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We all experience shame, and for many of us that shame is deeply connected to our sexuality. âWhy am I drawn to sinful things?â âWill I ever overcome my addictions?â
When it comes to addressing shame, few of us know how to address it effectively, so Curt Thompson, MD, author of âThe Soul of Shameâ, joins Juli to help explain what it is, where it comes from, and what to do with it.
Guest: Curt Thompson, MD
Curtâs website: curtthompsonmd.com
Curtâs Instagram: @curtthompsonmd
Book: The Soul of Shame by Curt Thompson, MD
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buse so often warps our sense of self and our sense of who God is. How do you lose the lies and rediscover your faith?
Author and adventurer Ryan George joins Juli to talk about how he disentangled the manipulation and abuse of his past and discovered who God really is.
Guest: Ryan George
Ryanâs Website: explorience.org
Ryanâs Instagram: @ryplane
Book: Hurt and Healed by the Church by Ryan George
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Why did God design our bodies the way He did? Is our gender more than our bodies? What does it look like to live out our male and femaleness?
Dr. Abigail Favale, author of âThe Genesis of Genderâ, joins Juli to talk about why our bodies matter and how to cultivate a deep and rich theology around sex and gender.
Guest: Dr. Abigail Favale
Abigailâs website: abigailfavale.wixsite.com/home
Book: The Genesis of Gender by Dr. Abigail Favale
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When we struggle with sexual sin, what is Godâs ultimate hope for us? Is it that we stop our sexual sin? Or does it go beyond that to addressing our sinful nature and hearts, bringing us to a place of submission and surrender?
Jackie Hill Perry shares how God drew her to Himself and brought her out of a lesbian lifestyle.
Guest: Jackie Hill Perry
Book: Gay Girl, Good God by Jackie Hill Perry
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How do we root our identities in Christ and help our children do the same? Jonathan Holmes, Executive Director at Fieldstone Counseling, shares with Juli how we can avoid identity traps and teach our kids to do the same.
Guest: Jonathan Holmes
Jonathanâs Instagram: @akjonathanholmes
Book: Grounded in Grace: Helping Kids Build Their Identity in Christ by Jonathan Holmes
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Many men and women experiencing same-sex attraction struggle to imagine they can be loved by God and live a life of real freedom.
Is there a future where you can be free and fulfilled?
Laurence Koo, guest speaker at our upcoming Reclaim Conference, joins Juli to share what freedom looks like when you experience same-sex attraction.
Guest: Laurence Koo
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The vast majority of men didnât get a sufficient sex education. Besides a handful of condoms and advice to not get girls pregnant, wasnât there more they needed to know about women, sex, and romance?
Sam Jolman, LPC, author of âThe Sex Talk You Never Gotâ, joins Juli to talk about what men didnât learn about sex growing up.
Guest: Sam Jolman, LPC
Samâs Website: samjolman.com
Samâs Instagram: @samjolman
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Female sexuality is complex, with numerous factors weighing into how a woman may feel about sex at any given time. Obstacles run the gamut, from parenting young kids, to demanding jobs, and sexual pain.
What about the lesser-explored reasons why a woman might not feel excited about sexual intimacy with her husband? Dr. Jennifer Degler joins Juli to share her thoughts and observations.
Guest: Dr. Jennifer Degler
Jenniferâs Website: jenniferdegler.com
Jennifer on Instagram: @drjenniferdegler
Blog: Five Things You Need to Know About Women, Orgasm & Intimacy
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Are we supposed to battle our sin or surrender it to the one who has already defeated it?
Juli and Hannah discuss the difference between struggle and surrender, the role of the Holy Spirit in our lives, and what happens when we resist Godâs leading in our lives instead of embracing it.
Co-host: Hannah Nitz
Hannahâs Website: hannahnitz.com
Hannahâs Instagram: @hannahnitz
Book: Absolute Surrender by Andrew Murray
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Studies have shown that churches are often among the first places people turn when they are experiencing domestic abuse, but unfortunately churches arenât always well-informed when it comes to how to help victims.
Chris Moles and Stacey Womack, who work independently in organizations PeaceWorks and Abuse Recovery Ministry Services, join Juli to talk about what churches need to know when it comes to helping abuse victims.
Guests: Chris Moles and Stacey Womack
Chrisâs Website: chrismoles.org
PeaceWorks Podcast Website:PeaceWorks Podcast
PeaceWorks Live: Peaceworks Live 2024
Staceyâs Website: Abuse Recovery Ministry Services
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Discussing sexuality with children can be intimidating. As a Christian parent you long to give your kids a faith-based sex education and you want to do so without shame, but often the very first step towards this is the most challenging.
Thankfully, there are more and more experts providing support and guidance in this area. Dr. Julia Sadusky, author of âStart Talking To Your Kids About Sexâ and âTalking with Your Teen about Sexâ, joins Juli to provide wisdom on age-appropriate sex education and give some practical parenting tips for Christian families seeking to engage in healthy conversations with their kids about sex.
Guest: Dr. Julia Sadusky
Juliaâs Website: juliasadusky.com
Juliaâs Instagram: @drsadusky
Book: Start Talking To Your Kids About Sex by Julia Sadusky
Book: Talking with Your Teen about Sex by Julia Sadusky
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How do you help your kids develop a healthy relationship with social media, avoid the traps and pitfalls, and learn how to connect with peers safely and authentically?
Pastor James Talbert from Citizens Church Akron joins Juli to share what heâs learned through ministry about the good, the bad, and the ugly of social media.
Guest: James Talbert
Website: citizensakron.com
Instagram: @citizensakron
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How do you set the pace for a dating relationship? What kind of expectations should you have? How do you break up with someone without disrespecting them?
Kait and JJ Tomlin from Heart of Dating join Juli to help singles navigate the ups and downs of modern dating.
Guests: Kait and JJ Tomlin
Heart of Dating website: heartofdating.com
Heart of Dating Instagram: @heartofdating @kaitness @jjtomlin
Book: Thank You for Rejecting Me by Kait Warman Tomlin
Podcast: @HeartofDating
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Wondering how to improve your sex life? Beyond the general relationship advice and intimacy tips you might have found online, thereâs an unpopular argument you might not have heard: that the key to improving your sexual connection lies with you.
Christian Sex Therapist Dr. Michael Sytsma joins Juli to talk about three underrated ways couples can boost their sexual and emotional intimacy.
Guest: Dr. Michael Sytsma
Michaelâs website: intimatemarriage.org
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In this special re-release, Troy and Melissa Haas of HopeQuest join Juli to answer the question: Can a coupleâs sexual relationship survive and thrive after infidelity?
While they were serving as missionaries, Troyâs long-term addiction to pornography was revealed. As hard as this was on their marriage, Melissa soon realized she had her own issues around sexuality too.
They join Juli to tell her what was wrong, and how God helped them heal and find restoration.
Guests: Troy and Melissa Haas
Instagram: @hopequestgroup
Website: hopequestgroup.org
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Have we lost our vision for loving relationships outside the context of marriage and the nuclear family? What was the greatest love Jesus described in the Bible? Was it romantic love, or a different type of sacrificial love?
Rebecca McLaughlin joins Juli to explain how weâve minimized friendship and overemphasized sexual relationships.
Guest: Rebecca McLaughlin
Rebeccaâs Website: rebeccamclaughlin.org
Rebeccaâs Instagram: @rebecc_mclaugh
Book: âNo Greater Loveâ by Rebecca McLaughlin
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Abuse and the trauma it creates run deep. How can survivors begin to move forward?
In this episode we explore a deeply personal journey of recovery from decades of sexual, physical and emotional abuse, discussing how embracing the fatherhood of God can transform your life. Author Jennifer Michelle Greenberg shares how her heavenly father and a healthy marital relationship helped her heal from her painful past.
Guests: Jennifer Michelle Greenberg and Jason Greenberg
Website: Jenâs website
Instagram: @jenmgreenberg
Book: âNot Forsakenâ by Jennifer Michelle Greenberg
Book: âDefiant Joyâ by Jennifer Michelle Greenberg
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Struggles with pornography are incredibly common within the Church, and the problem isnât going to go away on its own.
What can churches do to be an environment where it is safe for congregants and leaders to admit struggles and get the support they need to overcome them? How can those going into ministry receive sufficient discipleship and care so they can heal from past traumas, win the battle, and walk closely and authentically with Jesus?
Sam Black, Director of Life Change Education at Covenant Eyes, and author of âThe Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix Itâ, joins Juli to discuss what the church at large can do to address the issue of pornography.
Guest: Sam Black
Website: thehealingchurch.com
Website: covenanteyes.com
App: The Victory App
Instagram: @covenant.eyes
Book: âThe Healing Church: What Churches Get Wrong about Pornography and How to Fix Itâ by Sam Black
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Introducing âHer Freedom Journeyâ, Juli and Joyâs brand new book!
In this very special podcast episode, Joy and Juli talk about the lack of discussion around female sexuality in the Church, and particularly around issues like pornography and masturbation. Joy shares some of her personal story, and together she and Juli talk about the heart behind the new book.
Guest: Dr. Joy Skarka
Website: joyskarka.com
Instagram: @joyskarka
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The way we are brought up has a significant influence on the way we form attachments with others. There are few relationships in which this is as pronounced or as obvious as marriage.
Kay and Milan Yerkovich, authors of the breakthrough book, âHow We Loveâ, want to empower couples to become more aware of the ways in which their early years formed them, and to acquire the skills to develop secure attachments for healthy, long-lasting relationships.
Guests: Kay and Milan Yerkovich
Book: How We Love by Kay and Milan Yerkovich
Website: howwelove.com
Instagram: @howwelovebook
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