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In this episode, I'm challenging our culture's obsession with emotional analysis that might actually be keeping you stuck. While understanding our feelings is important, I explain why constantly dwelling on emotions can transform what should be a passing breeze into a destructive storm.
I'll walk you through:
â Why therapy and self-help books are valuableâbut not always the complete answer
â How to recognize when you're trapped in an "endless loop of self-examination"
â The importance of managing emotions rather than just feeling them
â Why thinking less about yourself and more about others can be transformative
â Practical ways to get off the "hamster wheel" of anxiety and overthinking
Whether you're struggling with relationship conflicts, perpetual problems with your partner, or just finding yourself stuck in your own head, this episode offers a perspective that might be exactly what you need to move forward. Sometimes the path to happiness isn't through more analysisâit's through action and shifting your focus.
đ Remember: While I encourage you to "get over yourself" in the kindest way possible, consistent therapy can be life-changing when you're truly stuck. Build that relationship with your therapist, be communicative about your needs, and create the consistency that leads to real change.
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In this episode, we're diving deep into a perspective on marital intimacy that's often misunderstood or completely overlooked in our modern cultureâsex as a sacred, spiritual connection between husband and wife. I'm challenging the transactional view of intimacy that has created so much tension and obligation in marriages today.
What if the struggles around frequency, desire, and obligation aren't just problemsâbut invitations? Invitations to discover a more beautiful understanding of what sex was truly designed to be in marriage: the physical expression of your covenant bond.
I'll walk you through:
â Why viewing sex as an obligation or "need" destroys the beauty of intimacy
â The biblical understanding of "two becoming one flesh" and what that really means
â How cultural misconceptions about sex have damaged our marriages without us realizing
â Why respect, not desire, is the true foundation of a healthy sexual relationship
â The practical ways to move from transactional thinking to seeing sex as an act of recommitment
Your marriage isn't supposed to be a battlefield of competing needsâit's meant to be the sacred space where two equal partners continually choose to become one. Tune in for a conversation that might completely transform how you view intimacy with your spouse.
đ Get my March relationship planner focused on this topic: https://luellajonk.com/the-game-plan/#The_Planner
đ Recommended Reading:
"Be Devoted: Restoring Friendship, Passion, and Communion in Your Marriage" by Bob Schuchts
McNally RobinsonIndigoAmazon"Good News about Sex & Marriage"
McNally RobinsonIndigoAmazonđ Disclaimer: This podcast provides relationship insights from a faith-oriented perspective but is not a substitute for professional counseling. Always seek guidance from a licensed therapist for personalized support.
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In this episode, weâre diving deep into a framework that has stood the test of timeâthe 7 deadly sinsâand how they show up in our marriages in ways we donât even realize. We often think of marriage as a place of love and companionship, but the truth is, itâs also one of lifeâs greatest teachers of virtue.
What if the arguments, resentment, and emotional distance in your relationship arenât just problemsâbut opportunities? Opportunities to practice patience, humility, and kindness instead of pride, anger, and envy.
Iâll walk you through:
â Why pride makes you fight to "win"âand why thatâs ruining your relationship
â The hidden ways envy and greed can creep into your marriage (without you noticing)
â How anger starts as a flicker but can burn everything down if unchecked
â Why lust and emotional comparison are more dangerous than you think
â The simple mindset shifts that replace vice with virtueâand create a marriage that actually lasts
Your marriage isnât supposed to be perfectâbut it is supposed to refine you. Tune in for a conversation that just might change the way you love, communicate, and show up for your partner.
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đ Disclaimer: This podcast provides general relationship insights and is not a substitute for professional counseling. Always seek guidance from a licensed therapist for personalized support.
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In this episode, I sit down with Andrea Wanerstrand, a leadership coach and former corporate executive, to uncover the hidden costs of burnout and how to take control of your energy before itâs too late.
After experiencing burnout three times during her 25 years in corporate America, Andrea shares the hard-earned lessons that helped her not only recover but thrive. We discuss why high achievers are particularly vulnerable to stress, the subtle warning signs most people miss, and how small, consistent changes can create a lasting impact on your mental and physical health.
Andrea dives into the importance of emotional awareness and how understanding your bodyâs signals can help you avoid a total breakdown. If youâve ever felt overwhelmed, stuck in survival mode, or unsure how to set boundaries, this conversation is your wake-up call.
Tune in as we explore:
â The three brains that influence your stress and decision-making
â How to spot burnout before it spirals out of control
â The key to setting boundaries without guilt
â Why slowing down is essential to speeding up productivity
â Simple ways to protect your mental health in high-pressure environments
This episode is a must-listen for anyone juggling professional and personal demands, looking to stay grounded and resilient in a fast-paced world.
Relevant Links:
Website: https://a3culturelab.com
LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/andreawanerstrand
https://luellajonk.com/
Disclaimer: This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this episode, I sit down with Debbie TravisâTV personality, entrepreneur, and best-selling authorâto talk about reinvention, risk-taking, and knowing when to say basta (enough).
At 16, Debbie left home with no clear plan. She started painting houses, turned that into a thriving business, and eventually became a household name in lifestyle television. She built a media empire, published multiple books, and then, at the height of her success, walked away to start a new chapter in Italy.
We dive deep into the courage it takes to pivot in life, the fear of starting over, and the stories of women who come to her retreats searching for change. Whether youâre feeling stuck, craving something new, or just love an inspiring storyâthis episode is for you.
Tune in as we break down:
â The moment Debbie knew she had to walk away from her career
â Why so many women struggle with reinventionâand how to move forward
â How she turned a simple idea into a global brand
â The power of curiosity, community, and saying yes to the unknown
â Why waiting for the âperfect timeâ is the biggest lie we tell ourselves
This conversation is a reminder that no matter where you are in life, you can always take a leapâand sometimes, that leap leads to a life beyond your wildest dreams.
Debbieâs New Book â Laugh More: Stories from an Unexpected LifeGet your copy here:
McNally Robinson
Amazon.com
Relevant Links:
Website: https://debbietravis.com
YouTube Channel
Disclaimer: This podcast provides general health and lifestyle information and should not be considered a substitute for professional advice. Always consult with a qualified expert for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are personal opinions and not a replacement for professional consultation.
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Ever feel like you and your partner argue about the same thing over and over again? Youâre not alone. 69% of relationship conflicts never actually get solvedâbut that doesnât mean your relationship is broken.
In this episode, I sit down with Julie Sharon-Wagschal, a Dutch-American psychologist and certified Gottman therapist, to talk about why couples keep getting stuck in the same fights and what they can do about it. We dive into the Dreams Within Conflict exercise, a powerful tool that helps partners see whatâs really behind those ongoing argumentsâbecause most of the time, itâs not just about the dishes or how you spend the holidays.
We talk about:
đĄ Why some conflicts feel impossible to solve
đĄ The real reason your partner wonât let certain things go
đĄ How to stop these fights from damaging your relationship
đĄ What to do instead of trying to âwinâ an argument
If youâve ever walked away from a fight thinking, âWeâll never agree on this,â this episode is for you. Letâs talk about how to move forward, not just go in circles.
Relevant Links:
https://www.centerforrelationshiplearning.com
https://www.gottman.com/
Gottman Books Amazon Canada
Disclaimer: This podcast provides general relationship insights and should not replace professional advice. Always consult a licensed professional for personalized guidance.
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In this episode, I take a deep dive into the complexities of commitment and its impact on our relationships and personal values. From trust and loyalty to the challenges of overcommitment, I explore what it truly means to honor the promises we makeâto others and ourselves.
Weâll unpack how trust and commitment are inseparable, why love deepens through shared experiences, and the role of discomfort in strengthening bonds. I also address the societal shifts in how we perceive commitment, how overcommitment can dilute its meaning, and why prioritizing mental and emotional health is key to building lasting connections.
This episode offers candid insights into navigating infidelity, fostering trust, and embracing the challenges that commitment brings. If youâve ever struggled with balancing your responsibilities, sustaining trust, or understanding the depth of love, this conversation is for you. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that will inspire you to reflect on your relationships and commitments.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this thought-provoking episode, I sit down with Dr. Leonard Sax, renowned family physician, psychologist, and author of The Collapse of Parenting, to delve into the pressing challenges modern parents face. We explore how the shift from authoritative parenting to prioritizing friendship with our children has led to widespread uncertainty and a societal crisis.
Dr. Sax shares compelling stories from his practice, including a mother hesitant to take away her daughter's phone, misdiagnosed ADHD caused by sleep deprivation, and the dangers of gentle parenting without boundaries. We unpack the role of authoritative guidance in fostering strong, resilient children and discuss how the digital age has exacerbated these struggles.
This episode offers valuable insights into why childhood is a critical learning period, how to navigate the cultural pressure of permissive parenting, and what parents can do to reclaim their confidence. If youâve ever questioned how to balance love with leadership in parenting, this conversation is a must-listen.
Relevant Links:
Dr. Leonard Sax Website: https://www.leonardsax.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this episode, I sit down with Lisa Brancatisano as she shares her transformative journey from a high-stress career to embracing creativity as a form of therapy. We explore how reconnecting with her love for watercolors helped her rediscover joy and balance, even in the midst of life's pressures.
Lisa opens up about the emotional toll of trying to juggle work, motherhood, and personal well-being, and how it led to moments of burnout and anxiety. She reflects on the profound shift she made when she decided to prioritize her mental health and create space for her creativity, which ultimately led her to a new path of fulfillment.
Throughout this conversation, Lisa highlights the power of creativity as a gateway for self-expression, healing, and relaxation. Whether you're looking to reconnect with your own creative side or are struggling with finding balance, this episode is filled with valuable insights on setting boundaries, embracing vulnerability, and the strength it takes to let go of old patterns.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this solo episode, Iâm exploring one of the most fundamental questions we can ask ourselves: Who are you, really? Itâs a simple question, yet so many of us struggle to answer it.
I reflect on moments in my own lifeâlike sitting on the edge of the bathtub, feeling like I was about to break downâand how these emotional turning points led me to reconsider my identity beyond roles, routines, and expectations. Iâll share why our value isnât tied to our productivity or achievements and how we can start redefining what truly matters.
If youâve ever felt stuck in the monotony of daily life or questioned your sense of purpose, this episode is for you. Together, weâll dive into how to embrace who you are at your core and how to find deeper meaning in the connections you create.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this solo episode, I share my thoughts on a topic that feels more relevant than ever: the impact of burnout and the societal pressure to erase gender differences. Drawing from my decades of experience as a coach and therapist, I open up about how this push for sameness is leaving many women â and families -- emotionally drained and disconnected.
I reflect on the pressures women face to excel in every aspect of life, from thriving in their careers to being the perfect parent, and how this relentless drive is stealing their energy and joy. I also dive into the beauty of our unique gender strengths and how these differences can create stronger connections and partnerships when embraced, rather than ignored.
This episode is a heartfelt exploration of societal expectations, the importance of reclaiming your energy, and how we can cultivate meaningful relationships by celebrating who we truly are. If youâve been feeling overwhelmed or questioning how to balance it all, this conversation is for you.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this episode, I sit down with Jennifer Febel, an emotional resilience coach and author of How to Set Boundaries Without Feeling Like a Dick. Jennifer shares her transformative journey, from struggling with emotional pain to becoming a boundary-building expert.
We dive into the misconceptions about boundariesâwhy theyâre not about shutting people out but inviting healthier, deeper connections. Jennifer explains how boundaries can bridge the gap between independence and interdependence, giving us tools to articulate our needs with clarity and compassion.
From personal stories about family relationships to actionable steps like Jenniferâs âBoundaries Blueprint,â this episode offers practical advice for anyone looking to strengthen their self-respect and relationships. If youâve ever felt guilty or awkward setting boundaries, Jenniferâs insights will empower you to reclaim your voice without compromising connection.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
Jennifer's Website | https://www.btgwellness.com
Jennifer's Social Media | https://linktr.ee/livelifeunbroken
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this episode, I sit down with Tiffany a dynamic entrepreneur and CEO of TGR Management Consulting, to uncover her journey from corporate burnout to building a thriving consulting business. Tiffany opens up about a pivotal momentâsitting on the edge of her bathtub, overwhelmed and unsure of how to move forwardâthat sparked her decision to leave behind the traditional career path and redefine success on her own terms.
We explore the emotional and practical challenges of starting over, including navigating imposter syndrome, setting boundaries as a working mom, and finding the courage to build a career that aligns with her values. Tiffany shares how she scaled her business, learned to embrace the peaks and valleys of entrepreneurship, and wrote a book to inspire other women to take bold steps in their careers.
This episode is packed with actionable lessons on balancing ambition with family life, managing career transitions, and thriving in uncertainty. Whether youâre feeling stuck in your current role or contemplating a major career change, Tiffanyâs story offers guidance and hope for embracing a new path. Tune in for an honest and uplifting conversation!
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
https://www.instagram.com/tiffanyrosik/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiffanyrosik/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this episode, I sit down with Jessica Moorhouse, a sought-after money expert, accredited financial counselor, and author of Everything But Money: The Hidden Barriers Between You and Financial Freedom. Together, we explore how our relationship with money goes beyond numbers and delves into deeper emotional and psychological patterns.
Jessica shares her personal journey of self-discovery, from overcoming negative self-talk to unlearning toxic financial habits rooted in societal expectations and privilege. We discuss how therapy played a transformative role in reshaping her mindset, not only about money but also about self-worth and balance in life.
This conversation is packed with insights on breaking free from hustle culture, addressing emotional barriers to financial health, and finding ways to rebuild relationships with yourself and others. Whether youâre struggling with money guilt, burnout, or the pressure to âdo it all,â Jessicaâs story offers hope and actionable strategies to regain clarity and confidence.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jessicaimoorhouse
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessicaimoorhouse
Threads: https://www.threads.net/@jessicaimoorhouse
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/jessicamoorhouse1
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessicaimoorhouse/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this solo episode, I reflect on lifeâs simple joys, challenges, and the lessons we often discover in unexpected moments. Recorded from a stunning beach in Mexico, I share my thoughts on breaking free from routines, finding gratitude in dark seasons, and the balance between striving for more and appreciating the present.
I dive into personal experiences â how travel reminds me of home, why following gut instincts matters, and the value of connecting with ourselves and others. This episode touches on universal themes like gratitude, the inevitability of hardship, and the beauty of slowing down to embrace life as it is.
Whether youâre navigating big decisions, reflecting on your journey, or simply looking for a moment of calm, this episode offers a blend of introspection and inspiration. Tune in for a heartfelt reflection on lifeâs ebbs and flows.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this episode, I sit down with Verna Kakowchyk, a woman whose story of loss, transformation, and resilience inspires us to embrace lifeâs challenges with courage. Verna opens up about navigating grief after the loss of her husband, the power of seeking therapy, and how she rebuilt her life through community and self-care.
We explore Vernaâs journey of taking charge during her husbandâs illness, managing overwhelming responsibilities, and setting healthy boundaries to protect her peace. From joining social groups to finding joy in new beginnings, Verna shares how she discovered strength in vulnerability and the importance of surrounding yourself with supportive people.
This episode offers valuable lessons on handling lifeâs transitions, embracing change at any age, and creating a life of purpose and fulfillment. Whether youâre facing personal challenges or looking for inspiration to start anew, Vernaâs story will resonate deeply.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this solo episode, I reflect on the pressures we face in a world of endless expectations and over-consumption. From navigating the overwhelming influence of consumerism to rediscovering joy in lifeâs simple moments, I share personal insights on why itâs essential to focus on what truly matters.
This episode delves into the challenges of balancing personal and professional lives, the traps of comparison, and the yearning for authentic connections in a filtered world. I also explore the emotional ups and downs that come with lifeâs gray seasons and how gratitude can be a powerful antidote.
If youâve ever felt stuck in the endless chase for "more" or struggled with finding meaning in a fast-paced, hyperconnected world, this episode is for you. Join me for an honest and heartfelt discussion on simplifying life, embracing authenticity, and reconnecting with the things that truly bring happiness.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this episode, Iâm joined by Alissa Boyer, a mentor for highly sensitive people (HSPs), to discuss the often-overlooked reality of men as HSPs and the unique challenges they face in embracing their sensitivity. And that 20% of the populationâmen and women alikeâare highly sensitive? Yet, due to societal conditioning, men are frequently encouraged to hide their sensitivity, seeing it as a weakness rather than a strength.
Alissa and I dive into the impact of these expectations on menâs emotional expression and how vulnerability can serve as a powerful tool for connection and growth. We explore practical ways for men to nurture empathy and emotional openness and discuss why embracing sensitivity can enrich both personal and professional relationships.
This episode is a must-listen if youâre interested in understanding the role of sensitivity in menâs lives and the transformative power of emotional awareness. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that challenges stereotypes and celebrates the strength in vulnerability.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions
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In this episode, I sit down with Judith Chambers, a seasoned financial advisor with over 25 years of experience, to uncover the often-overlooked connection between financial independence and personal empowermentâespecially for women. We explore Judithâs unique journey, from her early start in the workforce to balancing career, education, and family, all while pursuing a nontraditional path in wealth management.
Judith opens up about the importance of financial literacy, and I shares my belief that âall marriages endâeither in divorce or death,â and the need for women to understand their finances in preparation for lifeâs unexpected turns. We discuss the values of resilience and routine, and Judith reflects on how her own experiences shaped her commitment to helping clients find balance in their lives.
Tune in to hear Judithâs practical advice on balancing independence with family life, her insights on personal growth through lifeâs challenges, and the essential role of financial preparedness. This episode is packed with wisdom on the power of self-care, setting boundaries, and finding your footing through lifeâs ups and downs.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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In this episode, I sit down with Stephanie Mahoney to explore the impact of vulnerability on our personal and professional lives. We dive into the challenges of building authentic connections and how fear can hold us back from being truly ourselves.
Stephanie shares her journey of embracing her emotions and the role therapy has played in helping her foster deeper relationships. We discuss the importance of being open and honest about our feelings, even when it feels uncomfortable.
This episode is packed with insights on overcoming emotional barriers, understanding the strength that comes from vulnerability, and how sharing our experiences can enrich our connections. If youâve struggled with expressing your emotions or building trust, this conversation is for you. Tune in for an honest and empowering dialogue that encourages you to embrace your true self.
Relevant Links: https://luellajonk.com/
This podcast provides general health information and should not be considered a substitute for professional medical advice. Always consult with a healthcare provider for personalized guidance. The views expressed here are not a replacement for expert medical opinions.
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