Yikes is it therapy Thursday again already!? Our quick, down and dirty ep is here and on today’s menu we have:
A listeners crush has just jumped ship and is now boning her friend.... Yikes!
A deep, soul searching question about what’s more important, instant chemistry or a deeper connection
HELP! My partner can’t make me orgasm, but I’ve never had this problem before!
All in a days work Lifers!
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In the words of Ross and Rachel, WE WERE ON A BREAK!
Lifers, there’s going to come a time in most of our lives where we feel unsettled, uncomfortable, suffocated, anxious and maybe just a little confused in our relationship. Maybe you just need to figure some shit out on your own for a hot second, maybe it’s trying to forgive an infidelity, deciding if you want kids or maybe it’s more lifestyle based like wanting to focus on a career change! Either way you need to figure it out alone. But here’s the thing, you still love your partner and don’t want it to end! It’s tricky territory... but sounds like you guys need a break!!
We tend to shudder when we hear the words ‘break’ but it’s not necessarily the worst thing and definitely isn’t the end of the world like we are made to believe!
There are some things you can do to make it go more smoothly though and to bring you back bigger, better, stronger and more in love than ever. And we’re going to tell you.
Thanks to todays sponsor @bumble_australia we are also bringing you some great conversation starters and opening lines... Britt and Laura both share their (slightly weird) opener and we want to know who’s you think is better (let’s be real, it’s ‘the best of a bad bunch’ kinda vibe)
If you want to take Bumbles quick online quiz to see your dating style you can do so here https://thebeehive.bumble.com/conversation-starters-generator/
If you listen every week but haven’t actually hit that subscribe button yet or left a review... WHERE YOU AT!? Haha but seriously. As an independent podcast this is the stuff that really helps us grow and keeps us in your ears each week. So what are you waiting for!
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Zijn er afleveringen die ontbreken?
"Your age doesn’t determine if you can be successful, and your bank account doesn’t determine if you are happy."
Today we are talking timeline pressures, career changes and running your own race!
But before we do that we have some hella cute Bumble success stories!
Have you noticed we are all in hurry to get there, wherever that may be! In a hurry to grow up, graduate, become successful, in a hurry to get things done. We get upset when things don’t go our way, when results are not achieved instantly. It’s one big race and we are petrified of being left behind.
Timelines have consciously or subconsciously been ingrained in our minds from the beginning. Whether it was uni graduation by 21, owning property before 30, getting married and having kids by 35 or retirement by 60. It seems there is always something that should have been done by a certain age or time. Maybe somewhere along the way you've wanted to change your career path but the thought of change and failure is too much, so you just don't.
But then, society has this funny way of making us feel that if we don’t accomplish these deadlines, we are failing. We start existing in this vicious cycle of feeling unaccomplished, unsuccessful and a little lost. We start questioning why we aren’t where we were 'meant' to be. We start comparing our timelines to others timelines. Well, we are here to tell you that your journey is YOURS and hot damn you can run that race any way you see fit!
Thanks to todays sponsor @bumble_australia , where women are empowered to take control of their dating life and make the first move.
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Happy Tuesday Lifers!
This week because Laura has been severely unwell and hasn’t been able to get out of bed we’ve had to mix it up a little and do the old switcheroo! So today we are bringing you ‘ask uncut’ and on Thursday you’ll get your juicy episode (hopefully Laura can talk again by then!)
Not only that but we have a special guest joining Britt today to answer your deepest, darkest questions... (drum roll please) it’s Laura’s other half Matt! About time we got a males perspective right?! We thought we’d really take advantage of his ‘expertise’ so we chat all things ghosting - why guys do it and also how to let them down easy, we chat jealousy and uncertainty in relationships, and how to know the difference between ‘grass is always greener’ or if you actually want to end the relationship.
You don’t want to miss this one!
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It’s Tuesday lifers! And we are taking a walk with the green eyed monster.
But first we are unpacking you most hilarious Bumble online dating stories thanks to todays sponsor - you guessed it Bumble!
Chances are, unless you’re a a beautiful, unique, mythical unicorn mermaid, you’ve experienced jealousy at some stage of your life, especially in romantic relationships. Maybe for reasons that are warranted or maybe it comes from a place of deep insecurity, either way we are going to get to the bottom of it because it is not conducive to a healthy relationship.
There is one kind of jealousy that we are really going to deep dive into, and that is retrospective or retroactive jealousy, which is when one experiences painful thoughts and an intense overwhelming and all consuming curiosity and obsession with their partners past relationships and sexual history. And let us tell you, it’s real and never ends well.
Thank you to today’s sponsor, Bumble. The dating app where women make the first move. An app that empowers users to connect with confidence whether dating, networking, or meeting friends online.
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Therapy Thursday lifers!
Our short, sharp and sometimes sexy question session.
We have one girl in a long term relationship that feels their sex Life isn’t enough.. should she leave?
Where do single people meet these days and how do you meet them in the wild?
And is it ok/should we be asking partners to get STI checks before sleeping with them....
If you have a question for Life Uncut, slide on into our DM's on Instagram @lifeuncutpodcast
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Happy Tuesday guys!
We have a bloody big episode for you today with back to back interviews!
First up we have the first ever Bachelorette sisters Elly and Becky Miles! We get to know the girls, chat embarrassing stories and how exactly a double sister bachelorette actually works!
Then we jump into something a little more serious but something we feel very passionately about. This past few weeks we’ve seen an online dating story go viral. And not for reasons you may hope.
Ebonie Sanderson, a local bondi woman has come forward detailing the horrific abuse she received online from a man named Tom McGuirk. What we all first thought was just a tirade of abusive messages and voicemails simply because she declined to spend the night with him, turned in much more, with women from all over coming forward to detail their abuse at the hands of Tom McGuirk. From abusive messages, to voicemails, multiple fake accounts in order to troll, to blackmail and threats of stalking.
We wanted to get Ebony on to talk us through her experience , why she felt compelled to go public and to have a wider conversation about consent.
This is an important conversation guys so please share with your friends!
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It’s Therapy Thursday lifers!
Gosh it comes around quick doesn’t it! We hope you’ve had a more exciting week than we have this week! Britt almost dated Zac Efron but didn’t because Laura forgot to tell her he was eating dinner across the road from her house.
Once we got past that slippery little detail that was so easily forgotten we jumped in to answering your questions!!
This week we have a work dilemma. How to tell your boss you’re uncomfortable with some of his vocabulary.
A girl that was broken up with by the love of her life and didn’t see it coming. She wants to know “what she did wrong so she can avoid doing it again” and girl, you did nothing!!
And a realllllll pickle... how do you tell the guy you’ve not that long ago started dating that he’s going bald because he may not actually know.... or do you even tell him at all? What a predicament!
Thanks for tuning in lifers! We love and appreciate every one of you!
See you next week!
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Boy do we have a big one for you!
On Tursday night we all sat down to watch the Bachelor Finale and our boy Locky broke the cardinal bach sin by telling both final girls that he was in love with them, in this episode we sit down with runner up Bella Varelis to ask the question on everyones tongues.... What they actual F***?
Bella unpacks everything from the very beginning, to what really happened in lockdown, what went down with Irena and what we didn’t see in the finale.
We also hit Bella with a bunch of rumours to find out what’s real and what’s not.
If you're a Bachi fan, this is one BIG episode you don’t want to miss.
If you’re not part of the Facebook discussion group yet what are you even doing!? Jump on and become apart of the amazing community there! Life Uncut Podcast
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Haiiiii guys! We hope you are having a killer week! We love bringing you these short, sharp and sexy ask Uncut episodes!
First up, You’ll never believe what happened to one of our poor listeners this week! If you thought you were having a bad day this will make you feel better!
Then we are talking ghosting, closure from ghosting, vagina pet names and what to do when your long term partner just absolutely annoys the shit out of you.
Enjoy and see you next week lifers!
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Buckle up Lifers we have a big one today!
Firstly, Laura announced she is having baby number 2 and we couldn't be happier! She kept that a bloody good secret did't she! We chat all about her finding out, telling Matt, how and why she kept it a secret for 5 months, how this pregnancy is different and if she knows what she is having.
Then we get in to the big stuff. Mean girl behaviour, Internalised mysogyny, Internalised sexism, whatever you want to call it. We seem to be seeing it everywhere at the moment, thanks to the likes of reality tv, articles, social media, within our own friendship groups, So we wanted to take a deep dive and get all disecty with it. Find out exactly what it is, why it is still so prevalent in this day and age and what we can do about it. All in all we found the research so interesting and we think this is a great conversation to take to your family and friends! Let's get in to it shall we!?
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Narcissism. The word gives you the shivers right!? Its a term that often gets thrown around, we hear people speak about it a lot, but it can be really hard to pinpoint if you're actually dating one.
The official definition of a narcissist, according to the Mayo Clinic, is a person who often lacks empathy, acts entitled, arrogant, and prioritizes themselves above all else.
We want to deep dive into some narcissistic tendencies, red flags to look out for like love bombing, and what to do if you find yourself in an unhealthy relationship with someone with narcissistic tendencies.
It’s important to remember that we are not clinical psychologists, but we are two women who have both had intense relationships with people that fit this mould and we want to shed some light on it in the hopes that it can help others. We talk about our own experiences and share learned information.
If you want to keep us in your ears, please hit 5 starts, leave a review, tell your friends and share the love, because, well, we love love. X
Tthis episode could be triggering for someone that has had dealings with people like this in the past. If that is you, you may want to reconsider listening. Please remember, If you’re having troubles in any aspect of your life, you’re not alone and websites such as lifeline are always there to help.
Hello, It's your fav unqualified therapists Britt and Laura! We’ve gone rogue this week and switched things around due to a hectic schedule... meaning you get Thursdays Ask Uncut a touch easy and the meaty juicy episode for this week will drop on Thursday!
Just keeping you on your toes Lifers!
Today’s listeners questions include:
My partner has a huge gambling problem, can he change and do I stay or do I leave?
My bf wants me to do anal all the time but I hate it. How do I navigate this?
My parter wants to move away without me, I can’t go with him because of uni. Am I allowed to be upset? And what does this mean?
Oh, and Britts dad has his own accidentally unfiltered!
If you guys love listening to us please tell your mum, your dad, your friends and your dog and anyone else that will listen. Hit 5 starts, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love x
Therapy Thursday is here and on the menu today we have a difficult conversation between a daughter and her mum, a woman that is super turned off by the guy she’s sleeping with and a guy that just keeps on breaking a girls heart. How many times are you allowed to let someone go and come back?
Oh also, Britt cried reminiscing and it’s weird. What are these new found emotions? Haha
Thanks for tuning in lifers and keep those questions rolling in to @lifeuncutpidcast and please share the love, because, well, we love love x
Lifers, we were a little slow off the ranks today, but boy do we have a biggy for you!
First up on todays episode we are talking about that Adele photo that is causing a stir, then we dive into a little bit of Bach Chat, followed by our favourite Accidentally Unfiltered stories for the week.... and then for the main course we have something a little different for you today.
We are getting serious and talking about Pink Tax, and the hidden costs of being female.
So what is pink tax? Glad you asked! It’s gender based price discrimination. Basically women are still paying more for certain items than men are, even if the items are identical, effectively shelling out a 'pink tax' simply for being female.
Is it not bad enough that women on average are still earning less than our male counterparts!? Even though they often can’t even multitask!? (Ok that part is not fact per se but a it’s strong opinion)
But now it costs us more to shop too!?
HOW IS THIS HAPPENING!
It’s time we all know about this and become smarter consumers.
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Here we answer your deep dark and burning questions for the week. Therapy Thursday!
Should you delete photos of your ex? Staying with a partner because of pregnancy, and how to tell a friend who has recently miscarried that you're pregnant?
It's a big one!
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For some reason society has made ‘30’ the magic number for women to have gotten their life together, fallen in love, bought property and have kids on the way. And that if you haven’t you’re a failure and you’re being left behind.
Well, we are here to tell you, they are wrong and everyone is on a different path and why being single at any age can be amazing.
It’s you friendly reminder that you don’t need to give up, buy 10 dogs and move to Alaska to live out your days alone.
Join the convo as we talk pros and cons of being single in your 30s.
If you love listening as much as we love recording then hit 5 stars, leave a sneaky review, subscribe and share the love, because, well, we love love x
THERAPY THURSDAY! Your free weekly therapy session with two completely unqualified but deeply passionate women whom are armed with a microphone and an opinion. A dangerous combination indeed!
From boyfriends messaging other women to wanting to steal your best friends child’s name... no issue is left unturned.
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Hello Lifers and welcome back to one of our favourite 'T' Day's of the week, Tuesday... which is also LIFE UNCUT day!
Straight off the bat Britt is well and truely back in the dating game Halle- f*king -lujah, and praise be to the love Gods.
We do the mandatory Bach chat, unpack last weeks episodes and get to the bottom of Areeba's ham sandwich. Followed by our favourite part of the episode - Accidentally Unfiltered.
In what fun ways has your upbringing messed you up? Today we get deep and introspective and chat about attachment styles and Attachment Theory. Attachment styles are important they form how we make bonds with our romantic partners and they are heavily linked to our parents and our upbringing. Some might call it Daddy issues, we call it attachment Theory!
We unpack our own attachment styles and you can too by taking this test:
More in depth test - https://bit.ly/2CFLHhC
Slightly quicker test - https://bit.ly/3awaIrQ
Join in on the conversation by joining our Facebook Group Life Uncut Podcast and following @lifeuncutpodcast
Lifers we promised you this little bonus episode AND HERE IT IS!!! A whole ep of strictly Accidentally Unfiltered stories and solid 10/10 belly laughs.
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