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If you have a graduating senior, or you've had one in the past few years, or you're watching one of your younger kids and already feeling the anticipation of this moment coming, this episode is for you. No matter where you are on the parenting journey, there is something here for you today.
In today's episode I'm coming to you from a very personal place. In two days, my own senior graduates, and I've been living right in the middle of everything I want to talk about with you today. I'm sharing honestly about what this transition has been like, what I've been feeling, and the tools and perspective that have been helping me move through it. My hope is that you walk away from this one feeling a little less alone and a little more grounded as you navigate this season.
In this episode I cover:
Why every emotion you're feeling right now is valid, including the messy, inconvenient, and unexpected onesHow grief pulls us out of the present and what to do instead so you don't miss what's still right in front of youWhat letting go actually means and why trusting your child is one of the most loving things you can doWhy this is a rite of passage for you as a parent, not just for your teen, and a simple ritual to mark the moment and set intentions for your next chapterA message for the parents whose teen's path looks different right now, whether that's a delayed graduation, a different route altogether, or an uncertain next stepQuotes from this episode:
"Reminiscing is not the same as dwelling. It is honoring."
"We're not releasing our kids into a void. We're releasing them into their own lives, into their own becoming."
"Progress is not always linear, and neither is becoming who we are each meant to be."
"Everyone is at their own spot and they are right on time for their own life."
Resources and links mentioned:
Guided Passages wilderness rites of passage backpacking trips for high school girls. We just have 2 spots left! https://youth.guided-passages.com/high-school-girls-wilderness-questJoin the Parents of Teens Rising Skool communityRise Up & Ignite Coaching programs for Teens & Young AdultsConnect with Jasmyne:
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If you've been watching your teen struggle with anxiety, low motivation, or a lack of direction and wondering what you can actually do to help, this episode is for you. I'm sharing the full framework I normally teach inside my workshops so you can access it right here, for free.
This is not about quick fixes or surface-level advice. It's about understanding what's really going on beneath the behavior and giving your teen the tools they need to build genuine, lasting confidence.
What I cover in this episode:
Why confidence, motivation, and emotional regulation are skills that can be learned, not fixed personality traits your teen is stuck with
What's really driving the behaviors you're seeing at home and why addressing the root cause changes everything
The four-step coaching framework I use with every teen and young adult client in my programs
The Four-Step Framework:
Step 1: Dreams, Purpose, and Passion When teens connect with a personal vision and what genuinely lights them up, they shift from feeling stuck to feeling excited about what's possible.
Step 2: Thoughts, Mindset, and Focus Your teen's thoughts, mindset, and where they place their attention shape their entire experience. I walk through how to help them challenge unhelpful thinking and focus on what they can actually control.
Step 3: Feel, Process, and Express Most teens have big feelings and no idea what to do with them. This step is about building emotional fluency so your teen can name what they're feeling, move through it, and express it in healthy ways.
Step 4: Regulate, Reset, and Rise Up When teens don't know how to calm their nervous system, even small challenges can feel overwhelming. I cover the tools that help teens return to a centered state and build the resilience to keep going.
Resources and Next Steps:
If this resonated and you're ready to get your teen real support, here's how to take action:
Learn more about my coaching programs -- Ignite (ages 12-14) and Rise Up (ages 15-24) are 12-week one-on-one coaching programs that help teens and young adults dealing with anxiety, low motivation, self-doubt, or lack of direction. Rise Up and Ignite Coaching Programs
Book a call with me -- If you'd like to talk through your teen's specific situation before deciding, grab a time on my calendar and we'll figure out together whether it's the right fit. https://link.guided-passages.com/widget/bookings/ignite-rise-up-discovery-call
Not sure your teen will be open to it? Download the free PDF with talking points and scripts to help you start the conversation at home.
"Life is not safe, and so our task is not to promise our kids there will be no turbulence. It's to assure them that when the turbulence comes, we will all hold hands and get through it together." — Glennon Doyle
Connect with Jasmyne:
Website | Instagram | Parent Coaching Community
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In today's episode, I have a special treat for you. Today I'm talking to Katie K. May, therapist, author, and founder of a therapy practice in the greater Philadelphia area that supports teens and families. Katie is also a board-certified self-harm specialist, and she wrote the book "You're On Fire, It's Fine: Effective Strategies for Parenting Teens with Self-Destructive Behaviors." This conversation was so good, and I know you're going to get so much out of it.
In this episode, we talk about:
What it means to be a "fire feeler" and why some teens experience emotions like an internal explosion that takes over everything, as well as why it's rooted in biology and not a character flaw
What's actually happening in a teen's nervous system when they shut down and go to their room, and why pushing harder as a parent tends to backfire
The transactional model of behavior and how the changes a parent makes on their own, even without their teen in therapy, can start shifting the patterns at home right away
Why judgment-based labels like "manipulative" or "oppositional" can inadvertently reinforce the very behaviors we want to change, and what to do instead
The difference between reactive punishment and natural consequences, and how to hold teens accountable in a way that actually teaches something
What self-harm is communicating about a teen's internal world, why it works physiologically to calm the nervous system down, and how parents can respond in a way that keeps the door open rather than driving the behavior underground
The "circle of support" concept and why it's so important for parents to look outward for their own support rather than leaning on their teen to be okay so that they can feel okay
What DBT gives teens that other approaches don't
I finished Katie's book the morning of this interview and I cannot recommend it enough. It is a quick read, it is practical, and it gave me so much language for things I've felt but couldn't always articulate in my own work with teens and parents. Whether your teen is in crisis or you just want to show up better in your relationship with them, this book is for you.
Go find Katie and her book, read it, and share it with every parent you know who is in the thick of it.
https://katiekmay.com
IG: @katiekmay
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In this deeply personal episode, I share the long and winding journey that led me to finally sell out my middle school wilderness backpacking rite of passage trip, a dream that has taken years, setbacks, heartbreak, resilience, and unwavering belief to bring to life.
I open up about the science of grit, self-belief, growth mindset, and perseverance, while also sharing my own transformational experiences with wilderness rites of passage, solo time in nature, mentorship, and the challenges of building a purpose-driven business that supports teenagers and families.
This episode is for parents, teens, educators, mentors, and anyone who has ever felt called toward something meaningful but difficult. If you’ve ever questioned yourself, doubted your path, or wondered whether your dreams are worth pursuing, this conversation is for you.
In This Episode, I Share:
Why grit and perseverance matter more than talent The science behind resilience, growth mindset, and self-belief My life-changing wilderness rite of passage experiences How nature and challenge build confidence in teenagers The struggles of building a purpose-driven business What repeated failure taught me about persistenceWhy do parents and teens both go through rites of passageIf you feel like your teenage daughter is craving more confidence, connection, resilience, and time away from the pressure of screens and social media, I would love to invite her to join my High School Girls Wilderness Backpacking Rite of Passage Trip this July in the Marble Mountain Wilderness of Northern California.
So if this is calling to you and your teen, now is the time to register.
🔗https://youth.guided-passages.com/high-school-girls-wilderness-trip-2026
If this episode resonated with you, please share it with another parent or teenager who may need this message right now. I’d love to connect with you and your family.
Resources & Mentioned Research
Dr. Angela Duckworth’s research on grit Dr. Carol Dweck’s work on growth mindset Dr. Albert Bandura’s research on self-efficacy International Coaching Federation (ICF)Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share the podcast to help more families discover the power of rites of passage, resilience, and nature-based transformation.
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In today's episode, I'm sharing about the seven foundational pillars that make up the ecosystem your teenager needs to grow, thrive, and stay connected to you through one of the most complex seasons of their development. This isn't just a parenting strategy episode. It's also about you, your nervous system, your emotional patterns, and the environment you're creating every single day in your home, often without even realizing it.
Here's what we cover:
Point 1: You're the Soil, Not the Sculptor
Point 2: Your Nervous System is the Weather in Your Home
Point 3: Breaking Generational Patterns
Point 4: Connection Before Correction
Point 5: Learning to Tolerate Uncertainty
Point 6: The Sweet Spot Between Friend and Parent
Point 7: The Permission to Be an Imperfect Parent
Resources and ways to connect:
If you want more support on this journey, you can:
Join the Parents of Teens Rising Coaching Circle in the School app: https://www.skool.com/rooted-in-connection-1711/aboutBook a one-on-one parent coaching call or explore teen coaching and upcoming wilderness trip opportunities.Send me a DM to connect: @jasmyne.guidedpassagesIf this episode resonated with you, please share it with a parent who needs to hear it and leave a review on Apple Podcasts or drop five stars on Spotify. It helps so many more families find this community.
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In this short but sweet episode, I’m sharing a simple (but often overlooked) parenting “hack” that has been making a big difference in my own relationship with my teens.
Why being in the same room isn’t the same as real connectionHow simple shared moments (like watching a movie together) can deepen your bondThe impact of screens on our ability to truly connectEasy, realistic ways to create connections in everyday lifeWhy presence matters more than doing things “perfectly”
Like many of you, my days are full. By the time evening rolls around, it’s so tempting to check out on my phone, catch up on emails, or zone out. And my teens? They’re usually doing the same.
But I’ve realized that these everyday moments are actually some of the biggest opportunities for connection if we choose to use them intentionally.
So today, I’m inviting you into a small shift that doesn’t require more time or energy, just more presence.
What I Share in This Episode:✨ Ways to Connect & Get Support
If something in this episode resonated with you and you’re looking for deeper support for your teen, I’d love to invite you into a few opportunities:
📌 Wilderness Rites of Passage Trip(High School Girls | July 8–15)
A powerful 7-day backpacking experience designed to help your teen disconnect from distractions, reconnect with themselves, and build meaningful connections with others and mentors during this important stage of life.🔗Sign up Here
Ignite (ages 12–14)Rise Up (ages 15–24)
📌12-Week Coaching ProgramsThese high-touch coaching programs support teens with confidence, emotional regulation, mindset, motivation, and discovering their purpose, skills they’re not taught in school, but deeply need.
Learn More: guided-passages.com
Let's stay connected:
Instagram: @jasmyne.guidedpassages
Email: [email protected]
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Ever feel like your teen’s behavior makes no sense? What if I told you it’s not defiance, it’s brain development? In this episode, I'm breaking down what’s actually happening inside your teenager’s brain and how understanding it can completely change the way you parent.
💡 What I Talk About:
Why your teen struggles with impulse control (developing prefrontal cortex) How brain “pruning” shapes your teen’s habits and behaviors Why your teen’s brain is highly changeable (neuroplasticity) How dopamine drives risk-taking, motivation, and screen habits The ESSENCE framework:🔥 Emotional Spark (big feelings)
🔥 Social Engagement (peer focus)
🔥 Novelty Seeking (risk & exploration)
🔥 Creative Exploration (questioning everything)Your teen isn’t a problem to fix. They’re in a critical stage of brain development.
If this episode resonated, send me a DM and share your biggest takeaway 💛
Know another parent who needs this?
Share this episode with them.Let's stay connected:
Instagram: @jasmyne.guidedpassages
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Struggling to connect with your teenager?
You’re not alone, and it may not be your teen that needs to change.
In this episode, I explore what might really be getting in the way of connection with my teenager, not their behavior, but how I’m showing up as a parent. I share five key patterns that can create disconnection and how small, intentional shifts can rebuild trust and closeness.
💡 What I Talk About:
Why your teenager is not a problem to fix (shifting from control-based parenting to connection-based parenting) How parental burnout affects connection with your teen and leads to reactivity, stress, and disconnection The impact of generational parenting patterns and how inherited behaviors shape your parenting style Why taking accountability as a parent builds trust and strengthens your relationship with your teenager How to reconnect with the joy of parenting and create more meaningful, positive moments with your teenIf this episode resonated and you want support for your teen, I’d love to help.
Send me a message on Instagram @jasmyne.guidedpassages or email me at [email protected]So we can talk about what your teen needs and how I can support them.
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Today, I’m opening up and sharing the heart behind my business, Guided Passages, and the journey that led me here. From leaving a stable teaching career to following a deeper calling, this has been a path of trust, courage, and listening to that quiet inner voice guiding me forward.
What I share in this episode:
The moment I realized teaching was no longer aligned with my purposeWhat I call “the roaring of the river” and how it led me to this workHow mentorship and rites of passage shaped my life (and why they matter so much for teens today)The journey of building Guided Passages from the ground upWhy modern teens are struggling and what they actually need more ofThe importance of connection, community, and being truly seenHow small, intentional spaces can create a life-changing transformationThis is a reminder that even when your path feels uncertain, following your purpose starts with one brave step, and that step is what begins to reveal everything else.
If this episode spoke to you, share it with another parent who needs to hear this, or DM on Instagram, let me know what resonated most with you
And if you’re ready to support your teen in a more meaningful way, explore the programs and take that first step today.
EXPLORE GUIDED PASSAGES:
If you feel called to support your teen more deeply, or you’re looking for mentorship, community, or transformational experiences…
Visit: https://guided-passages.com
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In this episode, I’m diving into five foundational areas that have a powerful impact on your teen’s mental health and overall well-being.
These aren’t complicated or groundbreaking ideas, but they’re the things that often get overlooked in the busyness of everyday life or avoided because they can feel like a constant battle.
And just to be clear, this isn’t about perfection. I don’t know any teen (or adult) who has all of these dialed in perfectly. What we’re aiming for is high standards with high support, helping our teens move in the right direction one small step at a time.
✨ What I Cover in This Episode:
Food & Water – How nutrition impacts mood, focus, and energyScreen Time Balance – Managing screens without constant conflictSleep – Why it’s essential for emotional wellbeingMovement – How exercise boosts mood and confidenceSelf-Talk – Shifting your teen’s inner dialogueIf this episode resonated and you want support for your teen, I’d love to help.
Send me a message on Instagram @jasmyne.guidedpassages or email me at [email protected]
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Today, I'm sitting down with Sonia Suthar, a 19-year-old entrepreneur and the Founder of Cloud 9, who is helping parents understand why teenagers shut down when we're just trying to help, and what we can do instead to build strong, connected relationships with them. She also shares how we can help our teens build confidence from the inside out, so this conversation is one you won't want to miss!
In this episode, we explore what’s really happening beneath teen behavior and why well-meaning parental responses can sometimes create distance instead of connection. Sonia offers powerful insights into how teens interpret boundaries, advice, and even simple questions and how these moments can either strengthen or erode trust.
Whether you’re parenting a teen now or just want to understand them better, this conversation offers real, actionable insights that can help you strengthen connections, trust, and resilience in your family.
We Talk About:
Why teens shut down and how to respond as a parentHow to improve parent-teen communicationThe difference between fixing vs. supporting your teenHow to build teen confidence and emotional resilienceWhat teens actually need when they open upThe “3 H’s” method: Heard, Helped, or HuggedHow to create a safe space for your teen to shareBalancing high expectations with emotional supportHow to stop power struggles and build connectionPractical tools to strengthen your relationship with your teenIf this resonates with you, share this episode with another parent who could use the support, and don’t forget to follow/subscribe for more conversations that help you build deeper, more connected relationships with your teen.
Connect with Sonia & Cloud9:
Website: cloud9go.com
Instagram: @cloud9go
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Are you helping your teen athlete grow, or are you accidentally adding more pressure?
Listen before problem-solving - Sometimes, they need to vent.Ask before giving advice. - “Do you want help with this, or do you just want me to listen?”Help them reset after mistakes. - Feel it → Flip it → Find the next play.Remember the bigger picture. - Sports aren’t just about the scoreboard; they’re about the kind of person your teen is becoming.It's a great opportunity for Connection.
In this episode, I talk about how sports can be one of the most powerful developmental experiences in a young person’s life, and it's one way teens can learn perseverance, teamwork, leadership, and how to bounce back after mistakes.
But there’s something we don’t talk about enough... The role parents play in shaping that experience. What we say from the sidelines, in the car ride home, and during the hard moments can either build confidence or add stress.
Here are some of the powerful reminders for supporting teen athletes that we'll dive into:These moments with our teens, on the sidelines, in the car rides, during practices, are powerful opportunities for connection and growth.
It’s in these ordinary moments that extraordinary bonds are formed.
I would also love to invite you to join our Free Wilderness Info Session on March 18th at 6 PM PST where you can learn all about our two Backpacking Rites of Passage trips for teens this Summer.
Rites of Passage Trips Info Session
📅 Wednesday, March 18th at 6pm Pacific
🔗 youth.guided-passages.com/wilderness
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Every summer, I watch teens step into the wilderness and come home transformed.
Out there, they learn they can do hard things, discover strength they didn’t know they had, connect with people outside their usual circles, and feel the freedom of being fully themselves.
Here are seven powerful lessons they carry back from our Rites of Passage journeys:
Resilience – “I can do hard things and survive.”Inner Strength & Confidence – uncovering courage they didn’t know they had.Unexpected Friendships – connecting with peers outside their usual circles.Authenticity – embracing their uniqueness and being fully themselves.Gratitude – appreciating comforts after going without.Connection to Nature – feeling at home in the wild.Transformation Through Challenge – growing in ways that shape their future.💫 If you’d like to learn more, join me for our free Wilderness Info Session on March 18th at 6 PM PT.
Rites of Passage Trips Info Session
📅 Wednesday, March 18th at 6pm Pacific
🔗 youth.guided-passages.com/wildernessI would love to see you there and answer all your questions.
And if this episode resonated with you, I’d love for you to subscribe, share it with a friend, and send me a quick note about the insight that stood out most for you.
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In this episode, I explore the powerful lessons in Alyssa Liu’s journey, from stepping away to winning Olympic gold on her own terms, and what her story teaches us about teens, identity, agency, and authentic success.
Her story isn’t just about sports. It’s about joy, ownership, and becoming who you truly are.Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
Why teen motivation strengthens when it feels like their choice How to help teens build an identity bigger than achievement The difference between support and control (and why it matters) Why joy and authenticity actually fuel excellence How to help teens define success for themselves Why mistakes build real confidence, not perfectionIf this episode resonated with you, explore our transformational wilderness experiences that empower teens to build resilience, self-trust, leadership, and lasting maturity.
Rites of Passage Trips Info Session
📅 Wednesday, March 18th at 6pm Pacific
🔗 youth.guided-passages.com/wildernessTake a moment to leave a review, subscribe, and send me a message with your key insight.
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In this episode, I break down what respect really looks like during adolescence, why it matters so deeply, and how we can lead our teens with both firmness and dignity.
When teens feel dismissed, talked down to, or controlled, their brains go into defense mode. But when they feel respected, they’re far more likely to stay open, honest, and cooperative even when the conversation is hard.
So often, we fall into the mindset that respect is something our teen has to earn. But the truth is, with teenagers, respect is often the fastest way to rebuild connection and increase influence.
Here’s what we’ll explore:
Why respect is the foundation of connection and influence How subtle disrespect leads to resistance and shutdown Why teens are neurologically wired to care about dignity and status The “high expectations + high support” approach from researcher David Yeager Why collaboration beats control when setting boundaries What teens notice most about respect at school and at home How modeling respect is the quickest way to receive it back Why repair after conflict builds trust faster than perfection One of the most respectful parenting shifts: not rushing in to fix, correct, or adviseFree Support for Parents:
Teen Confidence Breakthrough Workshop (Free Live Training)
📅 Tuesday, Feb 24th at 10am Pacific
🔗 youth.guided-passages.com/workshopRites of Passage Trips Info Session
📅 Wednesday, March 18th at 6pm Pacific
🔗 youth.guided-passages.com/wildernessIf this episode helped you, please leave a 5-star review, subscribe, and send me a DM with your biggest takeaway!
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I’m sharing a simple but powerful shift that can completely change your relationship with your teenager: learning what’s actually in your control and what isn’t.
When your teen is shutting down, acting out, bringing attitude home, or struggling with motivation, it’s so easy to fall into the trap of trying to control their behavior in the heat of the moment. But the truth is, the more we try to control what we can’t, the more disconnected and overwhelmed we feel.
In this conversation, I break down how focusing on your own response instead of your teen’s emotions is where your real influence and leadership live.
This episode is for parents navigating:
Teen attitude and disrespectEmotional meltdowns and big feelingsPower struggles and constant conflictMotivation and follow-through challengesSetting boundaries without yelling or naggingWe’ll discuss the Circle of Control (inspired by Stephen Covey), the power of co-regulation, and what it truly means to “Let Them” (from Mel Robbins) without letting everything slide.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, reactive, or exhausted, this episode will remind you that the most powerful thing you can do is return to what you can control: your own nervous system, your boundaries, and your next move.
Want Support Beyond the Podcast?
You don’t have to do this alone.
If you're looking for more tools, guidance, and a supportive community of parents raising teens with connection and calm boundaries, join me in my Parents of Teens Rising Circle
And if this episode resonated with you, I’d love to hear your takeaway.
Send me a DM on Instagram or share this episode with a parent friend who needs the reminder.
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In this episode, I’m breaking down school avoidance and school refusal in teens, including why it’s on the rise, what’s happening underneath the behavior, and practical, compassionate ways parents can support their teen without escalating conflict.
If your teen is melting down in the mornings, complaining of feeling sick, shutting down, or outright refusing to go to school, this episode will help you understand what’s driving the behavior and how to move forward without shame or fear.
In this episode, I cover:
What school avoidance and school refusal really mean (and why it’s not laziness)The main drivers: anxiety, social stress, academic overwhelm, and burnoutWhy morning power struggles make avoidance worseA clear 3-step plan: calm, clarify, and coordinateHow to support your teen without reinforcing avoidanceDr. Lisa Damour’s shame-free “compulsory buffet” reframePractical ways to make school more manageable without lowering expectationsIf your teen is struggling with anxiety or school avoidance, get support through my Rise Up and Ignite coaching programs to help them build confidence, take action, and thrive.
✅ Book a free discovery call to learn more and see if Rise or Ignite is a fit.
Sources Referenced in This Episode
Stony Brook Medicine – “What is School Avoidance and School Refusal? A Parent’s Guide” (Aug 1, 2025)Kids Mental Health Foundation – “New Survey Reveals Top Reasons Why Kids Avoid Going to School” (Press Release)Children’s Hospital Colorado – “Treating School Refusal in Youth” (Primary Care Article)Children’s Hospital Colorado – “How to Handle School Refusal” (Just Ask Children’s)TIME Magazine – Lisa Damour, “How to Help Teenagers Stay Motivated at School” (Mar 8, 2023)Anxiety and Depression Association of America (ADAA) – “4 Strategies When Your Child Refuses to Go to School” (Sep 19, 2024) -
In this episode, I’m sharing one of the biggest truths of my life: our children are some of our greatest teachers. I walk you through five lessons my kids have taught me so far, and how these lessons have shaped the way I show up in motherhood, especially in the teen years.
In this episode, I cover:
Regulate: learning how to stay grounded when I’m triggered or overwhelmedSurrender: practicing trust and letting go, one layer at a timeService: showing up with devotion while remembering I matter tooHumility: owning my mistakes, repairing, and learning in real timeCapacity: expanding what I can hold and handle without collapsing into overwhelmIf this episode resonated, I’d love for you to share it with a friend raising teens, and leave a review on Apple or Spotify. It helps more parents find this support.
Connect with me
Instagram: @jasmyne.guidedpassages
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Teen confidence isn’t something your kid either “has” or doesn’t have; it’s something we can build. In today’s episode, I’m sharing 5 core skills I teach teens and young adults to help them move from anxiety and avoidance into real self-trust and forward motion.
I also share a story about a young adult I worked with who felt stuck after Covid, isolated, anxious, and disconnected from her life, until she found a pathway back to herself through creativity, new friendships, and small steps that created real momentum (including college planning and financial aid).
In this episode, I cover:
Why confidence starts with identity and values (not approval, grades, or social pressure)How to help teens build believable positive self-talk (no fake affirmations)The simple language shift that helps teens stop identifying with negative labels like “I’m anxious” or “I’m a procrastinator”Why doing hard, uncomfortable things regularly is one of the fastest ways to build self-beliefHow friendships, media, and environment shape confidence, and how to help teens choose better inputsWant support for your teen?
If your teen is struggling with anxiety, self-doubt, low motivation, procrastination, or feeling stuck, 1:1 coaching can be one of the fastest ways to create real change. My coaching programs Ignite and Rise Up support teens and young adults (ages 12–24) with tools, accountability, and mentorship.
✅ Book a free discovery call to learn more and see if Rise Up or Ignite is a fit.
🌿 Learn more about Guided Passages: https://guided-passages.com
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Today I’m sharing some thoughts I’ve been sitting with as I look at what’s happening in the world, and in everyday life. I keep coming back to the same idea: we’re missing clear pathways into adulthood. This episode is about what initiation is, what changes when young people are actually guided through it, and why rites of passage is at the heart of what we do at Guided Passages.
Key takeaways:
New freedoms come with new responsibilities: adulthood isn’t a free-for-all—it’s a role with impact, power, and accountabilityInitiated vs. uninitiated adulthood: what maturity looks like in real life (regulation, repair, boundaries, integrity, contribution)Why rites of passage matter: without healthy thresholds, people often create their own—sometimes in risky or destructive waysA simple framework: severance → threshold → incorporation (and why being witnessed matters)Why nature + mentorship are essential teachers: the land as mirror, truth-teller, and reconnecting force—and mentors who “light the path”Guided Passages Summer 2026 Rites of Passage Trips
Middle School Trip (incoming 7th–incoming 9th): 5-day Marble Mountain Wilderness backpacking trek + 6-hour solo
High School Girls (ages 15–18): 7-day trek + 24-hour soloLearn More: Wilderness Trips - Guided Passages
Free Workshop: The Teen Confidence Breakthrough
Thursday, January 22 at 10:00am Pacific
How to help your teen or young adult move from anxiety and avoidance to confidence and action.
RSVP Here: https://youth.guided-passages.com/teen-confidence-breakthrough-live-workshop-january - Laat meer zien
