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âSo Jesus said to the Jews who had believed him, âIf you abide in my word, you are truly my disciples, and you will know the truth, and the truth will set you freeââ (John 8:31â32 ESV)
To abide in Christ is to remain, continue, or stay in Christ. It means taking what we know about who God is, who we are in Christ, and what the Bible says, and using those things to grow in a permanent relationship with the Lord. It means trusting him for all thingsâtrusting we are loved, trusting his word is true, and trusting in his promises.
Truly knowing and following Jesus means continuing to grow our relationship with him. Itâs a relationship worth investing in because it is the one relationship that matters: a relationship with Jesus gives us eternal life, peace in this lifetime, and allows us to bear good fruit and do good works.
This week let's pray that our kids will know and abide with Christ their entire lives and commit to deepening their relationship with him every day.
Jesus, I pray that ____________ would abide in you. That they would remain in your love and choose that every day of their lives. May they read scripture and learn about you in a way that lasts. Help them to keep your truth in their mind so that they may choose your ways over the worldâs ways, and let it sink into their heart so that they become more and more like you. Amen.
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My friend, Heather MacFayden, is a mom of four boys and I am a mom of two girls. We have two very different (but equally enjoyable) parenting experiences. We are both podcasters, but we are also real life friends. We have had many conversations over the last 10 years about the unique differences between raising boys and girls.
We decided to take our offline conversations online for you! Part 1 is over at her podcast, Donât Mom Alone - Boys vs Girls (Part 1): The Early Years. And today, you will hear Part 2 which is all about the dating years. We even get into the anxiety that comes with dances like homecoming and prom.
I learned several things from Heather about how boys are feeling during these dating years. After our chat, I immediately went and talked to the girls about how the guys may feel used at times. They are more than a prop in a photo. I was encouraged to hear that her boys want deep conversations and interesting girls.
My goal for this conversation was to grow our understanding and empathy of the opposite gender - especially if you only have 1 gender of children in your home. Let us know what you think! What do you wish moms of girls knew about boys? What do you wish moms of boys knew about girls? Send me a DM!
In this episode, we discuss:
-Dating challenges for teens today
-Ideas on how to help boys and girls interact when curiosity begins
-How social media and phones are impacting the dating process
-Seeing behind the homecoming drama - what is going on with each gender
Enjoy!
Courtney
(02:00) Empathy in Parenting: Boys vs. Girls
(04:04) The Challenges of Modern Dating
(10:05) Navigating Social Events and Relationships
(18:08) The Impact of Social Media on Dating Dynamics
(20:21) The Pressure of Appearances in Relationships
(21:06) Navigating Modesty and Self-Confidence
(22:38) The Emotional Impact of Rejection
(23:52) Social Media's Role in Self-Perception
(24:40) Understanding Boys' Perspectives on Relationships
(25:45) The Importance of Communication and Planning
(27:39) The Dynamics of Dating and Social Expectations
(29:52) Boys' Leadership in Social Situations
(32:11) The Cost of Social Events and Expectations
(33:34) Teaching Boys About Respect and Kindness
(35:27) Building Confidence in Girls
(37:53) Encouraging Individuality in a Conformist Culture
(39:55) A Prayer for Our Children
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Resources from todayâs show:
HeatherMacFadyen.com
Donât Mom Alone Podcast
The Best Christmas Pageant Ever
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âAs iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friendâ (Proverbs 27:17 NLT)
Godly friends make us better, not out of shame or peer pressure, but out of a desire to see us faithful to God and pursuing his will for our lives. Godly friends know that God wants more for us than what the world has to offer, and so they will push us in that direction when we start to veer from the path.
Who our kids hang out with is important, iron sharpens iron and bad company corrupts character (1 Corinthians 15:33). Godly friends will help our kids grow in their faith and keep them accountable. Ungodly friends will bring them further and further from Godâs truth.
So this week, letâs pray that our kids will be surrounded by true, godly friends and be a light to the friends around them who donât know Jesus.
Jesus, I pray that ______________ surrounds
themselves with friends who know and love you. I pray they would encourage each other in faith, hold each other accountable, and that their friendships would draw them closer to you. Where there is conflict, may they be quick to show forgiveness, just as you forgave us. May _____________ be a light to those around them, always showing what a godly friend is. Amen.
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These two episodes with Dr. David and Amanda Erickson are packed with practical ideas for the little years. Truthfully, it can be overwhelming to determine how to discipline, redirect, manage chaos while not breaking the spirit of your child. I see a cultural shift from one extreme (punishing behavior out of kids and using fear) to another extreme - letting the kids run the house with no rules.
This couple has an approach that I really believe in - they combine child development with scriptural truth. I wish I had had them when my kids were younger. They focus on âwhat to doâ vs âwhat not to doâ which puts an upfront emphasis on your familyâs values and expectations.
My favorite part is when they talk about how to take a biblical value like âtrustworthinessâ and live it out in the home. As you listen to this episode, I am praying you feel equipped and not discouraged. Their way isnât a prescribed formula - itâs a parenting philosophy that has many benefits and ideas attached to it.
When my kids were little, it was so chaotic at times and I would get so overwhelmed at my lack of parenting principles and felt like I kept messing it up. You are not alone. Donât give up! This work and effort will pay off.
In this episode, we chat about:
Cultural shifts in parenting stylesHow to build trust and honesty in parenting How to redirect behavior and manage chaosIdeas for discipline and consequencesEnjoy!
Courtney
Part 1
(03:03) Parenting Principles and Practical Application
(05:55) Cultural Shifts in Parenting Styles
(09:04) The Importance of Early Emotional Development
(11:53) Building Trust and Honesty in Parenting
(15:11) Consequences and Discipline Strategies
(17:53) Redirecting Behavior and Managing Chaos
Part 2
(2:30) Understanding the Impact of Fear on Parenting
(6:33) The Importance of Separation in Conflict Resolution
(9:10) Timeouts: Purposeful or Punitive?
(12:10) Channeling Physical Energy in Children
(16:20) Teaching Control Over Emotions and Actions 5
(22:00) The Role of Respect in Parenting 2
(23:48) Assuming the Best: Navigating Disrespect 3
(27:20) Affirming Positive Behavior in Children 4
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Christian Parenting
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Courtney DeFeo
Resources from todayâs show:
The Flourishing Family - new book
Identity Simplified
The Best Christmas Pageant Ever
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These two episodes with Dr. David and Amanda Erickson are packed with practical ideas for the little years. Truthfully, it can be overwhelming to determine how to discipline, redirect, manage chaos while not breaking the spirit of your child. I see a cultural shift from one extreme (punishing behavior out of kids and using fear) to another extreme - letting the kids run the house with no rules.
This couple has an approach that I really believe in - they combine child development with scriptural truth. I wish I had had them when my kids were younger. They focus on âwhat to doâ vs âwhat not to doâ which puts an upfront emphasis on your familyâs values and expectations.
My favorite part is when they talk about how to take a biblical value like âtrustworthinessâ and live it out in the home. As you listen to this episode, I am praying you feel equipped and not discouraged. Their way isnât a prescribed formula - itâs a parenting philosophy that has many benefits and ideas attached to it.
When my kids were little, it was so chaotic at times and I would get so overwhelmed at my lack of parenting principles and felt like I kept messing it up. You are not alone. Donât give up! This work and effort will pay off.
In this episode, we chat about:
Cultural shifts in parenting stylesHow to build trust and honesty in parenting How to redirect behavior and manage chaosIdeas for discipline and consequencesEnjoy!
Courtney
Part 1
(03:03) Parenting Principles and Practical Application
(05:55) Cultural Shifts in Parenting Styles
(09:04) The Importance of Early Emotional Development
(11:53) Building Trust and Honesty in Parenting
(15:11) Consequences and Discipline Strategies
(17:53) Redirecting Behavior and Managing Chaos
Part 2
(2:30) Understanding the Impact of Fear on Parenting
(6:33) The Importance of Separation in Conflict Resolution
(9:10) Timeouts: Purposeful or Punitive?
(12:10) Channeling Physical Energy in Children
(16:20) Teaching Control Over Emotions and Actions 5
(22:00) The Role of Respect in Parenting 2
(23:48) Assuming the Best: Navigating Disrespect 3
(27:20) Affirming Positive Behavior in Children 4
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Courtney DeFeo
Resources from todayâs show:
The Flourishing Family - new book
Identity Simplified
The Best Christmas Pageant Ever
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âLet us hold fast the confession of our hope without wavering, for he who promised is faithful. And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works, not neglecting to meet together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another, and all the more as you see the Day drawing nearâ (Hebrews 10:23â25 ESV)
Getting our kids to church can be a real struggle. They may fight you about it at any age (toddler to teen), itâs early in the morning and everyone wants to sleep in, and it can be hard to find a church community that meets the needs of everyone in your family. You may have been hurt by the church and find it difficult to trust a faith community again. If you identify with any of that, you are not alone in these struggles!
But we are not meant to do life alone and church is where we can find our best community. Attending church is also one of the ways we can get to know and experience God more.
The discipleship that happens in church is about relationship. There is a reason people often refer to their congregation as their âchurch family.â It is a place of encouragement where brothers and sisters in Christ can build each other up in love and spur each other on in faith.
So this week, letâs pray that our kids know and understand the value of church. Letâs pray that they will love the church and have a desire to serve with Godâs family. Letâs ask God to help them love going to church and to feel loved, known, and safe there.
God, thank you for the gift of church. I pray that _____________ would love going to church, that it would not be something we convince them to do, but something they participate in out of love for you and your family. May they use their gifts to expand your kingdom and serve your church. Amen.
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I couldnât wait to have a chat with the founder, producer and director of The Chosen, Dallas Jenkins. Although thatâs super cool - I also wanted it to be practical for us as parents. He was fantastic!
My kids are very visual learners and I am sure many of your children are as well, so I wanted to hear his thoughts on creative storytelling. Some kids cannot read the Bible and get what they need right away. They donât understand the context around the stories. Dallas is a master at providing context to scriptural truth through his TV series and films.
This conversation challenged me to keep thinking creatively about how we infuse virtues, values and faith in the lives of my kids. It encouraged me to keep living faith more than I lecture about it. We know that much of lifeâs most valuable lessons are âcaught not taught.â It reminded me to relax if my kids are more into movies, books, music vs reading.
My favorite part is the amazing God story behind his newest movie for kids, The Best Christmas Pageant Ever. It is truly extraordinary how it came about. I can't wait to take my kids to see it (with all of their friends) and kick off the season that is all about the birth of our Savior.
In this episode, we chat about:
How The Chosen series changed my neighborâs lifeHow to use creative storytelling in your parenting How Dallasâ latest movie came about and how it can benefit your familyEnjoy!
Courtney
(00:00) The Power of Friendship and Faith
(02:53) Transformative Impact of 'The Chosen'
(06:05) Family Dynamics and Sacrifices
(09:01) Creative Storytelling in Parenting
(12:00) The New Movie: The Best Christmas Pageant Ever
(14:55) Behind the Scenes of the Movie Production
(17:51) The Journey of Faith and Persistence
(21:00) Encouragement for Families and Communities
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Resources from todayâs show:
The Chosen
The Best Christmas Pageant Ever
Christian Parenting Christmas Gift Guide
Carpool Conversations
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âAnd this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christâto the glory and praise of Godâ (Philippians 1:9â11)
Biblical discernment is understanding something through the power of the Holy Spirit. It means being able to see what is good vs. evil, false teaching vs. truth, wise vs. unwise. Being discerning does not mean being judgemental, though it is easy to fall into that. Being discerning means being able to distinguish the voice and will of God from the noise of the world.
It is so easy to accept what we see on social media, the news, or the internet as truth. But so often, it is far from the truth. Even our favorite Christian writers, podcasters, or pastors could share false teachings. Our kids are growing up in a world that is completely different from the world we grew up in. The access to information alone is overwhelming, which is why we need to be praying that our kids know how to discern Godâs truth in the world around them.
Our kids will face peer pressure to do things that they know arenât right, they will be taught to follow their emotions and desires over the Lord, and they will be told that there are ways that are better than Godâs. The ability to recognize those things as harmful and untrue is a gift that we all desire for our kids.
For our kids to truly live in Godâs will, they need to have a discerning spirit, so letâs pray for their ability to discern truth this week.
Father God, I pray that ____________ will learn to test what they read, hear, and see with scripture. Help them to seek your truth above all else. I pray that your word will guide their paths. May they base their life on your truth instead of the lies of the enemy and of this world. Will you daily renew their minds and make their hearts wholeheartedly devoted to you?
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In this weekâs episode, I have the honor of chatting with Reese - a college-aged friend that I adore. She bravely shares her testimony - one that involves abuse by a coach, a ânot guiltyâ jury decision and Godâs faithfulness through it all. Reese wanted to come on and share her story so that parents see that an authentic faith is often born from lifeâs toughest struggles.
When I asked Reeseâs mom about this journey, this was her text to me.
âMy daughterâs journey reminds us that God can use even our worst fears and redeem them. We canât protect our kids from their testimony. God always takes what the enemy intends for evil for good. Maybe even their very purpose. Trusting him with their growth and process and pain. We were the parents with such tight controls. No sleepovers. No phones until HS. No ipads. Locked down YouTube. My control canât protect her from everything.â
My favorite part is when she shares a story of how God spoke directly to her during some of the hardest parts of her story. It gave me chills and also great comfort. It reminded me that no matter what our kids face - they will never be alone. I can either get swallowed up with fear and the âwhat ifâsâ of parenting or I can make the choice to lean into faith and trust God has them. He has them in the best of times and the worst.
I am so excited for you to hear from an 18-year-old with a solid and authentic faith that wasnât born out of a perfect life. Her faith is hers, itâs tested and itâs remarkable.
In this episode, we discuss:
Reeseâs story of abuse Authentic faith birthed through hardest timesHow she experienced God so personally Reesâs encouragement for parentsEnjoy,
Courtney
00:00
Introduction and Background
02:01
Impacting Children's Faith
04:18
Overcoming Abuse and Finding Identity in Christ
08:47
Timeline and Legal Proceedings
17:06
Experiencing God through Visions and Dreams
19:28
The Table of the Lord
27:50
Encouragement for Parents
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Resources from todayâs show:
Reeseâs ministry - Abundant Grace
God Made All Of Me - recommended book for littles
Birds and Bees
Birds and Bees Episode
Untold - her favorite ministry in Africa
Ellaâs purple dress from Amazon
Identity Simplified
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âBut Jesus told him, 'No! The Scriptures say, "People do not live by bread alone but by every word that comes from the mouth of God"ââ (Matthew 4:4 NLT)
Reading the Bible and memorizing scripture matters because it is one way we can fight the battles in our own livesâboth big and small. Scripture can help our kids (and us!) feel confident in our God-given identity, face a life crisis, and everything in between. Knowing Godâs word also develops our faith and brings us closer to God. Every bit of scripture is alive and active (Hebrews 4:12), God-breathed, and teaches us to live righteously (2 Timothy 3:16).
The more we know Godâs word and keep it in our hearts, the more we understand Godâs heart and his ways, aligning our wills to his. The word of God protects us from the desire to do it all by ourselves and replaces that desire with the desire to let God direct our paths. God loves us too much to leave us to our own devices. He reveals truth to us through his word so that the desires of our hearts become more like his!
So this week, letâs pray that our kids will know the word of God and lean on it to guide them in every area of their lives.
Father God, I pray that ____________ grows to learn your word, love your word, and see it as holy and infallible. May they love the Bible and read it daily with the goal of knowing your heart more and more. May they rely on your word to direct their paths. Remind them to hide your word in their hearts so they can use it to fight any battle they faceânow and in the future. Amen.
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Itâs an absolute delight to have my dear friend Lysa TerKeurst on the podcast today. Lysa has been sharing her deepest struggles through writing books, devotionals and bible studies for decades. She has a beautiful way combining biblical truth and heartfelt empathy that makes us all feel less alone.
In todayâs episode, we discuss TRUST and DISTRUST. She shares that when you starve a relationship from trust - itâs like not giving a human air to breathe. I can imagine that many of you are working through some trust issues - we all are. Whether itâs a broken friendship or marriage or a strained relationship with a family member or dear friend. It can be really hard to manage the healing and repairing process for yourself and even more difficult when it involves your children.
One of my favorite parts is when she talks about the importance of healing in a community. She shares how natural it can be to isolate when youâre hurt - but trust rebuilds in community. I am praying this episode touches a tender topic with such encouragement and practical help.
In this episode we discuss:
Why trust is crucial to all human relationshipsHow to manage broken hearts and relationships while raising kidsHow to move towards healing with resilienceEnjoy!
Courtney
00:00
Practical Wisdom and Biblical Truth: A Conversation on Trust and Distrust
03:16
The Impact of Broken Trust: Emotional Abuse and Betrayal Trauma
15:24
Triggers and Discernment: Patterns of Behavior and Self-Exploration
32:55
Resilience and Healing: Overcoming Broken Trust
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Resources from todayâs show:
LysaTerKeurst.com
I Want To Trust You, But I Canât - Lysaâs newest book
Dr Amen and Lysa - her brain scan
EMDR Therapy
WOW - root cover up
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âThis is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears usâ (1 John 5:14)
One amazing way our kids can know more about God is through prayer. The practice of prayer involves talking to God and listening to God. We tend to be better at the talking part because, with the busyness of our lives, it can be a real challenge to slow ourselves down and listen to God! But we canât hear a whisper when weâre running. As parents, our role is to help guide our kids into a mature faith where they can quiet themselves enough to hear Godâs voice.
Prayer should not be an afterthought in our minds. Going to God and conversing with him should be our first thought when we start a new day, face a dilemma, or experience something great! We know prayer changes things. Prayer transforms hearts, renews minds, and gives us peace that passes all understanding. We need to remember that promise because God, who wants to talk with us, will answer every prayer. It might just look different than we expect â sometimes ânoâ is an answer and other times we wonât understand how he answered a prayer until much later, or even heaven.
So this week letâs pray that our kids stand in confidence, knowing that God always hears them and wants to talk with them.
Lord, may ______________ make prayer a priority in their schedule. When something happens, may their first instinct be to talk to you about it, not anybody else. I pray they learn to hear your voice, submit to your will, and deepen their relationship with you through prayer. Give them an eternal perspective, knowing that all their prayers may not be answered in the way they envision, but they will be answered in your perfect way. May they grow to be a mighty prayer warrior, confident in the transforming power of prayer. Amen.
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Do you ever feel far from God? This week, we get to dive into a crucial conversation with Jeannie Cunnion. She helps us unpack this very common feeling amongst believers. She has so much encouragement around why God desires us to get closer and closer. And then, she also gives us practical ways we can grow closer to God.
There isnât a finish line for growing closer to God. We are all on our own journey with God. Itâs personal and it takes time and itâs never-ending. However, we so often compare ourselves to other Christians in our lives. We believe others have arrived spiritually and we are behind. I am praying this chat gives you assurance and comfort in your own journey - no matter where you are in this season.
My favorite part is when we talk about âeffortâ vs âearn.â Sometimes, we confuse our effort to grow with the desire to earn something. The truth is that we can take steps to get to know God more without getting stuck in the lie that we must earn Godâs love. Let this conversation with Jeannie give you peace and a new desire to grow closer to God through His presence.
In this episode, we discuss:
What to do when you feel far from GodHow do we learn to put effort into our faith - without feeling we must earn itHow to be on your own faith journey - while parenting kids on their own journeyWhy do we do what we donât want to doEnjoy!
Courtney
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Resources from todayâs show:
JeannieCunnion.com
Closer To God - Jeannieâs new devotional
Mom Set Free
Christy Nockels
Carpool Conversations
White Bird
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âTherefore, as Godâs chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patienceâ (Colossians 3:12)
The world will tell our kids many things about who they are, and some of those things will be true and encouraging. Other messages from the world will be lies, and difficult to hear. No matter who is mean to our kids, what school they go to, or what position they play on the field, our kids belong to God. Your child is Godâs child, holy and dearly loved. He or she is called upon, adopted, redeemed, and sanctified. Your child was created with intention for a purpose and God calls them precious.
So letâs pray that our kids will always stand firm in their identity in Christ so that their confidence will not shake when the world feels unsteady. Letâs ask God to help them base their identity and security in him alone.
Father God, thank you for calling __________ your child. Help them to remember that you love them and call them by name, that you have adopted them into your family, and lavish your love upon them. May they know deep in their hearts that their identity does not rest in what the world says about them, but in what you say. You say they are yours! Amen.
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I hope you are finding a theme on this podcast. I am always trying to bring you conversations about real-life problems that us moms face on a daily basis. Also, I want to always point us back to Jesus as well as practical ideas to move forward.
Todayâs episode is one of those issues we face on a regular basis: Alyssa Bethke is passionate about this idea of âbeing all and doing all.â She really digs into why women struggle with this. My intentions arenât always bad as a âdoerâ - they just arenât sustainable. I would love to fix it all, handle it all and make sure everyone in my life is happy. I really, really struggled with this in my 20s and 30s. However, I am so excited that I have grown in this area and found ways to trust what heâs calling me to do - and only those things.
I love how Alyssa asks herself this question, âLord, what is mine to do?â Donât miss this part at the end when she gives us how she practically handles the pressure of many demands on us. As moms, this pressure to help, fix and support our kids is very real. It is very hard to face that reality - that there is never enough time or energy to do and be all. And that is where our faith comes in. How can we really lean into God so that we know what is ours to take and then we have peace surrendering the rest?
In this episode, we discuss:
The struggle of doing it all as a momThe gift of boundaries and how to say noFinding rest in Godâs grace and what he calls us to doEnjoy!
Courtney
Chapters
00:00
Introduction and Background
01:18
The Struggle of Trying to Do It All
08:11
Setting Boundaries and Saying No
11:08
Seeking God's Guidance in Each Season
14:58
The Desire for Control and Predictability
16:16
Finding Rest in God's Grace
16:48
The Struggle of Control and the Call to Surrender
19:05
Honesty and Unmet Expectations in Our Relationship with God
20:33
Parenting: Trusting God and Surrendering Control
25:55
Trusting in God's Goodness and Seeking His Guidance
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Resources from todayâs show:
Alyssa Bethke Instagram
Jeffandalyssa.com
When Doing It All, Is Undoing You - new book
Gamechanger Amazon List
Amazon List - more ideas
White Bird Movie
Carpool Conversations
Christian Parenting store
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âI am telling you these things now while I am still with you. But when the Father sends the Advocate as my representativeâthat is, the Holy Spiritâhe will teach you everything and will remind you of everything I have told youâ (John 14:25â26 NLT)
When we declare Jesus to be our Savior and commit to following him, the Holy Spirit enters us and changes our lives forever! With the Holy Spiritâs help and guidance, we can begin to live more like Jesus and display his character, learn the truth about God, receive and grow in our spiritual gifts, and have the power and courage to share our faith. The same power that raised Jesus from the dead lives in us when we believe. The Holy Spirit helps us in every aspect of our faith journey.
When it comes to our kids, letâs pray that they would position their hearts to know the Holy Spirit and hear his voice, respond to his love, and let him guide their lives.
Lord, may ______________ grow to love you more and more every day. May they feel the presence of your Holy Spirit alive in them. Make their hearts soft so they can be more responsive to you, and when the world tries to pull them away from you and your ways, may they rely on the Holy Spirit to direct their paths. Amen.
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Do you have a brand you love in your house? My girls have been obsessed with all the beautiful jewelry pieces of enewton for many years. I am always intrigued when I see a mom running a massive business. My hunch was that Eizabeth Newton was a faithful, generous and fun CEO. I learned that she is even more than that!
Elizabeth shares her story of raising triplets (and a 2-year-old) in the beginning years of enewton. She shares about her passion for generosity and how that has stayed with the company through the incredible growth and expansion. She also shares some practical ways that you can involve your kids in your business while prioritizing your family above all.
She offers so many nuggets of parenting wisdom through our chat, but I really loved her parting words for us. She encourages us to âshow up and give yourself grace.â I know I needed that reminder as a mom that is trying so hard to get it right. We are doing better than we think. Keep giving it your best and give yourself loads of grace!
In this episode, we discuss:
Juggling business and kidsStarting a business with tripletsInstilling faith practically in her home Conflict, comparison and celebration as siblings Raising independent kidsEnjoy !
Courtney
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and shared connections
03:18 Having fun and not taking oneself too seriously
05:28 Parenting triplets and starting a business
08:54 The growth of enewton and giving back
12:49 Prioritizing presence and grace
15:35 Creating lasting memories and prioritizing what matters
18:08 Incorporating ministry into work and family life
20:24 Celebrating others and teaching independence
25:37 Showing up for your children and giving yourself grace
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Resources from todayâs show:
enewton
enewton Instagram
Flourishing Families
Read Again and Again Bible Storybooks
Christian Parenting store
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âFor this is how God loved the world: He gave his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God sent his Son into the world not to judge the world, but to save the world through himâ (John 3:16â17 NLT)
Jesusâ death on the cross gives us access to God again. Itâs not just about eternal life with him, though he promises his followers that. Choosing Jesus is also about experiencing a peace that passes all understanding and building a relationship with the father right here and right now.
Jesus took what was broken in our world and made it whole again and he can do the same for us.
So this week letâs pray that our kids will know Jesus as the savior of the world and choose to follow him every day of their lives. Letâs pray they would come to know him as the way, the truth, and the life.
Jesus, thank you for coming to the world and sacrificing yourself for our sins. May __________ come to understand the gift of salvation, accept your grace, and choose to follow you. May they know that they cannot earn your grace, but it is a free gift that comes from the love you have for them. Amen.
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Sophie Hudson aka âBoo Mommaâ is one of the funniest speakers and podcasters I have ever been around. Sophie has a way about sharing truth and encouragement in this most relatable way. Today, we cover key topics from Peepers (readers you need) to why Birmingham women are so classy and then we spend most of our chat time discussing women and leadership.
In this episode, she shares the hard truth that our churches and communities have not always prepared women for leadership. As moms, we so often wonder if we even have gifts? And we often donât even see ourselves as leaders.
This conversation is a really important one for us as women. Sophie goes into ways we can embrace our roles as women and how to walk fully and confidently in our God-given gifts.This episode is very profound and at the same time practical. You will walk away with tangible things you can do today to see yourself more clearly - how God made you a leader.
If you have sons, donât miss the beginning part as she shares about what God is teaching her as a parent of a grown son. She has some beautiful encouragement for moms of sons and how their relationship has morphed and strengthened over time.
I am praying you feel this conversation so fired up and excited to discover your gifts and go lead with passion! I pray that through his conversation we learn to be kind to ourselves and gracious as we learn who we are. Letâs pay attention to what makes us come alive and SEE clearly how God wired us to glorify Him right where we are.
In this episode, we discuss:
Raising sons and whatâs sheâs learning latelyWhy women donât see ourselves as leadersHow we can begin to identity our unique giftsHow to see yourself as God sees you - finding your unique wiringEnjoy !
Courtney
What brings you alive?
00:00
Introduction and Family Background
01:37
Active Parenting and Engaging in Conversations
04:23
The Growth of Self-Awareness in Children
07:56
The Importance of Light-Heartedness in Leadership
09:11
Empowering Women in Leadership
12:13
Recognizing and Embracing Leadership Gifts
15:56
Finding Peace in Pursuing Passions
20:02
Bringing Joy and Encouragement in Everyday Life
21:17
Finding Purpose and Identity Beyond Motherhood
23:26
Embracing Your Unique Gifts and Talents
25:53
Prioritizing Personal Interests and Passions
35:31
Living a Life that Brings Joy and Glory to God
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Resources from todayâs show:
SophieHudson.com
Big Boo Cast
A Fine Sight To See - her newest book
Peepers
Daily Drills
HomeGoods Camp
White Bird
Carpool Conversations Podcast
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Scripture tells us that God is like a potter and we are like the clay that he works with (Isaiah 64:8). He forms us with his hands, but he doesnât forget about us once he is done! We are not a clay pot that sits on a shelf and is only touched when we remember to dust it every now and then. No, God continues to shape us.In fact, God loves us so much that he calls us his own! When we choose to follow Jesus, we are adopted into Godâs family where there is both freedom and grace. Our father is so faithful to us that even when we donât choose him or we run away from him, he waits for us and rejoices when we return. There is nothing we, or our kids, could ever do that would make our heavenly father love us less (or more!).So this week, letâs pray that our kids know God as the good father that he is.
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