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Over the years, weâve had our fair share of expectations that ended in disappointmentâsometimes around big moments like birthdays, and other times over something as simple as how we spend a Saturday.
Itâs taken us a while to discover that what caused many of these conflicts was a lack of proactive communication, or as we like to say, a failure to âpush information.â Pushing information is simply taking the time to communicate in advance your current hopes and desires (or even how you are used to doing things in the past).
Pushing information to your spouse may take some time and effort upfront, but we know from experience what a valuable tool this strategy can be in avoiding unnecessary arguments and hurt.
In this episode, youâll learn about:
The importance of comparing your ânormalsâWhy proactive communication is key for healthy relationshipsPractical tips for being clear with your expectationsAnd more!This has been such a helpful tool that weâve used in coaching and in our marriage! We hope it helps you turn confusion and disappointment into clarity and contentment.
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/proactive-communication-249
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Every marriage is an ongoing story with its own highs and lows, joys and difficulties. Depending on which season we are in, we may start to see marriage as the best thing that has ever happened to us or the source of our angst.
If youâve been following our journey for a while, you know that my husband Mark and I share openly about the struggles as well as the victories in our marriage. God has used every obstacle weâve encountered to grow us in so many ways.
The truth we hope you walk away with today is that marriage is actually our ultimate invitation to grow. If we allow it, God will use our marriage to shape us into someone who is deeper, healthier, and more rooted in Christ. Our guest believes wholeheartedly that if we are willing to examine the stories of our past that are influencing the present, we can write a new story for the future.
Dr. Dan Allender has a long history in the therapy world. As the author of over two dozen books and the founder of The Allender Center, he believes that true healing and restoration occur when we courageously step into our stories of pain.
In this episode, youâll hear:
The value of vulnerably stepping into each otherâs pastsWhy itâs important to disrupt destructive patternsOne of the key factors to resolve any conflictAnd more!These principles have proven so beneficial in our marriage. We hope this conversation helps you write a new story for your own relationships.
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/dan-allender-248
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If weâre being completely honest, many of us enter into marriage with stars in our eyes and the hope that our spouse will live up to our every expectation. Isnât it funny how we can spend months preparing every last detail for our marriage ceremonyâyet we spend little, if any, time preparing our mindsets for what our marriage will actually look like in practice?
That reality often shows up fastâlike the moment you realize the person you just vowed forever to puts the toilet paper on the roll backward! No matter how big or small they may be, unmet expectations can cause conflict, disappointment, and frustrations to develop in your marriage and other relationships.
Today, we have the honor of sharing a special episode with you. Earlier this year, Mark and I did a workshop on managing expectations in marriage for the FamilyLife Love Like You Mean It Cruise (which we highly recommend!). With their permission, we wanted to share it with you as well.
While this message was created for married couples, the reality is that all of us need to manage our expectations better. After all, they can impact all areas of our livesâfrom our kids, to our extended family, and even our friendships.
In this episode, youâll learn about:
Four types of expectationsWhere unrealistic expectations come fromHow we use cats and dogs to describe attachment stylesAnd more!Understanding how expectations may be showing up in your relationships can help you avoid dynamics that contribute to discontentment, disappointment, and more. We hope you enjoy this special episodeârecorded in front of a live audience!
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/managing-expectations-247
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Have you heard some variation of this before?
âMarriage is hard. Itâs unfair. One of you will always pull more weight. Marriage doesnât make you happy; it makes you miserable.â
I'd like to push back against that pessimistic mindset. Yes, itâs true that marriage can be challengingâbut it can also be one of the greatest relationships you will experience!
Marriage is certainly not easy, but it can be easier if we approach it the right way. Joining us to share her insights on doing just this is my friend, Arlene Pellicane. Arlene is a speaker, host of the Happy Home podcast, and author of several books including Parents Rising, Screen Kids, and Making Marriage Easier. Arlene has been featured on the Today Show, Fox & Friends, the Wall Street Journal, and Focus on the Family.
In this episode, youâll hear:
The four decisions that deeply impacted Arleneâs marriageWhy you should silence your phone while spending time with your spouseThe benefits of trying something new togetherAnd more!I thoroughly enjoyed my time with Arlene, and she has so many great tips on how to make marriage easier.
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/arlene-pellicane-246
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When a loved one hurts, it can be hard to know how to respond and support them through the crisis or pain they feel.
Our first response is often to jump straight into âfix itâ mode or lighten the mood by offering platitudes. However, the key to true comfort lies in a few key areas that Mark and I are going to talk about in this conversation. In our story, weâve had quite the journey of learning how to best support one anotherâwhether we are experiencing physical pain, emotional hurt, or just a difficult season of life.
In this episode, youâll learn about:
Some examples of crises and pain a loved one may be experiencingThe importance of sitting in the pain with someone elseA few ways to practically support someone going through a crisisAnd more!Through my cancer journey and our marriage crisis, we received so much help and comfort from our friends, our family, and each other. We hope you will feel more equipped to offer support to a loved one after listening to this candid conversation.
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/hurting-loved-one-245
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If you know my husband Mark and I, then you know we are passionate about moving people from a 1.0 version of themselves to a new-and-improved 2.0 version. Weâve taken this journey ourselves and know the difference it can make in your relationships, as well as how you view yourself.
We want you to know that whether you are navigating a life transition, experiencing a relationship crisis, trying to rediscover your purpose, or looking for direction on how to move forward, you are always just one choice away from making a change.
Today, we have two incredible guests joining us to explore this topic. Justin and Trish Davis are pastors, speakers, coaches, and the founders of Refine Us Ministries. Through their powerful story of failure, loss, and transformation, they help others find renewed hope and purpose. Justin and Trish have co-authored and individually authored several books, the latest being One Choice Away from Change: Break the Cycles That Hurt Your Relationships and Hold You Back.
In this episode, youâll hear:
How God restored their relationship after an affairCommon barriers that hold us back in lifePractical steps to take when you feel stuckAnd more!Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/justin-trish-davis-244
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Everyone has baggage. We carry it around with us everywhereâinto marriage, adulthood, and every aspect of our lives. Itâs part of being human, and while thereâs no shame in having baggage, itâs important to take the time to consider how the behaviors weâve picked up over the years could be potentially harmful to ourselves and others.
The question we are addressing in todayâs conversation is: how do we pinpoint our baggage and begin to heal those areas of our lives? We define âbaggageâ as places where we need to pursue personal growth, instances of trauma or hurt from the past that remain unhealed, and learned behaviors, habits, and thinking patterns from our childhood that no longer serve us.
Whether you are married, dating, or single, doing the individual work to unpack your baggage is an investment you will never regret making. You may also want to consider working with a coach, counselor, or therapist to assist you in your journey.
In this episode, youâll learn about:
The importance of discovering your baggageHow to look back at the past to uncover unhealthy coping mechanismsWhy we should pay attention to relational feedbackAnd more!Dealing with our own baggage has been transformative in our marriage, and it played a crucial role in our individual journeys to become Jill 2.0 and Mark 2.0. We hope this conversation can be a stepping stone for others to dig deeper into their own habits and behaviors.
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What does your morning routine look like? A typical morning may look like rolling out of bed, getting ready, and grabbing breakfast to feed your body before you tackle the day. But how often do you prioritize feeding your soul as well as your physical body?
My guest for this conversation discovered that there is no better way to start her day than by sitting with Jesus. Tera Elness is a writer and a speaker. In her first book, Sitting with Jesus: A Yearlong Faith Journey, each individual entry is a glimpse into her personal journal as she shares with God and about God.
In this episode, youâll hear:
The importance of opening Godâs WordWhat your time with God could look likeHow Tera uses 80s music to deliver a biblical messageAnd more!If you long to have vibrant, personal, and fulfilling moments connecting with our Heavenly Father, you wonât want to miss this conversation with my friend Tera.
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Have you ever had a conversation where it seemed like you and the other person kept misunderstanding one another? At some point, it may have even felt like you were speaking two different languages. This is a challenge that pops up in many marriagesâafter all, thereâs a reason why people say men and women could be from different planets!
Teaching others how to have safe conversations is a passion of ours, as this skill has played a big role in taking our marriage to the next level. You may have heard us teach about this topic if youâve done coaching with us or attended one of our No More Perfect Marriages Seminars. Today, weâre honored to speak with two professionals whose work has significantly shaped the way couples everywhere approach healthy dialogue.
Harville Hendrix, Ph.D, and Helen Hunt, Ph.D., are the creators of Safe ConversationsÂź, a training institute focused on relational intervention. They are the co-authors of three New York Times bestsellers, including Getting the Love You Want, which has sold over four million copies. Married for over 40 years, they have six children and seven grandchildren, and they split their time between Dallas and New York City.
In this episode, youâll hear:
Why itâs important to listen more than we speakThe elements of a safe conversationTwo things you can try during your next ânegativeâ conversationAnd more!We are thrilled to have gotten the opportunity to sit down with the two people who laid the groundwork for our understanding of safe conversations!
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/hendrix-hunt-241
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Dear Mark & Jill,
I listen to your podcast every week and I love it. It seems like when you are talking together, we hear a lot more about what Mark did wrong before and during your marriage crisis. I identify more with Jillâs personality before your marriage crisis. I would love to hear more about âJill 1.0â when you are discussing problems in your marriage. What were some of the things you (Jill) did during that time that you felt did not help the situation, and how did you correct them to become Jill 2.0?
This was an email we got from a listenerâand it sparked an hour-long conversation between Mark and I! It was such a good question that we decided to answer their email in this episode of the podcast.
We often talk openly about our marriage crisis, Markâs infidelity, and how I contributed to the dysfunction in our marriage before we became what we affectionately refer to as Mark & Jill 2.0.
For this conversation, we want to examine Jill 1.0 more closelyânot to blame her for what happened, but to honestly consider the role she played in our marriage crisis.
In this episode, youâll learn about:
The 6 dysfunctions Jill brought into our marriageWhat the âstrong woman, silent man cycleâ looks likeThe characteristics of an âavoiderâAnd more!It was enlightening for Mark and I to examine some of my behaviors during the first half of our marriage and how they impacted our relationship. I hope this can be a helpful resource for you, especially if you relate to or have a similar personality to mine.
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/old-version-jill-240
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As a coach, one of the things I do most often is help people learn how to manage their emotions in a healthy way. The human capacity to feel is God-given. However, when our feelings go unchecked, thatâs when emotional ups and downs can start to steal our peace, sabotage our relationships, and fill our minds with self-defeating thoughts.
So how can we manage our emotions instead of letting them manage us? Alicia Michelle is here to show us the way. Alicia is a coach, author, speaker, course creator, and podcast host. She blends science and faith together to provide us with a helpful process for working through difficult feelings with compassion and clarity.
In this episode, youâll hear:
The three-step process to managing emotionsWhy itâs important to ground our feelings in Godâs clarityHow we get to decide where we camp out in our feelingsAnd more!My hope is that the strategies in this conversation will help you develop a healthier, more positive relationship with your feelings.
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/alicia-michelle-239
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Mark and I are excited to bring you another special episode with just the two of us! In this conversation, we are talking about confirmation bias. Itâs something we have experienced in our own relationship and we see it time and time again in the couples we coach.
Confirmation bias occurs when we look for evidence that âprovesâ what we have already decided to believe about ourselves or others. Itâs a dangerous thing, because our assumptions are often incorrect. When we put on the blinders to any information that contradicts what we want to believe, we make it almost impossible to let go of flawed ideas.
Confirmation bias not only affects our marriagesâit can also impact our friendships, family relationships, what we believe about God, and what we think about ourselves. Itâs so important to identify the relationships in which we are experiencing confirmation bias and take steps to root our thoughts in reality rather than assumptions.
In this episode, youâll learn about:
How confirmation bias harms relationshipsWhat steps we need to take to change our perspectiveWhy itâs important to take our thoughts captiveAnd more!Weâve experienced the damage confirmation bias can cause firsthand, and we hope this conversation helps you identify it in your own thoughts and beliefs. The first step to letting go of this bias is being aware it exists and observing how it manifests in you.
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As Christian parents, we do our very best to help our kids develop deep and lasting relationships with Jesus. However, despite our efforts, they will sometimes still choose to walk away from their faith. If youâre navigating this struggle with your own child, I want you to know that you are not alone and that this episode is for you.
Many parents are experiencing the pain of watching their children live life without Christ. Whether your son or daughter has been drawn away by the allure of a secular lifestyle, fallen into the wrong crowd, or simply turned away from the faith they claimed as a child, it can be difficult to know the best way to help them.
My latest guest understands this dilemma well. Laine Lawson Craft is a parenting expert, author, speaker, and host of the Warfare Parenting Podcast. She believes that the best place for parents to fight the battle for their wayward children is on their knees.
In this episode, youâll hear:
Why prayer is not a last resortHow to place your child in the Lordâs handsThe importance of tending to your own heartAnd more!Whether your children are still at home or out on their own, it's never too early to start covering them in prayer!
Show Notes: jillsavage.org/laine-lawson-craft-237
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The topic of this episode was inspired by a question submitted by one of our listeners:
What does it take to heal a family after trust has been broken? How do you acknowledge the wider influence of pain, and where do you go from there?
As marriage coaches, we often talk about healing your relationship with your spouse. However, after a betrayal, your husband or wife isnât the only person you need to consider. Itâs also important to make amends with family and friends whoâve been affected by your actions.
Trust can be broken by infidelity, separation, or divorceâbut also by false promises, financial misuse, uncontrolled anger, and more. Regardless of how it happened, the first step to rebuilding is recognizing how your choices impact not just your marriage, but those around you. After that, healing what has been damaged takes time, effort, and intentionality.
In this episode, youâll learn about:
Why infidelity is just one of many ways that trust can be brokenHow to recognize which relationships in your life need repairing after a betrayalHelpful principles for rebuilding trustAnd much more!Weâve walked the hard road of healing from broken trust as a family, and we hope this conversation is helpful as you navigate this challengingâbut essentialâjourney.
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One of the things we say time and time again is that the âperfection infectionâ happens when we compare our insides to other peopleâs outsides. When we do this, we often come up with inaccurate conclusions about ourselves AND others.
Falling into the trap of the perfection infection is especially easy when youâre on social media. Not only are your favorite influencers putting the best parts of their lives on public display, but all your friends and family are often doing the same. Itâs natural to want to highlight happy moments, but constantly scrolling through everyoneâs best bits can sometimes make you feel like youâre not measuring up.
This is one of the reasons why we share so honestly and openly about the real stuff in our livesâŠeven when that stuff is ugly, hard, or imperfect.
Our guests today can certainly relate to this sentiment. Rebecca St. James and her husband, Cubbie Fink, illuminate the heartaches and triumphs that have shaped their story as a married couple, as parents, as musicians, andâmost of allâas Jesus followers in their first co-authored book, Lasting Ever.
In this episode, youâll hear:
How authenticity shows both the highs and the lows of lifeWhere to find security in who we areWhat to do when you are going through a dark seasonAnd so much moreâŠWe so enjoyed having Rebecca and Cubbie share their story and we hope it helps to take some of the perfection infectionâs weight off your shoulders today.
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What is a âMidlife Marriageâ? Itâs the season of life that begins after the whirlwind of kidsâ soccer practices, dance recitals, and endless extracurriculars comes to an endâwhen the nest is empty, and itâs just you and your spouse, rediscovering life together.
As parents, itâs natural to focus all your energy on raising your children, and while this journey is so rewarding, it can take a lot out of you. What we have discovered in our coaching and in our own marriage is that, when all of your kids have ventured out on their own, many couples lose the original connection that brought them together. Itâs almost as if they have become strangers in the empty nester season of life.
While maneuvering this midlife marriage stage may sound daunting and you might be wondering if you can ever rekindle your love again, we are here to say that there is life and love after kids!
In this episode, youâll learn about:
How to build patterns into your marriage that nurture connectionWays you can start reigniting the flameA template for starting the âmidlife marriageâ conversation with your spouseAnd much more!We hope this conversation is helpful to you, whether youâre still in your parenting phase or quickly approaching your midlife marriage!
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After 20 years of youth ministry, my son-in-law recently completed a much-needed, four-month sabbatical. Itâs encouraging to see that, more and more, both employees and their employers are valuing the soul-satisfying, replenishing healing that comes with taking a break from your normal routine.
God invites us to a weekly Sabbath, a one-day rest. My guest today agrees that Sabbath is importantâand she says that soup is one simple way that busy women can make a weekly sabbatical a practical possibility.
Kathi Lipp is the Publishers Weekly Bestselling Author of over 20 books, including Sabbath Soup, Clutter Free, and The Accidental Homesteader. She is also a national speaker and podcast host. Kathi and her husband, Roger, ran away to the mountains of northern California, where they grow their own food together and turn it into delicious meals!
In this episode, youâll hear:
The practical benefits of a SabbathHow God invites us to restWhy soup is the best meal for the SabbathAnd so much moreâŠThis episode is full of great tips for incorporating a weekly Sabbath into your routine!
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What role does prayer play in your marriage? For us, prayer has been a profoundly positive force in our livesâboth as individuals and as a couple. When it comes to strengthening your marriage, there are many tools and strategies to explore, but prayer is one you simply canât overlook. Itâs a powerful way to invite God into your relationship and deepen your connection with one another.
A practical definition of prayerHow God uses prayer to help both you and your spouse growWhy prayer can transform your marriageAnd much more!
This is an extra special episode for us, because we have two new books on prayer coming out this week: 199 Prayers for My Wife and 199 Prayers for My Husband.
This is a passion project weâve had in the works for a while, and weâre so thrilled to finally share it with you! These books are a daily guide for lifting your spouse in prayer, and they will be released on January 29th.
In this episode, youâll learn about:We are covering all things prayer in this
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Have you ever felt out of sync with your spouse? Some days it can feel like you are on two different planets and you just canât seem to get on the same page.
The five rhythms of marriageHow small acts of service can have a big impactThe importance of pursuing adventureAnd so much more...
Our guests for this episode can relate! They are the authors of The Rhythm of Us and co-hosts of a podcast by the same name. Chris and Jenni Graebe understand the ups and downs of marriage and are passionate about helping married couples step into the plan and purpose God has for their lives.
As the name of their book and podcast suggests, we are discussing the rhythms of a healthy marriage and how to get back in sync with your spouse.
In this episode, you'll hear:The wisdom from other couples is so invaluable and our hope is that you would find nuggets of wisdom nestled in the rhythms of life!
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Mark and Jillâs Marriage Story Marriage Coaching Marriage 2.0 Intensives Speaking Schedule Book Mark and Jill to Speak Online Courses BooksMarriage Resources:
Infidelity Recovery For Happy Marriages For Hurting Marriages For Marriages Where Youâre the Only One Wanting to Get HelpMom Resources:
New/Preschool Moms Moms with Gradeschoolers Moms with Teens and Tweens Moms with Kids Who Are Launching Empty Nest... -
Are you struggling with connection in your marriage? Has it been ages since you and your spouse laughed together? We get it. Life gets busy when you are constantly managing to-do lists, taking your kids from one place to another, and more. When your schedule is already overflowing, it can feel almost impossible to carve out meaningful moments to laugh, play, and bond with your spouse.
Slow fades that can occur in your relationshipThe value of engaging in fun with your spouseWhy you should stay curious in your marriageAnd much more!
That's why Mark and I are discussing the importance of prioritizing fun in marriageâand why finding a common interest to invest in is a great way to get started toward this goal. Having fun with your spouse takes work and intentionality, but it is well worth the effort!
In this episode, you'll learn about:As we kick off 2025, we hope this episode encourages you to find time for fun in your relationship!
Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/fun-together-230
You're invited to our Transform Weekend June 6-8, 2025 or October 17-19, 2025. Learn more and register here.
Check out our other resources:
Mark and Jillâs Marriage Story Marriage Coaching Marriage 2.0 Intensives Speaking Schedule Book Mark and Jill to Speak Online Courses BooksMarriage Resources:
Infidelity Recovery For Happy Marriages For Hurting Marriages For Marriages Where Youâre the Only One Wanting to Get HelpMom Resources:
New/Preschool Moms Moms with Gradeschoolers Moms with Teens and Tweens Moms with Kids Who Are Launching Empty Nest... - Laat meer zien
