Afleveringen
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Kapil paid a hundred and fifty four thousand dollars cash for a car he did not need, and has never regretted it once. On why the usual advice about money splits your life into the wrong two piles, why the coffee, the seat, and the car all pay you back, and where the real waste is actually hiding.
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Kapil on the most socially acceptable sedative there is. Be grateful for the visa. Grateful for the job. Grateful they gave you a chance. On how gratitude got quietly turned into a leash, why it was never meant to replace wanting more, and the redefinition that changes everything.
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Zijn er afleveringen die ontbreken?
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You wake up with a limited budget of good decisions, and most people burn it on nothing. Kapil on the famous study where a prisoner's freedom depended on the time of day, why Steve Jobs wore the same thing every morning, and how to stop spending your best thinking on what to have for lunch.
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The companion to the last one, from the other side of the table. Kapil on the leader who has an opinion about everything, fills every silence, nods too fast, and slowly trains the smartest person in the room to stop telling the truth. If you are the senior person, your face is not neutral. It is a magnet.
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Be more strategic. Work on your executive presence. You are just not quite ready. Shilpa on the vague, sometimes condescending feedback that leaves you more lost than before, why kind but empty feedback once cost her everything, and how to draw the real, usable truth out of a manager, gently.
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Shilpa on the friendship almost nobody thinks to seek out, and the one that has quietly shaped her whole outlook on life. Why a friend a decade older is like getting to read the next chapter of your own life before you have to live it, why it lets you sidestep drama before it even arrives, and why the late night conversations with them are worth more than a hundred with people your own age.
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Shilpa, speaking for the introverts, straight to the extroverts. If you call instead of text, fill every silence, and expect answers on the spot, you are quietly getting the worst thinking from your best people. Here is what is really happening in their heads, and how to unlock the genius you keep leaving in the room.
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A deeply personal one. Shilpa on a small cartoon her sister sent her, her mother's dementia, and the ache of wanting to be with her while she still remembers her name. Ten things she is doing now, before that day comes, and one quiet truth about what love remembers long after the mind lets go
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You have been quietly keeping score, adding up every no, every rejection, until the number started to feel like who you are. Shilpa, warm and honest, on why one win cancels all of it, and the one rule that keeps you in the game long enough for that win to arrive
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You are explaining your solution, and you glance at your manager, and they are nodding, and it feels wonderful. Shilpa on the moment that nod quietly becomes a crutch, why the person who knows the most so often says the least, and what the whole table loses when you wait to be allowed.
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You have a gift you have never fully let out. A thing you can do, or make, or be, that you have quietly kept folded up inside, waiting for the right moment, the right permission, the right person to discover it. Kapil on why that hidden talent is not waiting to be found, it is waiting to be used, and why the only person who was ever going to give you permission was you.
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Shilpa, for everyone stuck in go, go, go, on what constant urgency does to your body, your relationships, and your best ideas. Why the breakthroughs come when you stop, and one simple thing you can do today to teach your nervous system that not everything is a fire.
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We wear our struggle like a medal. The overwork, the sacrifice, the years of doing it the hard way. Shilpa on what happens when the fight becomes your identity, why ease can start to feel almost threatening, and the gentle, freeing truth that you were never your struggle in the first place.
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There's a silence that visits after the noise of achievement dies down. Not sadness, not emptiness. A stillness, an awareness that everything you build will one day end. Shilpa on the feeling she's learned to savour after her biggest events, and why this quiet is the thing that keeps her grounded, humble, and sane.
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Shilpa, on the night her daughter lay awake terrified, and the choice she made the next morning. Why the words you say to your children, again and again, become the voice inside their head for the rest of their lives, and how to make sure that voice is one of love.
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"This is just how I am." Kapil on why that one sentence is more dangerous than any setback, how it lets you justify staying exactly where you are, and the backwards thinking that keeps people waiting for the outcome before they'll ever do the work.
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Kapil spent three and a half hours pulling weeds from a tiny vegetable patch, then tore the whole thing out and rebuilt it. Six months later it was exactly as bad as before. The small, almost boring truth that finally fixed it, and why it's the same reason your big life overhauls never seem to last.
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Kapil applied every strategy his coaches gave him and still couldn't break past $17,000 a month, for a year. The reason was strange, and it taught him everything about money mindset. On the invisible ceiling set by what you believe you're worth, the difference between saving your way to wealth and making it, and why none of this needs you to quit your job.
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For years Shilpa thought she was too genuine for office politics, and quietly resented the people who played it. Then she realised that resentment was just an excuse. A warm, freeing reframe on why navigating your landscape is your responsibility, and how to play the whole game in your own way.
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Shilpa, with warmth and real strength, on what to do when you report to someone who shouts, loses control, and slowly takes your confidence apart. Why their volume was never about your worth, the practical tools to change the dynamic, and the line you must never let anyone push you past.
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