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Today Iâm thrilled to share this conversation with the excellent Jay Shetty.
We talk about everything from learning to love your own company, living without comparison, dealing with insecurities, how to find the right relationship, doing the deep work on self-understanding, and much much more!
Jay is a New York Times Bestselling Author, host of the âOn Purposeâ podcast, a storyteller and a former monk.
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Whether youâre getting over a fresh breakup or are still having a hard time moving on from a past one, I hope todayâs episode will give you what you need to finally feel like yourself again.
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Find it annoying when your partner doesn't open up and share with you? Then check out this short clip where I show you the simple but amazing power of "pre-framing" to get more of the behavior you want them (or anyone!) to show.
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We asked YOU for your biggest fears in dating and you gave us answers!
In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about the common fears in early dating that hold us back, make us insecure, and cause us to self-sabotage. We give some practical tips on how to break through these limiting beliefs and feel your best when dating and meeting new people.
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Have you ever felt like a magnet for avoidants or wondered if commitment-phobic people are all thatâs left in the dating pool?
Itâs as if you canât even get anything off the ground, because consistent communication is never in the cards with the people youâre dating. And when youâre dating someone where everythingâs falling into place EXCEPT for the fact that theyâre avoidant, it can be tempting to rationalize any reason to stay.
But why do we do this, and why does this situation make us want to hold on so tightly to a person whoâs not giving us what we need?
Todayâs new episode will help you reconnect with your value so you can approach these kinds of situations with a clear head and a sense of worthiness. After all, the faster you say ânoâ to the wrong person, the sooner you can say âyesâ to the right one.
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A huge number of relationships that end, should end.
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But how do we know if âoursâ should have ended. We leave with a giant question mark: âDid I just lose the person I was supposed to be with?â
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That lack of closure is a horrible feeling that eats away at us. We donât always get perfect closure. But there is a way of being proactive about getting peace of mind if you feel like you have someone who is worth fighting for.
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Itâs through a simple conversation, and I tell you how to have it in this video.
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And hereâs the good news - whatever happens, you and I are going to move into this next chapter of our lives stronger. (Massive thanks to @rayna.greenberg, @ashhess and the @girlsgottaeatpodcast for making this conversation possible!) -
We all like to think that love transcends all other issues, especially that of money. But our BELIEFS about money say a lot about what we value, our fears, and dictate the way we choose to live every day. Do you believe in saving every penny? Would you stay in a fancy hotel on a vacation? How would you feel if your partner bought themselves an expensive car without talking to you first? In this episode, Matt is joined by money expert Ramit Sethi (host of the hit podcast âI Will Teach You To Be Richâ) to discuss how money affects our relationships and how we can have a healthier partnership when we have better communication and control around the topic of our finances.
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Have you experienced a situation where in spite of having dated someone for a short time, it took you weeks (sometimes even months) to start to feel like youâre over them?
And have you found itâs EXACTLY at that momentâthe moment you decide to move on with your lifeâthat they suddenly pop back up like clockwork? Even though you know better, they somehow draw you back in with the hope that this time, things will be different.
This weekâs new video will allow you to finally rid yourself of the hold this person has over you, so you can begin to sculpt your life the way you want it. And donât miss the âvalue exerciseâ I share at the end. I know youâll get a lot out of it!
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Shoutout to one of my favorite human beings @edmylett for giving me the honor of being a guest on his show. Love you brother.
I urge all of you to listen to the end of this, because I believe in my soul that the punchline is one of the most important lessons Iâve ever stumbled upon for my love life, my family life, my business, my friendships...MY LIFE.
And if you want to make the trash cans of every part of your life shine, then apply for my retreat now while you have that feeling. Donât wait. My retreat is where we do the real work of transforming EVERYTHING in your life from the ground up. I literally believe this program is one of the greatest gifts you could ever give yourself in your life. Itâs that important.---
The Virtual Retreat is officially back this June 2-4! And there's a special "Early Bird" offer available until the end of January.
This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action.
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This is something a little different for you today. I wanted to share a beautiful conversation I had with my good friend Humble the Poet, where we talk about how to love yourself, set boundaries, and build healthier habits around love and attraction.
In this new episode, we go deep. It touches upon some incredibly important truths relating to how to get back in touch with ourselves (and what makes us happy), so we can make better choices in a partner.
I found his words incredibly heartwarming and uplifting, and I hope youâll feel the same way.
Matt x
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Do you find yourself watching from the sidelines as other people you know go after and get the very things you most desire?
Whether itâs love, an amazing job, or a high-value social circle of genuine, supportive friends . . . perhaps you feel envy watching other people work a room better than youâfeeling like you canât tell interesting stories, youâre not charismatic, or you arenât someone strangers feel drawn to.
Most people donât realize that this phenomenon is not down to personalityâitâs impact, which is a skill that can be learned. Whether itâs knowing how to tell a good story at a work event or standing out on a date, learning how to make an impact is one of the most important investments you can make in your life . . . because it can change nearly every aspect of it. If this speaks to you, then donât miss todayâs new episode, a mini masterclass on how to have true impact in every area of your life!
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One of the most special moments in life is when we feel seen and in turn see somebody else for who they genuinely are. But this level of DEEP connection requires vulnerability.
Truly opening up, being vulnerable and allowing someone to see us at our very core can be terrifying. Itâs especially terrifying if weâve opened ourselves up and been hurt in the process.
We all have those negative reference points from our past. Maybe it was the way we were brought up, something that happened at school or the way we were treated in a past relationship.
We experience pain and as a result our guard goes up.
And although we may think that weâre avoiding pain, refusing to get vulnerable comes with its own pain. The pain of stagnation. The pain of avoidance. The pain of knowing that on some level weâre not opening ourselves up to the possibility of a deep connection, an amazing relationship or simply the opportunities that would allow us to create our best lives.
So, I challenge you to make today the day you change that.
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The Virtual Retreat is officially back this June 2-4! And there's a special "Early Bird" offer available until the end of January.
This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action.
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We asked YOU what is the #1 piece of love advice you'd give yourself in your 20s, and boy did we get some good answers :)
Join Matt, Audrey, Stephen and Jameson as they discuss their biggest lessons from their 20's and look at how much they are following through on today.
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The Virtual Retreat is officially back this June 2-4! And there's a special "Early Bird" offer available until the end of January.
This means that if you lock in your spot for June now, you'll get the best price available ($200 off your ticket) as well as 3 bonuses to reward you for taking early action.
To learn more, simply head to MHVirtualRetreat.com , where you can choose a time to speak with one of my trusted Retreat Specialists who are on hand to answer any questions you may have.
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Have you ever been a victim of the most painful kind of ghosting . . . where youâre haunted by the fact that you never got closure with someone?
Itâs the sort of thing that can consume your thoughts as you obsessively look over the final exchange you had with the person and enlist your friends to help you dissect it, hoping they can spot a clue you might have missed.
The reality is that this need for clarity and closure is a bid for control in a situation where you have none. Not only that, but every time you allow your thoughts to head in that direction, itâs another scratch at a wound that wants so badly to heal.
In todayâs brand-new episode, I give you the tools you need to move on for good from this kind of ghosting, including a text message you can send . . . not to get closure from them but to give yourself the closure you need.
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I truly loved this conversation my friend @lindseystirling .
So often in life weâre told how important it is to love ourselves without any explanation of what that actually means or how to practically apply that advice.
If youâve ever found yourself struggling with this concept, one practical tool is to recognize how we love other really important people in our lives.
Our parents, children, siblings, nieces, nephews, old friends . . . our love for them doesn't have anything to do with whether they have a good day or a bad day today. We love them because theyâre ours, even though they can sometimes be difficult or don't always realize their potential.
And thatâs how we have to start viewing ourselves. We donât need to find all of these amazing things about ourselves to start valuing ourselves more.
We love ourselves because weâre ours. WE are the ones responsible for looking after us. Love yourself like it's your job; because it IS.
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Why is it we become âtoo niceâ with someone we like?
It can feel like there is a before/after switch, where we decide weâre attracted to someone, feel the butterflies in our stomach, and canât help but tighten up and struggle to express our real selves.
And often, this can result in us being too accommodating, or giving polite-yet-boring responses, or in trying too hard to be liked instead of allowing natural chemistry and flirtation to happen.
In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we become âtoo nice", what we can do to be more of who we really are, and how to show our most attractive self in dating.---
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Happy New Year, Friend!
Lately, I've been thinking a lot about the New Year's resolutions people make, and I'm curious how you're feeling about yours today.
After indulging during the holidays, we often place our hopes in the hands of our future selves, determined that this will be the year everything changes. Of course, having goals is a good thing, but the biggest challenge with New Year's resolutions is how quickly they can buckle under the weight of our expectations.
But it doesn't need to be that complicated.
Whether you're stressed about the fact that the "you" who woke up today feels just like the "you" who woke up yesterday ... or you just want to ensure your love life goals actually happen this year, this brand-new episode is going to help you get into the right mindset for 2023.
You've got this!
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When someoneâs betrayed or hurt usâespecially when we didnât see it comingâitâs hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship.
Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak?
In this clip, I share an important message about how you choose to set healthy boundaries in a relationship when you've been burnt in the past. Check it out and make sure you don't let your demons define your relationship dynamics going forward.
Here for you,
Matthew x
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Can you have a relationship that starts great - but becomes sexually boring? Can it happen with someone you're truly meant to be with?
It's always a hard moment if you're with someone who ticks many of your boxes, but one crucial aspect of the relationship isn't working. So how much should you work to get the spark back?
Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss why the spark fades, how to get more honest with your partner about your intimate needs, and strategies to inject sexual excitement into your relationship again.
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As we roll into the New Year, it seems like as good a time as any to talk about our standards. We think of a new year as being a time where we reset our standards, donât we?
And yet, have you ever worried that youâre being too picky?
And have you ever wondered if this âpickinessâ is the thing thatâs stopping you from finding a relationship?
I was on stage when a woman stood up and asked: âMatthew, should I listen to my mum and lower my standards?â
Itâs a hard thing trying to figure out if the reasons you are rejecting people are valid, or if they represent an âunreasonableâ standard that you need to let go of.
I hope this provides a little clarity...
Happy Holidays again, friend. Iâm thinking of you more than ever right now.
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