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BONUS: When Clients Disappear: The Reality of Therapy Endings (PT2)
18 jun· Mastering Therapy
BONUS: When Clients Disappear: The Reality of Therapy Endings (PT2)
Ever had a client vanish just before their final session? Or wondered why endings can feel so awkward sometimes for everyone in the room? This bonus episode of Mastering Therapy is a practical guide to therapy terminations, with a clinician’s eye on what really happens (and what goes unsaid). The conversation explores messy endings, why clients “ghost”, and how therapists can plan for sessions that fizzle or never happen at all.
Expect practical tools on handling your own reactions, scripts for easing those tricky conversations, and fresh reflections on when saying “goodbye” does or doesn’t mean the work is finished. Useful whether you’re NHS-based or in private practice. No mention of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), but plenty to chew over all the same.
The host is Dr. Natalie Stott, clinical psychologist, founder of Mastering Therapy and host of the Mastering Therapy podcast.
Timestamps
What Kind of Ending Is This? 2:56
When Clients Ghost 7:00
Planned Endings & Practical Options 13:10
Therapist-Led Endings 20:07
Resources mentioned:
What to do when guide HERE
Clients' perspectives on therapy termination - PubMed6 Strategies for Ethical Termination of Psychotherapy | Society for the Advancement of PsychotherapyDo all therapists do that when saying goodbye? A study of commonalities in termination behaviors - PubMedTermination of psychotherapy: a systematic review - PMC
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For private psychology services and therapy visit www.drnataliestott.com
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SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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What to do when guide
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BONUS: What to do when... a client goes blank during therapy Sessions
11 jun· Mastering Therapy
What really happens when a client goes blank in therapy?
This episode dives into dissociation and distress in therapy sessions. Dr Natalie Stott helps make sense of those in-the-room moments where clients disconnect or shut down. Instead of offering set techniques, she shares what clients say actually helps, mistakes therapists often make, and how to understand what's really going on beneath the surface. There’s a strong focus on noticing before intervening, working collaboratively, and pacing sessions with care.
Highlights include:
01:15 What clients need when dissociating
04:11 Perfectionism and the urge to fix
10:13 Client quotes on what dissociation feels like
14:05 Distress vs dissociation—key differences
21:05 Therapist errors and how to avoid them
Resources mentioned:
GET THE WHAT TO DO WHEN GUIDE....
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For private psychology services and therapy visit www.drnataliestott.com
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SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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Bonus: What to do when... you are asked a personal question by a client
4 jun· Mastering Therapy
Do you wonder how much of yourself to share with clients in therapy?
Self-disclosure in therapy can feel like a tightrope walk,one foot in humanity, one in professionalism, and absolutely no brick walls in sight. In this sharp, practical episode, Dr Natalie Stott explores the everyday moments when clients ask about your personal life, and how your answer (or non-answer) shapes the relationship. Get clear on the difference between purposeful self-disclosure and those accidental reveals, like a stray photo on LinkedIn or being spotted with your dog at the park. We talk genuine connection, boundaries, and those inevitable “Are you married?” curveballs. This episode is essential listening for anyone navigating the unscripted art of being real in the consulting room.
TIMESTAMPS
01:17 Common client questions therapists get (and what throws us)05:07 The four types of self-disclosure—yes, even the accidental ones08:10 Why small disclosures can strengthen trust and reduce shame11:01 Red flags: When disclosure meets your own needs, not your client’s15:11 Online presence: your digital self is always in the room18:06 Practical ways to respond to personal questions (without making it weird)
Guest Information:
Social media: https://instagram.com/masteringtherapy
Website: www.masteringtherapy.com
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For private psychology services and therapy visit www.drnataliestott.com
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SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
Get your name on the list to be the first to hear when these workshops go live!https://www.masteringtherapy.com/workshops
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SUPERVISOR PLATFORM:Visit www.supervisorplatform.com to search supervisorsYou can list your profile for free for 3 months
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Bonus: What to do when... you're wrapping up the therapy session
28 mei· Mastering Therapy
How do you end your therapy sessions?
This episode looks at the art of closing a clinical hour in therapy by host Dr Natalie Stott. The discussion focuses on those crucial last few minutes of a session, how they shape the client's week, and what endings can reveal about both therapist and client. The episode covers practical ideas, common challenges in managing endings, and reflects on the role of therapist self-awareness. Full of practical tips and honest reflections, this episode offers a thoughtful approach to a part of therapy training many miss.
Highlights include:
00:25 Why endings in therapy matter
02:52 How memory works in therapy endings
05:02 Attachment patterns and client behaviour at the end of sessions
10:01 Practical time management and clear closing routines
13:05 Handling “hand on the door” disclosures
Guest Information:
Dr Natalie Stott is a Clinical Psychologist and host of the Mastering Therapy podcast. She creates practical CPD-style episodes, workshops and resources for psychologists, psychotherapists and counsellors who want to build confidence and skill in the therapy room.
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SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
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S4E11: When Compassion Meets Cash: The Therapist’s Money Dilemmas | Dr Katja Windheim
30 apr· Mastering Therapy
S4E11: When Compassion Meets Cash: The Therapist’s Money Dilemmas | Dr Katja Windheim
Let’s talk about the money elephant in the therapy room. In this episode, clinical psychologist Katja Windheim aka “The Money Psychologist”— joins us to dissect why charging, chasing payments, and setting fees make therapists squirm more than the average tax return.
We get specific about how feelings, professional culture, and early training all shape our relationship to cash and what to do when your compassionate side wants to offer therapy for the price of a sandwich. Expect practical tips on strong financial boundaries, cancellation policies that don’t make you hate your diary, and why money talk belongs in supervision just as much as client dynamics. There’s no magic wand here, but you might start seeing your terms and conditions in a whole new light.
TIMESTAMPS
02:55 Where the “Money Psychologist” idea came from10:39 Self-funding, cancellations, and client attendance patterns15:37 Making cancellation policies that actually work for you22:26 The awkward business of clients who can only afford limited sessions24:14 Sliding scales—pitfalls, resentments, and alternatives27:20 Signs you’re pricing out of guilt or financial stress33:05 What happens when a client’s money stress enters the therapy room35:37 If your boundaries are all over the place, where to start
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Discuss and repeat your cancellation policy at multiple points, including during initial sessions and in reminder emails.Treat financial boundaries with the same seriousness as therapeutic ones, and actually bring them to supervision.Avoid piecemeal flexibility—if you bend the rules for one, you’ll end up resenting the lot.Sliding scales quickly get complicated; consider offering limited low-cost slots, doing third-sector work, or creating community resources instead.Before diving into a piece of work, clarify up front how many sessions a client can fund, and plan accordingly.If you’re regularly overbooking or undercharging, pause and get support—consider a business mentor, peer discussion, or a coach.Money worries in clients often show up in the room—name the discomfort, don’t avoid it, and be aware of your own triggers.
GUEST
Katja Windheim is a clinical psychologist working under the name “The Money Psychologist”. She specialises in helping therapists untangle the practical and emotional knots around money, fees, and boundaries within their practices. She regularly runs live Zoom webinars on the emotional side of money in independent practice. Recorded versions of these are available for purchase on her website. She also offers small group coaching for those professionals who wish to explore this further. If you'd like to hear news and updates about these offers, please sign up to her newsletter on her website.
RESOURCES
The Money Psychologist websiteConnect with Katja on LinkedInAccess to future workshops and coffee mornings:Free Resource: Reflective audio on managing late cancellations & DNAs
** Check out Mastering Therapy’s Youtube Channel for all podcast episodes **
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To recommend a topic you’d like to hear about, or if you’d like to appear on the podcast please get in touch at www.masteringtherapy.com/guest
For private psychology services and therapy visit www.drnataliestott.com
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SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
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S4E10: Understanding Maternal Rage: A Guide for Therapists | Dr Caroline Boyd
23 apr· Mastering Therapy
S4E10: Understanding Maternal Rage: A Guide for Therapists | Dr Caroline Boyd
EPISODE SUMMARY
Is it just anger—or is it maternal rage? Dr. Natalie Stott sits down with Caroline to unpack why mothers feel rage so acutely, and why it matters to name it as a distinct experience. We look at the four contextual forces shaping maternal anger, how cultural myths make mothers feel inadequate, and how therapists can best support clients when rage is shrouded in shame. The episode covers practical steps for mapping client “parts”, bringing the body into therapy, and normalising anger in the context of motherhood and clinical practice. There’s also discussion on therapist disclosure, staying mindful of your own triggers, and ways to deepen your work with mothers. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) gets a mention in passing, but this conversation keeps the focus crisply UK-centric.
TIMESTAMPS
• 00:00 Definition and importance of maternal rage
• 00:10 Four contextual forces behind maternal anger
• 08:05 Therapist perspectives: bringing your own experiences into sessions
• 10:40 Asking mums about their own upbringing and anger
• 15:12 Mapping parts, parts work, and nervous system regulation
• 21:13 Impact of childhood experiences on adult anger
• 27:04 Using body awareness for anger management
• 41:06 Mapping parts and relating to “adult self”
• 44:32 Therapist disclosure and managing activation
• 51:00 Courses and resources for therapists and mums
KEY TAKEAWAYS
• Maternal rage is distinct from everyday anger—it’s shaped by societal, cultural, and personal forces.
• Mapping parts (IFS-informed) helps clients understand protective, wounded, perfectionist, and avoidant pieces of themselves.
• Normalising anger, referencing current research, and naming its prevalence helps reduce client shame.
• Therapists should sensitively explore how anger was held and expressed in clients’ upbringing.
• Body-based techniques and nervous system regulation are essential for helping mothers manage anger.
• Consider the impact of perfectionism and inner critic parts, which often drive maternal distress.
• Therapist disclosure needs careful consideration—check your motives and the client’s readiness before sharing.
GUEST
Clinical psychologist Dr Caroline Boyd has over 10 years' experience working in the NHS and mental health settings, and she supports parents from pregnancy to childbirth and beyond. Caroline offers anger courses, workshops and 1:1 therapy, alongside training and supervision, in her independent psychology practice, Parent Therapy Hub. Caroline is the author of Mindful New Mum, and her published research explores mothers' experiences of intrusive thoughts about their babies. Her work has been featured in You magazine, Grazia, the Telegraph, and BBC R4’s Woman's Hour. She is an Ambassador for UK perinatal mental health charity, PANDAS, and appeared as an expert guest on ITV’s daytime show, This Morning, to discuss postpartum depression. Caroline shares psychology ideas on Instagram and in the media to help parents feel less alone and more connected - to themselves and their children.d writes extensively on maternal rage, using parts work and body-based approaches.
Contact her- Website
Instagram
RESOURCES
• Caroline’s maternal rage course for mums use MASTERINGTHERAPY code for £100 OFF
Training & Supervision for therapists: HERE
The course helps mums move from anger and shame to understanding and repair - in just six, manageable video lessons designed to fit around busy family life.
You don’t need to be experiencing full-blown rage to benefit. Many mums take the course simply to understand their emotions better and reconnect with themselves and those they love.
It’s for every mum who’s ever felt stretched too thin by:
🎯 Broken sleep that leaves you on edge
🎯 The invisible mental load that never ends
🎯 Toddler meltdowns that test every ounce of patience
🎯 Feeling unseen or unsupported by your partner or family
🎯 The pressure to do it all perfectly and sacrifice your own needs
Ghosts in the nursery reference
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For private psychology services and therapy visit www.drnataliestott.com
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SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
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S4E9 Changing emotion with emotion in EFT | Dr Anna Oldershaw
16 apr· Mastering Therapy
S4E9 Changing emotion with emotion in EFT | Dr Anna Oldershaw
EPISODE SUMMARY
Most therapists are comfortable talking about emotions, but Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT) takes things several steps further. In this episode, Dr. Natalie Stott sits down with Dr Anna Oldershaw, consultant clinical psychologist and EFT trainer, to demystify the nuts, bolts, and chairs of EFT. They explore why “changing emotion with emotion” is central, the art of letting clients discover their own “Rome”, and why the therapy is more than a rebranding of common practice. Whether you’re curious about chairwork, anxious about secondary anger, or wondering how EFT fits in alongside Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), you’ll leave with something practical for your next session.
TIMESTAMPS
00:03 What is Emotion Focused Therapy, and why does it matter?02:20 How Dr. Anna Oldershaw stumbled upon EFT (and SPEAKS therapy for anorexia)05:39 Can you integrate EFT with schema therapy or ACT?07:35 Chairwork: making internal parts less terrifying09:38 EFT’s view on emotions: adaptive, maladaptive, and what’s really going on when clients say they’re “just angry”16:54 Working with clients’ own process, not parachuting in with answers26:31 The nuts and bolts of running a chair task (and what to do if things go off piste)31:19 What can clients do between sessions to keep the work alive?45:24 Interested in training in EFT? How to start
KEY TAKEAWAYS
• Use “chairwork” to facilitate clients’ dialogues with critical or protective parts—let them find their own insights, not yours.
• Distinguish between primary adaptive emotions (helpful, situation-relevant), primary maladaptive emotions (old wounds replaying), and secondary emotions (reactions to other feelings). Don’t take clients’ first answers at face value.
• When chairwork risks a shouting match between parts, focus on building assertiveness in the “experiencing” chair and softening of the critic—don’t force a negotiation.
• Listen for process “markers” as sessions begin to decide which EFT task (chair, focusing, imagery) will actually fit.
• To boost client awareness between sessions, ask them to notice and name when certain inner critics or feelings emerge—no need to “fix”, just notice.
• Be careful about overlaying your own formulation. Use conjecture gently, reflect back, and let the client’s experience lead.
• If a client experiences blocks (i.e., “I can’t go there”), work with the blocking part directly—don’t bulldoze through.
GUEST
Dr Anna Oldershaw
Consultant clinical psychologist, internationally accredited EFT trainer and supervisor, and director of the Emotion Focused Therapy Institute. Specialises in eating disorders and developed the SPEAKS therapy approach for anorexia.
RESOURCES
FREE EFT training- apply HERE
Emotion Speaks
Overview of Emotion-Focused Therapy, research, and videos
🔗 Link here
Core Skills Training (Level 1)
Four-day EFT training focused on core tasks you can use immediately (Next course in May 26)
🔗 Booking link
Advanced Empathic Attunement
For therapists wanting to refine moment-to-moment emotional work
🔗 Booking link
SPEAKS Therapy (Eating Disorders)
Integrates Emotion-Focused Therapy and Schema Therapy
🔗 Training link | 🔗 Book link
• Les Greenberg’s EFT videos and further resources: Emotion Focused Therapy Institute UK – Video Resource
** Check out Mastering Therapy’s Youtube Channel for all podcast episodes **
For notification on up coming episodes and for occasional summaries of tools discussed on the podcast sign up here: www.masteringtherapy.com
To recommend a topic you’d like to hear about, or if you’d like to appear on the podcast please get in touch at www.masteringtherapy.com/guest
For private psychology services and therapy visit www.drnataliestott.com
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Subscribe to the Mastering Therapy Podcast YouTube channel
Follow Mastering therapy on instagram
Connect with Dr Natalie Stott on LinkedIn
SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
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S4E8: Beyond Diagnosis: Building Confidence in Neurodiversity-Affirming Practice | Dr Jo Mueller & Dr Lauren Breese
2 apr· Mastering Therapy
S4E8: Beyond Diagnosis: Building Confidence in Neurodiversity-Affirming Practice | Dr Jo Mueller & Dr Lauren Breese
EPISODE SUMMARY
This episode of Mastering Therapy welcomes clinical psychologists Dr. Lauren Breese and Dr. Jo Mueller of the neurodiversity practice (alongside Dr Sibohan Higgins) for a sharp, practical exploration of adult autism and neurodivergent parenting. They discuss the misconceptions that trip up therapists, why autism isn’t synonymous with mental health struggles, and the surprisingly liberating power of discussing neurodivergence early.
There’s a clear rundown of adapting therapy for autistic adults—including navigating unpredictable sessions, sensory overwhelm, and boundaries that actually protect your client’s (and your own) battery. Whether you’re staring at daunting NHS assessment paperwork or questioning how direct to be, this episode is packed with straightforward guidance and a few witty asides.
02:24 Autism Misconceptions
05:07 Trauma and Autism
06:26 Raising Neurodiversity
10:05 Neuroaffirming Framing
15:21 Adapting Therapy
21:58 Assessment Paperwork
26:50 Late Diagnosis Triggers
29:43 Parenting Pressure Points
32:06 Protect Your Battery
36:15 Resources and Wrap Up
Guest Information:
Dr. Lauren Breese and Dr. Jo Mueller are clinical psychologists and co-founders of The Neurodiversity Practice. They work with neurodivergent people and their families, offering therapy, consultancy, and training. Their work includes an online community for neurodivergent parents and resources for clinicians.
Website: The Neurodiversity Practice
Resources discussed
Training for practitioners
The Neurodivergent Parent Space (support community run by the guests)Autistic Girls Network websiteJo's BlogThe Hidden 20% PodcastThe Neurodivergent Woman PodcastDeborah Kingston’s EMDR training for neurodivergent presentations
https://www.theneurodiversitypractice.com/
Resources mentioned:
** Check out Mastering Therapy’s Youtube Channel for all podcast episodes **
For notification on up coming episodes and for occasional summaries of tools discussed on the podcast sign up here: www.masteringtherapy.com
To recommend a topic you’d like to hear about, or if you’d like to appear on the podcast please get in touch at www.masteringtherapy.com/guest
For private psychology services and therapy visit www.drnataliestott.com
*****
Subscribe to the Mastering Therapy Podcast YouTube channel
Follow Mastering therapy on instagram
Connect with Dr Natalie Stott on LinkedIn
SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
Get your name on the list to be the first to hear when these workshops go live!https://www.masteringtherapy.com/workshops
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Supervisor platform
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S4E7: Online Therapy Across Borders: Risk, Cover, Compliance | Dr Tess Browne
26 mrt· Mastering Therapy
S4E7: Online Therapy Across Borders: Risk, Cover, Compliance | Dr Tess Browne
EPISODE SUMMARY
What happens when your therapy room has no borders—literally? In this episode, Dr. Natalie Stott and Dr Tess Browne tackle the practical realities of working with clients overseas, from risk management to insurance headaches. If you’ve debated taking your private practice global, wondered about how to safeguard clients abroad, or been baffled by tax as a travelling clinician, this one’s for you. The discussion steers clear of legal jargon, focusing instead on the right questions to ask your insurer, accountant, and yourself. There's also a free downloadable with all questions you need to be asking so scroll down to get it
TIMESTAMPS
00:48 The real-world challenges of working with clients abroad02:00 How Dr Tess Browne built her global practice online04:12 What makes risk manageable (and when it gets tricky)08:04 Screening and safeguarding clients across borders15:08 Insurance, licensing, and crucial questions for your provider27:07 Navigating tax if you work overseas or with international clients33:21 Networks, support, and the reality of ongoing global therapy work
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Always clarify both your insurance’s worldwide coverage and its legal jurisdiction—“worldwide” isn’t always what it seems.Add a clause to terms and conditions about being UK-based, subject to UK law, and the limits of confidentiality (especially when escalating risk in another country).When onboarding clients abroad, collect in-country emergency contacts and ensure the client’s consent to use them.Make sure both you and the client know the emergency services number in their country—expats often don’t.State your title clearly and honestly (e.g., UK-registered clinical psychologist), especially in countries with protected titles or different regulations.Contact local psychological societies before working with clients in unfamiliar countries—responses are often more helpful than expected.Before changing countries or tax residency, speak to an accountant who understands cross-border income and double taxation.
RESOURCES
Mastering Therapy website and mailing list: masteringtherapy.comUK Digital Nomad Psychologists Facebook group: [LINK]Supervisor Platform: [LINK]Statutory Residence Test info (HMRC): [LINK]
Guest Information:
GUEST
Dr Tess Browne is a UK-trained clinical psychologist with NHS experience who spent 7 years practising in Hong Kong and now runs a thriving global online practice. Her main clients are often high-achieving expats and perinatal women, making her a pragmatic guide on the ins and outs of overseas therapy.
Social media: @drtessbrowne (on IG & LinkedIn)
Website: www.drtessbrowne.com
Resources mentioned:
FREE RESOURCE- Downloadable Overseas toolkit- All the questions you need to ask the relevant people in one neat document
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Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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S4E6: The Power of Empathic Confrontation and Mode Mapping: Schema Therapy | Dr Jo White
19 mrt· Mastering Therapy
S4E6: The Power of Empathic Confrontation and Mode Mapping: Schema Therapy | Dr Jo White
Ever had a client say, “I know it’s not logical, but I just feel… defective”?
This episode of Mastering Therapy unpacks schema therapy with ISST-certified schema therapist and supervisor Dr Jo White. Hosts Dr Natalie Stott and Jo tackle the origins of schema therapy, why Jeff Young developed it when CBT wasn’t cutting the mustard, and what exactly a “schema” is. Expect practical metaphors, mode maps, and hear how limited reparenting can shift entrenched patterns. From how schemas form in childhood, to the therapist’s role with healthy adult mode, this episode is full of clinical pearls for anyone curious about alternative models or thinking beyond core beliefs. There’s even a nod to chairwork, imagery rescripting, and handling those confrontational moments in therapy.
TIMESTAMPS
• 00:00 What is schema therapy and why did it emerge?
• 04:22 How to explain a schema to clients (metaphors that actually work)
• 09:48 Introducing “modes”—and why behaviours matter
• 17:58 Limited reparenting: what it is and how boundaries play a role
• 21:59 Empathic confrontation: cold tap, hot tap, and getting the balance right
• 28:29 Schema therapy in brief: is short-term work possible?
• 31:15 Mapping out modes and schemas with clients
• 33:53 Experiential techniques: chairwork, imagery, and mode mapping
• 40:11 Therapist schemas and supervision: you’re in it too
• 45:39 Training routes and schema therapy resources
KEY TAKEAWAYS
• Use “schema glasses” as a client-friendly metaphor—schemas filter every situation.
• Limited reparenting is in-session modelling of healthy adult responses; boundaries are key.
• Modes describe how schemas play out: learn to identify vulnerable child, coping, critic and healthy modes.
• Empathic confrontation helps clients change entrenched patterns—adjust the “hot and cold” for effectiveness.
• Always map modes and schemas collaboratively—help clients spot their emotional triggers and bodily responses.
• Imagery rescripting can reduce schema sensitivity; the therapist actively steps in to rewrite old memories.
• Long-term schema therapy is ideal, but elements can be adapted for briefer interventions (with caution).
Guest Information: Dr Jo White
ISST-certified schema therapist, trainer, and supervisor. Experienced in integrating schema therapy into clinical practice and supervision. Clear, practical approach to teaching therapists.
Website: https://www.schematherapyworks.co.uk/dr-jo-white
Resources mentioned:
BESQ - Brief Early Schema QuestionnaireSchema youtubeSchema blog

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Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE

Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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S4E5: Stop processing parts without mapping their purpose first (IFS & EMDR)| Dr David Polidi
12 mrt· Mastering Therapy
What happens when you blend the structured world of EMDR with the nuanced, parts-based approach of IFS?
Dr. Natalie Stott sits down with David Polidi—EMDR therapist and “IFS guru” (his clients’ words, not his)—to get practical about integrating Internal Family Systems and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing in complex trauma work. They tackle everything from how to honour protectors (without bulldozing them) to what actually happens in this mysterious “Phase 2.5,” and how to avoid getting tangled in your own parts as a therapist. Plus, the age-old questions: Do you really need bilateral stimulation? And can you use a parts lens without an IFS certificate? No hype, just candour, solid tips, and welcome reassurance for therapists at every stage.
TIMESTAMPS
• 00:00 Introduction and purpose of blending IFS and EMDR
• 02:41 The “Syzygy model” and holding both maps in session
• 06:24 EMDR’s Phase 2.5/Discovery Phase—what is it, why is it useful?
• 14:43 What to do when protectors hijack reprocessing work
• 24:24 When negotiations with parts fail—what next?
• 27:13 Why blend models at all? And do you have to pick sides?
• 33:15 What happens between sessions? Homework for clients (and therapists)
• 36:42 Getting started: books, trainings, and the value of consultation
KEY TAKEAWAYS
• Always check in with every part—genuine consent trumps protocol when reprocessing trauma memories.
• Use “Phase 2.5” (Discovery Phase) with blended protectors—pause, get curious, and only proceed when all parts are on board.
• The “fire drill” is a quick, practical tool: name your own therapist parts at the start of sessions and gently ask them to step aside.
• Don't bulldoze protectors—forced reprocessing often brings backlash and, at best, patchy results.
• EMDR's structure maps well onto IFS’s parts work, but the pace needs to match your client’s system—not your agenda.
• It’s OK to use parts language without formal IFS training, as long as you’re respectful, collaborative, and guided by your client’s experience.
• Encourage clients to build ongoing relationships with their parts between sessions (quick daily check-ins can genuinely help).

RESOURCES

S4E5: Stop processing parts without mapping their purpose first (IFS & EMDR)| Dr David Polidi

Guest Information: David Polidi is a practising EMDR therapist known for integrating IFS into trauma work. He recently edited a collaborative book on IFS-informed EMDR, gathering voices from trainers, teachers, and therapists innovating at the frontier of blended models.
Social media:
Website:

Resources mentioned:

IFS Training Programs | IFS InstituteIntro to IFS informed EMDR – EMDR InsightIFS Informed EMDR Training Program — Syzygy InstituteDavid's Book

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Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE

Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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S4E4: Therapist Drift. Skill or laziness? | Dr Gracie Mclaven
5 mrt· Mastering Therapy
S4E4: Therapist Drift. Skill or laziness? | Dr Gracie Mclaven
EPISODE SUMMARY
Is “therapist drift” a mark of incompetence, or creative clinical freedom? In this episode, Dr. Gracie McLaven sits down with Dr. Natalie Stott to deconstruct the practical realities of blending therapy models, from DDP to EMDR and ACT, in a world obsessed with protocols and evidence bases.
The conversation sidesteps the usual platitudes, digging into the messy, human reality of clinical practice, where intuition meets integration and sometimes, the best work happens outside the boxes.
Expect a wry look at the NHS, a nod to the limits of randomised controlled trials, and some honest discussion about how to find your therapeutic style amid ever-mounting pressures on frontline services.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Using multiple therapy models isn’t always “drift”—sometimes, it’s exactly what complex cases require.The relationship between therapist and client can be more important than rigid protocol adherence.Formulating cases can be fluid—messy minds need not stick to neatly drawn CBT diagrams.Short-term models like CBT aren’t always containing enough for intense trauma work.There are risks in assuming the evidence base is neutral; cultural bias and financial motivations play a role.Feedback cycles with clients—check-ins, reviews, testimonials—are key to knowing whether you’re actually helping.Regular, varied supervision is crucial for independent or integrative practitioners.
Guest Information:
Dr. Gracie McLaven
Clinical psychologist in private practice, with a wide-ranging background in attachment, trauma, and integrative work. Known for her reflective, relationship-focused approach to therapy and strong views on what makes therapy effective.
Social media:
Website: https://brainbodywealth.co.uk/
Resources mentioned:
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Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
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S4E3: Clinical Supervision PART 2: The Bits Nobody Taught You | Dr Paul Grantham
26 feb· Mastering Therapy
S4E3: Clinical Supervision PART 2: The Bits Nobody Taught You | Dr Paul Grantham
EPISODE SUMMARY
What really makes supervision high quality, and why do most of us avoid thinking about it until there’s a complaint on the horizon? In this episode, Dr. Natalie Stott and Dr Paul Grantham wade into the murky waters of supervision for therapists—shining a light on everything from note-taking and record keeping to supervision of supervision (yes, it’s a thing). Listen in as they pick apart the shoulds, coulds, and musts of being a supervisor, who should keep the notes, what to do when things go off-piste, and how private practice is a whole different kettle of fish. Plenty here for supervisors and supervisees alike, plus a nod to models like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) for good measure.
TIMESTAMPS
00:00:02 – Why supervision matters (and what nobody tells you)00:01:57 – How to become a supervisor, and does accreditation matter?00:04:10 – Bridging theory and practice: why ongoing support trumps a certificate00:05:42 – Supervision of supervisors: why “peer groups” aren’t just for show00:10:48 – How supervisors can (accidentally) do real harm00:14:58 – Supervision records and notes: who keeps them, who gets to see them, and why it matters00:20:12 – How much experience do you really need before supervising others?00:23:04 – The markers of a genuinely good supervisor00:26:01 – What supervisees should do if their gut says “something’s not right”00:29:45 – Training, resources, and the elusive ‘perfect supervisor’
KEY TAKEAWAYS
• Choose supervision courses that are third-party accredited if you want real quality control—anyone can call themselves a supervisor, but not all courses are equal.
• Peer supervision groups are helpful, but having an external, experienced facilitator can turn “that’s interesting…” into real professional growth.
• Private practice supervisors risk creating echo chambers—seek out challenge, not just comfort.
• Keep supervision records: treat them like client notes, ensure they’re agreed upon by both supervisor and supervisee, and know under what conditions they might be accessed.
• Good contracts should specify who holds the records, when they can be released, and include a process for conflict (consider a “grandparent” supervisor).
• For ethical dilemmas and fitness-to-practice queries, clear note-keeping protects everyone—don’t rely on memory when the court calls.
• Supervision of supervision prevents stagnation and isolation and helps supervisors tackle challenges they missed in training.
GUEST
Dr Paul Grantham
A seasoned psychologist and clinical supervisor who runs one of the few independent, BPS-accredited supervision training courses. Draws on decades of experience with clinical supervision in both organisational and private practice settings.
RESOURCES
• SDS Seminars: info and supervision courses – [LINK]
• David Milne’s book: Evidence-Based Clinical Supervision – [LINK]
CALL TO ACTION
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DISCLAIMER
For education only. Not a substitute for professional supervision or clinical judgement.
Guest Information:
Social media:
Website:

Resources mentioned:

Free Editable Supervision ContractEvidence-Based Clinical Supervision: Principles and Practice | WileySDS Seminars: info and supervision courses –

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Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE

Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
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S4E2: What's the point in Clinical Supervision Part 1: Dr Paul Grantham
19 feb· Mastering Therapy
S4E2: What's the point in Clinical Supervision Part 1: Dr Paul Grantham
Supervision in therapy: necessary evil or vital lifeline? This episode of Mastering Therapy sees Dr. Natalie Stott joined by Dr Paul Grantham, founder of SDS Seminars, to dig into the messy world of supervision standards, expectations, and practicalities. Whether you’re working in private practice or deep in the NHS trenches, clarity matters—especially when every regulatory body seems to follow its own script. From navigating BPS and HCPC requirements to handling complaints (without breaking into a sweat), this is a sharp, practical guide to making supervision work for you. If you’ve ever wondered whether a WhatsApp group counts (spoiler: it doesn’t), or how to get feedback that actually helps, grab your notebook. Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) may not be centre stage, but process and collaboration are—prepare for useful distinctions and a few uncomfortable truths.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
HCPC doesn’t require clinical supervision, but don’t get complacent—when complaints arise, absence of supervision looks very bad.BPS and BABCP differ wildly: BABCP insists on close supervision and evidence for accreditation, while BPS offers detailed but mostly “advisory” guidance.WhatsApp chats and peer chitchat do not count as proper supervision, especially when you need defensible records.Contracts in supervision are more than admin—they clarify roles, expectations, and safety, and should be reviewed regularly (not just filed and forgotten).Discussing mutual expectations before signing a contract prevents mismatched assumptions and hidden frustrations.Supervisors should actively seek feedback, using simple, solution-focused questions (not lengthy forms), to measure usefulness and adjust approaches.Power dynamics in supervision are real—addressing time, boundaries, and change needs honest discussion for effective, ethical practice.
GUEST
Dr Paul Grantham
Consultant clinical psychologist and founder of SDS Seminars, known for shaping supervision training across the UK.

Resources mentioned:
FREE supervision contractSupervision Guidance – BABCPSupervision guidance for psychologists – page with PDF downloadGuidance for supervisees | The HCPCGuidance for supervisors | The HCPC

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Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE

Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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S4E1: 6 things the best ACT therapists do differently: Dr Joe Oliver
12 feb· Mastering Therapy
S4E1: 6 things the best ACT therapists do differently: Dr Joe Oliver
Are you curious about what sets great ACT therapists apart?
This episode of Mastering Therapy looks at ACT with special guest Dr Joe Oliver, director of contextual consulting, a highly skilled clinical psychologist and ACT trainer. The discussion covers what experienced ACT therapists do differently, how to use perspective taking, metaphors, and present moment work well, and how to guide clients from values to real action. Listeners will get ideas on avoiding common pitfalls and practical tips to take into sessions straight away.
Highlights include:
03:52 Pivoting perspectives in ACT
10:32 Using the therapy relationship for perspective work
16:36 Crafting and using metaphors
25:45 Working with workability and when clients feel stuck
37:07 Turning values into committed action
Guest Info
Dr Joe Oliver is a clinical psychologist, ACT trainer, supervisor, and researcher, known for making ACT’s key ideas clear and useful in day-to-day therapy. He is founder of Contextual Consulting and has written several ACT books for therapists.
Website: Contextual Consulting
Instagram: Contextual Consulting (search on Instagram for up-to-date resources)
Resources discussed
Article: Six things experienced ACT therapists do (by Joe Oliver)BOOK: 100 Key Points and Techniques in Act by Joe Oliver & Richard Bennett (2nd Edition)Free one-hour intro to ACT (available at Contextual Consulting website)ACT Pathway – longer-form ACT training and supervision (details on the Contextual Consulting website)
This episode is perfect for therapists wanting practical ACT skills, fresh ways to work with metaphors, and new strategies to go beyond the basics with clients.
Guest Information:
Dr Joe Oliver
Social media: https://www.instagram.com/contextualconsulting/?hl=en
Website: https://contextualconsulting.co.uk/
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Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')To search for a new supervisor visit HEREFor free resources on supervision visit HERE
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
Supervisor platform
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Season 4 Trailer
15 jan· Mastering Therapy
Season 4 coming on Thursday 12th Feb 2026
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Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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S3E13: 20 Questions every therapist needs to ask themselves each year
11 dec 2025· Mastering Therapy
How do you reflect on your year in practice?
This episode marks the final of season three and offers a thoughtful approach to wrapping up the therapy year. Podcast Host and Clinical psychologist Dr. Natalie Stott leads listeners through the “Big 20 Questions” – a set of prompts designed to spark reflection and help therapists take stock, plan ahead, and care for themselves as well as their clients. From considering gratitude and values to learning from challenges, listeners are guided through practical steps for personal and professional growth.
Highlights include:
01:02 Gratitude and noticing what’s supported you
04:23 The Big 20 Questions for reflecting on your practice
08:12 Insights learned from clients
11:13 Light bulb moments and identity as a therapist
14:02 Forward planning: Setting goals for June 2026
DOWNLOAD the 20 questions here
Guest Info
Dr. Natalie Stott is a clinical psychologist, founder of Supervisor Platform, and host of Mastering Therapy. She specialises in supporting therapists with supervision, reflection, and shaping meaningful careers.
Website: https://www.masteringtherapy.com
Resources mentioned
Downloadable ‘Big 20 Questions’ reflection sheet (free on masteringtherapy.com)Supervisor Platform directoryTherapeutic writing episode with Dr Hannah TaylorStreamlining your practice episodeMailing list sign-up for further tools and updates
This episode is a gentle guide to reflecting on the year gone by, noticing growth, and getting intentional about what’s next for you and your practice. Perfect if you want practical questions and tools to help you move into the new year with clarity and purpose.
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Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
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SHORTS: S2E4 Why therapists need to talk about sex
4 dec 2025· Mastering Therapy
SHORTS: S2E4 Why therapists need to talk about sex
Full episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/s2e4-why-therapists-must-talk-about-sex-with-lu-cook/id1773673403?i=1000698029637
Youtube: https://youtu.be/C9ViCr9kmCw
Guest Information:
Louise Cook is a COSRT / BACP / NCPS registered Psychosexual and Relationship Psychotherapist currently working in private practice. She specialises in working with couples and individuals who are struggling in their intimate life. She runs a busy private practice, After In Love Therapy, and hosts the podcast of the same name, where she explores sex, relationships and life after rupture with refreshing honesty. You can connect with her via After In Love Therapy and on LinkedIn.
https://www.linkedin.com/in/louise-cook-33314a23/
https://www.afterinlove.com/
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Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
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S3E12: IFS & parts work | Dr Zandra Bamford
27 nov 2025· Mastering Therapy
S3E12: IFS & parts work | Dr Zandra Bamford
Have you ever wondered why some parts of you work so hard to protect you, while others seem to hold you back?
This episode dives into Internal Family Systems (IFS) with psychologist and certified IFS consultant Dr Zandra Bamford. Together with host Dr. Natalie Stott, they break down the basics of the IFS model, from managers and firefighters to exiles and the core self. Discover how IFS works, where it comes from, and why it can help clients heal old wounds. The episode covers how IFS can be combined with other therapy styles, what training in IFS looks like, and the importance of self-awareness for therapists. There’s also a live demonstration where Dr. Natalie Stott explores her own conflicting parts, showcasing the process in action.
Highlights include:
00:47 What are managers, firefighters, and exiles in IFS?
04:26 Exploring the core self: is it always present?
11:15 IFS vs other therapy methods: integrating approaches
14:02 Training in IFS: why it’s different and what to expect 38:24 Live demonstration: experiencing IFS with conflicting parts
Guest Info
Dr. Zandra Bamford
Clinical Psychologist & Certified IFS Consultant
Visit Zandra Bamford’s website here
Trainings, Workshops and Retreats:
https://therapy-northwest.cademy.io
Book Online Internal Family Systems Therapy:
https://internalfamilysystemstherapyonline.simplybook.it/v2/
Resources discussed
• BOOK: No Bad Parts by Richard Schwartz
• IFS informed EMDR (book, edited by David Pallidi, upcoming)
• IFS training programmes (Level 1, Level 2, experiential workshops)
• Mastering Therapy website and mailing list for further resources
This episode offers a clear look at IFS, the roles different parts play in our inner world, and how connecting to our core self can change the way we live and work. Perfect for therapists wanting fresh perspective or anyone interested in therapy models that bring compassion and curiosity to the healing journey.
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To recommend a topic you’d like to hear about, or if you’d like to appear on the podcast please get in touch at www.masteringtherapy.com/guest
For private psychology services and therapy visit www.drnataliestott.com
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SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')
Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
Get your name on the list to be the first to hear when these workshops go live!https://www.masteringtherapy.com/workshops
Guide
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S3E11: Values Clarification beyond the card sort
19 nov 2025· Mastering Therapy
S3E11: Values Clarification beyond the card sort
What’s your go-to values exercise in therapy?
This episode dives into values work in ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy) with Dr. Natalie Stott, a clinical psychologist and founder of Supervisor Platform. The conversation busts the myth that values work is just about worksheets and gives creative ways for therapists to help clients clarify and live by their values. Dr. Natalie Stott shares practical tools, approaches for overcoming common obstacles in values work, and highlights how values fit into different models of therapy. If you’ve ever felt uninspired by the usual card sorts, this episode offers a fresh menu of ideas to use right away.
Highlights include:
03:09 What are values in ACT – a simple definition
10:04 Creative values exercises beyond card sorts
16:33 Using pain and irritation to clarify values
21:42 Common problems in values work and troubleshooting
26:37 Integrating values across ACT, CBT, and other models
Guest Info
Dr. Natalie Stott
Clinical psychologist, supervisor, and founder of Supervisor Platform
Website: Supervisor Platform (link to be added)
LinkedIn: (link to be added)
Resources mentioned
Values Card Sort (www.valuescardsort.com) SUPPORT it here Bullseye Exercise by Russ HarrisPlum et al. (2009) paper on valuesVIA Character Strengths SurveyPleasant Events List for DBT
Links to these resources can be found in the show notes.
Looking for inspiration in your values work? This episode is packed with practical ideas for therapists who want to help clients connect motivation to meaningful directions in life, no matter what approach you use.
Guest Information:
Social media:
Website:
Resources mentioned:

In Search of Meaning: Values in Modern Clinical Behavior Analysis - PMC

** Check out Mastering Therapy’s Youtube Channel for all podcast episodes **

For notification on up coming episodes and for occasional summaries of tools discussed on the podcast sign up here: www.masteringtherapy.com

To recommend a topic you’d like to hear about, or if you’d like to appear on the podcast please get in touch at www.masteringtherapy.com/guest

For private psychology services and therapy visit www.drnataliestott.com
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Subscribe to the Mastering Therapy Podcast YouTube channel

Follow Mastering therapy on instagram

Connect with Dr Natalie Stott on LinkedIn

SUPERVISOR PLATFORM
Supervisor Platform is an online directory designed for therapists, psychologists, counsellors, and other mental health professionals to connect with qualified clinical supervisors. It makes it easy for practitioners to browse, compare, and contact supervisors based on their expertise, approach, and availability, while giving supervisors a professional space to showcase their services.
Supervisor Platform (with 3 months free trial code 'WELCOME3')

Disclaimer: The Mastering therapy podcast and the information provided by Dr Natalie Stott (Dclinpsych, HPCP reg), is solely intended for informational and educational purposes and should only be used by qualified professionals.
Mentioned in this episode:
MASTERING THERAPY WORKSHOPS
Get your name on the list to be the first to hear when these workshops go live!https://www.masteringtherapy.com/workshops
Guide
Supervisor platform
SUPERVISOR PLATFORM:Visit www.supervisorplatform.com to search supervisorsYou can list your profile for free for 3 months
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S4E8: Beyond Diagnosis: Building Confidence in Neurodiversity-Affirming Practice | Dr Jo Mueller & Dr Lauren Breese

S4E7: Online Therapy Across Borders: Risk, Cover, Compliance | Dr Tess Browne

S4E6: The Power of Empathic Confrontation and Mode Mapping: Schema Therapy | Dr Jo White

S4E5: Stop processing parts without mapping their purpose first (IFS & EMDR)| Dr David Polidi

S4E4: Therapist Drift. Skill or laziness? | Dr Gracie Mclaven

S4E3: Clinical Supervision PART 2: The Bits Nobody Taught You | Dr Paul Grantham

S4E2: What's the point in Clinical Supervision Part 1: Dr Paul Grantham

S4E1: 6 things the best ACT therapists do differently: Dr Joe Oliver

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S3E13: 20 Questions every therapist needs to ask themselves each year

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S3E12: IFS & parts work | Dr Zandra Bamford

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