Afleveringen
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In deciding the type of mother that we want to be, often thatâs informed by our experience with our own mother. The view we have of our mother will shape the view we have of ourselves, and therefore, the fuel we draw on in our own mothering, can be created by what was missing or not met by our own mother.
In this episode we discuss:
- Constantly âconsciousâ and centering your child is outside the realms of whatâs possible for any single human
- The deep shame we feel when we perceive we perpetuate what was done to us
- In moments of stress we regress; itâs why triggers are visceral
- Meeting a collection of moments of deep attunement rather than âperfect motheringâ
- Holding the polarity paradox and complexities of motherhood and humanity
- Feeling controlled by a tiny dictator
- Letting go of unrealistic expectations we beat ourselves against
- Liberating yourself from judgement
- Your freedom is NOT being the complete opposite of her
- Sometimes your dreams are at odds with your mothering
- Real love is the appreciation of the support and the challenge
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Itâs held up as the pinnacle of perfect mothering in our culture, but is it really? Often, what youâre over functioning on, is related to what is intolerable for you to be. The more practiced we can be at examining our subconscious motives ahead of time, the less shock we feel when we get angry. So letâs go on a self-examining journey into the shadow side of the selfless mother.
In this episode, we discuss:
- Nothing is ever completely selfless or altruistic
- Where thereâs selfless, thereâs selfish
- Where youâre giving you are gaining
- Often shame is attached to focusing on the self, and receiving
- Whatever is unacceptable behaviour for ourselves, we make sure our child doesnât behave like
- Overfunctioning and hyper-dedication is often a control strategy
- To change the âmother-as-selflessâ narrative would undermine our social and patriarchal structures and systems
- Deriving our self-worth from being in service to others
- Examining where over-functioning is a strategy to mask or avoid something
- True empowerment requires self-service and other-service
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We all want our children to be pleasant, kind, repair wellâŠand so itâs shocking when we see them as inconsiderate, rude, harsh, or on the receiving end of any of these things.
As a parent, when do you step in, and when donât you?
In this episode we discuss:
- When you feel like you need to get involved with your childâs social dynamics
- When your kidâs social situations are normal, vs a problem
- Remembering as parents weâre blinded by our lens on our children
- Building resilience and fostering a courageous sense of self
- Observing what our kids are learning from their âteacherâ; the child theyâre currently orbiting with
- Trusting their ebbs and flows of knowing who they are, and recognising that this will shape who they attract
- Allowing learning through social observation
- How we see our child becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy
- Meeting your kids where theyâre at, and having conversations around marginalisation, neurodiversity, trauma and struggle
- The home environment is still the best teacher for relational skills
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The longer you âgo withoutâ, the harder it is to get it back. To bring back your intimate vibrancy, and chuck out the âroommate vibesâ, you need to know whatâs blocking you, and why, and what youâre going to do about it.
So letâs move beyond obligation, complacency, resentment and neglect, and letâs centre the wellbeing of the self, the relationship and the family unit, to bring back sexual connection.
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How do you as a mother embrace the change as your child grows up, but navigate the grief you feel, with grace?
This podcast gives you three clear tools and processes to avoid getting stuck when you cling on to particular ages and stages of your childâs development.
In this episode we discuss:
Shifting your focus on keeping them closeA loss of control can feel like a loss of safetyThe acute awareness of separateLooking back and our tendency to either catastrophise or wear rose-coloured glassesOur children are not committed to us, theyâre committed to their own highest valuesWhere thereâs loss, thereâs gainIf youâre stuck in a story, you need to balance it by the oppositeWe can find ourselves focussing so much on how to âbecomeâ the mother and embracing matrescence, that we forget there can be equal pain, suffering and growth in unbecoming that centralised figureThe invitation this can be to find more of you
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The struggles are different, but are they harder? In the generations gone by, where women were relegated to âhome dutiesâ, there was a confinement, but also a simplicity. Today, thereâs privilege, and also struggle as a result of that privilege.
In this conversation we open up some key points for you to consider as you wrestle with this question.
In this episode we discuss:
Was the intense overwhelm always the case? Or are we becoming âtoo softâ?Thereâs a burden of responsibility when we know more about child and human developmentNowadays kids tend to have bigger behaviours because of unprecedented sensory overload on the nervous systemThe cultural blaming of mothersPatriarchial mothering systems creating mental & physical load-hoardingWorldview comparison creating struggle to be in the life youâve createdNuclear functioning of the family unitRecognising the privilege in thriving vs surviving
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As we grow in our adulthood and authenticity, inevitably, what also grows is not being liked.
Our level of comfort or discomfort involved in not being liked, will determine the level of fulfilment and freedom, or disconnection and futility we feel.
So letâs talk about:
Your magnetism and whatâs working for youChoosing yourself over others versus focusing on being the peacekeeperBalancing your self-infatuation with your light sideLearning how to like the pieces of you that youâve cast in shadowTo explore feminine embodiment, intimacy and relationship in Honey Club with Julie, visit https://julietenner.love/
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Do you ever think âIf I can just get this doneâŠIâll feel worthyâ only you never quite feel enough? What would it be like to separate your list, from your worth? Letâs go there in this conversation.
In this episode we discuss:
When we look outside for our value, we devalue our workYou can make not getting to your list mean something negative, or you can make it mean an investment in your valuesMotherhood invariably holds the paradox of one foot in âfunâ and one foot in âresponsibilityâWhere are you feeling weighed down and resentful and what are you choosing to believe about that?Thereâs some truth in âclear space, clear mindâAnd the inverse is equally true, where weâre using cleaning as a control strategyRigidity creates the punishmentBeing in conversation with your kidsâ valuesThe lower your self-worth, the more the list will feel like your worth
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Letâs talk about the swing of resentment and infatuation with our children - which is completely normal! Let this conversation and tools unlock you so you can gain capacity, gratitude and heart-bursting love back again.
In this episode we discuss:
- What spacious, attuned and respectful communication with our children really looks like
- Denying the value of your authentic expression
- Acknowledging your anger where itâs authentic
- The power of self-acknowledgment for the impact that your childâs behaviours have on you
- Regulated means connected to yourself
- Authentic communication means connected to you truth; not shutting it down or vomiting it over
- Itâs hard living with the expressions of your repressions
- The natural in-breath and out-breath of love and parenting
- The goal is to embrace the synthesis of infatuation and resentment, because that is love
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Let us walk you through a practical process of connecting and holding your power physically, mentally and spiritually so that you can feel deeply connected, authentic and powerful in your own life, irrespective of outside circumstances or people.
In this episode we discuss:
- How to stay connected with yourself within the pressure of motherhood
- The governance you have over your body, rather than shutting down
- Your perceived responsibility to âhold it allâ creates a stress response
- Learning the language of your body
- Changing attachments and perceptions to change how you feel
- The âresetâ so you can come back to yourself
- Whatâs your bigger picture and vision?
- Being the woman who lives up to that vision
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Most of our listeners are fairly in touch with their own experience of being mothered, and based on that, will lead themselves with one of two choices: 1. Replicate the experience. 2. Do the opposite.
Through heartfelt story and potent wisdom, in this episode we give you the insights to lead yourself in heart-connected mothering and grand parenting by opening yourself up to different experiences so you can create a mothering experience that is aligned and inspired, not obligated or in reaction.
In this episode we discuss:
- Grandparent goals
- Letting your children lead themselves, and your parenting meeting them where theyâre at
- Allowing for a childâs normal developmental struggle, not seeking to remove it
- Infatuation with your provision
- Easing burden versus taking away valuable struggle
- The mother archetype that gives permission to rest and return to herself
- Appreciation deactivates expectation
- Our responsibility is to the relationship weâre creating
- Holding yourself in whatâs uncomfortable so you can create more choice in your life
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In this episode we give you 10 easily accessible, easy-to-do ideas on how to break the BS cycles of disconnection and resentment and get back on the connection train thatâs taking you to destination âthe relationshipâ you want to live.
In this episode we discuss:
- What are you an energetic match for?
- What do you feel worthy of?
- What are you available for?
- Asking for what you want
- Halting disappointment cycles
- Growing who you are to grow your relationship
- It takes way more energy to âhold backâ than it does to give love
- The part of you thatâs not dialled into your intimacy needs
- Ten easy, cool ideas to get back on track!
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The point of this podcast is to leap before youâre ready, and do the thing that makes no sense, even though itâs hard. We want you to have the courage to back your dreams instead of staying in the excruciating agony that is âthe waiting placeâ.
Donât focus on perfect, and move forwards with us, through our lessons and learnings that you can implement straight away.
In this episode we discuss:
- Just fucking starting!
- Embracing the peaks of the experience, and the valleys when it all feels too hard.
- Thereâs medicine and service in your pain and wobble
- Holding yourself in the valleys, be reconnecting to why youâre here, thatâs not dependent on outcomes
- Waiting to âhave spaceâ after you tidy âthis messâ is folly
- Life doesnât get easier, you just get more accountable
- All parts of you need a creative pursuit
- If you wait for perfect youâll wait forever
- The scared part within us is there to listen to, and check in with, so you can move into greater alignment
- Stop waiting for people to agree with you
- Moving beyond âI can only do this if I have your blessingâ
- Your service is always serving someone
- Itâs no one elseâs responsibility to hold your vision
- Moving beyond ghosting or resenting social media
- Recognising the opportunities your ancestors never had, to use your voice in the world
- Reinvention is the only certainty
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How do you allow for more choice and more freedom, whilst also balancing family rules and boundaries? From sleepovers to language use, to the individual freedoms kids want as they grow, how do you hand over responsibility to your children, whilst navigating with a compass that feels safe and nurturing for you.
In this episode we discuss:
Holding on or handing over responsilbity to your children as they growParenting the same or the opposite of your own personal experienceBringing clarity to where your rules come from and discerning if theyâre still true for youAttuning to the bigger vision you have for your familyRealising we look to a rule to make us feel safe when weâre stressedChoosing your rules mindfully so theyâre more likely to be adhered toTransparency when itâs challenging, so you have more space to âstay with itâThe self-checkin checklistBorrowing other peopleâs perspectivesGetting clarity on what youâre willing to negotiate and what youâre notInviting in co-parents and kids to the negotiations and discussions
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Youâve learnt into acceptance through part 1, which creates more spaciousness, so letâs go deeper into how *not* to burn your energy through fighting or collapsing into your current shitshow.
In this episode we explore:
Acceptance is a mindset shiftAcceptance is a perception shiftHow to shift your perception and mindsetThe fruits of abundance are often heralded by intensityHow to shift your perception to find nervous system safetyFinding small gifts within the struggleAsking yourself what you need to be able to rise to this next level situationKnowing what you need to be able to sustain yourself and your energy through a trialling periodMoving beyond gritting your teeth to âget it doneâAccessing more capacity through acceptanceMove your body to move your mindLinking your physical strength to your mental strengthKnowing when a strategy is supportive, or when itâs destructive
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Whether youâre 3 months postpartum and your world is upside down, or you donât know how youâll do more intensity with more children, âlifeâ just feels hard and chaotic alongside self-growth, relationship, work and kidsâŠthis episode is for you!
Fighting or collapsing in a period of intensity just burns your energy - so how do you move towards acceptance so you can find moments of peace and pockets of spaciousness?
In this episode we explore:
This is not bigger than youâŠtapping into your strengthDrawing on where youâve done this before so you can trust you can do it againOur feelings need a stage, but if we stay there, we just get stuckComparing your shitshow to someone elseâs masteryStopping the âcomparisonitisâ that takes you down for daysMoving one step at a time is enoughOffering yourself âresetâ momentsTapping into the wisdom of birth to inform how you move forwards in life
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What do our kids need to feel connected to themselves, and easeful in different environmentâŠand what do we need? We have to reconcile that we are inaccurate interpreters of our child, and the situation we find tricky, due to our own wounds. So how do we cultivate flexibility in our parenting, build connection with caregivers and foster secure attachment? Letâs explore together.
In this episode we discuss:
Donât label your kidsâŠlook for where theyâre the oppositeGet curious about your childrenâs behaviours and what theyâre revealing about their inner experienceSeparation anxiety as normal and healthy from an attachment point of viewFacilitating and replication moments that âdoâ work, to create more easeKnowing what you need to feel less anxious and more supportedHow you can help your child bond with caregivers and feel comfortable in new environmentsThe âgood childâ is entangled with the âgood motherâIf we donât care for ourselves, we rely on our world to be okay, in order for us to be okayDonât collapse when your own anxious attachment rises when your child strugglesNot hinging our worth based on societyâs standards of âsuccessful childrenâ
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We want you to enjoy your January, versus having a consistent, low-level activation & focus on whatâs looming. Itâs possible to set yourself up for back to school not to feel âtoo muchâ and like youâve confidently got this. Youâre just a few steps away, so letâs get started.
In this episode we discuss:
Identifying where your anxiety is coming fromAuditing where you got flustered this year, and it didnât work for anyoneGetting specific so you can get solution-focussedKnowing what you need to be more supportedNot having to recover from drop-offDiscerning whatâs yours and whatâs your childâsAcknowledging where youâre not ready and avoidingWorking out how to set yourself up for successAllowing grace as you go through a practice phase
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The sting, stings, when thereâs something in it for you, but gosh it hurts, doesnât it?! How do we hold our space bubble as our childrenâs vocabulary grows and their complaints feel deeply personal? Letâs kit you up through practical steps and personal story.
In this episode we discuss:
- The sting doesnât leave unless we enter it
- Recognising when your ego is in a bruised state
- Our triggers are personal and entangled with our inner child/teen
- Our children as potent mirrors
- Practicing staying connected to yourself rather than leaving yourself
- Perspective shifts to make it sting less
- Holding the goal of living in authentic relationship with our children
- Knowing how to get yourself into your own space bubble versus holding it 24/7
- Donât throw away the whole batter when you get one burnt pancake!
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As a woman who lived her life from her womb and honoured the changes in her female body and vagina, who could never imagine never having a periodâŠhow is Julie after major pelvic surgery?
In this honest and open conversation, we ask all the questions and go all the places so you can make your own informed journey.
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