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Many men and women experiencing same-sex attraction struggle to imagine they can be loved by God and live a life of real freedom.
Is there a future where you can be free and fulfilled?
Laurence Koo, guest speaker at our upcoming Reclaim Conference, joins Juli to share what freedom looks like when you experience same-sex attraction.
Guest: Laurence Koo
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The vast majority of men didn’t get a sufficient sex education. Besides a handful of condoms and advice to not get girls pregnant, wasn’t there more they needed to know about women, sex, and romance?
Sam Jolman, LPC, author of “The Sex Talk You Never Got”, joins Juli to talk about what men didn’t learn about sex growing up.
Guest: Sam Jolman, LPC
Sam’s Website: samjolman.com
Sam’s Instagram: @samjolman
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Female sexuality is complex, with numerous factors weighing into how a woman may feel about sex at any given time. Obstacles run the gamut, from parenting young kids, to demanding jobs, and sexual pain.
What about the lesser-explored reasons why a woman might not feel excited about sexual intimacy with her husband? Dr. Jennifer Degler joins Juli to share her thoughts and observations.
Guest: Dr. Jennifer Degler
Jennifer’s Website: jenniferdegler.com
Jennifer on Instagram: @drjenniferdegler
Blog: Five Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm & Intimacy
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Are we supposed to battle our sin or surrender it to the one who has already defeated it?
Juli and Hannah discuss the difference between struggle and surrender, the role of the Holy Spirit in our lives, and what happens when we resist God’s leading in our lives instead of embracing it.
Co-host: Hannah Nitz
Hannah’s Website: hannahnitz.com
Hannah’s Instagram: @hannahnitz
Book: Absolute Surrender by Andrew Murray
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Studies have shown that churches are often among the first places people turn when they are experiencing domestic abuse, but unfortunately churches aren’t always well-informed when it comes to how to help victims.
Chris Moles and Stacey Womack, who work independently in organizations PeaceWorks and Abuse Recovery Ministry Services, join Juli to talk about what churches need to know when it comes to helping abuse victims.
Guests: Chris Moles and Stacey Womack
Chris’s Website: chrismoles.org
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PeaceWorks Live: Peaceworks Live 2024
Stacey’s Website: Abuse Recovery Ministry Services
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Discussing sexuality with children can be intimidating. As a Christian parent you long to give your kids a faith-based sex education and you want to do so without shame, but often the very first step towards this is the most challenging.
Thankfully, there are more and more experts providing support and guidance in this area. Dr. Julia Sadusky, author of “Start Talking To Your Kids About Sex” and “Talking with Your Teen about Sex”, joins Juli to provide wisdom on age-appropriate sex education and give some practical parenting tips for Christian families seeking to engage in healthy conversations with their kids about sex.
Guest: Dr. Julia Sadusky
Julia’s Website: juliasadusky.com
Julia’s Instagram: @drsadusky
Book: Start Talking To Your Kids About Sex by Julia Sadusky
Book: Talking with Your Teen about Sex by Julia Sadusky
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How do you help your kids develop a healthy relationship with social media, avoid the traps and pitfalls, and learn how to connect with peers safely and authentically?
Pastor James Talbert from Citizens Church Akron joins Juli to share what he’s learned through ministry about the good, the bad, and the ugly of social media.
Guest: James Talbert
Website: citizensakron.com
Instagram: @citizensakron
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How do you set the pace for a dating relationship? What kind of expectations should you have? How do you break up with someone without disrespecting them?
Kait and JJ Tomlin from Heart of Dating join Juli to help singles navigate the ups and downs of modern dating.
Guests: Kait and JJ Tomlin
Heart of Dating website: heartofdating.com
Heart of Dating Instagram: @heartofdating @kaitness @jjtomlin
Book: Thank You for Rejecting Me by Kait Warman Tomlin
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Wondering how to improve your sex life? Beyond the general relationship advice and intimacy tips you might have found online, there’s an unpopular argument you might not have heard: that the key to improving your sexual connection lies with you.
Christian Sex Therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma joins Juli to talk about three underrated ways couples can boost their sexual and emotional intimacy.
Guest: Dr. Michael Sytsma
Michael’s website: intimatemarriage.org
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In this special re-release, Troy and Melissa Haas of HopeQuest join Juli to answer the question: Can a couple’s sexual relationship survive and thrive after infidelity?
While they were serving as missionaries, Troy’s long-term addiction to pornography was revealed. As hard as this was on their marriage, Melissa soon realized she had her own issues around sexuality too.
They join Juli to tell her what was wrong, and how God helped them heal and find restoration.
Guests: Troy and Melissa Haas
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Have we lost our vision for loving relationships outside the context of marriage and the nuclear family? What was the greatest love Jesus described in the Bible? Was it romantic love, or a different type of sacrificial love?
Rebecca McLaughlin joins Juli to explain how we’ve minimized friendship and overemphasized sexual relationships.
Guest: Rebecca McLaughlin
Rebecca’s Website: rebeccamclaughlin.org
Rebecca’s Instagram: @rebecc_mclaugh
Book: “No Greater Love” by Rebecca McLaughlin
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Abuse and the trauma it creates run deep. How can survivors begin to move forward?
In this episode we explore a deeply personal journey of recovery from decades of sexual, physical and emotional abuse, discussing how embracing the fatherhood of God can transform your life. Author Jennifer Michelle Greenberg shares how her heavenly father and a healthy marital relationship helped her heal from her painful past.
Guests: Jennifer Michelle Greenberg and Jason Greenberg
Website: Jen’s website
Instagram: @jenmgreenberg
Book: “Not Forsaken” by Jennifer Michelle Greenberg
Book: “Defiant Joy” by Jennifer Michelle Greenberg
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Struggles with pornography are incredibly common within the Church, and the problem isn’t going to go away on its own.
What can churches do to be an environment where it is safe for congregants and leaders to admit struggles and get the support they need to overcome them? How can those going into ministry receive sufficient discipleship and care so they can heal from past traumas, win the battle, and walk closely and authentically with Jesus?
Sam Black, Director of Life Change Education at Covenant Eyes, and author of “The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix It”, joins Juli to discuss what the church at large can do to address the issue of pornography.
Guest: Sam Black
Website: thehealingchurch.com
Website: covenanteyes.com
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Book: “The Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix It” by Sam Black
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Introducing “Her Freedom Journey”, Juli and Joy’s brand new book!
In this very special podcast episode, Joy and Juli talk about the lack of discussion around female sexuality in the Church, and particularly around issues like pornography and masturbation. Joy shares some of her personal story, and together she and Juli talk about the heart behind the new book.
Guest: Dr. Joy Skarka
Website: joyskarka.com
Instagram: @joyskarka
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The way we are brought up has a significant influence on the way we form attachments with others. There are few relationships in which this is as pronounced or as obvious as marriage.
Kay and Milan Yerkovich, authors of the breakthrough book, “How We Love”, want to empower couples to become more aware of the ways in which their early years formed them, and to acquire the skills to develop secure attachments for healthy, long-lasting relationships.
Guests: Kay and Milan Yerkovich
Book: How We Love by Kay and Milan Yerkovich
Website: howwelove.com
Instagram: @howwelovebook
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In Jesus there is hope for healing and transformation, but that doesn’t mean that in this life we won’t experience hardship and brokenness.
Brenna Blain, renowned speaker and new author, knows this better than most. Experiencing same-sex attraction and fighting her own mental health battle from around the age of 14, Brenna joins Juli to explain how coming to the very end of herself led her to a place desperate enough to long for God Himself, and not just His healing.
Guest: Brenna Blain
Brenna’s Website: brenna-blain.vercel.app/
Brenna’s Instagram: @bunonmyhead
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My spouse keeps acting out, why won’t he stop?
Is my wife still keeping secrets?
How do I know if my spouse is truly repentant after betrayal?
Infidelity changes everything, and relationship recovery is extremely challenging to navigate. What signs of change are you supposed to look for? How do you build trust after cheating
Jeremy Smith, LPC and founder of the Marriage Recovery Course joins Juli to discuss the unique approach he’s developed to help couples heal their marriages and achieve deep, lasting change as individuals and together.
Guest: Jeremy Smith, LPC
Website: Smith Counseling
Website: Marriage Recovery Course
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Have we the Church lost our way when it comes to living in unity? What would Jesus say about Christian cancel culture and the many threads on social media where people criticize one another in the name of Christianity?
God’s Word says, “Behold, how good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell in unity!”, and yet, in the modern American Church, unity can often be hard to find.
Join Juli and co-host Hannah Nitz as they discuss:
The need for a biblical perspective of the Church as Christ’s bride
How to extend God’s mercy, grace, and forgiveness to others and ourselves
How to cultivate a true Christian response to disagreements within the Church
Why maturity in the faith requires engagement with those with whom we disagree
How we can use the churches of the New Testament as a model to work through disagreements and pursue unity
Co-host: Hannah Nitz
Hannah’s Website: hannahnitz.com
Hannah’s Instagram: @hannahnitz
Book: “Until Unity” by Francis Chan
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When a marriage ends through divorce, it makes sense that the people involved would experience deep grief. So how do we care for those walking through it? What is a Christian approach to divorce-care and helping divorced individuals in the church?
Laura Petherbridge, who suddenly found herself divorced at 29, joins Juli to share her experience as a divorcee, discuss the work she is doing, and explain how the Church can be a place of healing and empathy for those mourning the loss of their marriages.
Guest: Laura Petherbridge
Laura’s Website: thesmartstepmom.com
Laura’s Instagram: @laurapetherbridge
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Widowhood presents profound challenges, with loneliness permeating every aspect of life, including the realm of sexuality. The loss goes beyond losing a life partner; it extends to losing a sexual companion as well.
In this week’s Java with Juli, Dr. Carol Tanksley, who became widowed after just seven years of marriage in 2016, delves into the complexities faced by widows, and sheds light on the emotional and psychological hurdles they face. She also shares her personal experience of surrendering her sexuality to God in widowhood.
Guest: Dr. Carol Tanklsey
Carol’s website: drcarolministries.com
Carol’s Instagram: @drcarolt
Book: Sexpectations by Dr. Carol Tanksley
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