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  • Parents often carry a heavy weight of shame and self-blame when their children face tough times. It's natural for them to feel responsible, but it's important to remember that not everything is within a parent’s control. By staying present and connecting with themselves, parents can let go of the burden of shame and find a more positive, hopeful way forward.

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines sits down with Celia Landman, a mindfulness educator and author of When the Whole World Tips: Parenting through Crisis with Mindfulness and Balance. They share an honest and heartfelt conversation about the real struggles of parenting during a crisis and how mindfulness and meditation can truly make a difference. Celia opens up about how parents can reconnect with their true selves and face difficult times without carrying the extra weight of blame or shame. By recognizing societal pressures, allowing themselves to feel a range of emotions, and offering compassionate support to one another, parents can find the grace and resilience they need to keep moving forward. This episode is a reminder that even in the toughest moments, there is hope and community. Parenting through a crisis is never easy, but it’s a journey no one has to take alone.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Explore the key differences between mindfulness and meditation.

    How mindfulness and meditation can benefit healing and self-awareness.

    How societal pressures fuel feelings of shame and blame.

    Why being present in someone’s pain is powerful.

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    Website: https://celialandman.com/

    LinkedIn: @celia-landman-232185149

    Instagram: @celiasacct

    Facebook: @celia.landman

    Read: When the Whole World Tips: Parenting through Crisis with Mindfulness and Balance

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  • Understanding the administration of special needs trusts can make a world of difference for people with disabilities, providing them with financial stability and peace of mind. These trusts—like third-party and first-party trusts—come with specific rules that trustees must follow to ensure the beneficiary can keep accessing essential public benefits.

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I talk about the importance of building a solid relationship between trustees and beneficiaries. Understanding the basics of trust administration is valuable for everyone—not just those currently acting as trustees. I also stress how crucial it is to use clear, precise language and to accurately identify beneficiaries in trust documents. These details are essential to ensuring that beneficiaries keep access to the public resources they rely on. If you’re ready to take control of your trust administration knowledge and make a lasting impact, register for my Special Needs Advocacy and Planning Masterclass. This provides the tools and guidance you need to create a comprehensive life plan with confidence.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Learn the difference between third-party and first-party special needs trusts.

    What factors trustees should consider when making distribution decisions within special needs trusts.

    What responsibilities trustees have when managing special needs trusts.

    How trustees can protect the beneficiary's public benefits within special needs trusts.

    Why it is essential for trustees to consult with professionals and understand tax implications.

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  • For longtime listeners, it’s clear this podcast covers a wide range of topics—from family discussions about kids to conversations on adult disabilities. This conversation focuses on the challenges of balancing health and work while living with a chronic illness. Practices like meditation, journaling, and cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) are powerful tools for managing mental health, offering ways to create a more stable and fulfilling life despite these ongoing challenges.

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines talks with Lauren Perna, leader of the Boston chapter of the Chronic Boss Collective, dedicated to supporting businesswomen and entrepreneurs managing chronic conditions. With a corporate background and personal experience with mental health struggles, Lauren understands the challenges of balancing ambition and well-being. She’s built a community where entrepreneurship and mental health go hand in hand, promoting self-awareness and the importance of self-care. Lauren also advocates for workplace cultures that prioritize both mental and physical health.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    What tools to use for managing mental health

    Why it is important to create custom work arrangements

    Why re-evaluating workplace cultures is important

    How to balance being an ambitious entrepreneur while dealing with chronic conditions

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    Website: https://www.laurenperna.com/

    LinkedIn: @laurenelizabethperna

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  • Parenting is a rewarding journey filled with love, laughter, and joy. However, it also comes with its fair share of challenges. From sleepless nights to tantrums in the grocery store, every parent faces obstacles along the way. But what happens when those challenges are compounded by raising a child with disabilities?

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines speaks with Joanne De Simone, a special education advocate, and author of “Fall and Recovery: Raising Children with Disabilities through Lessons Learned in Dance”, about the challenges of raising a child with disabilities and navigating the healthcare and education systems. Joanne, a former professional dancer turned advocate, shares her journey and the importance of building community support for parents facing similar struggles. She also discusses her role in securing a legislative change that allowed her son, Sebastian, to participate in NCAA D3 intercollegiate sports, a huge win in her commitment to inclusivity. True change for children with disabilities comes through relentless advocacy, collective support, and the belief that every challenge can be met with hope and resilience.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Common challenges parents face when raising a child with disabilities

    How parents can advocate for inclusive environments in the education system

    Why community support is important for parents of children with disabilities

    How can embracing hope and possibility lead to personal growth

    Resources from this Episode:

    Website: https://special-educationmom.com/

    Read: “Fall and Recovery: Raising Children with Disabilities through Lessons Learned in Dance”

    Facebook: @special-educationmom

    Twitter/X, Instagram: @jojdesimone

    LinkedIn: @joanne-de-simone

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  • Parenting a child with hearing loss comes with its own unique challenges and families may find themselves grappling with isolation and communication barriers. In these moments, community support and shared knowledge can make a world of difference.

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines welcomes Alaine Jacobs, a passionate advocate for the deaf community. Drawing from her personal experience as a parent, Alaine guides and supports others facing similar challenges. With a background in education, she helps families navigate both medical and educational systems, offering practical advice through her website, RaisingDeafKids.com, and her “Raising Deaf Kids” podcast. During the conversation, she addresses the ongoing debate within the deaf community about hearing loss, emphasizing that many view it not as a disability but as a normal variation of human experience. Alaine encourages respect for diverse opinions and choices, urging parents to connect with local and online communities to empower themselves in making informed decisions that best suit their family’s needs.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Learn about key resources for parents of children with hearing loss.

    Discover the divisions in the hearing loss community regarding cochlear implants

    The importance of early diagnosis and intervention for hearing loss.

    How to create a personalized communication plan for children with hearing loss.

    Why parents of children with hearing loss need to connect with local and online communities for support and information.

    Resources from this Episode:

    Website: http://raisingdeafkids.com/

    Listen to the Raising Deaf Kids Podcast

    Facebook: @raisingdeafkids

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  • The journey of caring for a child with disabilities is a tumultuous emotional ride. There are highs celebrating achievements and lows during setbacks. It's important to recognize those feelings and find healthy ways to cope along the way.

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines chats with Jessica Fein, author of Breath Taking: A Memoir of Family, Dreams, and Broken Genes and host of the I Don't Know How You Do It podcast. Jessica opens up about her journey parenting a child with MERRF syndrome, an ultra-rare degenerative disease, and emphasizes the importance of visibility for acceptance and inclusion. Instead of focusing solely on challenges, she stresses the need to highlight the unique strengths of children with disabilities, which fosters a more inclusive society. Annette and Jessica also discuss how vital it is to have a supportive community, as raising a child with disabilities truly takes a village.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    How writing can help parents cope with emotional challenges.

    Ways to find beauty and joy amidst grief and sorrow.

    Why advocating for awareness and inclusion is important for children with disabilities.

    How a strong support system can benefit parents of children with disabilities.

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    Website: https://www.jessicafeinstories.com/

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    Facebook:@jessica.fein.92

    Instagram: @feinjessica

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  • Music has a way of connecting people, transcending language barriers, and healing the soul. The discipline and dedication required to master an instrument can translate into valuable life skills that go beyond the music classroom.

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines spoke with Annie Ray, the founder of the Crescendo Orchestra program, a music class tailored for students with significant disabilities, and Parent Orchestra, which invites parents to join their children in learning music, fostering a vibrant community, and encouraging parental involvement in their kids' musical journeys. Annie passionately advocates for music education as a core subject, emphasizing the need to meet students where they are and tailor instruction to their unique needs. Her approach showcases music’s profound impact on students, transcending mere notes and rhythms. The Crescendo Orchestra program is a shining example of how music can transform the lives of young students, providing them with a sense of community, purpose, and hope for the future.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Why emphasizing a student-centered approach fosters a joyful space for musical exploration without fear of judgment.

    Ways the Parent Orchestra program has built a vibrant community of over 200 parents on a shared learning journey.

    How music education sharpens cognitive abilities and instills resilience, helping students navigate challenges and embrace imperfections.

    Ways fellow educators can launch inclusive music programs, advocating for equal access to the transformative power of music education.

    Resources from this Episode:

    Watch Annie’s TEDx Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/annie_ray_the_sound_of_sucess

    Learn More About Annie’s Program and GRAMMY win - Annie Ray: Music Educator

    Learn More about the Parent Orchestra -

  • Disability is a topic often surrounded by stigma and misconceptions, particularly within Kenyan communities, where the burden can become a significant financial strain on families. In Kenya, parents of children with disabilities face not only a lack of acceptance and support but also the heavy weight of stigma, which exacerbates their struggles.

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines and Thitu Muiruri, an accomplished filmmaker, sheds light on the pervasive stigma surrounding disabilities in African communities. Muiruri's documentary work delves into the struggles faced by parents of children with disabilities, revealing the harsh realities of societal judgment, lack of support, and financial hardships. Through her documentaries and short films, she seeks to spark critical discussions and educate the public about the challenges individuals with disabilities face. It's through these conversations that people can truly understand different perspectives, learn from one another, and work towards positive change.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    What challenges parents of children with disabilities in Kenya face.

    How societal attitudes add to the struggles of individuals with disabilities and their families.

    What role informal support networks among mothers play in the disabilities community.

    What efforts are needed to provide resources and support to mothers of children with disabilities.

    How to advocate for better accessibility in buildings and roads for individuals with disabilities and their families.

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    Website: https://thitu.art

    Facebook: @thituproductions

    Instagram:@thitu___

    LinkedIn: @salthitumuiruri



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  • Parenting is a tough job and when you have a child with special needs, the challenges can be even more complex. From advocating for your child in school to finding the right therapy options, there are so many aspects of parenting a child with special needs that require extra care and attention. Amidst these pressures, marriages can face significant strain.

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines, Todd Evans PhD, MA, and Kristin Evans MA, MS, LMSW explore the challenges of raising a child with special needs. Todd and Kristin, authors of “How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities,” share insights on balancing their dreams, their child's needs, and their marriage. They highlight the importance of parents prioritizing mental health and self-care to better support their children. Clear communication, emotional connection, and time management remain essential for effective care. Parents of children with special needs are encouraged to take time for themselves—self-care is crucial for caring for others.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Why effective communication is important for parents of children with special needs

    How parents of children with special needs can prioritize their own well-being

    Healthy ways to recognize the address challenges in caregiving marriages

    Why it is crucial to have a supportive partner during challenging times

    How parents can effectively advocate for their child with special needs in school and medical settings

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    Website: https://disabilityparenting.com/

    Read: How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities

    Facebook: Kristin.Evans.5895

    Twitter: @AuthorKristinEv

    Instagram: @disabilityparenting

    LinkedIn: @Kristin-Evans



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  • Transition planning from school to adult life is a crucial aspect of ensuring individuals with additional needs have the support and resources they need to lead fulfilling lives. With the introduction of the new transition planning IEP form, understanding its purpose and how it benefits those in the transition process is essential.

    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines and Graham Caldow dive deep into transition planning for young people with disabilities as they prepare for adulthood. Graham, drawing from his personal experiences and his book “What’s Possible? Plan A Better Future for Your Young Adult with Additional Needs,” discusses the importance of a structured yet personalized approach to goal-setting. He emphasizes the importance of involving young people in their own planning, using his “Red Giraffe” tool as both a symbol and a practical example of how transition planning can be tailored to fit each individual's unique needs. Transition planning focuses on setting goals and creating a roadmap to help individuals transition smoothly from school to post-school life, ensuring they have the skills and support needed to find purpose and achieve their goals.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    How the Red Giraffe planning tool can help individuals with disabilities

    Why regularly assessing and adjusting transition plans matters

    Finding top programs for smoothly transitioning students into employment

    Strategies to make sure schools follow through on transition planning

    Why finding purpose in daily life is crucial for individuals with disabilities

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    Website: www.redgiraffesolutions.com

    Read What’s Possible? Plan A Better Future for Your Young Adult with Additional Needs

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  • Being a caregiver is a demanding role that requires immense strength, patience, and compassion. Caregivers often face challenges that can be physically, emotionally, and mentally draining. However, being resilient is crucial for caregivers to navigate the ups and downs of their caregiving journey.

    In this episode, Annette Hines and Michelle Mercier have an in-depth conversation about what it really means to be resilient as a caregiver. Michelle, a business growth consultant, brings a unique perspective to the table, sharing her thoughts on the tough challenges caregivers face every day. She compares resilience to building a muscle, something that takes consistent effort and practice. As a caregiver, resilience is a powerful tool that can help navigate the challenges and uncertainties of caring for a loved one. By prioritizing self-care, seeking support, and practicing resilience, caregivers can better cope with the demands of their role and continue to provide the best care for their loved ones.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    The importance of resilience for caregivers

    How to prioritize time freedom over money freedom

    Why work-life integration is essential for personal well-being

    How to model self-care habits to benefit children's well-being

    What challenges are faced by caregivers of children with medical conditions

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    Website: https://www.MichelleAMercier

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  • Navigating the world of IEPs (Individualized Education Programs) and 504 Plans can be overwhelming for parents and educators alike. Both IEPs and 504 plans provide essential educational support but differ in their goals, services, eligibility, and duration. IEPs offer specialized instruction with specific objectives and progress monitoring from pre-K through high school, while 504 plans ensure access and equity and can extend through college.

    In this episode, Annette Hines and April Rehrig, the founder of Rise Educational Advocacy and Consulting, discuss the strengths and weaknesses of IEPs and 504 plans. April emphasizes the importance of positive language in IEP meetings, advocating for strength-based approaches, and involving students and parents in the planning process. By focusing on strengths, setting high expectations, and fostering a collaborative environment, parents and educators can help students reach their full potential. Join us for an episode that will change how you approach IEPs and 504 Plans. Learn how to advocate for your child using strength-based approaches and collaborative planning.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    The difference between an IEP and a 504 plan

    How positive language benefits students in IEP meetings

    Tips for transitioning students from IEPs to college

    Why it is important to focus on a child's strengths in an IEP

    How involving students in the IEP planning process empowers them

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    Website: https://www.riseeducationaladvocacy.com/

    Facebook, Instagram, & Pinterest: @riseedadvocacy

    LinkedIn: @aprilrehrigspecialeducationadvocate

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  • Are you ready for the new school year?

    Back-to-school season can be both exciting and overwhelming for parents, especially those with children who have special needs or medical requirements. From my experience, preparing for a new school year when your child has special needs involves carefully reviewing their IEPs and healthcare plans. It’s really important to go over these and make sure everything’s up to date, and share any progress from summer activities. I’ve learned that building a good relationship with school staff and service providers makes a huge difference. It helps to start those conversations early, have open communication, and be your child’s biggest advocate. While the process can seem daunting, it's important to remember that supportive teams do exist. Finding these "gems" is key to creating a positive and enriching educational experience for your child.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    The importance of reviewing IEP/ISPs, healthcare plans, and progress notes to prepare children with special needs for the new school year.

    How parents can build supportive, collaborative relationships with school staff and service providers.

    Why understanding healthcare protocols and emergency procedures for the safety of children with medical needs at school is crucial.

    How parents can identify positive, supportive teams in educational and adult support programs.

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  • Parents naturally want to make sure their child with disabilities is well taken care of, both now and in the future. It's not just about meeting the day-to-day needs but also thinking ahead to their long-term financial security. There's a lot to juggle—from managing medical expenses to planning for their financial future. It can feel pretty overwhelming and complicated.

    In this episode, host Annette Hines welcomes financial planning expert, James Lange, to discuss the crucial need for specialized financial planning for parents of children with disabilities. James emphasizes the importance of working with advisors who understand the unique financial needs of these families and securing government benefits like SSI or SSDI to ensure long-term support. The conversation covers essential legal documents such as wills and trusts, and James offers a free copy of his book, “Retire Secure for Parents of a Child with a Disability,” packed with strategies for financial planning. Annette and James delve into the practical and emotional aspects of financial security, reflecting on how proactive planning can provide peace of mind and a brighter future for children with disabilities.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    The importance of collaborating with specialized financial planners and tax advisors for families with children with disabilities

    Key government benefits essential for the financial support of children with disabilities

    The necessity of creating appropriate wills, trusts, and powers of attorney tailored for children with disabilities

    How proper financial planning can alleviate anxiety for parents raising children with disabilities

    Why it is important to involve the child in the financial planning process

    Resources from this Episode:

    Free digital copy of Retire Secure for Parents of a Child with a Disability

    Website: https://DisabledChildPlanning.com

    Facebook: @RothRevolution

    Twitter/X: @rothguy

    LinkedIn:@jameslangecpa

    Other Sites:https://PayTaxesLater.com

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  • The journey of caregiving is a delicate dance of emotions and responsibilities, especially for parents of disabled children who face societal pressures. Home and community care services provide essential support and respite, allowing families to maintain a safe environment and caregivers to recharge. Self-care, such as meditation or exercise, is critical for caregivers to sustain their well-being and continue their responsibilities.

    In this episode, host Annette Hines sits with Kelley Coleman as she shares her journey of parenting a disabled child, revealing how it led her to write "No One Tells You About Parenting a Disabled Child: Your Guide to the Essential Systems, Services, and Supports." Kelley expresses the importance of accessing accurate information and insights directly from individuals with disabilities to combat stigma and misconceptions. Her book serves as a practical guide for caregivers, filled with invaluable checklists, personal stories, and strategies for self-care, effective communication, and advocacy. Kelley and Annette bond over their shared love for practical tools, discussing the significance of job training in caregiving and urging caregivers to establish boundaries and prioritize their well-being. They reflect on their own experiences, the emotional toll of caregiving, and the power of a supportive community.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Why it is important to seek insights from individuals with disabilities

    Addressing the challenges faced by parents of disabled children

    How caregivers can prioritize self-care and establish boundaries

    Why it is important to advocate for home and community-based care services

    What resources are available for caregivers of children with disabilities

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    Kelley Coleman: www.kelleycoleman.com

    Facebook: @kelley.coleman.56

    Instagram: @hellokelleycoleman

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  • Have you ever wondered how Social Security impacts those who are disabled or retired? I’ve seen firsthand how crucial it is for providing financial stability.

    Earlier this month we spoke about Social Security and Work. In this episode of Parenting Impossible, I want to delve deeper into the basics of the critical topic of social security, public benefits, and financial planning for individuals with disabilities. Did you know that ABLE accounts are revolutionary, allowing you to save money without jeopardizing benefits like Medicaid and Supplemental Security Income (SSI)? Proper financial planning is crucial, as one misstep in managing assets can lead to the loss of these vital benefits. For SSI recipients and those on Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI), understanding the nuances of your programs can make a big difference. Navigating social security benefits and work income can be challenging, but with the right knowledge and understanding, you can make informed decisions that benefit your financial stability.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Learn about Supplemental Security Income (SSI) and Social Security Disability Insurance (SSDI)

    How work income affects SSI benefits

    How ABLE accounts can help manage assets without affecting SSI or Medicaid eligibility

    Why planning for Medicaid coverage is important

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  • Imagine navigating a system where your needs are ignored due to your age. This is the reality for many adults with autism facing age discrimination. The fight against this injustice hinges on advocacy, personalization, and accessibility. Advocating for legislative changes ensures equality and fairness.

    In this episode, host Annette Hines talks with Christina Gravina CEO & Founder of BILT (Bridging Independent Living Together, Inc.). Annette and Christina address age discrimination in autism services, highlighting the challenges adults face when denied support due to age. Christina advocates for legal changes and emphasizes personalized, goal-oriented services over the one-size-fits-all model. Her organization, BILT, offers one-on-one support, therapeutic mentoring, skill-building, and community integration, with options for private pay and insurance. They’ve also opened a center with small group classes and a high staff-to-client ratio, allowing clients to choose activities they enjoy. Christina stresses starting small, gathering feedback, and overcoming funding challenges to create effective programs for people with disabilities.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Why you should advocate for legislative changes to address age discrimination in autism services.

    How to provide individualized services tailored to the unique goals and interests of disabled individuals.

    What payment options, such as private pay, school district funding, DDS payments, and insurance, can make services more accessible.

    Ways to create meaningful programs for individuals with disabilities.

    Resources from this Episode:

    Website: www.biltne.org

    Facebook, Instagram, & LinkedIn: biltinc

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    Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies

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  • Talking about the challenges of disability can be tough and delicate. For those living with disabilities and their caregivers, every day brings unique hurdles that demand patience, creativity, and resilience. It’s crucial to focus on person-centered planning and get creative to make sure disabled individuals have the support they need to thrive.

    In this episode, I get into the real challenges of disability and how crucial informed decision-making and proactive planning are for parents and caregivers. From my own experiences, I think it’s important to recognize our mistakes, stay resilient, and come up with creative solutions ourselves. I also share why having a solid disability or life plan matters, covering things like agency meetings, housing, financial support, and transitioning to adulthood. Effective communication, adaptability, and a supportive community are key to advocating for your loved ones. Let's keep supporting each other, staying resilient, and making informed decisions to ensure a brighter future for our kids and those we care for.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Why it is important to create a disability or life plan for loved ones with disabilities.

    How being creative can help navigate challenges for parents and caregivers of disabled individuals.

    Why it is crucial to recognize mistakes and adjust plans when supporting individuals with disabilities.

    What role effective communication plays in advocating for individuals with disabilities.

    Why it is important to prioritize person-centered planning for individuals with disabilities.

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    Visit: https://annettehines.com

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    LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc

    Instagram: @parentingimpossible

    Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies

    Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo

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  • Sexuality education is a crucial aspect of personal development, but it often overlooks those with disabilities. These individuals deserve access to information that empowers them to make informed decisions about their bodies and relationships. Empowerment through education can be a shield against abuse and exploitation.

    In this episode, Annette Hines dives into a crucial conversation with Katherine McLaughlin, CEO and Lead Trainer at Elevatus Training. They tackle the challenging yet essential topic of discussing sexuality, especially for parents of children with disabilities. Katherine introduces her comprehensive 22-lesson curriculum designed to support these vital conversations, emphasizing the importance of teaching bodily autonomy, consent, and decision-making to prevent abuse and promote healthy relationships. Annette and Katherine explore how inclusive training programs must evolve to reflect the fluidity of modern sexuality, embracing diverse perspectives on gender and sexual orientation. Join us for this engaging and eye-opening discussion that aims to foster a more inclusive and supportive society.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Why it is important to teach individuals with disabilities about bodily autonomy and consent

    How empowering individuals with disabilities in decision-making processes helps them navigate risk

    What topics parents should focus on when discussing challenging issues like sexuality with their children

    Why it is crucial for training programs to address the diversity of gender identities and sexual orientations

    How integrating sexuality education into communities can lead to healthier relationships and overall well-being

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    Website: https://www.elevatustraining.com/

    LinkedIn: @katherine-mclaughlin

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elevatustraining

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    Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies

    Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo

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  • How do you navigate the stormy waters of divorce when adult children with disabilities are involved? It's a tough situation that needs careful planning and thought to make sure everyone in the family is okay.

    In this episode, Annette Hines provides insights into the challenges faced by divorcing parents of adult children with disabilities, emphasizing the need for clear communication and effective guardianship. She advises keeping the adult child out of the divorce process and separating their welfare discussions from other divorce issues. Hines also highlights the importance of estate planning, recommending neutral third-party trustees, and including life insurance policies in divorce agreements for ongoing financial support. Additionally, she explains the legal steps needed to direct child support payments into a trust, protecting public benefits like SSI and Medicaid.

    In this episode, you will hear:

    Why effective communication is crucial in co-guardianships

    How life insurance policies can be utilized in divorce agreements to support dependents

    The benefits of involving a neutral third party in managing special needs trust

    Why adult children with disabilities should be kept out of the divorce process

    How child support payments can be directed into a trust to protect public benefits like SSI and Medicaid

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    Join our community: Circle of Care

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