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Talking points: psychology, masculinity
If you've ever found yourself in strange push-pull dynamics, self-sabotaged relationships, or just feel like you never get it "right" with women, this may be your podcast. I see a lot of men battle their mommy (and daddy) issues instead of healing them. Let's change that.
(00:00:00) - Intro, what a âmother woundâ is, and the most common variations
(00:14:22) - How a mother wound shows up, from hypervigilance to underachievement to zero boundaries
(00:21:19) - How do you work through this? Step one: how to build awareness of it
(00:23:56) - Step two: learn how to regulate. Seriously.
(00:25:33) - âReparentingâ the child in you
(00:27:52) - Stop outsourcing your self worth, and learn how to end your projections
A Man's Guide To Self-Worth: https://lnk.to/sRB9v6
How To Lead In Relationship: https://lnk.to/8xv131
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
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Talking points: history, psychology, mindset, culture
Like George Santayana said, those who do not learn from the past are condemned to repeat it. There's so much we can learn about ourselves, where we come from, and what needs our attention when we study the past. Grateful for the host of Cost of Glory, Alex Petkas, coming back on the show to lay down some real history, difficult truths, and deep insights on ol' Gaius himself.
(00:00:00) - What the modern man can learn from Julius Caesar
(00:17:52) - The importance of philosophy and poetry to ancient men
(00:23:06) - Why Caesarâs storytelling ability was so important, and how modern men can benefit from being better storytellers
(00:35:51) - The usefulness of old stories and ideas, and the psychological strategies that Caesar used
(00:45:48) - How Caesar handled women
(00:52:12) - Misconceptions of Caesarâs demise and attitude
Alex Petkas is writer, entrepreneur, and founder of The Cost of Glory, a bridge for the virtues of ancient heroes and the modern worldâs demands. With a PhD in Classics from Princeton University, Alex has transcended traditional academic boundaries to bring the power of ancient wisdom into contemporary leadership. Recognizing that figures like Plato, Aristotle, Plutarch, and Cato were not just intellectual giants but also formidable leaders and entrepreneurs, he blends their timeless insights with modern leadership needs, offering actionable strategies that resonate with todayâs leaders. Alex challenges the modern disregard for classical education, championing its vital role in moral and intellectual development. His mission is to reignite the heroic spark within men, empowering them to tackle contemporary challenges with unmatched courage and clarity.
Connect with Alex
-Website: https://www.costofglory.com/
-The Authoritative Speakers Guide: https://costofglory.kit.com/gift
-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexpetkas/
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or
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Talking points: relationships, mindset
I see so many men struggle with this, without ever knowing why. Part of it's the realities of modern dating, but there's a few things you can do to rise above. Listen in.
(00:00:00) - Hereâs the situation
(00:04:32) - Stop overfunding the account in an effort to get something
(00:06:51) - Be her best option, but donât stuff it in her face
(00:10:55) - Re-prioritize your needs and expectations, and do it like this
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
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Talking points: money, success, mindset, finances
Grateful to have the thoughtful and straightforward advice of Sahil Bloom when it comes to wealthâminus the get-rich-quick schemes and "hacks" you see too often on social media. We covered a ton, from financial skill development and a healthy relationship with money, to how you balance that with what really matters.
(00:00:24) - Understanding the Misconceptions of Success
(00:12:34) - The Lottery Mindset and Its Pitfalls
(00:21:32) - Developing Skills for Financial Success
(00:26:04) - The Value of Deep Thinking, Writing, And Conversation
(00:30:10) - Understanding Antigoals And "Time Wealth"
(00:42:22) - Balacing Risk And Wealth
Sahil Bloom is an inspirational writer and content creator, captivating millions of people every week through his insights and bi-weekly newsletter, âThe Curiosity Chronicleâ. Sahil is a successful entrepreneur, owner of SRB Holdings, and the managing partner of SRB Ventures, an early-stage investment fund. Sahil graduated from Stanford University with an MA in public policy and a BA in economics and sociology. He was a four-year member on the Stanford Baseball Team.
Connect with Sahil
-Website: https://www.sahilbloom.com/
-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sahilbloom/
-Book: The 5 Types Of Wealth: https://www.the5typesofwealth.com/
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts |
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Talking points: conflict, relationships
You're going to get into arguments. There will be differences of opinion. But what if those were gateways to something more? Today, the latest in the Man's Guide series.
(00:00:00) - Choose someone youâre willing to conflict with, and be someone sheâs willing to conflict with, too.
(00:04:11) - Your nervous system sets the tone.
(00:07:41) - You need rules of engagement.
(00:10:45) - Stop trying to âfixâ her emotions.
(00:15:25) - Donât fall for The Trap. Connect instead.
(00:18:47) - Lead the repair.
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
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Talking points: masculinity, isolation, culture, suicide
Look, Netflix's Adolescence was solid. But like anything Hollywood, it's not the whole picture. The big picture is complex, systemic, and deeply uncomfortableâand we seem to have built a culture that simply doesn't want to talk about it meaningfully and practically. I'm grateful for men like George (aka TheTinMen) who work tirelessly to point out how men's issues are important, complicated, and deserving of attention. Listen in.
(00:00:00) - Intro, and wtf is going on in the UK.
(00:12:28) - How do you actually speak to men's issues, and where the conversation unfortunately goes
(00:21:44) - The collapse of male spaces, and why are struggling men framed as inconvenience?
(00:38:09) - Georgeâs take on increasing levels of loneliness and isolation in men, and possible solutions
(00:44:51) - What people get wrong about male suicide
(00:50:43) - Is it inherently bad/toxic that a man wants to provide for people?
(00:58:51) - Data on how domestic violence and sexual abuse is underreported in men
(00:59:04) - How do you learn what âenoughâ is, and the psychology of bitcoin
George (@TheTinMen) is a content creator, research, pro-men's advocate and social media influencer. He explores the forgotten gaps of the gender debate, working for compassionate, original, and progressive political advocacy for men and boys.
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
For more, visit us at ManTalks.com |
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Talking points: mindset, addiction, porn
It's a serious challenge. You're doing well, you think you've broken freeâand suddenly you're back. This week, I dig into practical ways you can reinforce and reenergize your commitment. For more helpful info, check out my free guide here: https://training.mantalks.com/Quit
(00:00:00) - Intro, and the first step
(00:04:13) - Get to the bottom of whatâs driving the urge
(00:08:56) - Purpose beats porn
(00:11:15) - Redirect AND replace
(00:14:05) - Understand porn as a âpseudo-attachmentâ
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
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Talking points: culture, economics, mindset, debt, Ed Hardy
To maybe understate things, it's a jungle out there right now, financially speaking. I've really enjoyed Morgan's books and perspective, so in early April, I asked him to come on. He shared TONS of insight on tariffs, what's next, how the average person can change their financial straights for the better, even Fartcoin. Listen in.
(00:00:00) - What in the world is going on
(00:09:35) - If itâs about bringing manufacturing back, then will jobs go to workersâor to automation?
(00:16:37) - On tariff misconceptions and myths, and the difference between personal debt and government debt
(00:25:27) - How does the average person weather the storm?
(00:29:49) - How building wealth is behavioral, not intellectual, and the anti-capitalist mindset
(00:38:19) - What to do when youâre struggling to get your finances under control
(00:44:00) - Discovering why you actually want more money, and raising kids with good financial sense
(00:59:04) - How do you learn what âenoughâ is, and the psychology of bitcoin
Morgan Housel is a partner at The Collaborative Fund. He is a two-time winner of the Best in Business Award from the Society of American Business Editors and Writers, winner of the New York Times Sidney Award, and a two-time finalist for the Gerald Loeb Award for Distinguished Business and Financial Journalism. He lives in Seattle with his wife and two kids.
Connect with Morgan
-Coming in October: The Art of Spending Money: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/741239/the-art-of-spending-money-by-morgan-housel/
-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/morganhousel/
-Podcast: https://lnk.to/vDltf2
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Talking points: relationships, leadership
A while back, I launched a video on how men can better lead themselves and their relationships. It got a ton of dialogue, let's just say. Here's what I mean by lead, and three definitive steps to getting it right.
(00:00:00) - Defining what âleadâ actually means
(00:04:08) - The first thing to do
(00:07:14) - Stop taking her emotions personally
(00:12:47) - Lead in connection, lead in repair
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
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Talking points: masculinity, regret, anger, culture
It's been too long since I sat down with The Captain himself. I am continuously grateful for Kyle's honesty about his own life, his process, and his opinion on things. Which means this conversation is as refreshing as it is frank. Strongly recommend sharing this one, team.
(00:00:00) - Why is regret such a thing, are men conditioned to beat themselves up, and should it impact our decisions?
(00:10:47) - How a recent writing project nearly broke Kyle, and what he learned
(00:18:28) - On Netflixâs âAdolescenceâ, social media, and male role models
(00:26:24) - How Kyle manages anger
(00:31:38) - On maintaining discipline and motivation for creative or side projects, and what Kyle wouldâve done differently
(00:41:41) - Why therapy didnât work for Kyle
(00:49:38) - Kyleâs new book
As is tradition, I'm share Kyle's unedited bio here because it's...well, it's just fantastic.
"As a kid, I wanted to be a cowboy. Then, my mom bought me a skateboard and I got on with my life. In college, I decided copywriting was the career move for me and, for the last decade, Iâve held a variety of creative positions both in-house and within agency settings. Iâve also published five books, spoken at events around the country, and educated the masses about shark dating as the host of âShark Sex 101â for Discovery Channelâs ever-popular Shark Week series.
My work has had its share of recognition â but nothing will ever mean as much to me as the â2016 AAF Peopleâs Choice Show Winnerâ award that I received for tattooing a former employerâs face on my ass as part of a charity auction.
My only regret in life is being just a grammar gunslinger and not an actual cowboy. I donât even own a horse."
Connect with Kyle
-New book: Speech Therapy: https://m.cmpgn.page/QDc2tx
-Website: https://www.kylecreek.com/
-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sgrstk/
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or
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Talking points: attachment, relationships, mindset
Anxious attachment can make any relationship feel fraught with tension and threat. It doesn't have to be that way, and there are clear steps you can take that really do get results. Start with these ones.
(00:00:00) - Anxious attachment refresher
(00:04:04) - Priority number one: develop safety internallyâand how
(00:09:37) - Number two: recognize false flags
(00:14:10) - Number three: practice calm connection
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
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Talking points: relationships, masculinity, mindset, nice guy syndrome
A bunch of you have reached out requesting an interview with Nick, aka The People Displeaser, and I'm happy to say we finally got the chance to talk. Nick's practical, no-nonsense frame is a breath of fresh air. If you're looking for ways to combat your own people-pleasing tendenciesâand some really good reasons why you shouldâthis is the episode for you.
(00:00:00) - Is people-pleasing really that bad, and what creates one
(00:08:39) - How âneedsâ turned into a form of manipulation, and the nuance of privilege
(00:14:15) - Does people-pleasing show up differently in men and women, and what the true cost is
(00:24:59) - Where does a man start dealing with people-pleasing
(00:38:31) - The importance of rejection, and do women play a role?
(00:48:55) - Nickâs hard truths for introverts
(00:54:22) - What youâre going to face when start putting yourself first
Nick Pollard, aka The People Displeaser, is a world-renowned coach and speaker who specializes in addiction, codependent behavior, and people-pleasing. Overcoming his own strugglesâa deeply difficult childhood, his own addictive tendencies, and moreâhe now works tirelessly to support others wanting to break free. With tens of millions views on his social media channels, Nick has become a thought leader in personal growth and change, and now ranks in the top 10% of coaches worldwide.
Connect with Nick
-Website: https://thepeopledispleaser.com/
-YouTube: www.youtube.com/@peopledispleaser
-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thepeopledispleaser/
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to...
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Talking points: boundaries, relationships, mindset
The counter-intuitive truth is this: if you're stuck in people-pleasing, you're generally not people-helping. I see a lot of men go through this, and many are unaware of what it really is and where it comes from. This week, straightforward insight and direct steps to breaking free.
(00:00:00) - What the heck is people-pleasing?
(00:03:02) - Two specific origins of people pleasing, and uncovering where it started in your own life
(00:06:18) - The effect of trauma on oneâs needs and self-worth
(00:07:34) - The two major challenges of people-pleasing, and how to start breaking out of this
(00:10:39) - Reflecting on tendencies, practicing your No, and prioritizing what you need
(00:14:45) - On boundaries
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
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Talking points: anger, trauma, relationships
This is an essential episode for two reasons.
One, it clearly shows how emotions and behaviors get passed down not just in mind but in body. Two, this episode also shows there are men out there doing real workâand they're committed to it; my guest was already familiar with the somatic part of his feelings. If you grew up in a volatile family, this is doubly worth listening to.
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
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Talking points: archetypes, psychology, relationships
I genuinely feel this is one of the most important concepts we as men should understand. It affects a lot of us, and it definitely affected me. It definitely fits the word "complex", but it's absolutely something you can work on. So grab a notepad, dig in, and share with any man you think would benefit.
(00:00:00) - Intro, definition, and why knowing about this is useful
(00:08:09) - What causes this split?
(00:21:55) - Rounding up what kind of man is at risk of this, and where to start healing
(00:26:04) - What are you hiding, and what do you reveal
(00:32:16) - Important: have conversations
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
For more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
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Talking points: relationships, evolutionary psychology, culture
You know it, I know it, and Michael Sartain knows it: there are a LOT of men out there facing extreme difficulty. I wanted to pick Michaelâs brain on how to help men understand why this is, but from the perspective of evolutionary psychology, and the boots-on-ground experience of a fellow coach. I appreciate Michaelâs ability to follow (and focus) the data without getting lost in reactionary antics. Listen in.
(00:00:00) - How Michael works with men
(00:13:13) - What makes evolutionary psychology such a charged subject?
(00:25:40) - Why risk is important for men
(00:31:36) - Strategies to boost your risk tolerance
(00:39:02) - The difficulty of modern male relationships, and staying neutral
(00:48:42) - Does the unwillingness to take risk impact relationships?
(00:53:23) - On status, Bonnie Blue, and what most donât get about the âbottom thirdâ of men
Michael Sartainâs journey from a studious kid in Dallas, TX, to a leading expert in high-status networking and masculine self-improvement is nothing short of transformative. He grew up in contrasting environments; a comfortable family life, but a high school marked by gangs and poverty. Michael found refuge in academia, eventually earning a BBA from UT-Austin while nurturing a passion for diverse subjects like physics and psychology. The events of September 11, 2001, ignited his patriotic spirit, propelling him into the US Air Force as a KC135 navigator, rising to the rank of captain. It was here he honed leadership skills and experienced the profound impact of true accountability and integrity.
In 2019, he founded Men Of Action, a coaching community that has transformed the lives of over 2,000 men. Through his podcasts and public appearances, Michael continues to inspire, emphasizing leadership, social dynamics, and personal growth.
Connect with Michael:
-Website: https://www.moamentoring.com/
-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/michaelsartain/
-YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/MichaelSartain
-Twitter: https://x.com/michaelsartain
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on
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Talking points: attachment, relationships, culture
I recently brought in an attachment specialist for the Alliance because a lot of men are noticing an uptick in women who are emotionally distant, avoid vulnerability, and break it off the second things get serious. There are a ton of ways to look at this, and lots of factors, but I wanted to dig in a bitâand give some insight into what YOU can do if you're dating an avoidant woman.
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Talking points: attachment, marriage, trauma
Thereâs a lot of attachment content out there. I should know, I make a fair bit myself. But in my work with this weekâs anonymous guest, you can see just how complex things can get. My guest is managing the anxious-avoidant dance really well, but processing what causes it is something that requires deeper work. Listen in.
(00:00:00) - Intro, handling the anxious/avoidant dance in marriage, and the what it felt like losing a father
(00:11:21) - Who was there for you?
(00:22:52) - The search for peace
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
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Talking points: relationships, attachment
There's one significant trap a lot of men fall into when they're anxiously attached. Good news? It's manageableâas long as you know where it's coming from. If you or your partner has this attachment style, dig in.
(00:00:00) - Defining the trap, and why it happens
(00:04:29) - What youâre really up against, and the first step in escaping the trap
(00:09:15) - Uncovering where it shows up in your relationship, and taking action
(00:12:09) - Donât just practice in the relationship, and what causes blacksliding
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify
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Talking points: culture, marketing, relationships
I consider it an achievement to have Tad on the show. He's a soulful and wise person who can cut through the BS quicklyâand do it kindly, no less. We sat down to discuss the parallels in ethically presenting your case in both the business and dating realms. You'll be surprised at how similar some aspects are!
(00:00:00) - How is dating an extension of marketing?
(00:13:24) - The meaning of âgaugingâ a potential partner, and what to look for
(00:19:57) - On sunk cost, grief, people pleasing, and our fear of risk
(00:27:17) - Is there a connection between fear of approach and polarization?
(00:34:43) - How is AI going to change how we market
(00:47:33) - What are the key implementations of ethical marketing?
Tad Hargrave is a hippy who developed a knack for marketing (and then learned to be a hippy again). Since 2001, he has been weaving together strands of ethical marketing, Waldorf School education, a history in the performing arts, local culture making, anti-globalization activism, an interest in his ancestral, traditional cultures, community building and supporting local economies into his work helping people create profitable businesses that are ethically grown while restoring the beauty of the marketplace.
Connect with Tad:
-Website: https://marketingforhippies.com/
-Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/marketingforhippies/
-Substack: https://tadhargrave.substack.com/
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Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth
Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/
Heard about attachment but donât know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment
Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship
Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.
Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training theyâre looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on
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