective personality that longs for authenticity and significance. Type 4s are driven by a desire to understand their identity and express their uniqueness in the world. But beneath this pursuit, they often wrestle with feelings of being different, misunderstood, or incomplete.
Through biblical insights, including the life of King David, we unpack how Type 4s can move from comparison to contentment, from idealism to presence, and from longing to abiding in Christâs love. We also explore their false identity of âI am what others say or think about meâ and the false self that tempts Fours to seek affection and esteem instead of resting in Godâs unconditional love.
If you or someone you love is a Type 4, this episode offers encouragement, truth, and practical wisdom for finding contentment in being fully known and loved by God.
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In this episode, Giles and Alison explore Type 3 â The Achiever, a driven and success-oriented personality that thrives on accomplishment and recognition. But beneath their ambition often lies a deep fear of failure and a struggle with tying their worth to external validation.
Through biblical insights, including the story of Joseph and Jesusâ temptation in the wilderness, we unpack how Type 3s can move from a performance-based identity to a life rooted in Godâs unconditional love. We also examine how spiritual practices like solitude, confession, and social media fasting can help Threes embrace authenticity over image and refute the lie that âI am what other people say or think about me.â
If you or someone you love is a Type 3, this episode offers encouragement, truth, and practical wisdom for living with purpose beyond achievement.
Resources:
â â Self to Lose, Self to Findâ â by Marilyn Vancil
â â The Sacred Enneagramâ â by Christopher L. Heuertz
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In this episode, Giles and Alison continue their Enneagram series with Type 2 â The Helper. Type 2s are driven by a deep desire to love and serve others, but they often struggle with an underlying fear of being unworthy of love if they arenât needed. Their generosity and warmth are beautiful gifts, yet their tendency to suppress their own needs can lead to burnout, resentment, and an unhealthy attachment to affirmation.
Giles and Alison explore what motivates Type 2s, how their servant-hearted nature can be both a blessing and a burden, and how they can move from striving for love to resting in the truth that they are already deeply loved by God. They discuss biblical examples of Type 2s, the unique challenges they face, and spiritual disciplines that help them growâincluding centering prayer, fasting from over-serving, and learning to receive love without conditions.
If youâre a Type 2 or love someone who is, this episode will provide practical insights into how to support, encourage, and walk alongside them as they embrace a life of loveâwithout needing to earn it.
Resources:
â Self to Lose, Self to Findâ by Marilyn Vancil
â The Sacred Enneagramâ by Christopher L. Heuertz
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In this episode, Giles and Alison continue their Enneagram series withType 1 â The Perfectionist. Type 1s are driven by a deep desire for goodness, integrity, and justice, but they often wrestle with an inner critic that pushes them toward self-judgment and frustration.
Giles and Alison explore what motivates Type 1s, how their pursuit of righteousness can be both a gift and a burden, and how they can move fromstriving for perfection to resting in grace. They discuss biblical examples of Type 1s, the challenges they face, and the spiritual disciplines that help them growâincludingSabbath, confession, and breath prayer.
If youâre a Type 1 or love someone who is, this episode will give you practical insights into how to support them, encourage them, and help them live from a place ofpeace rather than pressure.
Resources:
Self to Lose, Self to Find by Marilyn Vancil
The Sacred Enneagramby Christopher L. Heuertz
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In this episode, Giles and Alison dive into the world of Enneagram Type 9âThe Peacemaker. Alison, a Type 9 herself, shares her personal insights on the strengths and challenges of being a Peacemaker, including her desire for harmony and her struggle to avoid conflict. Together, Giles and Alison explore the difference between peacekeeping and peacemaking, emphasizing the biblical call to make peace as Jesus didâengaging with courage and seeking true reconciliation.
Through personal stories, practical tools like the PAUSE tool, and biblical examples such as Barnabas and Gideon, we discuss how Type 9s can grow spiritually by stepping out of passivity and into their God-given calling. Spiritual disciplines like intercession and confession can be pathways for Nines to move beyond complacency and live out their redeemed identity as courageous reconcilers and compassionate listeners.
Whether youâre a Type 9 or you know one, this episode offers encouragement and inspiration for the journey toward peace and presence.
PAUSE teaching video: https://youtu.be/FzPgtBGglRY?si=-UkC8QUY8kNDwHmn
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In this episode of the For Everyday Disciples, Giles and Alison explore Enneagram Type 8âThe Protector. Known for their boldness, independence, and passion for justice, Type 8s embody resilience and leadership. But with their strength comes the temptation to rely solely on themselves, often avoiding vulnerability and emotional connection.
We unpack the spiritual journey of Type 8s, offering biblical examples like Moses, Esther, and Nathan to illustrate both the challenges and beauty of their calling. We emphasize how surrendering control and trusting in Godâs provision allows Type 8s to transform their natural intensity into life-giving leadership. We offer practical insights and specific spiritual practices that can help Type 8s channel their protective instincts into deeper faith and connection.
Whether youâre a Type 8 or you know one, this episode provides encouragement to step into Godâs strength rather than your own.
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In this episode of For Everyday Disciples, Giles and Alison explore the Enneagramâits origins, misconceptions, and potential as a tool for spiritual formation. We address concerns about the Enneagramâs mystical associations and explain its roots in early Christian thought, particularly the teachings of the Desert Fathers and Mothers. Drawing insights from Evagrius Ponticus and Richard Rohrâs The Enneagram: A Christian Perspective, we highlight how this ancient framework can help us identify our false self and move toward freedom and transformation in Christ.
Rather than replacing the gospel, the Enneagram can be a mirror that reveals patterns of fear, pride, and self-protection, helping us grow in self-awareness and empathy. When used prayerfully, it can deepen our faith and relationships. Have thoughts or questions? Weâd love to hear from you! Drop a comment or visit yourwayfinders.org to connect. Next up in January: a deep dive into each of the nine Enneagram types to kick off the New Year. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
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In this episode, hosts Giles and Alison explore the life-changing truth of our redeemed identity as Godâs beloved. We uncover how common liesââI am what I do,â âI am what others think,â and âI am what I haveââdistort our sense of self and lead us away from the freedom found in Christ.
Through Scripture, reflections on Jesusâ life, and practical insights, we reveal how living as Godâs beloved shapes our relationships, purpose, and identity. From faith, hope, and love as foundational virtues to the power of surrender in Jesusâ example at Gethsemane, this episode offers encouragement and actionable steps for embracing a life with God, rooted in His unchanging love.
Our identity as God's beloved transforms everything, empowering each of us to live boldly and authentically as an everyday disciple.
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In this episode, we explore the false identity of âI am what I have,â which is especially impactful for Enneagram types 5, 6, and 7. These types often seek security through accumulating knowledge, resources, or plans. Drawing from biblical examples like the rich young ruler and King Solomon, we highlight the emptiness that comes from finding identity in possessions or mental strategies rather than in a relationship with God. These types tend to adopt a "life over God" approach, trying to control outcomes and ensure security through their own efforts. However, when Jesus faced this temptation in the wilderness, He rejected shortcuts and placed His trust fully in Godâs provision. Like Jesus modeled, our true contentment and security are found in being God's beloved, not in what we gather or possess.
Challenge Questions:
This week, spend some time in silence to identify areas where you might be placing your security in what you have, rather than in Godâs provision. How can you practice releasing those attachments and trusting in Godâs sufficiency? Who in your life could benefit from hearing this message? Consider sharing your reflections with a friend or community group, inviting them to join you in exploring what it means to find identity in God alone. -
In this episode, hosts Giles and Alison build on last weekâs discussion about how our core motivations from our Enneagram type may inform the lies we believe about our identity and the idols we pursue, offering specific spiritual disciplines to counter those lies and ground us in our true identity in Christ. This episode explores the lie: "I am what people say or think about me.â
Focusing on the heart-centered Enneagram Types 2, 3, and 4, we delve into the struggles these types face when self-worth is built on others' opinions. We unpack this exhausting pursuit of validation and approval and offer insights on how Jesus models true identity in God.
Through powerful biblical examples, like Peter's denial and Saulâs jealousy, we illustrate the pitfalls of living for others' praise. We also highlight practical steps to break free from the approval trap and embrace our true worth as beloved children of God, including the transformative practice of solitude as a way to reconnect with God's voice amid the noise.
Learn how to let go of what people think and rest in the liberating truth that âI am who God says I amâ: fully known, fully accepted, and fully loved by God before the world even had a chance to comment (Jeremiah 1:5).
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In this episode, hosts Giles and Alison begin exploring the Enneagram and how our core motivations may inform which spiritual disciplines could be most beneficial to our spiritual growth. We start with the "body" center of the Enneagram - related to types 8, 9, and 1 - and how these types often struggle with the lie that "I am what I do," leading to stress and performance-driven mindsets. Alison shares personal insights on navigating the tension between invitation and challenge in disciple-making as an Enneagram 9. We also talk about the spiritual discipline of stillness and how it can ground these types in the truth that our true worth is in being God's beloved children.
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On this episode of the For Everyday Disciples Podcast, Giles and guest host Matt dive into the topic of transforming initiatives from the Sermon on the Mount, inspired by the book Kingdom Ethics. They explore how Jesus' teachings help break the vicious cycles that keep us trapped in destructive behaviors and offer practical ways to embrace spiritual transformation. By focusing on key Beatitudes, such as "Blessed are the poor in spirit" and "Blessed are those who mourn," the episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own lives and apply transforming initiatives that align with God's Kingdom values.
Link to the book Kingdom Ethics
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In this episode we explore the themes from Skye Jethani's book With: Reimagining the Way You Relate to God. We can take one of four common postures in our relationship with God: Life FROM God, life OVER God, life FOR God, or life UNDER God. Each of these postures falls short of the deep, abiding connection with us that God desires. As an alternative, we explore the posture of Life WITH God, which fosters a relationship of intimacy, trust, and fruitfulness. How can we cultivate a daily awareness of God's presence as we live life with Him?
Link to book: With: Reimagining the Way You Relate to God (Skye Jethani)
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Weâre kicking off Season 3 by talking about how we, as everyday disciples, can live out Godâs design for us in three key areas: Deliverance, Community, Knowing God, and the Abundant Life. These themes are beautifully articulated in a book by Elmer A. Martens, âGodâs Design: A Focus on Old Testament Theologyâ, which guides our discussion in this episode.
We discuss some practical ways we can do this, like:
Deliverance: Identify someone whoâs struggling and needs your support. Where might they need to hear and experience the Good News of Jesusâ healing, redemption, and reconciliation?
Community: Reach out to someone who may be feeling isolated or disconnected and invite them to coffee. Be a safe person where they can experience belonging and support.
Knowing God: Encourage someone else in their spiritual journey by listening and sharing something God has been teaching you lately.
Abundant Life: Look for ways to bless others this week and show them what it means to live in the fullness of Godâs presence and purpose.
Get ready to be challenged and encouraged this season as we share what weâve been reading and processing about life with God in the everyday.
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What do I know? Where do I want to grow? Who can I sow into?
In this final episode of the season, Giles and Alison talk about the framework of "know, grow, and sow" and how it applies to intentionally becoming leaders and disciplemakers who leave a legacy of influence and lasting impact into the next generation.
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Giles and Alison talk about their recent trip to Liberia to train pastors from all across the country in disciple making. They share what most surprised and challenged them and how the essence of making disciples is the same, no matter what culture youâre in.
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In this episode, Giles and Alison share about the importance of developing good habits and spiritual disciplines in our journey as an everyday disciple. In an "immediate gratification" culture, developing disciplines is not always a popular topic. In fact, some of us even have a negative reaction to that word âdiscipline.â However, the truth is that in any context, we need to be intentional (âdisciplinedâ) in order to grow - whether spiritually in being conformed more into the likeness of Christ, physically in becoming a healthy person, or relationally in improving our relationships with others. This requires effort on our part, but also a willingness to trust the process and shake off perfectionism and comparison.
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Giles talks with Michael Froedge, a leader in our young adults community called the Remnant, about the loneliness epidemic, the necessity of community, and the transforming power of the gospel in shaping identity and culture.
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In this episode, we talk with our dear friend, Sue Farmer. Sue and her husband Gib entered our story at the beginning of our missionary journey, and for almost a decade now, weâve walked together as family in the Lord.
A pastorâs daughter and faithful Christian for nearly all her life, Sue approached us at the age of 80 to be discipled through Kaleo, the replicable, multipliable disciple-making process that weâve developed and used for the past several years. Sue was profoundly changed through Kaleo, and now in her mid-80s, she has become a prolific disciplemaker, leading other believers into a deeper relationship with Jesus.
Sue shares with us her journey of learning the ways of Jesus. Her testimony shows us that if weâre curious, humble, and teachable, weâll never stop growing and learning from the Lord and His Word to us.
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