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Ever walk out of a session thinking, “Was that okay? Did I do it right? Did I help enough?” If so, you are so not alone.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m diving deep into therapist performance anxiety — the kind of internal pressure that doesn’t just keep us up at night, but can actually interfere with the quality of our clinical work.
From subtle fears about being "good enough" to the quiet panic that creeps in when clients stall out, I’m unpacking how this anxiety shows up, what it does to our clinical judgment, and why it's a hidden threat to both our clients and our own well-being.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Introduction: Therapist Performance Anxiety
01:04 – When Caring Becomes a Liability
06:13 – The Story of Sarah
14:52 – Financial Anxiety in Private Practice
31:19 – Strategies to Manage Performance Anxiety
39:35 – CEU Trainings for TherapistsIf performance anxiety is making you second-guess whether you’re “doing it right,” you’re not alone. This is particularly true for therapists who are in or headed into the realm of coaching. The waters between therapy and coaching can get murky which creates ethical dilemmas that most of us aren’t trained to identify.
My free CEU training Think You’re Coaching? 8 Red Flags You’re Actually Doing Therapy is designed to clear that uncertainty. When you're not sure where the line is between coaching and therapy — or you're worried you’ve already crossed it — anxiety starts calling the shots. This training will help you get crystal clear on what’s what, so you can show up grounded, ethical, and effective in your work.
Even better? When you complete the training and pass the quick quiz, you’ll earn 1 CEU and a certificate — totally free. Check out the training here.
And hey, let’s stay connected. If this topic resonated with you, I would love to continue the conversation and support your growth. Join our amazing community of growth-minded clinicians by connecting with me on LinkedIn. I share insights, free CEU trainings, and sometimes a little healthy debate. Come say hi — I’m always cheering you on. 💛
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
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If you’ve ever ended your day feeling emotionally drained from and completely alone after a day full of therapy client sessions, this episode is for you.
In this personal and powerfully important episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m getting real about something that affects so many of us—therapist isolation. It’s the quiet, slow leak in our energy that nobody warns you about in grad school, but it’s there... draining your joy, dulling your spark, and making your once-passionate career feel heavy and unsustainable.
We’ll talk about how working in isolation chips away at your confidence, creativity, and even your ethics over time. I’ll share stories from my own early years in solo private practice (before Growing Self became the big, vibrant group it is now), and what finally helped me reconnect, re-engage, and grow again. Because here’s the truth: you were never meant to do this alone.
Timestamps:
00:00 – The Hidden Hazard of Isolation in Therapy
00:59 – Why Therapist Work Is Emotionally Expensive
03:31 – What Isolation Does to Our Clients (Not Just Us)
09:51 – My Own Story: From Lonely to Supported
14:51 – Simple Strategies to Rebuild Connection
15:45 – Coaching Certification: Education and Community
21:08 – How to Find (or Create) Your Therapist Tribe
37:13 – Final Words You Might Just Need to Hear TodayIf this episode speaks to you, I’d love to keep this conversation going and support you with tools, ideas, and free CE trainings to help you stay healthy, connected, and growing. Sign up for my weekly newsletter to get resources delivered straight to your inbox—designed with real therapists like you in mind.
And let’s connect on LinkedIn! Click here to find me—I love hearing from other therapists, and it’s a wonderful way to stay plugged into a professional community that actually supports your growth.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Know a fellow therapist who might be feeling the weight of this too? Share this episode with them. Let’s start breaking the cycle of isolation—together.
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What separates the therapists who thrive—with waitlists, rave reviews, and real client transformations—from the ones who are always one cancellation away from burnout? (And nope, it’s not just about credentials, cozy office decor, or who has the fanciest website.)
In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m spilling the tea on the four habits of highly effective therapists. These habits are the real reason some clinicians get results that change lives—while others are stuck wondering why clients keep “taking a break.”
As someone who’s trained and supervised many clinicians over the years at Growing Self, I can tell you these habits are not about talent or luck. They’re practical, learnable, and you can start applying them today.
Whether you're a seasoned pro or brand new to the field, if you’re ready to grow your impact, boost client outcomes, and feel more confident in your work, this episode is your roadmap.
Timestamps:
00:00 - The Secret Sauce of Exceptional Therapists
03:46 - Habit 1: Crystal Clear Case Conceptualizations
14:03 - Habit 2: Mastering Evidence-Based Theories of Change
21:04 - Habit 3: Specializing in Specific Client Issues
31:10 - Habit 4: Flexibility in Therapeutic Approaches
38:14 - Resources and Next StepsIf Habit #4 resonated with you especially... Let's go even deeper. As therapists, many of us are being asked to coach—but without the formal training, it’s easy to blur the lines and unknowingly slip into therapy mode with non-clinical clients. That’s why I created a free CE training just for licensed therapists like you: “Think You’re Coaching? 8 Red Flags You’re Actually Doing Therapy”
This training will help you spot scope-of-practice risks, grow your coaching skills ethically, and feel confident in how you're showing up for your clients. And yes, it includes one CE credit!
And hey—if you’re on LinkedIn and want to stay connected for more resources, trainings, and real talk about the business and heart of being a therapist, let’s connect! Here’s my LinkedIn profile—I’d love to hear from you.Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Know another therapist who could use this wisdom? Send this episode their way or share it with your consultation group. We rise higher when we grow together.
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Your therapy clients are cheating on you with coaches. There, I said it. I know, it stings. But as a fellow therapist, supervisor, and coaching educator… you need to know what’s really going on out there and why therapy clients are hiring coaches. Because what you don’t see? It might just be quietly reshaping your practice right under your feet.
In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I’m pulling back the curtain on why therapy clients are hiring coaches, what’s really happening in the field, and the exact skills today’s therapists need to stay relevant, effective, and aligned with their ethical standards.
We’ll talk about the awkward conversations happening in coaching internships, the shift you’ve probably already started to feel in your private practice, and how to pivot—powerfully and ethically—into the kind of transformational helper your clients are craving.
Because let’s be real: awareness and insight are amazing. But they don’t always change lives. And if your client is still stuck in the same patterns six months in, they’re already wondering if someone else can help them move forward.
Here’s how to make sure that someone is still you.
Timestamps:
00:00 - The Truth About Therapy Clients and Coaches
02:52 - What’s Actually Changing in the Therapy World
04:15 - The Coaching Dilemma Therapists Are Facing
07:05 - Why Your Clients Want More Than Insight
09:23 - What Traditional Therapy Can’t Always Deliver
19:36 - The Ethical Tightrope: Beneficence and Client Outcomes
22:51 - The Opportunity: Coaching Psychology Done Right
27:51 - Coaching Certification for TherapistsIf this episode gave you a little jolt (in a good way), I want to invite you into something more. Check out the Coaching Certification for Therapists. I created this program for therapists who want to grow, adapt, and expand their skill set with research-backed coaching psychology. It’s a clear path to helping high-functioning, growth-oriented clients—without compromising your integrity or clinical background.
And hey — let’s connect on LinkedIn, too. You can find out when I’m hosting NBCC accredited CEU webinars and join in on crucial topics affecting our field of work. I also share my latest findings dedicated to helping us therapists create growth, happiness and success in our lives. I love connecting with thoughtful professionals like you. Come say hi, share your thoughts, and let me know what resonated with you.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. If this episode gave you insight, clarity, or even just a much-needed “a-ha!” moment, please share it with a fellow therapist or colleague. You never know who’s secretly wondering the same things you are—and who might really need to hear this today.
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Ever feel like money stress is the third wheel in your therapy sessions—or your own life? You’re not alone. In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sat down with the incredibly wise and wonderfully down-to-earth Jillian Knight, LMFT, who opened my eyes to the transformative power of financial therapy.
We talked about what financial therapy actually is, why it’s different from traditional therapy, and how this niche is helping clients heal. From financial trauma to the emotional minefield of pricing your services as a therapist, this episode is a refreshingly honest conversation about money—something most of us therapists were definitely not trained to handle in grad school.
Whether you’re curious about specializing, craving more clarity around your own money mindset, or just want to stop discounting your rates before anyone even asks (yes, we talked about that), this one’s for you.
Timestamps:
00:00 – Meet Jillian: Therapist, money whisperer, and all-around badass
02:46 – Why financial advisors and therapists teamed up to create a new field
05:24 – Real talk on burnout and the danger of being a therapy generalist
09:35 – Jillian’s journey from “I’m never doing therapy again” to finding her niche
21:43 – The systems that shape our relationship with money
28:06 – Trauma responses... but make it financial 😳
32:14 – Shame, scarcity, and the magic of self-compassion in money work
35:33 – Why so many therapists feel weird about charging what they’re worth
47:00 – Jillian’s mission to bring financial therapy to the world
50:00 – Where to find her (and maybe even bring her in to speak to your crew)If this conversation around financial therapy sparked something for you—whether it was curiosity, validation, or even that little internal ugh that says “Oof, I needed to hear this”—you’re not alone. So many therapists carry silent stress around money, career direction, or even just feeling like they’re supposed to have it all figured out by now. You don’t. None of us do. That’s why we’re here—learning and growing together.
If you're looking for more support, insight, and real talk like this, I’d love for you to join me on the journey. My weekly newsletter for therapists is a space where I share new podcast episodes, helpful resources, and personal reflections to support your growth as a therapist—professionally and personally. You can sign up here: https://courses.growingself.com
Also, if you’re on LinkedIn, I’d truly love to connect with you. It’s one of my favorite places to build relationships with fellow therapists and like-hearted professionals. Come say hi and let me know what resonated with you: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby on LinkedIn.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. If this convo lit you up, please share it with a colleague or your professional community. You never know who needs to hear this message today. 💛
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What if I told you that the key to a thriving therapy practice isn’t more clinical training—it’s gaining essential marketing skills? Yep, I said it. As therapists, most of us were trained to serve, not sell—but when you’re running your own private practice, knowing how to connect with the people who need you is essential. And trust me, marketing for therapists doesn’t have to feel gross, pushy, or fake.
In this episode of Love, Happiness & Success for Therapists, I sit down with the incredible Candice Thompson, LMFT, who built a booming private practice in Silicon Valley and grew her professional presence on LinkedIn by 10X—all while staying rooted in authenticity and clinical integrity.
We dive deep into the real-world marketing strategies that work (and what doesn’t), the mindset blocks that keep too many talented therapists struggling, and how to get past the “ick” factor around sales. If you’ve been quietly panicking about your empty calendar—or feeling conflicted about promoting your work—this episode is for you.
Timestamps:
00:00 - The Unspoken Truth About Therapy Skills
03:01 - The Reality of Private Practice
05:44 - Overcoming Resistance: Embracing Marketing and Sales
09:17 - Building Confidence: The Journey from Imposter Syndrome to Mastery
16:39 - Finding Your Niche: Aligning Passion with Practice
21:05 - Industry Trends: Navigating the Competitive Landscape
25:53 - The Power of Authentic Relationships in Marketing
28:23 - Pricing Strategies for Therapists
32:48 - Marketing Strategies for New Private Practices
34:24 - Building Professional Relationships and Networking
38:28 - Leveraging LinkedIn for Professional Growth
40:25 - Ethical Concerns in Mental Health Tech
43:04 - Future of the Coaching Industry and Regulation
46:05 - Practical Advice for Therapists
49:49 - Connecting with Candice ThompsonThis episode is packed with insights that will transform how you think about your role as a therapist and an entrepreneur. You’re not just a healer—you’re a solopreneur with a mission. You have something unique to offer the world. And learning how to share that — not in a pushy, salesy way, but in a real and resonant way — is part of your path.
If this conversation inspired you, I’d love to keep supporting your journey. I send out a monthly e-newsletter for therapists filled with thoughtful resources, practical tips, and the occasional love note reminding you that you’re doing just fine. You can get connected here!
And if you’re active on LinkedIn, I’d love to get in touch personally! That’s where I share more expert insights, professional conversations, and upcoming trainings for therapists. Find me here: linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.comP.S. If you know someone who could benefit from this episode, I invite you to share it with your colleagues or professional network. It’s such an important part of building sustainable, thriving careers as therapists! Let’s help each other learn and grow.
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Therapists, have you ever wondered how to truly make an impact in the lives of children through therapy? If so, you're in for a treat! In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I sit down with Dr. Brenna Hicks, a psychologist who specializes in Child-Centered Play Therapy (CCPT). Whether you're just starting out or looking to specialize further, this approach could be the key to unlocking the full potential of your work with kids.
We dive into the foundational principles of CCPT and how it fosters emotional regulation, self-control, and the healing power of relationships. Play therapy can be a game changer in helping kids develop the skills they need to thrive, and this episode will leave you with a clear understanding of how it works and why it’s so effective.
Timestamps:
00:39 – Meet Dr. Brenna Hicks: From Geriatrics to Play Therapy
01:58 – How a Simple Shift in Perspective Led to Play Therapy
05:31 – The Impact of Labels on Kids’ Development
08:23 – Play Therapy: How It Transforms Children’s Lives
09:37 – The Evidence Behind Child-Centered Play Therapy
12:12 – What is Child-Centered Play Therapy?
21:02 – Why CCPT Works Across Ages and Issues
29:57 – The Role of Vulnerability in Child Development
30:39 – Creating a Safe Environment for Kids’ Growth
32:06 – Navigating Modern Challenges: Screen Time and More
37:37 – Techniques and Benefits of CCPT
40:53 – Why Specializing is Key for Therapists
53:28 – Resources and Support for Play Therapy CliniciansIf you loved this interview with Dr. Brenna Hicks, there’s more where that came from! You can sign up for my weekly newsletter to be the first to know about new podcast episodes featuring interviews with fellow therapists and experts, as well as practical advice for personal and professional growth in our field. It’s all about making sure you feel supported, informed, and confident as you grow in your work.
If you’re looking to take the conversation further, I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn! Whether you have a specific question or just want to engage in a deeper conversation about therapy, self-care, or growing a successful practice, I’m here to chat. We’re in this together, and having a supportive network is the best way to stay grounded and inspired. I’d be so happy to hear from you.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.comP.S. If you know a colleague or someone in your professional community who could benefit from this episode, please share it with them! You never know who might need to hear these insights today.
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If you’re a therapist who coaches, you already know this space is full of gray areas. Where does therapy end and coaching begin? What’s ethical, what’s not, and how do you avoid stepping into a professional minefield? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving into the trickiest ethical dilemmas therapists face when adding coaching to their practice.
From insurance pitfalls to scope creep and dual relationships, I’ll break down what you need to watch out for—and how to keep your practice ethical, professional, and compliant.
Timestamps:
00:00 - Why Ethics Matter in Coaching
02:46 - The Insurance Trap: Are You Unknowingly Committing Fraud?
04:46 - Scope Creep: When Coaching Becomes Therapy
08:42 - The Boundary Blender: Dual Relationships & Conflicts of Interest
10:13 - Marketing Ethics: What Therapists Can and Can’t Do
16:33 - Certification vs. Experience: Do Therapists Need Coaching Credentials?
20:49 - The Importance of Professional Consultation and Supervision
28:21 - How to Build an Ethical, Sustainable Coaching Practice
30:42 - Coaching For Therapists ResourcesIf you’re ready to add coaching into your practice the right way, my Coaching Masterclass is for you. You’ll learn how to navigate ethical pitfalls, market yourself correctly, and build a thriving, integrity-driven coaching business. Check it out! I hope it helps.
And hey, if we’re not already connected on LinkedIn, let’s fix that! I’m always sharing insights and (let’s be real) probably stirring up a few debates in the therapy world. I’d love to see you there!
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.comP.S. If you found this episode helpful, be sure to share this episode with a therapist or coaching colleague! The more we talk about these challenges, the stronger our profession becomes.
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Imagine spending years in graduate school, racking up thousands of hours in supervision, investing in continuing education—only to find out that companies are now hiring unqualified mental health coaches instead of licensed therapists… for a fraction of the pay. Sound unfair? It is. And it’s happening right now. Let’s talk about what this means for our profession and what we can do about it.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive into a jaw-dropping trend that’s reshaping the mental health industry: the rise of mental health coaching as a cheaper alternative to therapy. With big corporations jumping on this bandwagon, therapists everywhere need to be paying attention.
We’ll cover:
- What mental health coaching really is (and what it isn’t)
- How corporations are replacing therapists with under-qualified “coaches”
- Why this shift is dangerous for clients and for our profession
- What therapists can do to protect their careers and reclaim this spaceTimestamps:
00:00 - Wait, What?! Big Companies Are Hiring Coaches Instead of Therapists?!
01:34 - The Rise of Mental Health Coaches
02:52 - The Future of Mental Health Care
05:39 - The Differences Between Therapy and Mental Health Coaching
11:40 - How This Impacts Therapists, Your Career, and Your Growth
13:10 - What We Can Do To Fight Back (And Why We Must!)
18:11 - Coaching Certification for Therapists and ResourcesI know this is frustrating. You’ve worked hard to build your skills, develop your expertise, and serve your clients with integrity. It’s infuriating to see big companies sidestep ethical, evidence-based care in favor of cost-cutting alternatives. But here’s the good news: we are not powerless. The more we educate ourselves and take action, the more we can shape the future of our field.
If you’re wondering how you can ethically integrate coaching into your practice (without crossing ethical lines or diminishing your value), check out my free masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. In this training, I break down exactly how therapists can use coaching as a powerful, evidence-based tool for non-clinical clients—helping you expand your impact, attract dream clients, and stay aligned with best practices.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on this! Let’s keep the conversation going—connect with me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing community of therapists who are standing up for our profession.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.comP.S. I encourage you to share this episode with your fellow therapists. The more we talk about this issue, the more awareness we create!
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Ever had that gut-wrenching moment when a client looks you in the eye and says, "Therapy isn’t working for me"? It's like a punch to the professional solar plexus, right? I get it. When therapy stalls, it can trigger our self-doubt and imposter syndrome. But here’s the truth: this isn’t a failure—it’s a turning point.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I dive deep into navigating these challenging conversations and turning them into opportunities for growth—for both you and your client.
Together, we’ll explore why clients sometimes feel stuck, how to assess what’s really going on, and most importantly—what you can do to re-engage them in the process. Because let’s be real: simply throwing another CBT worksheet at them and hoping for the best isn’t the answer (been there, done that).
Timestamps:
00:00 – The Dreaded Client Confession: "I don't think this is working."
01:43 – Reflecting on your therapeutic approach.
07:42 – The Eclectic Conundrum: When having too many tools leads to confusion.
12:00 – Roadmaps Over Randomness: Establishing a clear theory of change.
15:14 – Coaching vs. Therapy: Bridging the gap for non-clinical clients.
21:57 – Action Steps: Practical tips to enhance your practice.
29:58 – Resources for thriving as a therapist
Therapy is an evolving process—for our clients and for us. If a client isn’t making progress, it doesn’t mean you’re a bad therapist. It means there’s an opportunity to fine-tune your approach, clarify expectations, or expand your skill set.
In many cases, therapists are using a therapy model for clients who would actually benefit from coaching psychology. If someone is struggling with general life satisfaction, career transitions, or goal-setting—but doesn’t meet diagnostic criteria for a mental health condition—traditional therapy might not be what they need. Instead, a structured coaching approach can help them develop clarity, motivation, and action-oriented change.
Coaching psychology is a real, evidence-based approach that therapists can (and should) be trained in. If you’re curious about strengthening your ability to work with coaching clients—or just want to feel more confident when a client is struggling—check out my Therapist’s Guide to Coaching Masterclass. It’s free, packed with insights, and a game-changer for therapists in private practice.
Don't let these moments shake your confidence. Instead, let's use them as catalysts for professional evolution. If this episode was helpful for you, check out my other podcast episodes for therapists and connect with me on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing tidbits of info over there. I’d love to hear from you.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Pass this episode along to a colleague or friend who could use this advice today. Let’s help each other grow.
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Therapists, we need to have a real conversation about insurance fraud.
I know, I know. You’re probably thinking, "Lisa, I would NEVER do that!" But hear me out… many private practice therapists are accidentally stepping over the ethical line when billing insurance. And it’s way more common than we like to admit.
In this episode, I’m peeling back the curtain on the unspoken truth about therapist insurance fraud—why it happens, the systemic pressures that push therapists into ethical gray areas, and most importantly, what you can do to stay on the right side of it (without losing clients or revenue).
Timestamps:
00:00 - The Hidden Issue of Insurance Fraud in Therapy
02:29 - The Dilemma of Non-Clinical Clients
05:35 - The Problem with Fudging Diagnoses
06:25 - The Impact on Couples Therapy
15:46 - The Ethical Stand Against Pathologizing
17:58 - The Solution: Coaching Psychology
22:24 - The Benefits of Becoming a Board Certified Coach
26:47 - Free Resources for Therapists
If this conversation has you rethinking how you structure your practice, I’m here to help with a solution! Many therapists feel stuck in the insurance model, wrestling with ethical gray areas just to make things work. But here’s the truth: there’s a better way.
Therapists who implement a coaching model into their practice not only avoid the ethical dilemma of insurance fraud, but also end up working with highly-motivated, growth-oriented clients and thriving personally, professionally, and financially. It’s a huge win all around.
If you’re a therapist who’s curious about coaching and how it can transform your practice, check out my free Masterclass: The Therapist’s Guide to Coaching. It’s designed to help you confidently integrate coaching into your work, attract and serve motivated clients (who don’t need a mental health diagnosis), and run a profitable, sustainable practice without being tied to restrictive insurance policies. If you want to build a practice that aligns with your values, this is for you.
Also, check out my other LHS For Therapists podcast episodes for more therapist-focused professional development content. Every week I share my insights, research, and interviews with experts in our field so you can thrive as a therapist. You can also connect with me on LinkedIn! It’s a great way to build community and support for yourself as a therapist. I'd love to hear from you!
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a fellow therapist—this is a conversation we all need to be having.
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Therapists, have you ever sat across from a client and thought, “Am I really equipped to help with this?” Maybe you’re nodding and empathizing on the outside while mentally Googling a treatment strategy or a diagnosis after they leave. If so, you’re not alone. I’ve been there!
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success For Therapists, I’m diving into one of the most important—and often overlooked—topics for therapists: understanding your scope of competence. We’ll talk about how to recognize when you’re stretching beyond your expertise, why it matters for you and your clients, and how to confidently navigate those gray areas we all face.
Timestamps:
0:00 - The “Am I Winging It?” Moment Every Therapist Faces 1:46 - Why Saying No Can Be the Best Gift You Give Your Clients 5:22 - Developing a Clear Roadmap 10:12 - Handling Client Evolution 17:44 - Warning Signs of Overstepping Boundaries 29:16 - How to Build a Dream Team Referral Network 35:05 - Why Self-Reflection Is Your #1 Tool for Staying Ethical and EffectiveUnderstanding your scope of competence as a therapist can be tricky. Therapists like you do incredible work. But let’s be honest—it’s hard to navigate sometimes! That’s why I created this podcast and my weekly For Therapists newsletter. I’m here to support you, just like you support your clients.
In my weekly newsletter, I gather advice from my interviews with industry experts, the latest research on therapeutic modalities, and strategies for personal and professional growth to help you be the best therapist you can be—without burning out in the process.
If you’d like that steady stream of professional insights, free resources, and a little extra emotional support, sign up for my newsletter here. It's such an honor for me to be able to support you all and the amazing work that you do with your clients. You give so much—let me give back to you.
I’d also love to connect with you on LinkedIn! I’m always sharing my thoughts and experiences and chatting with other therapists over there. It’s a great way to build community and support with people who get it. I hope I see you there!
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. If you enjoyed this episode, check out some of my others and share it with your professional community—because we all know a colleague who could use a little clarity in this area.
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Okay, therapists—let’s talk about something none of us want to deal with, but absolutely need to be prepared for: getting subpoenaed to testify in court. The moment that letter lands on your desk, the panic sets in—What can I say? What can’t I say? How do I protect my client’s confidentiality while also following the law? And of course, the biggest worry of all: What if I mess this up?
Breathe. I’m here to help! I brought in family law expert Rich Harris—an attorney who knows this world inside and out—to break it all down for you. In this episode, we’re talking about what to do when you get served with a subpoena, how to avoid big legal mistakes, and steps to safeguard yourself before this happens.
Don't wait until you're in the hot seat—listen now so you can be prepared, protected, and empowered.
Timestamps:
00:00 Getting Subpoenaed is So Stressful!
00:42 Meet Our Legal Expert: Rich Harris
02:05 Your First Steps After Receiving a Subpoena
03:22 Do You Really Have to Testify? Here’s the Truth
08:07 How to Protect Client Confidentiality Like a Pro
12:15 The #1 Mistake Therapists Make With Legal Cases
15:18 Subpoenas in Custody Cases—What You Need to Know
20:53 How to Challenge an Improper Subpoena
26:43 Scam Alert! The Dangerous Hoax Targeting Therapists
30:18 Court Testimony Tips: How to Stay Calm and Confident
34:21 What to Say (and Not Say) If You Have to Testify
41:52 Want to Become a Custody Evaluator? Here’s How!
47:16 Legal ResourcesI hope this episode helped ease any legal anxiety you might have. If you’d like to learn more to feel more confident and protected in your practice, I’ve got you. Every week in my newsletter, I share real-world strategies, expert interviews, and practical tips to help you navigate the trickiest parts of being a therapist.
Plus, I dive deep into clinical best practices and business-savvy insights to help you thrive (not just survive) in this field. Sign up here and let’s make sure you have everything you need to grow, learn, and safeguard your practice while giving your clients your absolute best.
And hey—let’s stay connected on LinkedIn too! It’s a great space to stay in the loop, ask questions, and be part of a community of therapists who get it. Plus, you never know when that one post might save you from a professional headache down the road. Let’s connect —I’d love to see you in my network!
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
P.S. Know a therapist who could use this info? Share this article with them! Because no one should have to face a subpoena panic attack alone.
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What if the key to helping your therapy clients with anxiety, depression, or ADHD might actually be sleep? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m diving deep into the connection between sleep and mental health and the power of sleep therapy with the brilliant Dr. Michelle Okun, an expert in sleep psychology.
We break down the incredible science behind how sleep affects everything from mood and memory to stress and physical health—and how therapists like us can integrate sleep awareness into our practice to achieve better, faster outcomes for our clients.
Chapters:
00:00 - The Overlooked Importance of Sleep in Therapy
01:44 - Meet Dr. Michelle Okun: Sleep Psychology Expert
03:54 - The Impact of Sleep on Mental Health
07:59 - Understanding Sleep Disorders and Their Effects
12:48 - Clinical Practices for Assessing Sleep Issues
25:46 - The Role of Sleep Studies in Treatment
48:32 - Therapist Self-Care: The Importance of Sleep
53:00 - Enhancing Therapy Through Sleep Awareness
I learned so much from this episode. I hope you did too. If this was helpful for you, there's more where that came from! Each week I'm sharing critical info every modern therapist must know, and talking to thought leaders in our field. This is all for you! Sign up for my newsletter so you stay in the loop.
Also, let’s connect on LinkedIn! It’s a place where us therapists can come together to share insights, support one another, and learn actionable strategies to elevate your practice. I’d love to hear from you!
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Share this episode with your professional community—it could be the advice one of your colleagues is looking for!
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Therapists, are you feeling exhausted, unmotivated, or questioning your place in the field? Burnout is more than just feeling tired—it’s a profound, deeply personal experience that can derail our careers, our health, and our relationships.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sitting down with Dr. Jen Blanchette. Together, we dive deep into the reality of therapist burnout—what it looks like, why it happens, and how we, as therapists, can start the process of recovery.
You’ll learn to spot the early signs of therapist burnout, understand the deeper factors behind it, and tackle challenges like clinical grief and compassion fatigue. You'll come away with practical strategies to set boundaries, build support systems, and create space for real rest, so you can regain your energy, focus, and passion. Plus, we'll explore ways to pivot within the field and add joy back into your practice!
Timestamps:
00:00: What is Therapist Burnout? Recognizing the signs
00:40: Meet Dr. Jen Blanchette – A psychologist and burnout expert
06:09: Why burnout thrives in silence
09:43: Coping as a therapist
18:29: Burnout Symptoms
25:45: Rest and Recovery
28:27: When to pivot professionally
30:27: The Power of Community
34:28: End-stage burnout and what’s next
43:21: Your Identity Beyond WorkIf anything we’ve talked about today hits close to home, I want you to know that you don’t have to figure this out alone. Truly, there are steps you can take to start feeling better and moving forward—and I’m here to help.
I created this free Flourish and Thrive: Banishing Burnout Quiz to help therapists just like you on their path to success and wellness. It will show you what’s working, what’s not, and how to pivot toward a career and life that fulfills you. It’s quick, free, and packed with insights tailored just for you. Take a moment for yourself today—you deserve to thrive.
Also, let’s stay connected! I’m always sharing tips, resources, and inspiration to help therapists grow and succeed. Come say hi on LinkedIn—you can follow me here. I’d love to hear from you.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
PS: Don’t forget to leave a comment and share your burnout journey (or questions!). Let’s keep this conversation going. 😊
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You had a first meeting with a prospective therapy client that YOU thought went great… but the client never came back. Here’s why: Therapists don’t know how to communicate their value.
Why do amazing therapists struggle with therapy client engagement? Spoiler alert: It’s not about your clinical skills, it's about how you connect. Engaging therapy clients isn’t just about being good at what you do; it’s about helping prospective clients see the unique value you bring.
In this episode of Love Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’ll walk you through actionable steps to engage therapy clients, communicate your unique value, and grow a thriving private practice. You’ll learn how to structure consultations that naturally build trust and connection, how to address common concerns around cost, time, and readiness, and how to effectively communicate your process and unique approach to therapy.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: Why Client Engagement Matters
00:45 The Common Struggles of Private Practice Therapists
01:47 Overcoming the Fear of Self-Promotion
03:33 Connect with Clients Before They Meet You
11:57 Helping Clients Define Their Goals
15:14 Explaining Your Therapy Process with Clarity
23:59 Tackling Client Objections Gracefully
28:18 Highlighting Your Unique Value Proposition
31:13 Mastering Post-Consultation Follow-Ups
34:12 Reflect, Refine, and Grow Your Practice
38:17 More Resources to Support YouYour clients need more than what conventional therapy alone can offer. The reality? “Coaches” without formal training are scooping up the opportunities you’re missing, because they have a structured framework of change that they can communicate - and clients love it. You can learn how to do this too!
In my free “What Every Therapist Must Know About Coaching” Masterclass, you’ll discover how to integrate evidence-based coaching techniques to stand out in a crowded field and enhance your therapy practice. Coaching tools can help you empower clients to achieve goals faster, deepen their engagement, and create lasting change—all while staying true to your professional integrity.
👉 Join the Masterclass Now and take your practice to the next level! Let’s make 2025 your breakthrough year.
If you found this helpful, check out some of my other episodes for more tips and strategies to elevate your private practice! And hey, share this with your professional community—let’s help each other grow. 🌱
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Let’s Connect! I’d love to hear your thoughts and be part of your professional journey. Connect with me on LinkedIn to join an amazing community of therapists growing and thriving together.
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Ever felt like you’re missing that one tool in your therapy toolkit that could help your clients truly heal and reconnect with their best selves? Well, in today’s episode of Love, Happiness and Success for Therapists, I’m chatting with Dr. Dick Schwartz, founder of the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model, about the power of IFS and how it can be a game-changer for your clients.
IFS is more than just a therapy model—it's a transformative approach that helps clients access their own core Self, heal their internal wounds, and lead their lives with compassion, confidence, and calm. It's about connecting with the different "parts" of our psyche and fostering self-leadership.
You’ll leave this episode with a deeper understanding of IFS and how it can benefit both your clients and your practice. Whether you’re just starting out or already familiar with IFS, this conversation is packed with wisdom, insights, and actionable steps that you can start applying right away.
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction to Internal Family Systems (IFS)
01:07 - Understanding the Core Concepts of IFS
06:03 - The Role of the Therapist in IFS
08:55 - Challenges and Insights in IFS Therapy
19:48 - Outcome Research and Broader Applications
25:12 - Legacy Burdens and Cultural Impact
29:14 - Resources and Training for Therapists
33:47 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts
I learned so much from this episode, and I hope you did, too. My mission is to empower, inspire, and care for therapists like you by sharing meaningful conversations, evidence-based insights, and practical tools to help you thrive personally and professionally.
Let’s stay connected so I can keep you in the loop about new episodes, resources, and ideas that make a difference in your life. Sign up for my newsletter right here and join a community that’s all about lifting each other up. You give so much to others—it’s time someone’s here to support you.
Also, if you found this helpful, pass it along to your professional community—we’re all in this together. ❤️
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
PS: I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community! Join me here: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby on LinkedIn.
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Therapists, let’s get real—when was the last time you focused on YOUR goals? In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m turning the spotlight on you. We’ll dive into the transformative power of therapist goal-setting—not just for your practice, but for designing a life that feels balanced, fulfilling, and truly aligned with your values.
Here’s the deal: If you’ve been putting everyone else’s needs first (sound familiar?), it’s time to check in with yourself. Together, we’ll walk through a simple process to reflect on where you are, where you want to go, and how to actually make it happen. Plus, I’ll share practical tips for avoiding burnout and reigniting your passion for the work you love. 💡
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction: Focusing on Therapist Goals
01:27 - The Importance of Self-Care for Therapists
03:30 - Personal and Professional Inventory
04:56 - Emotional and Physical Well-being
07:49 - Continued Development and Support Systems
13:01 - Quality of Life and Work-Life Balance
14:45 - Professional Growth and Specialization
33:11 - Setting and Achieving Specific Goals
37:27 - Conclusion and Resources
If you’re ready to grow in your career, check out my Therapists’ Guide to Coaching 2-Part Training. You’ll get a step-by-step guide to clarifying your professional goals, detailed instructions on how to become a certified coach, and education requirements, timelines, and recommended programs to get you there. Adding coaching to your practice can be a game changer in achieving the success and satisfaction you’re looking for. I hope you check it out.
Love this kind of content? Hit the Subscribe button and share this episode with your professional community. Let’s help each other grow and thrive. 🌱
Happy New Year!
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
PS: Let’s connect! Join me on LinkedIn and be part of this amazing therapist community: Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
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🔥 Is Your Mental Health EHR Software SABOTAGING Your Therapy Practice? 🔥
Hey there, fabulous therapists!
What if the very tools you trust to safeguard your therapy practice are secretly working against you? That’s the exact realization I came to one Saturday morning while reading my mental health EHR provider’s Terms of Service—coffee in one hand, highlighter in the other. What I uncovered left me shocked, angry, and determined to take action.
In this episode of Love, Happiness, and Success for Therapists, I’m sharing my journey from that unsettling discovery to successfully migrating my practice to a trustworthy platform. I’ll expose the hidden dangers lurking in EHR agreements, including data exploitation, intellectual property grabs, and third-party mishaps, while giving you actionable tips to protect your practice.
Timestamps to Guide Your Journey:
00:00 Introduction: A Shocking Discovery
01:17 The Terms of Service Nightmare Begins
02:43 Uncovering the Exploitation
04:14 The EHR System’s Hidden Agendas
10:00 Taking Action: The Radical Steps
15:08 The Migration Challenge
18:24 Sharing the Experience
22:15 The Power of Collective Action
24:09 Practical Tips for Therapists
27:13 Conclusion and Resources
As I mentioned in this episode, this experience was just one of many (too many) that I've dealt with in recent years. Unfortunately there are a number of scams targeting therapists, and more than one of my colleagues has gotten duped by them. I share all the details plus the action plan I put in place to harden my practice in this email series: 8 Scams Targeting Therapists. I hope you access it to keep yourself and your practice safe!
🔔 Subscribe to this channel for more essential insights tailored for therapists. If you found this video helpful, share it with your professional community to help us all stay informed and empowered.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
PS: Want to connect more personally? Join me on LinkedIn and become part of an amazing community of therapists committed to thriving together. Let’s continue this conversation and grow stronger, together. 😊
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Could your next therapy client be a mystery shopper on a secret spy mission? Yes, it’s a real thing—surprise! 🤯
When I found out someone was secretly in therapy to review my practice for an article, I didn’t know whether to laugh, cry, or check if I’d entered an episode of Black Mirror. But here’s the deal: therapy mystery shoppers are real, and it’s something every therapist needs to know about.
In this podcast, I’m sharing the full story—what happened to me, why it matters to your practice, and, most importantly, how you can protect yourself and your clients. We’ll talk ethics, trust, and practical strategies so you can handle anything with professionalism and confidence. 💪
Chapters:
00:00 Hook: What if your client is secretly reviewing you?
02:55 When it happened to me: The full story
05:03 The trust shake-up: Why this feels so unsettling
06:39 Why every therapist should care (even if it hasn’t happened to you yet)
15:42 Red flags: How to spot a mystery shopper
18:47 Protect your practice: Actionable strategies
22:02 Growth mindset: Turning surprises into opportunities
24:51 Wrap-up: Keeping your practice strong and confidentWeird stuff happens—trust me, I’ve faced it all. From therapy mystery shoppers to scams targeting therapists, if you want to protect your practice, I’ve got you covered. When you sign up for my 8 Scams Targeting Therapists email series, I’ll share my personal experiences with you and lay out clear, actionable steps you can implement today to keep your practice safe. You don’t have to figure this out on your own.
If you found this episode helpful, don’t forget to hit that SUBSCRIBE button for more tips to protect, grow, and thrive in your practice. And please share this podcast with your professional community—because the best way we protect ourselves is by looking out for each other.
Xoxo
Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
www.growingself.com
P.S. Let’s connect! Join our amazing therapist community over on LinkedIn. I’d love to hear your thoughts, stories, and questions!
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