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  • People avoid you for reasons that have nothing to do with your deodorant.
    You can be smart, talented, even funny—but if people feel unseen or misunderstood around you, your life gets smaller.

    Dr. Steven Stein has tested emotional intelligence in everyone from Air Force recruiters to reality TV contestants. And the results are weirdly human.

    EQ isn’t about being soft. It’s about knowing when to shut up, when to speak up, and when to walk away.

    This episode breaks down emotional intelligence like it’s a muscle group: you’ve got to work it, stress it, and recover from it. Steven explains the science, shares unexpected stories (like lighthouse keepers and narcissists), and makes EQ feel practical



    We explore:

    🔹 Spot the everyday signs you're low on EQ (and how to fix them)
    🔹 Build empathy without becoming a pushover
    🔹 Train your emotional intelligence like going to the gym

    🔹 The biggest traits of success in the FBI, air force, army and navy

    🔹 The psychology of reality TV



    Come away with the practical side of emotional intelligence in real life - not just in theory







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    Steven Stein

    Bestselling author and psychologist who has worked with leading corporates, defense agencies and some of the biggest reality TV shows.

    ⁠Steven J. Stein⁠

    Books:


    ⁠EQ Edge: Emotional Intelligence and your success⁠

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    ⁠Hardiness: Making stress work for you to achieve your goals




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    Growth Mindset Psychology:

    Sam Webster explores the psychology of happiness, satisfaction, purpose, and growth through the lens of self-improvement.

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    Episode: Emotional Intelligence: Why the FBI Trains for Empathy, and You Should Too w/ Steven Stein



    Chapters:

    00:00 Emotional Intelligence - Steven Stein Intro

    02:18 Everyday signs of emotional intelligence

    05:40 Improving Emotional Intelligence

    08:02 Emotional Intelligence in Different Professions

    11:30 Coaching for Emotional Intelligence at Work

    14:20 The US Air Force Emotional Intelligence Study

    17:00 Empathy Training Course

    18:39 Emotional Intelligence and Neurodiversity

    23:22 Trainable Aspects of Emotional Intelligence

    24:40 Building Empathy by Using Drugs

    27:11 Personal Growth in Emotional Intelligence

    30:41 Reality TV and Emotional Intelligence

    34:54 Cross-Cultural Differences in EQ

    38:20 General Likability vs. Emotional Intelligence

    40:42 Tips to Build Assertiveness

    43:40 Relationship between IQ and EQ

    49:59 Outro
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  • There are a million ways to waste time.

    We don't need a million and one ways to be productive.

    We just need to - Do The Thing



    It's easy to overcomplicate productivity:


    Over analysing your habits

    Over examing your past

    Over sharing your strategies.


    These are all effective ways to not be productive.

    In this episode, we cut through the fluff and focus on the pure, simple truths.







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    Episode: Doing the thing - a short sharp masterclass on creating focus



    Chapters:

    00:00 The many ways to tackle productivity

    01:35 Essay - "Doing the thing"

    03:08 Busy vs productive

    04:47 Productivity for a podcaster

    07:00 False productivity - Hiking

    08:43 Psychology of productivity

    09:27 Procrastination - Temporal Motivation Theory

    10:49 Planning Fallacy

    11:26 Zegarknik effect - Just start

    13:19 Adverts

    13:25 Questions and answers

    13:34 When should I do the thing?

    13:44 What if I don't have time?

    13:58 How do you make time?

    14:59 What if it's hard?

    15:48 What if I am not ready to do the thing?

    18:45 What if I don't know how to do the thing?

    20:01 What if I fail?
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  • We don’t see the future. We predict it — and sometimes we predict disaster before it’s even possible.



    Catastrophizing is a mental reflex. It’s your mind, desperate for control, drawing monsters where none exist yet.



    In this episode, we explore the quiet space between stimulus and story — the moment you could choose curiosity over certainty.



    Relationships, careers, self-worth: all suffer when we confuse our imagined outcomes with inevitable truths. But if we learn to watch the story unfold without believing it, something remarkable happens. We reclaim possibility.



    You’ll leave with:


    Understanding of how the brain creates fear to protect itself

    Tools for building awareness instead of reaction

    A framework for making peace with uncertainty — and using it to grow

    The psychology that makes false fears feel real




    Stop letting your brain run disaster drills for things that haven’t happened. Tune in.





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    Episode: Overthinking: The psychology of catastrophizing and how to stop assuming the worst



    Chapters:

    00:00 Why this topic is popular

    01:45 What is catastrophising

    04:18 Build awareness

    07:10 Magnifying and minimising

    08:32 More details feels more real.

    10:16 The human tendency to just invent stories

    13:22 ADHD

    15:31 Catastrophizing and being diagnosed with ADHD

    16:17 Balancing worst and best scenarios

    17:23 Social anxiety example

    19:09 Write a journal

    20:31 Alex Hormozi selling gym subscriptions

    21:09 Want and don't want chair

    23:26 4 stages of intrusive thoughts

    28:50 4 step method for mitigating catastrophization

    28:50 Step 1 - Awareness

    29:57 Step 2 - Challenging the thought

    30:40 Step 3 - Imagine the best

    31:11 Step 4 - Accept uncertainty

    32:55 Catastrophizing is the opposite of Growth mindset

    33:14 Episode summary
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  • What if the person you think you are is an outdated idea?



    In this episode, we explore how habits form—not from logic, but from history. From childhood rules to adult rituals, your behaviours aren’t just choices. They’re echoes.



    We look at behavioural debt: how the past continues to extract payments from your present and what you can do about it.



    We look expansively at different ways we pick up all these habits and identities, and then use 5 ideas from psychology and philosophy to fix them.

    There’s a monk shedding illusions, a writer who redefined his identity, and a cycling team that changed everything with 1% improvements. These aren’t just stories. They’re invitations—to become intentional, to design rituals that serve who you want to be, not who you used to be.



    Takeaways:


    Reframe your identity as something you craft, not inherit

    Use “identity microshifts” to pay off your behavioural debt

    Hack your own Fresh Start Effect—even on a random Tuesday

    Learn how to become yourself through subtraction instead of adding more things




    If you’ve ever felt like your habits were someone else’s or like your current actions no longer serve who you are, this episode will make a lot of sense to you.



    The real work isn’t in learning more—it’s in unlearning what no longer fits.





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    Episode: Bad Habits: The Psychology of Behavioural Debt—and How to Pay It Off



    Chapters:

    00:00 What makes you, you?

    02:52 Memory and the self

    04:20 British Accents and lessons of children

    05:58 Attachment and behaviour

    07:58 Small Actions Compound

    09:36 Advert - Magic Mind

    09:38 Opening our minds

    11:01 Every story has a villain

    14:24 Path Dependence: The Continuity Trap

    16:21 Self Schema Theory: The Stories We Tell Ourselves

    17:52 Neuroplasticity - Hebb's Law and rewiring brain connections

    19:56 Friedrich Nietzsche and becoming who you are

    21:27 Psychological Rebirth: The Fresh Start Effect

    23:20 Conclusion - Paying of behavioural debt

    24:36 Feedback

    25:07 Send Off
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  • How often do you say no?



    In this episode, I unpack the beautiful mess that is boundary-setting—with stories, psychology, and a touch of Brexit. This episode dives deep into what it really means to assert your needs.



    Boundaries aren’t about building walls—they’re more like installing a front door with a lock you actually use. We explore why people-pleasing kills self-respect, how resentment creeps in when you’re too “nice,” and why your future depends on the limits you’re willing to draw today.



    What you’ll take away:


    10 signs of poor boundaries

    How to spot a weak boundary before it drains your energy

    Why saying no can be the kindest thing you do

    You teach people how to treat you by what you tolerate

    How to identify emotional manipulation in everyday relationships

    A quadrant model that makes difficult conversations easier




    Listen now if you’re ready to stop being agreeable and start being respected.





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    Episode: Eat, Pray, Set Boundaries: The psychology of getting your needs met



    Chapters:

    00:00 Setting boundaries for how you want to be treated

    02:58 Boundaires in life Example

    05:10 Why boundaries need balance

    07:19 10 signs of poor boundaries

    07:35 Difficulty making decisions

    07:58 Feeling selfish for saying no

    08:18 Frequent apologizing

    08:49 Uncertainty about what to share

    09:13 Passive aggressiveness

    09:49 Losing sense of self

    10:10 Need for external validation

    10:26 Resentment

    10:43 Constant sense of fatigue

    11:02 Dramatic relationships

    11:34 Abusive situations

    15:03 Identifying crap boundaries

    15:14 Floppy boundary

    17:22 Rigid boundary

    19:10 Why we struggle with boundaries

    23:09 Creating healthy boundaries

    23:39 Personal boundaries

    24:07 Social boundaries

    25:24 Value-based boundaries

    26:43 Communicating boundaries

    28:25 Traffic light framework

    31:58 The importance of independence

    34:41 Book suggestions

    35:22 Send off
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  • What separates those who break from those who bend? A shift—not in strength, but in perspective.



    In today’s episode, we look at the 4 quadrants of mental resilience: Control, Commitment, Challenge, and Confidence —using a blend of metaphors, Stoic wisdom, and powerful stories from history.

    Think of your mind like a car: control is the steering wheel, commitment is the fuel, challenge is the terrain, and confidence? That’s your engine. From Helen Keller to Joan of Arc, you’ll see how legendary mental strength isn’t born—it’s built. Plus, learn why reacting to criticism like a calm kung-fu master might be your new superpower.



    Mental toughness isn’t built in heroic moments; it’s forged in the quiet choice to show up again.


    Reflect on where you place your power: inside or out?

    Anchor your goals in systems, not wishful thinking.

    Let difficulty be your teacher, not your warning sign.




    If you’re ready to change how you see resilience, this episode will shift everything.







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    Episode: Science of Mental Toughness: Assess yourself using the 4 quadrants of resilience



    Chapters:

    00:00 The meaning in suffering

    02:14 The 4 elements of mental toughness

    02:47 Quadrant of control

    07:13 Quadrant of commitment

    10:59 Quadrant of challenge

    16:02 Quadrant of confidence

    20:56 Building mental toughness requires practice

    26:57 Send off
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  • There’s only so much logic you can apply to your problems, at some point you need to work with your biology.



    The nervous system it an incredible organ built to help you survive and it can over-ride your conscious processing at will. To stop tripping over our barriers and build true resilience, reduce stress & feel more alive we need there is a way.

    Working with your nervous system instead of against it.



    On the show we invite Esin Pinarli a licensed therapist and expert in working with our nervous system to give us a masterclass on turning discomfort into growth.



    Three Takeaways:


    Your nervous system doesn’t want you to succeed—it wants you to survive.

    Discomfort is a signal, not a stop sign.

    You grow by expanding your window of tolerance, not by breaking through it.




    Real personal growth doesn’t come from reading another book or “thinking positive.” It comes from your body. From doing the hard thing, just a little bit at a time. We talk about titration (small steps), edge surfing (riding discomfort), and how your brain actually rewires itself when you face fear—gracefully.



    Turns out, the part of your brain responsible for willpower literally grows when you push yourself. This is about learning to stretch without snapping. To build a stronger relationship with yourself—one uncomfortable moment at a time.





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    Edge Surfing: How to slow down time - Spotify - Apple









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    Episode: Nervous System Mastery: Build resilience, reduce stress and feel more yourself - w/ Esin Pinarli



    Chapters:

    00:00 Introduction to nervous system mastery

    03:09 Defining Growth Mindset

    04:16 The Science Behind Willpower

    06:53 Skill Breaks and Titration

    08:54 Metaphors for Growth

    09:56 Understanding the Nervous System

    11:47 Fear of Intimacy and Abandonment

    13:49 The Duality of Human Nature

    18:39 Hysterical = historical -> energy stored in body

    19:36 How to discharge energy

    21:16 Exercise as an antidepressant

    23:30 Edge surfing and accepting growth

    28:40 Magic Mind

    30:14 Accepting this moment

    31:46 Navigating co-dependant relationships and personal growth that affects relationships

    37:17 What is Shame

    38:52 The Role of Gratitude and Glimmers

    44:28 The Journey of Self-Improvement

    50:57 Extra content from Esin

    52:22 Take homes
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  • The problem with being human is that we believe our version of truth is the truth.



    Not because we’re bad—but because we’re wired that way.

    This episode is a story of blindness. Not the kind you see—but the kind you don’t even know you have. You’re not as open-minded as you think.



    That’s not an insult—it’s just how the brain works. We shortcut. We judge. We protect our ego like it’s a vintage vinyl.



    In this episode, I dive into the strange ways our own minds trick us into thinking we're rational, original, and morally superior. I walk through how prejudice isn't just about race—it's about music, anger, taste, careers, and even your opinion of running. You’ll hear about blind spots in your day-to-day that quietly shape your reality, and how to start noticing them before they run the show.



    Takeaways:


    Why your opinions probably aren’t your own

    Why improving your taste is more important than finding your passion

    A simple trick to challenge your ego without bruising it




    You can’t change the world if you can’t first question the lens you’re using to see it.

    This episode won’t change your mind—you will.





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    Episode: The Science Behind Changing Your Mind (and how to build better taste)



    Chapters:

    00:00 You are wrong about a few things

    02:19 Why is Prejudice So Hard to Notice

    03:48 How Prejudice Happens

    05:25 Lacking Awareness of What Change Would be Like

    07:23 Communication

    09:05 Where People Live

    12:36 Lesson from Rick Rubin

    13:22 Talent vs. Skill

    16:05 The Issue of Feeling Special

    17:34 3 Stories to Ground Yourself

    17:48 1st - Being 1st isn't the best

    20:33 2nd - other people's problems are also our problems.

    22:27 3rd - Don't be A Racist

    25:24 Send Off
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  • Ever notice how you'll curse for days when stuck in traffic but never celebrate hitting all green lights? Your brain's flaw-detection software is working overtime.

    In our quest for the ideal—the perfect relationship, the flawless investment, the dream career—we often miss the opportunity to appreciate what's already working. This isn't about lowering standards; it's about recognizing diminishing returns and the opportunity costs of perfectionism.

    Gratitude research shows that people who accept small imperfections actually experience more satisfaction and happiness. It's not about settling—it's about optimizing for what truly matters and recognizing the diminishing returns of chasing perfection.


    Identify what's truly non-negotiable versus what's just a small cost of admission

    See where you get stuck in diminishing returns of perfectionism and break out of the cycle

    Reframe "tolerating flaws" as "accepting the whole, complex reality" of what you value


    Ready to stop obsessing over small flaws and start enjoying the ride? Your ticket to a more satisfying life is waiting.


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    Psychology of Control - Why your brain overcomplicated everything

    How to build emotional intelligence



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    Episode: How to stop worrying about small problems that don't matter (and kill your perfectionist)

    Chapters:
    00:00 Hardwired for problem seeking
    00:55 Concept of paying the price of admission
    01:23 Relationships
    04:43 Stock markets
    06:02 More examples
    08:42 Gratitude and Game Theory
    10:41 Perfectionism and diminishing returns
    12:55 Martha Nussbaum and the Descent of Love
    13:58 Positive and negative flywheels of gratitude and perfectionism
    15:48 Chang Chang and the Broken Vase Garden
    17:17 Send Off
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  • The psychology of mental strength and how to achieve your goals.

    The path to extraordinary achievement isn't paved with enjoyment. It's built on something far more powerful: alignment with our deepest values.

    Sustainable motivation comes not from the pleasure of the journey but from how we connect our actions to what matters most to us. This isn't about willpower or discipline—it's about meaning-making.

    When we frame our challenges within the context of our personal values, we transform mundane or difficult tasks into meaningful steps toward who we wish to become. The student studying for exams, the entrepreneur facing rejection, the artist pushing through creative blocks—all can tap into this deeper well of motivation by connecting present struggles to future purpose.

    Topics:

    The real source of mental strength

    4 exercises to build the right type of motivation

    How to live closer to your values


    What if your next challenge became not a test of endurance but an expression of who you are becoming?



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    Episode: What creates lasting willpower and resilience: the 4 types of motivation

    Chapters:
    00:00 Hiking through the coastal path of UK
    01:58 Building a stronger mindset and unstoppable motivation
    02:37 Nuances of human motivation
    04:43 Extrinsic motivation examples
    07:20 What drives people to continue
    08:20 4 types of motivation
    13:36 Identifying personal values
    14:04 Eulogy method
    15:30 Odyssey plan
    16:49 Radical Path
    17:53 Wheel of life
    19:59 Aligning your actions with your values
    24:33 Celebrate small wins
    25:48 Seek feedback and reflect on it
    27:03 Send off
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  • What if the key to unlocking your potential was already within you, nestled within the folds of your own mind?

    Today we're diving into the science and psychology of hypnosis. It isn't about stage tricks or loss of control. It's about accessing a state of focused attention where the critical mind steps aside, allowing for profound change.

    Not only do we learn about how the subconscious mind can be accessed but the techniques and ways that work, backed by science.

    It's the difference between forcing yourself to diet and naturally craving healthier foods. Between lying awake, anxious, and drifting effortlessly into restorative sleep. It's not about what you do, but how you perceive. In this state, pain can become bearable, fears can dissolve, and long-held patterns can shift.

    Understanding hypnosis is a reminder that our experience of reality is malleable, shaped by the lens through which we view it.

    What is going on in the brain during hypnosis

    Explore self-hypnosis as a tool for personal growth

    Reframe challenges using hypnotic visualization



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    Ellen Degeneres being hypnotised to stop smoking


    Tim Ferris interviewing Dr David Spiegel about hypnosis -



    Sources:
    To see sources, please scroll to the bottom because there are many...


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    Chapters:
    00:00 The Power of Hypnosis in Surgery
    00:43 Common Misconceptions About Hypnosis
    03:28 Hypnosis in European Hospitals
    04:46 What Hypnosis Can't Do
    05:42 How Hypnosis Works in the Brain
    08:57 Hypnosis for Sleep Improvement
    12:07 Hypnosis and Eating Habits
    14:11 Hypnosis for Exercise Motivation
    15:30 Hypnosis for Addiction
    19:28 Hypnosis for Anxiety and Phobias
    20:29 The Science Behind Hypnosis
    21:30 Practical Tips for Anxiety Relief
    22:33 Hypnozio: A Self-Hypnosis App
    23:53 Pros and Cons of Self-Hypnosis Apps
    26:45 Who Benefits Most from Hypnosis?
    31:05 Final Thoughts and Encouragement
    33:11 Definitely not Sam pretending to hypnotize listeners to leave good reviews because he is a responsible host who would never try such ridiculous things
    33:42 Outro


    Sources:

    Under the knife with hypnosis - https://www.newscientist.com/article/mg18725111-800-under-the-knife-under-hypnosis/

    Heroin addiction - https://theriversource.org/blog/how-hypnosis-is-used-to-treat-addiction/

    Hypnosurgery - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hypnosurgery

    Switzerland trials - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17728216/

    Copenhagen Hypnosis murders - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Copenhagen_hypnosis_murders

    Hypnosis and sleep - https://jcsm.aasm.org/doi/full/10.5664/jcsm.6952

    Hypnosis and insomnia - https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/hypnosis-for-insomnia

    Weight loss meta-analysis - https://psycnet.apa.org/doiLanding?doi=10.1037%2F0022-006X.64.3.517

    Hypnosis and addiction - https://theriversource.org/blog/how-hypnosis-is-used-to-treat-addiction/

    Befreinding your vagus nerve - https://digitalcommons.lesley.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1089&context=mindfulness_theses

    Celebs and hypnosis - https://www.hipnose.com.br/en/blog/hypnosis/matt-damon-and-hypnosis/


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  • What if the path to a meaningful life isn't paved with comfort, but with deliberate discomfort?

    In this episode, we explore the insidious nature of "flabbiness" - not just of body, but of mind and spirit. We'll uncover how our modern world lulls us into a state of complacent existence, and why the easy path often leads to the hardest life.

    Through stories of transformation and philosophical insights, we'll challenge the notion that happiness comes from avoiding difficulty. Instead, we'll discover how embracing challenge and responsibility can lead to a life of purpose and fulfillment.

    This isn't just about self-improvement; it's about redefining what it means to truly live in a world that often encourages us to merely exist:


    Choose your hard: Decide which difficulties are worth embracing

    Create your own resistance: Design challenges that grow you

    Reframe comfort: See ease as a tool, not a destination


    Are you ready to trade comfort for meaning? The choice is yours.



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    Show: Growth Mindset, psychology of self-improvement

    Episode: Mental, moral and physical laziness - how to beat our modern addictions

    Chapters:
    00:00 Discover Your Habits - The Good and The Bad
    00:54 Crack the Code - 3 Stages of Flabbiness
    01:44 Rise Above Flabbiness
    02:03 1st Stage: Conquer Physical Flabbiness
    02:59 2nd Stage: Escape the Grip of Mental Flabbiness
    03:43 3rd Stage: Battling Moral Flabbiness
    04:56 Adventure Awaits
    05:37 Explore Alastair Humphreys: "There Are Other Rivers"
    05:57 Embrace Imperfections In Your Life
    06:32 Victim mentality
    07:36 Take Control of Your Life
    08:56 Rewire for Success: Transform Your Mindset
    09:59 Mental Reshaping: Beyond Your Comfort Zone
    11:56 Small Good Habits As Fuel For Growth
    12:12 Stanley Milgram and social influence
    13:00 Stoicism and dichotomy of control
    14:03 Buddhism the escaping suffering
    15:26 Taoism and desire
    17:37 Build The life You Want To Have
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  • We're all blind to our own patterns. Even when we think we're self-aware, there's a whole universe of emotional blocks lurking beneath the surface.

    Most of us walk around thinking we understand ourselves, but the reality is we're operating on autopilot. This episode features coach Tracy Litt, a performance coach who reveals how seemingly innocent behaviours can actually be fear mechanisms in disguise.

    The conversation gets deeply personal as Sam confronts his own emotional avoidance, exploring why he distracts himself during vulnerable moments and can struggle to fully express emotions.

    Tracy explains how our brains create clever diversions precisely when we need to feel something deeply, and offers practical ways to break through these invisible barriers.

    Take homes:

    Start a judgment journal to track how often you critically evaluate yourself and others

    Practice intentional emotional release through techniques like guided screaming

    Use fear as a GPS—when something scares you, it's probably pointing toward your growth


    Ready to uncover what's really holding you back? Listen now and prepare for some uncomfortable but transformative insights.


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    Episode: How to uncover emotional blocks holding you back, when you can't see them w/ Tracy Litt

    Chapters:
    00:00 Introduction to hidden fears
    02:43 How Tracy sees herself
    03:42 Judgement journal
    04:37 Tracy's story on how controlling she was
    05:45 Sam relates with Tracy's past
    07:17 At what point did this transformation occur
    11:57 Getting really comfortable feeling all of your feelings
    14:03 Does Sam struggle with emotion?
    15:16 Diging into emotional distractions
    17:26 Sam never getting angry
    18:40 Screaming as therapy
    19:17 Sam pointing out his voice as a thing to work on
    21:27 Is there anything in life that is currently troubling or scaring Tracy?
    24:37 How did Tracy overcome her fear of starting to do live videos on Facebook
    27:56 Coaching other people and reaching out for a coach
    31:25 Outro
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  • Bruce Lee wasn't just a martial arts icon. He was a master of mental discipline, using six powerful habits that transformed his approach to life and success.

    Bruce's journey reveals how deliberate practice shaped his legendary status. Instead of fearing failure, he embraced it as a teacher, carrying notebooks everywhere to capture insights that became contracts with himself.

    His methods were surprisingly practical—reading voraciously across diverse subjects, daily goal recitation, and blending Eastern philosophy with Western training techniques. This episode explores how Lee's training wasn't based on natural talent but rather his "fanatical" dedication, adapting everything from weightlifting to fencing to create something entirely new.

    "Absorb what is useful,
    Discard what is not,
    Add what is uniquely your own" - Bruce Lee

    His willingness to challenge traditions while respecting foundations made him revolutionary in multiple domains.

    Takeaways:

    Start carrying a notebook to capture ideas and insights, reflecting on them regularly

    Practice goal recitation daily to encode your ambitions into your subconscious

    Read widely outside your expertise to create unique mental connections


    Ready to transform your mindset? Press play to unlock Bruce Lee's blueprint for unstoppable growth.


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    Episode: Bruce Lee's 6 habits of success

    Chapters:
    00:00 Bruce Lee's First Boxing Match Against Gary Elms
    02:25 Bruce Lee's Habits of Success
    02:35 #1 - Embrace Failure on the Path to Success
    04:27 #2 - Carry a Notebook Everywhere
    05:25 #3 - Repeat goals to yourself
    08:19 #4 - Practice your Craft Constantly
    09:50 #5 - Constantly Read a Variety of Subjects
    11:22 #6 - Research and Adapt
    13:23 Bruce Lee's Influence After 50 Years
    13:44 Send Off
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  • What if the greatest barrier to your success isn't what you don't know, but what you think you know that simply isn't so?

    This episode explores the subtle architecture of stupidity – not as a personal failing, but as a series of distinct patterns that emerge in all human thinking.
    We'll journey through seven varieties, from the straightforward lack of cognitive ability to the more insidious systemic stupidity that quietly infects organizations and societies.

    You'll discover how the most brilliant minds often fall prey to overthinking stupidity, rejecting elegant solutions in favor of complex ones.
    We'll examine how groups collectively generate stupidity that no individual would create alone, and how our identities and egos become entangled with ideas, making us defend positions that no longer serve us or reflect reality.

    Learnings:

    Build decision-making systems that protect against collective cognitive blindspots

    Identify which stupidity patterns you are prone to.

    Develop your intellectual honesty muscle using "What would convince me I'm wrong?"


    Join us in reimagining how we think about thinking – because understanding stupidity might be the most intelligent thing we can do.


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    Episode: Can you talk with your subconscious? - w/ Jeff Bauhner

    Chapters:
    00:00 Analyzing different types of stupidity
    01:58 #1 - Pure Stupidity
    04:45 #2 - Ignorance
    08:07 #3 - Overconfident expert stupidity
    10:55 #4 - Rule-Based Stupidity
    18:30 #5 - Overthinking stupidity
    23:37 #6 - Organizational Stupidity
    26:55 #7 - Ego Based Stupidity
    32:07 Stupidity is often a deliberate choice
    35:03 Send Off
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  • What if the path to happiness isn't where all the spotlights are shining? While most seek contentment in the thin slice of "now," true fulfilment lives in a paradox.

    We're stuck in what I call "now-ish" thinking—that anxiety-producing zone of yesterday's failures and tomorrow's deadlines. We're taught to live in the moment, yet rarely consider where our moments are leading us.

    True happiness requires an honest look at your 30-year trajectory. Are you building skills you want to master for decades? Hanging with friends who'll still challenge you in 2055? The work that drains you today will absolutely crush your soul twenty years from now. But immediate happiness isn't found in some mystical future achievement either.

    Small daily habits can make a big difference to the quality of our days from opening up deeper conversations to knocking on the door of our limits.

    Practical lessons this episode:


    Stop obsessing over now-ish problems and pay attention to what really matters

    The way to keep potential alive

    Choose one focus each day rather than drowning in endless possibilities



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    Episode: Unconventional ideas on happiness that change how you feel today (and in 30 years)

    Chapters:
    00:00 Unconventional Ideas on Happiness
    01:38 Is it all about NOW?
    03:47 Now-ish thinking
    05:15 30-year thinking
    06:17 Goal based vs energy based work
    08:26 Questions to ask yourself
    10:10 Danger of putting off till 'one day'
    11:05 Doing what you want or don't know how to stop?
    12:14 Balancing present and future thinking
    14:36 Reframing Your Thinking to Be More Happy
    14:47 "I Get To"
    17:07 "What Was Your Rose"
    19:27 "Tell Me More"
    20:56 "Yet"
    22:38 "Will This Thing Matter A Year From Now"
    24:56 "I Will Focus on X"
    27:40 Send Off
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  • The mind does a lot of things we are never aware of.

    You don't think about how you move or digest, your mind just does it in the background, You also can't witness all the self-sabotaging doors your mind keeps you locked up in.

    We all have our own battles that limit us. Maybe how we think about money, or relationships or our own value. Maybe we get nervous about situations and it's our nerves that actually cause the problem we are afraid of.

    Today guest Jeff Bauhner shares a radical idea for how to communicate with your subconscious processes and get them working in your favour.


    How can we talk to our subconscious?

    What should we change?

    Why do we keep overlooking our real problems?


    Jeff has a very relatable story that leads him to his work and shares some fun and potentially radical ideas.

    As a scientist myself I was skeptical about some of his proposals. I was equally excited about how he came to some similar conclusions I do recommend myself but with a very different pathway.

    Jeff Buehner

    X - @Jeff_Buehner


    Book - The Sultans 7 Secrets




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    Episode: Can you talk with your subconscious? - w/ Jeff Bauhner

    Chapters:
    00:00 What's going on with our subconscious?
    04:01 Jeff's first unconscious belief
    06:26 Jeff's 2nd unconscious belief
    08:49 What was Jeff's Pivotal moment when he was 33
    10:44 Story of Mansa Musa
    13:22 Sultan's Seven Secrets
    18:19 2nd Mind is the subconscious
    19:41 Magic lamp as a metaphor
    20:24 Feelings is the language of the Gods
    21:32 Setting your subconscious belief through feelings
    31:01 Planting feelings into your subconsciousness
    32:36 Fear as a sign that it's worth doing
    34:29 Jeff's book
    35:38 What business made Jeff a lot of money???
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  • We all know smart people make dumb decisions. But why?


    Why do gamblers double down when they should walk away?

    Why do we check our phones 58 times a day?

    Why do people micromanage their partners and get confused when they become distant?


    We are all suckers for the illusion of control.

    We are convinced that our meddling is needed to achieve our desired outcome. Sadly this misses the important fact that we are causing all our problems.

    The episode covers all sorts of personal problems from addictions to relationships, investing to anger and how control is at the heart of our problems.

    Whether you are high on neuroticism or curious about how the mind works we have a tonne of good stuff:

    Recognize your "control triggers" – situations where your grip tightens and makes things worse

    Practice intentional surrendering in low-stakes situations to build your letting-go muscles

    Replace control with curiosity by asking "What happens if I don't try to fix this?"


    Learn to stop wrestling with life and start dancing with it.


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    Episode: The psychology of control - why your brain overcomplicates everything

    Chapters:
    00:00 Introduction: Why Smart People Make Dumb Decisions
    00:30 The Science of Control
    02:00 Personal Story: The Quad Bike Incident
    05:51 The Illusion of Control
    07:02 Addiction and Control
    09:03 Reactance Theory: Why We Rebel
    10:14 Attachment Styles and Control in Relationships
    12:32 Paradoxical Intentions: Embracing the Opposite
    15:30 Understanding and Managing Anger
    18:43 Quieting the Default Mode Network
    20:18 The Joy of Surrender
    21:09 Show Updates: Embracing Change
    22:58 The New Show Concept: The Psychology of Everything
    25:25 The Importance of Growth and Change
    26:03 Final Thoughts on Control and Surrender
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  • What if misery wasn’t something that happened to you—but something you unknowingly created?

    We all have habits that screw us over—whether it’s blaming others, scrolling mindlessly on Instagram, or convincing ourselves that “next week” is when we’ll finally start living.

    In this episode, I’m calling out the seven most toxic habits that keep people stuck in their own misery - they're probably (some) things you’re doing right now.

    I’ll break down why these habits exist, how society reinforces them, and what you can do to stop being your own worst enemy.

    Takeaways:

    Why waiting for “perfect” is the ultimate excuse for staying stuck.

    How playing the victim robs you of your power (and your future).

    The brutal truth about self-care—and why it’s not what you think.


    Ready to ditch the habits holding you back? Dig in =)


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    Episode: 7 habits of highly miserable people

    Chapters:
    00:00 Stop screwing yourself over
    01:19 Bad habit #1 - Lying to ourselves
    04:22 Bad habit #2 - Procrastination
    07:48 Bad habit #3 - Victimhood and avoiding responsibility
    10:19 Bad habit #4 - Money
    13:26 Bad habit #5 - Isolation
    18:04 Bad Habit #6 - Social Media
    20:48 Bad habit #7 - Ignoring real self-care
    25:15 Bonus Habit - Fixed Mindset and resistant to change
    26:42 Send off
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  • Ever feel like life’s pulling you in a direction you didn’t choose? Like you’re paddling against a current, but the harder you try, the further you drift?

    From social media algorithms to career paths, we’re all caught in currents we barely notice. They can sweep us toward growth or drag us into chaos.

    Whether it’s influencers chasing clicks or careers locking us into identities we never wanted, these currents are everywhere. But here’s the good news: just like in the ocean, you can learn to spot them and decide which ones to ride.

    By the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools to navigate life’s most powerful force—momentum—and steer toward a future you actually want.

    Takeaways:

    How small decisions snowball into massive consequences (good or bad).

    Why blaming “the system” won’t save you—and what will?

    How to identify the “currents” shaping your decisions and behaviours.


    Once you see these currents, you’ll never look at your life the same way again.


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    Episode: How to guide your destiny - What to avoid, where to push, when to relax
    Subtitle: Fantastic Boosts and Where to Find Them

    Chapters:
    00:00 Can We Control Our Direction?
    01:51 A Near-Death Experience
    04:09 Social Media's Fast-Moving Currents
    06:03 The Dangers of Extremification
    07:53 Radicalization of Creators
    09:32 Famous Figures and Extremification
    12:07 The Weirding Effect of Content
    14:28 Navigating Career Currents
    15:30 The Vortex of Unwanted Opportunities
    21:31 The Power of Positive Currents
    24:13 Choosing Fast-Moving Currents
    25:13 Future Career Opportunities
    27:40 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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