Afleveringen
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In Part 2 of our conversation with Rachel and Jonathan from the Not a Bad Parent Podcast, we dive into one of the most important conversations a parent can have: identity.
In a world constantly telling our kids who they should be, how they should look, and how they should measure up, how do we help them hear God's voice above all the noise?
This episode explores how our own identity impacts the way we parent, why understanding how God uniquely wired each child matters, and how parents can learn to call out the gifts, strengths, and purpose God has placed inside their children.
We discuss:⢠Why helping kids understand their identity makes them more resilient and confident⢠The danger of comparing our children to others⢠How our own wounds and false identities affect our parenting⢠The power of "calling out the gold" in our kids⢠Why encouragement can shape a child's future⢠The role of community in helping children discover who they are⢠How to recognize and nurture your child's God-given gifts⢠The importance of hearing God's voice as parents
One of the most powerful reminders from this conversation is that we cannot help our children know who they are until we are continually learning who God says we are.
If you've ever wondered how to raise confident, secure, faith-filled kids in today's culture, this episode is for you.
Be sure to like, subscribe, and share this episode with another parent who needs encouragement.
Connect with Rachel & JonathanPodcast: Not a Bad Parent Podcast
Books & Resources Mentioned
Fearless Living by Jamie Winship
The Problem of Pain by C. S. Lewis
Key Questions Discussed in This Episode⢠Who is God to you?⢠Who are you in God?⢠What has He given you to do right now?
These simple but powerful questions can transform the way you see yourself, your children, and your purpose.
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Every child is uniquely designed by God and sometimes that design looks very different from our own.
In this episode of Our Perspective, Jonathan and Rachael Starrett share what theyâve learned about parenting children with different personalities, communication styles, interests, and ways of seeing the world. Itâs easy to connect with kids who think like we do, but what happens when they donât?
Together, we talk about the importance of leaning in instead of pulling away, choosing curiosity over frustration, and intentionally creating space for our children to be who God made them to be.
We discuss how as parents we need to selflessly lean out from our own preferences and learn the language of our child, and build strong connections that prevent distance and misunderstanding.
If youâve ever felt disconnected from one of your children or wondered how to better understand them, this conversation will encourage you to slow down, get curious, and pursue connection. Because some of the most beautiful parent-child relationships are built when we choose to lean in, especially when itâs not easy.
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In this episode of Our Perspective, Carmen and Pat continue sharing what God taught them while walking 500 miles across Spain on the Camino de Santiago.
What started as a physical journey became a deeply healing one.
We talk about:⢠Building your life around Christ⢠Keeping the church at the center of your home⢠Attachment styles and how childhood experiences shape us⢠Honest conversations between parents and kids⢠Learning to apologize, forgive, and heal together⢠How God can reveal wounds we didnât even realize were there
This episode is raw, honest, emotional, and full of grace. Our prayer is that it encourages families to communicate openly, extend grace to one another, and remember that healing often happens in the middle of the journey.
No parent is perfect. No family is perfect. But God meets us in the hard conversations and brings healing where we least expect it.
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One year later⌠weâre finally sharing the story of our El Camino journey. đ¤
In this episode of Our Perspective, Carmen and her mom reflect on walking 500 miles across Spain on the Camino de Santiago â a trip that became so much more than just an adventure.
From moments of surrender, deep conversations, and unexpected encounters with people from all over the world, to learning how to slow down and truly walk with God⌠this journey changed both of them forever.
We talk about:⢠What God taught us on the trail⢠Learning to surrender control⢠Sharing our faith with strangers⢠The beauty of slowing down⢠Intentional time between parents and kids⢠How God meets us in the journey, not just the destination
This episode is full of stories, laughter, honest moments, and reminders that your story matters â and that every conversation can point people back to Jesus.
We hope this encourages you to slow down, trust God with the unknown, and create intentional moments with the people you love most.
Donât forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs the reminder to keep walking with God. đ¤
Go leave people better than you found them!
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What happens when your kids start being influenced more by their friends than by you?How do you stay a trusted voice in their life without becoming controlling?
In this episode of Our Perspective, we dive into some of the hardest parenting questions about influence, friendships, boundaries, independence, and raising kids with strong identity and character.
Through honest conversation, personal stories, and practical wisdom, we talk about what it looks like to parent intentionally through every stage â from elementary school friendships to middle school influence and preparing kids for adulthood.
In this episode we discuss:- How to teach kids what healthy friendships look like- Why identity in Christ matters so much as kids grow older- The difference between control and intentional influence- How to create open conversations instead of lectures- Setting boundaries without pushing your kids away- Giving age-appropriate freedom and letting kids learn through consequences- Funny family stories, hard parenting moments, and lessons we learned along the way
This conversation is filled with encouragement for parents who want to protect their kids while also preparing them to become confident, independent adults with strong values and faith.
If this episode encouraged you, make sure to like, subscribe, and share it with another parent who may need this conversation đ
Go leave people better.
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Welcome back to Our Perspective Podcast! Weâre continuing our mini-series where we answer YOUR questionsâand this episode is packed with some really honest, practical, and heartfelt conversations around parenting.
In this episode, we dive into:
⢠How to handle kids who are outgoing at home but shy in public⢠The balance between building confidence and honoring your childâs personality⢠What it looks like to discipline with understanding, not shame⢠And a big question: Is it ever too late to parent differently?
We talk about unpacking your childâs heart, creating safe spaces for growth, and how small, intentional moments can shape confidence over time. We also get real about parenting guilt, grace, and the power of humility, prayer, and starting againâno matter what season youâre in.
If youâve ever felt unsure, overwhelmed, or like you âmissed your momentâ as a parent⌠this conversation is for you.
Itâs never too late. Donât stop showing up.
Donât forget to like, comment, and subscribeShare this with someone who needs encouragement todayConnect with Our Perspective: đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast đ Patricia: @patricia_6710 đ Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d
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In this episode of Our Perspective Podcast, weâre doing something a little different⌠weâre answering your questions completely unfiltered and off the dome.
From parenting through disappointment to helping your kids navigate feeling left out, we get real about what weâve learned (and what weâre still learning). We talk about the balance of letting kids feel their emotions without letting those emotions define them, and why pointing them back to the truth, not just positivity, matters more than anything.
This conversation is full of honest moments, personal stories, and practical wisdom for navigating tough seasons with your kidsâwhile keeping their identity rooted in Christ.
If youâve ever wondered:⢠How do I help my kids through disappointment?⢠What do I say when they feel left out or rejected?⢠How do I parent with both truth and grace?
This episode is for you.
Weâre not perfect, but weâre intentional. And we hope this conversation encourages you in your own journey.
Donât forget to like, comment, and subscribeâstay tuned Part 2!!!Connect with Our Perspective: đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast đ Patricia: @patricia_6710 đ Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d
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What does it really look like to raise kids with a strong moral foundation and not just âgood behavior,â but hearts that know right from wrong? In this episode, we talk about parenting with intention and the everyday moments that shape character. Like conversations in the car, explaining the âwhy,â and teaching kids to think beyond themselves. Because itâs not just about behavior, itâs about heart posture. Mary Grace joins the conversation to share what this looked like growing up. She talks about what worked, what didnât, and how it shaped who she is today. If youâre a parent (or hope to be), this episode will challenge how you think about discipline, trust, and raising other-focused, Christ-centered kids. ⨠In this episode: â Why âbeing a good kidâ isnât the goal â Teaching kids to think beyond themselves â The power of explaining the âwhyâ â Real-life parenting moments (including a few debates đ ) â Moving from behavior â heart transformation If this encouraged you, share it with another parent đ¤ Donât forget to like, comment, and subscribe! Connect with Our Perspective: đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast đ Patricia: @patricia_6710 đ Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d
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What does it actually look like to raise kids with both grace AND structure? In this episode of Our Perspective Podcast, Thomas, Carmen, and Pat sit down for a real and honest conversation about parenting, emotions, and building a home rooted in trust.From practical tools like â5-minute warningsâ and âMommy, may I appeal?â to deeper conversations about feelings, respect, and self-controlâthis episode is packed with wisdom for both parents and kids. Centered around Ephesians 6:1â4, we unpack what it means to lead and honor within the family in a way that actually works in real life.In this episode, youâll learn: Practical parenting rhythms that reduce conflict (and yelling đ) How to create structure while still giving kids a voice Why âappealsâ can build trust instead of rebellion The difference between validating feelings vs. being controlled by them How to raise emotionally healthy sons and daughters Why character lead even when emotions are loud Feelings are real, but they donât get to lead. Whether youâre a parent, a young adult, or somewhere in between, this episode will challenge and encourage you to build stronger, healthier relationships. Like, comment, and subscribe for more real conversations on faith, family, and everyday life. Connect with Our Perspective: đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast đ Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 đ Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d
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Every parent wrestles with this question: Am I holding on too tight⌠or letting go too soon? In this episode, we unpack âThe Funnel Effect,â a visual approach to parenting that begins with strong guidance and gradually shifts toward independence. Because the goal isnât raising kids who just obey you⌠Itâs raising adults who follow God on their own.Connect with Our Perspective:đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcastđ Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 đ Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d
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Sibling rivalry is real, but it doesnât have to last forever.In this episode, Thomas and Carmen share how they went from constant fighting to becoming best friends. From growing up side-by-side in sports, dance, and everyday life, to learning empathy, celebrating each other, and understanding the âwhyâ behind it allâthis conversation is full of practical insight and encouragement for families raising siblings who will one day be each otherâs greatest support.Connect with Our Perspective:đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast đ Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 đ Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d
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In this episode, Thomas and I talk through the unexpected turns that shaped his journey and how God was present in every one of them. From his college experience and involvement in church to law school and meaningful conversations along the way, his path ultimately took a wild detour into a forestry grad program at UGA, which was so unexpected. This story is full of moments that didnât go as planned but led exactly where he needed to be.We also dive into the question so many of us face: how do you navigate uncertainty when the path isnât clear? Through it all, this episode is a reminder that detours arenât distractions; theyâre often where the most growth happens. And for parents, this conversation hits close to home. Walking alongside your adult children in seasons of uncertainty isnât easy. Weâre no longer called to parent the same way; we're called to coach from the sidelines. Itâs a shift that requires trust, patience, and a deep reliance on God as He writes their story. Connect with Our Perspective: đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast đ Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 đ Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d
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Thomas reflects on his time in High School and the identity in God that made him unshakable. Even without a big circle of friends. We talk about confidence, identity, and learning not to compare.
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In this episode of Our Perspective Podcast, we share the story of how God provided the right male role models for Thomas, not through striving or control, but through surrender.
As a mom, I tried to orchestrate relationships out of fear, knowing how important strong men would be in my sonâs life. But God had it covered.
From meeting Pastor Mike Ash in a lobby to moments that shaped Thomasâ journey.
Learning to tie a tie, men praying over him for Jesuit, celebrating his 15th birthday, high school graduation, and college milestones, this episode is a testimony of divine timing and faithful mentorship.
We also talk about:
* Pastor Mike Moore bringing Thomas on stage at Summer Explosion* Thomas sharing his testimony at Clash* Standing before courageous men and giving a bold charge* What it means to trust God instead of forcing outcomes
Anchor Verse:Exodus 14:14 â âThe Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.â
If you are parenting out of fear, waiting on provision, or wondering if God sees your childâs future, this episode is your reminder that He is already fighting for them.
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Thomas finally joins the podcast for an honest conversation about being the firstborn son, growing up in the church, and finding your voice as a young man.
We talk about college, grad school plans, communication styles, building relationships with professors, and what it means to lead with gentleness instead of dominance. Thomas also shares his thoughts on faith, identity, and what itâs like choosing gentleness in a culture that often celebrates dominance.
If youâre navigating young adulthood, faith, family dynamics, or firstborn pressure, this episode is for you.Connect with Our Perspective:đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcastđ Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710đ Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d
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Before the microphones. Before the podcast. Before anyone was watching. There was a moment in a grocery store during COVID that sparked something in MGâs heart. What began as one small act of generosity turned into weekly $100 giveaways and thousands of dollars poured into single moms, dads, and foster families. In this episode, we talk about what it looks like to recognize your childâs calling early and how sometimes what feels small is actually preparation for something much bigger. Parents, pay attention. The calling is usually there long before the title ever is.Call it out. Speak life over it. Make room for it. I think this episode has been my favorite.Itâs the sweetest story of when I finally recognized MGâs calling.But the truth is⌠it had been there the whole time. đ¤God is the kindest, donât you think?
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This week, Mary Grace joins me for a heartfelt conversation about motherhood, calling, and trusting God with our childrenâs futures.
We recap the last few episodes and dive into the dreams we have for our kids and the tension between planning for them and surrendering them to the Lord.
Mary Grace shares the story of her mission trip and the defining moment when God called her into ministry. Her journey is a beautiful reminder that God often shapes purpose in unexpected places.
I also share a line from my journal that has deeply shaped how I see motherhood: âMotherhood is to love who they were created to be, not what you want them to be.â As Proverbs 16:9 says, âIn their hearts humans plan their course, but the Lord establishes their steps.â
This episode is about releasing control, embracing calling, and trusting that Godâs plans for our children are far greater than anything we could design ourselves.
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In this episode, itâs just the girls. Carmen and Mary Grace share what itâs really been like navigating very different communication styles while growing up in the same home. They open up about how they process, express emotions, and respond under pressure, and how those differences showed up in real life, especially while being coached by similar leaders in high school.From misunderstandings to growth moments, they reflect on how learning to understand one another changed not just how they communicated, but how they related as sisters. This conversation is honest, reflective, and full of sister perspective showing how awareness, grace, and a willingness to listen can strengthen any relationship. If youâre a parent, sibling, or coach trying to navigate differences without losing connection, this episode is for you.Helpful Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Enneagram Information: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ PDP Communication Tool: https://wowconsultinginc.com/pdptools/ Connect with Our Perspective: đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast đ Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 đ Follow Mary Grace: @_marygrace_d
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In this episode, we continue the conversation around communication, but this time, we get more personal. We share a few more stories, laugh a lot, and give you a deeper look into how the girls communicate, process, and show up in real life. These early episodes are really about laying the foundation: what our home looked like, how we talked through hard moments, and how understanding communication styles shaped how we related to one another as a family.Itâs honest, lighthearted, and full of real-life moments that helped us grow in empathy and connection. If youâre a parent trying to better understand your kids (or yourself), this episode is an invitation to listen, laugh, and learn alongside us. Helpful Resources Mentioned in the Episode: Enneagram Information: https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ PDP Communication Tool: https://wowconsultinginc.com/pdptools/ Connect with Our Perspective: đ Instagram: @ourperspective.podcast đ Follow Patricia: @patricia_6710 đ Follow MG: @_marygrace_d
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In this episode, we do a deep dive into communication stylesâhow they show up under pressure, how they differ from person to person, and why understanding them matters so much in real life.
We kick things off with a hilarious and humbling story from a mountain hike that went very wrong, very fast.
The Hike That Changed Everything
The four of usâThomas, Carmen, Mary Grace, and myselfâset out for what we thought would be an easy 8-mile hike. No big deal⌠or so we thought.
Instead, we somehow ended up hiking 18 miles, all the way up to the Appalachian Approach Trail.
No cell serviceNot enough waterCompletely unpreparedAnd by the time we reached the top with 9 miles still left to walk down, all we had left between us was one bag of nutsWhat followed was a perfect real-life example of how different personalities and communication styles show up under stress. Every Enneagram number on that hike made itself very clearâand the reactions were wildly different (and honestly, pretty funny).
Enneagram in Real Life
As we retell the hike, we unpack how each personâs Enneagram number showed up:
How some stayed calmHow others took chargeHow some spiraled internallyAnd how miscommunication made an already tough situation even harderItâs a real-world look at how personality differences can either clashâor complement each otherâwhen things donât go as planned.
Introducing the PDP Framework
From there, the conversation transitions into the P, C, D, E communication framework (also referred to as the PDP tool), a tool Iâve personally used with all three of my kids to help them:
Understand how they communicateRecognize how others communicate differentlyReduce conflictAnd build healthier conversationsWe walk through each letterâP, C, D, and E:
What each one representsHow it shows up in communicationHow it can be misunderstoodAnd how understanding it can completely change the way you relate to your kids (and everyone else)đ A link to the PDP resource is included in the show notes so you can explore it more deeply on your own.
Why This Matters
This episode is a reminder that:
Communication breaks down fastest when weâre tired, stressed, or unpreparedPersonality differences arenât problemsâtheyâre informationAnd understanding how your kids are wired can turn frustration into empathyWhether youâre a parent, spouse, leader, or friend, this episode will give you practical insightâand a good laugh along the way.Information on the Enneagram - https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/ Infomation on the PDP- https://wowconsultinginc.com/pdptools/ Connect with Our Perspectiveđ Instagram @ourperspective.podcast đ Follow Patricia @patricia_6710 đ Follow MG @ _marygrace_d
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